5 Ways to Make Friends When You're Socially Awkward
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- How do you meet new people and make new friends when you are socially awkward? 5 ways to win friends online or offline when you're socially awkward include starting with what feels familiar and comfortable, not letting your self-doubting inner voice control your life, being friendly and polite, allowing time to be your ally, and realizing that you do not have to be perfect in order to be accepted. Are you spending the night in watching this video, because you don’t have any plans? There's nothing wrong with that! The Psych2Go community is always here to keep you company :)
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Do you have any tips on making new friends? 😊
Be yourself! There's always someone new and unique like you to meet! 😁
I dont know... All my friends are only my friends because they approached me or because they knew my sister. My younger sister...
Say hi
Dont mention that you are obsessed with loads of groups of foreigners at first 🤪
Be kind
Is it just me or do yall also prefer being alone but then at the end of the day you wish you interacted and made friends
Yeah it’s like loneliness vs shame.
Shame if I go to that work night out and feel ashamed that I can’t fit in and have fun.
Loneliness if I stay home and imagine “what if”
Same
That's me
Samee
Same 😔
I'm afraid to talk with my classmates. I don't really have a topic to talk about with someone who I usally rarely talk to. Additional to that I'm afraid to leave an bad impression.
Same
Same
Eskami yes same
+Eskami, why are you saying that mate?
We all have something to say. You're devalorising yourself by saying that.
Just be yourself and if an occasion occurs talk about music, books, things you like to do in life. There's always a person in your entourage that will be glad to respond to you. Just don't be afraid of reject.
The fear of reject is the worst thing ever. But you'll see that if you arrive tu surpass it you will make great friends (sorry about my english btw).
Be brave mate ! :)
@@KhalVici thanks mate for your support. Ill do or try my best to make conversations with others, hope that nothing bad happens. Thank you :)
it’s hard to make friends cause everyone else already has close friends that they always hang around and it’s so hard to approach someone without looking like your trying hard to not be lonely
Maelyn Martz I know right
I FEEL U SO FUCKING MUCH
Exactly! I don’t want to interrupt by making conversation, and I feel like it’s a waste of time for them to make new friends because they already have plenty of them!
That’s exactly what it feels like joining a new school in the middle of the year
@@zhongli8783 happened to me during puberty so i got depressed
The fact that I searched up “how to make friends” really shows how lonely I am. And reading other people’s experiences reassures me that I’m not the only one who’s struggling. I regret not being social during my middle/highschool days so much. I’m quiet in class, stays at the school library during lunch just to listen to music, then straight home. That’s it. No matter how hard I try to communicate/ engage in a conversation, it always ends short. I don’t know what to say/ talk about and it makes the other person awkward. *sigh*
Ugh same
I haven't been to school since March 10th, i have no friends, I'm awkward and shy, and the longer I've stayed off of school the worse my anxiety got
Well, I dont have friends too, one thing you can do is using apps to find people who likes things you like, try your best to find someone who shares hobbies with you. I like Jojos and anime, so maybe someone I saw who likes anime too may be a potential friend, then is up to you to go talk with them.
I know it is hard at the beggining but with just one bet, you could win a best friend or even a couple, who knows!
I’m in the same boat not a single friend I’m 24 and have done this many times I’m clueless is to how to even go about making friends in general like I dream of finding my soul mate. I’m shy an introverted. I’m so glad I’m not alone in having to research making friends like how does one just go up to some random Persian say hi and talk to them in a way that they would want to connect again
@@sthefanochavarria4474 wow that’s awesome I need to look into apps or events
This is how I function, I can’t start up conversations with strangers but I can talk to them if they talk to me ;-;
i feel you, man.
But once i get comfortable i never shut up
Papa DeVito I’m the exact same
@Anulika Ogba Logbo I know 😔 so embarrassing
i always feel like i’m being interrogated by every person that talks to me. idk why. maybe my history of being interrogated by social workers and police 🤷♀️ fml.
I literally typed: “how to make friends” haha I’m so lonely
Same😭
Mee
Same😓
Same. We need a lonely people discord :] maybe.
lol same
I just sat alone and waited for an extrovert to adopt me.
Let's get more upvotes for this video so that someone can adopt you.
Awh I want to seriously adopt you although I don't want friends. I smh feel by your comment that you are trust-able one
Why is this literally me...but whenever they do adopt me they end up leaving me ;-;
@@Musiii2000 I want to adopt you too. And I'm loyal asf
mood
I'm literally crying while watching this.
Im sorry for that. I feel like crying too while watching this..it’s so sad for me and to everyone who had to search this up. Including you. How are things going for you?
Ik it makes me really sad to even have to search this up and I’m freaking out especially going to a new school
First day of school here and everyone has already made their friend groups and here I am.
i am sorry, but it’s the same for me , i had my first week of college but spent it crying and feeling really alone. i hope you the best, and pray for your life and situation to get better.
i had a whole mental breakdown like 2 days ago realizing that i only have 2 friends at my current school.
update: i made more friends though
I’m so awkward that even extroverts are awkward around me
Quenlin B relatable
Relate
relatable
SAME
Ikrrr its so awkward
I admire people who can just say hi to random people and start a conversation :')
ikr
All I can say to them is how
@@sleepsterrr OH NO I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY
@@bearof4000 your definitely not lmao
@@sleepsterrr Wait the only what
Saw the title and clicked right away
Same
Same
Woah!
16 minutes and already 60 likes?
Hope you find it helpfuL! And not disappointed!
Saw the thumbnail and clicked right away
The fact that I'm not the only one who searched "how to make friends" makes me feel a little bit better tbh.
Yeah A lot of us are in the same boat
Same
ikr
YES
Yep
The term "be yourself" doesn't really work anymore. The reason you don't have any friends is *because* you're yourself.
Yeah I agree with you. Telling someone to be there self is so useless and does not help at all
They say: Be yourself
Me: But I have allways been myself
They say: ... You need to change
Me: If I do, I'm not myself anymore
@@firstnamelastname6110 this is true and thats just sad
@@w00tti you need to develop, not change yourself. And yes, being yourself is the key. There are so many ways of being someone else, but only the one way of being yourself. And again, you have to fucking develop, man. What do you expect? Are you going to be good at math or snowboarding without practice? Ofcourse not. Go out and practice, learn from your mistakes and achievements.
But i dont like myself! I want to change but dont know how to become a better person
it's literally like a switch in my brain when i talk to people I don't know, I literally CANNOT SAY ANYTHING. and if I do, its really awkward
nicole you don’t know how much I relate too this it’s become a real problem in my life
My brain: "Whatever you do, these people will hate you if you do anything stupid. So just play along."
Me: "Oh, everything I do is stupid so I'll just stay in this corner for now."
nicole same
or I will start talking and then I can’t finish my story !! they should have like a social awkward class in college
yeah. i freeze up sometimes even if i know people. anxiety sucks
Whenever i talk to someone the conversation always ends fast and things started to get awkward
Subscribe me for no reason I know
Can relate so much 😅 try to make a joke and the room goes silent
Tom Greyhound Literally!😢 nobody ever gets my fricken jokes
Dude watch charisma on command's videos on how to continue small talk
whats your insta? im a good conversator if thats even a word
The saddest part is no one's even trying to be friends with you...
@@meooowww3672 wanna be friends ?
Wanna be friends?
@Light Yagami , OMG, sure
@Light Yagami , I would love to be your friend
@Light Yagami most welcome, I actually don't use any social media expect Zepeto and UA-cam.
My problem is that i never know what to talk about. It’s like my mind just goes blank
Same dude
😆😆😆
Ditto
Omg my exact problem
Yup
I can relate
My life is so sad that I had to search “how to make friends”
good vibes only!! Yesss lol r u in quarantine
good vibes only!! Omggg I have tiktok lol I don’t have snapchat or insta bcuz at one point I had these exams and tiktok kept on distracting me so if I had sc or ig it would be worse so I decided not to get them lol
Lol I could be yur freinds 😁 :3
I mean if it's okay :
Waki Shaki let's be friends what's your @ in tiktok
*i feel like no one around me shares the same interests as me*
*thats why i love the internet. I can find people that like the same artists, youtubers...etc*
Ikr @JIMIN OPRA
JIMIN OPPA do you like BTS
JIMIN OPPA AMEN!
I agree too but I have friends that doesn't have the same interest as me. Still if your very socially awkward like I am talk about something
JIMIN OPPA Same fellow ARMY
My classmates: *has a whole group of friend or a buddy*
Me: *talking to my stuffed animals at home*
Omg I see myself rn
23yo without friends and i can't even talk to strangers online xDD
Same
I just talk to myself 80% of the time
@@M4__1n finally someone of my type
I can start to talk to someone but after that me and that person never talk again
Lol, same!
Kills myself
Yep
Same here
Whenever I talk to someone my heart rate begins to skyrocket. I generally know how to talk and be funny but my heart gets in the way...
It's pretty depressing that we're watching this
Ik mate
@@onlyhuman5669 😶
@@Angela-jk6tz wut
@@onlyhuman5669 it's sad
@@Angela-jk6tz yep😔✊
I’m not super socially awkward but for some reason people just don’t like me. I don’t know what I do wrong or if I’m too quiet. Sometimes I feel like I’m too ugly 🤷🏻♀️ (update)
dude I forgot about this comment holy. Look at all of us introverts sharing our stories 😭🌸 IM STILL SUPER SOCIALLY AWKWARD THO. Turns out people who don’t like you should just f off and not even be a worry in your thoughts anyways! 😝🌸 stay socially awkward cause usually the best people are c: you guys are so nicee ,thank you!
Same
Same
Jade Dragon Same
I feel you. Same
I'm so socially awkward I can't even talk to my cousin
I'm not socially awkward, I'm just socially and mentally and culturally different than most/all people around me. Whenever I talk to new people, they either start to act the same way as me (which i find really cute) or they get annoyed and intimidated. I'm sick and tired of feeling like the third wheel in a friend group. I'm also sick of edgy jokes that only intend to annoy me with no sense of humor whatsaover. these are the types of friendships i have currently and the whole topic of friends get me confused as hell because I honestly don't know if you should enjoy the company of your friends or tolerate it. I find myself tolerating a lot of the time i spend with my friends, maybe thats how friendships work, maybe its not. i dont know yet.
everybody here complaining about their anxiety, but what about the support for people who cant even type in the comments because they're too anxious
That's literally me
I barely comment and when I do i feel like no one is going to see my comment so I end up deleting it
Love them
@@zazie8290 this is me im like who even cares if i comment like this is not ok
Holy *shakes* me right here.
@@zazie8290 same or deletes them
I'm just gonna sit quietly in the corner and wait for an extrovert to grab me and toss me into their group lol 😂
Lolz
Haha Relate
Exactly what happened to me.
*Some people* have tried that with me... it didn't work OTL
i though that would work out for me and guess who ended up with no friends :(
Parents: Just talk to them!
Me: A simple but unbreakable spell
ua-cam.com/video/rHmqby4MRdo/v-deo.html
facts
@@whitechihuahua4956 _f a c s_
@@hallucin827 same...
WHAT DO I S A Y
The fact I had to search up “how to make friends” makes me sad LMFAOO
Same 😩
Same
Ur not alone😂😞
We're here with you in that boat
Same☹
Are you spending the night in watching this video because you dont have any plans
I feel exposed
Wow you just read my mind
lmao same. I can relate to caroline kornstars depression song on a spiritual level
that kitten is so damn cuuuute
Same
k e e t e e lol
If you are researching "how to make friends" that is a good thing. If you wanted to be good at tennis you'd have to take lessons (unless you had a natural talent for it) so it is OK that you have to work at making friends. Most people do.
Most people in my experience seem to just be automatically likeable, I, on the other hand, must not be
This made me feel a lot better thanks I’ve always been shy introverted and clueless on how to go about making friends in general but dream of finding my soul mate a BFF. I also have felt weird or never really mentioned to anyone about having to research making friends or asking lol as I always felt it was came natural to others. It’s reassuring to know I’m not alone after reading comments
the cartoon easter eggs are everything
Ikr I'm living for them
i was just about to comment that at 0:23 that has to be pearl
@@nightcore-vh5bp Yeah, that's her alright. :-)
That’s what I thought
We... are the crystal gems!
All I want is just a friend, not a lover, not a foe. A friend :c ... It's sad to always feel alone.
yeah same :c
you also like anime and kpop omg we are friends now
@@unbelievablekc1421 hi!
oh goodness ;w; i didnt mean for this to sound so edgy aha-
@@lol-sg9yy it'll be alright
Me: time to make friends! Just talk to people!
Other people: *already have big friend groups and are talking to others*
Me: well I’m not gonna be interrupt the extroverts socializing so I guess I’ll stare at the wall and look like a loser
ifrnks literally that’s exactly me
SAME!
ifrnks i felt this
Same literally me
Yooooo😭
I literally typed in "how to make friends" Lol and this was perfect since I'm pretty shy!
Rose Hershman oh shit me too Lmao I typed the exact same thing but with me it’s I have friends but they don’t wanna make plans with me but I’ve made plans with them :/ so I just come to the conclusion they hang out with me because of pity
@@globnickak4796 Actually that is exactly my situation as well. I just figured they don't actually want to be my friend so I'm trying to make new ones instead lol
Rose Hershman smae
sameee
same tho
I wait too long and then everyone has a little group of friends and i dont know how to talk to them ☹
Same
Yes, this is exactly what happened to me. I feel like it's too late for me to approach anyone because they already always talk to someone else ☹️
Me too
BRO SAME
Pretzel The Salty SAME
I've been shy and socially awkward my whole life but I always had my beautiful outgoing silly younger sister to include and make me feel accepted. She made me feel like the most special person and our favorite thing to do was sing at karaoke on the weekends. She died 3 weeks ago and I know I'll never find another friend like her. I think I may be lonely for the rest of my life but I was so lucky I had such a wonderful sister and best friend as her. I'll miss her everyday for the rest of my life. I love you Erin fly high until we sing together again!
😢omg I'm so sorry for u😢
I'm Sorry for your loss
LMAO THE FACT THAT I SEARCHED THIS UP 💀💀
Were messed up bruh
💀
I literally look up how to make a friend loll
@@pringles3333 same :')
@@pringles3333 Same
I wish I could walk in a room and see someone perfect and automatically start talking and hit it right off the bat y'know?
Same I just want to find my soul mate
I wish the exact same thing
@@97AshleyRose A soulmate whom is also your best friend
Fr. I just want an out-going friend who can start a conversation out of thin air, and I can be there to help stretch it out ☹️
same :(
I am socially Awkward and an introvert so it’s extra hard
Edit : oh my thanks for 90 like lol
Same
Same 😫
I bet you re-read the comment a lot. I do it too
Evelyn James lol I do
Does being socially anxious, socially akward and an introvert make it extra extra hard?
Be careful who you call your friends, I’d rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies.
facts
Wait this is actually amazing-
Somebody gotta quote you
Too late I already have the 100 pennies :(
nice quote, gonna use it
I legit ran out of friends, they all left me, even my so called “best friend”... I just want someone to talk to and love 😭😭
Y they left you?
@@moonlite9544 I have no idea, guess they just got bored of me
@@star9752 all do the same..nd then cm back when need something..😂..
@@moonlite9544 Fr tho
@@star9752 fr tho.??..sry i didnt understood..
I see people all over social media hanging out with their friends and going out places, having sleepovers talking about their love life with each other...but my social anxiety and awkwardness makes it so hard to have close friends like that, all the people that have been my "friend" were not my friend, I swear. I just want to be normal and have normal relationships with people plus i'm insecure, I literally cry about this at least 3 times a week. I would take to be normal over 100,000 dollars anyway...I hate living like this
Off topic but I ✨stan✨ ur Lana condor Baner :3
I’m the same... I would do literally anything to be extroverted
This so relatable
Fr
@@aswomegamer4359 I was a complete introvert for years until I opened my eyes to that fact that most of the people I know are idiots. (That may not be true but that is how I used to see it as I considered all the people who make suggestions like “just talk to people” or “just be yourself” were idiots, I know differently now though). Basically, it made me not give a d*mn about what people thought. Also when I became a martial artist and later ended up beating an adult at age 14 in a street fight I suddenly realized that I am better (that was how I thought of it, it isn’t true but that mindset did help me) than everyone around me (once again, not true). That arrogance was actually good (arrogance is not a good trait, however it did help me in this situation) for me as my confidence and in turn my self-esteem soared. I then over time stopped that mindset and instead of seeing everyone below me I saw myself as equal to everyone else. This made making friends and having conversations so much easier. I then started slowly combining that mentality I now had with how I was before. It is much easier to become introverted when you are extroverted as opposed to vice-versa. So, instead of trying to boost myself a small degree and remain true to how I used to be. I (kinda) lied to myself and shot my confidence to the sky. You fake it till you make it. I then eased back into how I used to be with the newfound confidence and athleticism (I had started working out and joined many more sports at that point) and I feel great and like I’m my best self.
The people on the thumbnail:
Dipper (Gravity Falls)
Double D ( Ed, Edd n' Eddy)
Chloe (We bare Bears)
Starfan13 (Star vs. Forces of evil)
Pearl (Steven Universe)
I also found Star, Marco, Jackie and Janna at 00:57
Connie and Steven at 3:06
i love that they drew Marco with a ponytail :’)
hi i love cheesy macaronis -same-
I noticed them too!
@@maude. princess Marco?
Trash死んだ内部 Thanks for compiling them hah
I bet the person that animated this is cartoon trash x'3
"Talk more. Stop being so shy. Make friends. You're not making any effort." Ha ha, I'm making efforts mom, I'm just constantly scared of being judged and you're making it worse
You won't be judged trust me. I was scared like you and then I made friends by talking
wanna be friends?
@@rubysheridan6484 who
@@rubysheridan6484 Well...do you have Discord ?
@@z3lith Yep! It’s Spizzy#2386
Socially awkward, shy, quiet, and introverted. High school barely started off with a handful of friends. I wore a hood because it made me comfortable. However it blocked others from approaching me. So senior year I made it a goal to wear it less often. And now a lot more people approach me to ask for help or to talk about interests in class! I started to feel comfy outside of my hoodie too ^^
KANARI I’m surprised I did the same thing and never got approached and that was bth college and high school
You remind me of a series called "Introverted Boss" where the male protagonist was exactly like you were, only that he got a girl taking the hood off him
I'm happy to hear that! Keep moving forward :) 💕
KANARI At my high school we're banned from wearing hoods. Also I started out with one friend who turned out not to esteem me as much as I did her... or not, because I didn't approach her.
...It was a rocky start.
That’s exactly what I’m going through for the past 2 years no matter how hot or cold it was day or night 24/7 I had a hoodie on. Big hoodies for when I’m feeling extra introverted normal hoodies were just normal everyday and the small hoodies zip up hoodies if I had to go to a fancy event (I’m telling you vampires wouldn’t even know I had veins because the sides of my necks and arms were never out). Than like 2/3 into last school year I got one of those long kip up hoodies that are like a cape/trench/dress and it was my absolute best friend. This year I started taking my sweater off a bit more and I’m not feeling as self conscious about not having a sweater on and it’s a slow process but I’m getting there
I'm just extremely introverted and hate small talk. So when sitting alone watching these videos, I don't wish I was with people. In fact, I never think "I wish I was with someone right now." I don't feel lonely, except maybe for fleeting moments maybe once a year, but the feeling passes before the day is up. And while I would like a few close friends, the early stages of it, like just having conversations about stuff, is more repulsive to me than spiders. I can't explain why. I don't talk much, only when I feel like something needs to be said. So talking for the sake of talking has never made sense to me. So it's hard to make friends when you want the endgame(a few close companions you can trust) but hate everything it takes to get to that point.
Is it strange that I literally feel the same way? XD
Well you need to change before its too late
@@sementaitclub2199 oh hun i'm way too far in the shit hole XD
@@sementaitclub2199 how late is too late? Because yes I expect to change over the years, and I'm only twenty now, so I would assume time is on my side with this one. I guess it depends on what needs changing. People do change, but they also stay the same. I'm always going to be a quiet, reserved person, even if the years force me to be more open, I'll be relatively quiet. A side effect of my reserved nature is that I'm a great listener and mediator, and I'd like to keep that. I just need to practice speaking up when I know I should. I don't seek things out so much as roll with the punches, and that can be problematic at times. Oh great, you got me responding late at night when I'm more open.
@@gideonjones5712 i was like that un til i tried going out with a group of friends drinkign and having fun i regretted having wasted all my life locked inside my room now i get these feelings again hopefully i'll overcome goodluck
Im way too wierd to have a proper social life
Sams
U should look at step number 2 again my friend
Trust me, there are many people out there who are as weird if not weirder than you. I'm weird too, but I've found some equally weird friends.
I'm weird because my arms are too long and I'm tall and Im bad at everything trust me I'm really bad at everything
*weird
Other girls: Hanging with their friends.
Me: Awkwardly watching them like a potato.
Wanna be friends?
@@iffatparveen245 can we?
@@mitzyitzy6554 sure
@@iffatparveen245 but one question how old are you I'm 13
@@iffatparveen245 oh okay cool how are you
Instructions unclear, made 17 enemies
My life everyday
ParrotPlays oh god 😂 I’ll be your friend
William Shakespeare lol ok as long as you aren’t some creepy old man
William Shakespeare I’m just an awkward teen 😂
William Shakespeare We just read Shakespeare in my class so that’s a coincidence lol
I was extrovert and outgoing but have become socially awkward for some reason...💦
whats with the water droplets emoji lol
로미언니RomiUnnie same
That boy Who draws because she’s got that drip 💧
Same
Same
I’m a introvert, and I rarely talk at all at school. It’s really hard for me to make friends because I don’t know how to keep a conversation going. I normally wait for others to talk to me and ask me to be friends, but that’s not getting me anywhere. I need to work on my social skills or else this year is gonna suck. 😔
Someone asked me the same question and I accepted the offer but we don't talk, like at all. Lol
Same
Yea don’t know how to keep a conversation either I can make random remarks tho
Me neither.. I went into secondary school a while ago and it’s too late to make friends now... everyone has their own friend group and I’m scared my only friend is gonna leave me soon :(
This is so accurate 😔
Making friends can be easy, it's just finding one that'll stay is the hardest
Exactly... It hurts knowing that
Frrr like I hate starting the conversations if I don’t start then it’s a dead friendship and it hurts when they don’t text you and you just see them leave
Would you like to be friends? If so what’s your discord?
Bruh fr it be like that i had like 14 friends in middle school 6th grade, then 5 in 8th then that corana hit and all my friends never texted me or even said anything left me on read and just dipped. After all that shit 9th grade came with online school. I had 0 friends that entire year now im entering 10th grade with one old friend i was reconnecting with a few days ago.
I’m trying really hard to make a friend because I’m not really talkative and I’m not really one to start conversations; I’m just waiting for someone to initiate a conversation so that at least a real friendship can happen
@@klm9440 I hope you find a really nice friend bro :)
Me: I think I'm shy...
Mom: It's because of that damn phone!😡
Yeah, I know that a portion of it could be because of the phone, but I've always been shy even when I was little, before I had my phone.
Lol
Low-key facts. The more you spend time on your phone the less interactions.
@Turkan Hamza Okay, I fully understand now. I feel stupid because I have social anxiety. But it's not as worst as others but its still worst. It's hard for me to eat in front of others. If I do, I will start feeling very uncomfortable and feel like everyone is watching me. For instance, I will just start to shake uncontrollably. (But I'm getting better at it, finally.) But I cant even swallow my food still because I'm afraid they would hear me. But my relatives always blame my phone for me being this way. So, thank you for reassuring me. But also insolating yourself causes you to lack social skills. I learn that from experience.
I'm lucky that my anxiety is not to the point where I cant talk to people. But not eating in front of others also diarupts my social life because everything social is related to it. So, it'll still be hard for me. But not so worst.
Missy Pooh I’m on my phone playing video games which is interactions for me
My mom left us.
I have 3 friends but I don't feel the connection
Like I don't have fun with them
I have to act to fit in to try and enjoy but I am not enjoying
Edit:the thing is I'm one of those introverts and yeah u get it
Just like me
wow basically same
Yes why do I feel this way I HATE this, help me pls someone
Find new friends if you're still in that friend group
Can we all be friend
Crazy how you can know hundreds if not thousands of people online and still not know many people in real life.
My mom: i heard on the news that people who are on their phones alot start to become anti social
Me: I'm on my phone *BECAUSE* I'm anti social
I used to be on the phone a lot and now I'm super anti-social...dunno about the person I used to talk to anymore lol...I used to start the calls so it's actually mostly my fault she was anti-social at first
kon
Oh I love K-on! 😍
@pickle R Even I'm a introvert personally but not now I have friends
If you want to make a friend first approach them socialize with them keep a good bond never leave them.
Why they gotta make being a teenager so hype when it's suck ass.
exactly
For real my homie 😔🫂
Probably because being an adult is way worse, I bet
It gets way harder unless you made only the right decisions early on so looking back, it all feels so much simpler and better.
I think I have Social Anxiety Disorder.
When I'm talking to people, or even if someone is just nearby, I start feeling nervous that I'm gonna mess up and come off like an awkward idiot. If someone is walking towards me or something, I get nervous and try to avoid them. I don't get panic attacks or anything, and it's usually possible for me to kinda act like a functioning human when talking, so if I do have it, it's probably pretty mild and manageable. I'm just not sure what steps to take to get better at socializing and more comfortable talking to people. When I do socialize, I'm afraid to talk because I might say something stupid, but that still doesn't help my situation much, because then everybody just thinks I'm weird and tells me I'm too quiet and somber.
Edit: I have had one panic attack since writing this, and have gotten nervous to the point of throwing up several times. I've talked to my parents about it, and soon will talk to a doctor, too. Things are gonna get better from here on out, I encourage everyone to reach out for help and talk to someone if you're struggling with something like this.
Banana Split Lady same and sometimes I twitch awkwardly but people don’t realise it when I’m talking to them most of the time. It just puts me off when I twitch and it makes me feel even more awkward which is just annoying
i would like to be ur friend..i feel the same we can talk...u can WhatsApp me..my no. 0034602112299..
Guys have you tried to turn off your brain when talking to people. (By that I mean not thinking at all)
I tried and even if sometimes i look weird and stupid it helps me a lot
@@coolyyouuu8308 Yes I've tried with my group of friends but I've got nothing to say the majority of the time, and that makes me come off as a cunt but in reality, my mind just goes blank when I try to talk to people.
bruh my eyes start to water and i notice that i shake when talking to new people. it just all feels so overwhelming
I don't know whether to laugh or cry at the fact that I searched "How to easily make friends."
Why does life do this to me lmao
same i just want to be able to talk to people without getting awkward
@@ariannatoaipa2668 nice pfp
@@Angel-zc1by thank you 😺😺
@@ariannatoaipa2668 np
omfg how did you know I was going to a party today with people I’ve never even seen before
We're too awkward. :)
Me too asdg. Psych2Go did it again!
It literally took me 4 days to build up enough courage to compliment the hair of the girl I want to be friends with
I planned a conversation I wanted to have with someone (I wanted to be his friend) for nearly 2 weeks but I cant even talk to him now bc he's changed his seat :/
An update: I'm friends with her but don't really talk since shes not in my classes anymore. Instead though I became less awkward and can now speak to people a bit (except teachers and some kids lol) in pretty proud of myself but I'm still working on my confidence 😅😁
@@bluehumm hey thats great progress !!!
@@pinknicho thanks 😁
@@bluehumm np 😊
Here's my problem.
I'm an ambivert. One day I want to go skydiving with a group. The next day I just want to be alone and eat a box of bagel bites alone.
I don't know if I want friends or to be alone.
I can relate
@@brooklynm2756 it's a vicious cycle
Same.
I am so comfortable being alone that it annoy me in some days.
Bro relatable
Honestly whenever I make good friends they always end up forgetting or leaving me its just really stressful to make a new friend and also I'm always scared and thinking about the consequences because of my past experience it just makes my head ache
Fr it be like everyone just fake
Literally was such good friends with this girl and after 3 years she just left. Must’ve got bored I guess…
This.
fr fr
I don’t have any friends, and I don’t go out or stuff like that. I’m really lonely, I wish I had friends. I don’t have any friends in school, and I never had. I just wish I could meet people, but I never meet people.
Dude same do you have discord
Same
Same
hey we can be friends if you want ? >.
I'm here for ya!
Reasons why I cant make friends:
1. Home schooled
2. Literaly not interesting
3. Low self-esteem
4. Toxic past
5. Surrounded by awful people
6. Too vunerable to be on social media
Man everyone is interesting don’t say that to your self!
Finally! Someone I relate to!
But seriously, we need some serious help and social interactions. At the very least, maybe make do with each other. I have this same username on other Aminos if you wish to chat
RyZeD sadly, same
Same on everything!!
I wish i was homeschooled
Making friends is hard.When I try to talk to someone they just look at me and do an awkward fake laugh and leave
Radiant Palms Man that’s painful :( If they do that they don’t deserve to be your friend they r just mean it’s not you don’t worry.
They are probably awkward as well.
I waved at someone my age today, and they waved back; PROGRESS
omg thats so cute, I FEEL YOU
@@jinanis9cmtallerthanme547 This made it even better
Me smiled at my classmate
She smiled back:PROGRESS
OMGG I felt happy just by reading this comment!!
I smiled at a few people and they smiled back too!
It feels really great
Who else has no friends
lil tide pods me
Well I did but I had to move
Hi everyone here, I was really lonely for a long time, and now im kind of over it i realised just how depressed and sad i felt, i dont want that to happen to anyone else so just today i created a discord server called: friends around the world. My plan is to put a whole bunch of people looking for friends in this server so we can all be friends! So, if your feeling lonely, sad or depressed join here: discord.gg/aZWxMBm or search on discord: friends around the world. Making a discord account is super easy as well.
I dont have any close friends
Me
How did you guys know I needed this?
We don't! haha!
*I Literally Searched “How To Make Friends” Hahaha im really lonely + i don’t even have any friends even 1 friends :(*
Sorry to hear that... I hope you have at least one friend now
then why not be friends. well, like if you want to.
Can...we be friends(it's ok if you don't want too tho...)
Same i litterally have 0 friends
Krejzi Gamer sad
GUYS I JUST REALIZED SOMETHING.
dont let yourself be that one sour person whos always spoiling the party, but dont complrtely sensor out all negative feelings or hide all flaws. I used to avoid people I thought were so much better than me, or perfect, because it amde me feel bad.
you should also just study what makes a good friend to YOU and become them
I’m in a new school and everyone is already friends with everyone so I can’t make friends I’m currently crying in my room feeling really bad about myself listening to sad music😭😭
same
Riley Pie same ☹️
don't listen to sad music
Same. Well, I had a friend, But she found someone better than me.
Even worse she was also new and she clearly used me to be her friend so she won't look so lonely
Hi
Someone usually start s talking to me and I will just be there saying "yeah" "ok" not really saying fool sentences and then the person just leaves
Well i explain alot then people get away from me i mean🤨
Okay for everyone who does this and doesn’t know why ppl leave: I’m one of those with full sentences and emotion and I have a “friend” whose always on her phone and when something genuinely exciting happens to me (rare times bc I’m kinda abused at home:D) she only answered with “ok” and that makes me very sad bc it’s sooo emotionless and I just feel a lonley ass gap in me everytime. She’s tho only “friend” I have and she makes me wanna cry honestly. She likes to draw (and I do to) but since I’m better (bc I have drawn a longer time) she always asks me for advice and when I do give advice she starts to act all sad and call me mean (she can’t take anything without overwhelming, not even jokes) and she has this one online friend from Sweden who she always puts before me and I feel so left out and lonley- i cant explain it:( and i have à gofy extroverted personality and every time i try to make a joke shes like ”stop being so loud” bc shes this emotionless brick, i really want new friends But everyone in my school sucks (literally)! So Pls if you get a friend dont act like my ”friend”
@@rozie5560 the problem is like I don't know what to say my brain just go blank and I am like OK yeah
EXACTLY like I just dont know how to respond at all and it's so awkward
Im literally the only kid I know at school😂😂im so lonely
I know everyone by listening they just don’t know me
「 strxwberri_milk 」 same. I’m on the bench like basketball. Watching their every move.
Diamonds 123 same
broo, me too i used to have a bunch of friends in my old class but since i started my new school i picked the wrong subject and now im stuck with boring ass npcs. I know all of them so its not like ive not given them a chance. The entire class is "cool kids".
Loneliness is a weakness. You should stop that. It tends to make people act desperate.
The problem is that when I ask them if they can be friends with me idk what to say next like:
Me: "Hey! Can I be your friend?"
Them: "Sure!"
Me:"Ok"
(silent, awkwardly smiles and looks away because I don't know what to say next)
and then ur like ”what do i ask?” and their answers are so dry it makes me feel like im the only one here wanting to be friends
Lmaoo
Mom: be yourself
Me: Mom I've tried it don't work I miss my old friends
shayna Last year, I had an amazing friend group.
This year, we all went to different schools, because of 7th grade. I am now alone. Waiting for the next extrovert who needs an introverted sidekick
Oh this made me cry I miss my friends too but idk how they will react if I come back to the school that they are in and I think I miss the school more than them cuz I didn’t talk to them a lot
@@Scarptre sad :(
Same! I had so many kind people in my life and in high school, they have either become toxic, or go to another school. People think I’m a loner
I moved to a different school in 7th grade and I left all my old friends. Now im 9th grade and we still chat and play games with most of my friends though discord.
What about social anxiety?
Here are some tips on how to deal with it: ua-cam.com/video/dhYF3AqVhgU/v-deo.html
I beated it in 1 day, had to cry standed in the corner of the class with the head up and my strict teacher for being frikng late and everybody looking at me, but worth it :D
Freaky boy Haruto same
It's like living hell, walking around feeling like everyone automatically hates you and not being able to speak
Story of my life
Hmm yes
I take her home.
I drive all night, to keep her warm and time.
Is FROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOZEEENN.
Sorry
@@eliraeclipse2435 yes I know
Same lmfao
Lavender ᎪᏞᎬxᎪᏁᎠᏒᎪ 1D 🤣
I’m starting high school and I went in for orientation, and people were already starting to make friends. Everyone tells me to “talk to people” but I can’t. I’m shy, and I’m bad at making conversation. Basic small talk questions only make things more awkward but I don’t want to be alone the entire school year
same i’m going to an orientation for sophomores because in my country school was online during freshman year and i’m worried when i go everyone will already be talking to people and making friends
I’m in the same situation. Everyone at my high school fits into a group, but I can’t seem to find one I fit into, but I also don’t wanna be the weird loner kid with no friends. :/
Hi, current college freshman here! I had the exact same experience when I entered high school too. I was also extremely shy/quiet and struggled to make conversation (and still am tbh). But through time, I eventually made friends through my classes by just trying to start conversations with people who sat next to me or people in group assignments. Sure, it was extremely difficult and awkward at first, but some of those interactions actually led to friendships (surprisingly), some of which ended up being the closest relationships i ever had. I know right now, it might seem really difficult to make new friends, but even just saying “hi” can go long ways (fun fact: I met my first girlfriend by just saying hi to her everyday in class LOL). As someone who’s been thru what you’re going thru, I just want you to know that the loneliness doesn’t last forever! You don’t have to be extroverted or have ‘social’ personality traits to make friends, and I can attest to that! You just need to be willing to put yourself out there. Good luck to you!
Same :(
*10th Grade In a nutshell:*
Everyone: **is a jerk for no reason**
Me:
Teacher: **Tells me to be more social**
Me: *???* :D *???*
same
@Lala67
1. One key to help me speak more is a mix of not overthinking but thinking logically before I speak (So people don't mishear what I say and also having people not thinking I'm quiet)
2. If your classmates are smoking and recording each other without permission, then their future doesn't look so bright to me (Don't tell them that, just remember that in your head).
3. If they yell at you whenever you talk, they don't seem like good people to make friends with
4. What I do is talk whenever people aren't mindlessly waving their phones around so they don't catch anything I say on camera
5. If they record you, be sure to go to the principals office or something and report it (Also tell the administrators to not say your name)
I don't get why everyone in high school is a jerk like thats not fair to shy people
@@kenandkaddy I'm going to school in 5 days soo i know how the struggle is
Lol sameeee
I'm an ambivert, so when I'm in a happy mood I'm always trying to adopt the lonely introverts. Then we get close because I'm not too overwhelming when I get in an introvert mood. 🌼
Adopt me please I need someone right now :’)
God I’m so scared of everyone but I don’t even really have a personality so I don’t know how to make friends actually like me and I want to like me but even if I get past the anxiety nobody will like me and I want to find the right friends and hhdhhdnsjksksksk ahh I need help
@@saturniiiidae @ittybittyetherealchild is my instagram!!
heyy can u adopt me pls? idk i feel like i need more friends but idk how to talk to ppl irl aaa :
Me: Gets ready to ask a girl to be friends
Her other group of friends come
Me: why does this always happen?
the girl is nice but the group is annoying
@@cat-uv6dt lol
@@cat-uv6dt ikr
@@hallucin827 i relate to this smm, like i feel like im always the person in the grp who is the least important 😭
istg everyone in the “group” is all like “awwww you like her don’t youuu” like no stfu i’m just tryna make friends here
But in my school is so weird because everyone has their own group of friends and I'm like the odd one out. I don't really know how to engage with people. The one that I could engage with are not even in my class anymore since with this whole pandemic thing the school divided the groups and the half that im with is the more reserved one. The one that keep to themselves and are not interested is adding anyone else. 😕 Guess I'll have to talk to people outside my classroom which is even MORE scary.
When I’m talking to someone I am so awkward I just want to leave halfway in a conversation and yeet myself into a volcano
Same. Whenever someone comes up and tries to talk with me my voice gets really high and i get really quiet and my mind goes blank.
Ya me too
its sydney same, I generally don’t know what to say at all if I meet someone and make friends
We just gotta remember to breathe
How tf do you make friends with other people when those people are used to seeing you as shy and quiet and you don't want to come off as fake and then..how do you handle being really close with someone and you're silly but then they introduce you to someone else and then suddenly you're not silly or open at all ...thats so fking awkward
Hi I hope this helps!
So growing up I had this weird mentality that “people know me as the quiet and shy kid so it’d be weird if I suddenly spoke up”
like
that was a really weird mentality to have. There’s no such thing as a preconceived notion of your personality that you can’t ‘change’. If you wanna speak up, then speak up. Nobody’s forcing you not to. You’re not gonna come off as ‘fake’. If you’re funny and loud people will gravitate towards you. Isn’t that what you want to happen? Pretend you’re an actor in a movie and you HAVE to follow the script of an outgoing character.
@@yutassmilehealsme6572 When I do this, ppeople just look at me weirdly, they don't except me to be loud, and even wehn I am loud and outspoken, It won't be for a long time because its awkward so then I end up befriending someone that has only perceived me in an extrovert state and then I would be scared to be shy around them
@@aWERFRGT6545BGFG yes ofc they’re gonna look at you ‘weirdly’ bc they’re surprised. Why pay attention to others? Your personality isn’t ‘fixed’. If you want to be loud then be loud. Who. Cares.
If you want friends, be a friend. Get over whatever it is that’s scaring you. Just do it once. If you fail then so what? Everyone fails. Just try again. Hope this helps.
You're over thinking it way too much. No one cares at all. Instead of going into it intentionally trying to make friends, just start by treating everyone nicely and equally and getting to know everyone's names. They will come, I promise. If you sit next to a person in class you don't know, say hello and introduce yourself. Most people would really appreciate that and it shows that you're welcoming so they might be the one to initiate a conversation with you in the future. It starts with such a simple thing. Before you start to overthink, just do it. Say hello. And it's ok if you're a little bit awkward.
@@phinephrogs3812 I do this and then I end up not knowing what else to say afterwards. Hello, how are you , ask what they like and then thats all I can do..Idk what else to say. I tried to talk more once and people just got weirded out cuz I went on about something really excitedly, and another time I was telling a story and the person was just cringing. So I just kept screwing it up. And even if it goes well then how would I maintain the frienship because usually it ends up with their friends not liking me and I end up being excluded
I remember trying my best to make friends but it's super hard.
So I decided to spend my time playing games instead.
Wanna know what u r missing? Scroll through comments and read mine..i explained everything
@@christarlex3236 there are 2 thousand comments how do I find yours
csarcsar I respect you
same
Same
The quiet kid in my class finally made a friend yesterday,
with a Russian exchange student named Kalashnikov
Shooting buddy lol
Say Congrats to that kid😁
Wholesome comment
I CAME AS FAST AS I SEE THE TITLE
Insomniac Raven me too
Same here!
why did you come so fast? just curious
A girl in my class was like “making friends is easy! Like, itz the easiest thing!” And i was like: ....
Lol
I just feel like nothing in elementary everything was fine friends and everything but as me and my friends grew older they found new friends and I just became more distant and more distant to where I’m just that side dude that follows you or randomly joins your conversation because that dude has no one to talk to
I'm sorry this happened, but don't despair, I hope you find some good friends, and in the meantime, we could try to chat
Same
I have never related to a comment more
This comment literally describes my journey from elementary onwards
Samee thoo
No one will probably read this but,
I have social anxiety, but i'm also often a perfectionist.
I also sometimes can't read the room, which is a terrible thing for me and some others.
Making friends is really hard since i don't know what to say or do.
I usually stress about tons of things and overthink to much.
Because of that i don't have time to be calm and relaxed.
But whenever i have some extra free time, there's one thing that always made me calm.
I know this may sound weird, but i always brew some tea in my free time.
It helps me to keep calm and have some peace alone, even if it's only for a short timing,
i still find a way to brew tea.
If your reading this, don't be afraid to do something you love, find some time
to just relax and stay calm while enjoying your time alone, or with someone your close.
Just know that there are many other people here who is going through the same thing as you.
This is for you, or someone who's suffering from other things,
" It's okay to be yourself, it's okay to love yourself, it's okay to cry like your dying,
if your mad just let it all out, if you don't want to do it then don't.
I know it's hard but it takes time to change. Make sure that your health is okay.
What's important is yourself. "
Right now, i'm anxious if what i'm saying will help other's,
............
I hope it does... It's my first time expressing this much about me and
my feelings, anyways, how was your day today? i hope it was okay!
Thanks for taking your time to read this!
i hope you are okay and i can relate :(
Glad you are finally expressing yourself hope your life will always be better, God loves you, i still here having a lot of anxiety and don't even what is actually happening to me
Wanna be friends ? I lost someone yesterday. 😢
@@iffatparveen245 I hope your okay
U r comment is very nice
When you're socially awkward and also has a high pride. Naah... gonna live alone.
Yeah, that makes it so much harder to take risks and deal with the embarrassments.
@@Psych2go yas. Plus I am an introvert too so it's a total package. My ego is telling me to be alone forever.
@@kristiners same I always prefer to be alone rather than being used by a fake friend.
If your depression is caused by the absence of friends, do the following:
- BECOME BETTER THAN ANYONE AROUND YOU AT SOMETHING (ANYTHING) -- PEOPLE ARE DRAWNED TOWARD THOSE WHO THEY THING ARE MORE TALENTED OR CAPABLE OF DOING SOMETHING.
- BECOME BETTER AT LEAST AT ONE
SUBJECT IN YOUR CLASS
- HAVE AN UNUSUAL HOBBY or any hobby. If you don't have any interests in life, what are you going to talk about with a new person?
- YOU HAVE TO PRESENT YOURSELF AS AN INTERESTING PERSON - SOMEONE WHO CAN BE LEARNED SOMETHING FROM.
- START DRESSING FASSIONABLY OR
UNUSUALLY (MAKING YOUR OWN
PIECES OF CLOTHES) -- CREATIVENESS
IS ALWAYS AN ADMIRABLE TRAIT
BUT:
DON'T BE IN A HURRY TO LET JUST ANYONE INTO YOUR LIFE -- SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO USE OTHERS AND THEN DUMP THEM. LOOK CLOSER TO A PERSON WHO WILL WANT TO BECOME YOUR FRIEND TO AVOID BEING HURT.
Would you respond If I have a question?
You see buddy heres the thing I CANT IMPROVE… i have so much time spent practicing yet it does nothing, im shit at all my hobbies that i have spent years & 1000s of hours doing, i still suck. While people who do nothing are better. I have such a huge hatred towards anyone whos better than me & people who are naturally good at things I absolutely despise them so much that it brings me joy when bad things happen to them. I refuse to be friends with anyone thats better than me i must be the best. I wont join a sports team if im not the best player on it (that excludes a team of shitters)
Me: trying to make friends and get over my awkwardness.
Person: vanishes the next day while you had a bond..
Bitch wtf
Those who are ashamed of searching up “how to make friends” and came here, don’t be. We’re all struggling and most of us are here for the same reasons. Let’s not talk about the bad stuff and actually try this videos tips out on the real world
Good luck lads!
0:52 dang.. is that how I look in the hallways
wait.. which one?
exe
Brielle Hedgepeth that’s how I do😂
Same
@@sarickoon5973 same
I just realized how depressing it is that I looked this up
Same
I am that lonely , i literally searched this up . I have only my parents and my diary to talk too. My parents make a great company and i can write down my thoughts and feelings in my diary , but still i long for a friend.
Hi 😊 I moved a country and I have just my moms and siblings as friends, it’s ok everything will be fine
@@rose.romily4885 same
Really struggling to make friends
I just don't know what to say after they ask for my name
It's ok be my friend..
@@Lucy-wj3om sure
Oof. At least you have people who you can talk to..
I legit rather do my work alone than work with some kid in my class. Which is what I do. Good outcome: I get my work done.
Bad outcome: I’m not talking and look like I’m not able to talk.
Ikr and what if you make it awkward with your classmates which will affect your work
@@hallucin827 sameee one time my teacher decided to be my partner for something because i had no one else and she felt bad for me ;-;
But sometimes teachers make it obligatory to work in groups so I have to join a group of people who don’t really want to work with me and they just laugh with their friends about stuff and play around while I watch.
Nah I want to work with other kids and I want the teacher to pick partners becuase I don’t want to do the work and second I want to make friends and talk to other people