@@nellykh1900Yes, exes should stay in the past. You should never mention them again in your current relationship at all, unless it was necessary to a bare minimum.
Gave him too much room to play with her mind. He can tell you're vulnerable. But he was kind enough not to take advantage of you, but play a few games. Let this go. There is a lot he is hiding.
Not sure if y’all caught this. In the text he said it wasn’t a relationship (the reason he stood her up the first time). It was someone he was “talking” to. But when he on the stage sitting beside her, he said it was because of the “relationship”. That man was taken and is probably still emotionally unavailable. I wonder if the other woman is his child’s mother, which makes even more sense.
I mean you can't expect everyone you meet to not be talking to anybody when you meet them. He was honest about talking to somebody else and said he'd break it off......but then he didn't
@@R0404 True. I met a guy a few years ago and he was chatting to someone but still wanted to see me to "get to know" me. I stopped communicating with him as he was not available at the time. He made contact with me again after a veryyy long time. You are so right, most people are in relationships or even married when we meet them for the first time.
Disappointed in Steve? Is he responsible for her? I am disappointed in her. Is she a puppet on a string? I think not. And a man being public about his feelings for you isn't always all that glitters.
Confusion means NO. Ladies...you really gotta stop being this cute, sweet, and adorable...you have to treat them how they treat you. DON'T LET NOBODY PLAY IN YOUR FACE....Period. Also, he's a little dusty.
I hear you but in his defense that age from 27-30 can be a big transition for men because there leaving that whole running around life and trying to figure out what being a stable man in a relationship means..not all men, that's if they haven't learned to settle down yet..
Yes. Dusty vibes. No decent man ever forgets his wallet. You dubble and tripple check if your image and the woman you're taking out are worthy to you. No excuses here.
@@Nia62899 How did you get an excuse out of that?🤔 An excuse would have been "oh maybe he stood her up because blah blah blah".. what I offer was an explanation to why men around those ages are having a difficult time making up there minds because in this society people tell you to have fun in your twenties when in reality you only confuse yourself by dating so much, that when it's time to make a good decision with a good woman it can be hard because you spent so much time playing games that you can't see a good thing when it's in your face..It's clear to see that this is what's happening with him because he is approaching his 30s and wants to be a better man, well I can see it cause I'm a man..an excuse is different from an explanation to a madness..
He hadn’t paid for not one date, Steve flew him out and if we’re being honest I think he came for Steve and the cameras but definitely not for her. What can this man show you there with Steve that he hadn’t shown you when you travelled across the country to see him?
What he’s done was wrong, but to suggest he’s at the show for a free trip and meal is beyond ridiculous. Remember they met in Vegas that means he can afford a trip and meal without help from Steave Harvey. People did bad things but there’s no reason to lower someone standard
@annecelestin8534 , yes, they met in Vegas, but you don't know if he paid for that trip. Maybe he "borrowed money" from the other woman he was playing around with. We don't know. Maybe the groom paid for his dudes. Some people have money to fly their bridesmaids, or groomsmen. But what we do know is, he claimed to have left his wallet at home. "No honest grown man would do this." Only men who lie and play games plan a date, get all dressed up, but "conveniently" forgets his wallet. I don't put it passed him that he wanted a free trip to the Steve Harvey show. Why not? This gives him an opportunity to be on TV, look good, and try to charm everyone.
@@angiebutler227 it seems you didn’t listen when people are talking because Steve said he is the one who tracked him down after he learned of the story. The way you are talking seems you know a lot about this man 🧍♂️ life other than what you saw on the show. That’s the world 🌎 of social media
@lindsaybartels6251She can’t fly in and out of town dictating his schedule and that he takes her out. She needs to calm down her masculine, aggressive energy. When he is ready, they can plan TOGETHER or he will come to her. Her feeling enamored but talking stern is confusing.
He could not pay for it or he could not have the charges show up on the notification, because the "other" relationship would have found out. Not sure at the moment it was even his card.
Yep too many option to pay now a days. Zelle, cash app, wallet, pay pal, Venmo Also he said talking to and now it was a relationship. I have questions about this child of him. Age of the child and if there is coparenting issues.
I have learned closure is overrated. She wants consistency.... he has been.... his actions are speaking louder than his words. They haven't even dated.
I stopped @ 2:48 to say that this man of drivel makes my skin crawl. He is WAY TOO MESSY from the start. She's bright and beautiful. Keep moving, sweetie. Love will find you.
I agree he's really messy. She found something in him though and didn't want to let go. But her body language when he came out was sort of negative. I don't think this worked out for her.
He is a father. Girl….run like hell🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️. He probably has baby mama drama. You will be the third wheel. Don’t settle!! You’re beautiful and a HANDSOME man without drama is out there.
I hope she reads your comment, I didn't watch entire episode. She's beautiful, does she have kids, why did he travel to show? Meet Mr Harvey, free "DM" advertisement. Aedin
Nah, I can't date a man who responds to me with "I didn't know it was that serious." You're not going to invalidate my feelings, especially after you show up with no wallet of all things. He's not a kind person.
It doesn't have anything to standards. She is attracted to him and that is why SHE cant let him go. He gives her that tingle, so she will find a good man but will always sneak away to find John.
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME." There is NO way a woman should be "chasing" or "begging" a man for love & attention. "When people show you who they are the FIRST TIME; believe them." (Dr. Maya Angelou) There are too many fish in the sea to be casting your net in the same spot ladies. It is very immature of him to "stand her up" TWICE if it wasn't an emergency. It shows signs of immaturity. In time, GOD will send the person who is right for you in your life.
Yes, and didn't Steve say don't let a man tell you twice he don't want you? Steve just helped to set her up to be told tols 3 times. He's grown, and he's standing her up and saying he left his wallet? Heck, no, he still will not do her right!!!!! Sorry, she's going to be disappointed again. A man knows if he wants you or not,and when he does, he b goes out of his way from the beginning to show you. you.
But clearly she doesn’t yet see that deserves better because she’s clearly still infatuated by him regardless of his poor behaviour before they even start dating.
I'm not a woman - but in her shoes, I would want some questions answered before trying again. Steve is talking about him showing her who he is... he did that already and stood her up twice. All of a sudden he is just going to change and become someone else? I wouldn't be buying into that right away.
This dude rubs me the wrong way. He seems mad immature for the vibe she's putting out there. The only grown man that leaves his wallet anywhere is one who knows having it won't make a difference.
@@mtgfa12 cause she is in denial about what her options are.she really thinks a 27 yr old is going to take her serious she might not be even able to have kids definitely wont in a few years. shouldnt be just hooking up with dudes probably why she isnt married already not dating with intention besides having fun.
@@i.can.sew.anythingchic3295Sorry but if I were a man, I would never jump through any hoops for a woman. If they make you do that, they are not worth it.
Guy asked me out for dinner. As soon as check came he started an argument, jumped up from table saying "goodbye! I am leaving. You can pìck up the check." Ran for the door. He was hindered from escaping by his friend. He had to pay the check. Scoundrel!
@@LucilleSlaughter-r3j That's a hot mess!!! I'm glad that his friend stopped him. More than likely, you weren't the first victim. But life has a way of turning things around.
Run, girl, run, no 90 days, believe him the first time he tells you who he is. He is not what you need. Watch and see. Now that he has gone public with it he will be on his best behavior, when he thinks you are "hooked" his true self will start to show. It is easy to be "good" for a short time, not in the long run. Run, girl, run. Trust your own instinct, don't listen to anyone and I mean anyone, no matter how famous or how much peer pressure is on you. Have someone you trust 100% be accountable to on a daily/hourly basis for the next 90 days and listen to the voice and not the feelings. The feeling will leave, the excitement will leave, and the true personality will come through in time. Run, girl, run.
@@colew680 So does that karma also apply to women who always have a backup dude on standby, or monkey branch from one relationship before ending the other?
@@Wanderer25 yes it’s called narcissism. Just like the dude in the video. He wanted her as back up supply while he was still in relationship with his girlfriend. He had no intentions of telling her truth; however his actions were clear when he stood her up on multiple occasions. Any man or woman who can’t be alone after break up and don’t ; take their time to heal before pursuing another relationship are insecure and narcissistic. They rather have multiple supplies to fall back on rather than being alone. People like this always end up alone in the end.
He's in love with someone else, who doesn't love him. That's why he's wishy-washy. All he did was accept an all-expense paid trip to the show, which paid for his flight and hotel. I would not have accepted another date with him because all he's going to do, is try to get her to his "free" hotel room. She asked if he would bring his wallet instead of asking if he was still dating someone else. She should move on. If he's really in love with her, they'll come back together because he won't let her go so easily. He's infatuated with her because she's beautiful. His heart is either broken or somewhere else.
He's a player. Didn't hand her the money he OWED her with interest. I had a Bruce Kelley like this - 24 years of his playing, lying, lying about divorce, lying about travel - still owes me thousands of dollars for paying for his daughter's school loans...he said he would pay it when on full retirement - that happened several years ago. SHE should RUN.
He’s in love with his baby moms… he even said he had issues with his quote on quote “family” concerning his kid. He still considers his baby mom family. That goes to show he’s invested and will never take a female serious
This poor lady is setting herself up for a long time of heartbreak. Hanging on hoping he'll finally be what she wants him to be while he's just a smooth-talking immature boy-man who uses his good looks to get what he wants from naive women.
I see her body language she’s still deeply infatuated by him. Ladies never like a man more than he likes you. Act stoic until he shows and proves himself to you and keep his promises. Me personally after the 2nd times he blew me off I’ll block him everywhere for zero chance to talk to him or hear the bull he got to say. I would have moved on already! But she’s young, she’ll learn with age and maturity.
Interesting video content. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
as if she is not a young lady.. she is also not that mature.. they go both well togheter. stop acting as if she is a god.. she is a bit dressed up .. come back to reality
I really hate that line 'i've never felt this way about anyone before'. Such a stupid line and guys use it a lot. You had a child with a woman and didn't feel that way about her? How irresponsible must you be?
It doesn't matter what is going on with him - he chose not to communicate and he is actually hiding some very important stuff like his temper issues. He said he's also a father as if that somehow justifies his reasons to be angry.
The disrespect, inconsistency, being attached to another woman still and then the fast paced proclamation of love were enough reason for closure. Her blocking him should’ve been closure, his poor communication skills were another, his poor emotional control (him being angry about his baby mama and taking it out on her) was another. She’s had all the reasons why she should’ve walk away from this but I guess sometimes we as women want to learn the harsh way before we strength our boundaries.
@@Wonderer888 It's so sad our family structure has taken such a hit the lack of fathers, mentors within the community it hurts on so many levels. Women are willing to lower their standards to have any connection or they've decided it's normal to go through so much garbage to get to some type of relationship this is crazy... I was watching and listening in disbelief obviously both people are broken from whatever and we already know where that will go before it begins...just SAD 😭
@@Wonderer888 She's already letting him know he can do anything and she'll be right there, how can he ever grow up or respect her in any relationship... It's time to heal time to evolve we're not out here keeping the same broken narratives generation to generation I pray that people wake up or stay single and find a purpose to help elevate our children and assist our elders.
She doesn’t need closure her ego just got bruised women need to learn how to stop being so emotionally attached to every damn man they meet. Grow some damn skin she looks desperate af
THIS is gaslighting! His texts. He also seems like a major manipulator who "likes" her well enough to keep her hanging on while he juggles her on the side with his other women. Smart lady! I love how she handled the situation.
I swear does Steve somehow only find the same old scenarios on his dating segment that just seems to pander to women 🤔😏😂 Steve’s always been pandering to women on his show for ages 😂😂😂
He was IMMEDIATELY sad when Steve said, "you're only mission is to let you show you who he is....and in 90 days..." That smile left as quickly as it arrived.
Wow she is absolutely beautiful ❤💐❤️💐 wow just absolutely beautiful and I'm sorry but who The H leaves a wallet at home Seriously. That's a red flag right there . My dad always tells me to never leave your wallet at home 🏡 always carry with at all times she definitely deserves someone better than this idiot 🤦
I blame Steve for even allowing this. Flying him out and comping a night out on the town doesn’t mean he’s stepping up, he’s just an opportunist. It’s better to be very unforgiving with men who have made no effort, no investment and show no integrity. Where are they now? Nowhere I bet. 😙
Wooo! this lady is amazing, when she texted "I don't have time for these kind of game and i would appreciate it if you get to the point and stop wasting my time" I blacked out, litterally !
I can guess the update. He tried to get her to his free hotel room, paid for by the Steve Harvey Show, and nothing more. He's not serious. He's in love with someone else who doesn't love him back.
what if you were at a co-workers funeral and you end up talking to a guy at the funeral that you liked. You later find out that the funeral was for the sister, of the guy you found interest in. Should he man up and be trying to give all his time to you?
@dnasty981 ha. Not in this day in age. It's been awhile since I've seen someone properly introduce someone. Most people just remain obscure these days.
She’s the type who believes in fairytale relationships and for that she will get played if she doesn’t work on that, because she really doesn’t see this man clearly. Should’ve moved on the first time - he’s not going to change. People rarely do without having worked on themselves. For me he’s giving off major narcissistic vibes.
She’s getting there but slowly. The fact that she had already blocked him shows she’s learning to walk away despite her feelings. Maybe she needs this wasted time to tighten her boundaries after this hopefully she won’t let another time waster play in her face.
ANYONE KNOW HOW IT WORKED OUT? My guess is he pretended to be everything she wanted while on Steve's dime on this date but it went back to being shady after the show.
Rejection is Gods protection! Run!!!!
Preach on Preacher!
Truth! God's protection! ✨
Yes my aunt always say this!!
I gots to use this one👌🏿
@@DaniD-zy2rl I used to have a hard time with this but when I realized my worth its nothing for me to walk away.
If a man stood you up TWICE, why would you care beyond that?? Be for real. Some women are too desperate for a man’s attention. 🙄
oh shut up, women do this to good men everyday. Give him a damn chance.
thats why u single and hes going on a date with someone shes actually attracted to
Kuz three times a charm
Don’t let a man tell you he doesn’t want you, twice !! 😭
That is true, is very hard for women to understand real men only real men understand real men. The lady has pass the test. She is a wife material
This the ONE !!!!!!!
Women do it all the time. This is what they refer to as "The chase".
🎯🎯🎯🎯
She's too thirsty
No, No, Nope!!! Too many RED FLAGS… 🙅🏽♀️
Exactly to many
Sounds married to me
show me the actual red flags
RIGHT. That she is ignoring on purpose. Laugh now cry later.🤷🏽
@@joel9909🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
I wouldn’t trust a man who just broke up with another lady , he is just not ready!
It’s called rebounding!!
I was in such relationship and he was just comparing with his ex and l had no choice but to end it.
@nellykh
That’s because you have self respect. Something this young lady clearly lacks.
@@nellykh1900Yes, exes should stay in the past. You should never mention them again in your current relationship at all, unless it was necessary to a bare minimum.
I broke up with a 2 year relationship and found my wife 3 months later.. married 14 years..
As a man, I can say this with all honesty & integrity....Girl run for the hills!!!
For real!! He has a lot of growing up to do.
100% for sure... as a guy as well. Seem like a manipulating person with Narc tendencies.
😂😂😂 I don't know why these beautiful ladies give these guys the time of day
The guys are even reading him to filth! When guys break bro code you know he’s a sleaze.
@fionay2014😂😂😂😂😅
Forget the closure...dude said and done enough.
Ladies stop looking for CLOSURE! Not investing is closure!
Yeah, like closure from what? It's done!
This!
"Not investing is closure!". Well said!
I don’t get it, did they date? Or just go on dates. Whyyy is she looking for closure if it was just some dates.
Take your L and move on...
Gave him too much room to play with her mind. He can tell you're vulnerable. But he was kind enough not to take advantage of you, but play a few games. Let this go. There is a lot he is hiding.
Not take advantage! That’s the part she left out…he made her go “unhh” which is why she gave him a third chance lol!
Well expressed, that latitude or wiggle room to play with the mind is no joke, once done. NO JOKE.
You don't need "closure" after one week. 😂
Not sure if y’all caught this. In the text he said it wasn’t a relationship (the reason he stood her up the first time). It was someone he was “talking” to. But when he on the stage sitting beside her, he said it was because of the “relationship”. That man was taken and is probably still emotionally unavailable. I wonder if the other woman is his child’s mother, which makes even more sense.
"emotionally unavailable" ... or is it that he isn't a available to get manipulated emotionally...😉
Baby momma drama 100 percent
@@thyristo He's the only one who has been manipulative thus far.
All that weak man had to do is explain himself however that’s not how cowards roll!!
@@thyristo U mean you’re alone and even Sally and her 4 sisters wish they weren’t attached to you from birth 😂😂😂😂
He told her up front he's messing with another chick, that should have been the end of it, next!
Yeah! Next!
im convinced that a lot of situations women get themselves into is because they don't leave soon enough...
I mean you can't expect everyone you meet to not be talking to anybody when you meet them. He was honest about talking to somebody else and said he'd break it off......but then he didn't
@@poisonivy6477 also because don't listen.
@@R0404 True. I met a guy a few years ago and he was chatting to someone but still wanted to see me to "get to know" me. I stopped communicating with him as he was not available at the time. He made contact with me again after a veryyy long time. You are so right, most people are in relationships or even married when we meet them for the first time.
I'm disappointed in Steve. Why would he want her to be with a guy like this?
Producers told him to do it, lol... basically, building up a fairy tale story for the viewers. It's TV!
Right this is crazy
He’s setting her up to get hurt
Disappointed in Steve? Is he responsible for her? I am disappointed in her. Is she a puppet on a string? I think not. And a man being public about his feelings for you isn't always all that glitters.
She is an adult, it's her choice as to whether she dates this man
This young lady can do so,so, so, so much better! Please permanently shut down this foolishness. Nothing to be confused about.
She’s too pretty for all this, RUN GIRL
...meh....
She's average at best!
@@bstech9358and he’s below average.
@@bstech9358I think she is ok. But it should be more than looks.
@@rogersanchez9635 Keep that "for a black girl" off this video. It's racist, inaccurate, and disrespectful.
This is LEGENDARY _breadcrumbing_ on his part.
Confusion means NO.
Ladies...you really gotta stop being this cute, sweet, and adorable...you have to treat them how they treat you. DON'T LET NOBODY PLAY IN YOUR FACE....Period.
Also, he's a little dusty.
I hear you but in his defense that age from 27-30 can be a big transition for men because there leaving that whole running around life and trying to figure out what being a stable man in a relationship means..not all men, that's if they haven't learned to settle down yet..
@@luggerphilippe8409stop giving excuses
Yes. Dusty vibes. No decent man ever forgets his wallet. You dubble and tripple check if your image and the woman you're taking out are worthy to you. No excuses here.
@@Nia62899 How did you get an excuse out of that?🤔 An excuse would have been "oh maybe he stood her up because blah blah blah".. what I offer was an explanation to why men around those ages are having a difficult time making up there minds because in this society people tell you to have fun in your twenties when in reality you only confuse yourself by dating so much, that when it's time to make a good decision with a good woman it can be hard because you spent so much time playing games that you can't see a good thing when it's in your face..It's clear to see that this is what's happening with him because he is approaching his 30s and wants to be a better man, well I can see it cause I'm a man..an excuse is different from an explanation to a madness..
@@Nia62899 ua-cam.com/video/N0Ht8QkdNpU/v-deo.htmlsi=U14TIplbbHHL15P9
My granny said, "Put your track shoes on and RUN from that "boi" like Sha'carri Richardson with a quickness!!!"
RUN GIRL RUN, he’s not even paying for this 3rd “date” Steve is!🙄
Damn skippy! And he didn’t fly himself out either 😂
Run girl
He hadn’t paid for not one date, Steve flew him out and if we’re being honest I think he came for Steve and the cameras but definitely not for her. What can this man show you there with Steve that he hadn’t shown you when you travelled across the country to see him?
He should have given her money back. He is a joker
😂😂😂
"He's just not into you."
Cause he got someone else
At all
Period….the end…💯
When a person shows you who they are believed them
Please believe them because you can’t change them!!!
The scars...the scars 😅😅😅
Pleeeeaaasseeeee believe them!
Learned that long ago!!
THISSSSAAAA!
If you having problems by date 2. RUN!
I’m interested how this turned out cause I really think he was just at the show for a free trip and meal tbh.
What he’s done was wrong, but to suggest he’s at the show for a free trip and meal is beyond ridiculous. Remember they met in Vegas that means he can afford a trip and meal without help from Steave Harvey. People did bad things but there’s no reason to lower someone standard
@annecelestin8534 , yes, they met in Vegas, but you don't know if he paid for that trip. Maybe he "borrowed money" from the other woman he was playing around with. We don't know. Maybe the groom paid for his dudes. Some people have money to fly their bridesmaids, or groomsmen. But what we do know is, he claimed to have left his wallet at home. "No honest grown man would do this." Only men who lie and play games plan a date, get all dressed up, but "conveniently" forgets his wallet. I don't put it passed him that he wanted a free trip to the Steve Harvey show. Why not? This gives him an opportunity to be on TV, look good, and try to charm everyone.
@@angiebutler227 thank you!
@@angiebutler227 it seems you didn’t listen when people are talking because Steve said he is the one who tracked him down after he learned of the story. The way you are talking seems you know a lot about this man 🧍♂️ life other than what you saw on the show. That’s the world 🌎 of social media
Probably to spite the other girl.
Letting a 27 year old drag you all because he’s tall is crazy.
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
That’s what most if not all ladies like 😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao oh didnt see it that way
But he's tall AND fine? 🤣
It's hard out here for brown-skinned women! She's fit, cute, no kids, appears educated and THIS is what's around. *smh*
“I left my wallet at home” Uuhh How is this still an excuse? I never bring a wallet. You can pay with your phone
Exactly! I said the same thing. I have Apple wallet.
true but not everyone has it. I don't have it.
@lindsaybartels6251She can’t fly in and out of town dictating his schedule and that he takes her out. She needs to calm down her masculine, aggressive energy. When he is ready, they can plan TOGETHER or he will come to her. Her feeling enamored but talking stern is confusing.
He could not pay for it or he could not have the charges show up on the notification, because the "other" relationship would have found out. Not sure at the moment it was even his card.
Yep too many option to pay now a days. Zelle, cash app, wallet, pay pal, Venmo
Also he said talking to and now it was a relationship. I have questions about this child of him. Age of the child and if there is coparenting issues.
I have learned closure is overrated. She wants consistency.... he has been.... his actions are speaking louder than his words.
They haven't even dated.
I stopped @ 2:48 to say that this man of drivel makes my skin crawl. He is WAY TOO MESSY from the start. She's bright and beautiful. Keep moving, sweetie. Love will find you.
I agree he's really messy. She found something in him though and didn't want to let go. But her body language when he came out was sort of negative. I don't think this worked out for her.
Please run! He’s no good!!
Yeah! True love will find you!
He is a father. Girl….run like hell🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️. He probably has baby mama drama. You will be the third wheel. Don’t settle!! You’re beautiful and a HANDSOME man without drama is out there.
I hope she reads your comment, I didn't watch entire episode. She's beautiful, does she have kids, why did he travel to show? Meet Mr Harvey, free "DM" advertisement. Aedin
silly.... girls love men who have kids, its means they aren't social spazs and that a woman chose to procreate with him. Its called social proof.
Nah, I can't date a man who responds to me with "I didn't know it was that serious." You're not going to invalidate my feelings, especially after you show up with no wallet of all things. He's not a kind person.
Why would Steve do this to her? He tells women to have high standards all the time.
It doesn't have anything to standards. She is attracted to him and that is why SHE cant let him go. He gives her that tingle, so she will find a good man but will always sneak away to find John.
She wants to see what could have been. She said it herself. She wants to know for sure if something is there or not.
@@mrrhyte nothing wrong with getting some excitement for what could have been.
She’s 30 acting like a 15 year old!
"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME."
There is NO way a woman should be "chasing" or "begging" a man for love & attention. "When people show you who they are the FIRST TIME; believe them." (Dr. Maya Angelou) There are too many fish in the sea to be casting your net in the same spot ladies. It is very immature of him to "stand her up" TWICE if it wasn't an emergency. It shows signs of immaturity. In time, GOD will send the person who is right for you in your life.
Right ! I hope she is able to read your comment on this one ☝️
Yes, and didn't Steve say don't let a man tell you twice he don't want you? Steve just helped to set her up to be told tols 3 times. He's grown, and he's standing her up and saying he left his wallet? Heck, no, he still will not do her right!!!!! Sorry, she's going to be disappointed again. A man knows if he wants you or not,and when he does, he b goes out of his way from the beginning to show you. you.
Women can not understand real men, only real men understand real men, uncle Steve does. The lady pass the test. She is a wife material
I didn't see her beg at all.
Amen... and don't wait until you're 50+ years old to learn and practice/apply to this your precious life! ✨️
Why would Uncle Steve encourage this? I'm embarrassed for this girl, she deserves better.
But clearly she doesn’t yet see that deserves better because she’s clearly still infatuated by him regardless of his poor behaviour before they even start dating.
yeah, he usually doesn't do this. Even the audience is not impressed.
Yes and he’s not all that!😫
@@sade_8637 he looks immature too
@@Eiramilah Agreed! He’s a grown boy. She’s beautiful and seems to have a genuine heart.
Should have set him up with a therapist
lol
She needs the therapist 😢 THIS IS SOMETHING 😮😢
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good comment😂😂
Or set her up with a date with someone else!
The man showing you he is not interested enough is all the closure I've ever needed. No need to dwell. The closure is in his rejection!!!!!
I'm not a woman - but in her shoes, I would want some questions answered before trying again.
Steve is talking about him showing her who he is... he did that already and stood her up twice. All of a sudden he is just going to change and become someone else? I wouldn't be buying into that right away.
Correct 👏🏾
This dude rubs me the wrong way. He seems mad immature for the vibe she's putting out there. The only grown man that leaves his wallet anywhere is one who knows having it won't make a difference.
She's sooooo desperate. Bless her heart.
Absolutely true. I just don't get why women allow themselves to be played so often.
I’m was never interested in a man that I liked …only a man that jumps through hoops for me…
@i.can.sew.anythingchic3295 a man jumping through hoops is also desperate
@@mtgfa12 cause she is in denial about what her options are.she really thinks a 27 yr old is going to take her serious she might not be even able to have kids definitely wont in a few years. shouldnt be just hooking up with dudes probably why she isnt married already not dating with intention besides having fun.
@@i.can.sew.anythingchic3295Sorry but if I were a man, I would never jump through any hoops for a woman. If they make you do that, they are not worth it.
Girl run! When someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them.
Guy asked me out for dinner. As soon as check came he started an argument, jumped up from table saying "goodbye! I am leaving. You can pìck up the check." Ran for the door. He was hindered from escaping by his friend. He had to pay the check. Scoundrel!
@@LucilleSlaughter-r3j That's a hot mess!!! I'm glad that his friend stopped him. More than likely, you weren't the first victim. But life has a way of turning things around.
So he basically went on another free date lmao
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😂😂😂
real talk 💀
Then go say ohh to Steve paying
@@Summer_li53 lmao right.
People always say not to ghost or block. Sometimes, that's all people deserve, even when the connection is undeniable. Clean up your stuff.
He's got no accountability at this point. She needs to hold back. But I fear that won't happen.
Dude isnt mature enough to man up
Exactly. He's young, immature, and never was taught how to treat a woman
@@plousiahe’s 27 and lame. Hopefully he outgrows being a liar.
So true...boy bye
@@opulence_primeand manipulator
And she’s de Lu Lu, already has all this “fantasy” in her head about this dude and ignoring All of the red flags…smh
Booooo👎🏾I wouldn't trust him. He is either really immature or a liar... he's not ready.
Run, girl, run, no 90 days, believe him the first time he tells you who he is. He is not what you need. Watch and see. Now that he has gone public with it he will be on his best behavior, when he thinks you are "hooked" his true self will start to show. It is easy to be "good" for a short time, not in the long run. Run, girl, run. Trust your own instinct, don't listen to anyone and I mean anyone, no matter how famous or how much peer pressure is on you. Have someone you trust 100% be accountable to on a daily/hourly basis for the next 90 days and listen to the voice and not the feelings. The feeling will leave, the excitement will leave, and the true personality will come through in time. Run, girl, run.
If she had to put this dudes business out there on national TV, then that guy did the right thing not cuffing her.
Girl you’re a Rebound chick!! He was in relationship the entire time. He was playing mind game s
😂😂it be funny playing women
@@tim62103 yeah until karma slaps you in the face 🤭
@@tim62103 Its gonna be real funny when you rotting away in that nursing home all alone. 😂😂😂
@@colew680 So does that karma also apply to women who always have a backup dude on standby, or monkey branch from one relationship before ending the other?
@@Wanderer25 yes it’s called narcissism. Just like the dude in the video. He wanted her as back up supply while he was still in relationship with his girlfriend. He had no intentions of telling her truth; however his actions were clear when he stood her up on multiple occasions. Any man or woman who can’t be alone after break up and don’t ; take their time to heal before pursuing another relationship are insecure and narcissistic. They rather have multiple supplies to fall back on rather than being alone. People like this always end up alone in the end.
I stopped caring about closure but took 36 years to get there.
He's in love with someone else, who doesn't love him. That's why he's wishy-washy. All he did was accept an all-expense paid trip to the show, which paid for his flight and hotel. I would not have accepted another date with him because all he's going to do, is try to get her to his "free" hotel room. She asked if he would bring his wallet instead of asking if he was still dating someone else. She should move on. If he's really in love with her, they'll come back together because he won't let her go so easily. He's infatuated with her because she's beautiful. His heart is either broken or somewhere else.
Say it again for the people in the back row! ‘Cause they couldn’t hear ya!💯
@@TheVenomSquad007 100 Girl! This guy is broke and dusty and she needs to move on!
He's a player. Didn't hand her the money he OWED her with interest. I had a Bruce Kelley like this - 24 years of his playing, lying, lying about divorce, lying about travel - still owes me thousands of dollars for paying for his daughter's school loans...he said he would pay it when on full retirement - that happened several years ago. SHE should RUN.
Are they still together ?
He’s in love with his baby moms… he even said he had issues with his quote on quote “family” concerning his kid. He still considers his baby mom family. That goes to show he’s invested and will never take a female serious
Hunnnni when that video stopped I said “ see we just dont wanna listen when God be talking!”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m sitting here watching this and all I’m thinking is this guy is giving narcissistic behavior and I would say run girl, run!
EXACTLY!😬🤢🤮😫
That’s what I see tooo 😥😥😥
She should let him wait and not show up. She wasted already too much time. He doesn't deserve her nor a second/third chance.
Right, it would be typical for a narcissist to show up only when Steve invites him to confess (pretend) true love in public on TV😮
THANK YOU!!!! I knew I wasn't the only one!
Steve did her dirty! She needs to RUN!
This poor lady is setting herself up for a long time of heartbreak. Hanging on hoping he'll finally be what she wants him to be while he's just a smooth-talking immature boy-man who uses his good looks to get what he wants from naive women.
It's called, game! Dont hate the player
I agree.
🙄So desperate and sad. He doesn't want you. Why is she being a fool.
I see her body language she’s still deeply infatuated by him. Ladies never like a man more than he likes you. Act stoic until he shows and proves himself to you and keep his promises. Me personally after the 2nd times he blew me off I’ll block him everywhere for zero chance to talk to him or hear the bull he got to say. I would have moved on already! But she’s young, she’ll learn with age and maturity.
Well said! No third chance!
A third chance!! Dude must’ve marinated that fish like a MFer! He’s got license to kill lol!
@@Purpledawg-d9s So right 😂😂
He wouldn't have even been given a second chance with me
He just wants the pumpum & an ego stroke.
Interesting video content. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Why did she leave you??
He must have knocked that out the box at some point because you can't tell me there aren't men in her vicinity that she can date.
That’s the part that is left out!!
Probably did
We saw the smile and the hug…dude might be knockin that thang out right this minute!
That's what I was thinking.
I would be PISSED to know Steve brought this man to the show . He's not trustworthy
This girl is CRAZY!
Right. And a nice guy she probably would ignore.
@@andresingley4592He was the nice guy
Love at first sight connection? Shes naive & kind of desperate.
He has a kid, run for your life. They always go back to their baby mom.
I know that's right! Especially at age 27. He's not done with baby mama and is definitely not ready for a serious relationship with anyone
Not true at all..talking out the side of your neck
Love is one hell of a drug.😢 sad sad sad. I pray she finds her peace and dignity.
peace and DIGNITY because girl whaattttttttt
Poor girl. She's not getting over this anytime soon. Two chances are fine. A third?? You're asking for messy emotional baggage.
He's just a Boi. She's a stunner. Reach for the ✨
as if she is not a young lady.. she is also not that mature.. they go both well togheter. stop acting as if she is a god.. she is a bit dressed up .. come back to reality
@@soydansogukcesme470 are you ok?
Ey look, I don't care about the rest but that Denzel Washington walk from backstage was smooth boy😂😂😂😂😂
Wow, she is really patient... can't wait for an update
9:44 Steve's face is all of us watching LOL!
I really hate that line 'i've never felt this way about anyone before'. Such a stupid line and guys use it a lot. You had a child with a woman and didn't feel that way about her? How irresponsible must you be?
That's something I would never understand.
There are so many red flags you could have a parade with it.
He doesnt need a 3rd chance. He needs a therapist.
It doesn't matter what is going on with him - he chose not to communicate and he is actually hiding some very important stuff like his temper issues. He said he's also a father as if that somehow justifies his reasons to be angry.
Humans get angry, are you human? I am sure you've done worse things. Stop being self righteous.
He's 27, that says it all, he's not ready I hope he doesn't disappoint her again but I see it coming!
Closure from what?
Nothing gained😭
The disrespect, inconsistency, being attached to another woman still and then the fast paced proclamation of love were enough reason for closure.
Her blocking him should’ve been closure, his poor communication skills were another, his poor emotional control (him being angry about his baby mama and taking it out on her) was another. She’s had all the reasons why she should’ve walk away from this but I guess sometimes we as women want to learn the harsh way before we strength our boundaries.
@@Wonderer888
It's so sad our family structure has taken such a hit the lack of fathers, mentors within the community it hurts on so many levels.
Women are willing to lower their standards to have any connection or they've decided it's normal to go through so much garbage to get to some type of relationship this is crazy...
I was watching and listening in disbelief obviously both people are broken from whatever and we already know where that will go before it begins...just SAD 😭
@@Wonderer888
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@@Wonderer888
She's already letting him know he can do anything and she'll be right there, how can he ever grow up or respect her in any relationship...
It's time to heal time to evolve we're not out here keeping the same broken narratives generation to generation
I pray that people wake up or stay single and find a purpose to help elevate our children and assist our elders.
She doesn’t need closure her ego just got bruised women need to learn how to stop being so emotionally attached to every damn man they meet. Grow some damn skin she looks desperate af
I love to see it this way. LOVE is always the best?! Love is the winner! Thank you uncle Steve!❤
THIS is gaslighting! His texts. He also seems like a major manipulator who "likes" her well enough to keep her hanging on while he juggles her on the side with his other women. Smart lady! I love how she handled the situation.
Bingo. He is a narcissist
She should listen to judge Lynn Toler , don’t let a man tell you he doesn’t want you twice.
I would not have cared he stood her up twice.
His heart is either somewhere else or broken. Stop focusing on looks and look at his character. He's not the one.
I swear does Steve somehow only find the same old scenarios on his dating segment that just seems to pander to women 🤔😏😂 Steve’s always been pandering to women on his show for ages 😂😂😂
@AllThingsSoul right that was my point.
Confused means no. We're no a match, sir.
'i'm gonna let you go out on me' - so STEVE is paying? Right, that doesn't fix the problem then does it? He's still not paying his way.
I think he just wanted content for his show because Steve is a mature man and he knows that young boy is no good for this girl.
True. Still not paying his way.
Its a money thing...He cant afford her...Instead of being honest or coming up with cheaper alternatives he blames everything else
“… i’ve never felt this way about anyone else before…”
Bruh 😅
For real... C'mon Bruh! Stop It !!! Stop it right now !!! 🛑
My brother once said that to one of my good friends before ghosting her
@@plousiaSMDH - just whhhyyy do they do that !!!
Exactly 🙄
Because Satan is a liar. These men don't serve the living Christ.
He was IMMEDIATELY sad when Steve said, "you're only mission is to let you show you who he is....and in 90 days..." That smile left as quickly as it arrived.
The way how she told Steve, “thank you” for paying for their date say it all for me…..she don’t trust him😂😂😂😂 can you blame her 🙄
Which is one of the reasons she shouldn’t even entertain this. If the trust is shaky so is the foundation of their connection.
Confusion does mean NO. Well expressed.
John ain't shxt,bruh!🙄 #boybye✌🏿
Steve flew this man out, paid a stipend, paid for their date just so ole boy can crush and never call her again. If you know, you know what this!
You gonna bring your wallet? 😂😂😂😂
He better bring two so he can reimburse her for the first date !!!! (side eye)
@@LIKAXY 😅
Ok just in on this and 10 minutes into it….The guy wants an option!! 😂😂
Wow she is absolutely beautiful ❤💐❤️💐 wow just absolutely beautiful and I'm sorry but who The H leaves a wallet at home Seriously. That's a red flag right there . My dad always tells me to never leave your wallet at home 🏡 always carry with at all times she definitely deserves someone better than this idiot 🤦
You’re very wise and I’m glad that you see her worth! He has red flags waving all over the place !
@@Kizzyfran thank you 😊 absolutely 💯 I know right
I blame Steve for even allowing this. Flying him out and comping a night out on the town doesn’t mean he’s stepping up, he’s just an opportunist. It’s better to be very unforgiving with men who have made no effort, no investment and show no integrity. Where are they now? Nowhere I bet. 😙
No… this isn’t it.
Wooo! this lady is amazing, when she texted "I don't have time for these kind of game and i would appreciate it if you get to the point and stop wasting my time" I blacked out, litterally !
How long ago was this?? We need updates!
I can guess the update. He tried to get her to his free hotel room, paid for by the Steve Harvey Show, and nothing more. He's not serious. He's in love with someone else who doesn't love him back.
Bingo
No man that really wants you would ever miss a chance to see you/spend time with you.
what if you were at a co-workers funeral and you end up talking to a guy at the funeral that you liked. You later find out that the funeral was for the sister, of the guy you found interest in. Should he man up and be trying to give all his time to you?
@@4OR-Designs I think she would have known at the time that his sister had died.
@dnasty981 ha. Not in this day in age. It's been awhile since I've seen someone properly introduce someone. Most people just remain obscure these days.
10:23 he already did 😢 he showed her he he was … his esteem is low
As a man I'll even admit I hate immature & game playing men. Bros just be real stop wasting women time. That shxt is not manly at all.
He's all talk & that's all she needs to know. 🤷♀️🙄
That man is dangerous. He manipulates, gaslights, and this woman still entertaining his childish self. This woman needs to RUN.
Wives get chosen. Steve panders to his female audience… and I’m sure this woman is still single
She is absolutely gorgeous. He doesn’t deserve her.
An undeserving man will always get an attractive woman if she's desperate.
SHE'S NOT THAT BRIGHT, SEEMS TOO DESPERATE
She’s the type who believes in fairytale relationships and for that she will get played if she doesn’t work on that, because she really doesn’t see this man clearly. Should’ve moved on the first time - he’s not going to change. People rarely do without having worked on themselves. For me he’s giving off major narcissistic vibes.
She’s getting there but slowly. The fact that she had already blocked him shows she’s learning to walk away despite her feelings. Maybe she needs this wasted time to tighten her boundaries after this hopefully she won’t let another time waster play in her face.
She should have run the other way. He's bad news.
ANYONE KNOW HOW IT WORKED OUT?
My guess is he pretended to be everything she wanted while on Steve's dime on this date but it went back to being shady after the show.
She gone fold every time when it comes to him lol