Seek he first the kingdom of God and everything else will be added onto you. When you’re walking in your purpose and assignment, you don’t need to ‘look’. All your desires will align naturally
Ladies we have to keep an open mind too! There are a lot of good men out there. They may be shy, ugly, or don’t have the aesthetic we’re looking for. Keep your spiritual eyes open and not just your physical carnal mind ❤️
💯… I had to acknowledge that I’m choosing what I want versus who GOD has for me. I always had a type. I recognized I needed to make adjustments and better decisions making . I am dating someone on line and so far so good. 😊 I did add him to my prayer list lol . I want who GOD has for me. Don’t give up ladies❤
He can't be ugly for me I have to kiss him I want an attractive man just as well as I want to be attractive for him along with physical attraction I want a respectful loving etc... and I for him
I recently asked a guy in the gym if he's single. He's just got engaged but could not have been more polite and generous. He was a good reminder that there are good guys out there, and I can take the initiative. I'm in my 50's and my grown-up sons that my move "kicked arse"!! Love from the UK ❤
A great man approached me January 1st. He told me he hesitated but we’ve already been out once and had a great time! He’s not my usual type, I’m used to guys rejection. We are the same age and he is very attentive.
If a woman has to make the first move in the beginning, she will always have to put forth effort in the relationship. It’ll become exhausting with him just sitting back expecting her to do everything.
I know that a physical attraction is not the most important thing but there has to be some sort of physical attraction if we are being really honest with ourselves
Sure some, but some people don’t allow it to grow over time. They are looking for initial passionate strong attraction and that may not always happen right away
9:12 I told my friend don't be afraid to flirt a little lol because I know how men are, they need to know they are desired. Nothing crazy or anything but some hints. If he does not reciprocate then that more than likely a sign to move on... I would definitely move on if no flirting was received back lol
I’ll admit it’s mostly work for me , I don’t do online dating. I mostly go to walk the park or bookstore. I have given my number out once in awhile but nothing works out. Everyone tells me don’t go looking for the right guy because God will put him in your life. I know i’m not perfect. I like someone and i’m praying like crazy if he is the right guy. I love a guy who is there for me , have same values & good with kids doesn’t smoke or drink. I like smart guys kind guys.
Stay in your natural habitat. When u least expected something will be right in front of you. Significant other, opportunity knocks open the door. If becomes monotonous try a step up. In the gym, in your social life. May meet the right one jus crossing the street. Stay positive. Positivity attracts positivity. Be confident but open. ❤ others feel same. Be aware
You have to put yourself in the path of someone. I'm not saying go crazy but you can expect a man to show up at the right time. It may happen but it might be a long time
@ I do put myself out there and it’s all about God timing not ours. My friend who is old enough to be my mom met her husband at a christian dating cafe but she didn’t go in. She later met him again and they fell in love and there still married to this day. They act like newly weds.
@@loisbaird9509 Thank you the guy I like is someone I have known for years , but he admitted to be he trying to figure out his feelings for me right now. He also has a lot going on personally. Please keep me in your prayers. I’m working on being more positive and I need a guy who is super affectionate. I’m staying in my elements I hope God reveals who he has as my future husband soon. It might be the guy I have feelings for and it might just be a season of us both growing personally both with the Lord and as people.
So glad you mentioned making the first move and breaking it down to what it means and what it does not mean, love that! Nothing wrong with presenting yourself👌🏽
When me and my ex was together yrs ago it was bad timing, however we went our separate ways. It wasn’t until 2024 when we ran back into each other and really sat down and talked. I told him in 2022 I was very sick and almost died on several occasions, everything that I went through brought us closer and now we are back together again stronger and better than ever. I had moved on with my life and never thought we would cross paths again. But I did maybe God brought him back in my life for a reason and at that time he was in my life for a season. He is very caring and nurturing and so supportive he is a good man who is hard to come by nowadays.
Thank you Stephan. I got value. Especially with the last point. It is always necessary to pray and ask God what is required of us to get whatever it is we want or need, rather than take it upon ourselves to do what we think pleases him, without asking and without waiting for a clear answer. 😊🙏🏽
I believe the fact that I'm so different it makes him cautious. I'm buddhist, pescatarian, love yoga, meditation & being in nature. I gave him my business card the first time we met. 6 months later we ran into each other at an event & he gave me his number. I texted him to say I how good it was to see him & long story short I shot him down about jumping in the sheets. Radio silence!😢
This video EVERYONE needs to share and watch. It's so on point. People really think they are gonna find a partner without any effort. This isnt 10, 20 years ago and people still acting like meeting someone is the same. It's not. People ain't meeting at the club, church and thru friends a lot.
My dear queens be mindfull that GOOD things comes to those who wait but not for those who wait to LATE Take Steph,s advice put your lovely selves OUT THERE 🤣
I like how you explain that about he who finds a wife. That makes tons of sense now I don't feel bad about saying hello or smiling at a man when he pass me by and he says hello to me🎉 thank you
I have to build my confidence. I have a hard time making the first move, talking to the opposite sex. Dating is so different then 30 years ok. I don't know the rules and when men do talk to me I shut down. I get nerves and can't talk it's embarrassing like I'm a teenager again. I'm good with posting on social media and making my business. Not good with marketing myself.
it's like you describe me... i can't talk/look in the eyes of the man i like (even not love phase!) so i do practices talking to many men online. i still can't talk to most men i like but i get better and get more confidence now.
Yes we have to put ourselves out there! I’ve met my most recent partners at; the grocery store (he worked there!), and the other two men at work. I absolutely will not on line date as I’ve had experiences meeting low quality men (and very bad experiences) on line. I believe that meeting organically in person just in the course of life is the best bet. I definitely do not have a problem making the first move, sometimes men are intimidated so making the first move is good! I’ve found partners doing that. Just strike up a conversation with the man, say something about the weather, or anything you can think up that applies in the situation to let him know that he has a green light to conversate with you. I also very much agree with not being locked into a type bc a person with an amazing personality and shared interests and values can become absolutely sexy and handsome once you come to know him better. Broadening out our taste only increases our chances of finding love. Don’t let an opportunity pass ladies! Stefan you are amazing thank you for all of your content!
Stephen you are an amazing man, I learnt so many things in this video but I’m most grateful for this one in particular “before I make any sacrifices to God for a blessing I’m looking for, I must be sure that’s what he wants from me” .. honestly, one’s life could get stuck only by getting this wrong.. thank you so much ❤
Facts. I met all relationship partners IRL. I've been single my entire 40s and noticed the way ppl find partners is via dating applications. I love talking to people, so that is my preferred method. But I know for many years I was just not open.
@@boston1976 Adam Conover did a video on what was wrong with the Democratic party and how the lost accountability and one of the reasons he cited was lack of community organizational involvement, which used to be the cornerstone of American social life; the Lions, the Elks, Veteran Service Organizations, unions, etc. If you're rural, even something like the Grange Association. Those organizations held dances, spaghetti dinners, pancake breakfasts, and whatnot.
@tlh7490 The video spoke more about the social ennui due to lack of active participation in groups that hold events outside of the house. THAT was my point. We lack third spaces to meet people IRL and that was where those spaces were.
I agree I said to my friend 2025 we need to go out more to socialise, meet new people! We went out NYE & a comedy show last Friday. Men won't come flying through the door!
Thank you 😊 🙇🏽♀️❤️ A man I’m a spiritual life coach thank you for everything I have all your books and I’ve been following you since you started and God has blessed me yes that God-fearing man that cherish me godson him thank you Steph on my beloved brother in Christ thank you
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
I'm not sure what to do. I'm 67 and single. My profile pic was taken 11/24 on my b-day! I'm on dating sites but can't seem to find Mr. right. I've been single for many years. mostly because I never made myself available. Just work then home, raised my kids and now I'm an empty nester. It's so hard dating as we get older, these men are so set in their ways and picky. I'm full of life, Compassionate, outgoing fun-loving, easy to talk to and good listener. No drama at all! Vivacious I would say describes me. I'm very patient.... Optimistic!
@kaylew1124 I can't think of anything that is glaringly staring me in the face that you can do differently as I read your comment. I can't help but wonder a small bit though if you marketed a little more of what you are going toward, such as passion, mission, and hobbies, if that would help you some. As far as men being set in their ways, I encounter that in women myself, and I am only 42.
@@JStig12 Well, trust me when I say that I am not the average 67yr old! I didn't want to write a long bio on this post. The bio I have on the dating site has been complemented by many men. Most consider it to be positive, heartfelt and well written. No complaints on that. Hobbies and all included. Not desperate! Hopeful.
Love your advice and realness. I like how you talk to us (like when you used the word "stank" 😅). You are very down to earth and relatable, it's like getting advice from a friend. We appreciate you!!
Hi Stephan! If you see this, love your content and I appreciated this video! There is so much to be learned in the dating world. With that being said, I am a young dater, 22 to be exact, and don’t have a lot of dating experience. But I recently exited my first ever relationship because my previous boyfriend always had wandering eyes and it turned out he cheated on me toward the end of our relationship. So I am bruised but healing. If you haven’t already, can you provide advice or a video on men with wandering eyes, and maybe some reassurance that there is better out there?
Also making the first move could be something as simple as asking a man for help. For example at the gym I ask for help adjusting equipment I am unable to reach or ask questions out of curiosity. Then if he is interested he will drive or continue. But the first move is simply an invite for interaction or making your presence be known as Mr Speaks said in this video.
I’m happy within my singleness!💯❤️ I do desire to find true love, be married & have a family of my own with my future husband.🙏🏼 I love this video! ❤️ This hit home for me.. I don’t go out or do anything to put myself out there😬 Faith without works… you’re absolutely right! 💯💯💯❤️ My type is a godly man & things you mentioned… 💯 For me, it’s a man’s character, morals, values, God first… that’s important to me. 💯 Excellent topics!💯💯💯💯 Stephan, Thank you so much for creating this video! 🫶🏼🥰 I appreciate you & the work you’re doing…fantastic job! ❤️👏🏼💯😉 Wonderful advice!🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 You’re absolutely right on all levels! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 God bless you! Jesus ❤️’s U!
U are happy in your singleness ,yet u desire husband and children ? and not going out , this will just be your dream? Ha ha or u are awaiting On FedEx 😂
To @ user…. Long story short… I was in a bad relationship years ago. After I left it all behind, I’m nervous to put myself out there. I learned things about myself… I now know my worth, my value… I know who I am as a person, as a woman… I know what I desire in a relationship & from a man. So YES! I am happy while I’m single. I know a man is not gonna drop out of the sky… Everyone goes through relationships differently..especially after a breakup. Some may bounce back… I’m not like others. I healed completely but just nervous to go out, that’s all.
Thanks Stephan.. this is second video where you mentioned fasting and it resonated both times.I’m going to fast regarding my purpose . I have faith in God for my next relationship but I want clarity on what “works” HE desires from me 😊.. ps no more grocery store pickup in 2025!!
Ok here it goes. I’m putting myself out there in case the husband is out there reading all these comments. 53 year old, professional female with Haitian descent, divorced, empty-nester, giver, motivator, love to travel, seeking Godly established man to share life and future dreams with. Are you the one? This is as brave as I have ever been. My real name is Fabiola Fairgrieve. I live in Florida. Hope to meet soon in Jesus Name. God bless everyone. 🙏🏽
Wish I had men that are friends, mine are all women but they come up with things I dont notice, like I need someone easy going because I am a high energy type, perfection type, like to stay in good physical shape.
💯🙌🏼🙏🏼⭐ I'm always diggin' how you keep my mind in check ~ Which in turn, makes me check aspects about my "stank - Yikes" personality self - - knowing ~ self improvement is a life long commitment. Your Holy Ghost - Spirit Wisdom - brings me back around to " Are You Askin' God bout' this?" - Key Principle... and for sure fasting gets the flesh "out the way" for precision discernment. Grateful for you Stephan...so grateful💯🙏🏼
About online dating..If someone is going to be willing to see if closing the distance is the goal, there is honest movement towards that, and some other important factors, then online dating can work.
What if the men you are 😅interested in don’t feel the same way or are not ready? Initiating too many times can make one timid. A girl is not made to accept too many rejections. Men handle it better. What are your thoughts, Stephan?
I made the first move, gave him my number. Very nice guy. Went on a few dates that were great. Everything was going well, but he’s not consistent. So, it is the guy to drive the situation .. I am not supposed to always initiate and/or drive or work to maintain this “situation-ship”, right?
I havent started this video yet but i completely need to hear this . Feels like im going through a crisis with love because i am a great young lady and ready to have a husband but i think the lord i making me wait foreal foreal for the special someone that i deserve
I really should seek my clarity l don't think am ready for a healthy relationship l really should stand strong and focus on day all these surgeries am going through
I’m super guilty of not putting myself out there. I work from home, order groceries through the app, I live in a small city and don’t go out very often.
if males are visual attracted to women, to tell women to make the first move is diabolical at best…most have admitted that they are gonna accept anything that’s easy even if he is unattracted to her
Seek he first the kingdom of God and everything else will be added onto you. When you’re walking in your purpose and assignment, you don’t need to ‘look’. All your desires will align naturally
Amen!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾staying in a holy place...waiting for my blessing!🙏🏾🙏🏾🌺
Amen ❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾!
@@vibrantt_thanggYesss Amen To That!
Yes. He who finds a wife finds a good thing. We aren’t supposed to be looking for him. It’s the opposite way around.
Ladies we have to keep an open mind too! There are a lot of good men out there. They may be shy, ugly, or don’t have the aesthetic we’re looking for. Keep your spiritual eyes open and not just your physical carnal mind ❤️
I couldn’t agree more 🙏
True 😂😂😂
I wouldn’t say ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so let’s just say they may not come in the package that you may desire. 😂
💯… I had to acknowledge that I’m choosing what I want versus who GOD has for me. I always had a type. I recognized I needed to make adjustments and better decisions making . I am dating someone on line and so far so good. 😊 I did add him to my prayer list lol . I want who GOD has for me. Don’t give up ladies❤
He can't be ugly for me I have to kiss him I want an attractive man just as well as I want to be attractive for him along with physical attraction I want a respectful loving etc... and I for him
Most of the time this type of occurance happens when you are just moving along in life, and aren't really vigorously looking, but open to it.
Well said 🙏
Yes, sometimes you have to take "the path of least resistance" by just living your life. Too much "conscious effort" can be bad.
But there has to be some effort
@NomadicKitty That is what "being open to being in a relationship means"..of course there has to be some effort and not be one-sided..
Am all in for this ,natural accurances ,it feels heavenly ,can,t beat
This feeling
I recently asked a guy in the gym if he's single. He's just got engaged but could not have been more polite and generous. He was a good reminder that there are good guys out there, and I can take the initiative. I'm in my 50's and my grown-up sons that my move "kicked arse"!! Love from the UK ❤
That's a great example 🙏
🎉 great work
I love Stephan hahahha!!! I believe I will be married by the end of 2025 as I think God asks me to truly follow your instructions!
That is awesome to hear 🙌
A great man approached me January 1st. He told me he hesitated but we’ve already been out once and had a great time! He’s not my usual type, I’m used to guys rejection. We are the same age and he is very attentive.
Wishing you all the best darling❤
Good luck I hope he is the right guy
Wow !!! Great start for 2025 Boom Boom 👍👍👍👍
If a woman has to make the first move in the beginning, she will always have to put forth effort in the relationship. It’ll become exhausting with him just sitting back expecting her to do everything.
Good luck all the best may GOD almighty facilitate the process for you
I know that a physical attraction is not the most important thing but there has to be some sort of physical attraction if we are being really honest with ourselves
Very true
If we are honest ,that's what draws us first as human beings ,physical
Attraction is mega important
Sure some, but some people don’t allow it to grow over time. They are looking for initial passionate strong attraction and that may not always happen right away
9:12 I told my friend don't be afraid to flirt a little lol because I know how men are, they need to know they are desired. Nothing crazy or anything but some hints. If he does not reciprocate then that more than likely a sign to move on... I would definitely move on if no flirting was received back lol
Exactly 🙏
THE MAN WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A TREASURE.
I’ll admit it’s mostly work for me , I don’t do online dating. I mostly go to walk the park or bookstore. I have given my number out once in awhile but nothing works out. Everyone tells me don’t go looking for the right guy because God will put him in your life. I know i’m not perfect. I like someone and i’m praying like crazy if he is the right guy. I love a guy who is there for me , have same values & good with kids doesn’t smoke or drink. I like smart guys kind guys.
Stay in your natural habitat. When u least expected something will be right in front of you. Significant other, opportunity knocks open the door. If becomes monotonous try a step up. In the gym, in your social life. May meet the right one jus crossing the street. Stay positive. Positivity attracts positivity. Be confident but open. ❤ others feel same. Be aware
You have to put yourself in the path of someone. I'm not saying go crazy but you can expect a man to show up at the right time. It may happen but it might be a long time
@ I do put myself out there and it’s all about God timing not ours. My friend who is old enough to be my mom met her husband at a christian dating cafe but she didn’t go in. She later met him again and they fell in love and there still married to this day. They act like newly weds.
@@loisbaird9509 Thank you the guy I like is someone I have known for years , but he admitted to be he trying to figure out his feelings for me right now. He also has a lot going on personally. Please keep me in your prayers. I’m working on being more positive and I need a guy who is super affectionate. I’m staying in my elements I hope God reveals who he has as my future husband soon. It might be the guy I have feelings for and it might just be a season of us both growing personally both with the Lord and as people.
@dolphinkz85 you are on point sis. Let God be God and he will bring your husband to you at the right time.
So glad you mentioned making the first move and breaking it down to what it means and what it does not mean, love that! Nothing wrong with presenting yourself👌🏽
You're so welcome! 🙏
Making the first move ? no ,I prefer to pull some lil strings 🤣 hopefully
he interprets well, if it works this can be a laughable confession later
Stephan, I am amazed with your Faith and your belief in God. Keep it up!
😊❤️ thank you
Very very impressive and this got me glued to his teachings and his
channels ,such a darling young man
When me and my ex was together yrs ago it was bad timing, however we went our separate ways. It wasn’t until 2024 when we ran back into each other and really sat down and talked. I told him in 2022 I was very sick and almost died on several occasions, everything that I went through brought us closer and now we are back together again stronger and better than ever. I had moved on with my life and never thought we would cross paths again. But I did maybe God brought him back in my life for a reason and at that time he was in my life for a season. He is very caring and nurturing and so supportive he is a good man who is hard to come by nowadays.
THE MAN WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING; SHE IS A BLESSING TO HIM FROM THE LORD.
A lots of people married to the wrong person who that go ?
Thank you Stephan. I got value. Especially with the last point. It is always necessary to pray and ask God what is required of us to get whatever it is we want or need, rather than take it upon ourselves to do what we think pleases him, without asking and without waiting for a clear answer. 😊🙏🏽
I believe the fact that I'm so different it makes him cautious. I'm buddhist, pescatarian, love yoga, meditation & being in nature. I gave him my business card the first time we met. 6 months later we ran into each other at an event & he gave me his number. I texted him to say I how good it was to see him & long story short I shot him down about jumping in the sheets. Radio silence!😢
It's a numbers game.. hint hint
I'm gonna stay locked in on him not being broke (yes, willing to provide)
That’s what happened in my last relationship. Everything was perfect except for that and I couldn’t end up living with it.
True…
I am not putting myself out there.
Need to adjust this 😉😄
I dont make the first move either… 🙈😅
I’m glad you can acknowledge this and are willing to do something about it
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank You for making me more aware of it. 😘
I agree you have to put yourself out there
🙌 yes!
I agree with you 100% I need to listen to this video all over again like 5 times. Love your love truths!!! 🙌
I appreciate that 🙏
LET THE RIGHT MAN FIND ME❗️
Absolutely
This video EVERYONE needs to share and watch. It's so on point. People really think they are gonna find a partner without any effort. This isnt 10, 20 years ago and people still acting like meeting someone is the same. It's not. People ain't meeting at the club, church and thru friends a lot.
I actually met most of my men online. Great relationships! With all of them still friends. It depends on my own energy what people I attract there ;-)
Stephan you should make a mug that says "That's a problem!" 🤭
lol 😂
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Thank You, Stephan, for clarifying the concept of “finding” a wife/money etc. Great analogy!💯💜
Thank you 🙂
My dear queens be mindfull that GOOD things comes to those who wait
but not for those who wait to LATE
Take Steph,s advice put your lovely selves OUT THERE 🤣
🙌❤️
@@user-fh1tr9zp3l great song reference lol 👍🏽
I like how you explain that about he who finds a wife. That makes tons of sense now I don't feel bad about saying hello or smiling at a man when he pass me by and he says hello to me🎉 thank you
Universities also used to be a good, safe place to meet up. That’s where MANY couples began meaningful relationships that culminated into marriage.
Thank you, Shephan, Divine Confirmation🔥🙏🏽❤️💯
I’m happy you found the video helpful
Finding your purpose men and women ❤😊
I have to build my confidence. I have a hard time making the first move, talking to the opposite sex. Dating is so different then 30 years ok. I don't know the rules and when men do talk to me I shut down. I get nerves and can't talk it's embarrassing like I'm a teenager again. I'm good with posting on social media and making my business. Not good with marketing myself.
I so know those feelings and reactions
i can definitely relate 😞
Its so hard. I watc h so many women make flirting an art form its so hard.@@michellemcauley2315
@@acb0603thank you for your response. I thought it was just me
it's like you describe me... i can't talk/look in the eyes of the man i like (even not love phase!) so i do practices talking to many men online. i still can't talk to most men i like but i get better and get more confidence now.
Yes we have to put ourselves out there! I’ve met my most recent partners at; the grocery store (he worked there!), and the other two men at work. I absolutely will not on line date as I’ve had experiences meeting low quality men (and very bad experiences) on line. I believe that meeting organically in person just in the course of life is the best bet. I definitely do not have a problem making the first move, sometimes men are intimidated so making the first move is good! I’ve found partners doing that. Just strike up a conversation with the man, say something about the weather, or anything you can think up that applies in the situation to let him know that he has a green light to conversate with you. I also very much agree with not being locked into a type bc a person with an amazing personality and shared interests and values can become absolutely sexy and handsome once you come to know him better. Broadening out our taste only increases our chances of finding love. Don’t let an opportunity pass ladies!
Stefan you are amazing thank you for all of your content!
Stephen you are an amazing man, I learnt so many things in this video but I’m most grateful for this one in particular “before I make any sacrifices to God for a blessing I’m looking for, I must be sure that’s what he wants from me” .. honestly, one’s life could get stuck only by getting this wrong.. thank you so much ❤
People used to be more active in community organizations that were the hub of their social life.
This is so true
Facts. I met all relationship partners IRL. I've been single my entire 40s and noticed the way ppl find partners is via dating applications. I love talking to people, so that is my preferred method. But I know for many years I was just not open.
@@boston1976 Adam Conover did a video on what was wrong with the Democratic party and how the lost accountability and one of the reasons he cited was lack of community organizational involvement, which used to be the cornerstone of American social life; the Lions, the Elks, Veteran Service Organizations, unions, etc. If you're rural, even something like the Grange Association.
Those organizations held dances, spaghetti dinners, pancake breakfasts, and whatnot.
@Asenueh That's no reason to blame a political party.
@tlh7490 The video spoke more about the social ennui due to lack of active participation in groups that hold events outside of the house. THAT was my point.
We lack third spaces to meet people IRL and that was where those spaces were.
When you say it outloud, it’s clear, common sense. 😅thank you!
I agree I said to my friend 2025 we need to go out more to socialise, meet new people! We went out NYE & a comedy show last Friday. Men won't come flying through the door!
Did it work? Did you meet guys that night? Hope it worked well…😊
@denisesmith8657 we did meet new people, but not any connections but it's a good start! We got to put ourselves in good spaces. 😊
Thank you so much for sharing your gift with us 🧡
Always my pleasure
God helps those who help themselves.
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Amen
Acknowledged and received 💖
Thank you 🙏
Thank you 😊 🙇🏽♀️❤️ A man I’m a spiritual life coach thank you for everything I have all your books and I’ve been following you since you started and God has blessed me yes that God-fearing man that cherish me godson him thank you Steph on my beloved brother in Christ thank you
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
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Thank you for this valuable information.
I'm not sure what to do. I'm 67 and single. My profile pic was taken 11/24 on my b-day! I'm on dating sites but can't seem to find Mr. right. I've been single for many years. mostly because I never made myself available. Just work then home, raised my kids and now I'm an empty nester. It's so hard dating as we get older, these men are so set in their ways and picky. I'm full of life, Compassionate, outgoing fun-loving, easy to talk to and good listener. No drama at all! Vivacious I would say describes me. I'm very patient.... Optimistic!
Just pray about , I have been praying for the right guy since I was 18. I like someone don’t know if he is mr.right or not but i’m praying like crazy.
I'm 75 and started solo cruising last summer. One way to make new friends.
@kaylew1124 I can't think of anything that is glaringly staring me in the face that you can do differently as I read your comment. I can't help but wonder a small bit though if you marketed a little more of what you are going toward, such as passion, mission, and hobbies, if that would help you some.
As far as men being set in their ways, I encounter that in women myself, and I am only 42.
@@JStig12 Well, trust me when I say that I am not the average 67yr old! I didn't want to write a long bio on this post. The bio I have on the dating site has been complemented by many men. Most consider it to be positive, heartfelt and well written. No complaints on that. Hobbies and all included. Not desperate! Hopeful.
Love your advice and realness. I like how you talk to us (like when you used the word "stank" 😅). You are very down to earth and relatable, it's like getting advice from a friend. We appreciate you!!
Ladies, listen Stephan ! It really works👌🏾 💯
Great video, as always 👏🏾🩵
Thank you, I appreciate that
Thank you Mr Stephen . This was very much needed and insightful .
I’m glad you enjoyed it
South Africa in the house
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Thanks!🙏🏾for the needed advice i thought he was coming to knock.. at my door 😂😂😂.Guess it's time to do the work.
Hi Stephan! If you see this, love your content and I appreciated this video! There is so much to be learned in the dating world. With that being said, I am a young dater, 22 to be exact, and don’t have a lot of dating experience. But I recently exited my first ever relationship because my previous boyfriend always had wandering eyes and it turned out he cheated on me toward the end of our relationship. So I am bruised but healing. If you haven’t already, can you provide advice or a video on men with wandering eyes, and maybe some reassurance that there is better out there?
Great advice to start off the new year . Take the steps for the outcome you desire.
ThnkU for this! I have an open mind!!🎉
Also making the first move could be something as simple as asking a man for help. For example at the gym I ask for help adjusting equipment I am unable to reach or ask questions out of curiosity. Then if he is interested he will drive or continue. But the first move is simply an invite for interaction or making your presence be known as Mr Speaks said in this video.
Please make a video on dos and don'ts of online dating/profile 🙏🏼
I will add that to my list
but......I'm in looooooove with a UA-camr! 🤭🤣🤣🤣 I have to get to the next Tribe Vibe.☀️🌺🏹
LOL 🤣 🙏
I’m happy within my singleness!💯❤️
I do desire to find true love, be married & have a family of my own with my future husband.🙏🏼
I love this video! ❤️
This hit home for me.. I don’t go out or do anything to put myself out there😬
Faith without works… you’re absolutely right! 💯💯💯❤️
My type is a godly man & things you mentioned… 💯
For me, it’s a man’s character, morals, values, God first… that’s important to me. 💯
Excellent topics!💯💯💯💯
Stephan, Thank you so much for creating this video! 🫶🏼🥰
I appreciate you & the work you’re doing…fantastic job! ❤️👏🏼💯😉
Wonderful advice!🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
You’re absolutely right on all levels! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
God bless you!
Jesus ❤️’s U!
Thank you so much for sharing your story 🙏
U are happy in your singleness ,yet u desire husband and children ?
and not going out , this will just be your dream? Ha ha or u are awaiting
On FedEx 😂
@@user-fh1tr9zp3lI have my reasons
To @ user….
Long story short…
I was in a bad relationship years ago.
After I left it all behind, I’m nervous to put myself out there.
I learned things about myself… I now know my worth, my value… I know who I am as a person, as a woman…
I know what I desire in a relationship & from a man.
So YES! I am happy while I’m single.
I know a man is not gonna drop out of the sky…
Everyone goes through relationships differently..especially after a breakup.
Some may bounce back… I’m not like others.
I healed completely but just nervous to go out, that’s all.
Thanks Stephan.. this is second video where you mentioned fasting and it resonated both times.I’m going to fast regarding my purpose . I have faith in God for my next relationship but I want clarity on what “works” HE desires from me 😊.. ps no more grocery store pickup in 2025!!
Great video! Thank you!❤
My pleasure
Ok here it goes. I’m putting myself out there in case the husband is out there reading all these comments.
53 year old, professional female with Haitian descent, divorced, empty-nester, giver, motivator, love to travel, seeking Godly established man to share life and future dreams with. Are you the one?
This is as brave as I have ever been. My real name is Fabiola Fairgrieve. I live in Florida. Hope to meet soon in Jesus Name.
God bless everyone. 🙏🏽
I love fantasy, but reality is best. Even though some fantasies can become reality, but realism is what truly is best.
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Great info !!! Very helpful! ❤
Thank you, I’m glad you found it helpful
Hi brother Stephan May God bless you you open my eyes thank you so much ❤❤
Wish I had men that are friends, mine are all women but they come up with things I dont notice, like I need someone easy going because I am a high energy type, perfection type, like to stay in good physical shape.
💯🙌🏼🙏🏼⭐ I'm always diggin' how you keep my mind in check ~ Which in turn, makes me check aspects about my "stank - Yikes" personality self - - knowing ~ self improvement is a life long commitment. Your Holy Ghost - Spirit Wisdom - brings me back around to " Are You Askin' God bout' this?" - Key Principle... and for sure fasting gets the flesh "out the way" for precision discernment. Grateful for you Stephan...so grateful💯🙏🏼
Amen, His will not mine.
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South Africa❤❤❤
Counting on it. 🙏🏽
🙏 thank you for watching
Thank-you 💙👏🏽
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About online dating..If someone is going to be willing to see if closing the distance is the goal, there is honest movement towards that, and some other important factors, then online dating can work.
Well said 🙏
First point is well taken
Thank you 🙏
What if the men you are 😅interested in don’t feel the same way or are not ready? Initiating too many times can make one timid. A girl is not made to accept too many rejections. Men handle it better. What are your thoughts, Stephan?
It's a numbers game.. light hit, no response? Next
l AM HERE
l AM READY
l AM OPEN
I made the first move, gave him my number. Very nice guy. Went on a few dates that were great. Everything was going well, but he’s not consistent. So, it is the guy to drive the situation .. I am not supposed to always initiate and/or drive or work to maintain this “situation-ship”, right?
It's a numbers game.. hint hint
I havent started this video yet but i completely need to hear this . Feels like im going through a crisis with love because i am a great young lady and ready to have a husband but i think the lord i making me wait foreal foreal for the special someone that i deserve
Thank you for sharing 🙏
@ sure thanks you for making these videos for us 🙌🏾
Your morals and values aline with each other, just casual conversation.
I am one of your biggest fans 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you for your support
Times are very different now back in the day where very very crazy trust me it has affected me alot
I like my single season sometimes l get lonely l refuse to make the first move l probably should change my looks
FIND A GOOD SPOUSE,
YOU FIND A GOOD LIFE ➖️
AND EVER MORE:
THE FAVOR OF GOD❗️
I really should seek my clarity l don't think am ready for a healthy relationship l really should stand strong and focus on day all these surgeries am going through
I probably won't never settle down ever again
I would love to just be your friend, if nothing more.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Mutual meaning enjoying each other company 💓
I'm getting my top dentures Monday what sucks is l can't find my bottom partial
We need to get back to talking and face to face socializing
IT IS BETTER TO MARRY THAN TO BURN WITH PASSION
1 CORINTHIANS 7:9
I’m super guilty of not putting myself out there. I work from home, order groceries through the app, I live in a small city and don’t go out very often.
me too 🙋🏻♀️
Sometimes l get in my own way
TO FIND A WIFE IS TO FIND HAPPINESS,
A FAVOR GRANTED BY THE LORD.
"Make the first move" Brutal.
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What do you mean?
Possibility exists that some day he will throw this back in your face
@@WarriorMichelle57 I mean it’s scary.
@shannyncaldwell I have questions but... you'll not be scared to compliment or hint at with a flirt with the right man. 🙏🏻
Yes many of us needs to work on many things. I have a family member that believes she is perfect and nothing is wrong with her. SMH
My type is someone like you.
Please tell me where they’re at? Every man I’ve run across always seems to have bad intentions, no morals and no respect! 🤦♀️
True Story
LET THE RIGHT MAN FIND YOU❗️
Some people think l need to change my facial expression am working on getting my teeth work on my back hurts so much
From Arlington, Tx
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SURE!
I’m getting back out there. I got a dog and we will be getting out a lot more!!!
if males are visual attracted to women,
to tell women to make the first move is diabolical at best…most have admitted that they are gonna accept anything that’s easy even if he is unattracted to her
Anything thats easy to sleep with, the trick here is you can approach men but dont sleep with them early.
I really should drive my body in the right manner
I really should keep my distance