Truth About Divorce - What Do Men Need To Know?
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Divorce is difficult, but men can prepare themselves buy understanding the way family law handles men going through the divorce machine.
Notes below from my video on Divorce. Please share with someone that needs to see this.
This is deep red pill stuff, and answers the question: Why do men go MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) after divorce.
INTRO - Ultimate life hack is the right partner - men die because of divorce.
You do not truly know someone until you divorce them.
Marry on YOUR terms because Divorce is on her terms.
BEFORE
THE REPRESENTATIVE - Baby rabies - Live together before you marry - If you think you have problems before marriage, they will only get worse after. Kids or marriage don't solve problems, they amplify them.
THE DIVORCE
- woman have no incentive to behave in divorce
Government Policy & Family Law Idealising single mothers like they are an asset to society.
Government fleeces men
You lived with a single mum, and aren't he biological father? Screw you pay me
She stole your used condom, and used it to get pregnant? Screw you pay me
Broke your back and can't work? Screw you pay me
Section 7 expenses - anything she chooses to put the kids in, you pay for in Canada at least
If you lost your job as a married couple or couldn't work for 6 months all would be forgiven. But divorced, it's fuck you pay me.
If the cost was $300/m for your child why is it $2,000/m when divorced?
Female nature
Shame tactics - hell hath no fury like a women scorn.
Criticise to motivate you did it wrong - why did you do it that way - We don't have enough money - You're going to wear that?
Men love emotionally, women love opportunistically.
Hypergamy - Women marry up
Parental alienation - he's been run though the family court system, and if lucky gets to come by once a week and see how effective his ex is at making his own children hate him
All you do is write cheques and watch your children go downhill.
Leavor/Leavee relationship. Women don't want you to leave, and are insane about it. When women leave you, its over quick. When men leave women, its never over till she has won.
Access, and why you want shared custody.
- Move anywhere in the world without your consent
- Makes decisions without your consent (medical, religious, name change)
- Money all flows to her, and its totally unreasonable in the amount
Fatherless children
Fatherless children are 3 times more likely as a teen to: be pregnant, commit suicide, be suspended from school, abuse drugs/alcohol, join gangs, or end up in jail.
Single mothers with live in boyfriend mean the rate of child maltreatment is 9 times higher than married parents
EXAMPLES OF SHIT
- Wife divorces 2 days after child is born (full custody)
- Wife takes kid, moves out, makes claim father was abusive - later she gets knocked up by another man, and has a fatherless child - claims less then $20k income for 2 yrs yet shows up in a range rover for court dates
- Guy stayed in house, wife harassed him, false accusations, raped him. Begged him to have another kid during the divorce.
- Knew a guy that lost 150,000 on the sale of his house
- security cleared to talk to kids, highest security clearance in Iraq, yet needed supervised visits to see his own kids
- False accusations of domestic violence will ruin you.
Rsources: Canlii.org and ottawadivorce.com
STATS - when choosing your partner
- Chances of being in a stable marriage (defined as 5+ yrs) are in the 60% range if age of first sexual activity is 19+. If it was 14 or younger its less than 40% chance
- If She has had 16 or more partners chances of a stable marriage are less then 20%
- Women with more sexual partners are less content in marriage
Bottom line is if your wife has had many sexual partners, and lost her virginity at a young age, your chances of divorce are higher
Stefan Molyneux video relating to stats
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Montu shah lol kinda true in a lot of cases sadly
Love it !
Lol, awesome
Haha. True.
Montu shah lol
I'm 49…5 years ago l got divorced. It devastated my finances. I had to start over and change everything about my life, it was an agonising period. However…it’s survivable, my money guy worked me through some sustainable long term investments. l grew to $1.6m and still growing, reasonably good amount to retire. Haven't looked back since.
Divorce is always a total crapshoot, sorry about that mate. Good thing you' re able to bounce back. Nonetheless, during your down period how have you handled health insurance?
@@annMarien I've looked at Long Term Care insurances and decided to set money aside in my retirement account for LTC in lieu of paying monthly LTC premium. Much like with car insurance I’d say.
@@kevincooper0 Good thinking mate, let me guess, tip came from your money guy~ your financial planner?
@@kevincooper0 What type of money guy do you use? I'm new to this situation ( finalising divorce settlement soon and I need to get my sh*t together )
@@callumfrank My financial planner is Klaus Cassius. I started out with him 2 years after my divorce. I got very lucky to have found him especially after my marriage crisis & consider him a good friend now. You can look=him up.
You never know a woman until you meet her in court.
Truth
Amen !!!
Same for a man
Sara Dellabella no where near the same...
TAC MED 😂 you haven’t been to court with my ex
Divorced and single for 22 years, now. Retired, great house, boat, classic muscle car, play golf, fish, hike, travel. Loving life! It does get better after divorce, guys! Single guys out there, don't get married!
Have any kids?
@@harvestingseason2725 None that I know of!
@JD3 Films If you don't, she will. Women are very pragmatic and I don't doubt she has thought of it, as well.
You must have a plan in advance.
A few tips: Once you tell her you want a divorce, don't move out of the house. Once you are out of the house, you are considered legally separated and she doesn't have to let you back in.
If kids involved, it may get tricky with custody and child support.
If she is amenable, go through the mediation route. Avoid attorneys, if possible.
A caveat if you proceed to tell her you want a divorce: Women can become vicious during a divorce. It is a hate that no modern tool can measure.
You may have to go through Hell for a bit, but after all is done you will feel great!
Wife is leaving next weekend. It's been a long hard 13 years. My fight is just beginning. Glad things worked out for you bud
@@lancep9394 Give yourself time to adjust. It does get better and a whole lot better.
I gave it my all ... 25 years of faithful marriage, struggled to pay 4 years of college for my daughter, had a series of 3 heart surgeries and lost my career due to illness ... just to live to find out this week that my wife has decided to move out with my 21 year old daughter and start a new life without me ... I sit alone, empty, completely lost ... I never knew a human could suffer as much loss as I have in one lifetime and still draw breath ... thanks for the reality check ... i will strive to somehow make it through this
Damn dude...hang in there thats all u can do
Very sad and I'm in a similar situation
very sorry to hear this Thar its hard to finally find out the true nature of women not all but most.
Dude you are not alone, the damage men suffer in a divorce is crushing .you need to know you are a good man ,you matter your needs matter . You will recover , I am through now dating a Filipino girl 38 years younger .. when the big money stops the women leave its nature .
Thor Azine I saw some animations similar to yours and it pisses me off. I hope you make it through and find light through the tunnel.
I am 60 years old and still have my house and money because I NEVER GOT MARRIED
Smart man
Is ok to have kids and not get married? you still keep your assets if you separate?
you're a good role model
You're brilliant
Baldoxxx4000 you’ll pay child support if she gets the kids.
went on a date last week with a single mom that had a brand new house working part time. i asked her how she affords it and she bragged that her ex has to pay house payment rest of his life as alimony on top of child support. men beware
How lucky for you she was honest up front and you could RUN!!!!
I met 3 women in the last 6 months that have bragged I don't need to work because my ex has to support me for the rest of my life.
+D Frs
i ran as fast as i could
Heck no!! Im not the next cash station
Josh Meredith thanks for not supporting the "shitting on" of another man.
Marriage is like a Tornado: "In the beginning there's a lot of blowing and sucking, then you lose your house".
🤣🤣🤣
seen it
Holy Shi 😂😭😭
I'm definitely posted this on my Facebook love it
LMAOO LMAOO that’s terrible lol lol
Just turned 29 and this video scared the shit out of me .lol
Dan Alexandru mgtow look up sandman
IVF and surrogacy friend.
30 and divorced and he is spot on
stay away from evil narc princesses it will ruin you boy
It should't scare you,Dan,but make you wiser!
every man on earth should be forced to watch this
I agree like that part "forced wide eyed viewing" in that clock work orange movie!!
its only in Murica, the rest of the country doesnt milk anyone dry
Baldoxxx4000 haha never been to Canada.
They should play this at the end of every sex Ed class and have every young man write a MANDATORY ESSAY about the golden message this glorious video is giving... unfortunately for me.. I saw this 5 yrs too late. Pray for me brothers.
Every clueless man yeah .
All this pain for a bit of sex and crappy companionship this will not happen to me as I took the red pill years ago and I always advise men especially young guys to NEVER get married.
shandy south what's the red pill
RED PILL=those men who wake to the BS of female nature and focus on self worth, prosperity and wealth.
BLUE PILL= those men who know, see, and feel all the female BS always believing she's the one and choose to ignore the situation until it turns into 'ie' alimony, palimony, divorce, prison, suicide the list goes on...blue pill, red pill taken from the movie the Matrix....................MGTOW.COM
shandy south thanks bro!
shandy south what do we do about getting sex
One doesn't have to buy the cow to have a glass of milk. No what I mean? Play the field man!
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
AND GAYS ARE FIGHTING TO GET MARRIED WTF.
All plan.
Let them, maybe it will lead to their downfall as well :)
It went through here in Australia. Now the system gets to fuck gay as well as straight married couples. I'm sure this is the reason it was passed.
@@Mcarthywasright 😂
That's cause there's no woman involved or 2 women involved 50-50
I'm 55, never got married. 20 years ago married men used to say to me "You're single? Why? What's wrong? Are you gay?" Now married men say to me "you made the right choice! Don't get married!'"
lmao
Lol but have any kids?
Chad
Lol
Marriage benefits the woman. Dont get married. My uncle is single and rich. My brother is single and rich. My best friend is single and rich.
Single and happy understood
@@yesaketeshome9968 ok we will see that when it is time to go to nursing home
@@melodyholt500 girls always try to make men feel guilty, men cam still adopt his own kids lol so....
@@melodyholt500 or evern have a womb donor no need for marriage anymore
@@melodyholt500 You'd love that guy's neighbor to fail, wouldn't you. So he becomes dependent on a woman somehow. But, no. Look at the views for these types of videos; they are in the hundreds of thousands and will reach millions of men eventually. Today's version of marriage is utter dog shit and more men (just like me) are waking up to this abomination. No one can stop this information from getting out there. And the marriage rate just keeps on falling. Good.
After 10 year marriage my worth was halved. After 10 years divorced, my Net Worth have 10x. For some reason, I tend to do better alone.
Does it mean you are a gay ?
Marriage laws are not for men, so why do men continue to get married????
Mcgyver B because humans love to get on the emotional roller-coaster
SonkleyFiz I think life is so much better not being married, here in the United States fatherhood doesn't mean shit, I've seen it with my own experience, every time I go to my sons school meetings they always approach my girlfriend first lol, if you even go to pick up the kid, they will call the mother first to say dad doing a pick up, women are primary for everything lol but the system is always quick to grab a mans money, lol I would never get married, and my girlfriend is totally fine with it...
Mcgyver B lucky you, but you should be careful, women arent always straight forward with what they truly feel, i think every man that has experience in a relationship knows this, she might tell you she's okay with something, but its plausable to say that she's really not, given that they are not always straight forward with what they truly feel, but hey man, if she's truly okay with it, more power to ya
SonkleyFiz yea I totally agree with you, women are just like the weather, they switch up forecast very quickly, and the United States courts put them first, for every divorce case they make a lotta cash, I don't let my girlfriend know how much am worth, I give her money for my son, we together, but I don't live with her never will either, in order for man to rule you have to do the opposite of everything society requires, because they are pretty much trying to collect money of everyone's life, everything is marketing..
Mcgyver B very true
Me and my ex split our house 50/50....she got the inside.
nice
Thats how it works gentlemen. , i still feel it 20 years later. !
Damn
LOOOOL NOOOO
macleod41069 hahahahahahahahahahaha
I remember my ex was pressuring me for marriage after 1 year together. It was odd. I told her that I was fully committed to her but I need at least 3 years with someone before getting engaged. She blew up on me and gave me the silent treatment for the next few days. She also refused to use birth control, and encouraged me to not use a condom, then had the nerve to say if she got preagnant, she would never get an abortion or take a plan B. Now I can see more clearly what she was trying to do. She didnt love me. She loved what I provided and desperately wanted her piece of the meat by any means necessary. Thank God I didnt get that woman pregnant.
Everyone's story is different. I don't buy all this Hee man avoid women avoid marriage B's. Be smart yes but if you have common sense you'll be fine. Married first wife for 13 yrs sadly she passed away. God put a woman into my life married after 6 months she helped me get thru and we been married almost 3 yrs come Feb 19th. If wasn't for her I may not be here. In life it's about taking chances and calculated risk. If u know u know. For all the negatives theirs 50% or more positives.
congratulations my friends. Im glad i didn't also 👏🏽
That kind of manipulation is a major red flag. Dump women like that asaps. I'm female, so I warn you as a woman. The decision to marry and have children is a mutual decision, not something you're forced into....
your one out of god knows@@Games.Gadgets.Sports
Alimony laws are outdated and openly anti male, in this age of >50% divorce rates.
Other than the children, no money should change hands just because the marriage has ended
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
Meet father Akunna, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for his talent in bringing back ex-partners.
Thank you for this valuable information.
Been to 32 weddings since age 18. 29 have ended in divorce. One, they didn’t even get the wedding photos back and they were filing. All you need to know is don’t do it.
And how old are you now? Lol.. 😂
I like going to weddings as long as it isn’t my own.
wow, marriage is a scary proposition today
No shit!!!
@Dr.'sorders Ahaha what the fuck
There are only three rules every man needs to know about divorce.
1) Do not get married.
2) Do not get married.
3) The most important one:
Do never ever get married.
Really helpful advice for anyone preparing for divorce.
Agree!!!!!
And don't forget,if you are tempted to get married,ring a helpline immediately so that someone sensible can talk you out of it. There are people that care out there,who will spare their time to tell you that it's a bad decision,and that you should spend your money more wisely,like for example gambling on some horses.
MY HERO! I think I'm getting a tattoo on a very special spot on my body just in case I start to think stupidly.
You can't tell people what to do
i will never get married. i will never have children. i said that when i was 16 I'm now 32 and I'm still not married and still don't have children. life is good.
How do you manage the lonliness?
I honestly don't get lonely all to often. I work swing shift so I'm at work a lot of the time. I don't really focus on being lonely. now that I'm thinking about it, i don't really know how i do it lol.
Paper manufacturing
Have kids out of wedlock. Plus men can have kids at any age.
Vince Young I'm all set with having children of my own. It's not for me.
This should be taught to all men across the world. Life “saving” information.
Should be taught in HS “Business Math”
Especially in secondary schools or College/University studies.
Read my comment.
Guys needs to understand this babyrabies thing. Women want children and they want support with that kid. But they dont necessarily need your love or feel more inlove with you because of that. But guys think to themselfs "Oh wow she really wants a kid with me. She really must love me that much!". And then they are almost surprised after some time. Like what happened? Guys are clueless when it comes to this.
Sorry beg to differ...men screwed up my life. Including the crappy father my children have. I was like you but on the woman's side of things. I think I was born in the wrong generation. Men don't act like men anymore and woman are sick of having to act like men because they don't. It all is sad and frustrating our society sucks so bad. UGH
So I am wrong just because you are a woman and cant see a mans point of view of this? I am confused.
Crave88evarC
Candy's reply illustrates that women don't really understand their own 'cave-women' motivations.
a. Need 'seed' and good provider (but don't care who it is- alpha male instincts and hypergamy)
b. Insert modern feminism here: - women are "equal" (they intellectually desire it) but are not 'wired' in any way to accept it. Patriarchy satisfied need to allocate resources to alpha males for child rearing; feminism reverses this so:
c. Female headed households dysfunctional & cannot raise males, so they in turn, generate less alpha males. "Weak" males then blamed for "not manning up, women have to be men, etc.." Feminism is a sickness.
Don Schindler
The last one wasn't feminism tho, that's literally the thinking of the 18th century.
"Men are the provider and the women is the housewife."
This mostly occurs to responsible nice and good guys.
divorce never happen to responsibile guy - divorce is always blame of man becouse woman would not divorce irresponsible man
I lived for my family everything I done was for them, so calling divorce Men irresponsible is very Hush..thing to say,, what are you talking about? where did you get this information?
Polish & Beautiful Explain
I am going to call a pile of bull shit on this one Polish & Beautiful ....
I hope you ladies have happy periods
Avoid marriage at all costs...especially in Western society
Amen.
Hoop La - Amen and amen.
Then the Immigrants will continue to do so and produce kids by the dozens, spreading all over the world with their radical ideas and shitty customs.
Book of Alpha-Ronomy - Marry a Philippine, then and see how much better that is
That’s true even in est society. An x wife can really ruin your life -nowadays- even if you are in a more male dominant societies in modern Middle Eastern countries.
I have been divorced for 17 years never been so happy. Never again.
U giving me motivation lol
U had kids?
When a woman leaves you, she was never yours.....It was just your turn!!
Same thing when a man leaves. Men are not the only ones who get used then dumped.
the best advice you can give is to not get married.
It's the only 100% safe bet, but men like women and marriage is part of that, the best bet is to get informed.
Entrepreneurs in Cars marriage doesn't have anything to do with liking woman. marriage is a social construct
Leonidas Saber Too fucking right! I don't need to marry or be in a relationship to get my rocks off.
because shit factors in like they feed them pizza, big mac, sodas and a whole cabinet full of junk food and they ask them what they want to eat and they run in town to get them big macs. You make them eat good food. You make them catch bullfrogs and catch fish and the sheep flies and mosquitoes bite them and then you go to get them and the bitch has promised them pizza and they know if they go with you they'll have to eat baked chicken, spinach and carrots. So you pick them up balling and then the stupid bitch goes around nd says he must be abusing them and if they don't want to go with them they should not have to and they come to your house and if they want snacks it's sardines, peaches and sunflower seeds. The whole time the stupid fat bitch is running her mouth you're making them do shit in the hot sun. You had those kids and you will have to jump into the shit of some bitch that weighs 250 massive pounds. A fat woman is not worth a shit. I've heard so many times a guy marries a whore and it ends violently when the family gets involved. If they don't get involved.
Entrepreneurs in Cars Men need to up their standards. If you choose anything to fall into then you get what you get. Just because something is shiny doesnt mean its not rotten on the inside. Have faith. Things I think are going to change. Women are getting disgusted with the destruction of the men. I for one am. Im a mom of two boys and I am trying to change ppls attitudes. It started with me ten yrs ago stopping man bashing. Ladies need to stop bashing men and start looking at the good traits they bring to this world which is too numerous to list. Have faith friend. There are some of us women out here raising our children with morals and a heart.
Forget woman. Get a dog.
Or a cat. They need less attention.
and they clean after themselves unlike dogs. We have a Russian Blue that cleans out his own litter box!! Amazing!!
A dog and a car. That's all a man needs
BMWAddict a cat and a MERCEDES BENZ. 😹
scanspeak00 it's funny the dog is more loyal then female..
Men tend to love emotionally, women tend to love opportunistically. Well said.
You picked the wrong woman , good women always love emotionally.
They won't teach this in school or even on a commercial.
The commercial should start like this
"If you're a man thinking about getting married, stop right there. My name is Jason Valdez and I was married for 12 years. Things didn't work out and we got a divorce. She cheated on me 10 times and got pregnant. Now I have to pay alimony and child support for children that are not even mine. I lost everything, my house, car, retirement and my business. I was left on the streets and ultimately in jail. I think about suicide and need help. But nobody cares. So now I'm telling you. This message is for all men. Don't get married.
Please don't harm yourself!
This is what many women do. They are empowered by the legal system that supports them totally, regardless of "blame".
And they can act like total Sluts with impunity.
You (We) are not.
Harsh, but true.
Women have a facility that enables them to switch off completely from any consequences of their actions.
Or their marriages.
And "Move On".
Men are not wired in that way.
We are vastly superior to them in this respect.
Best Wishes to you my friend.
Value yourself, don't allow this injustice to define your life, as it has mine.
be strong man
Don't commit suicide man. There are good people out there who will help you. Consult a psychologist or therapist, you definitely need professional help. Courage and good luck.
MrCreeper069 may the smallness of that woman not taint the awareness that you are so much more. May her darkness not dim your light. Life has much more to offer. Peace.
No shit. It's like throwing you into a den of wolves after school to be eaten alive, slowly.
Guys please dont get married. Im 59 and got divorced 3 years ago.
I lost everything. It is not 50% / 50% its more like 20% / 80%
I lost the house that was paid in full, savings, investments, maintenance/alimony, and child support.
I have to start saving and investing all over again. Most likely i will have to work until the day I die.
If i could go back in time, i would not get married.
Washington Consultants That's terrible. Once there's life, there's hope. You wouldn't have to work till you die, there's a brighter future.
Its when I hear stories like yours from men who have experienced it firsthand that I take heed and would never get married. Its just not worth it. Hope that you can overcome that situation, after having worked your ass off all your life only to have the divorce courts hand it all over to someone else because she has a vagina. Wow.
Your loss and experiences will not go in vain. Your words have been heard.
I am so sorry I am praying for you
Mannnnn brother that shit sucks! I’m engaged right now and I’m 🤔 the worse things that can happen....divorce=death to finances
DONT GET MARRIED.
DO
NOT
GET
MARRIED.
Major I. I'm a woman and I agree. I was completely screwed over by marriage.
Bye Bye Belly lol ...you not be a smart woman ......every woman i know made a come up off marriage
***** you know her?
Kelso lowk we know, we know. Ur women is not like that. Good luck.
It can be a very hard road. Eat up most of your friggin' life....
Men: If you want to stay out of trouble, Don't date single mothers, period.
yeahh..... just go to vegas... and fu** girls ( paid happiness )
Yup....she divorced once she will do it again.
Let me tell you a quick story. I dated someone for 2 years, found out she cheated. Kicked her to the curb, 3 months later she was pregnant by another dude and she tried to come back to me trying to make me take care of someone else's kid telling me her new boyfriend isn't fit to be a father.
I told her "it sucks to suck" and cut ties with her completely.
Listen to this man, he is right. Don't settle right away, truly get to know your girl. It took 2 years for mine to have her mask slip. It hurt but I'll be okay.
Mine too, 4 years before her mask came off..
why did you say that,can we talk personally
the mentality of the "there's someones better"
Ophelia Odannor oh I’ll definitely explain to u personally!!!!
I hope that pain goes away my man. She didn't deserve you and now you are free to do WHOMEVER and work on YOU. hey pump and dumps all day. I've seen karma come to girls like that. You are the king remember that you have the penis!
did you know marriage is the leading cause of divorces?😋
Jerk Jiggler
I really, really, really, like your picture.
Did you know that divorces from these failed marriages are also a leading cause to male suicide? Now you know, & knowing is half the battle.
Did you know the leading cause of death is life? duuhh!!
Jerk Jiggler 😆😆😆😆😆😆
Jerk Jiggler that was great I'm laughing my ass good one
Thank you brother. I'm going through a divorce right now at 63 and 20 years. Rough man...
OMG, man don't hurt yourself over this bullshit. Get you a lawyer if you can but be prepared to get screwed. Men have no rights. Just move forward with what you got brother. You have a right to be happy too..if you feel depressed! get mad...!!! not at anyone but mad as hell that nobody is going to ruin your life mad. Anger defeats depression...
Don Johnson
It's a trend. Most women seem to be choosing blacks. If you want to move on, then I suggest having a child through IVF and surrogacy, no risk of getting screwed. Perhaps also move to another country so that you can run away from alimony. Otherwise just shoot the bastard, her and then yourself or run away.
Valken LOL...you lose your passport rights too. You have to move quick...
Half the appraised value of the house is yours and everything in it including half of her savings. Don't let anger strangle your thinking. All you can do right now is move forward. Don't try to figure anything out like how did this happen. Doesn't matter, just move forward for you...!!! KARMA is a bitch for her...
Thanks bro for the advice..im going to calm myself and take this one step at a time..
I was married for 17 years with two kids, the oldest being 15. The last 10 years of marriage was miserable. She let herself go physically, always unhappy with her job, sucked with the finances, and had champagne taste with a beer budget. I feared divorce because I watched so many male friends and family members get screwed by family court. I finally had enough a couple years ago and asked for a divorce. After some discussion and nearly 8 months of anxiety and stress we got the dissolution done. I walked away unscathed. No alimony and a paltry amount in child support, which will be cut in half next month. I was lucky though. Her attorney and the magistrate both tried to screw me over but it didn’t work out. I got shared parenting and it feels like a tremendous weight was lifted off of me.
Guys….do not get married. You will set yourself up for financial ruin and unrelenting stress and anxiety. Women generally stop taking care of themselves unless they start going out with their friends, then it’s likely they’ve found someone else. Before women jump on here and start criticizing me for “fat shaming” my ex….too fucking bad. Women have dating/relationship standards and it’s acceptable so men are able to having standards as well.
Meanwhile Muslims have 4 wife's and 13 kids but don't worry about non of this stuff
kinda makes me wanna move to saudi arabia but then i remember the 130 degree heat out there and im like fuck no
Godson - Clash of clans - Clash royale
My grandparents had 12 kids on each side. Sending women out to work to increase tax revenue and increase the welfare state has destroyed fertility.
Not just that they have blasphemy laws, basically if you insult Islam in any way. you can get beheaded. Yeah think I will stay put XD
Here's reality: From 1978 to 2014, CEO compensation surged a staggering 997 percent, adjusted for inflation, according to the Economic Policy Institute.
Over the same period, typical workers saw compensation grow a modest 10.9 percent. In 1978, CEOs took home about 30 times what the average male worker made. In 2014, they earned about 300 times more.
Muslims know how to keep bitches in line. The problem is that you are busy supporting homosexuality and feminism.
dont get married its not worth the hassle.
hvd iv ~~ How true !
Garbage advice. How about this? Don't get a job, its not worth the hassle. Don't live life, its not worth the hassle. Sounds stupid to me.
What a negative and foolish mindset you have. Perhaps you have that do to your own circumstances. But marriage is a beautiful thing. When two people who love each other and come together and vow to stay with one another for all of life. Its a beautiful thing and when it works it is one of the best things that can ever happen in your life. I won't marry someone and become a slave to the vagina as you so eloquently put that. I will marry someone who respects me and marriage. Someone who will put in the work and understand just how serious it is. Of course there is always the risk of divorce but that is life. Nothing good in life comes without some form of risk. Sorry to say but your advice is garbage and you shouldn't be giving it out. You clearly have no idea what marriage truly means and only think about the extreme consequences that could potentially happen. Everything is circumstantial, so ignorant advice like this does more harm than good. So I mean by all means, you can go ahead and live a life based off fear but not me and hopefully not most people. Otherwise you simply will end life with nothing of value around you and that is probably one of the worst feelings and fates someone could have.
thats facts in divorce no matter how GOOD it is when she wants it over its over and alll that will happen to you....
like i said have fun.
When anyone wants anything over they can end it. The guy can do the same to the girl as well. Just because the possibility for divorce exists, does not mean that no one should get married. Like I already said, your advice is not good and neither is your argument.
This is exactly why MGTOW is becoming so popular.
Lol funny trend of a word....must be mostly white man issues..Canadian men. Women were MADE to carry a baby...not everyone wants kids..if ur gonna talk about women wanting babies cz of age...talk about ovwr population of grown ass men being fk boys since beginning of time...truth of matter?? Women making terrible choices in life partners is a mess..grown men sticking their dks in women but could care less to BE a father...back home in east side of world ...men own Everything..even child...Iran...Lebanon etc...women get NOtHINg. Nor custody nor fair visitation.. men walk out all time.
Majority of kids get left w mother...
@@YasminMahnaz bitch, who the fuck said you're representing all women with that 'forced to have Kids' bullshit? Did you meet over half the people in the world? Didn't think so.
Iulian Tudor Relax my Guy, sip some tea, let the bitch bark, after all that is all she can do. 👌
Evanston Conner could you reformulate your phrase, and please ponctuate.
One person wrote that divorce is so expensive because it's worth it.
Dr willam can help you get your ex back he is a love spell caster. If you have WhatApp, use the number.
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Yeah, well fuck that guy
@@josephdeliz3455 it's a joke he meant to say that marriage is so bad that divorce saves you from it 😂🤣 at first I interpreted it the same way you did 😆
I am 52 and have never given up my bachelor degree.
Paul Robin S
Paul Robin Yes. I have my degree and keeping it.
I’m 71 and have SO many friends that have been destroyed by marriage. So glad I never got married... looks like I was an original MGTOW.
Paul Robin LMAO! That's some funny shit!
Playa!!!!!
Guys get a vacectomy. Since my vacectomy 2 different women tried to scam me into believing that i was the father.
You should have seen their faces when i showed them the sterile medical report. Classic.
I'm not sure this will be of much help in the coming days. I mean, guys who have proven they aren't the father are still slammed left and right for support... Pretty sure the "I can't even have kids" defense is worth the air the sound waves are carried on.
Washington Consultants can you still ejaculate with a vasectomy? What does it all feel like.
What about no kid in the marriage?
@@sun--shine3296 yes you do , their is no difference it's the same before as after the op . I had a vasectomy 20 years ago , had 3 women try to scam me saying they may be or were pregnant , stupid ladies 😆😆
Alan Jones really? That’s crazy bro. These women are wild..... what happened to our world man. It’s so sad to see that us men are avoiding the women. But I don’t care, I’m doing what’s best for my life and if I have to avoid it too, then I will. Btw, I heard that there is chronic pain sometimes in the testicle years after a vasectomy? Is that true? Bc where does all that built up semen go if the tube is tied away?
Dudes...every woman says "I'll never keep my children from their father" then they will. Period.
You are right. They will do it to varying degrees. It is part of the control & manipulation. I have been indentured for 14 years. I have 3 years & 4 months left of child support. This video is spot on. Educate your sons.
Eight-bit Cartridge bro my first ex did it, 2nd said she’d never do it. Married, kids, I want divorce then bam, I’m now an abuser and later that day I’m talking to the cops. Trust no one dudes!!!
Eight-bit Cartridge happens allllllll the time
walky1 well aren’t you special. LMAO
walky1 These are the comments Richard talks about. People you need to check out her channel. You’ll piss yourself.
I really wish someone like you told me all of this before I ever got married. This was the most expensive lesson, both emotionally and financially, that I have ever learned.
Just get you're shit straight, put you're money where she can't get it and dont let her feel like she could do anything to you. Dont be vulnerable if you're still with her.
All the years and time you can’t get back. Shit is crushing at times to think about.
How are you doing now?
My cousin went through the divorce machine. As he was going through it, he caught vicious cancer and was gravely ill. His wife visited him in the hospital and first thing she asked him was “If he had life insurance?” She didn’t even bother ask him how he’s doing.
Weeks later he died and she didn’t allow the kids to bury their father.
Fellas you must be VERY careful with marrying women.
Rob L215 I would have willed everything to the Chicago gangs.
Brooo everything he did she says that.. she doenst even care about him its not love tf is wrong why is this world so meesst upp
No, don't be "very careful" when doing something stupid, dangerous, and completely unnecessary. Simply don't do it in the first place.
Some of these experiences are unbelievable. Reading this brings tears to my eyes. Are these humans? It appears people have buried their conscience. I want you guys to know not all women are like this ❤️❤️❤️
That is sad. Very sad. That isn’t gender specific that is a human flaw. 🥺
The sad thing is it seems like A man is better off not getting married.
we are better off not getting married. we can go find the job we want and that we love to do instead of the one that pays enough, we can keep nearly all the money we make (except taxes obviously... goddman taxes) nobody to bitch at us etc etc
Speak that truth sir. I was fortunate enough to work in an office where 90% of my colleagues are divorced females. Just being around them and seeing how they operate has been the most valuable life experience by FAR. They always ask why I’m single and so badly I wanna tell them it’s because of women like them lol. Such an eye opener.
Lmao
😆
Why don't you tell them?
Details man! Details! You can’t just leave us hanging like that. What are their schemes, attitudes, vulnerabilities?
ok so let's here it. How are they in your office?
It's terrifying how one person can promise to always be on your side and then as soon as tough times come completely break their own promises and betray you in the very worst way.
This dude is woke AF
@sdfbtnsfgd Holy sarcasm. Not productive.
He's divorced, he's got a car and calls himself entrepreneur and obviously that makes him a life coach and relationship expert and therefore he IMMEDIATELY moves on to giving dating tips to others. Because logic. And the idiots in the comments section call him a god while he laughs his way off to the bank getting the money from the views of the clueless "red pill" men. Good fucking times.
Much better than the other options, if you don't understand it then you haven't been exposed to enough. Pull out google and just start looking instead of living in your bubble. You won't be spared the harsh reality by being "virtuous" it's defend or die out there.
@Nibbler800 Misogynistic? Bitter? Scorned? Do you have any other shaming language to try to get the uploader of the vid to acquiesce to your pathetic gynocentrism???
So, the man after the divorce has to pay 2500 dollars a month for the kids and mother. The mother spends everything because that's what all women do. The state is smiling. Did i got it right?....
That's funny LMAO... I got no alimony and $100 per month in child support
Gwen Scott what decade 70's?
bingo was his name-o
Gwen Scott 70's it is...
steps for success
1) don't get married
2) don't have kids
3) don't do heroin
I stopped paying her energy bill. She called social services on me, told them I was going to shoot my kids with guns. They arrested me . Put me in jail. Took my hunting rifles and destroyed them. She ran off with my 5 year old for 6 months. My older daughter I haven't seen for almost three years. THEN she was caught with perjury. So they dropped some of my charges. (Except for unsafe firearm storage because one of them didn't have a trigger lock). She was caught because she accidentally emailed a social worker the wrong conversation of her planning n manipulating a child telling them what to say which is highly illegal.
Guess what. She got zero consequence. As a matter of fact. Police. The judge. N the prosecutor all knew that she was accusing me to get full custody. They all turned their head the other way and did absolutely nothing to stop her. 60000 dollars I've spent on lawyers now. Still dealing with this.
Dude I know... It's terrible when the judges and lawyers all look the other way and ignore the mother's bad actions. I don't want to advertise my UA-cam channel on other channels... But it sounds like you need help... I make videos to help dads who are in custody battles.
Men think logically and love emotionally.
Women think emotionally and love logically.
A k a k o o m Most intelligent and realistic statement I have ever heard.
Well said sir..
All is fair in love and in war
More like women love materialistcally. Logic & emotion are polar opposites. In the right context, they can compliment & create great works of achievement. At odds with each other, well look at modern society & the behavior it encourages; narcissism, entitlement, uncontrolled ego, you get the picture. Being honorable, loyal, & mindful are sadly seen by society as making one to be a soft target & viewed in two ways, scorn, or "let's see how much I can take advantage of this individual for my own personal gain." That the government & media sources condone & encourage this behavior is it really any wonder we face these issues in our daily lives & can not let our guard down for a moment lest we be another sheep for the slaughter. I have seen too much for any chance of peace or salvation. It is my hope against my jaded self bias that one day things will not be as they are for the sake of future generations. It would be interesting if someone could prove to me humanity is worth saving.
+A k a k a o o m
Speak for yourself.
He may sound like a bitter ex-husband to anyone who's never been through it, but I can tell you from my own first-hand experience, he is exactly right with how a lot of the shit goes down in court. I lost shared custody because I don't have regular 9-5 hours in my full-time government job. I thought I could reason with them... but the truth is that the court system is ruthless against men. I got hosed. Child support payments are ridiculous if you make a decent income. It's chilling to see how he accurately described a lot of what I went through.
Doug Guerra If one of these judges be tried in other court once in their life.
Do you blame him for being bitter, it's his own fault for getting married but i do understand him being bitter, but that was his choice and his alone.
forgot to add the fact that he didn't know better because he was not told better by anyone.
I'm so happy that my wife still loves me after 25 years of marriage. The first part where he says, "You should complement each other..." is what I believe keep us together.
@MrPerfect1986 Although, since they're married for so long, she should've shown her true colors by now.
You seem to be taking his experience as a personal offense. Do you wish she was like most of them, just so you could say AWALT? Goddammit. Just be happy for him.
My parents are going through a divorce after being married for 25 years. My dad is 67, built his own company, made lots of money, had 4 kids, worked everyday in his life - just to have my mom brutally backstab him and spring a divorce on him out of nowhere after he sold his company for millions. Everything Rich talks about is eye-opening, but experiencing it first hand is like the glue on the bricks. Very hard for me to trust women now...
It's good you found something good but things of great value come in small numbers. Stay married and have a happy life since you've been blessed with a good wife.
America's Underground Voive: I think women are generally supposed to be taught to be good wives but most have garbage mothers and they fill their own minds with garbage.
Lol just google divorce after 30 years marriage 🤣 still can fuck you in court
Its really scary to hear this. All my plans for future marriage now cancelled.
Don't be scared. Listen to what is being said and it will help you to a) find the right partner; b) prepare financially and emotionally for the "worst case" scenario; and c) communicate effectively in all of your relationships so you don't need to worry about b.
@@troymountford3161 there is no such a right partner. you always think she is the one but she never be that one
You're welcome.
My father experienced all this bullshit when he and my mother divorced. It's hart breaking to see your dad get mentally and physically drained, while the economic crisis broke out, his best friend and business partner died (at the beginning of the crisis), kids getting set up against him, fake stories made up about him and financialy killed by my mother. Your video was spot on and I recognized almost all of the scenario's you described in the situation my father had been in from 2008 to 2016. Even he is surprised he survived that situation, mentally, physically and financialy.
Thanks for sharing that experience, I hope all these comments help men open their eyes.
Nasir V
Man sorry to hear that. I hope you called your mother out for doing that
Of course he watched it all happen .. said nothing .. benefited with the mother .. still acts like his mother is great ..
@@bellum99 moved in with my father one month after the divorce
@@zuiverbloed7163 nice profile pic
Why would any men father any kids in this day and age?
Strategic Thinker Thus, fathering a kid, is a bad idea. Why would you bring a kid into this sick world?!
"Why would you bring a kid into this sick world" - it scares me that all the knowledgeable and wise men are stopping being fathers. I understand why they're taking the decision but realize that the only thing that does is to make room for the incompetent, the narcissists, the immature morons to be parents and they'll just amplify the issue by creating more of the same.
It's futile to bring a kid into this world. No one can change the world, and putting that responsibility on a kid shoulder, is a sign of selfishness, and foolishness. They were geniuses before us, and they couldn't do much to save the world from it's suffering. The system is beyond corrupt, and I refuse to bring a little slave into this matrix, so the big corporations can profit from it. The world is getting worse by the day, not better.
The Devil's Bastard ouch ... so true
The Devil's Bastard well said! Let's enjoy the time we have, with no kids.
I've been a divorce atty since 1993; he is spot on.
My old boss was a humble millionaire, unfortunately he took himself out due to a divorce. His wife thought she could run the business (pipeline engineering).....SHE LOST EVERYTHING Home/Business/Cars!!! I was 1 of 63 employees who lost our jobs. She was messing with an old boyfriend she "re-connected" with on F.B!!! She turned to alcohol and would have girl talks with the company secretary our (co-workers wife) spilling all the beans! What a disgusting Witch! Karma came back to bite her because her 2 kids (now adults) put her in a mental home, and want NOTHING to do with her.
My marriage turned to shit after the kids were born. After that I became a roommate/live in handyman. I made it 24 years in the relationship but now I am much happier since my divorce.
Mike Housego
Thanks. I took the divorce hard during the process because I had put so much effort in to stay married. Since the divorce has been final, I have no more fucks to give and have only been worrying about me. Life is better now but I have a lot of rebuilding to do.
How bad are the divorce settlements? Are you paying a lot in alimony and child support?
David Horowitz
I have a handicap, that is one reason the wife left me. long story short, the judge ordered her to pay me almost $500 a month in child support but she fought it and got it knocked down to $150 a month. She makes good money but is always upside down financilly because of credit card misuse. I don't miss that shit.
It goes both ways. I became the maid. Worked 8 hours, cooked, cleaned, did all the shopping, painted, repaired stuff to help him. He stopped wanting to go out and do stuff, and at the end "we have nothing in common." I am not asking for half either. I just want to end it.
Mayra
I agree it does.
I will never get married , NO WAY I WILL NOT HAVE WOMEN TAKE WHATEVER I WORK FOR.. I AM COMPLETELY FOCUSED ON MYSELF AND HEALTH AND WEALTH
Corey Martinez Same here, brother! Pump and dump only lol
joham gonez hell yes , don't even let them fool you , it's a ratio of 100+ girls to 1 man ....
I stay focused on #1 ME
Sounds like Samantha here has been pumped and dumped a few times. Yep.
Magnus lol damn
Javiar the avatar yes sir .. exactly always
Dont do it guys. Dont do it!
I’m going through it now. 15 years wasted for her to cheat and throw it all away. I’ve filed for divorce and looking at moving out. Cut her off from my bank account etc but the internal rage is eating me alive. I’ve never felt this before. Just got to try and keep focused on my future and pray there is light at the end of it.
Yo are you good? Everything cool?
@@giaxd405 I hope Dude is good …I felt his rage
Sorry dude.
now 3 years since i wrote the comment and 3 years divorced soon. Life is in a completely different place and doing far better. The pain eases with time and focus on rebuilding your life and mindset.
@@northernsegageorge6510 I see you are in NI. How did you find the courts? Currently beginning the divorce process.
My ex who came from nothing, tried to leave with EVERYTHING......everything that I made alone.
Kevin Chappell God bless you.
Kevin Chappell how it turn out?
Sammy sausage better than I feared, but no thanks to family law.....
Kevin Chappell the reason I ask is my wife wants the house but her name is not on the house. She couldn't be put on the house because of student loans and bad credit so she's not even on the deed. We have no kids together but we bought the house after marriage I was wondering how would that work.
Sammy sausage it is a question for a lawyer.....too many different provincial or state laws.....good luck
As the saying goes "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife".
Who said that? Tupac? lol!
Maybe if you didn't categorize women as only hoes or housewives you could find one you could build a life with.
Are you volunteering? ;)
EDDIE LEAL I already married my superstar. 14 years and counting.
Congrats! I've been married for 23 years. Last month was our anniversary.
GUYS!!!! WHEN your arguing with her, have a secret voice recorder.
*you're
I have a good bud, than done exactly that.... they broke up now back together for the children.... but he still has all those recordings in safe place and she knows it.
Never underestimate how mean and manipulative a woman can be, especially if she seems like the sweetest, most caring woman you have ever met!
Just went through a divorce. I have stayed respectful as possible. Went through depression and almost took my own life. It was the most disrespectful hateful nasty thing I've dealt with. The person I thought I knew turned out to be psycho. She was a narcissist, and a sociopath and I had no idea. Until now. I have never had anyone tear me to pieces like this woman.
Hang in there man, I had a BPD chick do the same to me. I didnt marry her but it was vicious and I havent been back to my hometown in years as a result. Years of close friendships down the drain over some psycho broad. Dont take your life, she's not worth it all. Find some hobbies and ride it out
Will Gordon yep that's what I'm doing. Stayin busy. It just boggles my mind how someone can switch and become such a piece of shit.
@@CW-dz7xv Mate, I know it's hard. Never went through this myself, but I know some folks who did. Do your best to get through this. Focus on your hobbies, interests, and ignore the naysayers. Be sure to spend the time with your friends and people who want your best interests. Good luck out there!
Stay strong. Simular experience. You will heal bruh. Hard in the beginning but you will get there. Pray you get there bruh.
@@eternalfaith4622 gives me faith reading that literally just happened to me, I’ve never been so low there are truly no words to describe the pain especially when a baby is involved but I see her for what she is now and hopefully I can move forward but I know for certain I will never ever go back.
Guys, make sure you have a backup bank account, never share it with anyone.
Do not trust anyone play it smart, trust me you'll sleep better, too many of us
nice guys get screwed over by women!
I am sorry ,that is probably because of you have never met a good one!
qian xu there are none
JAY PARIS I would like this 1000x
Great advice bro
Marriage is just a fucking brainwashing indoctrination created by religion and the government (both are part of the matrix), If a woman loves a man, and a man loves a woman, great, may both of them live happy for the rest of their lives, no need for government intervention on someone else's intimate life, this is ridiculous, and I believe if it wasn't for marriage, many relationships would last longer, even forever, but the simple fact that you put the government in between fucks everything up, it's not natural.
Sad. He nails it when he says to choose the right person in the first place.
Personally what's REALLY sad about that advice of "picking the right person" is it's a lot like telling a soldier about to go off to war, "Now don't you get shot out there!"
Well DUH!
Does anyone try to pick the WRONG person? If it were that easy to pick the right person, this video wouldn't exist.
Xavier Malory that’s not true. You just need to get better at screening and testing for shit. Like narcissism. And have strong enough values and standards that you don’t let a woman manipulate you into overlooking red flags
Trouble is, Angel, not everyone makes the right choice the first time around. And if someone makes the wrong choice, should they be punished by losing half their stuff, paying alimony, and having to fight for the right to see their children more than weekends... ALL because they were born with a penis?
THAT... is my axe to grind.
Xavier Malory did I say that they should? I was just pointing out your poor comparison to a soldier going into war. Very poor analogy. And I think men in general need to be stronger and smarter about their partner choices, and surround themselves with strong men who will point out their stupid shit when it happens. That’s the best we can do for the time being with the shit gynocentric judicial system our country has
Angel
You pretty much implied that they should when you said "you just need to get better at", which essentially puts all the effort in my (men's) court. "You don't let a woman manipulate you," Yeah that's great, but again the risk should not be so ridiculously high if I screw up. And even now you're still saying "men in general" this and that. Never any emphasis on what WOMEN should be doing.
Classic sexist blaming, and why men go MGTOW. It's always men's fault isn't it?
EDIT: By the by, my analogy is spot on, because for both the married man and the soldier, there's a good chance he's gonna get his life ruined. The difference is, all soldiers know the risk when they sign the dotted line. A lot of men about to get married, do not.
The people who tell me how miserable they are in their marriage are the same people who are convincing me to get married. This is a mental illness that has saturated our culture.
I will never marry a woman.. I stay batchelor, even if it means, I will be alone when I am older..
Marry a man then! It's legal!
@@Ucayali267 🤣
Why would people even marry? What's the point? Just live together or something.
Is that your logic?
Hipster21 Na i just mentioned the reasons. I live in Germany and married parents got less taxes so they got more Money together. And having children without marrying makes them Bastards ( dunno if the children today are saying that to this childs or it became normal)
Money can't buy happiness. There is no pricetag for it. So get married when you don't even want it from inside your heart, then safe few hundred euros (like you said from taxes), and be unhappy. If money matters to most people THIS much, then just study harder and get a better job so you don't ever have to worry about money at all like I do.
I heard a woman say "money buys happiness, you just have to know where to SHOP."
That's how today's women think.
+Tom Evans Don't generalise women
You repeat a number of times that women "have no incentive to behave well after the marriage ends" which is true, but the bigger truth is they have no incentive to behave ever, at any point. The same incentives toward bad behavior are the reason they divorce in the first place.
You stated nothing but facts, sir!
Both men and women behave much better when dating / courting. They have an incentive to impress a potential partner.
I agree with Gorky D. Women aren't going to find a man if they don't behave.
Jeremiah Warren if that is you in the picture, that's an awesome beard you have there, sir!
Jeremiah Warren says ...
Until the day he falls in love( ...)
Shit,im so glad i found this video at age 14,some of my delusional freinds, say that they want to stay with their gf forever,anyways after watching this im just going to worry about my finances.
these are just the conniving women. there are plenty of good women out there worth marrying. just watch for the warning signs of selfishness, lying, et.
More conniving women than real women out there. Specially in the western world with this feminism bollocks. Don’t give in to ‘political correctness’ it’s a load of shit. Check out Jordan Peterson for guidance on life.
You are still young ,sound sensible ,but make your own mind up when u r a bit older ,but whatever u do ,enjoy your life ,that’s the point
You have two types of women , gold diggers , and goal diggers . Ether way there both are early grave diggers for men
Nice one.
Truth
Charles Clark good one
What?! Lol! Then there is only one type of man if that's the case: the one with the Peter Pan syndrome who only wants to suck on tits. Lol! Men are becoming more childish as time goes along. Seriously, though, this video is sad and the comments even sadder. The type of women you all are around and choose have sucked. And that's YOUR fault. But as usual, most little boys blame someone else. Look in the mirror, guys....take responsibility.
@@sheresejames-grow1779 Your anger is beautiful and you will get more scared and bitter as more men are waking up to the reality of marriage and divorce.
Think you're pissed off now? Wait a few years as more men walk away from you, *then* you'll really start your moaning!
You're single, right?
This is a system where being a heartless selfish man is the way to go when it comes to relationships. Try playing Mr nice guy and you will ruin your life.
provishky Truth. Why does these crazy females like aholes
provishky it's true I was a niice guy
Bro, where were you 20 years ago? I went through everything you mentioned. Including being detained multiple times, while I had scratches on me and broken glasses. Make your choices carefully. Cops usually bow down to her, even if they can see that she is the one that's abusive.
This is the most influential video I’ve ever seen. I’m going through a divorce as I’m typing this and I’ve literally thought about suicide. I have no where to turn and watching this, just hearing these things helped me out so much.
I hope things got better
Sometimes I watch these 'MGTOW' type videos and the over-generalization of women can ge ugly, but I cannot disagree with what you're saying about the majority of women in some ways. Thankfully I made completely different and deliberate choices (not having children, etc.) in my life to actually create a happy life for myself. Men also need to make thoughtful and deliberate choices in their lives and I still see too many flopping around in a sea of 'life just happens to me'. It's the biggest lie people tell themselves. You are correct about people in general not making someone else a complete focus- it's a good idea to have a life, then find someone who compliments that and vice versa.
To give a few people hope- divorce does not have to be ugly 1) if you didn't marry an a-hole 2) if you respect the other person and keep that in mind even through such a difficult time and 3) didn't violate the trust in some way (cheating, lying, abuse, etc.) and get out while things are mediocre, not ugly. Don't wait until everyone hates one another and it's an ugly nightmare. Recognize when it's not fixable and walk away clean.
I divorced my husband, didn't want a dime, he kept his home, I walked away clean and clear. Neither of us was a bad person, we just were not a good match. I took the adult path and ended it. After 7 years of a relationship, where I had given up a good job, moved 800 miles away and restarted my life for him (for us), I accepted the responsibility of my choices, sucked up my bad choice and left. I wanted us to both have happy lives and we certainly do now and remain friends to this day.
Andrea Speaks Sounds like you are that
proverbial unicorn.
Andrea Speaks Great comment. No matter what gender we are, you have to own your choices and why you choose the type of partner that you do. It is easier to blame the other instead of turning the mirror on yourself. I too divorced and took nothing from my ex. We chose each other at a vulnerable time in our lives and found several years later that we should have stayed friends and not married. My father was pretty strict and expected a lot from me so I grew up being very independent. I despise men or women who are users and can't take care of themselves
Sean it took years to get there. I started from a very bad place in life and in my own mind and just kept improving through sheer will and one choice after another that was better than the last. It's what each of us has to do. The reason I watch this channel (besides liking cars and entrepreneurship) is that he talks about self-improvement. I watch many self-improvement channels and apply what fits my life and goals.
Andrea Speaks You are a very good women, and part of the 1 percent that dont take half their mans money from divorce. Honestly I've seen WAY too many women do that. Much love, wish the best for you, ma'am :-)
Andrea Speaks lucky him, not the usual outcome.
Being married for 30 years, DON'T GET MARRIED !
giveagoodsong. You make marriage sound like a life prison sentence . lol! No early parole for good behavior? ;)
You’re bitter and chose the wrong woman
women always go for the child support. cant stand up on their own damn 2 feet
@giveagoodsong lol okay. If there was 50/50 automatic custody, there would be no need for "child support" . If either of the parents make more money because of personal decisions to excel, then that shouldn't be held against the other parent.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
its always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldn’t just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back
@@martinscott3220 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?.
Her name is Sylvia Regina White, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.
She isn't giving you a second thought dude. Move on.
I have no idea why this showed up in my feed, but I really appreciate this man's perspective, and after I read several comments, I'm so glad I found this. As an anti-feminist (or at least modern feminism) these stories are SO important for me to see. These are the stories that make me feel ashamed of women. I have told my partner that I would sign a pre-nup or whatever he wanted; I can't fathom taking half his money if he made 90% of it before he met me. We are common law now officially so technically, legally, I am 'entitled' to half. This was scary for him because of the very stories you all speak of but I will prove to him I will never take advantage of him and he feels more comfortable as time passes.
I am mortified how many women completely screw over their men after divorce. Both with money and with using kids as a weapon. I don't know what to say except that some of us are different, and some of us are even fighting for men. This society is breaking down due to modern feminism and this, to me, is a foundational issue with it. Women demanding respect yet not deserving it...
My advice as a woman? Pick a woman who is not obsessed with material things & babies, and someone who is focused on self growth. A woman with good morals, who knows herself and understands the sacred feminine and masculine.
Blessings to you all.
@Loca Cola Holy are you for real? How the fuck did you get all that from my comment? I'm anti-3rd-wave feminism and a tad old fashioned...so I'm some kind of self-degrading woman? Strange how you feel that you can accurately define me via one comment. Whatever. Pretty happy with my man and my life. Have fun trying to make people feel bad on UA-cam comment boards but failing, miserably. Cheers!
+Kelly Day I salute you and everything you said. You're the kind of gal I would want in my life...if I dared to dive into a relationship. If someone truly felt that way towards me, I would want to help her out as much as I could, as much as was fair, if we broke up. All the best to you in your life!
Well I wouldn't want to say 'thank you, that's a very kind thing to say', in case that sounds 'Pick me! Pick me!' desperate...lmao. But in seriousness, keep your head up about finding what you seek! Its about mutual respect. There are lots of shitty guys out there AND lots of shitty girls...its not a gender thing. The trick is for the good people to find each other. :) Thanks for taking the time to write and all the best to you also!
Thank you kelly day. Hopefully more women will have the same mindset as you because it is much needed in this society .
Ahhhh good point, haha! I often forget, being so straightforward, that many women sort of...fake it...hide it...lie. I guess you caught me in something I have no answer for, because I just can't relate to people who wear a mask or change who they are, including after marriage or after divorce. That being said, usually both 'bad' men and women will give off red flags, but these are so hard to deal with when it comes to love, because often we are blind to them, or our gut points them out and we don't listen. So for that, my only advice is, always follow your gut. Every time in a relationship (or otherwise) that I haven't, I have ended up in a bad situation. That's pretty generic advice so I'm not of much help! I will continue to just do what I do best on my end - stand up for men, and bash militant crazy feminists, lol. :D
I've never been married. Don't regret it. In fact the more of this stuff I see, the more I realise I dodged a bullet.
Hoop La | a child or a son specifically? We (21f, 56m) just had our 1st and I'm starting to hurt that we don't have a son yet to carry his name :(
Neither do I. While I did reget it in the 80s as a twentysomething, I find that it was really a blessing in disguise. And I'm 57.
Dear all men, can we please appoint this man our ambassador. Also how do I support his channel financially.
Paid off my house with cash in my late thirties, always owned cool cars bought with cash no loans, debt-free my entire life except for one short mortgage, semi retired by 50, guess why...
Never been married 😀😀😀😀😀
Clutch any kids?
you need to amend that statement to "she has no incentive to behave after THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT IS SIGNED." she can cheat, drive you to bankruptcy, have kids from other men while married to you and she will Still get half, alimony, and child support, due to no fault divorce laws.
Your right, women after "i do" are in the safest place, to do whatever they want, if the marriage doesn't work out, the state has their back.
This is true with one caveat..... women do have ONE BIG RISK.... that of marrying an idler, bum, drunk, credit card fiend, etc.... IF a woman can marry to a corporate climber or entrepreneur, keep that marriage going for any length, have a kid [and be a stay at home mom].... the guy will get soaked ---- but if she marries a whopper flopper -- doesnt do her any good.
“Guilty until proven innocent “
Local Fedex guy was physically attacked by his ex. She tried to tear his ear off, and succeeded in a partial tear. He called the police. Seeing him call, she tore off her own fingernail.
When police arrived, she accused him of tearing off her fingernail.
He’s bleeding, she’s bleeding, he’s the one that called the police for help. What did the police do? They put him in handcuffs and were walking him out to the police car when he asked why they didn’t ask the witness (the woman’s own son) what happened.
Police talk to the boy who corroborated every part of the man’s story. It was only then that the man was freed and the woman arrested.
So remember that when it is a ‘he said/she said’ situation, the police will default to treating the man as guilty until he’s proven innocent.
Your police are incompetent. He should sue them.
The only protection a man has is to wear a few video cameras permanently on his body , aimed all around in 360 degrees angle , to get evidences of what actually happened
@@trianglestomache6353 am 11 and am sooooooo scared to where I feel like I should be single
@@MtnDew4828
Don't be keep getting educated and protect urself then u won't have any reason to be scared since you already know everything
100% correct. Record them, fellas.
There is no real, reason to get married anymore after hearing this
Why am I here? I’m a single, home owner at the beach in Jersey at 32, and roommates with my dog. Think I am going down the right path for happy living
"Don't move out" is the advice I heard from multiple men. They said it was their biggest mistake. Men think if they move out things will calm down. Instead it's a one way trip away from their home and kids.
Domestic violence accusations is a strong possibility. Rock meets hard place.
I moved to a twin bed in the basement, but stayed a year while the divorce settled. DO NOT MOVE OUT!
This is so true I say the same thing
I tried to stay in the home, but my ex-wife called the police and lied about being abused. The police didn't find a shred of evidence to corroborate her story but they told me all she has to do is put a red mark on her wrist and the next time they will have to take me to jail.
krzykris sometimes you have no choice.
I did my best to keep a recorder on whenever she was around me. I also had older kids in the house that could back me up if necessary. Fortunately she never called the cops.
I'll just tell the courts I identify as a woman.
and demands to be addressed as "ze", not "she"
Clever, really.
got divorced fought for my kid and got him. Took me 7 years. Tips: Never argue or show any emotion over money, if she crosses any boundary get on order of protection, dont listen to her threats or emotional rants etc, SEE YOUR KIDS visit the school regularly. I would travel on public trans 2 hours every morning just to see my son and walk him into the classroom door. Endurance, Endrance, Endurance, remember your a man there are several levels to your game she only has about 3 levels.
thadeouszeus Am in the divorce process right now. I have two kids both boys....I feel sad about my children. Thanks for this encouragement.
Amazing advice
Great Advice and it work.
Im currently going through the same thing. She is using our kids as pawns as she has set her self up with a new man (victim) before we even broke up. Its Nuckin futs. I wish I watched all this info first. Never again. Hopefully all you who haven't married take all this advice because it is priceless. And for what its worth. She seemed like the innocent loving sweet trusting type of woman...they are chameleons...99% of them. Good luck finding that 1%.
Good advice well done and keep doing what you do