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...And a man that desires more from the relationship than just sex. I desire a true connection of intimacy on all levels in and outside of the bedroom. I want to be in love again, I miss that feeling. But, I will not be anyone’s fool ever again, I’d rather grow old alone.
Also...a man has to be ready for what he wants as well. If you want a Good Woman, you should be prepared for such. I've seen a lot situations, myself included, where a Good Woman came and the man lost her because he was still doing his BS or just not mentally there.
Physical attraction is # 1 and there is not a close second. More specifically a woman’s weight is the most important thing. If a woman is not height/weight appropriate then there is no attraction.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
I like that you don't just cater to women. It's so refreshing. As a married woman, my husband found me and I have always been positive about what I had. I love being feminine, keeping myself up for my husband, taking care of the house and cooking, staying loyal, never nagging him the moment he gets home. Single ladies understand, a man will give you everything if you simple love and honor him. Stop arguing for arguments sake.
I'm a woman and it's annoying that women keep saying, "well men need to do it too" 🙄🙄🙄!!!! Ugh! Like stop pointing fingers and work on SELF! Most men know the issues they need to improve but stick to the topic and heal IF needed. If not...keep it moving...
Another thing a Good Man looks from a woman is Self Confidence. Knowing who she is, what she wants(without being rude) so that y'all can stay on the same page. No guessing games or being wishy washy.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
A good man wants to feel appreciated, accepted, respected; to be with a woman who is comfortable being authentic in her feminine energy and vulnerable as she respectively expresses her needs and trusts a man will do his best to meet her needs; a woman who has proactive boundaries; actively listens especially when there is discomfort/distress and willing to repair and co-regulate each other during conflicts. These qualities are attractive to a good man.
Masculine energy will wear you down and it is stress! You are so right I!!! I realized that after multiple burnouts. Our biology is not made for stress. Feminine Energy is so fundamental for a healthy relationship.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
@Shvmeless Kreations totally! It can wear you down! And why worry? We don't give ourselves permission to relax and rest and let someone else take care of things AND us.
Bottom line, if he treats me like a queen, I’ll treat him like a king. Women gotta be careful because most of these men will demand the hell out of you, but don’t have the ability to meet your basic care in a healthy relationship.
@lavidavi I'm Always overrly honest. But yeah, I cant expect everybody to be as honest and real as I am. But yeah, All I ask is you be honest with me. Nothing worst than a person that lies to your face...especially for stupid reasons. Cmon now. SMDH!
Well, each person should take responsibility for giving first, so if you are waiting for him to treat you like a queen before you treat him like a king, you are approaching it wrong. You're looking to receive before you give (based on what you said). However, you can give him king level 1, and wait to receive queen level 1 before giving him king level 2. So you take turns and give and receive more or less equally, without expecting the other person to go first. There is a problem when women give a man king level 100 when he hasn't even given her queen level 1....you need to build it gradually
@@thecurrentmoment I’m a woman, therefore I almost always operate in female energy by allowing him to demonstrate who he is and pretty much set the tone. If he’s exhibiting emotional intelligence, a willingness to connect and healthy relating, so am I, however, if he’s demonstrating mediocre, lethargic relating and bullshit, so am I. Most men want to lead, not necessarily rule, therefore if he’s leading by example, I’m going to mirror that.
I was just talking about this to my friend, I told her that I want to be in a relationship with someone I can respect, be loyal too and listen too. I do not want a man that I can call a bad name or be so disgusted by. She told me I was crazy and I told her that's a kingdom marriage. I dont have time for nothing else but kingdom. I watched my mother marry the wrong man and is still being punished for it. I definitely can keep waiting on God for my husband. I am in no rush....
Unfortunately that may be the type of friend to distance yourself from. You can still be cool and love from a distance but I can tell you this.... If you have friends that are not on the same wave length as you it can and sometimes will affect or infect your relationship with the opposite sex. The saying that birds of a feather flock together is true so if you are a different bird so to speak then you either need to find a different flock or fly solo. Eagles soar high and above all other birds for a reason. I had to get away from friends who were on the “all men are dogs” mentality cause truth be told you don’t know ALL men. Stop with the stereotyping! And if you want a Kingdom marriage then DO NOT SETTLE for anything less than that.
@@joycewatt800 I DO NOT THINK ALL MEN ARE DOGS. As for my friends, they do not influence me in anyway. I have a mind of my own. I put God in everything I do. As for flocking, I have friends that used to be hoes that have kingdom marriages. So does that make me a hoe because of there past, I think not... I am not here to judge people on their thoughts or opinions. I just know what I want and need for me. And that is a man I can submit to without second guessing it, pray with, fast with, I need devotion, time , peace, man I can be proud of, I want a man that I love so much that when I look at him I am instantly turned on, a man that God has for me.... Kingdom that is my thoughts
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
Honesty, no games, listening on both sides, love, respect, being a good partner - who have each other's back. These things are what both good men and women want and need. This is a stability that gives peace deep in a person's being/soul.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
We need to back to the book of Ephesians where the Bible says husbands love your wives and do not be cruel to them. Learn how to bear and live with them in peace.
After four years of being together and married for three and a half my husband wants out there is a big age gap but we thought it wouldn’t matter... he says he still loves me and cares about me and wants to provide for me until I am in a better position he says I need to care for myself and that I am childish and that he can’t be my daddy anymore... just all kinds of stuff that makes me feel terrible inside o can’t believe with all the effort I still couldn’t save my marriage... I am reaching out for prayer please... may god bless you all ❤️
@@tyrianadomasin3594 just prayed for you hunny..ask God to transform your character for the better and ask God for your husband to love you as Christ loved the church.
I'm a 61 year old man and this is my first relationship not knowing I was doing everything wrong and now I feel better and I feel thus is going to work for me with this special lady that I want to grow old with thank you 😇💖🙏
Some of us just always date the wrong men even knowing and feeling its wrong...my last situation taught me to change my dating patterns and it it feels wrong trust your instincts
First rule. No SEX until your in a relationship. Dating is not sex...it's getting to know each other. Sex is the icing on the cake... First you make the Cake.
@@dezignerbilly9274 and that's not what the little was exactly.. he actually put an emphasis on that in the video that's what I said it because it stuck to me... but u probably didn't even watch it so I understand lol
Being honest, integrity, loyal, and have feminine energy, attractive and very transparent. Some men still come with a grown boy mentality he will miss out on me and good women and I'm out.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
Dear Stefan, I am a muslim woman from Egypt, i think you are wonderful and i think your videos are more than brilliant. I have learnt so much and benefitted so much from them. God bless you, i hope i marry a man with your intelligence and excellent qualities. Really brilliant work and lots of respect and admiration to you. Have a great day!
Make sure that man is an Ephesians 5:25-29 man. Even a carnal unsaved man can be considered to be a good man but if Jesus Christ isn't his Lord and Savior that Proverbs 31 woman is unequally yoked.
Yes sis, embrace your feminine energy, let the baggage go, and attract (or keep) the man who will allow you to love him the way you were created to love 💕
Feminine energy is everything!!! Is has completely transformed my life and yes it all started with healing my past traumas. When you take the time to heal yourself, you open up the space for trust and flow which ultimately begins with you because, how can you trust others when you can’t even trust yourself.
@@rahmonafaridian9982 It's all about healing childhood traumas and perceptions which includes your childhood relationships with others and also yourself. Once you heal the relationship that you have with yourself, all of the other ones become a bonus. It's truly magical.
@@armidamartinez7950 Amazing. Can you please explain how you heal childhood wounds? I know there can be different ways so wondering if there's a specific video you recommend :)
GOOD TEACHING M.O.G. I'm NOT carrying a GOOD M.O.G. He MUST have it TOGETHER when we MEET/ GOALS king JESUS showed him...in ADVANCE 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 I am very FEMININE, and a QUEEN...a rapp! ❤ 😇😎💜💯
Wow... I just broke off my engagement yesterday with my fiancé because though he is a solid guy, there were things about him I couldn’t come to respect, and it was changing who I am, which is joyful, feminine, and encouraging. It wasn’t fair to him, and it wasn’t fair to me. This morning I wake up to this new video in my stream. It’s like you know my life.
Courageous! I learned the hard way, although I saw the signs, I’m divorced now. It was definitely a learning experience. Continue moving forward! The blessings will come.
@@Dygorgeous Trust me, I had been divorced before too. I learned the hard way and was determined NEVER EVER to make the mistake again of ignoring red flags, no matter how subtle, ask the Lord to reveal all and let Him order your steps. 🚩
A good man may enjoy a fun, loving woman, who knows how to cook, a woman who is easy going, someone who can make him feel, I believe if a woman can make a man feel something special and deep. He will never forget how she makes him feel. I also agree that physical attraction is very, very important for a long lasting relationship.
Women don't want dishonesty or being shady. Or having multiple "friends of the opposite sex". Sometimes they disguise their desire to flirt and be acquainted with other women by keeping lots of attractive female as friends. The woman can have everything the man needs but if he finds one thing wrong with her they feel the need to keep "searching" even when in a committed relationship.
A good man I feel wants a Woman that has goals, ambitions, appreciates the small things as well as the big things. A Woman who gives and not takes. A woman that is sweet, kind, generous, heartfelt, caring and is able to communicate effectively.
Actually, I beg to differ hun. The same way men believe there aren't good women, some women believe the same thing about finding a good man. However, I do not lump all men together. I do believe that, as the saying goes, one bad apple can spoil a bunch. But I do believe that there are still good men out there. So, trust there are still good women out here. You just have yet, perhaps to meet that women. But she's out there. And I know he's out there for me, I believe and know it's just that I haven't come across him just yet.
Honesty. Transparency Peace. Happiness Respect Good communication 6 of the key things that makes a relationship works. Gotta work on my feminine energy though.thank you.
A good man wants a woman that is honest, knows her worth, wisdom, healthy mind, body and spirit, a great attitude, and positive energy that charges him up.
Great points! And yes it did require healing from my past to let go the masculine energy. It's so much easier to just relax and enjoy a man's company and just listen to him now. It's easier to receive too.
My brother-Stephan, your right on point. I noticed how I was with the wrong men and now I met a wonderful man. The things your saying are so true and real. Women have to get in connection with themselves and raise their standards and the right man will notice her energy, which should be true and positive and want to be around her and get to know her. It works both ways for women and men. I loved this topic, thank you. This was a very good video!❤️🙏
Wow, thank you for revealing all of this wisdom! I believe number 7 was about me.. I alway wondered why I attract men who weren't good for me, its because I lost touch with my femininity. I became to Independent my body language says "I don't need a good man" , when deep down I know I do. One day at time it will get better for me because I'm willing to change. ❤❤🙏 Thank you!!
I was in a relationship with a man who exuded feminine energy and I hated it because I kept feeling like I had to compete with him and nurture his feelings. I'm so glad I chose to end it. Glad I saw this video.
I can see my growth in watching your videos. Where some things would trigger me now I realize it was something I needed to change but wasn't ready to change. Knowing these things as a woman is more beneficial to me than just the man I end up being with because if any man who cross path doesn't appreciate these qualities in me, then he's obviously not the one for me. Thank you Stephan!
You saved the best for last! Because of my job, I wear pants all of the time. I didnt know to call it feminine energy, but I started to wear dresses on my off days & to help me tone down that intense, stressful energy.
I just started watching his videos a few days ago & I promise you, just in those few days I’ve grown soooo much. Not only have I grown a lot but I’ve also learned a lot about myself, my counterpart, & just men in general. I now understand why is women attract certain men & I also have realized how much of not having balance in feminine & masculine energy will block your blessings & have you depressed. Thank you so much Stephan! Continue teaching us & helping us raise the vibration of the world. Much love & blessings to you king!
That feminine energy part.. THAT PART!! independent ladies.. this one hard for us isn't it!! i may need to tap into that part a bit more. Looking forward to when Stephan gets into this
Finally a man with enough wisdom and genuineness to speak to women with love and respect that in turn, will lift them up and encourage them to be the best version of themselves. All whilst speaking the truth. Good men will know how to do this too and those who don't should learn. Thank you Stephan
AGAIN, Stephen brings up the best points that no other dating coach is saying... I have always noticed that guys once they're interested won't lose interest easily at all but if they sense that you don't respect them they will move on
Honestly this video helped me improve my mindset as a women and I really like how you said some of y’all are good women but your not positive women that’s something I know I need to work on
I was married over 30 yrs. My husband loved me more than I knew possible. He was the best husband ever. He passed away June 2018. Women the most important thing is to love and encourage your man. Keep yourself beautiful. And work together and love God. God will teach you just how to love him. 😍😍
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
A good man wants a woman that is able to activate the king inside of him as he has been called and created to be by God through Christ Jesus on every every every level that's able to set a fire and keep it fueled as God purpose for marriage where the intimacy is formed in the word that they share the connection through the Spirit of Christ Jesus that ignites him even when she is not present.That's able to be pliable in the hands of God willing to be vulnerable
Billie Abbott this is true however at 43 years old why are we as women needed by men to speak to them in order to activate the king in them. Its like we have to be their self esteem booster. Why cant men come to you already confident in himself and his abilities in life.
Thank you for sharing this wisdom with our sisters bro. There are times I would watch your videos and honestly feel like you are not speaking for good men out there. Truly it is exhausting when a woman doesn't know how to be in a right alignment with a good man. After watching this, I feel like you finally spoke out and certainly I will buy your books 😂
It's been more then beneficial letting go of my masculine energy. I had to heal through meditation, manifestations, chakra balancing & cleansing, and energy cleansing. Afterwards, the universe blessed me with my King!!
@Mariam Karouni no disrespect taken. I meditate, pray, and trust in god as well. None of what I did would be possible without all of the above combined.
This is all great information. Transparency is a great tool to develop! We as women cannot expect a person to read our mind or guess what we need. Being mature enough to be clear, open and honest helps our partner meet our needs. Of course expressing your needs/wants in a respectful way. Listening and hearing our men's clear thoughts shows we value their voice and opinion and appreciate them taking time to share. Wonderful message Stephan 👏🏾 ♥
Once I stepped more into my feminine, my man got better at managing his finances, makes more money and doesn’t ask me to do any masculine things like pay bills or pull out my wallet ❤️
Came across this video a little by accident. The value of the messages here are way understated by the video title. You are shaking my world today and I needed it - thank you for what you do. Time for some tough conversations and personal work for both me and my partner if he’ll go for it. Now for having that conversation….:( Thanks again!!!
Man you are so on point. Open my eyes to the good men oppose to those who just use you til the next comes along. I've been single 11 years because of a lot broken pieces in me. My relationship with God, had to definitely be repaired, it ongoing. Had to move the not right men broken pieces out of my spirit. So thank you for all you sow into spirit of your Queens who seem to have these problems.
We all want someone Who îs pozitive, happy and possibly without any problems or complications . The problem îs We are all human and Life îs hard, We all have traumas and faults. I think We need to be with The person We truly have feelings for and accept and be there for another.
Hi Stephan, I agree with your theory about masculine energy. Every time I act feminine in a relationship per what the guy wants, the wrong guy expects me to act masculine when he wants to take advantage of me. Then, he accuses me of not letting him lead, but actually wants me to lead! What a contradiction!
As a man, I agree with almost everything Stephan is saying. I'm serious, it's really good information. I will note that you should not confuse what Stephan is saying about masculine and feminine energy with personal feelings about your own gender identity. If you feel you may be a little androgynous or a little genderfluid, that's cool and you do you. He's talking about something quite a bit different, so definitely hear him out.
Man! Number 7! I have been saying this to myself for a couple years. As a single mother of boys, I am constantly stuck in my masculine, and my feminine is hidden so often that it makes me 😩
I definitely struggle with masculine energy and trauma. I didn't know it was a problem. I have a close friend who's shown interest in me. I've seen a couple of times when he was put off by my masculine energy. Surprisingly getting hit with the tab for our church's lunch ministry, he sprung up in the moment to pay for it and I shut him down and took on the responsibility. I wanted to prove that I was financially capable and not needing a Prince Charming to save me. We have been close friends for a few years, and he's seen me in my worst and best times. Although this is just one out of a few instances recently, I can't get over how put off and hurt I saw him in that moment. I couldn't understand why. I'll definitely check out videos on how to not restrain my feminine energy, speak with local married Christian women, and work out the relational trauma in my past. I really like this friend, and I believe that he is trying to start a relationship with me that can lead to marriage, but I just don't know how to actively respond. It goes against everything I grew up learning about what the relationship between a man and a woman is supposed to be. Blessings, brother!
You Speaking All Facts brother. All of those are true. I especially liked that you touched on the difference between Looks and Physical attraction...because women seem to never get that part. And even when I try to explain it to them, they still dont get it or want to get it. Idk. They judge for you putting physical attraction high up there...but that's how God made us. That doesnt mean that we will choose a woman solely on our physical attraction by itself. Never that. I curve dimes all the time. Lol. You gotta have other qualities too. But hey, that's just me. But yeah, anytime you say physical attraction is important to you, another thing they automatically assume is that we All have 1 type and like the same type of woman. Like these supposed IG model types are the only type everybody likes...is when we say we want physical attraction in our partner, we want that type. SMH! NO Ladies...we All have our different types that we like and prefer. So we prefer someone close to that type. I'm in my mid 30s, and my Ideal physical type hasn't changed since I was 20. And that's bigger women. And as far as that, just cause a man says he likes and is attracted to big women, dont mean he likes and is attracted to All of them. WTF? Lol. There's a lot of different big women of different shapes and sizes ma. Cmon now. That's very Ignorant for women to think and assume. But I had to correct some ppl on that a couple of weeks ago. Just saying. But anyway...just had to add my 2 cents. Lol
Ive listened to two of your video's for the first time, I have NEVER in my 60 years met a Man who TRULY likes extra chatter, you speak about transparency a few times in several video's but don't men like for you to get to the point with no extra chatter, transparency involves extra. A Good Man and I have had a few understand we are more talkative and communicative in most cases, but they REALLY don't want all that extra. You are HOWEVER, very entertaining. I appreciate you Brother.
You hit the nail right on the head!! # 5 is definitely a big one. So much is encompassed just in number five. Thank you really appreciate the video. Good man, we are out there.
Stephan, you are God sent. I would have probably spent my whole life or youth figuring these things out that you talk about in your videos. Granted, I have figured most of it now lol but your videos are definitely confirmation of what I have learned through experience.
I pray you receive the man who wants to love you, not use you ❤️ Get Your Copy of the bestselling book "The Man God Has For You" here 👉 www.themangodhasforyou.com 👈
I have the book it's an excellent read thank you for your devine knowledge be blessed 🙌
Do you have any Sessions on being " Humble" in a relationship ?
...And a man that desires more from the relationship than just sex. I desire a true connection of intimacy on all levels in and outside of the bedroom. I want to be in love again, I miss that feeling. But, I will not be anyone’s fool ever again, I’d rather grow old alone.
Thank you so much for these videos! Lord knows I need all the help I can get!😂
Are you a married man because you know so much about relationships?
Also...a man has to be ready for what he wants as well. If you want a Good Woman, you should be prepared for such. I've seen a lot situations, myself included, where a Good Woman came and the man lost her because he was still doing his BS or just not mentally there.
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Thank you. I totally agree. It goes both ways. 👍🏽
Well put
Very true
Yes...the truth...
1.positive attitude 2. Physical attraction 3. Transparency 4. Willingness to listen 5. Respect 6. Loyalty & support 7. Feminine energy
Respect
for each other i believe is such a fundamental part of relationships
time to stop eating and get that famine energy!
@@ThuNguyen-rd1rg 😂😂
Physical attraction is # 1 and there is not a close second. More specifically a woman’s weight is the most important thing. If a woman is not height/weight appropriate then there is no attraction.
Yeah that's right you're absolutely right.
I just don't understand how dating and trying to get married got so hard. I really feel tired.
Preach!!!!
Amen
Tell me about it. Oh dear
I feel the act same. Dating is becoming harder than my Law classes. I'm taking a break....
For real . Unless it’s with the right person 💫 good luck to you
Good men and good women should show mutual respect, love, honesty, compassion, support and awesome listening skills 👌
I agree
No I don't struggle with it, but in my life experiences it seemed to work better for a strong relationship.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
Exactly because it goes both ways
I totally agree with you
I like that you don't just cater to women. It's so refreshing. As a married woman, my husband found me and I have always been positive about what I had. I love being feminine, keeping myself up for my husband, taking care of the house and cooking, staying loyal, never nagging him the moment he gets home. Single ladies understand, a man will give you everything if you simple love and honor him. Stop arguing for arguments sake.
A good man here and this message gets 100% my approval... Only a good women, understand a good man ...
Amen Chukita Gramling
Once you find that good man for you...it’s a true connection and a deeper level of attraction. It's a blissful feeling.
Yes
I'm a woman and it's annoying that women keep saying, "well men need to do it too" 🙄🙄🙄!!!! Ugh! Like stop pointing fingers and work on SELF! Most men know the issues they need to improve but stick to the topic and heal IF needed. If not...keep it moving...
Amen
Trust, loyalty, honesty, integrity.
When she doesn’t have those qualities, I’m out
I'm still waiting to find a guy with these qualities 🙃
@@RachyNoodleNest keep your eyes open. They’re out there
@@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 🥰
Absolutely!
@@RachyNoodleNest Many Men have these Qualities. You may need to get to know him. He probably won't come in the form that you anticipate or expect.
Another thing a Good Man looks from a woman is Self Confidence. Knowing who she is, what she wants(without being rude) so that y'all can stay on the same page. No guessing games or being wishy washy.
Exactly!!! 👌👌👊👊👏👏👏 Nothin' but Facts!
AMEN 💥 #Realtruth!!!!!
So important!
I agree with that
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
I like the emphasis on "good men" not just any man
Truly!
Yup! There's a big difference
@@jayc.7135 sure
They desire respect, great listener, someone who believes in him, supportive, loving, kind, happy person, & emotional stability.
Fire in the hole 💯‼️❤️😍
I have all of these traits. Just waiting on him to somehow find his way to me 😊 The Lord will send him when it's time.
Truly! Nothin' but Facts!
Thank you.
Also honesty no man appreciates lies and dishonesty
To all GOOD MEN out there... good women appreciate and respect your sexy selves!
Thank-you very much, Ma'am. Very much appreciated.
Lol. Thanks sweetie. We Appreciate you all too. ❤
Lmaooo.
Co-signing! Yes, we do! 😉
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
I personally believe that a Good man needs to be all of those qualities to themselves first before expecting it from their woman.
I think that goes without saying sis
Amen
Yess
I hear you...those are the men we eliminate. We need to just be these things and when they aren’t reciprocated ...you have your answer.
AMEN! 🙌🙌🙌
A good man wants to feel appreciated, accepted, respected; to be with a woman who is comfortable being authentic in her feminine energy and vulnerable as she respectively expresses her needs and trusts a man will do his best to meet her needs; a woman who has proactive boundaries; actively listens especially when there is discomfort/distress and willing to repair and co-regulate each other during conflicts. These qualities are attractive to a good man.
Masculine energy will wear you down and it is stress! You are so right I!!! I realized that after multiple burnouts. Our biology is not made for stress. Feminine Energy is so fundamental for a healthy relationship.
Good job Amber
Agreed
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
Oh yes! So right!!
@Shvmeless Kreations totally! It can wear you down! And why worry? We don't give ourselves permission to relax and rest and let someone else take care of things AND us.
Relationships end not because of lack of love but lack of respect
THIS.
Respect both way ....men need respect ..women too 🤷🏿
No respect means there's no love !
Bam !! 💥 That’s it right there Lea.
Mic 🎤 drop .....and slowly walk off the stage 😂
@@KeegiiBaby Yes 🙌🏽 So true because it does.
So true.. I finally found a good man and he gets all this from me. Why because he earns them. He in return does the same for me. Great video ❤️
Happy for you.
💞💝💞
@@falishak6765 Thank you 💜
@@snooty4180 Thanks 💜
Congratulations. I'm still looking and working on myself aalong the way!
Bottom line, if he treats me like a queen, I’ll treat him like a king. Women gotta be careful because most of these men will demand the hell out of you, but don’t have the ability to meet your basic care in a healthy relationship.
Facts!
@lavidavi I'm Always overrly honest. But yeah, I cant expect everybody to be as honest and real as I am. But yeah, All I ask is you be honest with me. Nothing worst than a person that lies to your face...especially for stupid reasons. Cmon now. SMDH!
Factssss
Well, each person should take responsibility for giving first, so if you are waiting for him to treat you like a queen before you treat him like a king, you are approaching it wrong. You're looking to receive before you give (based on what you said).
However, you can give him king level 1, and wait to receive queen level 1 before giving him king level 2. So you take turns and give and receive more or less equally, without expecting the other person to go first. There is a problem when women give a man king level 100 when he hasn't even given her queen level 1....you need to build it gradually
@@thecurrentmoment I’m a woman, therefore I almost always operate in female energy by allowing him to demonstrate who he is and pretty much set the tone. If he’s exhibiting emotional intelligence, a willingness to connect and healthy relating, so am I, however, if he’s demonstrating mediocre, lethargic relating and bullshit, so am I. Most men want to lead, not necessarily rule, therefore if he’s leading by example, I’m going to mirror that.
I was just talking about this to my friend, I told her that I want to be in a relationship with someone I can respect, be loyal too and listen too. I do not want a man that I can call a bad name or be so disgusted by. She told me I was crazy and I told her that's a kingdom marriage. I dont have time for nothing else but kingdom. I watched my mother marry the wrong man and is still being punished for it. I definitely can keep waiting on God for my husband. I am in no rush....
Unfortunately that may be the type of friend to distance yourself from. You can still be cool and love from a distance but I can tell you this.... If you have friends that are not on the same wave length as you it can and sometimes will affect or infect your relationship with the opposite sex. The saying that birds of a feather flock together is true so if you are a different bird so to speak then you either need to find a different flock or fly solo. Eagles soar high and above all other birds for a reason. I had to get away from friends who were on the “all men are dogs” mentality cause truth be told you don’t know ALL men. Stop with the stereotyping! And if you want a Kingdom marriage then DO NOT SETTLE for anything less than that.
@@joycewatt800 I DO NOT THINK ALL MEN ARE DOGS. As for my friends, they do not influence me in anyway. I have a mind of my own. I put God in everything I do. As for flocking, I have friends that used to be hoes that have kingdom marriages. So does that make me a hoe because of there past, I think not... I am not here to judge people on their thoughts or opinions. I just know what I want and need for me. And that is a man I can submit to without second guessing it, pray with, fast with, I need devotion, time , peace, man I can be proud of, I want a man that I love so much that when I look at him I am instantly turned on, a man that God has for me.... Kingdom that is my thoughts
Well Said
Amen girl. I don’t mind waiting on the lord this world is a dark and cold place but I’m here so it’s not to bad
Once, again, another amazing video Stephan - Thanks!!
*****Quick Summary of Points*****
#1 - [@ 1:33] - A Positive Attitude / Positive Energy!!
#2 - [@ 3:41] - Physical Attraction!!
#3 - [@ 7:08] - Transparency!!
#4 - [@ 9:41] - Willingness to Listen!!
#5 - [@ 12:41] - Respect!!
#6 - [@ 15:21] - Loyalty and Support!!
#7 - [@ 18:34] - FEMININE ENERGY.
Love from Trinidad
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Thanks for this list WITH time stamps! You rock!!
Yessss I be here taking notes!!!!
@@paradiselivinginpurpose me too! This man knows men! 😆😍
Thank you for the points!!!
1. Positive Attitude + Positive Energy
2. Physical Attraction
3. Transparency
4. Willingness To Listen
5. Respect
6. Loyalty + Support
7. Feminine Energy
In that order 👆
A good man wants a woman who will not provoke him to jealousy. If she loves you, she won't try to mk you jealous
Preach
@@henryf.stoddardiii7948 🙏🏿🔥❤️
@lavidavi ABSOLUTELY!
Thank you! And please say it again!
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
Honesty, no games, listening on both sides, love, respect, being a good partner - who have each other's back. These things are what both good men and women want and need. This is a stability that gives peace deep in a person's being/soul.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
my man told me about my masculine energy and now i look back yess it was a problem..im learning to embrace my feminine energy
What makes women have masculine energy....men because have to take on so much of the man's responsibility so you tend to keep that as a guard
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We need to back to the book of Ephesians where the Bible says husbands love your wives and do not be cruel to them. Learn how to bear and live with them in peace.
After four years of being together and married for three and a half my husband wants out there is a big age gap but we thought it wouldn’t matter... he says he still loves me and cares about me and wants to provide for me until I am in a better position he says I need to care for myself and that I am childish and that he can’t be my daddy anymore... just all kinds of stuff that makes me feel terrible inside o can’t believe with all the effort I still couldn’t save my marriage... I am reaching out for prayer please... may god bless you all ❤️
@@tyrianadomasin3594 just prayed for you hunny..ask God to transform your character for the better and ask God for your husband to love you as Christ loved the church.
It also says somewhere in Proverbs: its better to live in the desert alone than to live with a nagging woman. Dont skip that part.
It also says wives submit to your husband's
I'm a 61 year old man and this is my first relationship not knowing I was doing everything wrong and now I feel better and I feel thus is going to work for me with this special lady that I want to grow old with thank you 😇💖🙏
"If you can't respect him, you don't love him.." This spoke to me....thank you. Also, masculine energy is so draining😥 I'm healing and I see it!!
Some of us just always date the wrong men even knowing and feeling its wrong...my last situation taught me to change my dating patterns and it it feels wrong trust your instincts
First rule. No SEX until your in a relationship. Dating is not sex...it's getting to know each other. Sex is the icing on the cake... First you make the Cake.
Amen “GOOD MEN” not any man
Obviously😂 That’s what the title say
Girl you are gorgeous 😍
@@dezignerbilly9274 I mean I knew that just felt like re stating tf!
@@Itsmarylynn thank you my love, so are you 🥰
@@dezignerbilly9274 and that's not what the little was exactly.. he actually put an emphasis on that in the video that's what I said it because it stuck to me... but u probably didn't even watch it so I understand lol
Being honest, integrity, loyal, and have feminine energy, attractive and very transparent. Some men still come with a grown boy mentality he will miss out on me and good women and I'm out.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
O ok o L ol
@@Envlo oh ok lol
Dear Stefan, I am a muslim woman from Egypt, i think you are wonderful and i think your videos are more than brilliant. I have learnt so much and benefitted so much from them. God bless you, i hope i marry a man with your intelligence and excellent qualities. Really brilliant work and lots of respect and admiration to you. Have a great day!
Regarding feminine energy. I had to heal in order to become vulnerable. Vulnerability opens the door to feminine energy.
I respect this is wise 👌
A real man deserves a Proverb 31 woman.
Nothing more, nothing less.
Amen 💥 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏿👐🏿👏🏾!!!!!
Make sure that man is an Ephesians 5:25-29 man. Even a carnal unsaved man can be considered to be a good man but if Jesus Christ isn't his Lord and Savior that Proverbs 31 woman is unequally yoked.
@@constancereynolds3110 True
@@janellamurphy5665 Amen
@@constancereynolds3110 Amen!
Yes sis, embrace your feminine energy, let the baggage go, and attract (or keep) the man who will allow you to love him the way you were created to love 💕
Feminine energy is everything!!! Is has completely transformed my life and yes it all started with healing my past traumas. When you take the time to heal yourself, you open up the space for trust and flow which ultimately begins with you because, how can you trust others when you can’t even trust yourself.
That's amazing. Do you mean heal your childhood relationships or romantic ones?
@@rahmonafaridian9982 It's all about healing childhood traumas and perceptions which includes your childhood relationships with others and also yourself. Once you heal the relationship that you have with yourself, all of the other ones become a bonus. It's truly magical.
@@armidamartinez7950 Amazing. Can you please explain how you heal childhood wounds? I know there can be different ways so wondering if there's a specific video you recommend :)
Down to earth, loyalty, passion, open minded. And all the things you named. My lady gives me all these
Some women have an issue with speaking their truth with transparency because we're conditioned to not spill too much so the men won't leave.
That's my strength.my weakness is interrupting people when they speak.
GOOD TEACHING M.O.G. I'm NOT carrying a GOOD M.O.G. He MUST have it TOGETHER when we MEET/ GOALS king JESUS showed him...in ADVANCE 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 I am very FEMININE, and a QUEEN...a rapp! ❤ 😇😎💜💯
It's my strength..it's my truth..😎😁🙏💗
Good 1, there’s 2 many DO’s n DON’T
Yesssss! That's an absolute no, no!
Stephen is like the cool big bro that you need 🙌
You perfectly said what I was just thinking homie ✌🏾
Wow... I just broke off my engagement yesterday with my fiancé because though he is a solid guy, there were things about him I couldn’t come to respect, and it was changing who I am, which is joyful, feminine, and encouraging. It wasn’t fair to him, and it wasn’t fair to me. This morning I wake up to this new video in my stream. It’s like you know my life.
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wow...good 4u 4 being responsible and a strong woman .
Courageous! I learned the hard way, although I saw the signs, I’m divorced now. It was definitely a learning experience. Continue moving forward! The blessings will come.
@@Dygorgeous Trust me, I had been divorced before too. I learned the hard way and was determined NEVER EVER to make the mistake again of ignoring red flags, no matter how subtle, ask the Lord to reveal all and let Him order your steps. 🚩
Trust, respect, honesty, loyalty, kindness, good communication/listening skills, emotional intelligence and consistency.
Yay!!! 3rd Comment!!!
Something I think good men desire is respect, honor, kindness, acknowledgement, he can growth with her....at least
@@MeetStephanSpeaks of course!!! Love your content!!
This was so refreshing to hear relationship advice from a man without bashing women. Thank you Stephan, I'm a new subbie here! 😊
Yess, right? He’s soo honest yet respectful of women’s feelings.
A good man may enjoy a fun, loving woman, who knows how to cook, a woman who is easy going, someone who can make him feel, I believe if a woman can make a man feel something special and deep. He will never forget how she makes him feel. I also agree that physical attraction is very, very important for a long lasting relationship.
Women don't want dishonesty or being shady. Or having multiple "friends of the opposite sex". Sometimes they disguise their desire to flirt and be acquainted with other women by keeping lots of attractive female as friends. The woman can have everything the man needs but if he finds one thing wrong with her they feel the need to keep "searching" even when in a committed relationship.
True
Wow you said something here! It’s such a scary and disappointing fact here.
You seem happier Stephan 🙂 Your message is so much more palatable when your aura is joyful. Good job hun.
Yes! I would like to hear more about the feminine energy!!
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A good man I feel wants a Woman that has goals, ambitions, appreciates the small things as well as the big things. A Woman who gives and not takes. A woman that is sweet, kind, generous, heartfelt, caring and is able to communicate effectively.
Actually, I beg to differ hun. The same way men believe there aren't good women, some women believe the same thing about finding a good man. However, I do not lump all men together. I do believe that, as the saying goes, one bad apple can spoil a bunch. But I do believe that there are still good men out there. So, trust there are still good women out here. You just have yet, perhaps to meet that women. But she's out there. And I know he's out there for me, I believe and know it's just that I haven't come across him just yet.
you just described me
Honesty.
Transparency
Peace.
Happiness
Respect
Good communication
6 of the key things that makes a relationship works.
Gotta work on my feminine energy though.thank you.
Accountability has to be owned as well be respectful to your spouse🤷🏿♂️
Trust, authenticity, kindness to all things, respect, communication.
Dating is exhausting but worth finding the one!
A good man wants a woman that is honest, knows her worth, wisdom, healthy mind, body and spirit, a great attitude, and positive energy that charges him up.
Well said Deena
Great points!
And yes it did require healing from my past to let go the masculine energy. It's so much easier to just relax and enjoy a man's company and just listen to him now. It's easier to receive too.
My brother-Stephan, your right on point. I noticed how I was with the wrong men and now I met a wonderful man. The things your saying are so true and real. Women have to get in connection with themselves and raise their standards and the right man will notice her energy, which should be true and positive and want to be around her and get to know her. It works both ways for women and men. I loved this topic, thank you. This was a very good video!❤️🙏
Wow, thank you for revealing all of this wisdom! I believe number 7 was about me.. I alway wondered why I attract men who weren't good for me, its because I lost touch with my femininity. I became to Independent my body language says "I don't need a good man" , when deep down I know I do. One day at time it will get better for me because I'm willing to change. ❤❤🙏 Thank you!!
I was in a relationship with a man who exuded feminine energy and I hated it because I kept feeling like I had to compete with him and nurture his feelings. I'm so glad I chose to end it. Glad I saw this video.
Was he a water sign? I've experienced the same... he was so emotionally fragile and petty.
@@SweetP94591 Not really sure but he was a Taurus.♉️ And yes, he can be very petty and sneaky and he constantly told lies.
I can see my growth in watching your videos. Where some things would trigger me now I realize it was something I needed to change but wasn't ready to change. Knowing these things as a woman is more beneficial to me than just the man I end up being with because if any man who cross path doesn't appreciate these qualities in me, then he's obviously not the one for me. Thank you Stephan!
This guy knows his stuff.I am 56 and finally learning the male/female issues.My self-worth is finally showing its self.
Relationships are about purpose definitely. Two people need to communicate .
You saved the best for last! Because of my job, I wear pants all of the time. I didnt know to call it feminine energy, but I started to wear dresses on my off days & to help me tone down that intense, stressful energy.
Good men loves to find treasure in a woman. He'll anticipate the reward when shes loving him the right way.
Love watching these, learning more about myself and the opposite sex 🙏🏽
I just started watching his videos a few days ago & I promise you, just in those few days I’ve grown soooo much. Not only have I grown a lot but I’ve also learned a lot about myself, my counterpart, & just men in general. I now understand why is women attract certain men & I also have realized how much of not having balance in feminine & masculine energy will block your blessings & have you depressed. Thank you so much Stephan! Continue teaching us & helping us raise the vibration of the world. Much love & blessings to you king!
That feminine energy part.. THAT PART!! independent ladies.. this one hard for us isn't it!! i may need to tap into that part a bit more. Looking forward to when Stephan gets into this
Yeah its hard because some times as a single parent of boys n no father about you have had to play that mascaline energy aswell as earning a living
Finally a man with enough wisdom and genuineness to speak to women with love and respect that in turn, will lift them up and encourage them to be the best version of themselves. All whilst speaking the truth. Good men will know how to do this too and those who don't should learn. Thank you Stephan
Honestly, I needed to hear this, it’s relatable, informative and uncut. Thank you for all you do king.
AGAIN, Stephen brings up the best points that no other dating coach is saying... I have always noticed that guys once they're interested won't lose interest easily at all but if they sense that you don't respect them they will move on
He must be respectable to deserve my respect !!
Honestly this video helped me improve my mindset as a women and I really like how you said some of y’all are good women but your not positive women that’s something I know I need to work on
I was married over 30 yrs. My husband loved me more than I knew possible. He was the best husband ever. He passed away June 2018. Women the most important thing is to love and encourage your man. Keep yourself beautiful. And work together and love God. God will teach you just how to love him. 😍😍
Sorry for your loss. Lengthy marriages are hard to see these days.
By watching your videos I managed find myself and Im one of the lucky woman that managed to get myself a very courageous and consistent man.
"They cannot expect you to always be the woman that's going to pull you out of the bottom." - good word, Stephan!
And Viceaversa. Stop dating Mr. DUSTY. He doesn't love himself how can he love you.
I never believed in spell until I met this special spell caster called Dr oyenoye The man i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much he left me for another woman with no reasons when i called him he never picked up my calls and he don't want to see me around him so when i told the man what happened he helped me to do some readings, and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spell over my husband and that is the reason why he left me he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try In 3 days, he called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family Am posting this to inform if anyone need the help of this man Can contact him on WhatsApp for any kinds of spells, sickness a nd disease or Reading +234705 905 3029 or email droyenoye@gmail.com
A good man wants a woman that is able to activate the king inside of him as he has been called and created to be by God through Christ Jesus on every every every level that's able to set a fire and keep it fueled as God purpose for marriage where the intimacy is formed in the word that they share the connection through the Spirit of Christ Jesus that ignites him even when she is not present.That's able to be pliable in the hands of God willing to be vulnerable
Billie Abbott this is true however at 43 years old why are we as women needed by men to speak to them in order to activate the king in them. Its like we have to be their self esteem booster. Why cant men come to you already confident in himself and his abilities in life.
He need to already know his KINGHOOD..
You hit the nail on the head! This is good stuff!
You are right n you are deep
Well said
Thank you for sharing this wisdom with our sisters bro. There are times I would watch your videos and honestly feel like you are not speaking for good men out there. Truly it is exhausting when a woman doesn't know how to be in a right alignment with a good man. After watching this, I feel like you finally spoke out and certainly I will buy your books 😂
This is All TRUE and at 50 years old I Have Found MY man I am tired but I can REST in HIM!!......a high Quality MAN just for me! glory
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It's been more then beneficial letting go of my masculine energy. I had to heal through meditation, manifestations, chakra balancing & cleansing, and energy cleansing. Afterwards, the universe blessed me with my King!!
@Mariam Karouni no disrespect taken. I meditate, pray, and trust in god as well. None of what I did would be possible without all of the above combined.
A good man definitely desire RESPECT! I believe that's men love language ❤️💕❤️
This is all great information. Transparency is a great tool to develop! We as women cannot expect a person to read our mind or guess what we need. Being mature enough to be clear, open and honest helps our partner meet our needs. Of course expressing your needs/wants in a respectful way. Listening and hearing our men's clear thoughts shows we value their voice and opinion and appreciate them taking time to share.
Wonderful message Stephan 👏🏾 ♥
Once I stepped more into my feminine, my man got better at managing his finances, makes more money and doesn’t ask me to do any masculine things like pay bills or pull out my wallet ❤️
Came across this video a little by accident. The value of the messages here are way understated by the video title. You are shaking my world today and I needed it - thank you for what you do. Time for some tough conversations and personal work for both me and my partner if he’ll go for it. Now for having that conversation….:( Thanks again!!!
I feel a confident , strong intellectual and high vibrational woman is a Great catch 💯 not to mention sincere, honesty and loyal!
I agree with all you said. The feminine energy is a huge one that many women don't realize they are not exuding.
Man you are so on point. Open my eyes to the good men oppose to those who just use you til the next comes along. I've been single 11 years because of a lot broken pieces in me. My relationship with God, had to definitely be repaired, it ongoing. Had to move the not right men broken pieces out of my spirit. So thank you for all you sow into spirit of your Queens who seem to have these problems.
We all want someone Who îs pozitive, happy and possibly without any problems or complications . The problem îs We are all human and Life îs hard, We all have traumas and faults. I think We need to be with The person We truly have feelings for and accept and be there for another.
Hi Stephan, I agree with your theory about masculine energy. Every time I act feminine in a relationship per what the guy wants, the wrong guy expects me to act masculine when he wants to take advantage of me. Then, he accuses me of not letting him lead, but actually wants me to lead! What a contradiction!
Don't look down on me when I'm struggling ❤ great video 👏👏👏👏👏 loving every advice ❤ Thank you. ❤
As a man, I agree with almost everything Stephan is saying. I'm serious, it's really good information. I will note that you should not confuse what Stephan is saying about masculine and feminine energy with personal feelings about your own gender identity. If you feel you may be a little androgynous or a little genderfluid, that's cool and you do you. He's talking about something quite a bit different, so definitely hear him out.
This message speaks volume. Well Said 👏👏👏👏
I'm healing. Just ended a 5 year relationship..he was never the one for me. I see it now. Hell I saw it four years ago!
Man! Number 7! I have been saying this to myself for a couple years. As a single mother of boys, I am constantly stuck in my masculine, and my feminine is hidden so often that it makes me 😩
This got me tearing,
Stephan, you're God sent, God bless you
Thank you soo much🙏🙏
Notification squad, I love your YT, IG, & FB. Great content, I love your delivery.
I definitely struggle with masculine energy and trauma. I didn't know it was a problem. I have a close friend who's shown interest in me. I've seen a couple of times when he was put off by my masculine energy. Surprisingly getting hit with the tab for our church's lunch ministry, he sprung up in the moment to pay for it and I shut him down and took on the responsibility. I wanted to prove that I was financially capable and not needing a Prince Charming to save me. We have been close friends for a few years, and he's seen me in my worst and best times. Although this is just one out of a few instances recently, I can't get over how put off and hurt I saw him in that moment. I couldn't understand why. I'll definitely check out videos on how to not restrain my feminine energy, speak with local married Christian women, and work out the relational trauma in my past. I really like this friend, and I believe that he is trying to start a relationship with me that can lead to marriage, but I just don't know how to actively respond. It goes against everything I grew up learning about what the relationship between a man and a woman is supposed to be. Blessings, brother!
You Speaking All Facts brother. All of those are true.
I especially liked that you touched on the difference between Looks and Physical attraction...because women seem to never get that part. And even when I try to explain it to them, they still dont get it or want to get it. Idk.
They judge for you putting physical attraction high up there...but that's how God made us. That doesnt mean that we will choose a woman solely on our physical attraction by itself. Never that. I curve dimes all the time. Lol. You gotta have other qualities too. But hey, that's just me.
But yeah, anytime you say physical attraction is important to you, another thing they automatically assume is that we All have 1 type and like the same type of woman. Like these supposed IG model types are the only type everybody likes...is when we say we want physical attraction in our partner, we want that type. SMH! NO Ladies...we All have our different types that we like and prefer. So we prefer someone close to that type. I'm in my mid 30s, and my Ideal physical type hasn't changed since I was 20. And that's bigger women. And as far as that, just cause a man says he likes and is attracted to big women, dont mean he likes and is attracted to All of them. WTF? Lol. There's a lot of different big women of different shapes and sizes ma. Cmon now. That's very Ignorant for women to think and assume. But I had to correct some ppl on that a couple of weeks ago. Just saying. But anyway...just had to add my 2 cents. Lol
Ive listened to two of your video's for the first time, I have NEVER in my 60 years met a Man who TRULY likes extra chatter, you speak about transparency a few times in several video's but don't men like for you to get to the point with no extra chatter, transparency involves extra. A Good Man and I have had a few understand we are more talkative and communicative in most cases, but they REALLY don't want all that extra. You are HOWEVER, very entertaining. I appreciate you Brother.
Loyalty, femininity, integrity, willing to help, sweet, knows how to cook, and respectful
Believe in him and make him feel Important. And he must do the same. Relationship are 50/50. Never give more than you are getting.
The last 6 minutes hit home! So glad I stumbled across this video!
Can a person have all this value , this will be difficult to find one .
No Queen we will attract it. It’s spiritual law, reaping and sowing..
You hit the nail right on the head!! # 5 is definitely a big one. So much is encompassed just in number five. Thank you really appreciate the video. Good man, we are out there.
Stephan, you are God sent. I would have probably spent my whole life or youth figuring these things out that you talk about in your videos. Granted, I have figured most of it now lol but your videos are definitely confirmation of what I have learned through experience.
Thank you this has helped me as a woman who's trying to be a better version of myself!