Story & Reaction Compilation - The April 29th, 2024 Session
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In the story where dad and sis are going to the sleepover instead of the graduation, Op is 18 a highschool senior and sister is 16 about a sophomore. That means they go to the same school, sister knew when the graduation was and so did the parents cause they got an email letting them know. Dad loves or cares more for the little sister even when hurting his relationship with the older daughter.
The parents know too. She said the info was emailed them before she got the tickets. Also, unless the parents are just not active AT ALL in their child's education, the school typically keeps the parents in the loop about graduation plans because they have to take time off work, plan for childcare if their kids are too young to attend, sort out family coming in if thats something they want to do, etc. I've graduated and worked in high schools within the last 10 years and all of the schools let the family know at least a month prior to the actual date
The story with the car: Since it was almost exactly one year later, I wonder if she was pulling out the info to renew the registration and that's when she found it? 🤷♀️
10:02 no! You actually win some points! Grey’s Anatomy is it!!❤😂 and I thought of Arizona Robbins too from Grey’s Anatomy. She’s actually one of my favorite characters. Despise her cheating on her wife., I was always team, Arizona!❤😂
46:17 as a younger sibling I would have moved heaven and hell to attend my brother’s graduation. Inferiority complex be damned he wasn’t valedictorian but he did graduate with honors and I dropped out of high school. I knew how hard he worked for it and I wanted to be there to support him and I think that’s the reasonable thing to do
She wants it all to be her responsibility… or she wants ONE thing she owns. I’ve lived that and it sucks when everything else means your spouse owns everything and you own nothing. Not sure if this is what’s happened but it is important to me to own things even if it’s paid for as a gift and it needs to be approved.
But it was all in her name, he payed fot it in installments instad ogólne pay bc when getting this gift, bc it was decided it was a gift, he thought it would be better for fis finances to pay in parts. She got gift in her name, and he is still paying. I understand that problem is if something would happened shevwould stay with payments, and it is more about it. But I also can see that he didn't thought that something would happen yes this part is on him, in this context it is asshoke move bc she didn't really own it bc it was still paid for, but also it is something to talk about, why you decided to not pay in full, etc , not come to home trwa papers and leave and ignore you partner of few years. I think both suck here.
The story about the car, I don't think we should rule out past trauma. Having been financially abused in the past doesn't necessarily mean you won't allow people to buy you gifts at all. You may be apprehensive about it or only accept it from people you trust completely.
She was apprehensive but agreed to it under the condition that he paid in full. He agreed and then went against that. If she has been financially abused then I can see where this might feel like a betrayal of trust and why it would cause her anxiety. She might be worrying that he kept it secret because he wants to have something to hold over and control her with if they get in a fight or break up. Obviously if he wanted to he could still hold it against her but if it's paid and the title is hers he can't get the law involved.
Not saying her actions are rational, she does need some help to deal with whatever is going on inside her head (borrowing your bfs car for a week shouldn't cause a meltdown) but as someone who has been in abusive relationships I can understand why she would feel betrayed or triggered by him going back on their deal like that. Knowing how important it was to her I don't think he should have done that, if he wasn't going to stick to the deal that he proposed in the first place then he should have worked something else out with her. I don't think he's an asshole, I just think that was a bad idea
So on the not being allowed to stay in the BF’s mom’s house: I didn’t know I wasn’t allowed to sleep with my now husband in the house. We slept in the camper outside always. When we finally slept in the house (surprise visit after a private marriage ceremony) my NEPHEW asked if ww were married I never knew this but knew it wasn’t okay. Now I upset my MIL always wanting to sleep in the camper because I liked the space from everyone but now I’m made to feel guilty for wanting the set up we had before we got married. I’d never have been okay with this in the advanced and I’d have had a much better relationship with my MIL after years of not knowing and getting confused about things.
I think Dusty was waaay too harsh on the OP who didn't want to take separate rooms with her BF 😂, but I agree that she definitely should have talked to him before confronting his mom. That was overstepping for sure.
Ya'll Navy Thunder is waaaaayy too cute for the camera and none of you have enough consideration for my ovaries, or for the pestering I'm about to subject my husband to (just kidding, I'll be a mature adult, probably). 😂
Also not joking, your mock update to Story # I lost count with the scandalously left out stuck up brother's girlfriend of three months sounded so realistic to me that I thought it was serious at first. 😂
"I paid for this vacation so I get to decide that you can only have sex during daytime" how can this be considered a normal stance to have?
For the lake people story -- NTA. You guys are being way too judgemental of OP and her hubby. They were repeatedly stuck in an uncomfortable situation with people who didn't expect their reasonable boundaries.
They tried the more indirect route several times until finally they were more blunt with their words. I think most people, when put into such a situation, would react similarly and frankly, they could have been a lot harsher than they were.
I say they were NTA, but at most, they were ascon 4. 😅
My husbands family was against us sharing a he'd in the beginning 😂 we here dating but I was also pregnant with his kid and we lived together but if we visited them we had to sleep in different beds
At the point where you're *pregnant* it's hard to see what they're so scared of 🤣🤣
@kmarshallx3 right the sin was already done 😂 they are old school Christians fun enough he proposed on our sons 1 bday and 5 months later I was pregnant again we got hitched in our living room while I was 7.5 months pregnant by my mom who's was married to my bio mom for 17 years and now goes with ways 😂😂😂
On the OP not wanting to sleep in separate rooms: she probably should've talked to her partner before saying anything to his mom so they could be a united front, but I absolutely disagree with the idea she should've sucked it up and gone on the trip. When you offer to bring somebody on a trip, you don't get to dangle the fact you're paying for it with a condition like controlling where you sleep. It's not old fashioned, it's overstepping and a refusal to see your child as an adult. I've seen others say this so apologies for repeating points being made, but I had this happen to me when I was engaged as a young adult and trust me, my ex-in-laws were only ever looking to control us under the guise of being "old fashioned".
On the story about the car ownership. OP lied. He made a deal with his partner and lied about it right out of the gate. He is wrong for that. She has every right to not only go thru her own paper work on her car but to also be mad when she see she’s been lied to. OP has the full story as to why she has sensitivities to this. He might be a trustworthy partner otherwise and only crossed the line with this but again she still has a right to be mad. It seems to me she’s trying to show trust towards him and he damaged that.
As far as the “she shouldn’t have put herself in that position comment”. I’m trying to understand your pov but honestly you’re coming off as unfeeling. And you can’t have it both ways of wanting her to trust op but saying she shouldn’t put herself in a position of showing trust? She found a way to show trust and not be triggered, they seemed to be compromising on this. However, he lied… intentionally. If it wasn’t a big deal to pay off the car, then why lie? He leaving key details out.
I don't agree, bc it was given and agreeded on "it is a gift" he gets it, puts it in her name and gifts it to her - it is gift, she agreeded to get this gift from him, it dosen't matter how he paid for it. I understand what you try to say, but let's have totally different situation, like vacations "I have gitt for you, this trip to Paris you always wanted to go" you didn't go before bc you didn't have money for it and you didn't want your parter to pay for everything, so you didn't want to go even tho it would be problem for your partner to psy for it, but he decided it will be great gift bc you dre of it and you see tickets are wow yeah we are going bc it is gift it is something that is here already and it is gifted from heart and bc there is occasion... Then after trip you find out that this gift was taked in installments and the partner is still paying for it, are you mad? You cuss him and leave bc he decided to give you gift but not pay it in all at once but spred payment. For my it dosen't matter gift was given, person who is giving is making decision how to pay for gift, he asked her "if it would be ok for me to buy it and gift you this car, I will put it in your name bc it will be gift, think about it" she agreeded in the end and got gift, and then she is angry bc of the way he decided to pay for it. I don't understand? Why dose it matter you agreed to accept gift, were this gift is coming from dosen't matter.... Yeah I may feel bad that it is still something that this person is still paying for, but I talk, "you said you can buy it but you are still paying" then he has option to tell "bc it simply didn't matter how I pay if IT bc decision was made to gift it to you, and that you will accept, I simply feld that it will be more comfortable for me to pay in installments". Bc it is sometimes better if you have savings that are on accounts that are growing when they lay there then why move this money if it is better not too in long term, or you buying it would take your 80% of savings and you think maybe better not to put all this money in car, so if there will be worst situation and I needoney they still be there, and I will pay little every month now.... Etc.
I honesly don't see it as broken trust.
But there is for sure problem bc this is your live partner and you refused any financial aid, and it is ok if we talk about things that you put your name on, but normal everyday things.... hmm
I think both suck here bc I agree that it wasen't good move from his side, and bc he was still paying the car, this car wasen't fully hers, but also her simply trowing her finds in his face leaving and ignoring, you are partners that live together, you are in relationships few years and can't comunicate, over paymates.
He lied, yes, in this situation I don't see it as that bad ( bc all reason I write above), also I think he simply see himself with her, and he didn't think that there would be a problem and time when he can't pay or pay in full for it. I understand why she is mad/sad, bc car is not hers fully. But there is something bigger here, I don't think this is that big problem to leave someone and ignore for days...
And if it is that big for you to break up then talk it out, say it hurt too much that boudry was crossed and break up...
The vacation OP, I'm in my late 20s and I'd still back out of going on a trip that I can't decompress with my significant other on. In my opinion, its not "old fashion" to do things like this, its down right controlling and comes from an inability to see your child as their own person and an ADULT. He's grown. She's grown. I'm not that down bad for a trip that I'm willing to be controlled to the point where I have to be in a room alone on my vacation when I could be snuggling with my partner. If you are inviting your adult child's adult partner on a vacation, the only logical rooming situation is them as a couple.