grwm date night: first date advice, how to get a second date, & dating tips
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- Опубліковано 17 гру 2021
- hey guys! i decided to do a get ready with me and share my dating advice. I give tips for first dates and how to get a second date. I hope you guys have an awesome date, love you! 💗
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~ 3:24 First Date Tips (who pays, first date outfit, posture, reducing silence, nervousness/anxiety)
~ 7:48 Sleeping W/ Someone on the First Date
~ 8:15 Kissing on the First Date
~ 9:16 How to Get a Second Date
~ 14:44 Date Ideas
~ 16:09 Date Makeup
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Also, coffee dates are a classic date plan, and they're awesome if they're early. If the date is good, you can do more after. If the date is bad, your day isn't ruined and you can go home/hang with other friends.
EXACTLY!
my first date was actually the movies haha, we’re both pretty introverted and thought it was a good idea to get a feel for each other. plus it gave us something to talk about afterwards, overall it was a success!
I'm so happy to hear that the movies worked for you! I'm definitely seeing why an introvert may feel more comfortable with this sort of activity. 🥰
same!! I was worried that it wouldn't be a good idea to go to the movies for the first date but it turned out good, we discussed the movie afterwards and even had some inside jokes about it already haha
it was the best date I've ever been on tbh but maybe it's bc I liked this person
(btw we never had a second date and stopped talking after that one date but anywaysss)
@@just_rita6505 yay i’m happy you enjoyed that one date at least! my first one turned into many and our one year anniversary was beginning of august haha
This was the healthiest relationship advice video I’ve seen in forever!
Awe I’m so happy to hear this 🥺💗
I just turned 20 and i'm going on a first date EVER i'm so nervous
Nervous is normal!!!
How’d it go?
I potentially have a first date on Friday and GOD I'm so nervous, I'm out of a long term relationship (6 years and we broke up April of 2022) so this is the first time I've dated or had a first date in like 7 years.
It’s going to go great!!! Have fun and stay safe 🩷
so I'm 14, and this Saturday I'm going on my first date ever!! I'm so excited, we are going out to lunch at a Thai restaurant, but I really needed your advice, and since I trust your judgment completely, you really helped me. Thank you so much Heather
FIRST DATE EVER CONGRATULATIONS ♥️♥️♥️ so proud of you and remember to have fun!!!
@@HeatherMak
how did it go?
@@earlgreymilktae It was great!! It led to two more dates afterward!! :D
It's true, women do think more. We're no thoughts, just vibes.
thanks trying out my 1st online date :) gonna use this advice one day and journal your great tips. Looking so glowy and pretty
Awe goodluck!! I hope it’s a positive experience 🥺💗
I always split the bill on first dates; I earn my own money and think it is kind of weird women wanting to be equal to men in society and at the same time expecting them to pay 😅 Later normally the guy and me kind of alternate with paying. But that's just my opinion. My now husband and me on our first date also split the bill. We really liked each other right away so that was no sign for no interest clearly...
I’m really glad that you commented this! It’s definitely different depending on each relationship. There’s no right or wrong way.
@@HeatherMak but I totally agree that guys who are interested often at least express their wish to pay for both. :)
I was thinking about how much this sounds like me and how I act on dates, and then you said you’re a Pisces and it all clicked 😂
Pisces unite 🫡
I am a guy and still haved watched the video, i am really nervous for my first date even if pepole could say girls stress more. I don't care i am really nervous. But, thank to this video i've understood that the most important thing is to make the girl feel confortable. So yes, everybody wishes me luck i guess
hope it goes amazing
Hey Heather! Today I was like ‘what day is it?’ ‘Oh it’s Saturday’. Then I checked your channel cause I thought I missed your video yesterday, bc you post on Fridays a lot. Then I found you didn’t and I was like ‘Ok, I didn’t miss it’. Is that weird? Well, it’s me…so I wouldn’t be surprised if it came off as weird 😅
Ok, nice video. I know it was more focused on tips for women, but I definitely think you covered a lot of stuff. Being a guy I can say you were pretty much bang on about the guy stuff you mentioned. Guys like to feel they are ‘doing well on a date’. They love when girls laugh at their jokes (even when they suck), and they appreciate compliments too.
I think the best first dates are the cheap ones lol. Maybe I’m different, but I prefer cheap dates…grab a quick bite to eat and find a park or something and chill there for an afternoon. Talk and get to know each other. Walks are the best. It’s a natural way to relieve stress, and works very well on first dates when both people are nervous. Plus there is always something to look at when you’re walking outdoors so I find the conversation flows more when doing this activity. I could write a long opinion column touching on your points but I won’t bore you with my opinions lol.
You know, I can feel that you love helping people. It really comes out when I watch you explaining dating and making sure that both people on a date are respected and valued. I asked myself how can you be so much like this…then you said you were a Pisces…and I’m like ‘ahh, that explains it’ lol. Pisces are warm caring people….I’m a Pisces too 😅! Ttyl!
I love coffee dates and walks around after. They’re underrated!! Also pisces >>
$300 for a meal???? Girl, I'm too uncultured for this conversation I guess 😂😂
Great advice! I love your nail polish where is that from
I don’t have the name of the polish SORRY 😩
Tip: Vary your sentences so that you don't come up as robotic. For example, if you're sharing your opinion, instead of saying "I like...." maybe change it up to "I enjoy" or "I am interested in"
Im potentially going for first date this Saturday. Sooo nervous 😭. Trying to get out of my comfort zone. Wish me luck ✨🫶🫶
Ahhhh
Sending you all the luck in the universe!! Have fun and don't think too hard about it
Did it go well?❤
If you were born from 2000 to 2010 your a GenZ
i love videos like this where you can just have one on one chats but the thing is i have never gotten to a stage where i even had a guy like me back its crazy to think that and im 28years old problem is i am very introvert and when I like someone i wont say anything even now. This guy I like his friends have asked me to just ask him to meet but I cant and I don't really know how to either
Being introverted can be so hard… I think you really have to want something to push yourself towards it. I always remind myself that there’s always no harm in trying and the worst thing that could happen is they may say no. Rejection is a normal part of life and I think we should acknowledge it rather than run from it!
@@HeatherMak I made a mistake of telling a friend about him who I thought I trusted and she messaged him for me even though I didn’t want her to she then started to say things that wasn’t true and it put me off him and we distanced since then I have left my job where we both work but now I am trying to find ways to ask him in person rather then through messages
I’m really sorry to hear your friend crossed a boundary. Would you be able to meet up for a drink/lunch to chat and explain your side of the story? I’m getting a sense that you want to have your own narrative rather than a friend produce one on your behalf.
I'm more interested in my education then being in a relationship, right now. I'm a freshman in College. Also, you look like Lana Condor and Lara Jean Covey.
I was very education-focused as well during schooling, so I totally understand! I’ve also gotten than I look like Lana Condor a few times now 🥹
If he doesn't kiss me first date I think he is not that into me or too shy... and it not working out long time. I think he should pay if he asking me out i have to travel etc.. Chemistry important.
ALSO IM ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED LIKE IM SCARED 😭 BUT WE ARE GOING TO A PARK AND IM AN Introvert ): SO IM LIKE IDK WHAT TO DO WE ARE GOING TO BE WALKING
how was it?!
Yeah, I can confirm, men are nervous on the first date, be we can't show or talk about it 💀
Hey comments ok I might be going on a date on Sunday. And it's gonna be my first date, and I'm really nervous. I'm a shy person. What would be the best place to go on a date? I was thinking, maybe Mini golfing or going bowling, or maybe going to see a movie, and I'm not sure if he's ever been on a date before. I never really asked him, so help a girl out pls 🙂
If you’re shy an activity is great cause you can start the convo about it and get a little competitive!! I know someone else mentioned that a movie is good bc you don’t have to talk until after and then you can review it together over a dessert or drinks 🫶
It can be nerve racking and exciting all at the same time, but remember to breathe and have fun! You’re gonna have the best time 🥹
There’s only one part that’s confusing I’m pretty sure I’m just going to the park with the dude
But we may get coffee I’m just kinda like….
Some guys or people say it’s attractive to offer to pay but then I’m hearing it’s not HELPP I don’t want to give him the wrong signals
I think you can offer to be polite. I do think if he asked you on the date then he should pay or if you asked him then you should pay :) either way if he declines you paying then say thank you and enjoy your coffee !
@@HeatherMak that’s what I’m thinking too I just don’t want to mess anything up 😭
@@HeatherMak also thank you so much for replying my date is in 2 hours 😭
@@Unhappysunshinez OMG HOW WAS IT?!
The guy made her pay THE DATE ; HELL NO .
I was betrayed
I also paid for the date just to get kissed three times without consent ;)
Restaurant - he is only meet and no gluten and I am vegan - there is no restaurant for us in the entire city
Cinema? Great ! You don’t have to talk and are forced by default to sit very close which is very nice to feel each other’s vibe and adjust to physical presence, especially if you met online and already discusses a ton of topics 😂
I haven’t been on a date in 9 years … 😢 I want to vomit when I think amount of stres
Dietary restrictions can be so hard and stressful esp going to a restaurant for the first time on a date! I would try calling ahead just to make sure you’ll be okay and will have something to eat 🫶
It’s normal to be stressed esp since you mentioned you haven’t been going on many dates. It’s like a muscle - the more you use it the stronger and more comfortable you get! Best of luck 🥰
You are gen z))
Does 1997 count as gen z or millenial?
@@HeatherMak yes, it counts as gen z. but you also sound and behave like gen z, so you are gen z
@@HeatherMak I'm born in 1997 as well, and we are an in-between year. The youngest millennial and the oldest Gen z. ✨️zillennial✨️
9:00 AFTER CARE 📌