"Your partner has a skillset to deal with issues or they don't." So much truth to these words, Susan. I was in a 7 year relationship, newly ended. One of the issues is that every THING was an issue...even if to me it was just the normal, expected conversations that would come up in relationships.
You are seriously the BEST COACH ❤️ You're helping so many people out there. Please keep believing in us and providing your amazing content to us! Amazing work
I don't have a problem speaking my truth, and I've always thought it shows strength. My problem is in my delivery! 😮 I tend to confuse being assertive with being aggressive. Sometimes I do intend to be aggressive, but most of the time, I don't intend it. And I have a REALLY difficult time being calm in my tone if I've been hurt by the person I'm communicating with! 🤷♀️ It's something I recognize in myself, and continue to work on.
I love Susan’s channel, she has taught me a lot about relationships and the whole channel reminds me of my life in 2018. During that time, I was literally in love with someone who was unavailable but I still saw them everyday at work. The person must have known - even though I hid it. I still use them as a reference and with their good reference they helped get me a job twice! haha. It hurt me a lot at the time, and I would watch Susan’s videos to feel better. Looking back, I can also say it was a fun and exciting time, even though they didn’t participate in our “connection” and it may have been all in my head. I think being infatuated with this person made me a happier and better person during that time and I definitely learned from the experience. In life, you don’t always know the impact you make or how just being yourself can affect another person.
Hi Susan It appears to me, that over the course of your videos, you've helped people discover so much of themselves on a deep level that we transcend the idea of finding 'the right' / compatible person and rather stay on a path of self-discovery to ultimately become 'the right' person to ourselves. In doing so, discovering oneself, we outgrow our false narratives and the hold they have on us. Therefore, we can be free to attract and engage with what and who truly fulfills us and brings shareable joy. Thank you for all the work you do. Joey
Isn’t it interesting?! It takes nearly a lifetime of partly “hiding” ourselves from others and then…at some point, we’re “out”. Meaning, what you see is what you get and that is liberating and actually easy! But why does it take sooooo long, lol! I needed this capability decades ago!
@@Ayyeliki I love that everyone can arrive at that place and have access to it! Thankful for people like Susan who have given me so much insight and wisdom in my 20s. I believe It’s never too late!
I’m sorry to hear that, Samantha. It’s so very important to speak your truth and if that is your reaction, then you may want to look at overall situation and how is affecting you as a whole
Hello Susan 😊 I’ve joined one of your lives the other day and i asked you “how do i talk to a guy without being weird” we had a few conversations since then. Thank you so much 😊
Omg!!! Susan I love you 😘 you said the magic words!!💕💕♥️🦋🌸🌸🌸🌸 Corrected!!! ♥️🦋🦋🌸 Resentment! As an educator with so many years! The canities from your hair are well respected! Thankyou and so much! For helping me xoxo 😘 ♥️♥️🦋🌸🌸
I hear “my truth/your truth” a lot. And I just don’t know what that means. Truth is truth, not someone’s view. I’m sooo confused. So hopefully you address that in this video or could answer this, please? Watching now.
Timing: Do not initiate a serious conversation with a 'morning person' after dinner when they are winding down; Do not initiate a serious conversation over breakfast with someone who isn't fully awake till almost noon.
Susan, love you but this topic is very real for me. I have done this early in relationships and what happens 100% of the times is your openness is used against you! If you’re also dealing with a narcissist who is insecure to begin with, you will truly be in HELL!
@@SusanWinter I truly believe that if you’re a man and you are upfront (respectfully) about your feelings, this will at first appear endearing and sincere and even caring but will quickly turn into “emotional ammunition” for a woman. Women DO NOT want to be with a sensitive and caring man because this signifies weakness. I have had many women tell me how caring and wonderful I am only to leave for something more mysterious/challenging and aloof. At 64 now, all I really care about is no drama, kindness and honesty so I guess I’m gonna be alone.
@@mlantieri consider that these women couldn’t accept your vulnerability because they eventually felt unworthy, or like they could not reciprocate your care because of unhealed wounds. You won’t be alone, everyone deserves love and there is no shortage of love. If you exist then logically someone like you also exists and is looking to find you too
I used to really care what others thought of you but when you have had sticky experiences it wakes you up completely and you think shit why am I caring for,they give Two hoots about me
There can only be one objective truth. Truth is not subjective. Jesus Christ said he was THE truth. Is he a liar? Can you prove that? Whosoever shall believe in Jesus will have eternal life. If you die without Christ you will go to hell. Today is the day of salvation.
''In courtship we pick our mates , In Love we pick our battles '' - Susan Winter 🌹🌹🌹
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When she puts on those glasses butter melts and hearts flutter everywhere. 😍... that is an absolute truth. 😍
You’re making me blush!
@@SusanWinter well u said we should speak the truth 😉
"Your partner has a skillset to deal with issues or they don't." So much truth to these words, Susan. I was in a 7 year relationship, newly ended. One of the issues is that every THING was an issue...even if to me it was just the normal, expected conversations that would come up in relationships.
"The world is filled with people who want what you want..." -thank you Susan you always give me confidence on charting the path of Love.
You’re very welcome! Thank you for your love and support!
You are seriously the BEST COACH ❤️ You're helping so many people out there. Please keep believing in us and providing your amazing content to us! Amazing work
Aww shucks!!! 😊
OMG! I was the first thumbs 👍 up! I always love Susan Winter's videos!
Linda W!! YES! YOU ARE THE FIRST!!!! thank you
I don't have a problem speaking my truth, and I've always thought it shows strength. My problem is in my delivery! 😮 I tend to confuse being assertive with being aggressive. Sometimes I do intend to be aggressive, but most of the time, I don't intend it. And I have a REALLY difficult time being calm in my tone if I've been hurt by the person I'm communicating with! 🤷♀️ It's something I recognize in myself, and continue to work on.
I'm not sure how, but you seem to upload a video with a topic that I need to here right at this moment, every single time
And I appreciate it
I love Susan’s channel, she has taught me a lot about relationships and the whole channel reminds me of my life in 2018.
During that time, I was literally in love with someone who was unavailable but I still saw them everyday at work. The person must have known - even though I hid it. I still use them as a reference and with their good reference they helped get me a job twice! haha.
It hurt me a lot at the time, and I would watch Susan’s videos to feel better. Looking back, I can also say it was a fun and exciting time, even though they didn’t participate in our “connection” and it may have been all in my head.
I think being infatuated with this person made me a happier and better person during that time and I definitely learned from the experience.
In life, you don’t always know the impact you make or how just being yourself can affect another person.
Waiting to calm down is key
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Hi Susan
It appears to me, that over the course of your videos, you've helped people discover so much of themselves on a deep level that we transcend the idea of finding 'the right' / compatible person and rather stay on a path of self-discovery to ultimately become 'the right' person to ourselves.
In doing so, discovering oneself, we outgrow our false narratives and the hold they have on us. Therefore, we can be free to attract and engage with what and who truly fulfills us and brings shareable joy.
Thank you for all the work you do.
Joey
Isn’t it interesting?! It takes nearly a lifetime of partly “hiding” ourselves from others and then…at some point, we’re “out”. Meaning, what you see is what you get and that is liberating and actually easy! But why does it take sooooo long, lol! I needed this capability decades ago!
@@Ayyeliki I love that everyone can arrive at that place and have access to it! Thankful for people like Susan who have given me so much insight and wisdom in my 20s. I believe It’s never too late!
Every time I try to speak up, I end up crying.
I’m sorry to hear that, Samantha. It’s so very important to speak your truth and if that is your reaction, then you may want to look at overall situation and how is affecting you as a whole
Thank you for opening our eyes Suzanne..you make us see the reality 💓💓
I wish I had started to follow you earlier.
Thank you Susan, I've often struggled with this ❤
I hope you found the video helpful!
Speaking the truth, no need to remember. Thank you Susan.
Hi there Susan! Thank you for your support!
Thsnk you🌹
Hello Susan 😊 I’ve joined one of your lives the other day and i asked you “how do i talk to a guy without being weird” we had a few conversations since then. Thank you so much 😊
Omg!!! Susan I love you 😘 you said the magic words!!💕💕♥️🦋🌸🌸🌸🌸 Corrected!!! ♥️🦋🦋🌸 Resentment! As an educator with so many years! The canities from your hair are well respected! Thankyou and so much! For helping me xoxo 😘 ♥️♥️🦋🌸🌸
So good
I hear “my truth/your truth” a lot. And I just don’t know what that means. Truth is truth, not someone’s view. I’m sooo confused. So hopefully you address that in this video or could answer this, please? Watching now.
Noella, you're overthinking it. The term simply means to 'speak up' and voice your opinion and state your feelings
Timing: Do not initiate a serious conversation with a 'morning person' after dinner when they are winding down; Do not initiate a serious conversation over breakfast with someone who isn't fully awake till almost noon.
excellent topic!!!!
Glad you liked it!
Amen 🙏 🙏
Susan, love you but this topic is very real for me. I have done this early in relationships and what happens 100% of the times is your openness is used against you! If you’re also dealing with a narcissist who is insecure to begin with, you will truly be in HELL!
What have the responses typically been?
@@SusanWinter I truly believe that if you’re a man and you are upfront (respectfully) about your feelings, this will at first appear endearing and sincere and even caring but will quickly turn into “emotional ammunition” for a woman. Women DO NOT want to be with a sensitive and caring man because this signifies weakness. I have had many women tell me how caring and wonderful I am only to leave for something more mysterious/challenging and aloof. At 64 now, all I really care about is no drama, kindness and honesty so I guess I’m gonna be alone.
@@mlantieri consider that these women couldn’t accept your vulnerability because they eventually felt unworthy, or like they could not reciprocate your care because of unhealed wounds. You won’t be alone, everyone deserves love and there is no shortage of love. If you exist then logically someone like you also exists and is looking to find you too
@@kilaa3417 thanks Kila…..I hope you are right!
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Nice woman😍
Timing
But got 👻 before he heard me…..
How rude!!!!💔
I’m sure the universe was just getting you out of a tricky situation before it began
But if you left an unreasonable person without explanation would you be protecting yourself?
I used to really care what others thought of you but when you have had sticky experiences it wakes you up completely and you think shit why am I caring for,they give Two hoots about me
There can only be one objective truth. Truth is not subjective. Jesus Christ said he was THE truth. Is he a liar? Can you prove that? Whosoever shall believe in Jesus will have eternal life. If you die without Christ you will go to hell. Today is the day of salvation.
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