Someone in this photo has an EVIL SECRET
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#1 -- "The Strangers" -- 0:37 -- A family in Ohio notices some very strange people lurking around their property at night
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Absolutely crazy that they never thought to install cameras, security lights etc outside the house. 2 years of 'strangers' and they never got so much as a ring doorbell.
that group of dudes smoking in the yard would be the first cue to get surveillance!
What's absolutely crazy is some of y'all think people just got money lying around for that sort of shit also we have cops that wear cameras now they don't stop the crime they just show who did it
@@TragicallyDelicious they are a upper middle class family so they can drop a few hundred dollars to get like 3 ring cameras
Exactly
@Squeezebox Malushu nah bruh if u got “strangers” stalking you for almost 2 years, you’ll cough up the money for cameras. A ring doorbell is also pretty inexpensive. U can easily save up for a ring bell in a few months. If u wanted to
I don’t understand why they wouldn’t get security cameras. If people keep coming on your property and trying to break in you think you would want some.
Exactly what I was going to say!
Guns too
And why cops wouldnt put a patrol car near the house?Or why they didnt get finger prints?Or have a cop stake out near the backyard?
Right?
To be fair the people harassing them could break the camera instead they should've got a gun or something
The fact that Jeff hated his future mother-in-law so much so that he was willing to mentally torture his fiancé and child is really disturbing.
Pop psychology from someone with no training in this area, but I suspect that Jeff didn't see being invited to live in that house as an act of kindness. He probably felt humiliated, maybe emasculated. He's likely psychopathic and harboured a severe resentment to his victim. Without the capacity for proper empathy, he perceived her kindness and generosity towards him as an insult.
But again, no expertise here on my part. Just pure amateur speculation.
Big mistake to open your house to a loser like Jeff.
@michaelkobylko2969 That's not really amateur you're very intelligent!
That ain't it@@michaelkobylko2969
@@liamseekins9488 yes intelligent! But still amateur if op isn’t a professional psychologist 😂
I’m no professional but I study psychology in university. Psychopathy isn’t an individual diagnosis, instead it’s one possible symptom to describe specific personality disorders. Currently in the DSM 5 (which is like the bible for mental illnesses) there are 4 subtypes of psychopathy: narcissistic, borderline, sadistic, and antisocial. To make it more confusing, children who show signs of psychopathy, are diagnosed with Conduct Disorder, which can then turn into other disorders such as antisocial personality disorder. These all have other symptoms, not just psychopathy. For example, people with narcissistic personality disorder are often very entitled and arrogant, whereas people with antisocial personality disorder dislike other people and are very manipulative. There’s sooo much more info about this, and it’s really quite confusing. Psychopathy isn’t seen as a disorder in itself anymore , but rather it’s manifested in different ways and that’s why there are “subtype” personality disorders- because all 4 show similar behaviour but in slightly different ways (lack of empathy, lack of planning ahead or any idea of what is right/wrong, deceitful, impulsive, lack of safety for self and others, and much more). In my studies, antisocial personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder are more commonly talked about in regards to psychopathy but there are other mental illnesses in which it can appear.
That ending just broke me. Knowing that Kyle is sad and is still waiting for his mom is the worst from this already horrendous story.
It’s absolutely heartbreaking.
Yup. Know a family with a severe down syndrome child. The father suddenly passed away in his sleep and his son doesn’t understand why he’s not around.
Poor Kyle
For people wondering why they didn't have security cameras, they actually did get them. And it was the killer himself who installed them. And they kept "malfunctioning" and having other "problems."
That should have sent red flags to everyone...
They should have then had professionals come and install them, and maybe had secret ones put in that say only the parents knew about
@@willowzoey3096 I think it’s easy to say that in hindsight. But when you’re in the middle of something that stressful, you’re not as clear about the situation as you will be down the line. Hence the phrase, ‘Hindsight is 20/20’.
@@willowzoey3096They trusted the future son in law. People don't usually suspect when they're about to be murdered by a family member. Hindsight.
@@willowzoey3096 hindsight is 20/20
I would have kept replacing them or just left the house sorry but no I'm not staying somewhere with creepy people especially trying to get in my house OR I would have armed myself
Spoiler…
If they had a couple security cameras they would’ve caught Jeff breaking the car windshield, putting nails in tires and sneaking up onto the back porch. I’m shocked in two years nobody installed cameras
Same. This wasnt 1995, this was just a few years ago.
Yeah though he would known about them, and easy enough to erase footage....unless of course they used a security service that had the footage stream to a secure location. Wonder if the family talked about it and he discouraged the family from "Wasting money" on it.
I was wondering that too. Or why weren’t they recording on their phones? 2016 wasn’t that long ago. This technology existed 6 years ago.
@@icegypsy99 4 years ago I made about 30k a year and set up a camera system for about $400.
You cant put a price on safety.
Although this would’ve only been helpful if Jeff was unaware of the cameras.
The very first thing Jeff said in his 911 call was ‘“someone” was attacked’. He didn’t say his mother-in-law, just her name afterwards. I could feel that disconnected in the call; like Melinda wasn’t family, just “someone”
I caught that too.
When I heard his call I actually thought that he was referring to a stranger and not his mother in law . If he didn't like her why didn't he moved out ? Probably they couldn't afford and as he isn't a MAN , he would not be able to provide.
Exactly but the father in law had the humanity inside to call him “my new son in law”
My six year old daughter has Down syndrome and is largely non-verbal. My heart breaks for Kyle. I guarantee that he understands more than what he is able to communicate. This is devastating on so many levels.
I am so mad. The fact that poor Kyle doesn't understand and might not ever understand that his mom, his favorite and closest person will never be back is so heartbreaking. But this POS murderer could get parole?!?! Hell no, he should never be free.
I'm the mother of a child with Down Syndrome as well as a substitute SpEd teacher. It's quite the opposite and even sadder. Down syndrome and non verbal does not mean he doesn't understand, the opposite is probably more likely. He fully understand and can't communicate his trauma and mourning because she was his primary caregiver.
I agree! He should never be out free.
Exactly! How can this horrible person get a chance for parole? Clearly premeditated! This was so sad.
Well said! Agreed! 🍻
I agree, I truly hope all of these comments are read out in his parole hearing so the board and he knows how society thinks of his crimes. He should never be able to be free.
It's really mind blowing how far someone's hate for another person can take them
yes
seriously. crazy
How can you hate a person, a mother, who has given you a place to stay so you can focus on saving money? I don't understanr his thinking
Watch out for the like button, Ballen fans!
Anyone can hate anyone...it's to what depths you take that hatred to that makes you evil. This twat...most definitely evil.
Judging by his appearance and Melinda being a school teacher I would bet that they had consistent conflict over Jeff being lazy, not cleaning up, not taking care of the baby, not treating her daughter well, etc. Which means he killed her because she expected him to be a good person, which he wasn't. And the weird stalking (shaking the glass door during the day, running away when noticed, nails in tires, the car alarm) is not to draw attention away from him, it was to gaslight Melinda/make her life miserable by keeping her up all night when she has to get up early for work. It's also odd that the girl he was about to marry didn't recognize him at the back door. The two times it happened when that girl was home alone...
we don't know that was him, right? Could've been a friend?
@@MrZergMan not in my opinion, what motivation would his friend have to solo terrorize his friends family? Not to mention willing to risk criminal charges just to stand there or awkwardly "try" to get in? Preceding incidents were terroristic preamble, not an attempt at a clever ruse.
There is only one issue I have with your take in Jeff. Things started happening the very next day he moved in. Could it be Melinda insisted Jeff and her daughter not sleep together til they got married? Even still....something doesn't add up. There is more to this. Possibly Melinda didn't want Jeff seeing her daughter. However after her daughter became pregnant she had a change of heart. She may have said something unkind about him which her daughter told him when she was infatuated with him and wanted to see him regardless of her mother's concern.
@@sherryditzler7908 Lol what à stort. There is no evidence for that. Jeff didn’t give a reason.
That's very suspicious, the only people who see those bad guys are Jeff and Melinda, if Jeff payed strangers to do that, I'm sure those strangers would've come out since they could've thought it was a harmless prank.
My theory is that Jeff and Melinda worked together, and that they had long term plan to get the life insurance money from both of the parents! Unlive the mother the dad will write a will for his daughter and grandkid and later unlive him.
It blows my mind at how frail so many minds are when it comes to the smallest amount of stress and how quickly they we will resort to murder. Its like empathy has been removed from that inner dialogue. Imagine how many killers you walk past in grocery stores, malls, etc that have never been caught.
It's utterly frightening to realize that truth!.
We had a neighbors in the town we lived in lil over 10 years ago, older gentleman & his young adult son. They were super kind to us & I was often downstairs visiting them w my niece as the son was artistic & liked to show us some of his work. The Dad woukd regal us with stories of his life back in the 1960's & 70's. The often let me come use their computer instead of walking all the way to use our library 's. Few years after we moved away, the son unalived his father. It was the most eerie thing seeing our neighbor online in a news article for slaying his dad. You just never know....God & his angels are so often shielding us from danger we are entirely clueless about❤🙏
Yeah, that is very scary. There was a story in my local town about a doctor that ordered a hit on another doctor that he perceived as obstructing his way to success in the medical field. I actually met this guy and his wife and we had lunch together back in 2016. I was so shocked to find out the truth about him! Luckily, the doctor he targeted got out harmless because he was warned beforehand by the hitman who had a change of heart.
@pureone8350 Wow omg!... So glad he found out & is ok, mercy!
1 in 25 have sociopathy. So for every 25 people you meet 1 of them may be a sociopath. 1 in 100 are psychopaths. Odds are you have met them and not known it. And men are six times as likely to have sociopathy. Chilling knowledge to be sure.
I would've put surveillance cameras up right away. I can't believe this dragged on for 2 years. Another thing, if you were a target of stalkers, tell your daughter and Jeff to stay somewhere safer.
@@darwinsom957 bro that was 5 years ago , there have been outdoor cameras for so long now lmfao
@@darwinsom957 "cameras not as common"
Bro you take as if they were in the 90's lol. This shit happened less than 5 years ago and you don't think there were affordable high quality surveillance cameras available?
Exactly. If I were Bruce, I'd have installed cameras all over the place. It could have saved Mel's life. The fact that it went on for 2 years is just wild. The car going off in the middle of the night whenever Jeff was home should have been a major clue. Poor little Kyle, though. Wherever he is, I hope he's found comfort and peace after all of this time.
@@LuisRamirez-ln3cj Bruce probably told his son-in-law to climb the ladders - him being young, a tradesman, and living there rent-free. Hell, Jeff probably "volunteered" and just never quite "got around to it."
I thought the same thing. Cameras duh wtf?
Whenever I hear Mr. Ballen describe someone being "adored", I already know that persons fate.
bro he always makes whats gonna happen in the story so obvious
Well it is true crime channel so I think it’s already pretty obvious someone is going to die
@@the6ix72 Just enjoy the ride dang. "Roller coasters are safe and thus not fun."...that's what that sentence sounds like.
@@YenSnipest nga what 😂 no way ur comparing horrible story telling to fucking roller coasters
SAME as “she lighted up a room.” They’re all DOOMED!!
Those 911 operators rude as hell
I really love how you tell stories. 50% of your script focuses on what the people are thinking as they go through each motion of the story, and I love it. That's how you get folks invested!
I agree and it gives a much more empathetic view to the story as it reminds us these are stories about humans and not just creepy/dark cases
How could you kill the woman who opened her home to you. Hope he's getting dealt with in prison
Kill? That SOB went completely crazy. This was overkill!!! Shot 3 times stabbed over 30 times!!! This Maniac was out to annihilated her! Then the audacity to carry her casket 😭 straight psychopath
@@Army4life82 yeah, we noticed the same thing you did.
@@catwoman2596 ugh what a horrible heartless person Jeffrey Scullin is!!
@@catwoman2596 Something is not right IMO maybe I'm reading to much into this, but I find, it incredibly odd that Anna didn't know some of Jeff's misdeeds & lies. Your future husband buys you, a new house yet you nevermind go see the house 🤔 You're lazy azz fiance doesn't work yet some how has money?? Saying that money came up missing when you're home alone. I'm not saying she had anything to do with her mom's death. That's all on Jeffrey but it's some strange things that makes absolutely no sense Imo
@@Army4life82 I think she might have been in on it or known something.
That last part about Kyle looking out the window, waiting for his mum, that hurt. I can't imagine that kind of pain in a child.
I know I just want to find that poor boy and hug him and let him know that he is still loved deeply! :(((
@@areyoujelton I have to agree. I have an autistic child and want to protect her from everything. Typical dad stuff. I'd never want that for her, it's just heart-wrenching.
That part of it is what makes me want some quality time alone with Jeff in a room... That disgusting monster 😡😡🤬🤬🤬
Well he`s not actually in pain at all he doesn`t even know that she`s dead
@@ericwilson9811 still man the boys world is gone have a little compassion
There is something about this dude telling you some of the most inhumane acts committed and yet seem so genuine and kind.
Brought me to tears on so many levels. I feel for the whole family. But Kyle...I grew working with amazing people like Kyle and I'm fuming... I thank you for sharing and mostly the hard work of you and yours to provide us with intelligent content. Xo
Imagine spending two years plotting and carrying out an alibi for a murder, only to forget to dispose of the weapon and clothing from your car... This whole story is bonkers.. That poor family. My heart goes out to everyone involved, especially Kyle.
What an idiot 🤣 they thought they wouldn't check everyone's cars 🤣🤣🤣
It is kinda interesting that he left the murder weapon to be found so easily. Did Jeff forget or was he framed? Now that's a question we all should ask.
He thought that he would never be looked at as a suspect he wasn't framed and he didn't forget he was a sick and twisted Coward!!!
@@awsomepossum210 He confessed.
@@awsomepossum210 he confessed
First person I suspected was Jeff, the son-in-law. All of this started the minute he moved in.
In the pic, at the beginning, I thought that dad looked really sus!
Exactly. I said either he has enemies or it’s him himself
Exactly what I thought too!
I had a feeling it was Jeff too, but i though the motivation would have been for the inheritance rather then hate.
I’m from Strongsville and he was my first guess too! Kyle wasn’t the only one with special needs in that family.. Anna also had a mental disorder, so I knew anybody that she was in a relationship with would also have mental issues…
Dude, you are the single most talented storyteller I have ever come across. The way that you are able to bring emotion into these stories despite doing them for years and years hundreds thousands of times it’s incredible I can’t even put on an act to sell a damn vacuum cleaner, you must actually enjoy doing this anyway, thank you for keeping me company for countless lonely nights.
So sad on so many levels. Baby with a killer as a father, a man that opened his home to his son-in-law only for it to destroy his life, mother of said child which I can’t imagine will ever be the same. And Kyle, oh man. That hurt. I hope Kyle and his dad become as close as he and his mom where, cause that is just heartbreaking.
The fact that those large adults could never seem to break a door down made it suspicious really quick.
i know right, if they really wanted to get in they would have used something to break the glass.
It was intentional, a strong show of force but never actually enough to fully break in. All part of his alibi building, that's why they ran when confronted or when "caught".
For real... it wasn’t someone trying to really get in, it was just a scare tactic, just to put the family more on edge. God! I hope Jeff gets what is coming to him in prison... he’s not the kinda person that’ll survive in that type of environment, every hardened guy in there... I hope they smile an look at him like fresh meat! An then the painful stuff starts happening to him. Cause I know if that was my mom... he wouldn’t have made it to prison.. I would’ve taken him out! I’d be soo blind by fury... that not to long after I found out... he’d be dead.
Yeah, didn't flag as quick for me tho', as I had thought that maybe they were trying to lure him out, and attack him as group, I don't suppose there's owt worse than being suckered with that one, you turn a corner and there's 4 or 5 peeps waitin' for ya with God-knows-what... squeaky-bum time, lol.
It’s possible they were just trying to rationalize the situation. Obvious to us now that they weren’t there to break in just “set the scene” for this elaborate murder that makes even less scenes. I can’t accept that there wasn’t something else going on that we will never know unless Jeff tells us what was really going on. Even then could you believe him if he did. We’ll never know
I can’t imagine what Kyle was going through, I just feel so bad for him.
Oh well who cares I don't.
Names keep clashing in my brains is Kyle the mentally disabled child? Or the son in law?
@@ItsMikky he is a mentally and physically disabled child, now the part about step son it’s also kind of confusing for me
@@ItsMikky Kyle is the guy that shot them 3 white people and the news kept saying he shot 3 blacks? He killed a pedo and a women beater but the media said they were heros and black ????
@@ItsMikky Kyle is the son with down syndrome. The son of Melinda, the murder victim. Jeff is the murderer.
The part about Kyle made me cry, and my cat Simba sensed my distress. He came running and rubbed against my face to dry my tears and purred in my ear. He is such a good boy! I thought reading this would cheer some of you up.
My boy cat is called Simba too.
Did they ever question the daughter? Considering she had seen the people on the property whilst being in the presence of Jeff and also seeing twice someone and on a second occasion 2 people trying to break in? Did the parents ever witness any strangers on the property? Or was it just the daughter and son in law?
It's strange. She saw the group of people, she saw the person in the window and didn't recognize him as her boyfriend? There's more to this story.
Exactly! Maybe there was no people but them trying to led the police to think that a stranger committed the crime!
My thought too. could have been a plot.
I can only imagine the guilt her daughter feels for bringing such evil in their home. RIP
What confuses me is why this family never invested in security cameras... After several incidents you think you would take advantage of beefing up your home security...
@@90210bryan my thoughts exactly I’d get cctv all around the house after the first two incidents knowing it’s connected
It's a lesson for all young women. Too desperate and trusting to acknowledge red flags.
I was waiting on mr ballen to say they invest on cameras. I would like put camera in the background. And also begin to imagine what I could do to the backyard to prevent those people. Like how to trap the mouse kid of thing. But cameras on the inside.
But mr ballen mentioned dog and that for my understanding was a new thing.
But I would definitely suspect something wrong because it happens after this guy moves in. Not suspected that he is doing it intentionally but like have he some people that wants to hurt him. And I find it very brave for people that still leave in the house even after all of this. But I gets many reasons are money 💰 You can not just buy new house. But I would be so scare of leaving there
@@greghii8093 nah hold men accountable. 95% of these stories are about men doing messed up sh*t. Can’t blame it on women when there’s literally patterns.
That's unbelievably sad that Jeff left such a vulnerable boy with his mother who was dying on the kitchen floor. I came to tears whenever you said that he waits for his mom to come eat with them because he didn't understand his mom was dead. What a sick and twisted individual Jeff is, especially since he gave no motive for his actions.
Spoilers
Evil ...
So evil
Taylor Pridmore, the friend that Mr. B spoke with said Jeff had hated Melinda from the beginning, but apparently didn't elaborate on the statement. WHY did he hate his soon to be mother in law? It would seem that everyone else loved the woman, so what did Jeff hate about her? especially enough to want her dead and plan a cold blooded murder for years.
@Machine Gun Energy Ikr. When Ballen said "with possibility of parole" me and my family were like ???
It hit me really hard emotionally as well. That’s beyond selfish on Jeff’s end
This story really broke my heart. I can't fathom the amount of pain the family must have endured. The husband, daughter, Kyle, and, of course, Melinda. As someone who worked closely with people with Down's syndrome, this is even more painful to hear.
So sad for everyone in the family. I feel for Kyle and the baby daughter. Imagine growing up to find out your dad killed your grandma and is now in jail for life... Heartbreaking! The whole story is so tragic.
My suspicions were up when in the telling of the story, Ballen said something along the lines of it took Jeff a couple of MONTHS to move in. Like what, why? They lived apart yes, but only across town from each other. Maybe i'm reading too much into that bit of information but as someone who has moved a lot in her life, I can get that shiz done in like 4 weeks, maybe 6 max if delayed somehow. I recently moved an hour from my home to another and it took 4 weeks and that was my own house full of all my stuff (i lived alone), whereas Jeff lived with his parents so how much stuff could he have had, really? What was he really doing in that time? I thought it was odd that his partner is pregnant and Jeff takes months to sort himself out to move in.
Further, I can't imagine being so full of hate that Jeff would date the person's daughter just so that he could eventually find himself living in the person's house (or associated with them closely in some other way) and then actually plan to kill them. He must be so hateful and awful. It is so sad that the family didn't even get a reason for the killing or an apology from Jeff. Just a "I f'd your life up, left a disabled child without a parent, and now i'm leaving my own daughter to grow up without a dad and her mother to raise her alone but i don't care to even say sorry, i owe no one anything". All implied by saying nothing. What a psychopath. A selfish, heartless, scumbag. Disgusting.
My heart goes out to the family, I hope you can find peace
@love_dove_ Your suspicions were up because you're paranoid, nothing else. It's normal for delays when moving in somewhere.
@@sam-ht6qvI’m hardly paranoid. Why even defend a bad guy
@@love_dove_ Not Jeff, but any guy that literally does something different and then a woman calls him a bad guy💀
I figured he had a reason for dragging his feet. He doesn’t look too bright, I suspect he had mommy issues & was jealous of the relationship she had with her disabled child.
@@sam-ht6qv Paranoia can keep one alive and the only reason to defend this POS is if you aren't much better.
The most heartbreaking part of this for me is poor Kyle. My Uncle has an Intellectual disability and when my grandfather, his dad, passed away it took us literally years until he understood he was never coming home. It was so confusing for him and an open wound for us every time he would ask. I feel for them and hope they are all okay.
I understand your pain. It was like that with my grandfather, who suffered from Alzheimer's. When my mother died he would ask about his daughter and they would tell him that she died and would obviously get really emotional and upset only to forget and then he would ask about her again. This happened too many times and the emotional damage and distress it caused to my grandfather and anyone who broke the news to him that we decided to just not remind him and to say she was fine. The entire thing was, and still is, incredibly heartbreaking.
I do hope that you and your family have been able to start healing and are able to look back on all of the memories you have of your grandfather and take solace in the happy times
@@crafty_j957 that is heartbreaking
@@crafty_j957 i work in a nursing home with a lot of the residents having dementia/alzheimers. one woman always tries to steal decorations for people who are deceased. we know they’re gone, but she doesn’t. its very sad.
@@ianjakob2775 that is incredibly sweet and also very sad. My heart always goes out to the person with the illness and also their friends, family and the people who look after them. My sister is a nurse who works in a critical care nursing home and some of the stories she tells are both heart breaking and rage inducing. The lack of care and kindness from some of the staff is what's rage inducing; plus just how some of the residents are being taken advantage of by family because of their weakened state of body and/or mind
That’s awful, I’m sorry. Trying to help my grandfather remember where he is and that he’s safe with loved ones, I am emotional support for my mom as she watched her father drift away (very rapidly now) mentally, my kids stepping up and being amazing people by being patient and care for him as well as they also watch their great-gpa lose grip on reality… the only positive is that he doesn’t remember that his wife of 65 years has passed. He looks at pictures of her and says “that is my beautiful angel”. He usually thinks she’s just in another room. This is so heartbreaking, but it’s better than the alternative of him reliving the pain and loss every 5 mins-hour/daily and then asking again where she is as he dries his tears and the confusion enters his face again. Trust me, no matter how you try to soften the news, when someone has dementia or Alzheimer’s their mind is always in a state of just existing in the moment and afraid because they are so confused about where they are and who you are. He gets so frightened and frustrated when he realizes he has no idea why he woke up in “someone else’s bedroom” or why he isn’t in Hawaii in HIS home. He’s lived with us 7 years and his clear memories are those of when he was a child growing up in Hawaii or fighting in WW2. We label everything and leave notes. We have pictures labeled with the names of my kids and I.
This is why you need security cameras. Plus they should have taken pictures whenever they were visited.
Security cameras.. yes I agree. I dont know why they didnt. But then again , without them knowing that Jeff was behind it, He probably would have done something to the cameras to avoid detection. This story breaks my heart on so many levels :'(
Should have just emptied a clip through the window...fk photos just dump him on the ground
That doesn’t sound like a reasonable use of deadly force. You’d most likely end up in jail.
I know!...happening for months and not once did they think "let's set up security cameras for our safety."
@@commander31able60 same people being trying to break in for multiple years, women home alone w her baby doesn't know what the intruders will do. Bro it's America idk the law their but u guys always bang on oh I need my gun for protection, if u can't use it on people breaking into ur house when u dunno their intent then wtf is it for. That's retarded but then its America so who knows
One of the grossest things is cops saying there’s nothing they can do….so instead of patrolling or staying in near the area just in case, forany amount of time they just leave, and let crimes happen while they lock up and extort innocent civilians that didn’t call them for help or want their presence.
You told this in such a manner that I was never certain it was the story that I had already heard elsewhere. I suspected it early on, but was it not confirmed until the very end. Excellent story telling.
I can't believe that anyone as evil as Jeff would EVER be eligible for parole.
The downside of a plea bargain. The family was saved the horror of a trial, but the scumbag can hold out the hope of someday breathing free air.
He should never get out. What a p.o.s this guy is....!
He looks like the type that would be a p**** in jail and real good too then get out and kill someone 30 years later
I’m hoping that any parole board would see the brutality of his actions and tell him HELL NO!
Eligible. That means they'll have one of those parole hearings or whatever they are called. And I'm completely certain the family will be right there to remind everyone what a horrible person he is and his parole will be denied, until the next parole hearing where this will happen again.
I'm not sure why these people did not do anything to protect themselves. Cameras, a personal home weapon, home safety plans , outside lights and a room that can safely hold you until help arrives.
I know. Not everybody is comfortable with guns, but security cameras, anything? My friend Roxy installed a panick room in her house. It's safe and when locked, nobody can get in. She gkeeps some
MRE's, a gun, and emergency supplies.. but anything is better than nothing.
It would not have mattered what they did - it was a family member, who they would not have suspected who did it.
@@GlennaVan would have found out real quick if they slung some buckshot through the door when they were trying to break in. May or may not be legal to prevent breaking and entering with lethal force as it depends on the state but regardless they would have found out who was messing with them real quick.
@@josephvanas6352 Truth!!!
Kinda hard when it was a inside job
❤ I just found this channel. I've only seen a few videos so far, but what they've done for me is to make me more aware! As women, we have stay diligent & observant about our surroundings, etc. Thank you, Mr Ballen ❤
The end just breaks my heart. Poor Kyle.
I imagine that when Mr. Ballen first met his wife he asked her if she was a fan of the strange, dark, and mysterious told in story format. Clearly she said yes and the rest is history.
Imagine that if it is real 🤣
@leanna crisp haha
Jeff: Carefully constructs a narrative and alibi for months
Also Jeff: Leaves murder weapons in his own car
Such a basic mistake
Always have a plan to dispose of the evidence after the deed is done, including the murder weapon
🤣🤣🤣right.. and leaves a living witness
Its always the stupid mistakes that trips them up
So he left the clothes and weapons in his car for days and even took them to the funeral?
Omg, this is so horribly heartbreaking. Poor Kyle. My brother has Down syndrome and I can’t even imagine the confusion and pain Kyle feels at the absence of his mother. I also have a cousin who is mentally disabled and his mom passed away and it’s taken him months to try to understand that his mom is gone. 💔
The way you tell the stories is great love all the details
I honestly wouldn’t listen to this story if you didn’t narrate it. You’re the best storyteller ever.
Poor little Kyle, he doesn’t deserve this terrible thing
NONE of them did.
I agree
Two of my kids are developmentally disabled and I cannot even imagine something like this. I mean, it is horrible enough for the adults and stuff, but what Kyle is going through just adds a whole new level to the whole thing. My heart goes out to all of them, but especially him.
Kyle doesn't know
@@ashdobbs7492 Scotty doesn't know.
I don't usually cry at murder cases but it's just the fact how Kyle doesn't understand how his mother is dead it's really sad to know that a kid doesn't know that he'll never see his mother again...❤️
Omg I accidentally disliked it cause of my fat fingers and cause my eyes are watering
In a way it's bittersweet, because he doesn't have to feel the pain of knowing she is gone forever
@@silvermoons7539 that's not true at all. I'm the mother of a child with DS as well as a former SpEd teacher. Non verbal + DS does NOT mean he can't understand, it's actually worse than that. No doubt he FULLY understands, but being non verbal and his closest caregiver gone he can't communicate his trauma or pain. Be assured this will affect him for the rest of his life.
@@HellenaHanbasquet thanks for letting me know. I don't know much about people with DS so thank you
I'm tearing-up myself and I almost never cry short of losing a close friend or relative... The part about Kyle at the end really got to me, though 🥺
this is horrific. How can you hate someone so much? This is crazy
I love your stories! I reside in Ohio.
She was my teacher in 6th grade. When I was in 7th grade we got the news of her dying and it was the worst feeling ever. Thanks for telling this story!
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@@tw1stedgrav1ty7 gey
Oh my gosh. So sad!
So sad😭
Was she really or are you lying your ass off?
The whole story is heart breaking but hearing that the little boy still waits for his mom to show up was an extra blow to the feelings ..That poor family.
Yeah, kinda like Hachi...
Kills my soul
Too sad 😔
so tragic.....
My son is on the spectrum, and Non-verbal, I never used to wear my seatbelt or be so concerned about my health and diet ,but I worry about my son, what he would do without me. I know I am his world, and I couldn't imagine how hard it would be on him, my heart breaks for Kyle, I hope he still feels her presence, and Love and I pray he's at peace and happy.
These stories are very eerie, especially when you're watching them, quietly in the dark. And the background music completely intensity the suspense of the story.
my heart goes out to kyle.. im in literal tears for him. i cant imagine putting someone through that, especially when they dont fully understand the situation. its so so heartbreaking..
It takes a POS to savagely murder a woman after she’s opened her home to you, but leaving her with her developmentally disabled son is on a whole other level. The cruelty toward both mom and son is astonishing.
I mean you never know. Stories can flip in the most unexpected ways. She could have been super passive aggressive/psychologically abusive or worse behind closed doors. Not to ever condone what he did but that's also a possibility
@@lovely1641 it isn't like he snapped and lashed out, he planned this for years, some people are just shit, he could've left anytime
Well said.
I'm going to sound like a total jerk but are we sure her daughter was completely innocent in all this? The only people who saw the supposed intruders was her and hubby. If her hubby was the fake intruder jimmying the door how did she not recognize him?
@@lovely1641 none of that would matter. Although, it’s unlikely considering the level of planning he put in to it. Also, if that were the case, why traumatize the son by leaving him there for hours?
The fact that he was willing to even hurt his fiance and his own child, putting them through 2 years of terror before he murdered her is insane to me. The brutality in his actions is unimaginable. Someone that calculating and cold blooded should never have the chance to get out of prison! This is premeditation on a whole other level!
Thank god there is someone in the comments who understands the one most important point in this story. The absolute evil of this loser who selfishly caused this nightmare to happen. I would have to say that ol Jeffy boy doesn't deserve to breath anymore.
I thought that same thing, what a POS he is. I feel sorry for the family, I am sure the daughter felt like shit.
He’s a psychopath.
I hope someone "inside" takes "care" of him so he never gets out unless it's in a body bag. What a huge piece of shite!
Umm, he killed his mother in law, not his fiancé
Heartbreaking story. Well told!
I feel so so sorry for Jeff’s daughter. Having a father like that. Rough.
That last detail about Kyle at the restaurant really got me. This is a very sad story and I hope this family can find some peace.
Agree, that part is the most heartbreaking 💔
Got me too
He left out tail wagging...
Yes. Its very sad and heartbreaking.
When he said that it kinda haunted me.
I’m baffled they didn’t put up security cameras - it happened for 2 years and yet they didn’t think of that?? That would have caught Jeff. I feel so sorry for the family and it’s scary how someone you think you know would do something like this to you... sickening!!
I agree. I guess I am paranoid, but if weird stuff started happening at my home after a new person had moved in, I would immediately start thinking something was up.
I guess Jeff voted the idea of security cameras down
jeff wouldve known and gotten around them somehow
Nah, jeff would then kill her sooner, before they install any cameras. And he could do it in many ways, eg just spill some oil around her room or kitchen and she falls and breaks her bones. Then one day mix something suspicious in her drink so she falls ill, I mean keep doing this and she dies eventually.
@@kittuojha 5 raw kidney beans is enough to kill a person.
Thank you for the heads up ........now lets watch the video!
why would they not put a few cameras out? seriously. After years of harrasment and couldn't be bothered to shell out for a 100 dollar camera.
It makes me angry that people like this even get a chance of parole.
What's parole
@@Bomba_drastic Being released from prison early to try to live a better life due to good behavior. I highly doubt he will ever get it though.
@@Bomba_drastic parole: hope society put in the fact that a born POS will ever again be able to live among them free.
@@minuette1752 not really the whole definition
@@Bomba_drastic Parole is a concept of letting the prisoner out of prison to live in society HOWEVER under heavy supervision from the deputy
Were the Strongsville police unaware of the existence of security cameras ? The only suggestion they had for the family was ,”Call us back if they show up again” ? Did no one in the family realize EVERY square foot in the country is watched by a security camera except THEIR house? Was Jeff ever AGAINST buying security cameras? If I saw a group of strangers just standing in my back yard and staring at me ONE TIME, I’d have my entire yard booby trapped like bloody Vietnam and cameras filming from every possible angle by the next morning! 😂
Omg you made me 🤣
Bro, sit this one out 🤦♂️
Scooby-Doo traps
Could take pic with phone or video. Also why did every member that could get armed and trained. To protect there own selves. Police clearly were not going to do nothing until after the damage is done. I truly blame all involved.
@@brwils3378 You really want to give an infant and a person with Down's Syndrome a gun?
I love listening to your stories. I like the way you tell him you keep my attention. Had to subscribe. Thank you.
This is truly heart-rending. Evil people doing evil.
I feel SO bad for Kyle. He lost his most important person. That's tragic enough, but being mentally disabled as he was, the impact of losing his mom must be unfathomable. So sad...
Also, him having issues verbalizing his thoughts and emotions.
@@R24579D3541 what an unfathomable hell. what could a loving god do to make up for something like that?
There is no impact. He doesn't even realize she's gone....
is kyle is considered disabled, i sure fell sympathy cause i too is disabled cause of my asd.
I hate to compare humans to dogs and I am no way saying people with disabilities are like dogs, but if you ever hear those stories about dogs losing their owners and they are just waiting for them to come back. This is kind of the same ordeal. It's heartbreaking because they can't process that their loved one is gone and that they will never see them again.
What an evil human. It just goes to show you you never know someone. My sweet girl was murdered by her boyfriend, along with her nephew. He was always nice and polite to me, and was welcomed in my home. I never in a million years thought he would kill her. He will of course spend the rest of his life in jail, but that is no comfort for those two not being here.
Sorry for your loss. Stay strong.
I’m sorry to hear that, RIP to your daughter & nephew. I can’t imagine that type of horror
My god I am so so so sorry. I cannot imagine the strength you have. 🙏🏻
I don't know what to say... My heart goes out to you and I hope that you're keeping all the memories of your girl alive in your heart.
I hope they rest in peace.. stay strong
Your sound effects and pictures DEFINITELY make me feel like I'm IN the story!!
Damn that. Cameras are your friend. I now have 4 outside and 2 inside. My neighbors have them as well now
I can't believe they didn't install camera's around the home, when all this harassment started.
Some people have soo much hate. It's insane.
Yeah, I wondered why they didn't get cameras too.
The cameras wouldnt have helped if Jeff knew about them..
Cameras, motion activated lights/cameras, maybe pick up a firearm and train with it. I'm sorry but I would of dropped a mother F'er that's been stalking and terrifying my family clearly couldn't count on the police. Nothin against police but damn that department could of done more
@@jason2014 Yes but it may have deterred him from committing the crime.
@@MR.GRIMM760 I’m sure they tried whatever they could.
Everyone that see’s this, best wishes.. 2022! Starting New Year right, watching the strange dark and mysterious delivered in story format. Best story teller ever.. John Ballen!💯.
I just saw how many people seen my comment..Thank you all.!
Thanks Jeff mate same to you buddy 🤟
True man
Happy New Year to you as well!! Thanks for all the awesome videos!!😀😀😀
Dude this is depressing AF listening to this story
Best wishes to you as well in 2022.
WOW! That’s what you get for being kind! Was not expecting that ending!
Great story telling and very easy on the eyes....very easy
The guy is eligible for parole in 33 years?! He’ll only be in his late 50’s. If ever there was a premeditated murder, this is it. He should have gotten life without parole at a minimum.
Eligible for parole does not gets parole. The family will be there to protest.
It would be an asshole of a judge to approve his request for parole after they receive the info of the case. I think he'll rot in there or get shanked there before then.
Crimes of passion do not warrant life without or death.
@@carlovincetti4538 This obviously was not a crime of passion the guy had been building an alibi for two years. He should've already been hung in front of the courthouse like in the good old days. Cowardly bastards like Jeff would cease commiting these murders if they were able to see what happens to convicted premeditated murderers. The murder rate has skyrocketed since we did away with public executions.
That is for people who sell or use drugs.
"Someone in this photo has an EVIL SECRET"
Me: *looking straight at the baby*
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dirty D I A P E R
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This dude doesn't skip a beat. Great story teller.
I don't understand why homes in US and Europe are so easy to break. Only glass windows , thats very surprising.
Opportunity for parole?!?! This is possibly one of the most premeditated murders ever in history and this guy gets parole. This is where you understand a vigilante
Well, he took a plea, so no chair.
@@GrammarSplaining It's 2022, their wouldn't be a chair even if he got death.
I totally agree when a person takes a life they should have to give their life in prison with a sentence of no possibility of parole.
Cases of escalating harassment and criminality like this perfectly illustrate why it should be legal to booby trap your own property. You wouldn't want innocent people to be hurt by your booby traps, but if you have signs posted saying "no trespassing", or a fence enclosing your property, it should be legal.
You should hear how lenient our system is in the U.K.! You’d be as disgusted as I am, sometimes just a handful of years, the sentences can be halved & then get out early - for-good behaviour! Sickening especially as we obviously don’t have the right to bear arms either.
Teared up at the end when he's talking about Kyle waiting for his Mother. Just heartbreaking
I can't see putting him through that for years. A good therapist could help break the news to him
To think that Kyle probably witnessed this horrendous act on his mom is truly heartbreaking
Same
This is so tragic for so many reasons, but I cant imagine how the daughter must feel, knowing her fiance murdered her mother.
The fact that they never thought to record it is insane.
That ending has me in tears. My youngest son is autistic, non verbal, and cognitively disabled. He is the light of my life, he lights up when he sees me when I pick him up from school. My heart just breaks for Kyle. What an absolutely senseless crime.
It broke my heart too. My 35 year old son has Down's syndrome, and is the light of my life. He is non verbal too, and his favourite treat is going out to lunch or dinner. My heart goes out to the family.
You both are great people
yes, boys love their mamas. That is heartbreaking!
It's so heartbreaking to know that Kyle doesn't understand that his Mom is gone. It sucks that the baby girl will grow up knowing that her Dad took her Gramma's life. What a senseless crime. So very sad for the family.
I live fairly close to Strongsville, but don't remember hearing about this. Of course in 2017 I'd had some major health problems, (with major medical bills) and had canceled my newspaper and cable.
Thanks mate.
I’m actually surprised the police didn’t advise them to put up surveillance cameras after so many calls. In my country we even have police-certified CCTVs. Police can’t be that helpless and wait for someone to be killed.
Well they may have. If you ever do some independent research on these stories, you will find there are a lot of details left out, I assume for the sake of the telling.
Welcome to America. The police aren’t here to help anyone. They’re here to clean up after it’s already happened
I can't believe they didn't take it upon themselves to get a camera. This was 2016. Some people just have that "we live in a nice neighborhood" mentality and never take precautionary steps to help insure their safety.
@@bradsanders407 cctv dosent stop crime it just records it lol
@@chadking8767 really? They don't? I thought it started shooting at the perp and then sent in robots to detain the scumbag. Imagine my disappointment if my camera ever caught someone breaking into my car. Geesh I really got egg on my face. Thanks for pointing that out for me. Hey idiot, if they had gotten a camera they would have known it was the boyfriend and they could have taken appropriate steps from there.
Jeff must have spent his wedding money on paying strangers to harrass the family. What a psycho and even worse after the family was so generous to him. How anyone could be so evil is mind blowing.
One word: psychopath or whatever they're calling them these days.
I enjoy your channel. Thanks for doing it.
What a tragic story, my condolences to their family.
Months upon months of brazen stalking and attempted break-ins, no one in that family thought about getting security cameras and measures installed? Seriously?
EXACTLY!
Yes or even have a clue about it. Youd think after he moved in it was suspect.
Exactly!! Also, the police didn’t think to dust for fingerprints when the people were trying the door?? They never thought to have police watching undercover?? The family members also had direct views of the people trying to break in, they couldn’t do a sketch? The whole thing is weird
That's what I thought
I wonder if somehow Jeff kept them from getting security cameras. Like talking about how people could hack them or something. Just odd they didn't add them after the first couple of issues. Maybe he constantly discussed how people can hack the cameras and spy on the baby. I don't know, just seems super weird.
My heart broke at the end hearing about how Kyle doesn't understand that his mother is gone and that he always looks out the window for his mother when he goes out to eat which is something he loves to do, I pray for their family and I hope they are able to find happiness and peace after that horrible tragedy and sick and pure evil act from a something that I dont think can be considered human
Seeing the son in so much pain because he doesn't understand where his mother is would make it doubly painful for the surviving family members.
Same, it hit me hard in the feels , makes me want to slap jeffs face so hard he will look like a picasso artwork
Same
YEP, NOT human, phycopaths/sociopaths are absolutely NOT humans, no emotions or any empathy for people with human emotion!!!
I’ve been sick for two nights straight and I’ve literally binge watched your videos all night both nights
I watched statements made by the family members (both daughters and the father) to the judge at sentencing for Jeff. They were very dignified and his ex-fiancée, Anna, called him manipulative and a sociopath who would kill again. He certainly played a lot of mind games with her family. Apparently, Jeff’s family wasn’t involved with the baby or upcoming marriage at all because they didn’t like Anna’s parents (and family, I assume) which might be indicative of Jeff’s own attitude and behaviour. 30 years in prison before parole can be considered (they always find ways to reduce this) only puts him at 50 years of age which would allow him to get involved with other innocent women and likely use them and possibly harm them. I hope he never gets out of prison after taking Melinda away from Kyle who can’t understand why his mom isn’t around. What kind of selfish, sick person does that out of selfishness? A sociopath. I hope Kyle finds a way to move forward without his wonderful mom. 😢
Jeff’s parents never said they don’t like Mel or Bruce. He made all that up to keep them apart so he could continue with his lies and manipulation tactics. His mother said she knew nothing about supposedly having to meet up at Applebees to give Mel money for Jeff and Anna’s wedding. He made all of that up, too.
You're like that dude everyone wants as a friend. Youve got that universally chill guy vibe. Keep on killing it man!
Thanks man!
He does seem like we could chew khat and hang out with
@@MrBallen totally awesome way to spend the first days of the new year! (Sadly it was a very sad, dark and mysterious way). You have an amazing ability!! Keep doing your thing!!
Plus, thank you for your service! My grandfather was in WWII, my great uncle was in Vietnam and I have a very close friend stationed in the Carolinas. He’s a Sergeant in the Air Force and he enjoys watching your videos too! 🇺🇸
@JUMATRON 20 of all the drugs, Khat? Really? Going for some blackhawk down vibes? Way better drugs to chill out with than amphetamines!
A drink or three, joint or even just a coffee and chat. Khat, really?
That escalated quickly
I just want to say that this form of commentary where you’re not using a script is so refreshing. The way you tell the story feels like my friend is telling me the story just naturally on a Friday night lol it’s great!
And it feels like he was there ! Very talented man 😍
He uses a bullet point type script. He's just so good that you can't tell.
@@lucybullwhip8103 that’s what I mean, it’s so seamless you can’t even tell. It’s like he’s telling you a story that literally happened to him, super talented!
He says he practices stories ahead of time with his wife.
@@lynpatricia6854 the dedication shows ✨
I did not see that coming 😲What an evil evil, horrible person, I am speechless 💔
Ure a awsome story teller of truth😊❤😊,though these are sad true storys
They never considered getting a gun or security cameras? Also, in case this needs to be worked out for anyone, when you invite new people to live in your house and suddenly strange things start happening, generally suspect the new people in the house are responsible or at least connected. Doesn't matter who they are.
Very good point.
@@angelcitystudio Booby trap those flowers
16:55 they even did have a gun so he shot Melinda after he had stabbed her.
If the daughter had a gun, she could’ve stopped one of the people that tried to get into the back door. It would’ve been ironic if she found her soon to be husband trying to get in.
@@marypoppins6747 I meant for when people were clearly trying to break in way before anyone was killed
This makes me so sad..poor Kyle..Also it's beyond me that, why didnt they get any security cameras after being harrassed for over two years?
Or bought a gun.
I was thinking about that as well. While I'm sure Jeff would've disabled them or gotten around them, it would've at least been some sort of defense..
I bet he was probably always arguing against the idea though. It's amazing how manipulative he was.
I was thinking the same thing🤷♂️
Or have cops stay and watch the house. I felt so bad hearing he watches for his mom to come to eat :/ they should bring a picture for her seat to help him.
@@kaseysewick1691 true, but this was happening every 2-6 or so months so it’d be hard to predict when they would show up next
I feel so so bad for this family. This woman sounded like a beautiful wonderful soul. Evilness hates the goodness people 😥😥😥😥😥
This one got to me. My son also has down syndrome and is non-verbal and I am his favorite and closest person on earth. Kyle not knowing why his mom isn't coming to dinner and not understanding just broke my heart. That is something I constantly worry about with my son when I or my husband pass. He wont understand. I hope that guy never gets out.
I'm in your boat too, Mama, and went from doing my nails to full-on ugly crying. F@ck Jeff.