Is "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater" True?
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- Steve Harvey says men can grow up and change.
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Once someone betrays you, it changes the way you see that person...
Yup
You loss respect for that man or woman, you can't never trust him or her ever again.
Yeah, but it’s wrong if you see him or her later in your life with another person and say that they’ll cheat because you don’t know if they changed, I mean I wouldn’t get back with someone who cheated on ya but I wouldn’t try to change their relationship later in life.
@@billybob4532 That does not change the fact that you no longer see him/her in the same way. You can avoid them if you see them again, or you can just be civil and detached if you have to say something to them.
and yourself
A man won’t change for anybody unless HE wants to! 💯
That is a FUNDAMENTAL truth not many understand.
It has nothing to do with " if he loves the woman or not ".
LOVE will compel him to change! ONLY LOVE.
still the best, DERRICK_SPY on instagram , i really appreciate the work you did for me, i now have access to my husband phone, and i know his location and who is calling him. thank you very much for doing this for me
@@serahkate1025 ah let's tap your phone now
It’s heartbreaking to believe
a man dont change because u tell him to,he only change because he loves you.
and if a man loves you, he would never cheat on you to begin with...
A man changes for himself and only himself. Once he values and respects himself than he can do that for someone he truly loves, respects and honors. Anything else is a pipe dream.
Jessica Letsu.. Bullsh*t. You're a blatant liar. If a person's been smoking for 30 years, do you think they can just wake up one day and say "you know what? I don't feel like smoking today or ever?" It doesn't work that way. If you've been cheating a lot before you got married, nothing can stop you from cheating in you're marriage. A ring won't get rid of someone's habit. Sooner or later you're going to cheat on your husband if you already haven't.
Wrong!! A man never changes. No one ever changes. They will pretend to change in the beginning and in time it is back to their ususal self.
Nikki Powell if he loved you he wouldn't do it to begin with
Cheating is cheating don't matter the gender... if you end up cheating on your partner sooner or later it'll go back to you that simple
Or you will be so afraid of repeating such a mistake that you will never think avout it.
I got cheated on...and what was I doing wrong ...getting my degree
ryan tabb it's ok the extra weight will only slow you down anyway.
ryan tabb you were preparing yourself for higher grounds.. your best life and a true man.
Sometimes we need to rid ourselves of negative to welcome positive. God bless girl❤️
Girl me too. I found out on a friday and i swear i was in the courthouse filing on that monday!!
Maybe should put out more then wouldnt cheat
No relationship is the same after someone cheats and you will never trust them again
J Anderson Yep and they live in doubt for the rest of their LIFE!!!
Even if they never cheat again?
@@TheREALSimagination Yep. They cheated once and that betrayal stays with you even if you give them a second chance.
@@TheREALSimagination There has never been room to cheat no matters what like if you wanna cheat break up, don't be sneaky o
@@TheREALSimagination Trust is hard to gain and easy to lose...
I don't think every man cheats. But I'm never suprised when one does. Expect the best, but be prepared for the worst.
Hope for the best. Expectations kill you everytime😔
Good motto.
still the best, DERRICK_SPY on instagram , i really appreciate the work you did for me, i now have access to my husband phone, and i know his location and who is calling him. thank you very much for doing this for me
Yeah I’d say the other way around lol…expect the worst, but hope for the best
Gals cheat too...
And it's easier, lolll
Additionally, if you aren't married, it's not technically cheating...
I don't know if "Once a cheater always a cheater" is true, but then again, I don't stick around to find out. Once you cheat on me, you're out. There is no second chance, third chance, fourth chance.
Right!
FR FR
What you allow is what continues. You allow him to cheat on you once, he’ll cheat again, and again.
Girlfromdownunder not true ik i was a person who previously cheated and now been in a completely faithful relationship fir 10 yrs
Mike is it because you know she wont allow you to cheat lol
Mike Pizzo happy to hear 😊 I believe in redemption and that people can change when they want to change.
So do I my husband was a cheater and now it's been almost 7 years without another incident . A combination between me stepping up and no longer allowing him to treat me that way , he himself working out that he didn't want to lose us (myself and our children one of watch I was pregnant with at the time ) .It wasn't easy I mean I wanted to beat him many times and lost all respect for him and it took years for him to earn back both my love and respect .But it is possible if both are willing to work for it .
Eh no. I cheated on my girl. Nasty argument too. (Not violent lol) but we talked and I realized what I was about to lose and I do want her in my life so I stepped up and manned up. It’s as Steve says. Sometimes it takes that moment for us to get our ish together. And we don’t have problems now. She doesn’t keep me in some jailhouse relationship where she’s gotta check my phone all the time. Shoo I have a female bestfriend. Had this girl my bestfriend for 6 years and my girl knows her and they’re friends they gossip. I’m not popular but I know a lot of people and a lot of females and she doesn’t get jealous on it cause she knows I’m a friendly guy. And she knows to me being friendly isn’t flirting. It’s how i was raised to be friendly and kind and. It cold shoulder people. She knows I love meeting knee people and if they’re girls I’ll meet em befriend em but the moment they disrespect with some hidden agenda than I cut off. I always give a female a chance until she disrespects and that’s where I’m at now and my girl I told her the same thing for her. I don’t check her phone she has male friends. And she can befriend em as long as they don’t disrespect.
Cheating can never be justified.
No matter how or why it happened .
Cheating is disgusting.
But the worst part is the one who suffers the after effects is the one who didnt deserve it in the first place.
I don’t know how people can say that cheating can never be justified?
Even cheating isn’t black or white and there’s always a deeper reason than "he/she is a horrible person". Would you be mad if someone who had been suffering and stuck in an extremely physical and mental abusive relationship for years, would choose to seek love elsewhere? Or what about if you were forced into an arranged marriage with no way out. Cheating is bad and it is unfortunate that some feels as tho its the only way out, but its not in every case that its done with malicious intent. It can simply be to escape your current situation, as we are all human and everyone seeks and craves love and validation. And no, I have never cheated myself as thats what everyone assume if you choose to be open minded.
@@liseedvardsen4573cheating in an abusive or arranged relationship is even more dangerous for the victim than leaving
Leaving is still the better option in all cases
@@liseedvardsen4573 lCheatring still isn't an excuse in that situatio--actually sure I'll give a pass for arranged marriages because that's coercive slavery, essentially.
I. Hate. Cheaters.
I've never cheated. Never will.
You can tell the future? Sick.
Never say never
I cheated on mah math test. Does that count?
@@thebullet437 😂😂😂
@@SocramZue exactly. I've heard so many people say that and then end up cheating.
Everyone deals with infidelity? Ok. Here’s how I dealt with it: my ex husband cheated, and I left.
A cheating man dose not respect himself, if he cannot respect himself how do you expect him to respect you
Men want to spread their seed is all.
What lol.
Tf is this comment
So true. He can't give you what he himself doesn't have.
Why do you think he doesn’t respect himself? It’s actually the other way around. Cheaters think very high of themselves and go into cognitive dissonance mode. Does have nothing to do with self respect.
Btw, more % of females cheat than % of men. Don’t be bias.
Hate this idea that a person will change for the RIGHT one. That's putting none of the responsibility on the cheater. Truth of the matter is, their character is shoddy and that's something only they can change, not another person.
Yup and whatever emotional wounds they have aren't going to be healed magically
I wasnt a cheater or a woman beater but I wasnt a good person let's just say that, my profession at the time didnt allow me to be, she made me not want to be that person, yes I had to make the changes but she made me want to change, of he wont try to change for you then you will never have him
There are no excuses for cheating whatsoever, theres no such thing as a “slip-up” in a relationship because why were you in that position to possibly “slip-up” in the first place? You cant ever cheat if you’re never in a position/situation to cheat. (Example: Going to the bar and hooking up with someone for the night....STILL CHEATING, why were you at the bar without your significant other in the first place?)
Yes‼️‼️‼️‼️
Thank You!!!!
Agreed no one cheats "accidentually". If you do it you definitely had the motivation in the first place.
Anthony Fortson Exactly, there ain’t no damn thing such as a “slip-up”. Like if someone with a partner decides to cheat with someone at the bar and go all the way back to their apartment, there’s SOO many opportunities in that sequence for them to think “This is wrong”, but they keep going through with it. That one “slip-up” is basically them telling you how much you mean to them in one event; and that’s 0.
It takes quite a bit of time and thought to get to the point of being naked with someone and getting it on. By the time you're to that point you have been given plenty of chances to say 'I cant do this I have a significant other'.
If your going to cheat,just break up with the person. Don't be a selfish greedy cowardly piece of ish. 😌
Completelly agree. If my gf were to come to me and tell she has feelings for someone else i would feel bad ofc but i would really appreciate the fact that she took the hard path of honesty and didn't betray me (assuming that she dumped me before doing anything with the guy ofc). Unlike actions feelings are impossible to be controlled therefore i can't blame her for having said feelings no matter how hurt my ego would be.
still the best, DERRICK_SPY on instagram , i really appreciate the work you did for me, i now have access to my husband phone, and i know his location and who is calling him. thank you very much for doing this for me
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@@kylesavage4525 👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼
As a man I completely agree. It's not right to put anyone thru that pain. I have been cheated on in two relationships and not once cheated on any partner.
Once a cheater ALWAYS a CHEATER! If my husband were to ever cheat, hes be out the damned door with NO SECOND CHANCE!!! For myself, I will NOT lower my standards to except him cheating and take him back. THAT is unforgiveable for me! My children deserve better than that too! my integrity means more to me...👍
Ghost Wolf 👏👏👏
Agreed 100^
Ghost Wolf I’m pretty sure your husband has cheated on women before you... so is it once a cheater always a cheater still?
What Not To Do At a Stoplight it doesn't matter. Cheat in any way=done.
Ghost Wolf that's not true at all. I cheated and never did it again
Saying cheating is part of life makes it more acceptable and easier to get away with cheating. Saying that is the equivalent of telling your man/woman "yeah, what you did was wrong, but please don't do it again, pleeeeaaase".
Nah man, life's too short to spend with a cheater. This ain't stealing a pen from someone, this is infidelity, and the only option is to get rid of the human waste a.k.a your ex-to-be
And that is the biggest crock of bull I have ever heard in my 40 years of living cheating is not a part of life it is a f*****-up choice that people make nobody puts a gun to your head and make you do that it's a choice that you make a reckless one that will cost you your relationship
All my exes cheated on me,
Yet- I never cheated back- in the end my loyalty buried them 6ft deep, now I’m single & got big ambitions to open my own business
I was waiting for Steve to own up to his cheating and possible reformation. Too real I guess.
Flaw'd he already own it up
Were you listening to what he said at all? Or just looking for words you wanted to hear? 🙄
He did...say it ...a man changes for only one women....he was talking for himself...
Ok...but why punish his 1 st wife...by keeping the child
dee dee keeping? Erm is he supposed to ab0rt it?? That’s murd*r u siicko
Me too!
Every man is not a cheater and every man that has cheated will not always remain a cheater. You simply have to figure out what you are willing to deal with...moving forward or ending things.
Indeed.
True
Steve Harvey is always spot on. I lost the love of my life because I cheated and it’s not like she left me when she found out it was several years later because she had no trust no faith and no respect in me. She stayed because she loved me but when she realized she didn’t feel appreciated, loved, respected she left and took everything with her. I lost her, my home, and our cat over this. Needless to say it changed me completely. I shattered to pieces, was a complete wreck. I found god, confessed to friends and family, became a good person. I am proud that I am no longer the man who took his love for granted and I know, given another chance at love, I will appreciate every single second. I changed because of her leaving but I changed for me. My mind, my heart, and my soul are completely new and I’m grateful for the pain because without it I wouldn’t be the man I am today.
Sad, I’m in the same boat. Staying cause I love him but I’ll never forgive and I resent him more and more each year. Cheating is poison to a woman. Never cheat on a woman, “god hath no fury like a woman scorned” sadly. I wish it wasn’t this way, but all actions have consequences. Good luck to you and her
Very glad you changed. Many people don't
same here but i was the one cheated on , im staying because i love him and he’s changing but everyday i just lose something
@@Demetriana let your respect for yourself be greater than any feelings of attachment. He doesn’t deserve your love, you do.
@@TheLatinaWitchBruja you don’t deserve that. No man is worth your peace
"There is only one woman we will change for" in this context implies that it is okay to cheat until you finally meet a woman that makes you fall in love enough to not cheat on her... That's pathetic and undeserved love and luckily in most cases kharma. This woman you will change for will most likely cheat on you then. Omg i love life :)
Honestly kudos to couples that decided to give it a go after cheating. I haven't been cheated on but my ex lied to me about so many things it really destroyed me as a person and turned me into a bitter, angry and depressed woman.
He likely cheated too. You were the emotional victim. You weren't wrong.
I’m sorry it affected you so badly. But many people who try to stay together suffer too, just silently. Picking up the broken pieces just gets you cut
Once he cheats on you he will cheat on YOU again. He will not cheat on the one but on you he will do it again he'll just get better at it
I think if you are cheated on, the most important deciding factor of whether you want to get back or not should be how YOU feel about it. Can you forgive him? Are you willing to contribute to building back up the trust? How much will you be able to trust him after that? Can you get past this and make peace with yourself and your partner? Is working through this painful experience which will be psychologically and emotionally draining for possibly the rest of your relationship worth it to YOU? Or has your trust been broken so badly that you believe you cannot salvage the relationship to a point where YOU will feel comfortable? In that case, it's better to move on.... You just gotta be completely honest with yourself. All that other stuff about whether it's a repeat or not, whether it meant something or not, whether he was drunk or not, why did he do it, was he unhappy etc. None of that matters bc in the end of the day it all comes down to the same thing... he betrayed your trust. Period. Your relationship will never feel as good to you as it was before he betrayed you. You will never feel as safe. Even if he doesn't do it again, you will always wonder....No explanation will ever be enough. It will hurt like hell. Are the remains of that damage worth holding on to and trying to salvage?
Same for a women. Men don’t heal like the ladies do . They done with it all . I’ve seen it many times . They trash all women after that
Thank you for this❤
Keri hilson is stunning
My cousin (who constantly cheated on his wife) pulled me aside at a family reunion and said " I ran the streets but what I was looking for was at home all the time " He realized the good woman he had and didn't want to lose, and stopped cheating. Men CAN change.Once a cheater always a cheater is not true.
hope she find someone much better
He's not worthy of her even if he stopped cheating.
Those red pumps and fishnet socks on the blond is everything!!!!
Everything that looks ridiculous. Would you date her or look at her in a bar and think "look at that Ho."
I'm confused as to why anyone thinks that looks good
Luvya Nunya
Different strokes for different folks. To each their own
prettyfa3000 its cute fr
She pulls it off really well because she has SUCH a wholesome face. Not everyone could pull off that look.
Yes, a man can change. I knew someone who did admitted to cheating on this wife, he made the effort on changing for himself, for his wife, three years later they reconcile, and now they're happily in love all over again. #TrueStory
True
I believe you.
I firmly believe the way you get them is the way they leave. But I also know first hand that not everyone is honest about that. My ex was still involved with a women who he told me was a crazy ex. Over three years more and more of the truth came out and when I left him I called his “crazy ex” and apologized because I knew what he had told me about her 3 years earlier wasn’t true. Her and I had a great conversation and she was a great support for me during a very hard time in my life. My ex was a narcissist. And sometimes you don’t see the truth until you’ve lived the hell. And I don’t think that all men can change. Some just like being cheating jerks. My ex will be 57 this year. He’s just like his dad, with a rotating door of ex “crazy” girlfriends. The only one who is crazy is him and how he treats women.
The "crazy ex" is a huuugge red flag . Happened to me and other girls I know.
88GmG I had never dealt with anyone with a “crazy ex” until I met this man. I know it is a red flag now, I wish I had known earlier so I could have saved myself the heartache.
Same but now we know. This man was abusive to me but now I can spot abusive/liar/addicted men from miles away. I always said to my friends that a man talking about his exes is a red flag, especially if it's in a negative form like a "crazy ex".
One of my friend, her boyfriend was cheating on her with that so called "crazy ex" !!
M H Woww 😳, as I’m readin your comment, I’m thinking “this sounds like my ex” and what’s crazy about it , some men will make it seem like “oh yea that’s not my ex , that’s my friend and he/she knows about Us” but in my own experience, every time there was a phone call , the conversation would feel coded Nd on top of that they communicated frequently and he always said “I talked to so and so today” day after day , which almost felt like every day , I never went through his phone to read conversations because I felt I knew what was up already, it was just to much sneakiness goin on and I was not here for it 👎🏾👎🏾
M H as
People do change, so it all comes down to the individual person.
When I was a young man I used sex as a means to numb my pain from my past, so I cheated on every woman I had a relationship with. Overtime I realized how my actions were effecting people in my life and how everything else was taking a back seat to pursuing a numb state, so I decided to change. I sought out counseling, the lord and looked at how my behavior was hurting others and took responsibility for my mistakes. I successfully stoped being a player and became a man.
A man should value a woman. Sex should be reserved for someone you love and that you are committed to. I would never cheat again because I have changed the person I was and became a new version of myself. Once you view your partners beauty based on what's inside, their character and the love you have for each other, physical temptation from another woman would simply be something that you wouldn't even give a second thought to because you know the woman waiting at home has everything you want and need. No other woman could even compare to the way she makes you feel.
Unfortunately some people never change and continue their destruction. It has to come from within, not from someone telling you have too.
Wow you must be the rarest exception ever. But congratulations on finding that inner peace and thank you so much for writing this. I understand cheating a bit more now and now know with certainty that i can have a without cheating
Respect. You changed for yourself first and not for someone you would've lost. ❤
Lol wonder who actually believes this. You know good and well that if someone younger, richer, more attractive, and shared many of your hobbies approached you that you'd abandon your current relationship in a heartbeat.
@@petelee2477 Its only selfish people who think like what you wrote and only use people as a means to fulfill whatever need they have currently. If you could leave someone in a heartbeat for someone better than you never cared or valued the person anyways and you will always live your life chasing something better. you see people as what they can add to your plate until someone else can add more. A sad way to live.
Literally same. I feel like it takes time and true reflection to recognize WHY one cheats. It's never a surface-level reason. It's always deeper than that and you have to explore it. Only then can you change
They are all famous? I must be under a rock. I have no idea who they are lol
Yes me too
Yup. Though people will debate that with "Just because YOU haven't heard of them doesn't mean no-one else has". I share your opinion though.
3:14 boy clapping hard af
LOL!
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He's very very very happy🤦🏾♂️ 🤪🤣😂😂
He was like "My boy Stevie will NOT be catching sexual assault allegations"
Ben •Rhone 😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😂
Set your standards yes! 💝💝💝
It’s very true! My partner and I met at the absolute worst time in both of our lives.. Ironically we bonded as friends over the fact that neither of us believed we wanted another relationship again! Needless to say, two very passionate people in denial made for a roller coaster of mistakes.
He was still casually sleeping with his ex from about 10 years ago, which I knew of, but then when we got more serious, they both began to lie about it.. Cut to a few months later and he was given a major reality check when he was thrown in jail because of a charge he had about 4 years prior! The moment I heard his voice on the phone, I knew everything was different..
He now has a full time job with overtime, he is saving for a home for us, we have pets, we go to family events, he is honestly a new man!
And best of all, because of all that we went through in the beginning, I know in my heart that without a doubt, he changed his whole life in order to be enough for me and the family we hope to start someday.
Set your standards ladies. Men do not want a woman who is just like all the others. The right one will step up to be with you! Regardless of the unlucky hand he has been dealt in life.
And although I feel I am still healing from certain things, I know I have his full support on both the good days and bad. I also know he is more transparent with me than I think he would have been had this not have happened at the beginning.
Every cloud has a silver lining!
Similar story and I am living my dream life with my forever love... we chose each other to change for...
Glad to hear a story of cheating working out in the end.
This is heart warming. I’m currently experiencing this. Although I have forgive him, I am still hurting.
I don’t t believe once a cheater always a cheater HOWEVER I do believe that immature men cheat!
Immature women as well
Agree
I actually appreciated this forum. I wish more went like this. No arguing, no talking over each other, just a great conversations from different perspectives coming to a common ground even though they don't necessarily agree on everything, good stuff
@TheGerMonkey I have something to share here with u all. I need to know if a man cheats on his wife with a younger girl will he be loyal to his current gf?
You should see how he reflects on his wrong doings. Take a break from the relationship and see how much he has change just for your relationship. Ask reason why he cheated. Then asked again, does he really not gonna repeat the mistakes. Also, what if he has that urge, would you able to stop him?
3:10 | HARVEY WEINSTEIN, HARVEY WEINSTEIN😂 Lord Jesus I can't Steve
Mia Zeppelin 🤣🤣🤣
All of us are not perfect. I agree with Steve 'You can make mistakes, grow from it and learn from it.' Men can really change for one woman when they really love them.
If you love them you don't cheat. Duh. Cheating doesn't happen by accident
A True Love Official Agreed 💯
agreed, cheating is a choice, not a mistake
Johnny Cash.
You change for the person you CANNOT live without. My boyfriend and I are living proof of this.
Ms. Unique Chellann I'm glad you're in love, I wish you two an amazing life together.
Mia Zeppelin thank you love.
Erin Rockefeller Aldrin it's ok you'll find him/her... It'll hit you when you least expect it...
Ex-hubby #1 and #2 filed for divorce from me when I started inquiring about having my own business, reestablishing my credit and get my Master's degree in Legal Studies...ex-hub #2 filed after he found out that I could've made a quarter of a million from my catering business alone...succeed on your own terms, a real man will love you and want you to succeed without taking away from you. No more men for me.
victoria Lozi I'm so sorry that those boys couldn't handle your dreams. But there are MEN out there that can not only handle your dreams but help build towards it. I hope you decided to start your business and that you're blessed and prosperous in everything you do.
I’ll be honest I cheated once in my life and I felt extremely guilty 3 relationship later I’ve never cheated on someone but karma did came for me
How did you deal with it brother? I'm going through the same, it's getting worse..
what was your karma?
I agree with Steve here. Ppl change. But that person has to make the decision to change.
If a man cheats on me once it just won't feel right after that.
But keri is slaying
Because she's being loud, animated and aggressive?
Even if someone cheats only once that relationship will be forever tainted.
Love this Steve. Didn't want it to end. Can you bring these ladies back? Or reassemble, but just like this? Soooo engaging.
Latina speaking All Facts . No man cheating on a woman he wants to be with PERIODT if you are the 1 for him there would not be a 2 .
I dont know if a cheater is always a cheater because i never give a cheater a second chance. When a man shows what he is, believe him.
My husband cheated on me, I saw the signs and I knew something was up. Checked his phone bam proof. The texts talking about it. It took him 6 months to stop taking to her, our kids suffered, I was doing nothing but praying. He almost ended his life over it. I forgave him. So far so good going on 1 year without the cheating. I said if he does it again I’m leaving.
I’m so sorry to hear that, you are such a strong woman to still be going on. Just wondering if he did it again? Wishing you both and the kids well.
wow what a strong woman instead blame him for cheating you still hope him to be new man and you prayed him to change that's great rather than blaming him and accusing that he's always a cheater
YES!! I never cheated on the Man I loved... And never will. Cheaters never stop Cheating!
They don't realize how incredibly stupid they are. The one they cheat the most is themselves.
It depends on how the guy reflects after he cheated. If he’s saying “oh I did it because she didn’t satisfy me enough” and not being sorry and is finding excuses, then obviously he’s going to do it again. If he’s like “wrong is wrong and I have no excuse for what I did” and he is actively trying to change on that then I’d give him another chance. Everyone makes mistakes but not everyone learn from them.
I need Keri's hair!!
please don't.
I like it! I like big hair. That is all...
Kay You still HERS hahahahah
No its to much hair for her head
You can find it in the 70s
People can change. But they rarely do.
My ex boyfriend cheated on me (sexually) with a girl after 4 days of talking to her. He even went into explicit detail like we both had no feelings. I truly feel that cheating is something that’s more mental than anything els and theirs underlying issues that the cheaters have.
Being faithful is not only a staple in a relationship but a common understanding in how love should work. You love someone. Simple. Love only that person that way.
Being cheated on is the most disgraceful thing somebody can do to their partner. Unforgivable, unacceptable. I have been cheated on by every woman I have been with. They all say the same thing, "you care more about your job than me". My job is the reason we have all these nice things and pay all the bills while they can buy whatever they want with their own money. I will not let another woman in my life ever again.
If they all say the same things maybe you have the issues.
You can make mistakes and learn from them and not do them again i agree. But that is only true when it comes to mistakes u did not know were mistakes like baking something on a higher temperature than u should, sunbathing without sunscreen thinking u won't get a sunburn or drinking that fourth drink thinking u will not end up throwing up. Cheating, betraying, lying and hurting your bf's/gf's/spouse's feelings thinking it's not a mistake is inconceivable to me.
Kyle Savage Comment of the century !! It’s bad choices
THIS
Keri seemed really embarrassed when she spilled her drink. Poor thing.
It happens
I can relate.
Every man "can" change BUT doesn't mean they will. Most men don't change thus wondering why they single & miserable.
I really liked that panel the variety and beauty and opinions.
men grow up and men change...lol how many times did steve cheat...
Did he not grow up and change?
if your girl does relationships like jobs? and looks for one while she still has one..
...be very aware you aren't her last interview, she sees you as a stepping stone, and there is somewhere around zero percent chance that your affection will be reciprocated on anything but a guilt-based level. She probably only likes you for your stuff.
I can agree that people can change but if you are cheated on do not stay with the person because they might change. They didn’t respect you when they cheated and they probably still don’t respect you after.
Once a cheater always a cheater isn’t true.
You can always give a second and last chance, always move on and change and do better.
I cheated on my girlfriend and only now I realise I was wrong, I learned from it. I lost her and now I live with regret and pain, I’d give up anything to get her again and be faithful.
It hits hard to lose someone that was so meaningful to me..
That guy at 3:15 is clapping like a maniac
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I was thinking the same thing too then I saw this comment
A man according to this woman will give up everything if he loves a woman if he's really into her but half of the panel Won't Give Up their ex-boyfriend do the math to that
Steve had a brilliant response to the drink spill. Well done
*2:57** Water Spills on her*
“Are you okay?”😂
Didn't Steve cheat on his previous wives?
NYCzora hell yea!
NYCzora
If so, I don’t think he has ever referenced himself in the topics at hand, he always deviates by speaking in general as if it is something he heard verse something he did
Well..to be fair he also pointed out that a man is capable of change, and he did turned his life around, let’s not just gloss over it ^^
Dude is a hypocrite that dumped his wife to marry his mistress lol.
RR Revere
So he upgraded?
Cheaters r curse in ur life ...they teaches u about life that it's not fair ....and if ur r gentleman than it's worse thing happening to deal with
He has to lose something for him to understand that he needs to grow up. We can only wish him the best and hopefully his new girlfriend will meet this full grown man
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I thought dating advisers say that that is the big mistake women make all the time...thinking they are the woman the man is gonna change for. If he cheats, be gone! End of story. If he wants to change after that - good for him and the next lady in his life. If not, you're not the one suffering from his behavior!
The real question is this: do men forgive female cheaters? The answer is NO. So why do so many women take back men who cheat on them? Have standards IMO.
Finally someone said, because both society and men tell us that is ok for men to cheat because he can sleep with women without feeling.
Cheating in not a mistake, it is a choice. Wrong choice. Not everyone deserves second chance. People don't change they're only making right decision if given a chance.
Exactly, never lower your standard
1:57 That is some controlling behaviour right there. I get giving up certain aspects of your life for your significant other but I will never give up my family for any woman. Also cheating is not a mistake, it's a choice. You can forgive but you'll never forget. If someone cheats on you and you take them back, don't play victim when they do it again.
I hate cheaters!Once a cheater always a cheater so true!
My ex cheated, caught him in the act and everything. He said it was just the once (still don’t believe that bull but guess I’ll never know for sure) but the damage was done. My trust in him was shattered and never came back. And whether it was once, twice, or a hundred times, I will only ever think of him as a cheater. It was a while ago but it still makes me sick to my stomach, and it took a hell of a long time to trust others again. And I just wish so much there weren’t people in the world who so easily hurt people they claim to love.
My ex was with my friends. Dated them after our divorce. That's a deal breaker. Not only about of course the divorce but about the friends..because everyone knew about it but me
Until I saw them together
Your change should not be predicated on a woman. It should come from within so you can be the best version of yourself for the right one that comes along.
Steve should know !
Absolutely. Because it has been statistically proven that once someone starts cheating, that person is then twice as likely to cheat again. And those odds double EVERY. TIME. THEY. DO. SO. And I have ZERO TOLERANCE for cheating. There is no excuse for it. PERIOD.
Even Mr Steve can’t say it publicly that he has never cheated before.
It takes 3 years or more to know if you really love someone...If you still confused there should be no reason to stay in the relationship...!
In today’s society you almost have to expect your partner to cheat. Social media makes relationships 100x harder. Too much temptation and access.
Zack W. Temptation? Lol jus remember, chiicks have low s*x drives
@@user-nq6um4bs5y who LIED to you?
I agree to a certain extent. For example, a man in his 30's that is married and has been for 5 years but married his high school sweetheart and still cheating on her is not going to change. Some people never grow out of that. It's just apart of their character and who they are as an individual. I am only 24 and has knowledge on this topic.
We need to do more shows about women who cheat it always feels like we’re always the victim
I have always dealt with one woman at time. I respect my health and body too much to deal with cheating. As a man I have to set the standard for how a man should act.
I hate the “drunk” situations
Adi Da Gamer Yes it’s used as an excuse so often.
If anyone gets cheated on there is only one simple explanation no matter how many excuses the cheater gives . They DO NOT LOVE YOU ANYMORE .
If men have to “change”, I don’t want them.
Couldn't agree more!!
Oh my god THIS. but from my understanding. Thats what it is. Men grow up BECAUSE of their desire for a woman.
"I went to brush the water off and I thought Harvey Weinstein" I'm dead 😂😂😂
Steve has great advice, he's telling it as it is.
Cheating isn't always our only sex.... It's all the ways they can't show up for you when they are spending their intention on another
My girlfriend cheated on me twice in 2 weeks we had been together for 2 Months and messaged me begging to get back together for months and i never replied wonder if i am right
CRZYx THOMAS lol u must have a small ...... u can’t satisfy her
@K I So all these women in the video have waste pvssy. Damn they fine too. That don’t surprise me though. Most bombshells i been with had 0/10 meat pocket.
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@@user-nq6um4bs5y that's insensitive, build people up,,,cheating is serious
Cheating is not actually a leaving problem. The problem is when you allow it it keeps going on and on. And all you will always get is a tearful apology sometime before it all happens again. So those of us who leave do so because we can't deal with that.
These woman have self respect. I approve
YES!! It's a character flaw and cheaters justify their actions no matter what. Not all men cheat but those that do....always do and they are very WEAK men. Walk away or you'll have a lifetime of heartache.
Those stockings and red heels Yaaas
No Cardi, not everyone struggles with infidelity.