Tiana Campos Actually in the Bible it does say we have the right to judge righteously. I mean if we aren’t allow to judge then I guess we have no right to judge people who break the law. Judging someone who breaks the law is the same a judging someone who breaks God’s law.
Kristina Mccann I'm watching the show right now & she was literally nothing but respectful to him & of his household even though her beliefs were different while he was laughing because he made her clean up dog crap & tried to start a conflict that wasn't there.
I feel like Jarius’s response was so amazing. He could’ve started an argument with her and could’ve screamed and yelled, but instead he calmly said to he her how she was judging him. It was so calm and collected, yet powerful at the same time.
Stardust Dark is your “proud” comment based off this clip or the entire episode. I don’t believe anyone can be proud of his behavior based on the entire episode.
You clearly didn’t watch the episode. Cause he was a real jerk. Even when she was condemning homosexuality she was never trying to be personally cruel to him. She thought homosexuality was a sin but so is a lot of other stuff (drinking, wearing clothes made of multiple fiber kind, etc) and I didn’t get the impression she thought she was so superior. Unlike him, who had her cleaning dog shit and refused to let her touch the kids before she’d even said anything. I’d say he was actually more bigoted in the end than her. I say as a trans atheist man btw.
I bet yall didnt see the episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids.
maxy dany same I have no recollection of that in the bible. If it does happen to be in there it also states that we don’t have the right to judge, so I guess we’re both sinners.
I haven’t seen this episode, but I respect the woman for realizing she was wrong for judging at the end. All of us have our own beliefs. At least she was able to reflect on hers and realize how harmful her actions were to him. Some people aren’t willing to even do that.
La Original okay, so is lying. So is cheating. So is stealing. But we aren’t God. You pray for them, and worry about you. Being a judge mental Christian is a little ironic, right? 😉 And the law gave them permission to be those kids’ parents. You may not agree, but I’m sure they don’t care what you think 🤷🏾♀️
Us gays are already open minded. This is great because it exposes homophobes to gay people and allows them to see we are just like every other boring ass person lol.
magnolia_tea xoxo yes, it is her business as a Christian. In the Bible Christians are called to people the unadulterated bible. Just like it’s your business to do be a Good Samaritan if you see some being hurt and needing help. It’s alright for her to try to change his mind about his sexuality. Just like it’s okay for him to try to change her mind about her’s. Nothing is wrong with that. It’s a democracy. It’s a different thing if she said change your skin color. He was born with that skin. But there is do conclusive evidence that says he was born gay. Remember, it’s your believe that she’s rude based on your values. But just like you live your truth, she lives her truth.
@@user-nx3ei5pl5h regardless of anyones faith it's none if their business if it ain't their life. It's not right for her to try and change him and it wouldn't be right for him to try to change her. It's not anyone's place to try and tell someone else how to live their own life. And no he was born gay, show me some evidence he wasnt.
@@roseaceae That's totally different. No comparison whatsoever! A Heterosexual woman may have some challenges physically. But her body was created to carry life and give life.... procreating with the opposite sex can only accomplish that! Women's bodies are complex and not being able to have children is not how she was born, but other medical issues could interfere with a women's hormonal balance and affect that part of her body. There are medications and even exposure to certain chemicals that can cause a person to become sterile. But Naturally speaking, it takes a woman and a man. A sperm and an egg. That's the way God intended for it to be point blank period. I was told I'd never have children, My husband and I have 2 beautiful children that were naturally conceived. I know so many women who were told that and after several years gave birth! But two sperms will never create life and two eggs will never create life. I stand by that 100%
I bet yall didnt see the episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids.
Joanna loves tacos Don’t get me wrong she was bigoted, but a LOT less than most religious cis straight ppl. She thought homosexuality was a sin, but seemed to think it was no worse than sins she commits (wearing clothes of multiple fabrics, gluttony, jealousy, drinking, etc). As an atheist, I obviously disagree with this view, but it’s a hell of a lot better than most of my family’s. And despite her beliefs, she was never rude or cruel to him. Which is waaay more than I can say of him. He wouldn’t even let her touch his baby before she’d said a word. Seems like as soon as he saw a straight white woman, he decided she wasn’t good enough. He even basically said she was too dirty to touch his precious baby. And forced the kid to have another bath after she picked em up once. And that’s not even going into making her pick up shit whilst making fun of her after she generously asked if she could do anything to help... It’s ppl like this who make the left and the lgbtq+ community look back
WHAT THE BIBLE ACTUALLY SAYS ABOUT JUDGING: 1. Before judging anyone else, you are to judge yourself and make sure you have no sin first. Then deal with your own sin. Then go help the other person in sin. 2. We are not supposed to judge people who are not in the faith. Only God's family. 3. We are to judge situations so that we may make a wise choice in life. 4. When you judge somebody, you do it with love and respect and with the attitude of trying to help them and make their lives better. NOT with an attitude of I'm better than you. Yep, it's that simple folks. 🤷🤦
@@sveapearson693 I agree. The problem is not many Christians actually read thier Bible's and apply it to their lives. They just go to church on Sunday so they can feel good about themselves. That's why the Bible says not all of those who clam to be believers truly are, only those who do my Father's will. Also says to judge them by their fruit. If they are not acting in love then the Father is not in them. Now I'm talking about true love not the way the world defines love. It doesn't mean that your ok with people's sins. You love the person not the sin and you tell them the truth even if it hurts such as if you continue living a gay lifestyle, you will end up in hell. Or if you are a liar you will end up in hell if you don't repent. God's ways are higher than our ways. And His understanding surpasses all of our understanding. Jesus is amazing and if we all strive to live like he did, the world would be an amazing place.
@@MrsBee-uo2lc I disagree with your view on homosexuality, but as long as you're not hating on them and act in love like you said, you're entitled to your opinion and I'm glad you act with love and try to spread it to others.
@@sveapearson693 absolutely my friend. Everyone is entitled to have there own options and beliefs. Thank you for being respectful in this conversation. I hope you have a wonderful day. 🤍
Pavel Jurja we all sin. We said that every time. Jarious and the producers were so obsessed with this and clipped things to try and make it look that way. We never judge others for them sinning differently than us.
Brian Holloway if I had a gay child I’d love him or her. I pray for them every day like I would by straight children for God’s will to be done in their life. I work and have worked with lgbtq 🏳️🌈 people all the time. Outwardly when people see me they make observations and sometimes I remind them of those that hurt them. I’m a a big, white, muscular, athletic type that probably figuratively or literally threw rocks at them in school. I’m Shrek! Once people peel back the layers of the onion then fighting back the tears they see that there’s much, much more to me. I not “your dad “ that disowned you when you came out. I’m not that football players that shoved you in the locker.
Let these gay people live their lives damnit! So many homeless children that would love to have parents and would women rather live with a man that is not truthful to her? You know how many 'straight' men come home to a wife and kids everyday? I have more respect for those living their truth than those judging while living a full blown lie!
Beniya K who’s saying that gay people shouldn’t live their lives? anyone can live their lives, that doesn’t mean they’re without sin because you like their lifestyle.
i have a friend like just this. I understand and respect where she is coming from but damn.. Everything we do she critices.. sometimes it annoys me for real
@@TheGetchaweightup24 yea though out this video he made multiple calms that he believes in god. he said he went to multiple different churches & he actually had an Bible in his room
I'm glad she was able to step back and realize what she was doing instead of shutting down and reacting negatively to the fact that Jarius called her out. Long way to go, but at least it's something.
This episode really spoke to me. It shows what we do have to deal with as gay people in a relationship, I grew up in the church. Made my communion & confirmation. But when I came out as gay at 13 years old, I was banned from attending mass. Even just showing up at the church I would get glares. It’s been 7 years since then and I’m still not comfortable going back. People judge and they don’t even realize it. Me having a relationship with a man doesn’t make me any different, I’m still a human being. And I’m so happy with the way this woman opened her eyes to see how it truly is.
You’re still a human being but your actions are against your faith (assuming you still believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ). The Bible isn’t against those with the ATTRACTION of same sex, but with ACTING on it as it would be sexually immoral. That’s why this whole idea of “coming out” is so unnecessary, because honestly a person’s sexual attraction is not noteworthy to be celebrated or recognized by others. Nevertheless, I hope you find a church where you’ll feel welcomed and where you’ll be taught the unwatered, unapologetic word of God.
Ces personnes ne réalisent pas qu'aimer son prochain est le chemin de l'amour du christ. Tu es la plus création de dieu ! Sois cette lumière dans ce monde sans foi ni loi😘
@Track Nation You need to understand that the bible can be wrong. A lot of that shit that is in the bible is not how we would conduct ourselves. The bible justifies purity culture (i.e., Bathesba, Tamar, Susan, etc.), slavery, concubines, etc. If you really look at it, the bibles were all written by straight men with straight men agendas. I'm sure you probably read the New Testemant. Much kd the fucking book was written by anonymous individuals who claimed to be the apostles. They were not.
G.O N those were not side kicks... those were people who followed and worshipped him. God doesn’t need people to do the work for him is what this means. Not one single man on this earth has did the will of God. Not one has created life, not one has helped God judge, not one has created galaxies and the earth and everything you have today! God doesn’t need a side kick we are human and only can do what we are supposed to do which is worship God and help others that’s all.
G.O N without man God was here so God exist regardless with or without us. God was before the Bible was even created if you read the Bible you would know God was by himself to start with.
G.O N that’s exactly what I said! Worship God meaning be righteous and follow what God clearly tells us in the Bible and help others... not do what God tells us not to do which is judging people and acting like you have the power of God and we don’t. That’s what I’m talking about.
Him: trying to be a good father and feed babies Her: Jesus first! Honestly, I’m not a religious person. I like seeing health of children come first so I found this to be a little humorous. My boyfriend was raised catholic so we do grace before meals when I visit his family. I just find it funny of what I see as most important vs what she declared as most important
This is actually really wholesome guys. Speaking as a Christian Lesbian myself, this woman recognizes her wrong in passing judgment on others and apologizes and comes to an understanding with that gay husband. It seemed like a learning experience for her, and it turned out good. This was good growth. Kudos to her for understanding you can be Christian and gay.
Welll yes you actually can. It's very possible, as I, as an individual, am living breathing proof. Being gay doesn't mean you can't also be Christian. Or vice versa. The 2 do not cancel each other out, I can assure you.
@Spencer Tracy I am gay "like the man in this clip," meaning I am a lesbian and exclusively date other women. I prefer to date women. Liking the same sex is more about preference and who makes you feel the most complete as a partner. I do not "have urges" or engage in sexual acts since I am celibate till marriage, per my Christian faith requires of me and I uphold that promise for myself. Men, as a gender, simply have never done it for me. I like and prefer to be with a woman over a man.
@Spencer Tracy So boy, here's just a tip from me to you... God made me, just as He made you, good sir. We are ALL made in His image and likeness. ALL people. God made me gay just as He (I'm assuming at least) made you straight. ☺️ Just because it's different from what you've been taught growing up to believe doesn't make God's truth any less real. And the truth is is that God made me and you the same way He makes every other human being on this planet, and just because I happen to like the same gender does not make me any less of a Christian woman of faith. Hope you have a good day sir! 👋 Best of luck to you truly! 👍
She's not a bad person, she was taught these beliefs growing up, and she's willing to change her beliefs when she sees that they are wrong. I think this swap taught her a lot of things
“That’s my bby girl” I understand that you care and want the best for her, but you need to let her live her life. She’s old enough to make her own decisions.
This was nice. He understood who she was, and she let her empathy express genuine love from her heart, free from doctrine or creed. She just spoke her heart. I think that’s beautiful. I’m gay, and respect her and understand her true character doesn’t lie in opinions, but on how she treats and effects others.
The way that the woman realised that she had been judging gay people and even agreed that she was being judging towards him was actually a really nice moment!
goldjwes18 they have switched a man and woman before, it’s usually just because they are the “stay-at-home” person or who does more cleaning, cooking, etc.
One of the best "ah ha" moments I've seen ..specially on tv, when he so calmly in front of his kids asking her..then she realizes something that is there ...LOVE! period.
im glad she was able to own up to her mistakes like a true Christian. she’s allowed not to agree with their lifestyle, but she has to have grace, love, and sympathy for those she may not agree with!
Damn I was soooo blown away with how she took that... like jaw dropped 😳 she took that like a champ and then was willing to talk to him and he was able to show light on to the situation by sharing his life like this is amazing
I guess I’m the only person that seen that Jerrius was just trying to have a confrontation. Every damn minute he wants to talk about being “Black &Gay” and kept asking her “How do you feel about this “ .. “What’s your opinion on this “ and be even said “I think you are keeping something from me”. The lady did not care about his sexual preferences and just wanted to help take care of the kids and he wanted to start a damn argument . I’m glad they worked it out in the end .
I as about to say that I feel like a lot of people are going to hard on her. I understand hes a UA-camr and had a lot of fans but damn why do they excuse his actions and go real hard on the lady smh.
I like how the woman realized that she was judging and she told him how she feels. It makes me happy that she said that she doesn't like how it makes her feel. Mayybe she will change her thoughts on the subject
Pretty sure it says in the bible that you should treat others how you want to be treated. She literally read the part about not judging people WHILE judging him! I'm glad he was able to get through to her some. You can't change other people but you can accept them. And also those babies are so cute!
She really didnt seem like a bad person i liked how selfcountious she was at the end i hate how people expect others to change in an instant calm down people it takes time .
This is a small excerpt of a whole show where this guy Jarius was mostly a judgmental rude person that wouldn't allow this woman to physically touch his children for fear of germs. Made her pick up dog feces while heckling with his nanny as she did. He was far more judgmental then she was. This scene is from the rule change and she noticed they didn't eat meals as a family or say grace so she added it in as something her family does. He also acted like the world's best Dad when he has been at it for like a year with the assistance of a nanny. She has raised 8 children and is a nurse yet she wasn't suitable to help with his children because he knows better. SMH
I agree he was totally out of line and he actually seemed to judge her more. I felt like she was trying to step out of her comfort zone and he just wanted to fight.
V Well isn’t it hypocritical for his to paint Christians with a broad brush while sayin they do the same to gay people? Why can’t he jst say SHE is judgmental? Hell I know gay people that don’t believe in God that are judgmental of people that do! It goes both ways! 🤷🏾♀️😂
@@user-yp3xx2mn8p I bet yall didnt see the episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids.
This is so important. Yes she judged but she also opened her mind. This is why it's important to be out and proud so that people who are homophobic can slowly have their minds opened.
@@sunnybang9543 God also said eating food with scales is an abomination. I dont see bigots protesting at fish farms. Get lost with your selective cultist beliefs.
At least she is honest. People read some parts of the bible, they read what they want to read. You cannot follow only some parts and say yes I’m with god. You have to follow all parts 🤷♀️
@@TheDemsk Who cares what the Bible says? It has very little credibility and should be treated as such. And as far as feelings go, the whole concept of salvation through Jesus is based off as feeling as there is no hard evidence to support it. So either way, you're living according to your feelings not concrete facts.
@@TheDemsk Hey, you got something faster and to the point by chance? I'm honestly not gonna watch a whole series about it. I can't conjure enough interest. And regardless, I highly doubt they can come up with evidence proving that Jesus was God and you have to rely on him for salvation from an eternal hell.
@@TheDemsk The bible also says that slaves should listen to their masters, that was used against African Americans during the slavery times. they even wrote in women should be seen and not heard in most places because men wanted women to be afraid, they couldn't read so it wasnt thought of and was used to oppress people, my mother has a old set of all the bibles (1910s) and it doesn't say it anywhere. This was recently added to keep people scared.
It was obvious this man has prayed before.👍 The way he phrased his prayer and knew what to do (trust me a lot of people do not know how or get nervous to pray) says he does this a lot. That wife should have realized that after his prayer.
Vonna Ricks she didn’t force his religion on him. They stated they were Baptist Christians. So she was simply showing him what he said was also his faith and how we do things.
@@matthewgoss8847 Everyone has their own relationship to God. Just because you have one way doesn't mean that's the right way. Nor that it is the right way for others. What she did... is questionable.
EDIT: Ok, so I just watched the full episode and I have to say I have a slight change of heart. I DON’T think that the Goss family is racist BUT they are still definitely a filthy family. The excuse that the wife has 8 kids is a reason why things are dirty is a load of crap. My grandmother had 8 kids and would NEVER have allowed the house to look like it’s in disarray let alone let a dog shit on the floor and then sit on the couch. I don’t blame Jarius for not wanting Ms. Goss to touch his children. If I had kids, I wouldn’t want her to touch my children either. She may be a “nice lady” but I can say she’s not too bright when it comes to making analogies or picking up on certain social situations. And the Goss husband and wife are definitely homophobes. The husband is almost as lazy as the bodybuilder husband from the previous episodes. As for the Joseph family, do I think that Jarius judged Ms. Goss? Yes he did but based on how she assumed things about his faith and him being a gay man, I’d say his judgements were very much warranted. It’s not her place to be telling someone else how they should worship or what their relationship to God should be.
I figured it might something like that. Just the fact that she did this in someone's home. A place that is supposed to be safe. I can understand why he felt provoked and might have acted out.
I watched this whole show he was rude a nasty from jump. She never said she had a issue with him being gay he made everything about that. So when he said she must be nasty if she thinks his house is not lived in,or when he said he has to scrub his kids down because she touched them or how he was laughing making her feel like family picking up dog shit . Please this guy was rude disrespectful off rip.
I was a bit worried about watching this clip and it wasn’t looking very good for the lady at first.. But I will say she really turned this around, and I’m proud of her and my God is proud of her too.
This is what us in the lgbt community need to b doing , we should be kind and respectful and try to educate others on our struggle. Getting fired up when others judge only gives them satisfaction they want and totally misses out on an opportunity to sit down and have a mutually respectful conversation.
Terrible episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids. I like the white couples house more. They actually participated in the swap
I am Gay, and i couldn't care less if someone has an issue with it, they are allowed to have their own opinion, we can't live in a world where we bully people into submission all the time, forcing views at them for not conforming to the masses. If Religious people tell me i am a sinner or i am going to hell (I tell them i don't care where i am going because i am dead). Obviously if anyone causes me direct offence like trying to harm me or inciting personal violence, then that's different- it becomes less of an opinion, and more of a war. Seriously if people wanna hate the gays, they are well within their rights to do so, it is not my job to educate or be in charge of their emotions. it's so tedious trying to care., and i don't care enough about defending my happiness to them. Life is too short to worry about other peoples gripes, I disagree with gay marriage, do i need to be educated by the Masses ahhh (NO) It's my decision and my right to think for myself. If someone hates you for any reason, Just turn around and move on. don't try to change them, they're not important.
Halloweenville the comments here are kinda toxic and it’s really sad. As a Bisexual I kinda feel attacked too I dont know why I’m looking through the comments
Bottom line is that everyone sins....ALL THE TIME. We probably sin so many times of day and don't realize it because the ways of the flesh made us forget the way of God. But that's why He gave us the opportunity to repent and be forgiven because no matter what we are His children and He loves all of us the same. 💯
If you read the Bible it doesn't say being gay is a sin. Do you even read the Bible? If you do read it do you comprehend what you read? The Bible says engaging in gay sex is sinful. A gay person is sinning for having sex. A gay person doesn't sin just for simply being attracted to the same sex. A gay celibate person or a gay virgin aren't sinning.
@@AkonFenty1992 gm see when you have the holy ghost. You are not relaying on out own interpretation. You allow the how spirit to lead you to the truth. Thoughts can be a sin as well... thw bible says that. A person who is gay, bi sexual, or trans have a spirit or multiple spirit within them and deliverance is needed. It all starts within the mind.
@@georgeannacurry6229 I'm relaying on what is fact. The Bible doesn't mention anything about gay sexual attraction. The 7 verses are about gay sexual behavior. You do know when the Bible was first written that the word homosexual/homosexuality didn't appear in it. The word didn't appear in the Bible until 1946. The original word was mistranslated to homosexuality. The original Bible was referring to engaging in sexual activity. The Bible doesn't say sexual attraction is a sin. Lust of thoughts is a sin. The thought of lust is "such and such is hot I want to have sex" and that's a sin. Sexual attraction is "such and such looks nice I can see myself with them" now that isn't a sin. The Bible doesn't say anything about trans ppl. There is no mention about gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria and transitioning is what you need to be trans. As far as gay, bi, or lesbian, they're allowed to be that way as long as they don't engage in sexual behavior before marriage. Sex is for marriage and the purpose of sex to procreate, but the Bible also says sex can be for pleasure but in marriage. Infertile and gay couples engage in sex for pleasure in marriage. This is how I know you don't comprehend what you read. You just repeat like a parrot what someone told you to say.
@@johncook2155 I was genuinely curious where you heard that 😊 Based on scriptures, we are made in the image of God (Genesis). Every single one of us, and God doesn't judge based on outer appearances like humans tend to do (1 Samuel 16:7).
See this is what being an adult looks like. She said somethings... he told her how he felt and realised she was wrong. Many people would just argue back or say mean things but she didnt. She changed her mind and that deserves some respect.
The Bible DOES say that being gay is an abomination in both the old and new testaments. I reject all religions, these aren't my rules. So by all means be gay. More power to you. But don't act hurt and surprised when Christians call you out on it. That IS what the book says.
the bible also says you shouldnt wear clothes woven of two different materials but you dont see christians following that lol ....... the point is that the bible is an extremely old document and social circumstances have evolved enough for us to be able to point at which parts are not relevant in the current day and which are
We are supposed to love one another. Just because someone tells you that a certain lifestyle is sinful doesn’t mean they don’t love you. Any outside feelings that goes against God’s word is rejecting God. There will be a point to where we will have to give an account for our lives. Please do not continue to compromise with Sin when accepting Christ.
I would think that these holier than thou people at this point would start being concerned about all the unloved and uncared for children that hetererosexuals recklessly make instead of gay people.
“Getting a chance to see that is amazing.” You know what’s TRULY amazing to me? The fact that she assumes that just because this man is gay, he doesn’t love or believe in Jesus. Very ignorant.
Spencer Tracy seems to me like you’re the only one passing judgement. Because according to Proverbs 21:2, “the Lord weighs the heart.” I believe that your heart equates with your character and the way you make an impact on the world. You cannot assume that because someone is gay, they don’t love Jesus. Of course that’s what I believe, so you’re entitled to your own opinion 😊
For all y'all saying he hadle her right clearly didn't watch the whole episode he was awful to her, he practically put her in a corner, to make her come off as a judging person!!
Thank you! The dark skin husband was very very disrespectful to her the whole entire time. Making her purposely clean up dog poop while watching and laughing at her. She was very genuine about her approach and tried to understand him without judgement THE WHOLE TIME! She was a REAL MVP after that, still treated him with kindness and didn't change her character as he clearly wanted her to. Just so he could say, she so you a Christian acting like that. Baby... Jesus would literally had to be a fence if it was me! The whole entire time he was not open to anything, let alone her being in his home because she was a Christian. He automatically had a stance going into it, he assumed she was going to judge him because he was gay and married. I don't even understanding why he was the one that stay home instead of his husband! Now the his husband was a sweetheart all the way and was open to hearing someone else view point even trying to express his ideas and concerns respectful! He was very patience, kind and understanding. Now for her husband he needs to be more gentle with people with different backgrounds, upbringings and other people beliefs. He Needs REMEMBER ONE SIN IS NOT GREATER THAN THE OTHER! AND WE ARE NOT CALLED TO JUDGE ANYONE! But to assist each other in life, to help one others reach their full potential in Christ and soul mission. Regardless of his view point on how people SHOULD live their life. People fail to realize we all sin daily weather you believe it or not and NO ONE IS BETTER THAT the next.
Love the person. Hate the sin. Sure we all sin, but there’s a difference between making a mistake & living in that sin. That couple knows what they’re doing wrong. God bless
steve wilcox of course not. We don’t have the right to end a person’s life. What i do agree with is that a woman (or man) that isn’t a virgin has sinned, but can ask for forgiveness from God. Only God will decide their fate.
She’s absolutely right. He asked her a question and she gave an honest answer. The Bible clearly states it’s not Gods plan for people it can’t be ignored
@riley m not at all what I said. Someone in the relationship will always classify as the woman. Gay or not. They may not call themselves the woman but they usually do more of the roles women have been displayed to do in. Cooking cleaning taking care of the kids you know the "usual". Its no offense to anyone. I've got plenty gay members and a few that classify themselves as more of the female/woman role.
@@Lavender_Roseee uh no sis completely wrong. I'm gay and my boyfriend is not the woman and neither am I. I'm gay because I like MEN and so does my boyfriend. No female
@Spencer Tracy You missed the point. Besides that scripture is, as usual, taken out of context. YOU GUYS ALWAYS have to take scripture out of context in order to make your point. Tell you what, what don't you actually post the scripture in context. If you do, you'll figure out Christ was NOT talking about people judging others. In fact, Christ told us NOT to judge one another.
@Spencer Tracy "Do not judge unless you be judged." "Let him without sin cast the first stone." It's NOT that hard to figure out. You AGAIN take scripture out of context. Odd how you didn't post the scripture you first took out of context. You know, the one where you think Christ is saying it's OK to judge others but if you take the ENTIRE scripture and NOT take it out of context you would know He was speaking about people judging HIM, not others. People like you are a fraud. You go through such great lengths to dispel the core of Christ's teaching of "DO NOT JUDGE."
I watched this episode and the gay husband was so judgemental and rude to her the entire time like he was so much better than her it was crazy. I was hoping to see him represent the LGBT community well but he didn't at all. He was the one being judgemental.
These men are so articulate and classy. I dont handle judgment that well lol
They were judgement Al assholes the whole show. Especially Jarius..
How do u go through life without judgement then
Well they get judgement all the time
Sunny Bang thank you 🙏
@@sunnybang9543 CRINGE
"Im not a judgey person" girl you a whole lie
Tracy_en ummm that in no way was the point
@@3m3c7 you need to watch the episode..
Tracy_en I did you have no right to assume I dident T.T
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@@3m3c7 i dont think you understand the comment
He handled her with so much grace
Kristina Mccann wth? We clearly watched 2 different episodes! He just about broke the internet with the comments on how horrible he was to my wife.
Kristina Mccann He was mean to her. She was more respectful to him. I watched the whole show.
Faith Kings we don’t and the Bible clears states that we don’t have the right to judge except for him
Tiana Campos Actually in the Bible it does say we have the right to judge righteously. I mean if we aren’t allow to judge then I guess we have no right to judge people who break the law. Judging someone who breaks the law is the same a judging someone who breaks God’s law.
Kristina Mccann I'm watching the show right now & she was literally nothing but respectful to him & of his household even though her beliefs were different while he was laughing because he made her clean up dog crap & tried to start a conflict that wasn't there.
I feel like Jarius’s response was so amazing. He could’ve started an argument with her and could’ve screamed and yelled, but instead he calmly said to he her how she was judging him. It was so calm and collected, yet powerful at the same time.
Stardust Dark is your “proud” comment based off this clip or the entire episode. I don’t believe anyone can be proud of his behavior based on the entire episode.
Jarius was an close-minded jerk the entire show.
You clearly didn’t watch the episode. Cause he was a real jerk. Even when she was condemning homosexuality she was never trying to be personally cruel to him. She thought homosexuality was a sin but so is a lot of other stuff (drinking, wearing clothes made of multiple fiber kind, etc) and I didn’t get the impression she thought she was so superior. Unlike him, who had her cleaning dog shit and refused to let her touch the kids before she’d even said anything. I’d say he was actually more bigoted in the end than her. I say as a trans atheist man btw.
I bet yall didnt see the episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids.
Stardust Dark facts
People skip over everything else in the Bible except for homosexuality lmao
RZO 5685 yes the EViL straight men
Lev 13 20
Can someone lead me to the passage that says being gay is wrong. I’ve missed that part.
FRL
being gay and having an abortion
But everything else gets skipped.
maxy dany same I have no recollection of that in the bible. If it does happen to be in there it also states that we don’t have the right to judge, so I guess we’re both sinners.
If you're gonna include gay couples..The title should be changed to Spouse Swap.
breonroberts thats a good idea
@Byegurl YU2B but spouse includes everyone what's wrong with that.
That’s catchier. I like it
gameplayer502 What does changing the show name to spouse swap have anything to do with being liberal?
@@socommaster lol grow up, kid
I haven’t seen this episode, but I respect the woman for realizing she was wrong for judging at the end. All of us have our own beliefs. At least she was able to reflect on hers and realize how harmful her actions were to him. Some people aren’t willing to even do that.
Olivia B. She never judged him. He always expected her to. They edited a lot. A lot
She never judged him he was judgemental of her she's nasty dirty he was rude mean and totally disrespectful towards her off rip.
Sean 85 those aren’t THEIR kids because 2 men can’t make a baby.
La Original okay, so is lying. So is cheating. So is stealing. But we aren’t God. You pray for them, and worry about you. Being a judge mental Christian is a little ironic, right? 😉
And the law gave them permission to be those kids’ parents. You may not agree, but I’m sure they don’t care what you think 🤷🏾♀️
It makes you a better person because you accept homosexuality... Just out of curiosity what are you going to say to God on Judgement Day?
They should swap gay couples with other gay couples, I'm sure there are a lot that would like to participate.
MélissaEnvy lesbians and gays switch that’d be interesting!!
@@cuteatech great ratings!!!
@@alexjames2510 Sit down,you ignorant pile of slime.
Us gays are already open minded. This is great because it exposes homophobes to gay people and allows them to see we are just like every other boring ass person lol.
Yes. Cause that would great to see!
Sis this is a tv program not a conversion camp 👏
You should watch that episode. You will feel sorry for her..
She doing the right thing. Her goal is bigger than simply being on television. It’s about obey her conscience to do what is right
@@user-nx3ei5pl5h it's none of her business what hes doing though. Even with her beliefs, its just rude
magnolia_tea xoxo yes, it is her business as a Christian. In the Bible Christians are called to people the unadulterated bible. Just like it’s your business to do be a Good Samaritan if you see some being hurt and needing help. It’s alright for her to try to change his mind about his sexuality. Just like it’s okay for him to try to change her mind about her’s. Nothing is wrong with that. It’s a democracy. It’s a different thing if she said change your skin color. He was born with that skin. But there is do conclusive evidence that says he was born gay.
Remember, it’s your believe that she’s rude based on your values. But just like you live your truth, she lives her truth.
@@user-nx3ei5pl5h regardless of anyones faith it's none if their business if it ain't their life. It's not right for her to try and change him and it wouldn't be right for him to try to change her. It's not anyone's place to try and tell someone else how to live their own life.
And no he was born gay, show me some evidence he wasnt.
She sits there preaching at him about judgement... while judging him in the cruellest way possible.
Most of those religious nuts are the biggest hypocrites
How was she judging him in the most cruelest way possible??
@@eizyaws me too , I’m still trynna figure out how she was “judging him in the cruelest way possible”
@@chrissyboo564 I guess we'll have to continue to wait🙃🙃
@@omairsh8 First off your a hypocrite because you judge people also! People like you judge Chrstians for thier beliefs on homosexuality!
Terrell and Jarius are a handsome couple
liveelovelaugh1 with beautiful babies💕💕
💯💯💯
liveelovelaugh1 They are just a beautiful family.
intellilady n What about heterosexual women who cannot get pregnant?
@@roseaceae That's totally different. No comparison whatsoever! A Heterosexual woman may have some challenges physically. But her body was created to carry life and give life.... procreating with the opposite sex can only accomplish that! Women's bodies are complex and not being able to have children is not how she was born, but other medical issues could interfere with a women's hormonal balance and affect that part of her body. There are medications and even exposure to certain chemicals that can cause a person to become sterile. But Naturally speaking, it takes a woman and a man. A sperm and an egg. That's the way God intended for it to be point blank period. I was told I'd never have children, My husband and I have 2 beautiful children that were naturally conceived. I know so many women who were told that and after several years gave birth! But two sperms will never create life and two eggs will never create life. I stand by that 100%
I absolutely love the black couple 💙 so calm and so patient even when the other family is being completely ignorant . absolutely beautiful family.
What show did you watch? He was an ass to that poor woman.
Totally agree he was judgemental disrespectful ass the whole time
I bet yall didnt see the episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids.
Joanna loves tacos Don’t get me wrong she was bigoted, but a LOT less than most religious cis straight ppl. She thought homosexuality was a sin, but seemed to think it was no worse than sins she commits (wearing clothes of multiple fabrics, gluttony, jealousy, drinking, etc). As an atheist, I obviously disagree with this view, but it’s a hell of a lot better than most of my family’s.
And despite her beliefs, she was never rude or cruel to him. Which is waaay more than I can say of him. He wouldn’t even let her touch his baby before she’d said a word. Seems like as soon as he saw a straight white woman, he decided she wasn’t good enough. He even basically said she was too dirty to touch his precious baby. And forced the kid to have another bath after she picked em up once. And that’s not even going into making her pick up shit whilst making fun of her after she generously asked if she could do anything to help...
It’s ppl like this who make the left and the lgbtq+ community look back
@Sean 85 lmao her opinions of gayness are hardly tolerant.
WHAT THE BIBLE ACTUALLY SAYS ABOUT JUDGING:
1. Before judging anyone else, you are to judge yourself and make sure you have no sin first. Then deal with your own sin. Then go help the other person in sin.
2. We are not supposed to judge people who are not in the faith. Only God's family.
3. We are to judge situations so that we may make a wise choice in life.
4. When you judge somebody, you do it with love and respect and with the attitude of trying to help them and make their lives better. NOT with an attitude of I'm better than you.
Yep, it's that simple folks. 🤷🤦
Wait they're not supposed to judge non Christians? Wow if they followed that I feel like alot of things would be better.
@@sveapearson693 I agree. The problem is not many Christians actually read thier Bible's and apply it to their lives. They just go to church on Sunday so they can feel good about themselves. That's why the Bible says not all of those who clam to be believers truly are, only those who do my Father's will. Also says to judge them by their fruit. If they are not acting in love then the Father is not in them.
Now I'm talking about true love not the way the world defines love. It doesn't mean that your ok with people's sins. You love the person not the sin and you tell them the truth even if it hurts such as if you continue living a gay lifestyle, you will end up in hell. Or if you are a liar you will end up in hell if you don't repent. God's ways are higher than our ways. And His understanding surpasses all of our understanding. Jesus is amazing and if we all strive to live like he did, the world would be an amazing place.
@@MrsBee-uo2lc I disagree with your view on homosexuality, but as long as you're not hating on them and act in love like you said, you're entitled to your opinion and I'm glad you act with love and try to spread it to others.
@@sveapearson693 absolutely my friend. Everyone is entitled to have there own options and beliefs. Thank you for being respectful in this conversation. I hope you have a wonderful day. 🤍
The bible is full of contradictions
Your one had a tattoo on her wrist is that not a sin ?
Pavel Jurja we all sin. We said that every time. Jarious and the producers were so obsessed with this and clipped things to try and make it look that way. We never judge others for them sinning differently than us.
Matthew Goss are speaking on behalf of all Christians ?
Robyn Mimi in what regards?
If you are referring to the “we” I was speaking on behalf of my family that so many are assuming they know from a few clips and an edited hack job.
Brian Holloway if I had a gay child I’d love him or her. I pray for them every day like I would by straight children for God’s will to be done in their life. I work and have worked with lgbtq 🏳️🌈 people all the time. Outwardly when people see me they make observations and sometimes I remind them of those that hurt them. I’m a a big, white, muscular, athletic type that probably figuratively or literally threw rocks at them in school. I’m Shrek! Once people peel back the layers of the onion then fighting back the tears they see that there’s much, much more to me. I not “your dad “ that disowned you when you came out. I’m not that football players that shoved you in the locker.
Let these gay people live their lives damnit!
So many homeless children that would love to have parents and would women rather live with a man that is not truthful to her?
You know how many 'straight' men come home to a wife and kids everyday?
I have more respect for those living their truth than those judging while living a full blown lie!
Beniya K who’s saying that gay people shouldn’t live their lives? anyone can live their lives, that doesn’t mean they’re without sin because you like their lifestyle.
Beniya K god is the only judge. and yeah i agree it’s not her place to say what she said at the time and situation.
I agree 100 percent!!!
Princess Vasquez “Everyone sins.” Broad statement. You know it’s possible to remove sin from your life, right?
Byegurl YU2B he was talking about gay sex.
You can't force your religion on someone.
yas!!! I have an aunt who drags religion into everything even her own mother used to eye roll!
i have a friend like just this. I understand and respect where she is coming from but damn.. Everything we do she critices.. sometimes it annoys me for real
Yes you can
Doesn’t mean it will exactly work though
Honest question I did not see the episode but did the man claim to follow God?
@@TheGetchaweightup24 yea though out this video he made multiple calms that he believes in god. he said he went to multiple different churches & he actually had an Bible in his room
I really respect her for her response to his comment.
Ky Riley yeah - I was shocked - took a lot of courage
i would of said no im not gonna answer you cause you will take it the wrong way.
Finally someone with some sense in these comments!
"If something does happen I'll take it out on you" do these people hear themselves? It's so hateful and uncalled for , seriously
he was just kidding
i love GOD and JESUS{readjohn6:38pls}
Relax. It was never that deep 😒
@@tracknation7285 But he threw a tantrum at the end and was too scared to do anything
I'm glad she was able to step back and realize what she was doing instead of shutting down and reacting negatively to the fact that Jarius called her out. Long way to go, but at least it's something.
My mama always said everybody just wants to be loved . She was a Christian. . Judgement is not ours to give .
This episode really spoke to me. It shows what we do have to deal with as gay people in a relationship, I grew up in the church. Made my communion & confirmation. But when I came out as gay at 13 years old, I was banned from attending mass. Even just showing up at the church I would get glares. It’s been 7 years since then and I’m still not comfortable going back. People judge and they don’t even realize it. Me having a relationship with a man doesn’t make me any different, I’m still a human being. And I’m so happy with the way this woman opened her eyes to see how it truly is.
You’re still a human being but your actions are against your faith (assuming you still believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ). The Bible isn’t against those with the ATTRACTION of same sex, but with ACTING on it as it would be sexually immoral. That’s why this whole idea of “coming out” is so unnecessary, because honestly a person’s sexual attraction is not noteworthy to be celebrated or recognized by others. Nevertheless, I hope you find a church where you’ll feel welcomed and where you’ll be taught the unwatered, unapologetic word of God.
Ces personnes ne réalisent pas qu'aimer son prochain est le chemin de l'amour du christ. Tu es la plus création de dieu ! Sois cette lumière dans ce monde sans foi ni loi😘
@Track Nation You need to understand that the bible can be wrong. A lot of that shit that is in the bible is not how we would conduct ourselves. The bible justifies purity culture (i.e., Bathesba, Tamar, Susan, etc.), slavery, concubines, etc.
If you really look at it, the bibles were all written by straight men with straight men agendas. I'm sure you probably read the New Testemant. Much kd the fucking book was written by anonymous individuals who claimed to be the apostles. They were not.
God does not need a side kick. Remember that !
@Spencer Tracy exactly!
@Spencer Tracy exactly
G.O N those were not side kicks... those were people who followed and worshipped him. God doesn’t need people to do the work for him is what this means. Not one single man on this earth has did the will of God. Not one has created life, not one has helped God judge, not one has created galaxies and the earth and everything you have today! God doesn’t need a side kick we are human and only can do what we are supposed to do which is worship God and help others that’s all.
G.O N without man God was here so God exist regardless with or without us. God was before the Bible was even created if you read the Bible you would know God was by himself to start with.
G.O N that’s exactly what I said! Worship God meaning be righteous and follow what God clearly tells us in the Bible and help others... not do what God tells us not to do which is judging people and acting like you have the power of God and we don’t. That’s what I’m talking about.
Him: trying to be a good father and feed babies
Her: Jesus first!
Honestly, I’m not a religious person. I like seeing health of children come first so I found this to be a little humorous. My boyfriend was raised catholic so we do grace before meals when I visit his family. I just find it funny of what I see as most important vs what she declared as most important
Jesus is supposed to come first before ANYTHING!!!! Shame on you!!!
I am heterosexual and I think Terrell and Jarius are wonderful parents, I wish I could have had parent like them.
These people are good people. Bible badgers should put their skills to people who actually need help
Amanda Moratis everyone needs help.
More like those who actually WANT help because you can't help those who doesn't want it.
Amanda Moratis thank you for that I think we are good people too.
The bible is bullshit that was rewritten by the Romans and multiple others
@@sandwitches4078 why would Romans write bad stuff that they did to Christ.
Becky is always jumping in someone’s business !!!!!
Doziér Dynasty this isn't a racial issue dammit!
up cut LMFAOOOOO
Per usual
mari fofa exactlyyyyyy
Always look crazy as hell what is European beauty standard all I see is a female neander 😂😂😂🐷
The correct answer is yes. You should love that person. But that love isn't loving their sin, it's loving them as a person
Being gay isn't a sin. God knows that He created people gay.
@positivepessimist6853 incorrect. It's a sinful behavior. No one is born gay. That's ridiculous.
"If something does happen I'm gonna take it out on you" Soooo no one else was uncomfortable by that statement?
This is actually really wholesome guys. Speaking as a Christian Lesbian myself, this woman recognizes her wrong in passing judgment on others and apologizes and comes to an understanding with that gay husband. It seemed like a learning experience for her, and it turned out good. This was good growth. Kudos to her for understanding you can be Christian and gay.
Welll yes you actually can. It's very possible, as I, as an individual, am living breathing proof. Being gay doesn't mean you can't also be Christian. Or vice versa. The 2 do not cancel each other out, I can assure you.
@Spencer Tracy
I am gay "like the man in this clip," meaning I am a lesbian and exclusively date other women. I prefer to date women. Liking the same sex is more about preference and who makes you feel the most complete as a partner. I do not "have urges" or engage in sexual acts since I am celibate till marriage, per my Christian faith requires of me and I uphold that promise for myself.
Men, as a gender, simply have never done it for me. I like and prefer to be with a woman over a man.
@Spencer Tracy
So boy, here's just a tip from me to you...
God made me, just as He made you, good sir. We are ALL made in His image and likeness. ALL people. God made me gay just as He (I'm assuming at least) made you straight. ☺️
Just because it's different from what you've been taught growing up to believe doesn't make God's truth any less real.
And the truth is is that God made me and you the same way He makes every other human being on this planet, and just because I happen to like the same gender does not make me any less of a Christian woman of faith.
Hope you have a good day sir! 👋 Best of luck to you truly! 👍
He’s so patient. I could never handle crassness like that.
She's not a bad person, she was taught these beliefs growing up, and she's willing to change her beliefs when she sees that they are wrong. I think this swap taught her a lot of things
“That’s my bby girl”
I understand that you care and want the best for her, but you need to let her live her life. She’s old enough to make her own decisions.
He’s such a sweetheart, and so is his husband.
This was nice. He understood who she was, and she let her empathy express genuine love from her heart, free from doctrine or creed. She just spoke her heart. I think that’s beautiful. I’m gay, and respect her and understand her true character doesn’t lie in opinions, but on how she treats and effects others.
The way that the woman realised that she had been judging gay people and even agreed that she was being judging towards him was actually a really nice moment!
She’s actually being respectful y’all just don’t want to give her credit
this is what happens if people take there imaginary friend all the way in to adulthood.
@@sunnybang9543 turn he in to priests and lives in kids and your right.
Sunny LIT you can’t say ‘god is real’ just because you believe in them. in that case unicorns are real and we must all worship them or we will die !
Wait why they got gay guys on “wife swap” lol? I mean ain’t nothing wrong with it but it defeats the purpose of the title lol
goldjwes18 they have switched a man and woman before, it’s usually just because they are the “stay-at-home” person or who does more cleaning, cooking, etc.
goldjwes18 would you rather they create a whole new show just for one episode? 😂
Most of the new episodes feature gay couples. Seems like it's pushing an agenda.
kokoniqueful seems like they’re finally being inclusive to all couples, stop being a dick
@@austinm8334 @Austin M I've stated a fact. Your comment is meaningless since you can only resort to name-calling like a typical, empty headed bully.
Did he put the leftovers back in the container
Ikr 🤣
One of the best "ah ha" moments I've seen ..specially on tv, when he so calmly in front of his kids asking her..then she realizes something that is there ...LOVE! period.
im glad she was able to own up to her mistakes like a true Christian. she’s allowed not to agree with their lifestyle, but she has to have grace, love, and sympathy for those she may not agree with!
Damn I was soooo blown away with how she took that... like jaw dropped 😳 she took that like a champ and then was willing to talk to him and he was able to show light on to the situation by sharing his life like this is amazing
I guess I’m the only person that seen that Jerrius was just trying to have a confrontation. Every damn minute he wants to talk about being “Black &Gay” and kept asking her “How do you feel about this “ .. “What’s your opinion on this “ and be even said “I think you are keeping something from me”. The lady did not care about his sexual preferences and just wanted to help take care of the kids and he wanted to start a damn argument . I’m glad they worked it out in the end .
Such a good observation
I as about to say that I feel like a lot of people are going to hard on her. I understand hes a UA-camr and had a lot of fans but damn why do they excuse his actions and go real hard on the lady smh.
Aimee Ruiz Because they are probably sensitive and hurt like him lol
Was that in this clip or did i miss something?
j bre Well if you didn’t watch the show or seen it in this clip then you did .
I like how the woman realized that she was judging and she told him how she feels. It makes me happy that she said that she doesn't like how it makes her feel. Mayybe she will change her thoughts on the subject
"We're gonna talk about judging.." I smell hypocrisy..
The wife actually did a good job of realizing what she was doing wrong. Most people don’t do that because it’s not easy so good for her
Pretty sure it says in the bible that you should treat others how you want to be treated. She literally read the part about not judging people WHILE judging him! I'm glad he was able to get through to her some. You can't change other people but you can accept them.
And also those babies are so cute!
No matter what I just love 💕 seeing two parents in the house hold it’s beautiful and important to have two parents who love and care for you
She really didnt seem like a bad person i liked how selfcountious she was at the end i hate how people expect others to change in an instant calm down people it takes time .
That was very big of her to admit the fault. She's sees the "sin" but she also sees a human being.
This is a small excerpt of a whole show where this guy Jarius was mostly a judgmental rude person that wouldn't allow this woman to physically touch his children for fear of germs. Made her pick up dog feces while heckling with his nanny as she did. He was far more judgmental then she was. This scene is from the rule change and she noticed they didn't eat meals as a family or say grace so she added it in as something her family does. He also acted like the world's best Dad when he has been at it for like a year with the assistance of a nanny. She has raised 8 children and is a nurse yet she wasn't suitable to help with his children because he knows better. SMH
I agree he was totally out of line and he actually seemed to judge her more. I felt like she was trying to step out of her comfort zone and he just wanted to fight.
I did really like Nina when she came to the house amd was treated like ***by this guy indeed.
I’m 😴.... These Christians are so judgmental I can’t do it 🤦♂️.... We just have to live our lives and be happy and ignore these ignorant people 🖐🏽
RehabStudy I’m a Christian and I’m gay
MidnightStar um okay
Rubin Chavarria Her point is don’t judge! He’s saying Christians are judgmental all while judging an entire group based on a few! 🤷🏾♀️😂
V Well isn’t it hypocritical for his to paint Christians with a broad brush while sayin they do the same to gay people? Why can’t he jst say SHE is judgmental? Hell I know gay people that don’t believe in God that are judgmental of people that do! It goes both ways! 🤷🏾♀️😂
@@user-yp3xx2mn8p I bet yall didnt see the episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids.
This is so important. Yes she judged but she also opened her mind. This is why it's important to be out and proud so that people who are homophobic can slowly have their minds opened.
@@sunnybang9543 God also said eating food with scales is an abomination. I dont see bigots protesting at fish farms. Get lost with your selective cultist beliefs.
Okay but I am so happy the show included a gay couple in wife swap!!
I like how she admitted she was wrong
At least she is honest. People read some parts of the bible, they read what they want to read. You cannot follow only some parts and say yes I’m with god. You have to follow all parts 🤷♀️
You Don’t Matter .. how when she has a tattoo on her wrist?
the thing is you can be a believer and not act like it. Its in your heart not what you say.
@@TheDemsk Who cares what the Bible says? It has very little credibility and should be treated as such. And as far as feelings go, the whole concept of salvation through Jesus is based off as feeling as there is no hard evidence to support it. So either way, you're living according to your feelings not concrete facts.
@@TheDemsk Hey, you got something faster and to the point by chance? I'm honestly not gonna watch a whole series about it. I can't conjure enough interest. And regardless, I highly doubt they can come up with evidence proving that Jesus was God and you have to rely on him for salvation from an eternal hell.
@@TheDemsk The bible also says that slaves should listen to their masters, that was used against African Americans during the slavery times. they even wrote in women should be seen and not heard in most places because men wanted women to be afraid, they couldn't read so it wasnt thought of and was used to oppress people, my mother has a old set of all the bibles (1910s) and it doesn't say it anywhere. This was recently added to keep people scared.
I ❤ when the "teacher" ends up being taught!
It was obvious this man has prayed before.👍 The way he phrased his prayer and knew what to do (trust me a lot of people do not know how or get nervous to pray) says he does this a lot. That wife should have realized that after his prayer.
Exactly why you don’t judge people... she should of got to kno him first instead of trying to force her religion on him
Vonna Ricks she didn’t force his religion on him. They stated they were Baptist Christians. So she was simply showing him what he said was also his faith and how we do things.
He’s a Christian too though.....
Yeah I should of wrote how I felt better.....
@@matthewgoss8847 Everyone has their own relationship to God. Just because you have one way doesn't mean that's the right way. Nor that it is the right way for others.
What she did... is questionable.
Ikajo what’s your point?
God just wants everyone to love eachother :(
Isn’t gluttony a sin 🤨👀👀☕️
😭😭😭😭😭 lol you wild.
EDIT:
Ok, so I just watched the full episode and I have to say I have a slight change of heart. I DON’T think that the Goss family is racist BUT they are still definitely a filthy family. The excuse that the wife has 8 kids is a reason why things are dirty is a load of crap. My grandmother had 8 kids and would NEVER have allowed the house to look like it’s in disarray let alone let a dog shit on the floor and then sit on the couch. I don’t blame Jarius for not wanting Ms. Goss to touch his children. If I had kids, I wouldn’t want her to touch my children either. She may be a “nice lady” but I can say she’s not too bright when it comes to making analogies or picking up on certain social situations. And the Goss husband and wife are definitely homophobes. The husband is almost as lazy as the bodybuilder husband from the previous episodes.
As for the Joseph family, do I think that Jarius judged Ms. Goss? Yes he did but based on how she assumed things about his faith and him being a gay man, I’d say his judgements were very much warranted. It’s not her place to be telling someone else how they should worship or what their relationship to God should be.
Sean 85
That’s not what they said or implied.
Sean 85
No it’s not.
I figured it might something like that. Just the fact that she did this in someone's home. A place that is supposed to be safe. I can understand why he felt provoked and might have acted out.
I watched this whole show he was rude a nasty from jump. She never said she had a issue with him being gay he made everything about that. So when he said she must be nasty if she thinks his house is not lived in,or when he said he has to scrub his kids down because she touched them or how he was laughing making her feel like family picking up dog shit . Please this guy was rude disrespectful off rip.
Exactly. I don’t agree with her views AT ALL but she always treated him with respect. The opposite couldn’t be less true.
He was straight nasty to her, it’s like she couldn’t say anything and he was ready to pounce. She responded with class honestly
I will never understand why people join or stay part of a religion that states that you shouldn't exist
It seems like this part was very rehearsed. Like they knew what to say to get a reaction.
I was a bit worried about watching this clip and it wasn’t looking very good for the lady at first.. But I will say she really turned this around, and I’m proud of her and my God is proud of her too.
finally a video that didn't drive me insane
This is what us in the lgbt community need to b doing , we should be kind and respectful and try to educate others on our struggle. Getting fired up when others judge only gives them satisfaction they want and totally misses out on an opportunity to sit down and have a mutually respectful conversation.
This is the episode i want to see....i think its a good one
Terrible episode. The black husband who stayed at home was so rude and didnt let her do anything and wouldnt let 1 sentence out his mouth without the word gay. They could be walking down the street with the kids and he couldnt help but bring up the word gay. She couldnt even touch the kids. Imagine doing a wife swap and for 2 weeks you just clean. Being lectured about the gay topic and cant touch the kids. I like the white couples house more. They actually participated in the swap
I am Gay, and i couldn't care less if someone has an issue with it, they are allowed to have their own opinion, we can't live in a world where we bully people into submission all the time, forcing views at them for not conforming to the masses.
If Religious people tell me i am a sinner or i am going to hell (I tell them i don't care where i am going because i am dead).
Obviously if anyone causes me direct offence like trying to harm me or inciting personal violence, then that's different- it becomes less of an opinion, and more of a war.
Seriously if people wanna hate the gays, they are well within their rights to do so, it is not my job to educate or be in charge of their emotions. it's so tedious trying to care., and i don't care enough about defending my happiness to them.
Life is too short to worry about other peoples gripes,
I disagree with gay marriage, do i need to be educated by the Masses ahhh (NO) It's my decision and my right to think for myself.
If someone hates you for any reason, Just turn around and move on. don't try to change them, they're not important.
Halloweenville the comments here are kinda toxic and it’s really sad. As a Bisexual I kinda feel attacked too
I dont know why I’m looking through the comments
Halloweenville seriously though, right?
Bottom line is that everyone sins....ALL THE TIME. We probably sin so many times of day and don't realize it because the ways of the flesh made us forget the way of God. But that's why He gave us the opportunity to repent and be forgiven because no matter what we are His children and He loves all of us the same. 💯
“I’m not a judgey person but I judged the situation...”
*BRUH!* 😂😂
Towards the end I yelled, “CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT” and my mom said find one 😑
Guys she loves me, I swear !
If the bible says it's a sin, it's a sin doesn't mean I love you any less. You have to work out your own salvation
If you read the Bible it doesn't say being gay is a sin. Do you even read the Bible? If you do read it do you comprehend what you read? The Bible says engaging in gay sex is sinful. A gay person is sinning for having sex. A gay person doesn't sin just for simply being attracted to the same sex. A gay celibate person or a gay virgin aren't sinning.
@@AkonFenty1992 gm see when you have the holy ghost. You are not relaying on out own interpretation. You allow the how spirit to lead you to the truth. Thoughts can be a sin as well... thw bible says that. A person who is gay, bi sexual, or trans have a spirit or multiple spirit within them and deliverance is needed. It all starts within the mind.
@@georgeannacurry6229 I'm relaying on what is fact. The Bible doesn't mention anything about gay sexual attraction. The 7 verses are about gay sexual behavior. You do know when the Bible was first written that the word homosexual/homosexuality didn't appear in it. The word didn't appear in the Bible until 1946. The original word was mistranslated to homosexuality. The original Bible was referring to engaging in sexual activity. The Bible doesn't say sexual attraction is a sin. Lust of thoughts is a sin. The thought of lust is "such and such is hot I want to have sex" and that's a sin. Sexual attraction is "such and such looks nice I can see myself with them" now that isn't a sin. The Bible doesn't say anything about trans ppl. There is no mention about gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria and transitioning is what you need to be trans. As far as gay, bi, or lesbian, they're allowed to be that way as long as they don't engage in sexual behavior before marriage. Sex is for marriage and the purpose of sex to procreate, but the Bible also says sex can be for pleasure but in marriage. Infertile and gay couples engage in sex for pleasure in marriage. This is how I know you don't comprehend what you read. You just repeat like a parrot what someone told you to say.
@@AkonFenty1992 lol one thing i do not do is argue about the word of God.🤣🤣🤣 Study to show thyself approve. Have a good day
@@AkonFenty1992 you have been taught false doctrine!
I’m pretty sure the Bible also says being ugly is a sin.
Oh...what scripture is that?
Veronica Mmari mind your business
@@johncook2155 I was genuinely curious where you heard that 😊
Based on scriptures, we are made in the image of God (Genesis). Every single one of us, and God doesn't judge based on outer appearances like humans tend to do (1 Samuel 16:7).
John Cook okay if that’s true that’s hilarious lmfao
Haha I’m just kidding. She just has a nerve talking that way with an appearance like that.
Its crazy that Jarius and terrell were on this show i had no idea. I found them through jesssfam love them!!!
See this is what being an adult looks like. She said somethings... he told her how he felt and realised she was wrong. Many people would just argue back or say mean things but she didnt. She changed her mind and that deserves some respect.
The Bible DOES say that being gay is an abomination in both the old and new testaments. I reject all religions, these aren't my rules. So by all means be gay. More power to you. But don't act hurt and surprised when Christians call you out on it. That IS what the book says.
the bible also says you shouldnt wear clothes woven of two different materials but you dont see christians following that lol ....... the point is that the bible is an extremely old document and social circumstances have evolved enough for us to be able to point at which parts are not relevant in the current day and which are
"readin the babble"
We are supposed to love one another. Just because someone tells you that a certain lifestyle is sinful doesn’t mean they don’t love you. Any outside feelings that goes against God’s word is rejecting God. There will be a point to where we will have to give an account for our lives. Please do not continue to compromise with Sin when accepting Christ.
Seems like these families are getting less crazy lol
The husband is about to be turned out 😆
Why does this line backer keep going on jugding this man in his family.
English mums in Birmingham: “hunny are you going to school? Don’t forgot your knife and man bag. And did you smell proof your weed?”
There is so much wrong with this. This is just wrong. Worst swap ever
Them men need Jesus. Jesus don’t make mistakes.
@@user-nx3ei5pl5h If that's the case, He made them gay.
the way she said “unchaperoned date” had me WEAK ik that’s an IMPORTANT word in her house 🤣
I want a god damn full episode!!!
Sameee, i can't find it anywhere
im glad they talked it out and she was able to see a different perspective
I would think that these holier than thou people at this point would start being concerned about all the unloved and uncared for children that hetererosexuals recklessly make instead of gay people.
“Getting a chance to see that is amazing.” You know what’s TRULY amazing to me? The fact that she assumes that just because this man is gay, he doesn’t love or believe in Jesus. Very ignorant.
Spencer Tracy seems to me like you’re the only one passing judgement. Because according to Proverbs 21:2, “the Lord weighs the heart.” I believe that your heart equates with your character and the way you make an impact on the world. You cannot assume that because someone is gay, they don’t love Jesus. Of course that’s what I believe, so you’re entitled to your own opinion 😊
For all y'all saying he hadle her right clearly didn't watch the whole episode he was awful to her, he practically put her in a corner, to make her come off as a judging person!!
Thank you! The dark skin husband was very very disrespectful to her the whole entire time. Making her purposely clean up dog poop while watching and laughing at her. She was very genuine about her approach and tried to understand him without judgement THE WHOLE TIME! She was a REAL MVP after that, still treated him with kindness and didn't change her character as he clearly wanted her to. Just so he could say, she so you a Christian acting like that. Baby... Jesus would literally had to be a fence if it was me! The whole entire time he was not open to anything, let alone her being in his home because she was a Christian. He automatically had a stance going into it, he assumed she was going to judge him because he was gay and married. I don't even understanding why he was the one that stay home instead of his husband! Now the his husband was a sweetheart all the way and was open to hearing someone else view point even trying to express his ideas and concerns respectful! He was very patience, kind and understanding. Now for her husband he needs to be more gentle with people with different backgrounds, upbringings and other people beliefs. He Needs REMEMBER ONE SIN IS NOT GREATER THAN THE OTHER! AND WE ARE NOT CALLED TO JUDGE ANYONE! But to assist each other in life, to help one others reach their full potential in Christ and soul mission. Regardless of his view point on how people SHOULD live their life. People fail to realize we all sin daily weather you believe it or not and NO ONE IS BETTER THAT the next.
Not gonna lie, the mom handled that well in the end
Love the person. Hate the sin. Sure we all sin, but there’s a difference between making a mistake & living in that sin. That couple knows what they’re doing wrong. God bless
steve wilcox of course not. We don’t have the right to end a person’s life. What i do agree with is that a woman (or man) that isn’t a virgin has sinned, but can ask for forgiveness from God. Only God will decide their fate.
She’s absolutely right. He asked her a question and she gave an honest answer. The Bible clearly states it’s not Gods plan for people it can’t be ignored
If this is WIFE SWAP......then why are they swapping husbands.
Sis. There always a woman in the relationship whether its guy or girl
@riley m not at all what I said. Someone in the relationship will always classify as the woman. Gay or not. They may not call themselves the woman but they usually do more of the roles women have been displayed to do in. Cooking cleaning taking care of the kids you know the "usual". Its no offense to anyone. I've got plenty gay members and a few that classify themselves as more of the female/woman role.
@@Lavender_Roseee uh no sis completely wrong. I'm gay and my boyfriend is not the woman and neither am I. I'm gay because I like MEN and so does my boyfriend. No female
Are all the hoes on basketball wives wives of basketball players its the same thing
riley m don’t pay her no mind she slow.
John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge RIGHTEOUS judgment.
Better to be JUDGED here than THERE
Clean your own house 1st.
@Spencer Tracy You missed the point. Besides that scripture is, as usual, taken out of context.
YOU GUYS ALWAYS have to take scripture out of context in order to make your point. Tell you what, what don't you actually post the scripture in context. If you do, you'll figure out Christ was NOT talking about people judging others. In fact, Christ told us NOT to judge one another.
@Spencer Tracy "Do not judge unless you be judged."
"Let him without sin cast the first stone."
It's NOT that hard to figure out.
You AGAIN take scripture out of context. Odd how you didn't post the scripture you first took out of context. You know, the one where you think Christ is saying it's OK to judge others but if you take the ENTIRE scripture and NOT take it out of context you would know He was speaking about people judging HIM, not others.
People like you are a fraud. You go through such great lengths to dispel the core of Christ's teaching of "DO NOT JUDGE."
@Spencer Tracy Beautifully explained.
Can we be friends?
@Spencer Tracy Will do!
God bless you.
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I watched this episode and the gay husband was so judgemental and rude to her the entire time like he was so much better than her it was crazy. I was hoping to see him represent the LGBT community well but he didn't at all. He was the one being judgemental.
I wish more people could see this comment.
This show is called wife swap how the Hell they even get casted
I’m a Christian and my brother is gay :) I love him and idc if he is he’s still my brother
The end of that video made me cry.