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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @briandaaranda9735
    @briandaaranda9735 3 роки тому +99

    ADHD doesn't mean I'm not trying my hardest all the time because RSD makes me too anxious not to give it my all, sometimes to my own detriment. When you tell me to "try harder", it makes me feel inadequate, lazy and stupid, but I'm none of these things.
    I am just a person. And I'm trying.

    • @theadhdmind9419
      @theadhdmind9419 3 роки тому +6

      Totally agreed! "Just try harder" is the most unhelpful advice ever!

    • @_aly_cat
      @_aly_cat 3 роки тому

      This 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 💯🙏🏻❤️

  • @blankfaceman9694
    @blankfaceman9694 3 роки тому +59

    I hate when I keep telling myself that imma do something. But I literally forget that I was gonna do it. So it looks like I'm just procrastinating.

    • @kriss10ten09
      @kriss10ten09 3 роки тому +3

      Totally and sometimes it’s something I really really wanna do but somehow can’t remember to make it happen until some random middle of the night

    • @blankfaceman9694
      @blankfaceman9694 3 роки тому

      @@kriss10ten09 RIGHT!!! It's so irritating.

    • @_aly_cat
      @_aly_cat 3 роки тому +1

      Same. And then I agree to too many things and only remember what’s in sight

  • @lannygriffith8137
    @lannygriffith8137 3 роки тому +53

    This video " nails it." I am much more enlightened by the facts here. Great voice over work too.

  • @theadhdmind9419
    @theadhdmind9419 3 роки тому +38

    100% agreed on all the points mentioned here! I feel that the emotional aspects are often overlooked in ADHD and it's so challenging for us! Great video :)

  • @airohtheenby
    @airohtheenby 3 роки тому +11

    For so long I didn’t realize how distracted I was because I was so used to my brain going all over the place and coming back to a topic (and repeat that over and over). It took me finding out I have ADHD as an adult to realize that some people’s brains don’t do that

  • @colonelsanders177
    @colonelsanders177 3 роки тому +14

    For me, the extreme emotions mixed with anxiety where I’m not really comfortable being myself around people, leads to severe repressing of them. Like the extremity led to barely feeling them? It just creates more problems with being overwhelmed yet not understanding the reasons

  • @lokiempth
    @lokiempth 3 роки тому +31

    I do have ADHD, and one thing that troubels me is that I can't reconize my emotions when visiting with friends for family. So, I think that it can be a problem that some people with ADHD have with emotions. And also we can have empathy, anxinty(I'm a very empithic and axious person), and can lead us easier to depresion in defferent ways. I think I coverd everything that could be also share to peolpe who need to know what is like for a person to have ADHD.
    Also, love your artstyle that you are using in the video:)

    • @BadRepJoanie
      @BadRepJoanie 3 роки тому +1

      I have ADHD and a delayed reaction with emotions. I have learned to recognise that I need to not make comments about my feelings for at least a week of thinking about things. I will sometimes take a few days or weeks to process something and it will hit me out of the blue and I will cry for no reason, but actually it's about that thing from three weeks ago. My mother is quite manipulative and gaslit me a lot as a child so I learned not to listen to my gut instinct. I'm pretty sure what you're saying about not recognising your emotions is an ADHD thing, but maybe coupled with childhood trauma of some kind since it's highlighted around your family?

    • @MalyiBird
      @MalyiBird 3 роки тому +1

      There is a term for this...I think. I forgot the exact word 😅 but it's basically like emotion dyslexia. So it's hard for us to differentiate our emotions. So when other may feel very distinguished emotions, for us it can be more like "areas" like: good, sad and AAAAAH!. So if someone then asks how we feel it's not like: Yes, I'm just a little irritaded, because I didn't sleep to well but I'm happy to see you now! It's more like: Kind of good but a little like, a little, em meh? A little meh. I'm meh.

  • @solsagot5148
    @solsagot5148 3 роки тому +4

    Am 35 years old, divorced my wife after 15 years together and 2 beautiful daughters. I just realized that I have ADHD, now everything makes sence. I wish I knew before, may be I would still be married.

    • @limin1462
      @limin1462 3 роки тому

      Sending love :( try not to be too hard on yourself everything happens for a reason!

  • @michelguyfortin
    @michelguyfortin 3 роки тому +15

    Great video! I think the opposite of rejection-sensitive dysphoria is also an important thing to consider. Recognition responsive euphoria, or RRE, causes me to be not only needy (or greedy) of other's approval but also feel giddy when I do get it, like a kid propped up in the air on his Bar-Mitzvah. As a naive kid, I remember nearly falling in love with anyone who merely glanced my way, and then remembering how creepy I must have appeared followed by intense feelings of dejection and sadness.

    • @Lady_of_Winds
      @Lady_of_Winds 3 роки тому +1

      Same here! Ontop I developed a social media addiction because I got praised for my art. And now... I forgot how to draw for myself :/

  • @annanissink9848
    @annanissink9848 3 роки тому +19

    im currently in the process of my adhd diagnosis, theyre trying to figure out if i might have it. I really liked this video and i also love your art style! I relate to so much to these and ive always needed to tell ppl i have strong emotions and ive felt so misunderstood my entire life. I finally feel like ive found my people though❤

  • @Bells-c6v
    @Bells-c6v 4 місяці тому +1

    “Many people believe everyone’s a bit ADHD b/c they struggle with some symptoms…however if you look at it as a spectrum…the difference is in how often and much it affects our lives and wellbeing.” THANK YOU FOR ADDRESSING THIS! I’ve heard this sentiment so often and hearing it is frustrating and minimizes the impact these symptoms have on ADHDers’ everyday lives.

  • @bridgetkraus7860
    @bridgetkraus7860 3 роки тому +10

    Lmao watching this with ADHD is next level.
    Video: *makes a point I relate to*
    Me: *thinks about every example of me displaying these behaviors*
    "Ah nuts I missed what she was talking about here" *rewinds*
    *repeat several times*

  • @mushroomlover479
    @mushroomlover479 3 роки тому +12

    I hate when people pretend they know everything about adhd because they know someone with it. Like no, unless you have tried to research more and ask someone with adhd what its like, dont act so educated

  • @winterburnnature
    @winterburnnature 3 роки тому +2

    Ahhhh I wish people understood these things. Everyone always blames me for these reasons which makes me so sad that I even cry thinking about it. Everyone should be aware of these things

  • @KikisStudyCorner
    @KikisStudyCorner 3 роки тому +9

    *Enters adhd comment section* *soft voice*: some of the adhd symptoms that are less common are actually autism symptoms ❤️

  • @eebaedeebae
    @eebaedeebae 3 роки тому +5

    The description of inattentive adhd and of adhd that often goes under diagnosed in afab/girls was AMAZING!! thank you so much for making this video 💕

  • @TFD.aep2
    @TFD.aep2 3 роки тому +22

    Love your content!!! Hope you go far!!!

    • @ADHDCouple
      @ADHDCouple  3 роки тому +5

      Thank you so much! 😊💕

  • @Nedmac320
    @Nedmac320 3 роки тому +1

    This video is impossibly concise and summarized adhd so well. I wanna tattoo the url on my forehead

  • @airohtheenby
    @airohtheenby 3 роки тому +2

    “Short term memory” that bit made me giggle but uhh it’s also painfully relatable

  • @Lotussitus
    @Lotussitus 3 роки тому +6

    I love this. Thank you. Would have loved to have seen positive emotions included with the ‘emotional dysregulation’. I feel adhders also feel immense wonder, joy, excitement, love/lust, etc which can sometimes be hard to contain/manage/tone down.

  • @annatjeh
    @annatjeh 3 роки тому +2

    “Crying from frustration”- oh hell yes 😂

  • @acidfairy1714
    @acidfairy1714 3 роки тому +13

    Adhd delays emotional maturity and makes it a struggle to fit in with peers that are developing at a 'normal' rate.

    • @pricklylavy802
      @pricklylavy802 3 роки тому

      i kinda have the opposite problem. I've matured quickly but it also falls into my RSD i think

    • @limin1462
      @limin1462 3 роки тому

      That makes soooo much sense

    • @zarief8863
      @zarief8863 3 роки тому

      This comment hits me

  • @1SilentStar
    @1SilentStar 3 роки тому +7

    the visuals in this are ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING💟👏 sooooo beautiful ILYSM keep going girly!!!!!

  • @annataylor3853
    @annataylor3853 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing this information and for advocating for the adhd community!! It feels validating to hear about others struggles!

  • @JamieSlays
    @JamieSlays 3 роки тому +2

    I love this. It helps me a lot

  • @CarlosGutierrez-wg4go
    @CarlosGutierrez-wg4go 3 роки тому +1

    Sometimes feels more like a super power than Anything. I realized I can literally learn Anything, not at School but by myself. Schools should be different for us haha

  • @yolyonyoutube5008
    @yolyonyoutube5008 9 днів тому

    Seriously will refer this to anyone having trouble “understanding” me and my energy

  • @Siddharth-mz6tk
    @Siddharth-mz6tk 2 роки тому +1

    Hey whoever made this video. I love you ❣️

  • @kelseylh05
    @kelseylh05 3 роки тому +1

    I just got diagnosed last month and it has really been eye-opening for me. I always thought I was being dramatic growing up whenever I'd start to feel like I couldn't handle things, and even now I frequently say "there's just too much stuff" when I can't process what I'm feeling. I'm overwhelmed so much of the time and I never knew that could be a symptom of ADHD. So glad I finally have a diagnosis so I can start working to help myself out.

  • @avocadokatz_e
    @avocadokatz_e 3 роки тому +6

    Hey! I wanted to thank you for your informative content, it really helped me a lot to recognize my symptoms and go see a doctor about it. Thanks to that I got diagnosed just yesterday ^^

    • @music4life767
      @music4life767 3 роки тому +2

      Hello! I am 26 and having a really hard time getting diagnosed. Maybe it’s because it’s during Covid times but no one seems to have availability or they only assess children. If you don’t mind me asking, how did you get your diagnosis? And how was that process for you? If anyone has any feedback I would love some help!

    • @avocadokatz_e
      @avocadokatz_e 3 роки тому +1

      @@music4life767 Hey Caroline! I looked for a psychologist that is specialized on adhd for adults. I live in Germany and with private health insurance it‘s a lot easier to get a doctor. I don‘t know how things are where you live. During my appointment I was aasend questions about adhd-related stuff from when I was 8-10 years old and recent times. I also had to fill out a paper with questions where I had to mark the severity of my symptoms. The psychologist analyzed my answers and gave me the diagnosis at the next appointment.
      I hope I could help somehow

  • @jim_yout
    @jim_yout 2 роки тому

    In France we have a huge delay about ADHD, nobody knows what it is, only a very few people. I'm trying to share this video and this insta a lot, it's one of the best vulgarisation I've seen so far. Big thanks for this work

  • @edenjensen6708
    @edenjensen6708 3 роки тому +3

    Absolutely loved this video, it explained my struggles very simply and eloquently. Excellent work, this was very validating and I hope that this is a project that you’re proud of! :)

  • @ngozimelissa2474
    @ngozimelissa2474 2 роки тому +1

    Please make another video I love these

  • @HD-gl5bv
    @HD-gl5bv 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you soooo much it’s so accurate!!!!! 🥲

  • @tatlidorayaki
    @tatlidorayaki 18 днів тому

    3:32 "adhd makes me forget about people if I dont see them often"
    thats heart breaking.

  • @pinkhairedneko
    @pinkhairedneko 3 роки тому +1

    People of all ages with adhd can often be more easily frustrated than their peers!

  • @thecatsbackyard4833
    @thecatsbackyard4833 2 роки тому

    Thank you. I feel understood. The emotional disregulation and negative thought pattern is spot on. It can be so hard to get the negative thoughts to just go away. The emotions can be so intense and you feel like a bad person for some of the feelings you have. It is such a real and harrowing condition.

  • @elizabethslinger7965
    @elizabethslinger7965 3 роки тому +1

    I feel someone finally understand what i feel ☹️❤️

  • @SilentRuth10
    @SilentRuth10 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for making this! Next week I'm going to tell my mom I have ADHD... I'm pretty nervous. But maybe this video will help her understand better. :)

  • @dessskris
    @dessskris 3 роки тому

    This is spot on! I really want to emphasise that ADHD presents differently in different people, so saying things like "I wouldn't have guessed you have ADHD" or "you don't seem like someone with ADHD to me" just because I don't behave like a typical hyperactive boy, you are invalidating my condition and my feelings.

  • @maritvansplunter6924
    @maritvansplunter6924 3 роки тому +2

    Very nice video! 😊

  • @teags3559
    @teags3559 3 роки тому +1

    i wish people new that i say and do things i dont mean and then relise what i have said or done after , and i wish that when i leg tap i dont do it to anoy u but i just do ity

  • @jimenaarias6732
    @jimenaarias6732 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much this really helps me. My mom doesn’t believe in this to much and when I trie to talk about this she gets mad. Even if the doctor said.that I have adhd my mom doesn’t let me get the medicine. The worst thing is that when I collapse she doesn’t pay attention to me.

  • @tickhillian
    @tickhillian 3 роки тому

    I have never been diganosed, but have always thought that I was different. My wife has worked with lots of children with ADHD and feels that as I have grown older (I'm 65) I have learned to adapt to it and have learned ways of coping. I have lots of the classic symptoms. I am really happy the more I find out about it and enjoy being me.

  • @AdaminaCarden
    @AdaminaCarden 3 роки тому +2

    Love this! Thanks for making it. I've been following you on IG for so long and didn't know you were on youtube. Skye is also great - I interviewed her for adhdoers. I love the ADHD community!

  • @karawbear
    @karawbear 3 роки тому +1

    It’s not that I’m not trying to be better at changing the things that I do that annoy you. It’s that no matter how hard I try my brain won’t seem to fix the problem. I hate me too because of how much I feel you hate me for it.

  • @wyn3951
    @wyn3951 2 роки тому

    I’m new here, and l LOVE this video!!! It perfectly describes my everyday challanges and frustrations with ADHD, and how it’s not my fault that l stare at a blank essay with my brain in white fuzz. Love this channel!! 💜💜💜

  • @hannahmiller8210
    @hannahmiller8210 3 роки тому +1

    This was so confirming for me. Thank you.

  • @stephanienorman9840
    @stephanienorman9840 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for making this 🙏🏼💛

  • @mariamedusa4148
    @mariamedusa4148 3 роки тому +1

    will def be sharing it with friends and fam thank uuuuu

  • @l3m0n_b01
    @l3m0n_b01 9 місяців тому +2

    You forgot to mention short-term memory

  • @10pmixupuk65
    @10pmixupuk65 11 місяців тому

    All of the above! I'm 59 and have just been diagnosed 🤯

  • @valenbetancourt2777
    @valenbetancourt2777 3 роки тому +2

    i love this thank you so much 🥺🥺✨🥺✨

  • @pantheon3962
    @pantheon3962 6 місяців тому +1

    I really like your videos.why did you give up posting new videos?

  • @jessicasamson6940
    @jessicasamson6940 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video!!

  • @xjaireyes
    @xjaireyes 3 роки тому +1

    as the video turned to executive dysfunction, paused d video for a bit to jump to a chat then proceeded withe the video and i literally forgot what the video was talking about i got so confused by the emphasis on short term memory lmao

  • @itzmais
    @itzmais 3 роки тому +2

    New subscriber please upload more❤️

  • @HannaMagdalena
    @HannaMagdalena Рік тому

    I wish people knew that adhd combined with my pstd makes me be behind on everything because I so often have 0 energy left for life goals after all the daily tasks (and not even all of them) and I still don't know what to do about it.

  • @Nikolais_sanity
    @Nikolais_sanity 3 роки тому +6

    Great video! I love your artstyle btw :)

  • @basil1505
    @basil1505 3 роки тому

    This is such an accurate representation, especially for the symptoms in girls!

  • @EccentricEnthusiadam
    @EccentricEnthusiadam 3 роки тому

    I wish my housemates didn't always go "He hasn't vacuumed in a while, he must be disrespectful and selfish" and then straight up refuse to listen to me when I try to explain what's going on.
    Thanks for making it even worse for me, jeez

  • @kirstygracee
    @kirstygracee 3 роки тому +1

    This video was so great - will be showing this to everyone!! Also amazing illustrations!! ❤️

  • @brihmount
    @brihmount 9 місяців тому

    hey i found your video thru a google search where i read your blog. wonderful illustrations! keep up the good work

  • @thegoodwitchluzura
    @thegoodwitchluzura 3 роки тому +1

    I wish people knew that people with ADHD don’t need to be cured or changed.

  • @RSchef
    @RSchef Рік тому

    Thank you very much for this video!

  • @ChrissyVee5
    @ChrissyVee5 3 роки тому +1

    I’m starting to think I might have this🤔

  • @tamsinisaacs
    @tamsinisaacs 3 роки тому

    I would love to know if anyone here has struggled to learn to drive. I am 36 years old and have never had a driving license as I cannot concentrate on what the instructors are telling me, as I'm not interested enough. I feel it's something I "should" learn and therefore I really struggle to find the motivation to follow through. But I really want to be ABLE to drive a car...! Frustrating. (I have not yet been formally diagnosed with ADHD, but I relate to everything here.)

  • @nokachi3339
    @nokachi3339 3 роки тому +1

    See no one tells you this, I got diagnosed, handed a bottle of pills and that's it. Got told to take them every morning and again at lunch. I'll be honest, getting into a romantic relationship without knowing anything about ADHD was a disaster.

  • @tjtay02
    @tjtay02 3 роки тому +2

    Brilliant video, really relatable and informative. However, I find it frustrating when its categoried into 'male' and 'female' for a number of reasons. Yes certain traits are considered predominantly male or predominantly female but not everyone fits into that and it can feel invalidating when you dont fit the symptoms you're 'supposed' to exhibit. Also, it can be invalidating and uncomfortable for trans individuals when theyre told their neurodivergent symptoms are of a gender they don't identify with. Let alone the fact that it's based on the outdated ideology of gender binary which we know isnt the case. Given that there are higher percentages of LGBTQ+ people within the neurodivergent community compared to the general populous, I feel that we should move towards more inclusive language for categorising symptoms.
    This is in no way meant as a criticism towards you but a general feeling/ opinion I have towards this topic. I highly value what you do and love your work. You have been a huge inspiration and help for me in understanding and accepting myself. Thank you so much for what you do 💛

    • @gio-ve7vn
      @gio-ve7vn 3 роки тому

      Maybe using AFAB and AMAB (assigned female/male at birth) rather than girls and boys since I'm assuming the study is on children (and not every trans person knows when they're 5/has always known). But I agree that this is a problem in the greater scientific and medical field. That said, the summary is talking in generalizations. People AMAB can be primarily inattentive rather than hyperactive and are likely to be overlooked/undiagnosed and written off as shy as well.
      I also think that being socialized as a girl growing up might have a part in the underdiagnosis of people assigned female at birth, as girls are socialized to internalize their reactions and emotions.
      All in all, visibly hyperactive people are more likely to be diagnosed early. I wonder if universal testing could help catch the kids and adults that slip through...

  • @CoffeeWarriorXXX
    @CoffeeWarriorXXX 4 місяці тому

    Can you post more videos. I love these so much.

  • @Arkylie
    @Arkylie 2 роки тому

    It's kinda weird to look at Rejection Sensitivity as a symptom -- as I'm coming to terms with likely having ADHD, at age 43 -- given that one time, when my best friend sat me down to ask me out, I literally had braced myself for him *throwing me out of our friends group* (I was convinced this was why he told me we need to talk: that they'd put up with me long enough and couldn't humor me anymore, and I should stop coming to our get-togethers). Talk about the brain getting the wrong signals about what's going on!

  • @ritabuna3020
    @ritabuna3020 21 день тому

    I've been questioning the possibility of having ADHD for some time, but I never take the topic to my psychologist because I'm afraid I'm "exaggerating" my experiences. I see myself in several of these situations, but what if it's "just my personality"?

  • @mariamedusa4148
    @mariamedusa4148 3 роки тому +1

    amazing vid

  • @NickVS
    @NickVS Рік тому

    I think you ment shutdown instead of meltdown.

  • @arturotrinidad9933
    @arturotrinidad9933 2 роки тому

    que onda mis perros, se la rifaron espero suban mas, camaras

  • @willowtree1233
    @willowtree1233 3 роки тому

    So I have done unofficial online tests and my research and I trying I have adhd I see losts of posts of people who Shevardnadze it and I agree strongly with them lol and I have decided to self diagnose just without telling my mum because I have tried and she doesn’t believe me , also my dad who died also was put on medication for adhd because doctors thought he had it so yeah am I a fraud? Thank you for reading all this if you have and Great video btw.

  • @nerf2752
    @nerf2752 2 роки тому

    only one video from 9 months ago. did they got distracted?

  • @Questionablexfun
    @Questionablexfun Рік тому

    * cries in adhd *

  • @Claudialogie
    @Claudialogie 2 роки тому

    Hi 👋🏼

  • @mariamedusa4148
    @mariamedusa4148 3 роки тому +1