@@fiverx2159 Not the best thing to do these days you will get done for SA. Women must make the first move these days or they will go without. This rule does not apply if you are one of the top 1% of men with a huge bank account in which case you can do what ever you want without any consequences.
Heyo Blaine! This was incredibly helpful, and I appreciate the message of "none of these signs mean anything concrete in isolation". Really helps to build good habits of awareness and being present. Your content is solid, and I look forward to seeing more!
@@DatingByBlaineHey, I honestly think you’re a scammer and a huge fraud. But riddle me this: What if a guy gets none of those sign? Should he spam approach until he does? I’ll have an open mind to your answer.
I just went on a date last night and I swear every sign was in play last night by the time I learn how to read these signs my library card is going to expire lol
"Ask for the kiss" I would disagree with this one for several reasons and from expierence. You have to feel it out, the vibe, situation etc...By asking it can ruin the mood and doesn´t really show confidence. Instead of asking, tell her, be assertive about it and just go for it if it feels right...What sounds better, more confident to her " may I kiss you" or "i want to kiss you right now", from my expierence majority of the times either she just went for it, or I did and then you´ll have your answer...
This is true, I was out on a second date with a girl. After dinner I made the first move before opening the car door. She later told me she was glad I didn’t ask for permission to kiss her because a previous date had and it turned her off.
Guys need to get good at reading her reactions. When going for the kiss, you should notice whether it's welcomed or not, second by second. With practice, you'll notice if you're moving too fast.
True, unfortunately, while all it used to take to go in for the kiss was balls, now it requires balls, as well as the knowledge that if she's not into you, you could face very real consequences. Women completely emasculated men, yet still want strong, masculine men. Somehow that makes sense to them.
Nope, you can ask. If she already likes you, it won't turn her off. A guy I liked asked, and I thought it was sexy that he wanted me to be comfortable.
In all seriousness, Blaine you are one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. Your style, intellect, voice, gestures and natural beauty is refreshing. Thanks for the video!
Married guys who had 0 sex in years.(Her advice helps)You should do this. She's gonna miss her memories of you and her together so make it alive again💯✅
Last month I met up with my daughter’s friend’s mom lol. We met this one night & I noticed she kept fixing her hair & moving towards me. Then we went out on a night drive & while pulled over I noticed she kept moving closer to me as we talked. I waited until she looked away & went right after her neck 😍 I totally caught her off guard & stunned her. Pure magic & she was a great kisser.
isn't it ironic that the woman makes the first nonverbal "move" by staring at you but it should "go without saying" that this doesn't mean you should talk to her. This is woman in a nutshell. I'm telling you something without telling you something, i want you to talk to me, but don't assume I want you to talk to me, but i won't go verbal first so it's your move big boy😂❤😂❤
Yes! Once, a woman initiated playful sexual flirtation with me on an airplane. She sat several rows in front of me on the opposite side. Despite flirting for a long while she never took the initiative to tell me what she really wanted. She never went to the toilet and gave me a note at her way back which is what I would have expected in that situation. It is possible that I was not assertive enough and if course, I could also have given her a note, but she was the one hitting on me so why I am supposed to be the one to take that step? From my perspective the question was of course what she wanted. Impossible to know. A flirt on the destination? An adventure at the airport? Sex on the plane? I must admit that I felt inhibited by sitting on an airplane full of other passengers around me. Not exactly the situation you feel comfortable making sexual facial expressions and stuff!
Sheesh Look for this! But it might not mean anything at all But it could. But maybe it doesn’t But these are what to look for If you see these signs,…it could mean this or that!! Or. Maybe it doesn’t Hope all this information was clear to you 👍👍
This doesn't address the fact that women are intentionally and collectively misleading about their interest so that there are no straightforward behaviors that indicate genuine interest other than point blank asking you out. Men need genuine insight not generic bullet points that give them an extra 1% edge. Otherwise its just a fish trying to teach a fisherman
10:52 Great advice up until this point. But speaking as a chick, the _last_ thing I want to hear is a guy asking for *permission* to kiss me. Instant dry-up. You either go for a kiss, or you don't. Asking permission to kiss me ruins any magic that was there.
So asking for "permission" dries you up, are you meaning in your comment that you think this applies to all women or at least a majority? Just curious. Well clearly from your comment, I can see that obtaining "consent" (at least verbally) is not sexy in your view.
But why do people sexual attraction is so important? I don't get it. Of course, it plays a roll, but basically as a man, I just want soft, tender and warm communication with someone where the interaction plays out amazingly well. Then we can have sex! That's it! I want to get to know her more, but it doesn't have to be in any particular order. Even if it is pure sex dating, things like her voice and the energy she radiats is much more important than looks. The thing is that the very few times I have had sex with a woman, she has just told me that she is in the mood for it. No games. However, if I notice a woman gives me signals, how do I know what kind of relationship she is after? If I have just met her, it feels like a very personal question to bring up. I might not want reveal everything at once either. It took two months for my ex to get me into bed for this very reason. I am okay with different scenarios, but I need to know in what direction we are going to avoid misunderstandings.
It’s an easy formula. Are you worth 7 figures minimum. If yes then they are sexually attracted to you. Are you an average guy with a great personality. Then you disgust her
kissed on the cheek happens to me long long years ago i was too shy 4 it but yeah i like it but was so perplex and it was in public area so i don kiss back
I have a question i went to the doctors office to get a check up and the nurse called my name and I walked up to her and we eye contact each other for 5 or 10 seconds and she walked in front of me and said hi i said hi back and we walked to the room and checked up and few minutes later she came back to check up on me she said im just checking up on you and we eye contact each other again i licked my lips and bite my lips at the same time and she laughs at me does that mean she likes me Sexually attracted to me or not?
Shhe doesn't need to. I see a woman as something more than a "bed-warmer." Dear speaker, is that all that you want to be, a bed-warmer? I doubt it: you are too intelligent.
So when does the 10-foot pole come in to play? It’s not my fault that I’m picky. The last gal that I was sexually attracted to asked me if I was a Trump supporter. Go figure.
@itsgryme1081 still very lonely. Also my car broke a week ago & the repairs will be bigger than thought. So I've been playing a lot of dynasty warriors 5. But pushups won't make the girls appear
Is "she" sexually attracted to me? I wouldn't put myself on any woman, as I'd been influenced to believe I'm not a real man. I'm sure a great and powerful life awaits me. You might need to learn a thing or two about sarcasm!
You don’t ask for a kiss, you go for the kiss, she either will stop it or go for it.
Might as well ask her to wear a strap on for u lmao😂
What!!!!! That will get you accused of SA around here
@@fiverx2159is this a genuine comment you've made here?
@@fiverx2159 yeah maybe in CALI
@@fiverx2159 Not the best thing to do these days you will get done for SA. Women must make the first move these days or they will go without. This rule does not apply if you are one of the top 1% of men with a huge bank account in which case you can do what ever you want without any consequences.
Heyo Blaine! This was incredibly helpful, and I appreciate the message of "none of these signs mean anything concrete in isolation". Really helps to build good habits of awareness and being present. Your content is solid, and I look forward to seeing more!
Thank you, Nick! Always happy to help!!
@@DatingByBlaineHey, I honestly think you’re a scammer and a huge fraud. But riddle me this: What if a guy gets none of those sign? Should he spam approach until he does? I’ll have an open mind to your answer.
9:12 is VERY important and might seem counterintuitive. Excellent advice Blaine.
Thank you!!
@@DatingByBlaine What if a guy have a crush on the dating coach or want to sleep with her can you figure that out?
*Recognizing these signs can really help people make more informed choices in their interactions. Excellent content!*
I just went on a date last night and I swear every sign was in play last night by the time I learn how to read these signs my library card is going to expire lol
wow. how did it go??
"Ask for the kiss" I would disagree with this one for several reasons and from expierence. You have to feel it out, the vibe, situation etc...By asking it can ruin the mood and doesn´t really show confidence. Instead of asking, tell her, be assertive about it and just go for it if it feels right...What sounds better, more confident to her " may I kiss you" or "i want to kiss you right now", from my expierence majority of the times either she just went for it, or I did and then you´ll have your answer...
Completely agree, from my own experience, unless you are not a teen. I mean, for boys, it's okay, but not for men.
When I feel the moments right, I’ll just look her in the eyes and tell her to kiss me.
This is true, I was out on a second date with a girl. After dinner I made the first move before opening the car door.
She later told me she was glad I didn’t ask for permission to kiss her because a previous date had and it turned her off.
When the police toss you into jail, then you know you read the signs incorrectly. No thank you. I’ll stay single and out of jail, thank you very much.
Guys need to get good at reading her reactions. When going for the kiss, you should notice whether it's welcomed or not, second by second. With practice, you'll notice if you're moving too fast.
Never ask for a kiss unless you want to be her friend.
True, unfortunately, while all it used to take to go in for the kiss was balls, now it requires balls, as well as the knowledge that if she's not into you, you could face very real consequences. Women completely emasculated men, yet still want strong, masculine men. Somehow that makes sense to them.
@@fuzzypanda1684 SA Charges...
Yes, learn to be a man never asks for permission. Just go for what he wants othewise he will never get it by asking.
@@logician3641 bullshit
Nope, you can ask. If she already likes you, it won't turn her off. A guy I liked asked, and I thought it was sexy that he wanted me to be comfortable.
Thank you for all the helpful tips, it really means alot and it's very clear that you care about the people you're helping!! Very thankful for that ✌🏿
Awwww
In all seriousness, Blaine you are one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. Your style, intellect, voice, gestures and natural beauty is refreshing. Thanks for the video!
Simp
I'm in an intimate zone for years already, I can go really close, touch, hug, that's pretty much it... It's not intimate zone, but a friend zone..
Blaine, tell your dog I said for her to blink twice if she's in trouble. 😆 Jokes aside, this was a good video. Thanks.
all this recently happened to me by a girl i like, except the sending of pics. i guess im an idiot for missing the signs
Thank you Blaine!!!
My pleasure!!
Grreat advice Blaine.
Married guys who had 0 sex in years.(Her advice helps)You should do this. She's gonna miss her memories of you and her together so make it alive again💯✅
Last month I met up with my daughter’s friend’s mom lol. We met this one night & I noticed she kept fixing her hair & moving towards me. Then we went out on a night drive & while pulled over I noticed she kept moving closer to me as we talked. I waited until she looked away & went right after her neck 😍
I totally caught her off guard & stunned her. Pure magic & she was a great kisser.
Also, your hair looks great.
Smirk smiles I think also
isn't it ironic that the woman makes the first nonverbal "move" by staring at you but it should "go without saying" that this doesn't mean you should talk to her. This is woman in a nutshell. I'm telling you something without telling you something, i want you to talk to me, but don't assume I want you to talk to me, but i won't go verbal first so it's your move big boy😂❤😂❤
Yes! Once, a woman initiated playful sexual flirtation with me on an airplane. She sat several rows in front of me on the opposite side. Despite flirting for a long while she never took the initiative to tell me what she really wanted. She never went to the toilet and gave me a note at her way back which is what I would have expected in that situation. It is possible that I was not assertive enough and if course, I could also have given her a note, but she was the one hitting on me so why I am supposed to be the one to take that step? From my perspective the question was of course what she wanted. Impossible to know. A flirt on the destination? An adventure at the airport? Sex on the plane? I must admit that I felt inhibited by sitting on an airplane full of other passengers around me. Not exactly the situation you feel comfortable making sexual facial expressions and stuff!
Genius.
Thank you❤
Sheesh
Look for this! But it might not mean anything at all
But it could.
But maybe it doesn’t
But these are what to look for
If you see these signs,…it could mean this or that!! Or. Maybe it doesn’t
Hope all this information was clear to you 👍👍
90% of the time shes looking for either validation or is going to play the breadcrumb game.
Goeie Video!
You need to make a video of what men who have zero sexual attraction should do
Oooooooooooooooooooo, that is limiting. Such men need to figure out how to make themselves attractive somehow.
This doesn't address the fact that women are intentionally and collectively misleading about their interest so that there are no straightforward behaviors that indicate genuine interest other than point blank asking you out. Men need genuine insight not generic bullet points that give them an extra 1% edge. Otherwise its just a fish trying to teach a fisherman
So the main thing I gathered here is that I should bring a measuring tape with me in public
Usually its easy enough to just see it
Great content but why is it bad for guys to say “I’d like a girl with blue eyes” but not for girls to say “I want a guy who is 6 feet”?
What does that have to do with this video? Or are you just asking a general question?
nobody says that is bad..in fact, it's the 6 feet thing that gets criticized all the time
10:52 Great advice up until this point. But speaking as a chick, the _last_ thing I want to hear is a guy asking for *permission* to kiss me. Instant dry-up. You either go for a kiss, or you don't. Asking permission to kiss me ruins any magic that was there.
So asking for "permission" dries you up, are you meaning in your comment that you think this applies to all women or at least a majority? Just curious.
Well clearly from your comment, I can see that obtaining "consent" (at least verbally) is not sexy in your view.
Never ask for a kiss guys , awkward she will be instantly turned off
I think money is considered a sexual trait as well
A lot of suggestions to “ask her…..”. This video is more for simps than regular guys
But why do people sexual attraction is so important? I don't get it. Of course, it plays a roll, but basically as a man, I just want soft, tender and warm communication with someone where the interaction plays out amazingly well. Then we can have sex! That's it! I want to get to know her more, but it doesn't have to be in any particular order. Even if it is pure sex dating, things like her voice and the energy she radiats is much more important than looks.
The thing is that the very few times I have had sex with a woman, she has just told me that she is in the mood for it. No games.
However, if I notice a woman gives me signals, how do I know what kind of relationship she is after? If I have just met her, it feels like a very personal question to bring up. I might not want reveal everything at once either. It took two months for my ex to get me into bed for this very reason. I am okay with different scenarios, but I need to know in what direction we are going to avoid misunderstandings.
You're in the minority. Most men just like a woman's body and just wants to have sex with her for that. That is all.
It’s an easy formula. Are you worth 7 figures minimum. If yes then they are sexually attracted to you.
Are you an average guy with a great personality. Then you disgust her
kissed on the cheek happens to me long long years ago i was too shy 4 it but yeah i like it but was so perplex and it was in public area so i don kiss back
Gentlemen, women speak indirectly on purpose..to avoid accountability and responsibility.
You go for a kiss after a holistic parameters of words indicating romance!
Why women likes BICEPS and BROAD SHOULDERS MOST ATTRACTIVE OF BOYS????
Interesting science
I have a question i went to the doctors office to get a check up and the nurse called my name and I walked up to her and we eye contact each other for 5 or 10 seconds and she walked in front of me and said hi i said hi back and we walked to the room and checked up and few minutes later she came back to check up on me she said im just checking up on you and we eye contact each other again i licked my lips and bite my lips at the same time and she laughs at me does that mean she likes me Sexually attracted to me or not?
never, ever, ever date a nurse. trust me from personal experience
@@JohnQPublic345 ok thank you for the advice
May I kiss you? The girl says NO with a smile on her face and I do anything, after all, no means no. Politically correct, gentlemen!! 😂😂😂
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Shhe doesn't need to. I see a woman as something more than a "bed-warmer." Dear speaker, is that all that you want to be, a bed-warmer? I doubt it: you are too intelligent.
Ask lol. Nope. Women tell you it ruins the mood.
So when does the 10-foot pole come in to play? It’s not my fault that I’m picky. The last gal that I was sexually attracted to asked me if I was a Trump supporter. Go figure.
Nope no women do these with me sad
Yeah I do not know what any of this is like. I feel more repulsive than Daniel Larson. I deserve to have a sword run through me.
First try plastic surgery.
@@GregoryTheGr8ster i can't afford a 59 dollar emergency. What gives you the impression I can get surgeries willy nilly M
Pushups are free brother...start somewhere. How are you doing these days?
@itsgryme1081 still very lonely. Also my car broke a week ago & the repairs will be bigger than thought. So I've been playing a lot of dynasty warriors 5.
But pushups won't make the girls appear
Dzting coaches wtf has world come too. I git what i need ..do whst please 1 got 99 problems but a chick ain't one
2nd comment 😂😂
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These tips are repeated by every dating coach. Waste of time😢
Remember fellas do the absolute opposite of everything she said.
Im pretty sure friends will do 90% of these
*I've always had women just tell me straight out, that they want to "get down". I've never had to "try".*
*All I do is be myself.*
Is "she" sexually attracted to me? I wouldn't put myself on any woman, as I'd been influenced to believe I'm not a real man. I'm sure a great and powerful life awaits me. You might need to learn a thing or two about sarcasm!