5 HUGE SIGNS He’s Emotionally INVESTED In You!
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I want you to understand men and know what men think because a lot of guys will desire you and may want to entertain you in various ways. However, not all of them will have that emotional attraction to you that is needed to get emotionally attached to someone and foster a healthy relationship with them.
This dating advice video will enable you to understand men better and know how men think so that you can easily identify the signs of emotional attraction and know if he’s emotionally attracted to you or not. As a relationship coach, I want you to be able to crack the man code and be able to know how men think so that you can know when you are emotionally attached to someone.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this dating advice helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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As a black woman, the greatest compliment my boyfriend has given me was telling me I bring him so much peace. If you know, you know. ❤
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Those are gorgeous words to ear❤❤
You can feel it when he is invested. It feels easy. You can be yourself.
Exactly 🤍‼️
D too today
In today’s dating scene being vulnerable is so scary 🥺
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Extremely scary
I have my guard up. But once they show that they are worth it...once I vet good, I usually don't have too much of a problem being vulnerable after. It is what it is.
@@jayc5756
I completely agree. Vetting is IMPERATIVE!!!💯 You gotta get em in & get em out (In my Stephan Speaks voice).🤷🏾♀️😂
I assess the men that attempt to court me quickly and RESPECTFULLY, to determine IF we are compatible as far as having similar values & morals... So because I don't allow people to stick around if we're NOT compatible, I have no problem being vulnerable with the men that I meet .
Being open & vulnerable, weeds out the incompatible men REAL QUICK...💅🏽
Also, when we're vulnerable upfront & open, we assess quickly and therefore we AVOID dating fatigue.💯
That’s why you don’t
This generation is different
It’s best not to
The love of my life, the one with whom I shared an incredible connection, the one who told me he fell in love with me the first time he met me (and that was 30 years ago), the one I had everything in common with, and was so in love with, was tragically killed in a motorcycle accident last Saturday. I just returned from his funeral. To say it’s lights out for me is no understatement. I’m beyond devastated and can’t even imagine life with anyone else. Please pray for me ❤
𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒆𝒑𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒔𝒚𝒎𝒑𝒉𝒐𝒏𝒚 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 💕🙏🙏🙏
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Praying that God's angels of comfort come to minister to you right now in this moment. None of your tears will fall to the ground. God sees every one of them. Everything you sow in tears you will reap in joy! HalleluYah 🙌🏾
Please listen to Maverick City's song Breathe and let it wash over you. Let your praise be your weapon during this time. Let Abba God know your very real feelings and ask Him to meet you in them. He will sis. Praying for you and may the God of all comfort bless in keep you in all your ways 🙏🏾
My heart breaks for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort and wrap his loving arms around you 😢
Thank you! I'm beyond devastated. @@user-cs1027
He’s my best friend! We’ve known each other since we were 10. We laugh, talk for hours, he asks me what I think, listens to me. Next to Jesus, he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me.
I met a man during the summer and we both agreed we wanted something serious. So he bought me a promise ring. He calls me everyday and text. And ask about my boys everyday. Yes I agree with talking for hours. We talk about everything and can respect the other person not wanting to discuss something. I love every moment of it
Such a good point ladies! Don’t be afraid to express how you feel towards him.
He goes cold? You say bye-bye 👋
I was talking this guy for a couple months now...and I text him and told him my mind is on you..meaning I'm thinking about him...he read my text called me and he never ask me what I'm I thinking about....he start about he is on the job etc...and at the end he tells me thank you...thank you for thinking about me...I decided to leave him alone...because all he really talks about is himself...very selfish and self centered
That's why you can't be vulnerable w/just anybody or before things get too serious. Dont move too fast
One reason I coach women about levels of vulblnerability. And we go through exercises of what you should share and not share.
@@crespeakslife right
Guilty
@carolynartes6033 We've all been guilty. It's about learning and not repeating the same mistakes love. That's all. 🥰
If I could give anyone any advice don't rush into anything just work on yourself first self development is necessary to a successful relationship I am fine being single till God says it's time. I want to be with the man God has for me but I want to be able to give him everything he never had by being the best I can be first before I get with him.
Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼
One of the best comments on here
I appreciate you
@thehitmaster
Great reply and I agree
I always had this idea too. Dont rush. But i fell into LOVE. So hard and so fast. Unexpected out of left field. Fast and furious
I like your consistency lately. Thanks for the videos you make for us
My pleasure ❤️
I'll be 70 yrs old soon. I still long for a real man that will love me and want to share my life. Ive been celibate for 15yrs. I've worked on my issues and want a last relationship. I've had little interest from anyone except they express strong interest in sex. IM 70 and still sexy evidently.
Is it even possible to find the love of my life now? I'm about to give up permanently. 😢
I socialize in the community.
I take care of my appearance. Nothing.
Please pray for me. I dont want to leave this planet never finding love.
May your desire be met
With or without a man, you will always be loved ❤we’re all one and I love you because I feel for you 🖤
I may suddenly have met someone!
@@dianaspencer7232that’s great 🎉
Your spot on with your analysis. I recently met a woman whom checks all the boxes for me. I was very much so emotionally invested in her. Just thinking about her gave me chill bumps. We're no longer dating anymore at this moment due to personal preferences for our lives, but man I swear this woman did it for me emotionally every time.
Not worth fighting for it?
Yes! Go after her.
😢And you let her get away?!!!!! 😮
You don’t find that very often.
Read this book and let me tell you I knew who exactly to cut off I wasn’t too picky i made sure we had the same morals and motives in life and let me tell you it’s been six months and got engaged in the third month of us dating🥰
Will be back in the future to update lol
What was the book called??
@@byebye967 The man god has for you
Wow‼️ congratulations
Congratulations ❤
Stephan, you've covered a lot of ground in this video ...
I see how important communication or (the lack of)is, and I've missed the mark at times when it comes to this particular area because of my overthinking.
It's really difficult to start anew when negative thoughts of the past arise.
I concur with you that if you are interested in someone ; you will never know if you are compatible or even if they feel the same until you have the one on one conversation .
Great content as always .
Always relatable...
Thank you
I was hesitant to watch this because I was afraid to know whether or not I was talking to the right person, but now I know that he's checking all the right boxes idek what to do with myself..
we here always to support this channel
Thank you for the support. I appreciate that ❤ 🙏
He once called me, got a missed call and called back...he asked me to cut the call coz he wanted to call and he knew we was gonna talk for long...we talked for 2 hours❤❤
It's rare to find a good man who will love, care and provide for you because toxicity is on increase so be careful who you give access to your life because not everyone has your best interests at heart! They are not interested in who you are as a person but what you can give to them. Besides, Everyone deserves love and respect just for being alive and live a life they deserve. No one was created to be broken and live a life that wasn't meant for them! On the other hand, if someone can't consider you as important to be a priority then they shouldn't be worth your time! STOP 🤚giving your attention to people that could care less about you and never leave a good relationship because of a few faults because no one is perfect. FULL STOP.
You are AMAZING Stephan. Great video I appreciate you. Sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🩷💥💙💥💜💥🧡💥🩵
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much I appreciate that!
Your advice is very helpful 🙂 ☺ I wish I had it 20 years ago when I was dating & before I met my now husband. I would have not kissed sooo many frogs to get my prince. 😁 very valuable 👍🏼
Just spread it to the next generation please. It's waaaayyy too much good info out there now..for these ladies to still fall for the same bs they've been falling for for a while now. IJS
I cannot stop watching your videos. Thank you for everything, Stephan!
I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼
Key insights
💑 Being emotionally attracted to someone means connecting on a deeper emotional level, beyond physical appearance.
💬 Your ability or his willingness to talk to you for hours, especially when it flows so seamlessly, is a great sign that he is emotionally attracted.
💭 If a man expresses that he's always thinking about you, it's typically a good sign that he's emotionally invested in the relationship.
🚩 Ignoring red flags and allowing bad behavior to go unchecked is the real problem, not being open and vulnerable in expressing your emotions.
🗣 "If I ask you your opinion you give me your opinion. I'm not asking for the right answers, it's not about right or wrong, it's about I want to hear your perspective."
💭 "That guy who's emotionally attracted, yes, he will want to hear because again, the woman that we're really into we care what she thinks."
🕰 He's emotionally invested if he prioritizes spending time with you over sex.
💔 If you're not emotionally and spiritually connected in a relationship, it's bound to failure.
Well done! #Bravo As a father of two beautiful daughters, i am very grateful your helping women better understand how to men think. #Respect
Your videos helped me identify my guy. I'm sooooo happy!
Glad to hear that. Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼
@@MeetStephanSpeaks you need to come to Jamaica. I work with youths and I think that they could benefit from sessions with you; even virtually. Especially our church youth groups or even our divorcees or those couples experiencing challenges. I'd love to connect with you for this purpose. You have helped me so much. Though I've found my guy, I still go to sleep listening to your content many nights. He listens too. I now share your stuff with friends. One friend used your video on '7 Signs He is for you' (don't remember the correct title), to check a guy she met. Now they are planning their wedding. Be blessed Stephan.
I'm just grateful to God for directing me to be watching your videos💃💃🤸🤸
Thank you Stephan for this video year ago I left a 32 year relationship that got toxic from both sides in the getting out of my comfort zone to being out to have fun as a single person is so strange sometimes confidence is not the problem its really getting to know your starting over again thats scary ❤❤🙌🙏
Wishing you all the best on this new journey👏👏 Pray and listen
Each one of your videos feels like you’re taking me to church in the best way possible lol. If god ever calls you to preach I’m your first member.
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🤗🌸I agree SIS and I'll
Be praising the Lord right
With you!!!🤞🙌👌😍
The fact in all this signs is that you have to first have relationships with God, and that relationships is not just pray for the God...to have strong faith you have to give yourself full to God...he is the one who is controlling, he know you and the person he have for you...but you have to have clear relationships with God in everything you do, work, love, friends, hobby, family....it means God is the first one...than the rest...to build relationships with God and put your trust in him take time, it means go to Church, sit close to him, stay in silence, learn yourself to pray even you don't want but do what you say to him...he will with time change your attitude and direct you to right person...and you won't needed to look for red flags or anything similar...you will be secure in God love for you and you will be able to love people around, bad or good, but you will love and than you will start recive love back and be ready for person who is for you...the person who God want for you even in your worst behavior want leave you and you him, Holy Spirit will help you both to overcome what is wrong together...and all this signs will be pointless...but to have relationships with God take more of you time, like, reading Bible, go to Church, just sit there and say ok I am here and I want you in my life...don't think what you want, just want God and God will open your heart for great things, just first want him and forget the rest like love from man, job, money, health...just want him to be with you and when you relive that he is the first despite everyone and everything you will be free. He will teach you real love and you will be able to spread around you...and God will be your true leader and you won't need looking constantly for some signs, you will be healthy with your emotions and how you accept and think about everything and everyone, you will found yourself what is the most important.
Now that's real talk 💯 The best comment on here that I was looking for..
I just stopped seeing and communicating with someone. Listening to your videos has helped me to stay strong in staying away from him. Thank you ❤ 🙏
Stephan, I watch your videos and podcasts and I've gained so much insight. Thank you. I only wish you were around in my youth. I like that you speak from a spiritual perspective.
Excellent deliverance Stephan! You do a great job educating us.
Thank you🎉
My pleasure ❤️
I only attract men specifically who LOVES to hear a woman TALK FOR HOURS & CHATTER endlessly 😂 mainly because I make sure that’s something they like b4 even really going out! Lol I tell guys.. you better RUN NOW cuz I’ll talk your head off … and put u to sleep on the phone 😂…
And actually, I found that LOTTS of men (especially those who r quiet or have some hesitation w/ conversation) actually are MORE ATTRACTED to me because they have told me how relieved they feel by NOT having to carry the conversation… my first husband said he had a slight speech impediment as a child, but unknowingly to me, my talking calmed his nerves!
Thanks Stephan! Even if he does some of these things but is clear about his "plate being full" and doesn't have time. Wish him the best and let him go.
Great topic, I connect to a wonderful gentleman on my vacation while I was visiting my Family. I felt that we had a emotional connection and dated a couple times and talk on the phone. We agree to be Friends/with no benefits😊.stay in touched. But
He had a problem with me because I would not pick up my phone when he called/// miss calls...I always return his call.he said I took too long calling. him back. Oh my goodness 😮I mark him off like a Red Flag.. Lord I can't😂
I had similar expeirence and it became draining. Even after i managed his expectations of when I'm usually free to talk, he didn't get it and seem a bit emotionally immature/selfish.
I think Mr wonderful need some healing, 😂 he was married before that was his first marriage and and her second marriage. She was the one that was unfaithful.She filled for divorce. ..Ad for me Maybe he wasn't ready for love. .. he sabotaged good connection. Keep pouring love back into self.. not giving up on 💝 and what you deserve 💖
Stephan SPEAK!!! I Love It!!! You Are…
ALL OVER THIS!!!
❤️ 🙂 thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!
Have just now found someone that hits all of these. So happy God but us in each others paths ❤️
I REALLY L🥰❤️E this one! Thank you Stephen! You are amazing and sincere and I watch your videos often and you have helped me tremendously in my new dating journey to love one one day that loves me back in God’s magical way ☺️
Glad I could help 🙏🏼
You are Stephen helping with All those details and communication on your way ! 😊👌🏾
This is definitely a good show cause I didn't realize to even pay attention to that!!!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I really like the sound of your laughter, Stephan.
3 words - LOVE YOUR CHANNEL 💡💜
❤️ 🙂 thank you!
This all sounds like a chess game. I’ll rest my mind in getting to know my Heavenly Father instead & best version for him, him, him :)
BRAVO Stephan!!! Nothing But The Truth!
Thanks!
My pleasure ❤️
I receive These Amazing words of wisdom 🙏🏽🙌🏽
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Thank you so much for making us aware being so deep and breaking it down for us….
My pleasure ❤️
Not being able to keep your hands off each other and calling each other on the phone instead of meeting in person did make me laugh 😀
Yeah, it's really hard to be with your married partner and you don't have anything to talk about. 😔 I wish I knew beforehand how he was not emotionally attracted to me or simply just not that into me. A person must KNOW that they're LOVED in a relationship, married or not.😢
He just have a hard time expressing his emotions talk to him or try couple theopy 😮
Yeah, but he's abusive. It's a dead relationship.
So you still stay married?
@@Darksky600 No, it's over hun.
Thank you for your advice I am learning alot😊. I went on a date with this man I met 4 times already and we have long conversations and he has given me compliments and not sexual which is nice finally. He seems like a really respectful man and his friends tell me that he is a really nice respected man. I like him but one thing he can talk a bit more then I'm used to and sometimes acts like a big kid which I'm not used to. As most of the guys I have been with were serious type so I'm taking one day at a time with this guy.
I'm happy this has been helpful to 🙏🏼
Interesting
Try something different it might be a reason he is silly and not serious.. we sometimes can be wrong about people.
What age group are you all? Maybe it’s his age
Thank you for this video talking for hours on end. It is definitely a plus for me we laugh for hours on end. A man who genuinely crave time out to see him take me out for long drives embracing each other's company. Introducing me to his mother his friends .My facial expressions give me away he picks up on it vice versa.
#1 sign - you don’t wonder if you’re a priority
Thank you for sharing this You are so right A God fearing man found me He's doing everything you are talking about Thank you for everything you do to help us !!!
Stephen, all your videos are so informative . am learning a lot you are so real i like when you use yourself to explain something you are doing a great job thanks.
My pleasure ❤️
Being open and vulnerable is key!
You are the best coach Stephan
I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼
My Man is all that and more ❤. Rather live to see all of his faces than being unknown to few and then love.
I just love listening to you! 😊
❤️ 😊
You just helped me realize something in my fairly new relationship that has turned into instant love. I KNOW I do not have his body type. I'm overweight.....We have talked for hours every day. He told me I know more about him than anyone else in his life (and we are older). I truly think that God put us together for us, especially him, to look beyond the physical. (He's always been physically attractive to me). We've known who each other is for 20 years. He's lived next door to me for 7 years (we share a patio). We've talked twice. The other day he approached me about something and wanted to talk....within 3 days, we realized we have the most incredible soul connection.
Thank you for helping me accept my "body type" and also now I can enjoy our soul connection at the highest level.
I really like my book , The Man GOD has for Me .
I've learned to slow down , and recognize the same things our coach is teaching me .
He very much is. I value him a lot and so does he. ❤ And all this while I thought he wasn't
I love a man that has Quality conversations 6:14
Me 2
I LOVE IT STEPHAN!!! You are speaking the truth! Thank you for sharing your wisdom! 🙏🏽❤️
You got me cracking up.
“Stop being so dam skeptical” 😂
That's what my boyfriend says about me. Thank you, you are the best thing that could have happened to me this year. With all the negative things, you are the sunshine that cheers me up and keeps me going with everything. I love you very much. ❤
Very enlightening. I just saw things so clearly! Thank you.
I had to crack up, I love it! On number 4, and opinions, I'm bad at this one. I get aggresive if my opinion isn't taken. Have been single now for may years. LOL I wish I knew number 5 before I married him and divorced 7 years later with a son. But I'm hoping my daughter will really take the time and listen to your channel. XO
Mine does some of these 5 signs but he's Short tempered 😔
I told my friend I don’t like when he raises his voice he said that’s just how I talk. I told him do it again he will never speak to me again and guess what he hasn’t talk to me since 🤷🏽♀️
You gotta be a fire sign!!!
Another great video ❤
This was good, I have been dating someone who doesn't give compliments. Well, very rarely, that he gives compliments and he doesn't tell me that he misses me. We can talk for hours and hangout without going anywhere or having sex. He seems wrapped up in his job and business to be emotionally available. Or maybe he is, but he isn't expressing it 🤔 Maybe I am just hoping he is, but I haven't opened up to him because I am waiting on him. This is complicating 🤦🏾♀️
Ow 💯true thank you so much couch stephan i need to hear this topic peace and blessings✌️🙏🏽❤️
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Great video! Tremendous insight…. It made me see so many things differently. Helping me to change unhealthy thinking due to negative experiences from the past. Thank you!! Keep the videos coming! 🙏🏽🙌🎯
I just want to say I wrote a letter to the man God told me I was to be with but I bought a ticket to healing tour but I have to get my bills caught up probably won't be able to go cause I still have things to heal from and have to get my life better together
I’m having second thoughts about the guy I’m with
🙏🏼 I pray you reach the point of doing what is truly best!
Thank you for posting this!! 😊
My pleasure ❤️
Almost all your videos are about what to do while dating... But what about even getting a date? How to actually find a date? Any advice for people who don`t like online dating?
Thank you Stephan! This helped me out a lot.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity 🙏🏼
@@MeetStephanSpeaksI shared it on my Facebook and tagged you 🙏🏽🙌🏾❤️
❤❤❤❤ Once again, you went and done it! ❤❤❤
If only everyone was as educated on relationships as you are. But, thats why we listen to you. So we can learn!! Xoxoxox
I'm happy this has been helpful to you!
Thank you Stephan
My pleasure ❤️
Super helpful guidance thank you
My pleasure ❤️
Good day Stephen, thank you for your message today. It’s a very foundation of information. Ladies listen to Stephen, he is giving you great information for a good relationship. ( a healthy start )👍✌🏻😎😇💕
So smart!! Thank you for the way you express these signs, you truly are a great communicator and educator on this subject!
Imagine a man just like this. Literally checks off everything, but he randomly has ghosting episodes. This is why I don’t like being vulnerable.
If he’s ghosting, he can’t be consistent.
💕💕💕💕💕 I am a Latin woman. Your content is extraordinarily helpful...fantastically well explained and delightfully different from content in your other videos...wonderful channel. I've already checked the men's channel as well...love and blessings from 🇲🇽💫💕
@stephanspeaks I've learned do much from your talks being in my mid 30's . So knowledgeable.
So much*
Thank you so much.I now know the gentleman is surely investing in me emotionally.
This soooo true a lot of men/ players can be looking for a woman but if she’s closed off and not vulnerable, he is gonna be just as closed off as you all it take is for them to meet the woman they want, this was something I had to work on operating out EGO scared iam get played but I stop thinking that way because even if I do get played I gain some wisdom and experience along the way, so the next person I deal wit iam even better.. I think some immature men play game because that’s their protection from getting hurt especially if they been in survival mode forever, it just take the right person.. I’ve had a lot of so called PLAYERS fall in-love but still not be ready for a relationship they was only in love wit the fantasy of me, and they linger for decades.. the moral of my story is …you might have to kiss a few frog to get to the prince but SCARCITY is right door to monotony in seduction… iam still learning but iam definitely taking my time because these men are just as scared as us
I can not stopping watch your videos! I love your energy and content. And when you know you know🎉❤
Well … my guy scored ALL 5 with flying colors 🥰🥳 “He expressed that I make him breathe better “ I respect him for his vulnerability…
Stephan, what about doing “activities” together? Doesn’t this build bonds with a man? I believe that THEN he will trust & open up.
Stephan ,I find you share a great content!💫💫💥I’m grateful for this ,thank you ❤
Also I want to ask if is there possible in the future to share some videos about “how to maintain a healthy distance relationship “ or “how we can understand and improve the importance of Muslim with non Muslim relationships “?!If you can do both that it will be amazing.Thank you ❤
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Apreciate a lot Thanks❤️
I been Watching your videos a while now thank you for these it does help understand men more ,their emotions , intentions , see the signs for the right man
This is so good, right on point, thank you for sharing this,
You helped me so much in my new relationship I have issues to work on from childhood but it's nice to have the words and context from your videos
I have given up on men and man.
Thank you I have learned so much from your videos.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Dating is very hard
The movie Love Jones illustrates the point of is this just a physical attraction or more - in the movie when Nia and Darius go out on a date where they Chicago step and then head back to his home - Nia request to not just hook up because she think that maybe all they have is hooking up- Darius is taken back but together the two of them slow dance .
You are so true on it all true talk , thank you for sharing this
Good points for the future
Love how you share both sides of the coin
She say she wants a relationship but she still squabbling other badboy attractive guys daily what does that mean...
Dude thank you for this. BUT the mic is too close to your face sometimes there's a muffled sound when you speak louder. Maybe check it with your tech. Peace.