Relieved that I got out. The nightmares are not as frequent. It was only going to get worse. Going No Contact is for your healing. As long as you stay in touch with a narcissist, they will continue to have power over you. Control for the narcissist is supply to them. Once you get out, your clarity will return and you will see how destructive these creatures are.
Don’t give them back that option. They never deserved in the first place. You just didn’t know who they really were. You actually fell in love with yourself. Understand that, expect it and never look back. Covert narcissists love the silent treatment infinity you need to give the exact same thing back to them.
It takes a LONG time to get back in your own head after one of these situationships BUT once you finally do, you will feel like Dorothy returned from Oz - and realize there truly is no place like home. And that is within your own identity and the people, places and things that are important to you .. not anyone else 😊
I love this “Autonomy” topic! Perfect video for Valentine’s Day tomorrow. Love yourself! Invest in yourself, your dreams, your goals. Live your best life, free from toxic coercive controllers. Even though Valentine’s Day is supposed to be about a healthy love as a couple, I am claiming it as love for myself and liberation from the narcissists in my life.
Your kindness, warmth & sincerity shines through always. I am now 7 months of no contact. I searched desperately for answers & help to what I was going through & found you. For the past 6 months of listening to you, I’ve had epiphany after epiphany. I am finally starting to feel free. You have been such a massive part of my healing journey Joe. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Keep doing what you do…you are literally saving so many people & helping us all towards a fulfilling life. God bless you 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
No contact and denying all access, including any flying monkeys or anyone who can supply hm with any information about me this past year has given me the space to help heal. I am not fully healed yet, and the hardest part was forgiving myself. Thank you for your beautiful messages ❤️ 💕
Exactly! 💯 No contact & denying any access. I deleted a FB request from my Ex-Narcissist's best friend. Giving NO info or accepting flying monkeys friend requests after the ex is blocked online. I am healing and working on indifference every day. 😌
This is exactly where I’m going. Almost 12 months on from discarding him and having isolated myself and worked really hard on myself, I am now ready to get back out there starting to do the things I want to do. Not looking for another relationship. Just going to concentrate on me. Enjoying my life again. Being autonomous 😊
Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This. I Needed To Hear This. I Was Recently Discarded Cruelly. IT Hurted Me So Bad The Best Thing I Did Was Finding A Therapist Helping Me Through The Sadness Confusion Anxiety. From Being Discarded. I Have A Month Of No Contact. Going No Contact Was The Best Thing I Ever Did And Learning How To Forgive Myself..And To Start Loving Myself.
I'm almost a year in of no contact. She made my valentine's day last year a complete hell. First 6 months was the hardest for me. Now I can't thank God enough for the piece of mind I have.
I'M 2 WEEKS OUT OF HER 8TH&FINAL DISCARD.THE TRAUMABOND IS REAL.SHE WAS THE CENTER OF MY WORLD.4 YEARS OF THE MOST DRAMATIC ROLLERCOASTER RIDE IN MY 56 YEARS OF LIFE😢
@@ericking4072 I did 12 long years Eric. I was so pissed off at myself that I let it go this far. My 10th year is when I found out what a narcissist was and it still took me 2 years to finally let go and be happy.
omg! spot on! he got angry if I had to work when he wanted to play ...i started working less and less lost myself and my identity little by little ...getting back on track and good things are happening again.....
Gorgeous images..😍.. breathtaking ! Watching on full screen for third time and just love an every image ! Very good point to get your autonomy back ! Thank you Joe, great as always !🤗❤
Wow, people can actually be that evil? (their main goal is to derail you off your path!). To confirm - the NPD person I knew actually had a personal email address of "b.offbalance"...but hid that email address from me till it was too late and had me hooked -- I actually researched and discovered it on my own!
The thing is- I was too clingy due to being with various Narcissists who made me feel horribly insecure in the relationship and from struggling with CPTSD due to severe childhood trauma so these men told me I should get a life on my own. Guess what happened, when I did or when I refused to accompany them to some place or to visist their family?
When he discarded me it was a gift from the universe.
Relieved that I got out. The nightmares are not as frequent. It was only going to get worse. Going No Contact is for your healing. As long as you stay in touch with a narcissist, they will continue to have power over you. Control for the narcissist is supply to them. Once you get out, your clarity will return and you will see how destructive these creatures are.
Absolutely 💯 ❤
Yes
And slowly, we regain peace in our lives.
Don’t give them back that option. They never deserved in the first place. You just didn’t know who they really were. You actually fell in love with yourself. Understand that, expect it and never look back. Covert narcissists love the silent treatment infinity you need to give the exact same thing back to them.
Yeah we fell in love with our own colors reflected back to us
It takes a LONG time to get back in your own head after one of these situationships BUT once you finally do, you will feel like Dorothy returned from Oz - and realize there truly is no place like home. And that is within your own identity and the people, places and things that are important to you .. not anyone else 😊
100%
I love this “Autonomy” topic! Perfect video for Valentine’s Day tomorrow. Love yourself! Invest in yourself, your dreams, your goals. Live your best life, free from toxic coercive controllers. Even though Valentine’s Day is supposed to be about a healthy love as a couple, I am claiming it as love for myself and liberation from the narcissists in my life.
Your kindness, warmth & sincerity shines through always. I am now 7 months of no contact. I searched desperately for answers & help to what I was going through & found you. For the past 6 months of listening to you, I’ve had epiphany after epiphany. I am finally starting to feel free. You have been such a massive part of my healing journey Joe. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Keep doing what you do…you are literally saving so many people & helping us all towards a fulfilling life. God bless you 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Such a lovely message, thank you!! ❤🙏🌌
No contact and denying all access, including any flying monkeys or anyone who can supply hm with any information about me this past year has given me the space to help heal. I am not fully healed yet, and the hardest part was forgiving myself. Thank you for your beautiful messages ❤️ 💕
Exactly! 💯 No contact & denying any access. I deleted a FB request from my Ex-Narcissist's best friend. Giving NO info or accepting flying monkeys friend requests after the ex is blocked online. I am healing and working on indifference every day. 😌
MY GUY JOE B IS GOING CRAZY WIT THE VIDEOS LETS GOOOOO
Cheers man. Just watched "Thanks Shady" - great work!
This is exactly where I’m going. Almost 12 months on from discarding him and having isolated myself and worked really hard on myself, I am now ready to get back out there starting to do the things I want to do. Not looking for another relationship. Just going to concentrate on me. Enjoying my life again. Being autonomous 😊
Congratulations! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
But you already have a relationship... with yourself! That's the most important relationship one can ever have
Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This. I Needed To Hear This. I Was Recently Discarded Cruelly. IT Hurted Me So Bad The Best Thing I Did Was Finding A Therapist Helping Me Through The Sadness Confusion Anxiety. From Being Discarded. I Have A Month Of No Contact. Going No Contact Was The Best Thing I Ever Did And Learning How To Forgive Myself..And To Start Loving Myself.
I'm almost a year in of no contact. She made my valentine's day last year a complete hell. First 6 months was the hardest for me. Now I can't thank God enough for the piece of mind I have.
I'M 2 WEEKS OUT OF HER 8TH&FINAL DISCARD.THE TRAUMABOND IS REAL.SHE WAS THE CENTER OF MY WORLD.4 YEARS OF THE MOST DRAMATIC ROLLERCOASTER RIDE IN MY 56 YEARS OF LIFE😢
@@ericking4072 I did 12 long years Eric. I was so pissed off at myself that I let it go this far. My 10th year is when I found out what a narcissist was and it still took me 2 years to finally let go and be happy.
@@ericking4072
I Totally Understand And So Incredibly Sorry
I'm almost 5 months no contact. Each day becomes more peaceful. Wishing you strength and healing in your journey 💫
omg! spot on! he got angry if I had to work when he wanted to play ...i started working less and less lost myself and my identity little by little ...getting back on track and good things are happening again.....
Knowing that others saw through them also
I never really knew the definition of autonomy
Asked Siri while listening to your video
What an awesome new word to understand and have Thank you 😊 ❤
Sames❤
7 month's out of the nightmare but the fake friend requests and strange phone numbers keep coming. Ignored forever!
Danke!
Thank you!!
Love the imagery!❤
Thanks Joe, Perfect timing as always !!!!!
Gorgeous images..😍.. breathtaking ! Watching on full screen for third time and just love an every image ! Very good point to get your autonomy back ! Thank you Joe, great as always !🤗❤
i feel so bad for the next person
Wow, people can actually be that evil? (their main goal is to derail you off your path!). To confirm - the NPD person I knew actually had a personal email address of "b.offbalance"...but hid that email address from me till it was too late and had me hooked -- I actually researched and discovered it on my own!
Yes our of their reach for ever
The thing is- I was too clingy due to being with various Narcissists who made me feel horribly insecure in the relationship and from struggling with CPTSD due to severe childhood trauma so these men told me I should get a life on my own. Guess what happened, when I did or when I refused to accompany them to some place or to visist their family?
So true 😂😂😂😂❤❤
🙏, can b a tad embarrassing... a Joe?...🤠🤕🙄🤠
6 weeks no contact and fog is starting to lift… ❤️🩹
Congratulations...and keep up your journey of awareness and healing...all the best 🍀!!
@@marla.t.o Thank you for your support! 🌹
@@marla.t.o Thank you for the support! ♥️
Good for you! Keep looking ahead & moving forward! The narc isn't worth your time nor do they deserve you!
@@jjones4314 Thank you for the support, I appreciate it ♥️
Much needed phenomenal insight..
Ty 🕊️✨🙏🫶
So true 😂😂😂😂❤❤