He's obviously acting like a toddler, but that was his pride/stubbornness talking. I think this woman could've been much more succesful with him if she'd been more intelligent in the way she approached everything. When you're dealing with a child, you need to encourage and then reward the behavior that you want, not try to impose a systematic plan for when the child is going to be doing this or that, because that will always backfire. That's where she lost her opportunity to change him.
@@Verradonairun She never even said you have to do this once a month though. She suggested that he give it a try and make the effort and he shot her down. It's not her fault.
you're right. tbh jack moon reminds me of my own father though he's not as bad as jack moon but i do find myself saying 'he does this crap all the time' when he pops off in front of friends.
Little-Ankle Sam yeahh exactly!! I see a lot of people complaining that she asked him to cook and not her husband but to me it just seemed that she felt comfortable to do so and both of them seemed happy to cook together sonI don’t really see the problem
jack didnt attack her cause he knows she can whoop his ass in one punch. on another note, the husband that said "if my make believe wife wants beans, she's gonna get beans!" is the most purest person on this show
The white guy...total a -hole! What the hell he teaching his kids?? This is not prehistoric days! Have some decency especially since u agreed to this show. How rude🤨! How does his wife put up with his antics??? I could not!
@@fixit5555 nah he's teaching them to dislike men like him. I doubt they would date a man like that. If their brainless then they would date a man like him but they see through him.
@@andrakarsten226 yeah they are more likely to date a man like their dad but that doesn't necessarily mean that they automatically will. Some people think for themselves instead of letting things like this influence them. Not everyone will date a guy like their dad.
I was going to say the same thing about the black family. They seemed really happy to have a caring mom who’s not at work all the time. I guess it worked out half way lol
You're so weak if you think that.... this society is broken man.... i'm pretty sur that if he said to her to do the job people would've scream that he's mysoganistic out loud. That he's abusive lol.
‘My make believe wife wants some damn beanssssss she gone get dem beans todayyy’ PROCEED TO USE A HAMMER TO OPEN THE CAN 😂😂😂😂😂 THAT THE ENERGY IM LOOKING FORREE
olive oil Don’t make excuses for him. If cooking’s ‘a woman’s job’ does that mean that WOMEN should be the ones wielding those ‘oh so dangerous’ knives? Potentially cutting yourself is something that happens, it’s a perfectly normal risk you take when you make food. If that man’s scared of a little nick from a knife and yet he can boss his family around like that, I think he needs his ass dumped, anyway. It’s SUPER clear he had no intention of that Halani’s safety, he just didn’t want to be told what to do. It was probably like culture shock for him.
The irony in this clip is she is requiring someone else's husband to do something she doesnt demand of her own. Whatever changes shes asking him to make she needs to ask her own man to do. Tuh!!
Difference is that if she asked her own husband to do all this shit, he would actually do it... responsibility isn't always about rules and equal sharing, she and her husband obviously have a good relationship and it just works out if she does more of the chores, this case is about respect and this other dude has none of it
"He does this crap all the time"when the children know your childish😶🙄. #growup. His wife doesn't know passive isnt the same thing as submissive. He lacks a HUGE level of respect for women period.
Michelle S I feel bad for his daughters. They’re growing up thinking that they’re supposed to behave like their mom and marry a man that treats them like their dad treats her.
soxpuff right. That was supposed to be a u expected lesson. Things don’t always happen the way you pan out. Most times within reasoning for you to figure out how it’s supposed to help and change you for the better.
Asap Emelyy what do you mean what I mean. Did you comprehend what I said that gym progress isn’t showing. The popularity of a gym has nothing to do with his progress. Explain how that correlates to his progress ? Ps! I’m not ya sis we ain’t that cool homie
Jack was transported from the 1940s. He is rude as fcuk. His behavior is disgusting!!!! Like would he want his wife to be treated in this manner? Horrible
Sandy Shay the thing is that this is EXACTLY how he treats his wife. The kids even said he acts this way on the daily basis. Smh I just hope his wife wakes up one day and realize that he displays abusive behavior.
@@sandyshay8518 its what she signed up for, tho. The white wife agrees to these terms so who are we to judge her life and what she is willing to accept from him
I thought the same thing at first, but she asked him to cook because he was the one who had a closer role in the household as her and he was the one that was actually home.
Well I mean you see the size of jack hes physically intimidating. Not to mention he has the signs of a physical and mental abuser. She probably felt safe around jason because there was no prior connection of rudeness and abuse and kept her banter about cooking playful as to not agitate him. Where as if she tried that with jack he probably would scream at her or hit her.
I feel bad for the daughters of Jack. Especially the oldest, she knows her dad is a bigot. How is she supposed to have self-respect and be strong with a father like that?
Self respect is not based on how your parents, siblings or relatives behave, talk or interact with one another. There are people who have broken the toxic cycle and I pray for the 2 sisters to become better than their parents.
Angelena R. I am also thinking about her maybe hating her mother for putting up with him and taking his crap and disliking herself. I agree that you can rebuild but it isn't an easy journey because some of it might not be obvious to you because it's all you've known.
Oh my god the way that his little daughter was hugging her teddy bear looking so scared tells me that he can get angry really fast and probably abusive, both mentally and physically 😞
I'm glad the older daughter is aware that what her dad says and how he acts is bullshit. I hope she becomes a strong independent woman like this beautiful no-shit-taking Queen!
I feel bad for his daughters, anyone see how the older daughter was looking at her little sister to make sure she was ok whilst the dad had a meltdown.
When the daughter told her dad to chill at 3:27, that was pretty telling. Seems like she can tell when he's going to explode. That guy has some issues.
@@JohnJohn-cu7nk bruh you don't have to be afraid for someone to be an abuser. They cowards it don't take long to see thru that facade. You are the dumb one
I feel the white women has no power over her husband. He seems to be the type to only do what he wants. but she seems to enjoy cooking with the black family cause the husband is amazing and willing 😃
I know for a fact that made her entire life right there. I honestly believes she wished she had that and when he worked with her, it made her the happiest she had been in a very long time.
Carrie Defoor she literally said she missed her husband I imagine what made her life was getting married and she dreamt of being a housewife and now is
K Hadi i know right but I mean Atleast when they’re 18 they can leave and look for someone to treat them right but wat if he would’ve had all boys he would’ve grown men the exact state of mind as his this is sad poor baby’s
Crazy how the the white woman actually wants the other husband to engage more, but yet her own husband is so reluctant. Feel bad for their 2 young daughters
That’s really sad if that the case cause he’s permanently fucked up. It’s not like dealing w depression or bipolar where you can at least help w those but w a narcissistic he’s going to be like that for good😒it’s unfortunate his wife didn’t know this before they got married.
I married a narcissist and didn’t know it until way too late. You are right, no helping them, counseling made it worse! They just play the counselors and make them believe the false narratives in their heads. I feel for his wife. 😔
Time Traveler just because in that one episode she has some Indian don’t mean she biracial she’s a black woman. Majority of blacks have Indian in them (me myself great grandma) I’m still a black woman.
Nip Olly are you embarrassed to say you’re biracial or say you’re a black and Native American woman?or is it just more beneficial for u today to just mention you’re black because it’s fashionable today? Can’t pull the race card if you’re biracial huh?
I can’t get over how STUNNING the Black mom is. Like her body is so fit & gorgeous. Looking at her seriously makes me want to work out. She should be on the cover of magazines & have her own fitness line. She would inspire so many girls that think the fake Fashion Nova/Kim K body type is the way to go. Her naturally fit body type is stunning
Lauren Jackson I’ve followed her on Instagram for years. She competes and runs boot camp style classes in Atlanta. I think she has a fitness apparel line. Her workouts are 🔥
@@cassball7 wait omg for real?? I was literally hoping that she did this, and you're saying she actually does - that's awesome! What's her instagram name?
👏👏💯 and when they first met, he was like you look very ethnic. 😭😭😂🤣😅💀💀💀💀 could see he wanted to say black but he held his tongue. lmao at him, some unseen and heard of foolishness.
bubble butt I think she means he has that sort of bulking body. Huge arms and a huge gut. Some guys get it from juicing. They’re super strong but not lean, some people consider lean more attractive. Like the other husband.
I hope Misty has the opportunity to have a healthy conversation with her husband in a therapeutic environment where they can talk about holding him more accountable now that she's seen this without him feeling like he's being emasculated (if he chooses to play the victim card that opens other pieces but hopefully coming from the person he loves it can be seen as compassion and wanting somebody to grow with). Emasculation does very little to help somebody change and if he truly loves Misty hopefully he will choose to change on his own for the betterment of his entire family.
One short clip and I'm going to bed the white guy went straight from living at home with his mom to living with his wife and never has to do shit in this whole life
The accuracy of your comment is amazing. I've experienced a man like that and all I saw was a big man baby who didn't care for the taste of his own medicine.
A black woman at that with a big back bone . if she was white might have been a different story. I'm mixed folks with both my parents. Not being racist at all.
@Raspberry Guitar IM DEFENDING HIM CAUSE SHE POKED HIM TILL HE SNAPPED THAT WHY A PERSON CAN HANDLE SO MUCH TILL THEY SNAP AND SHE MADE HIM SNAP ON AND IT WASNT ON ACCEDENT EATHER .
I've been married to a Jack before and I can tell you firsthand how control turns to every kind of abuse. So proud of myself for divorcing the asshole. Now I'm a proud, confident single Mama and rediscovering who I am. Now I need to find me a man like this other guy! Also, I think the white lady would set more rules and dealbreakers for her husband Jack if she wasn't so terrified of him and his outbursts. Clearly his daughters see his true self. I feel so bad for them.
This is amazing to hear. I really do wish though that the white woman and her daughters are able to find peace elsewhere. Jack would rather sabotage euphoria to follow some stupid stereotypes than be cooperative and find peace in family time.
Did you see the little white daughter attempt to cover her teddy bears eyes 3:26mins when her white dad started to have a tantrum when he wasn't in control? Sad
thehoneyeffect that’s the behavior of a child who has witnessed violence in that home. Very sad. You can tell he runs the shit and is extremely abusive. I wouldn’t be surprised if he had a drinking problem and beat the wife often.
The clip is a bit misleading. The black dad is home with the kids much more than his wife (who works long hours, he doesn't), but he didn't know how to cook. So she was teaching him some dishes he can make for when he's home with the kids and the wife is at work. In the other family, Misty is the one who stays home the most, so she does the cooking. Halani was trying to teach him to make his "workout meals" so he could make them himself sometimes, but he's an asshat.
I get the feeling Misty wanted this in her home, but Jack is an abusive ass. It must be nice to have someone receptive to her ideas for the first time... Also the black husband was so sweet, what a king. 🥰
olive oil shut the hell up, I see you replying to every comment defending the leprechaun looking ass then when you get told facts you go and pussy away to another comment .
olive oil in the previous part of the episode where she played by his rules, the dad was watching over her and nitpicking everything she did. But she’s not allowed to do it to him?
You know what’s real sad? At 3:25 when the littlest kid covers her bears eyes when jack gets angry, her older sister no doubt taught her that and now she’s doing it to something smaller than her so she can protect it
Maybe its just me but i feel like if misty tells her husband to do something then he will start yelling at her. I think the husband is emotionally abusive.
He does you can tell cause The firefighter straight told him ima be right here not moving unflinching and challenging him and when gave her an ultimatum and she still didn't back down he had to do the whole y'all gotta leave I'm not gonna do the show. Like 💁💁💁 My dude you gotta this food that you want how you gonna refuse to learn to cook.
But he brings the money for the family to live under the roof. Does that not make him a "man"? Plus if he was working and cooking with stay home wife what is she there for?!?
What a fragile little man. I would never get married to such a sexist, abusive, childish and insecure person. He's not only embarrassing himself but also his wife and children. Absolutely ridiculous.
sallystar95 honestly her dad was probably like that and she doesn’t know any other way, just assumes it’s how all men are and stomachs it for the sake of her kids. Jason has opened her eyes! 👀
Jack spends 4 hours at the gym? WAIT, I can under stand a pro-athlete. Who spends 4 hours at the gym? 2 hours, yes, but 4? He must sneak in his bromance in that time.
@@stormstorm7396 it’s prolly cus Jack beats her lol her wife swap husband was obviously a lil more open to it so she felt more comfortable asking him to cook with her.
I swear since of you are insane. Did you watch the full episode and read the back story on the families? She wants to be a housewife and he works hard enough for his family to fulfill her dream, if someone did that for me. I would be more than happy to do some cleaning and washing. The black woman just yells at her kids expecting them to do it right the first time, damn woman can't even cook
Yeah I agree. She seems very kind in contrast to her husband. She doesn't yell at her children, she knows how to manage things well - she is FIT to be a leader.
@@xeros420 Put some respect in her name. If the wives were ACTUALLY to have been swapped, then both Jack and the black woman would be working. Additionally, if she didn't know how to cook, how would she be LITERALLY TEACHING Jack how to? The white woman may willingly be doing this all, but this could simply be because of the lack of self-awareness, for the sake of her children, or just because she would be unable to financially support herself without Jack (which I think is fine, but it doesn't justify Jack's behavior).
For those who didn’t watch the whole episode, the reason why the white woman is saying that the other dad should do more around the house is because he stays at home while his wife works all day as a firefighter. She’s a stay at home mum while her husband works too so in her mind, it’s vise versa
Her: "once a month"
Him: "I can't do this on a regular basis"
How long is a "regular basis" for him? Once every 5 years?
@@berrybloom2000 lmao probably
He's obviously acting like a toddler, but that was his pride/stubbornness talking. I think this woman could've been much more succesful with him if she'd been more intelligent in the way she approached everything. When you're dealing with a child, you need to encourage and then reward the behavior that you want, not try to impose a systematic plan for when the child is going to be doing this or that, because that will always backfire. That's where she lost her opportunity to change him.
@@Verradonairun She never even said you have to do this once a month though. She suggested that he give it a try and make the effort and he shot her down. It's not her fault.
Me: meat rice, some wonderful asparagus with a little spice maby ..yum.
When your daughter says about you 'He does this crap all the time' there's a problem.
Mmala Mokone frfr
I know she’s counting down the days to leave for college lol
Agreed..that was the final red flag for the Black mom "this man is abusive..this role playing is over..time to go".
you're right. tbh jack moon reminds me of my own father though he's not as bad as jack moon but i do find myself saying 'he does this crap all the time' when he pops off in front of friends.
The daughter telling him to chill out is a whole red flag. He’s very abusive to mom & the children... poor baby 😭
White woman need to keep that same energy with her husband
real truth, 👏💯, but doubt she did. you can see he's verbally abuse towards her and the daughters.
@BILLY The NEANDERTHUG real truth, 👏💯 or scott peterson.
😂😂😂
I feel bad for her, she feels trapped
I think she’s scared of him
The ONLY thing Jack's daughters need to learn is NOT to marry someone like him ..... shocking human being
@Asya uh okay?
@Asya tf?
@Asya it's just a stupid idea or yours? Why are u assuming the dad would be against gay ppl? Won't that make YOU a homophobe?
Exactly! His actions literally remind me of my temper tantrums when I was like what .. 13???
Very bold of u to assume they want to get married to men or get married in general
Jack: I will not cook
Meanwhile: I WILL GET A HAMMER TO OPEN SOME BEANS JUST TO MAKE THIS WOMAN HAPPY
olive oil he stood over her and did the exact same thing
@@oliveoil5034 your texts are pathetic
olive oil your comment doesn’t make sense😀
olive oil you must not have watched the entire episode. He stood over her shoulder judging everything she did the entire time she cooked.
olive oil You sound like him disguised as somebody else. Quit it with the fake profile! 😂
the white mom got a taste of what having a caring and nice husband is like
Vanessa Haines yeah I actually felt bad for her. Jason was so positive and she really seemed to be happy and appreciate that
Ikr. I think that's why she feels comfortable asking him to do stuff because he's happy to
Exactly! Loved him
Little-Ankle Sam yeahh exactly!! I see a lot of people complaining that she asked him to cook and not her husband but to me it just seemed that she felt comfortable to do so and both of them seemed happy to cook together sonI don’t really see the problem
I hope she doesnt come crawling into the black guyz arms after the show, because he is what she doesnt have . I just hope.
“If my make believe wife want some beans, she gone get some beans.”😭💙😂
Valerie Sullivan he’s a keeper
She knows her place.
Lol yea he a real dude
HE A KEEPER GIRL! While her husband aint shit but lazy.
@@ItsPinky1 that's why they be lusting after ours....
jack didnt attack her cause he knows she can whoop his ass in one punch.
on another note, the husband that said "if my make believe wife wants beans, she's gonna get beans!" is the most purest person on this show
Disappointing
She could not whoop him lol
I highly doubt that
Just cause she’s a fighter fighter does not mean she can whoop him
Maybe it’s because if he did hit her she would’ve said that he raped and assaulted her
I love the part when he said, "my make believe wife wants some beans, she's going to get some beans today."
Me too, he seems like a great husband! As for the other husband shocked she settled for less!
Lol.
love
The white guy...total a -hole! What the hell he teaching his kids?? This is not prehistoric days! Have some decency especially since u agreed to this show. How rude🤨! How does his wife put up with his antics??? I could not!
💖💝 did too, smh at her husband. he was acting and sounding real foolish,
Even the daughter says he does this all the time and he needs to chill. He clearly cannot stand a woman being in charge.
The poor girls... all he is doing is teaching them to be doormats.
I feel bad cuz the daughters have to grow up in and that and around and gonna think they cant do this or that cuz they are women
@@fixit5555 nah he's teaching them to dislike men like him. I doubt they would date a man like that. If their brainless then they would date a man like him but they see through him.
@@antereaw6178 unfortunately we end up with someone like our dads. Fortunately, my dad is friggen awesome and so is my husband.
@@andrakarsten226 yeah they are more likely to date a man like their dad but that doesn't necessarily mean that they automatically will. Some people think for themselves instead of letting things like this influence them. Not everyone will date a guy like their dad.
The way the oldest daughter goes “dad chill” you know she deals with his abusive ass WAY TOO MUCH
@@deonteglass1740 aaaaaand you made it weird
The way she put her hand out when he started moving towards her, I got chills
The sad part that she was saying it while looking at her little sister, that poor kid. 3:26 she most have seen terrifying things :(
@@gabbygabs9220 nah it's just a reference
gabby chill
FlashEXE ah I see what you did there..
For his own daughter to tell him to chill.. just shows he’s more childish than anyone
Yup if u haven't told to ur parents to chill in ur life than u must have been in abusive parenthood.
"My make believe wife wants some beans? She gon get some beans!" This husband is just an all around sweet guy. Like c'mon! 😊
I flippen love this family lol. I would watch a show just about them.
I bet you the white lady doesn’t ever wanna switch back! Her new husband is hot as hell and doesn’t treat her like shit.
J O i was gonna say that lol 😂💯
Right ?! He’s got such a good attitude and personality 💯✨
I bet that guys gonna watch this and feel like an ass for being so rude and not cooperating specially when he sees how great this husband is lol
This white lady living her fantasy life 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 chill out lol
The Don I bet they smashed 👀😂😂
The Don lmfao!💀😂😂
I was going to say the same thing about the black family. They seemed really happy to have a caring mom who’s not at work all the time. I guess it worked out half way lol
She might stay and never comeback
"I'm missing my family, I'm missing Jack"
Whew Chile, miss me with the Stockholm syndrome😪
AAAHHHK
LMFAOOOO
THISSS
so she misses her family what wrong with that.
@@oliveoil5034 exactly
All I heard from Jack was "I'm an insecure little manchild"
Best comment ... should have 9K 👍 !
You're so weak if you think that.... this society is broken man.... i'm pretty sur that if he said to her to do the job people would've scream that he's mysoganistic out loud. That he's abusive lol.
What am I hearing this. The white lady wants black guy to cook but she don’t require her own husband to do so
Landon Fise right! She’s over there living the life she doesn’t have
Look at Jason compared to the white guy. Jason can cook for me all day long 🤤
Jack needs his wife to wipe his ass too. That guy is a SOB.
Uuuuuum. Exactly
That's the part that got me too!
‘My make believe wife wants some damn beanssssss she gone get dem beans todayyy’ PROCEED TO USE A HAMMER TO OPEN THE CAN 😂😂😂😂😂 THAT THE ENERGY IM LOOKING FORREE
Sivaa Gill LOOOOOL
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAS!!!!
This line made me laugh so hard it hurt
It was an axe 🤣🤣🤣
Sivaa Gill ong 😂
The fire chief is absolutely beautiful
selecia Noyb I know right! Her muscles are awesome as well
She is a bitch tbh.. 🤷🏻♀️
Yes!!! She is beautiful and toned!!!! 💕💞
selecia Noyb I think they both are
Just beautiful
I love that black dad, he's got so much energy and is so willing to work
When your children identify your behavior as CHILDISH, you have a problem.
😂
LOUDER!!
*He DoEs ThIs CrAp AlL tHe TiMe* 🙄 ugh he's the worst, I'd be on snapped 🔫
He reminds me so much of my dad,glad my mom left him lol
olive oil Don’t make excuses for him. If cooking’s ‘a woman’s job’ does that mean that WOMEN should be the ones wielding those ‘oh so dangerous’ knives? Potentially cutting yourself is something that happens, it’s a perfectly normal risk you take when you make food. If that man’s scared of a little nick from a knife and yet he can boss his family around like that, I think he needs his ass dumped, anyway. It’s SUPER clear he had no intention of that Halani’s safety, he just didn’t want to be told what to do. It was probably like culture shock for him.
The irony in this clip is she is requiring someone else's husband to do something she doesnt demand of her own. Whatever changes shes asking him to make she needs to ask her own man to do. Tuh!!
Rochelle Brown firefighter doesn’t wanna cook; someone has to
Difference is that if she asked her own husband to do all this shit, he would actually do it... responsibility isn't always about rules and equal sharing, she and her husband obviously have a good relationship and it just works out if she does more of the chores, this case is about respect and this other dude has none of it
YepItsThatGuy thank you for being common sense into the chat.
I think she is scared of her husband!!
100% agree Jason is an amazing person
"He does this crap all the time"when the children know your childish😶🙄. #growup. His wife doesn't know passive isnt the same thing as submissive. He lacks a HUGE level of respect for women period.
Michelle S I feel bad for his daughters. They’re growing up thinking that they’re supposed to behave like their mom and marry a man that treats them like their dad treats her.
Manchild alert💯
@@meredithj8175 what you've stated is awfully true
That's why he doesn't have a son. He needs to know how to love and treat women. God works in mysterious ways.
soxpuff right. That was supposed to be a u expected lesson. Things don’t always happen the way you pan out. Most times within reasoning for you to figure out how it’s supposed to help and change you for the better.
I would be embarrassed to even be acquainted with a man like Jack.
4 hours a day at the gym?....
I think he's cheating
No he is paying someone to sleep with him
Cause that gym progress is not showing at all
Kertivia Spurgeon it’s one of the most popular gym in Atl wym sis?
@gogo dodo do not speak Spanish and you do not know me! That means you would be a stalker
Asap Emelyy what do you mean what I mean. Did you comprehend what I said that gym progress isn’t showing. The popularity of a gym has nothing to do with his progress. Explain how that correlates to his progress ?
Ps! I’m not ya sis we ain’t that cool homie
Jack was transported from the 1940s. He is rude as fcuk. His behavior is disgusting!!!! Like would he want his wife to be treated in this manner? Horrible
Sandy Shay the thing is that this is EXACTLY how he treats his wife. The kids even said he acts this way on the daily basis. Smh I just hope his wife wakes up one day and realize that he displays abusive behavior.
@@sandyshay8518 its what she signed up for, tho. The white wife agrees to these terms so who are we to judge her life and what she is willing to accept from him
T. Thomas The White Wife? Smh
Sandy Shay Yes, he would want his wife to be treated like this because that’s exactly how he treats her.
ITS EVEN CRAZIER HE DID IT ON TELEVISION. It had to come out someday. His face is so red he looks like he is about to burst any second.
how the white girl make the black guy cook and say he need more responsibility but she don’t make her husband cook......
Bobbie Holbert firefighter dont wanna cook someone has to
Right!!!!
She just wanted to keep him bending over for them pots in that hot sweaty kitchen. I don't blame her LOL.
Exactly
I thought the same thing at first, but she asked him to cook because he was the one who had a closer role in the household as her and he was the one that was actually home.
Forget the sexist pig for a moment
The other dad is absolutely hilarious by fighting to get that can open
So she wants the other husband to cook while hers can't even commit to once a month? Who else gets the impression she's afraid of him?
I was just saying that. It's insane to me. She grew balls for someone elses husband and sent him to the kitchen, but is a slave to her own husband.
Well I mean you see the size of jack hes physically intimidating. Not to mention he has the signs of a physical and mental abuser. She probably felt safe around jason because there was no prior connection of rudeness and abuse and kept her banter about cooking playful as to not agitate him. Where as if she tried that with jack he probably would scream at her or hit her.
@@tiffanynicole6232 Well, that husband is civilised.
Omg. This is 100% right. I was like whaaaaat??????!!!! Chick🔉 your own man won't cook. This husband and wife were/are living in their own weird world.
Yes i was looking for this comment😅
I feel bad for the daughters of Jack. Especially the oldest, she knows her dad is a bigot. How is she supposed to have self-respect and be strong with a father like that?
Self respect is not based on how your parents, siblings or relatives behave, talk or interact with one another. There are people who have broken the toxic cycle and I pray for the 2 sisters to become better than their parents.
@@ruth_6303 It's not *only* based on it. I agree with that, but she now has to break out of the cycle that shouldn't be there in the first place.
You just deal with it until you move out and make sure your husband won't be like that
she is smart, i think she will be ok.
Angelena R. I am also thinking about her maybe hating her mother for putting up with him and taking his crap and disliking herself. I agree that you can rebuild but it isn't an easy journey because some of it might not be obvious to you because it's all you've known.
he just hatin coz she got more muscled than him lmao
I know right LMFAO she'll kick his BIGSHASS Too!!😂🤣😂
😂😂😂😂😂
honestly he has fake muscles. his muscles are fat.
are you blind
Hngz V and can probably whoop his ass 😂
Oh my god the way that his little daughter was hugging her teddy bear looking so scared tells me that he can get angry really fast and probably abusive, both mentally and physically 😞
Even his daughter was talking crap and annoyed at him 🤣🤦🏻♀️ like cmon man
I'm glad the older daughter is aware that what her dad says and how he acts is bullshit. I hope she becomes a strong independent woman like this beautiful no-shit-taking Queen!
Eden West yesss!!
she seems smart
Talking from my experience, daughters always realise how bad their dad's are and are looking up to their mothers.
Both moms be queens
Ajie
Bruhh I’ve seen you before - and I subscribed to you the first time I saw you lol -
His own daughters see him as a crybaby - not a good look BRAD... 🤣🤣
Facts. Made himself look stupid on national tv, now on UA-cam world wide lol.
I feel bad for his daughters, anyone see how the older daughter was looking at her little sister to make sure she was ok whilst the dad had a meltdown.
“My make believe wife want some beans. she gone get some damn beans” 😭❤️
Damn ur cute if u want some damn Beans baby girl i can make that happen
@@eagles2156 I never realized UA-cam was a dating app
@@jonathanbasham3356 you take it how u can get it jack I never went on a dry dry spell
@@eagles2156 damn rite
His determination in that moment was so cute!
Jack is emasculated by her because he's insecure.
He's not emasculated, he's just an idiot for agreeing to the show.
@@nagihangot6133 He's quintessentially emasculated. He even says so.
He's so emotional
Facts
What a stupid opinion you have
No one:
Jack in his head : A woman telling meeeee what to do, a Black one at that!! Absurd
Right
Lmaoooo
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😭😭😭
Real talk.
Jerry Rodriguez “a half indian woman”
His parents named him after exactly what he knows about life: JACK.
When the daughter told her dad to chill at 3:27, that was pretty telling. Seems like she can tell when he's going to explode. That guy has some issues.
And also when the younger daughter covered her toys eyes as if she had to cover its eyes from the abuse at 3:26
Or she tride to deescalete the conflict between two hard headed adults who could not cooperate?
THE FACT she can tell him to chill tells you she ain't scared of him. God you lot are dumb
@@Idk-dx3rw damn that's sad I didn't notice that
@@JohnJohn-cu7nk bruh you don't have to be afraid for someone to be an abuser. They cowards it don't take long to see thru that facade. You are the dumb one
I feel the white women has no power over her husband. He seems to be the type to only do what he wants. but she seems to enjoy cooking with the black family cause the husband is amazing and willing 😃
GigiMar 127 the black guy actually listened to her and made it fun to cook her husband sees it as a chore
I know for a fact that made her entire life right there. I honestly believes she wished she had that and when he worked with her, it made her the happiest she had been in a very long time.
At least he provides for his family. Men show love in different ways. But at the same time I don't agree with locking the kids away rule.
@@methatguy5996 😂😂😂 True Shit
Carrie Defoor she literally said she missed her husband I imagine what made her life was getting married and she dreamt of being a housewife and now is
3:25 I feel so bad for the girls... He's a father to females... He needs to learn how to treat females right 🙊🤐
K Hadi i know right but I mean Atleast when they’re 18 they can leave and look for someone to treat them right but wat if he would’ve had all boys he would’ve grown men the exact state of mind as his this is sad poor baby’s
@@karenm1017 So true! 😱💔😢
The reason why he had girls...
@@9hp771 he litterly said cooking are for women that's no excuse for his behavior
PERIOD
Crazy how the the white woman actually wants the other husband to engage more, but yet her own husband is so reluctant. Feel bad for their 2 young daughters
I honestly think she’s scared of him
@@leilanileilani1832 I don't think so, it's her dream to be a traditional house wife...
@Toji's Pet exactly
Toji's Pet yeah she’s so scared of the guy she literally says she missing Jack that’s bs cmon bruh
Jack absolutely hated not only a woman telling him what to do, a BLACK one at that.
Hahah he was being “supervised” and hated it.
Exactly
That's exactly what it seemed like
No real man should let any woman tell him what to do.
@@sandlotscout6358 😂😂😂😂 a real man wouldnt have an issue pleasing a woman by doing a simple task
SJ Publishing thats what I thought. The scary part is he thought nothing was wrong with his behavior
I think it was good they swapped, it's important for Jack's kids to see that his behaviour isn't / doesn't have to be accepted
Jack is a narcissist, sad for everyone involved.
That’s really sad if that the case cause he’s permanently fucked up. It’s not like dealing w depression or bipolar where you can at least help w those but w a narcissistic he’s going to be like that for good😒it’s unfortunate his wife didn’t know this before they got married.
I married a narcissist and didn’t know it until way too late. You are right, no helping them, counseling made it worse! They just play the counselors and make them believe the false narratives in their heads. I feel for his wife. 😔
Breeze H my sympathy to you,hope your able to divorce.
Might just be a misogynist. Bad enough.
Jaack and Halani are very problematic spouses.
I love how Misty is ordering her "swap husband" to cook but her actual husband Jack she can't even gather the courage to challenge him. 🤦🏻♂️
The black women is BEAUTIFUL!!!!
She’s biracial not black
Time Traveler just because in that one episode she has some Indian don’t mean she biracial she’s a black woman. Majority of blacks have Indian in them (me myself great grandma) I’m still a black woman.
Nip Olly your family liiieeeeeeeed to you! You’re biracial.
Time Traveler I’m a black woman regardless stop with your self hate.
Nip Olly are you embarrassed to say you’re biracial or say you’re a black and Native American woman?or is it just more beneficial for u today to just mention you’re black because it’s fashionable today? Can’t pull the race card if you’re biracial huh?
That right got there is definition of sexism. It’s crazy because he has daughters
I can’t get over how STUNNING the Black mom is. Like her body is so fit & gorgeous. Looking at her seriously makes me want to work out. She should be on the cover of magazines & have her own fitness line. She would inspire so many girls that think the fake Fashion Nova/Kim K body type is the way to go. Her naturally fit body type is stunning
Lauren Jackson I’ve followed her on Instagram for years. She competes and runs boot camp style classes in Atlanta. I think she has a fitness apparel line. Her workouts are 🔥
@@cassball7 wait omg for real?? I was literally hoping that she did this, and you're saying she actually does - that's awesome! What's her instagram name?
The whole family is gorgeous. If I were the white mom I wouldn’t want to leave.
@@cassball7 reaaaally? I need her info bcuz I live in Atlanta
Lauren Jackson it’s the fire training lol
His oldest daughter is going to go after him one day. Girls snap 👊👊👊. I hope and pray those girls never get a man like their dad.
He didn’t just have a problem because she is a woman... the fact that she is black woman was probably extra heinous for him. 😂
Jasmyn Madison EXACTLY!! how dare “the help” tells me what the rules are? Intersecting prejudices and discriminations.
I’m so glad SOMEBODY said it! Not just a woman, but a BLACK WOMAN telling me what to do?
Pure asshole🙄
👏👏💯 and when they first met, he was like you look very ethnic. 😭😭😂🤣😅💀💀💀💀 could see he wanted to say black but he held his tongue. lmao at him, some unseen and heard of foolishness.
lmao adding insult to injury
No black woman tells me what to do.I'm out of here.That was funny even his kids look like what's the problem.
4 hours at the gym and that's how he looks like?
Thanks for the likes guys, 1.4k is something ❤️.
Must be seeing his boyfriend on the side
Well he's definitely jacked, just isn't cut.
😂
Ikr what a waste of a man he is
bubble butt I think she means he has that sort of bulking body. Huge arms and a huge gut. Some guys get it from juicing. They’re super strong but not lean, some people consider lean more attractive. Like the other husband.
How does she require that the black guy cook but she doesn't make her husband do it... 😒
I don't think her husband is a sexist douche though
That’s very telling lol
The black man is home more then the wife in that home. So she feels he should be cooking. Y’all need to watch the full episode.
@@aminahlashe The whole episode doesn't matter. She doesn't require it of her OWN husband so she shouldn't of someone else's husband 🤷🏾♀️
Chyna Nelson he didn’t sexist, the black guy isn’t sexist
I hope Misty has the opportunity to have a healthy conversation with her husband in a therapeutic environment where they can talk about holding him more accountable now that she's seen this without him feeling like he's being emasculated (if he chooses to play the victim card that opens other pieces but hopefully coming from the person he loves it can be seen as compassion and wanting somebody to grow with). Emasculation does very little to help somebody change and if he truly loves Misty hopefully he will choose to change on his own for the betterment of his entire family.
One short clip and I'm going to bed the white guy went straight from living at home with his mom to living with his wife and never has to do shit in this whole life
The accuracy of your comment is amazing. I've experienced a man like that and all I saw was a big man baby who didn't care for the taste of his own medicine.
@@Solo-yi3bm well thank you solo that was nice of you to say.
@tolfan the sad part is he didn't learn how to control temper tantrums b4 leaving momma. Sad
That's how it happens most times these days boo, but women keep running to get married and end up having a child instead of a spouse.
That black QUEEN not a push over he didn't want to play by her rules because she's a woman smh not all women are push overs
A black woman at that with a big back bone . if she was white might have been a different story. I'm mixed folks with both my parents. Not being racist at all.
QUEEN LIL-BOOTY what happens if the man of a relationship is not a pushover AND the woman is not a pushover either? Do they cancel each other out?
the woman was standing over his shoulders for god sakes he was willing to cook but she wouldn't leave the kitchen.
olive oil he did the exact same thing to her when it was her turn to cook.. no excuses
@Raspberry Guitar IM DEFENDING HIM CAUSE SHE POKED HIM TILL HE SNAPPED THAT WHY A PERSON CAN HANDLE SO MUCH TILL THEY SNAP AND SHE MADE HIM SNAP ON AND IT WASNT ON ACCEDENT EATHER .
I feel sorry for the small traumatized child with the white bear
She Really looks fearful
Jack really is the type of man that will die of starvation if they get divorced lmao
What type of example is he setting for his kids🙄
I thought the same thing and he has daughters... smh, it’s a mess.
Exactly. This is so gross. I'd have slapped him silly. I've been married for almost 8years. I taught hubby to cook. And he bakes at times,too. 😊
He’s setting an example of the perfect type of person to NOT become or marry
My dad is like that 😒. I talk back sometimes, and sometimes I let other people step in. It can be hard and funny
The type of man to not get
that mom saying not bad was code for unseasoned but edible.
Girlfriend can you cook? What's the decoding for?
@@injohk1909 actually yes I can cook I was raised on a farm and went to school for culinary arts plus I speak black woman. 😊
Lol I saw that in there facial expression
@@chantefayeweather2508 LOL
The expression on Jason’s mom’s face said it all 😂
Jack acts like a child but I love Jason,he’s so open and cooperative!!
Right.. misty lady looks likes she's enjoying herself too🙄. Poor thing has to return to her reality eventually.
I've been married to a Jack before and I can tell you firsthand how control turns to every kind of abuse. So proud of myself for divorcing the asshole. Now I'm a proud, confident single Mama and rediscovering who I am.
Now I need to find me a man like this other guy!
Also,
I think the white lady would set more rules and dealbreakers for her husband Jack if she wasn't so terrified of him and his outbursts. Clearly his daughters see his true self. I feel so bad for them.
'' Now I'm a proud, confident single Mama and rediscovering who I am.'' Oh god, please stay far away!
@@TheStraightestWhitest let her have this one i guess
@@TheStraightestWhitest why does her statement bother you so much dude
This is amazing to hear.
I really do wish though that the white woman and her daughters are able to find peace elsewhere. Jack would rather sabotage euphoria to follow some stupid stereotypes than be cooperative and find peace in family time.
Nouf zailai it doesn’t he just don’t want to be a step dad to kids that ain’t gonna respect him
“ If my make believe wife wants some damn beans...” he’s amazing 😂❤️
Diana Mendoza His energy is contagious, meanwhile the other husband sucks the energy out of any room he’s in.
Did you see the little white daughter attempt to cover her teddy bears eyes 3:26mins when her white dad started to have a tantrum when he wasn't in control?
Sad
thehoneyeffect that’s the behavior of a child who has witnessed violence in that home. Very sad. You can tell he runs the shit and is extremely abusive. I wouldn’t be surprised if he had a drinking problem and beat the wife often.
You can tell by her actions he does this all the time.
The eldest was looking at her as well and trying to calm him as well. Looks like he has these "tantrums" often
I think he probably smack his wife once in a while
:( omg how sad
Wait a minute. Misty can go into someone else's house and make the husband cook but doesn't make her own damn husband prep his meals for the gym??
They kinda cooked together if you noticed in the clip.
The point is she needs to be requiring that from her own dang husband and not someone else's.
Unfinished Business exactly. I’m like why isn’t she getting her Stepford wife on?
The clip is a bit misleading. The black dad is home with the kids much more than his wife (who works long hours, he doesn't), but he didn't know how to cook. So she was teaching him some dishes he can make for when he's home with the kids and the wife is at work.
In the other family, Misty is the one who stays home the most, so she does the cooking. Halani was trying to teach him to make his "workout meals" so he could make them himself sometimes, but he's an asshat.
I get the feeling Misty wanted this in her home, but Jack is an abusive ass. It must be nice to have someone receptive to her ideas for the first time...
Also the black husband was so sweet, what a king. 🥰
Refusing to cook is smh abusive.
He‘s literally doing the same shit, the woman is doing in her own household. Refusing to cook.
Jack: 'stands over his wife cooking and doing literally anything'
Jack when a strong woman stands over him: *OO AA AM CAVEMAN NEED TO BE MAN*
I CHOKED ON MY SPIT AISHAVA
LMAOO 😫
olive oil shut the hell up, I see you replying to every comment defending the leprechaun looking ass then when you get told facts you go and pussy away to another comment .
@@oliveoil5034 Bitch won't you shut the fuck up with that reaching tomfoolery you talking about
olive oil in the previous part of the episode where she played by his rules, the dad was watching over her and nitpicking everything she did. But she’s not allowed to do it to him?
The black couple is beautiful!!!
The husband is happy and handsome.. the wife is toned and sexy, they are full on eye candy.
And they respect each other
As usual
The one dude doesn't deserve any of the women in his life
In this ep, Jack really has the audacity to say ‘it is very important for women to look good for me’
🙄
Halani: *breathes*
Jack: Naw I’m outta here
reverse world:
Jack : breath
Halani : He abusive
She requires him to cook but not he own husband
She don't work silly
It's heartbreaking seeing the older sister looking at her younger sister telling her it's okay so she wouldn't be scared.
You know what’s real sad? At 3:25 when the littlest kid covers her bears eyes when jack gets angry, her older sister no doubt taught her that and now she’s doing it to something smaller than her so she can protect it
Omg I now see that, that’s crazy 😞
Maybe its just me but i feel like if misty tells her husband to do something then he will start yelling at her. I think the husband is emotionally abusive.
brigitte T yup a true insecure prick that has to have control over women to make him feel good
Yep watch his daughter when he stats to get angry to me she looks scared
He does you can tell cause The firefighter straight told him ima be right here not moving unflinching and challenging him and when gave her an ultimatum and she still didn't back down he had to do the whole y'all gotta leave I'm not gonna do the show. Like 💁💁💁 My dude you gotta this food that you want how you gonna refuse to learn to cook.
Isn't it funny how he's a "man" yet he can't even cook to feed his family
Ok white knight
But he brings the money for the family to live under the roof. Does that not make him a "man"? Plus if he was working and cooking with stay home wife what is she there for?!?
Isnt it funny how she's a "woman" and she cant cook to feed her family?
@@BeanOnTheFlipside isn’t funny how she’s the “boss” but she can’t cook to feed her family
How can you be a “woman” but not even cook for you family?
Ok, but did y'all see Halani's arms and shoulders?! Woo girl!! That's impressive af!!!
Okay I’m sorry but “if my make believe wife wants some beans she’s gonna get some damn beans” IS ICONICCCCC
What a fragile little man. I would never get married to such a sexist, abusive, childish and insecure person. He's not only embarrassing himself but also his wife and children. Absolutely ridiculous.
sallystar95 honestly her dad was probably like that and she doesn’t know any other way, just assumes it’s how all men are and stomachs it for the sake of her kids. Jason has opened her eyes! 👀
Freda no she herself said she dreamt of being a housewife and now she is so we all know what you said is pure bs
@@Walker-ow7vj doesn’t mean he could disrespect her and belittle her. Honestly, who would like to be in her place? No one.
@@hninn8069Definitely Not women with sense, who Knows Better and Respects themselves
Why the black woman so beautiful though?? 😍😍🙌
On God❤❤❤
@@DaLova81 on crip dawg?
@Bloodline Shes still black
Danilo SMB she’s biracial, that one drop bullshit isn’t it
J Idowu because you can look at her and tell she’s mixed... hair texture, complexion, etc. my guess is some black and Hispanic or maybe Indian
Jack’s the so called bodybuilder yet Jason looks bigger than him😂🤷🏻♀️
Jason owns a gym that’s why lmao . Idk why they made him seem like a stay at home dad, he owns a lot of businesses !
I dont think he is body building the whole time
Sabia A Jack can’t be taller than 5’6” and tbh that’s probably the source of all his misogynistic rage.
@@fredarh I'm only 5'8, and not a misogynist. So stop hating on us short guys lol.
Ya know he could be doing steroids which they say causes mood swings and mental rages. But then again I think he's just naturally a dick.
The fact that Jack has DAUGHTERS. Lord please help that family lmao
Jack spends 4 hours at the gym? WAIT, I can under stand a pro-athlete. Who spends 4 hours at the gym? 2 hours, yes, but 4?
He must sneak in his bromance in that time.
2 hours in the morning, 2 hours in the afternoon probably.
Sometimes it takes that long tbh
shino88 doesn’t take that much gym to active the steroids
It doesn't take that long everyday. Get real, you must be skinny as hell
Then he should be ripped !
Halani is so pretty 💕
“You wanna learn something ask me” ?!! Sir what?!
Her husband doesn't even want to cook yet she is making the other guy cook. Crazy
His own daughter is disgusted by his behavior... lord knows how he misbehaves when the cameras aren't around!
Misogynist vs strong willed woman! Fight! *mortal kombat voice*
I want the black family to adopt me 😍
They don't want you bruh
@@kayvonweinstein8965 no ckap
I actually really like the white mom she’s just trying to show what coming together as a family can do
But can't do with with her own husband that treats her like a slave
@@stormstorm7396 it’s prolly cus Jack beats her lol her wife swap husband was obviously a lil more open to it so she felt more comfortable asking him to cook with her.
I swear since of you are insane. Did you watch the full episode and read the back story on the families? She wants to be a housewife and he works hard enough for his family to fulfill her dream, if someone did that for me. I would be more than happy to do some cleaning and washing. The black woman just yells at her kids expecting them to do it right the first time, damn woman can't even cook
Yeah I agree. She seems very kind in contrast to her husband. She doesn't yell at her children, she knows how to manage things well - she is FIT to be a leader.
@@xeros420 Put some respect in her name.
If the wives were ACTUALLY to have been swapped, then both Jack and the black woman would be working.
Additionally, if she didn't know how to cook, how would she be LITERALLY TEACHING Jack how to?
The white woman may willingly be doing this all, but this could simply be because of the lack of self-awareness, for the sake of her children, or just because she would be unable to financially support herself without Jack (which I think is fine, but it doesn't justify Jack's behavior).
whats scary is think about how many men think this way in the work force. . .
🤦🤦🤦smh dude is ridiculously I feel sorry for the wife 🤷🤷cuz she deal with this on a daily basis
I hope to everything good that when he's angry at his wife that he doesn't lay his hands on her
They have to deal w each other
Don’t feel bad for her. In her head it’s normal and acceptable.
That's called roid rage
I CANNOT
This man is the definition of fragile masculinity...sheesh!
He is a male chauvinist
Trey Diggz I don’t know about all that. There isn’t just 1 ethnicity that acts likes this, lets be forreal
It is more than that! Something s missing
For those who didn’t watch the whole episode, the reason why the white woman is saying that the other dad should do more around the house is because he stays at home while his wife works all day as a firefighter. She’s a stay at home mum while her husband works too so in her mind, it’s vise versa
So did she demand someone else's husband be required to cook, but doesn't require her own husband to cook? Wtf
It's coz he black
The fact that his daughters really just sat here and said he does this all the time