How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone - 3 Strategies For Smart Guys

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  • Опубліковано 3 лип 2024
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    In this video, I cover why you're stuck in the friend zone, what to do once a woman has put you in the friend zone, and how to avoid the friend zone going forward ❤️
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    Video Content ---
    0:00 - Intro
    0:55 - She doesn't see you as a catch
    1:09 - You lack romantic chemistry
    1:26 - You made her "ick"
    1:55 - What to do when you're in the friend zone
    2:38 - Let it go
    2:58 - Improve yourself
    3:20 - Be patient
    4:22 - Be more selfish
    5:14 - Show women you're interested in them romantically

КОМЕНТАРІ • 21

  • @eh3535
    @eh3535 5 місяців тому

    Great content Blaine! So well stated and on point!🙏🙏🙏

  • @RedM-lk6fk
    @RedM-lk6fk Рік тому +3

    She had me in the first half, I ain't gon lie.
    Fellas you wanna speed up the escape from the friendzone?
    1. Remove attention
    2. Date other women.
    Although, at that point I don't understand why you would want to still pursue her? She didn't choose you. Like Michael B Jordan said... "Her loss"

  • @AlejandroLB59
    @AlejandroLB59 Рік тому +1

    What’s important too on the self improvement is do it for yourself and/or your family first and foremost. Overtime you’ll notice you’re gaining people’s genuine attention more and more as your success becomes apparent (how the tables turn). Status in this social media-centric era has really become a focal point for attraction over just finances or physical appearances alone.

  • @MrSam2908
    @MrSam2908 Рік тому +6

    I definitely lack the chemistry part; thus, making most of the conversation leading to a more friends type of vibe, even if the girl knows she is on a date with me

  • @JH93688
    @JH93688 Рік тому +5

    Great tips! I find the background music just a little too loud. I find myself listening to the background music instead of you talking. I also follow you on instagram and you give great advice! Thanks!

    • @Courtneysid
      @Courtneysid Рік тому +1

      Editor here. Thanks! I'll address that in the future

  • @fbisurveillance4483
    @fbisurveillance4483 Рік тому +1

    I’ve been following your content for a bit and I finally got a date. Thanks for the advice Blaine!

    • @DatingByBlaine
      @DatingByBlaine  Рік тому +2

      This just made my day!!!!!!!

    • @xpallodoc1147
      @xpallodoc1147 Рік тому +1

      I like her advice but and this is a big but why date? Also what is date? What is dating? What’s the gameplan. Did you touch, kiss or more on this thing you call a date that you finally got. You seem to credit Blaine partially for getting this date I’m curious why

    • @phabeondominguez5971
      @phabeondominguez5971 6 місяців тому

      ​@@xpallodoc1147its been 10months, hav you figured it out yet?

  • @fabianreyes8659
    @fabianreyes8659 Рік тому

    Unfortunately my heart was broken when I told a long time friend I liked her and she immediately never wanted to speak to me ever again, why would she do that!? 😢

  • @angeldiaz762
    @angeldiaz762 Рік тому +1

    I have not been "obviously" friendzoned since I stopped being a Niceguy. And the reason is, I think, because I've disqualified myself from it. I've become _way_ "selfish!" If she knows she can't take me for a ride, "keep me around," as like a simp or someone she's getting favors out of, then she won't try. It also helps my cause that she's typically got orbiters that she does end up using.
    If you're a guy reading this, there's another side to it too that I don't think people emphasize enough, in this conversation in particular. And that is this: there could be a dozen reasons external to you that she doesn't like you. Maybe she found someone else. Maybe she just got out of a bad relationship. Don't _always assume_ that you fucked up; although it can be important to recognize when you do, if you're walking yourself thru the interactions that you have and not easily identifying something that could've ruined it from you, then I'd say don't stress on it too much. If it occurs to you years later, great.

    • @DatingByBlaine
      @DatingByBlaine  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for that great input. I hope other guys can read this too.

  • @allanmcintoshesquire
    @allanmcintoshesquire 3 місяці тому

    Causes of being in the friend zone = not meeting her looks threshold

  • @paultoussaint6639
    @paultoussaint6639 7 місяців тому

    I’m Paul and I’m blind so it’s very hard to date women sometimes because you’re basically don’t see these women that you want to date anyway

  • @sihastria
    @sihastria 27 днів тому

    Friendzone her first

  • @KyleConnell-if3zn
    @KyleConnell-if3zn Рік тому

    Do not tell a girl you like her. Hasn't this girl seen Hitch haha?

  • @xpallodoc1147
    @xpallodoc1147 Рік тому +1

    There is no friendzone

    • @iv3nomousi
      @iv3nomousi Рік тому

      It's actually the 'subhuman zone'

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 3 місяці тому

      "CreepZone"

    • @xpallodoc1147
      @xpallodoc1147 3 місяці тому

      @@kc270352 always be a creep and enjoy it. Also plot twist you’re not a creep