To learn how to never get put in the friend-zone with a girl in the first place and always be seen as a potential lover or boyfriend, be sure to check out my online program HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.
A general rule of thumb I like to follow is - “if you are working hard or if you feel like you’re working hard on a single woman, chances are it won’t happen bc these things just flow naturally without anyone pushing the other person and there’s never any scope of stressing out. So just back off under these circumstances.”
i agree, but i also agree to disagree, even though i intially agreed context wise i fundamentally disagree, but agree to it on a existential level, capiche?
If you’re average looking, and she’s stunning, the only way out of the FZ is to subtly manipulate her perception of herself. She only believes she’s super hot because simps gas her up on social media all the time, but you just casually drop this atom bomb to change this. You say, ‘Most guys are desperate for sex and would f*ck anything that moves. Even fat, ugly girls get hundreds of likes on social media’. She’ll instantly start freaking out because she’ll be thinking - ‘If fat, ugly girls get hundreds of likes from losers, then maybe I’m not as attractive as I think’. Remember, too, why she has to wear makeup every day - because she feels ugly without it.
The only way out of the "friendzone" is to tell him/her "I'm not looking to be friends" then walking away going NO CONTACT on them and moving on with your life!
I found way by accident. We was flirting over text. And she said I'm not going to sleep i dont see you like that. I said well that is ok i went on date with girl from work and she spent night with last Saturday. Her view changed very quickly
Thanks Tripp. I got into the friend-zone with a girl, but I did not stay for a long time and quickly showed my masculine traits afterwards so she chased me back. There are a lot of girls out there and you just filter them for what you want. You and the other professional dating coaches are like my family on UA-cam.
Thank you for your words, I think you're definitely right, once in the friendzone there's no much you can do about it, just leave and go on to the next girl, as hard as it sounds, it's the best choice. God bless you all.
Good advice my friend. I'm deep in the friend zone have not seen her in a few months. Now started over and being much more aware of how I interact with her. The good news is that I don't really care if she's not interested in dating me, so that's a good position to be in. Thanks man.
*When you're always in the friend zone, it's easy to get stuck in the nice guy trap. Taking the initiative to express your feelings openly can be uncomfortable, but it's the only way to see if there's potential for something more.*
see the rules you have set for your relationship (listening to her boyfriend problems, being her free ride, buying her drinks) and start breaking them. learn to say no to her. you have way too much comfort and zero tension, you need to show her you are willing to walk away.
Agreed. You are the prize. She isn't. If she friend zones you, just walk away. Your time is precious, and is reserved for things that are worthwhile, i.e. a relationship.
@@breadstick4375 legend, my friend got asked out alot and he accepts. but a few minutes before the actual date he cancels it lmao. he wasn't even interested.
If she friendzones you put her in the sister zone. They HATE that because you are now her bro and no longer some backup guy incase the man she is really after rejects her. She will try everything to get out of the sister zone IF you had any chance to begin with.
@@gtcam723 i did that bro, but she said i love you like a brother, and thats when she didnt know i had feeling for her, after a month since i told her that i met up with her and told her that i love her and she said that she likes me like a brother, and i was heartbroken but it is what it is, its over , i cant do anything about it
@@kristijan6527 in that case you need to move on. The only way putting a woman in the friend/sister zone is to actually meant it and not in hopes of making her get jealous this way you actively date other women and it becomes real and authentic. She’ll sense that you really are not interested in her and then she’ll start to have an interest in you. And that’s when you choose where things go between you and her.
Good stuff man! The “blackout” period definitely works…if a woman thinks you’re chasing her, she loses interest quickly, so make HER work for your attention, and NEVER reward bad behavior 🤙
Can you believe it's been two years I've been watching all these videos for the same girl? The problem is I never knew I would fall in love with her, so I saw her as a friend for the first 6 months, but I couldn't help once I felt I love her more than any other girl I ever knew. I wish our story has a happy ending
If you understand one behavior of yours that is-you are not making her attracted to you on a scale of 1-10 sexually. If you can somehow make her feel the same way you feel of her. All a girl has got to do is look attractive, but we have to have a career, be confident, look good, socialize, have other gfs, so that it makes the attraction meter in her go up for you.
Not true, you can’t make anyone fall for you, the most likely scenario that happens is she finds someone to be with that she finds more attractive and chemistry with
Put them in your friend zone first, because having friends in general is good if shes a nice friend and if she eventually likes you it forces her to tip her hand
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone" (1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome". (2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger. Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty. (3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone". (4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
Interested Stat. 70% of serious relationships started out as friends. I think it's good to accept a friendship for a couple of months, grow as friends, and then walk away. This has worked best for me. Twice, they freaked out when suddenly the person who was supporting their ego leaves they feel an actual loss.
I actually did this 4 months ago. She will write me every once and a while and I keep it very short conversation. she used to like my stuff now I post she doesn't unless I post something that relays to us. She admitted to me she gets jealous when I put my focus on other girls. I walked away and it sucks but I was a second choice take my pride take my energy and focus on myself.
Dated, slept with, then friendzoned and still teased several times by a woman I really loved. She got annoyed that I was hanging out too close to her while she was hungrily making plays for other guys at a cookoff. I got pissed and told her I was going to let her go and take care of myself for awhile. She had a tantrum I've never seen and and told me we weren't friends anymore. Haven't heard from her in a long time.
Though it’s never successful, we still keep trying to overcome the friend zone. Heck I was married 10 years to a friend zone girl and trust me- no matter how much you want it to change, the dynamic never really does. They will never desire you. It’s only a matter of time before they can’t hide the lack of interest.
I am in that place and it is brutal. I have been in the friend zone for awhile. Only recently I have had deep feelings for this girl. Geez, I want to marry her tomorrow.
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone" (1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome". (2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger. Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty. (3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone". (4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
Dude stop now. Tell her how you feel and you will feel 1000% better. Just did this if she stays good if she leaves good. Don't settle for what you don't want
Yeah you described what I do in the first 10 seconds as I do both. I have issues with making a move as well as try to do the "backdoor" thing to try and convince myself to make a move while trying to get to know her better which IF they are interested I end up just boring them and push them away. I still feel I should walk away from my current f@$& up since she's giving me f@$& off vibes.😢
I’m escaping the friendzone! I dated her for bit and then she gave me the “let’s just be friends” speech and I said no (in a colorful way, got a bit uncentered) and to get ahold of me if she changes her mind. No contact since.
Guys, if you started out really attracted to each other, but you flubbed up.....and are now are in the friend-zone, you can go back. Just bring it. Go get her....he's right. After no contact.
"You are in the friend-zone because you put yourself there". Not necessarily true. You can do your move and the girl just put you there. Doesn't matter if it is because of low attraction, because she is just after a long relationship and not open for any adventure yet or whatever. You can go and start to talk to her, you can have a date, make a move and she put you there anyway. She wants to be just a friend. It happens. Then you must move on and put attention to someone else. But why not to be a friend with her? It still can be useful to have female friends! Remember, girls like men with a lot of girls around. The only problem is if you are stuck in the friend-zone with the first woman and suffer. You can be in the friend-zone with some girls. But you must also go and get what you want. There are plenty of beautiful women. And it is easier to get them when you have female friends...
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone" (1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome". (2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger. Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty. (3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone". (4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
It's you who make yourself in the friend-zone, so you have to take the risk to lost this girl as a friend. From the moment you trying to get out from it, you have to be ready that it's either you success or both of you become stranger. My opinion, if you failed, please, don't be friends. Or if you don't mind someday she introduce her boyfriend to you or even invited you to her wedding and want you to stand there watching her kissing with another guy, that's pain.
I'm in the friend zone because she was married and I couldn't make a move on her for that reason. She's recently separated from her husband and I want to make her my woman, but I am stuck in the friend zone because that's the only place I could be for the last 12 plus years. Aye aye aye.
@@excelsior_4294 Yes, we work together and have known each other and been friends for over 12 years. I developed minor feelings for her years ago but knew she was married and was cool with it, but my feelings for her exploded within the last year once I found out that she was unhappy and wanted to leave her husband who was absent and most likely cheating on her. A few months ago, I told her that I want her and want to make her my woman and have made my intentions known, now that she is "available." I probably should have waited longer, but I thought she may feel the same way, because we had grown much closer and formed a stronger emotional connection. She thinks of me as her BFF though.
One of the bigger ways guys also get into the friend zone is hanging out with women who already are seeing someone hoping they will get a crack if they break up. It does not work as the more time you spend with her or in her circle where you are not getting her, the attraction window closes for her and you really cannot get that back no matter how confident or whatever you are. Time spent with a girl where you are not doing romantic things is a total 100% killer. You best bet is if a girl is seeing someone, you do not text or hang out with her, even if she works with you. You need that attraction window open if she does break up with him. With social media and social sites, it is much easier now to know if she is single again. Don't hang around. Your best bet to being a friend is disappearing and stop hanging out with her. Get in shape, live your life and meet new women. If you run into her again a year from now and is single, you will not have the friend baggage of being her "friend" to overcome and start from scratch. Then you can build attraction and open that window when she will feel it.
If she’s not interested, then she’s not interested. Maybe she has some attachment issues or emotional unavailability, whichever it is, it’s not something you should want to deal with. Move on and leave her to herself. The problem is most guys only talk to one girl. There’s so many girls on my DMs, to the point I don’t even notice who doesn’t reply my message.
i did allow myself to be in the friend zone, she was going through a very difficult time and i befriended her to help her through it, and then i became attracted to her, then very quickly told her how i felt, and when it come to masculine qualities that was all i showed her,
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone" (1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome". (2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger. Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty. (3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone". (4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
I met a women at a work event who is new to the job and spent most of the time talking with her. Asked her out on a date within half a day of her giving me her number. She instantly put myself in the friendzone because she wants to take a break from dating, I'm been given that excuse by many women who said they are taking a break at this moment of their life many times. I like her as its so easy to talk and I'm physically attracted to her but as said she only wants to friends. Been unsure if I should just try again or just simply say I don't want to be friends, kinda leaning towards the latter but unsure.
Lol women never ever want to take a break from dating. That means she's with someone else, probably who's treating her like crap. Depends. If she is pouring her heart out to you about romantic issues, run a mile, she should be doing that with her female friends.
1. Determine if you're in the friend zone, if you can't tell just ask her straight up if she likes you 2. If you are in then determine if you can be just friends with this girl 3.a If you can be just friends then keep seeing her and do buddy activities only without going out of your way for her 3.b If you can't just be friend, sever all ties for a while. Stop texting, calling, inviting her to anything, respond with memes or short one liners if she contacts you (she probably just wants attention) 4. Move on to better women. There are thousands of women out there and you should keep searching for the one that will actually like you instead of devoting time, money and effort to someone that does not like you 5. Learn, step back and examine what you did wrong that got you in the friend zone and DO NOT do those things ever again Nobody leaves the friend zone. It is so much effort that is literally useless. It's like Russia trying to regenerate Chernobyl now, is just not worth it when they can just move the people to a better place.
I was friends for 5 months. We watched a movie together. We used to text every night late. But when I told her she left. I've moved On, But I can't see or meet anyone else. Because she was in my apartment.
met this girl at work about five weeks ago. I just learned she's been in a two year relationship after I asked her out. She marked all the flirting requirements, but when I asked her out she said she really liked me and just wanted to stay friends. unfortunately I have to tell her Monday I chose the other option. why are girls like this
How about you talk to her and clearify your status and that's it? If she's just not interested in you for more than a friend, accept it and live with it. You can still be a friend what's wrong with that?
Does this count as a friend zone if she asked me out and I was confused as to why, so I said no because I thought it was a joke and then later on she got a boyfriend she said she was going to dump him the other day but didn’t and so I told her how I felt about her and she said that it made her cry because it was so cute and it’s been left at that. Is it a friend zone and also is there a way out of it?
If there is no initial attraction, you're fighting a losing battle. Take the L and move on. Even if you win by a default dry spell, you become non existent to someone they have animal lust for.
Well, at least the last object of my unrequited desire didn't cry on my shoulder about things. We never talked that much, and we were never that close. It's just that she has sweet qualities. And I quit suggesting we get together and hang out together a long time ago. When I used to kiss her on the mouth and she flashed me that cute smile of hers, it was nice while it lasted. I just got so frustrated after awhile. But there are so many scammers online.
Bag Sands Bag Sands BAD IDEA if you are attracted to this person. Watch more content about the friendzone. Deeper connection comes by NOT being in the friendzone. You are bullshitting yourself if you think that will work.
I know these techniques work so here's my problem, the girls I don't really like I find it easy to use these techniques on and I can see then becoming more attracted to me, the girls I actually do like, I start out with with this but then I get too nervous to escalate cause in the back of my mind I've got this "what if I mess it up" and so I'm ending up in the friend zone because of that. I just don't know how to get over that anxiety of messing up with the ones I actually like.
Was seeing this woman that ghosted me for five weeks Returns on my Birthday of all days and say's Let's Just Be Friends Simply never contacted her again after she left and she has never contacted me that was five months ago lol Just thought it was shady to tell me on my BIRTHDAY of all days that she doesn't like me and it " Set in Stone " that she didn't like me
I can understand what you say by moving on when you are in the friends zone but it is hard when you have nothing to move on to. I have been friends zoned five times it is soul destroying can somebody help. Is it the fact I am a widower I do not go on about it in fact I am fed up people feel sorry for me.
I really like this girl we have know each other for 7 months I want to be more than friends with her but every time I ask her can we be more than friends she says no and I am not giving up on her I will do anything for her
Some girls just wont like you like that. If you keep asking shes just going to be more certain of her previous answers which is no. You're awesome man God bless.
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone" (1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome". (2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger. Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty. (3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone". (4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
do not give attention or do favors for girls who rejected you. guy asks girl out... she says no... but 2 weeks later she asks him to help her shift her stuff... guy should say no. no explanation , just say no. no chatting like he is one of her girl friends. no hanging out as friends no paying for her not even a cup of coffee...agree to do stuff you really enjoy and even then no paying for her at all.
Hi Tripp, the woman I want a relationship with says I'm her best friend. We've not got physical or intimate, which I know have got myself in the friendzone as my own doing. I've even tried 'is she ready to be kiss' tests on her and its green light, but I've not gone for it to seal the deal. Yes, I know is the only way to know. We are planning to live in a campervan late this year for the longterm off grid. She often say I'm the only one she trust and want us to start a life together. I'm not being used, as she's the one buying the campervan. I would be grateful for any advice on this topic or made a video from this matter. Andrew, UK
You are being used. Everything concrete you said, like starting a life together, buying a campervan, is in the future at the time you wrote, so not real or concrete. If she wanted to start a life together with you she'd already have done that at the start of writing. Ghost her and never ever be tempted to tell her why as she will try to take revenge out of spite.
I asked her out and she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship and that she only see us being friends, what was my mistake. I think its because i didn't make my intentions known from the start.
@Reemo Williams Well I have stopped messaging her and giving her attention but before i asked her out she invited me to a party that she is having on the 18th so i am hoping i am still invited as we are "good friends"
How can you build a relationship without being friends? When you are friends you could be you without the mask of being perfect or do you think you will going to keep the mask on when you’ll become bf or husband? Explain to me how are you going to keep being someone who are not you when things get serious🤪
I asked her out on a date, she said she was sick the day before, she took meds for it. I said text me in tbe morning if you're still not feeling well so we can cancel it. Next day i went to our date, no txt or anything not until like 10 mins before our actual meeting time saying she's still sick. Basically got ghosted for the rest of the day. She knew I was there too, didnt say sorry or anything. 😂💀 Gents if she does this and she doesnt suggest a reschedule she aint interested.
Girl I went out with a couple times tried to friend zone me. I know this because she answered one of my texts ‘hey friend’, when I suggested getting together. Told her I didn’t want to be just friends but she reiterated that in her final response. A few weeks later we are now in middle of virus, I just texted to see how she’s doing, no more no less. No response, and that was three weeks ago. I assume I should just move on? Or is there any clever line I can use to try & stoke her interest, since we are not getting together anytime soon anyway with what’s going on.
To learn how to never get put in the friend-zone with a girl in the first place and always be seen as a potential lover or boyfriend, be sure to check out my online program HOOKED ► www.getherhooked.com.
A general rule of thumb I like to follow is - “if you are working hard or if you feel like you’re working hard on a single woman, chances are it won’t happen bc these things just flow naturally without anyone pushing the other person and there’s never any scope of stressing out. So just back off under these circumstances.”
Sort of what he says, take a step back from being the friend
Ishaan Khurana love you comment. The same applies to all walks of life
I suggest moving on. Be with someone that wants to be with you.
i agree, but i also agree to disagree, even though i intially agreed context wise i fundamentally disagree, but agree to it on a existential level, capiche?
@@BagofSands I'm confused by your statement. Why would I want to be with someone that does not want to be with me? I find it hard to see otherwise.
If you’re average looking, and she’s stunning, the only way out of the FZ is to subtly manipulate her perception of herself. She only believes she’s super hot because simps gas her up on social media all the time, but you just casually drop this atom bomb to change this. You say, ‘Most guys are desperate for sex and would f*ck anything that moves. Even fat, ugly girls get hundreds of likes on social media’. She’ll instantly start freaking out because she’ll be thinking - ‘If fat, ugly girls get hundreds of likes from losers, then maybe I’m not as attractive as I think’. Remember, too, why she has to wear makeup every day - because she feels ugly without it.
Alpha Draconii damn. That’s a humbling statement
@@michaelangel25 Lmfaooo
The only way out of the "friendzone" is to tell him/her "I'm not looking to be friends" then walking away going NO CONTACT on them and moving on with your life!
I found way by accident. We was flirting over text. And she said I'm not going to sleep i dont see you like that. I said well that is ok i went on date with girl from work and she spent night with last Saturday. Her view changed very quickly
By far,this is the very best well explained the friend zone crap ever.
I could’ve learned this 3 years ago when I was 17 and suffering with this but still great content!
Thanks Tripp. I got into the friend-zone with a girl, but I did not stay for a long time and quickly showed my masculine traits afterwards so she chased me back. There are a lot of girls out there and you just filter them for what you want.
You and the other professional dating coaches are like my family on UA-cam.
Masculine traits?
@@Trx21. he punished is his chest repeatedly, that’s also works for me all of the time
@@GoonRider19 punished or pushed his chest out repeatedly?
I'm breaking through the barriers and challenges in my way I'm going to have success with this girl.
Speak clearly that’s all
Yes sir I will not become a friend no way. I look at myself as a catch for a good woman !! Thanks my friend. I don’t need a woman as a friend
Thank you for your words, I think you're definitely right, once in the friendzone there's no much you can do about it, just leave and go on to the next girl, as hard as it sounds, it's the best choice. God bless you all.
Good advice my friend. I'm deep in the friend zone have not seen her in a few months. Now started over and being much more aware of how I interact with her. The good news is that I don't really care if she's not interested in dating me, so that's a good position to be in. Thanks man.
*When you're always in the friend zone, it's easy to get stuck in the nice guy trap. Taking the initiative to express your feelings openly can be uncomfortable, but it's the only way to see if there's potential for something more.*
see the rules you have set for your relationship (listening to her boyfriend problems, being her free ride, buying her drinks) and start breaking them. learn to say no to her. you have way too much comfort and zero tension, you need to show her you are willing to walk away.
Agreed. You are the prize. She isn't. If she friend zones you, just walk away. Your time is precious, and is reserved for things that are worthwhile, i.e. a relationship.
Lol, a few days ago i told a girl she is difficult for having me email a photo for school, because her computer didnt work
Her reaction was funny
@@breadstick4375 legend, my friend got asked out alot and he accepts. but a few minutes before the actual date he cancels it lmao. he wasn't even interested.
If she friendzones you put her in the sister zone. They HATE that because you are now her bro and no longer some backup guy incase the man she is really after rejects her. She will try everything to get out of the sister zone IF you had any chance to begin with.
I did that once with someone I wasn’t even interested in. She got big mad.
Okay, but how do i do that, how do i tell her that, how do i put her in the sister zone?
@@kristijan6527 just tell her one day, “you’re like a sister to me.” Make when you’re being all nice too.
@@gtcam723 i did that bro, but she said i love you like a brother, and thats when she didnt know i had feeling for her, after a month since i told her that i met up with her and told her that i love her and she said that she likes me like a brother, and i was heartbroken but it is what it is, its over , i cant do anything about it
@@kristijan6527 in that case you need to move on. The only way putting a woman in the friend/sister zone is to actually meant it and not in hopes of making her get jealous this way you actively date other women and it becomes real and authentic. She’ll sense that you really are not interested in her and then she’ll start to have an interest in you. And that’s when you choose where things go between you and her.
Tripp -- using confident tone of voice is very helpful when it comes to attracting a woman .
yeah
Yup, He demonstrates this well.
Good stuff man! The “blackout” period definitely works…if a woman thinks you’re chasing her, she loses interest quickly, so make HER work for your attention, and NEVER reward bad behavior 🤙
Can you believe it's been two years I've been watching all these videos for the same girl?
The problem is I never knew I would fall in love with her, so I saw her as a friend for the first 6 months, but I couldn't help once I felt I love her more than any other girl I ever knew. I wish our story has a happy ending
I can understand, keep getting better till her or other girls that you see similarly beautiful will chase you.
@@cristiancolzani5320 Nobody believes I'm learning a new language, I hit the gym, and I just started a new business! Blame it all on Love! Lol
If you understand one behavior of yours that is-you are not making her attracted to you on a scale of 1-10 sexually. If you can somehow make her feel the same way you feel of her. All a girl has got to do is look attractive, but we have to have a career, be confident, look good, socialize, have other gfs, so that it makes the attraction meter in her go up for you.
Not true, you can’t make anyone fall for you, the most likely scenario that happens is she finds someone to be with that she finds more attractive and chemistry with
Update?
This guy's awesome
He really is...
I got out of the Friend zone
I got out of the friendzoned myself by telling her that I'm out and wish her the best. She kept calling me so I blocked her.
Put them in your friend zone first, because having friends in general is good if shes a nice friend and if she eventually likes you it forces her to tip her hand
Hey English is my second language. What does that mean tip her hand?
Wojtek M have her make the move
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone"
(1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome".
(2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger.
Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty.
(3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone".
(4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
You're right. A guy puts himself in the friend- zone
That's often true. But sometimes he wasn't her "type" and he never really had a shot with her on a romantic level.
I need to hear that and yes remove myself from the friend zone
Interested Stat. 70% of serious relationships started out as friends. I think it's good to accept a friendship for a couple of months, grow as friends, and then walk away. This has worked best for me. Twice, they freaked out when suddenly the person who was supporting their ego leaves they feel an actual loss.
Did they come back for a relationship?
I actually did this 4 months ago. She will write me every once and a while and I keep it very short conversation. she used to like my stuff now I post she doesn't unless I post something that relays to us. She admitted to me she gets jealous when I put my focus on other girls. I walked away and it sucks but I was a second choice take my pride take my energy and focus on myself.
Dated, slept with, then friendzoned and still teased several times by a woman I really loved. She got annoyed that I was hanging out too close to her while she was hungrily making plays for other guys at a cookoff.
I got pissed and told her I was going to let her go and take care of myself for awhile.
She had a tantrum I've never seen and and told me we weren't friends anymore.
Haven't heard from her in a long time.
I had exactly the same experience. It was gut wrenching.
@@johnbrooke9948
The only guys who can get these girls, are guys who are so don't-give-a-shit that they never get gut-wrenched.
sounds like you dodged a bullet tbh
Yup I remember those types, your ALWAYS better off without them
Though it’s never successful, we still keep trying to overcome the friend zone. Heck I was married 10 years to a friend zone girl and trust me- no matter how much you want it to change, the dynamic never really does. They will never desire you. It’s only a matter of time before they can’t hide the lack of interest.
Wow... every video sounds like your talking my story♥️♥️♥️
I’m going to escape from the friend zone seriously
thanks for the great video
so, did you ?
Just move on man. It's not worth it. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
I am in that place and it is brutal. I have been in the friend zone for awhile. Only recently I have had deep feelings for this girl. Geez, I want to marry her tomorrow.
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone"
(1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome".
(2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger.
Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty.
(3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone".
(4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
Dude stop now. Tell her how you feel and you will feel 1000% better. Just did this if she stays good if she leaves good. Don't settle for what you don't want
Yeah you described what I do in the first 10 seconds as I do both. I have issues with making a move as well as try to do the "backdoor" thing to try and convince myself to make a move while trying to get to know her better which IF they are interested I end up just boring them and push them away. I still feel I should walk away from my current f@$& up since she's giving me f@$& off vibes.😢
first guy to not passively insult me for being nice to my friends whom i might have happend to develope feelings for
I’m escaping the friendzone! I dated her for bit and then she gave me the “let’s just be friends” speech and I said no (in a colorful way, got a bit uncentered) and to get ahold of me if she changes her mind. No contact since.
what's the update?
Update?
@@dp34576 forgot about her
@@swapnilbansal01 forgot about her
@@PizzaHomeSlice damn bro so she never reached back out to you at all?
Facts💯 Learned the hard way
I am escaping the friend zone! Thanks
Thank you so much for that awesome video
Short answer, make a move, if it's a no, move on.
Timing is crucial..............
@@f.dmcintyre4666 Indeed.
Guys, if you started out really attracted to each other, but you flubbed up.....and are now are in the friend-zone, you can go back. Just bring it. Go get her....he's right. After no contact.
Or much better move on and find someone else
There are hundreds of millions of women out there why limit your options like a desperate loser
Do you have experience with this?
Basically leave and be okay with what happens after
"You are in the friend-zone because you put yourself there". Not necessarily true. You can do your move and the girl just put you there. Doesn't matter if it is because of low attraction, because she is just after a long relationship and not open for any adventure yet or whatever. You can go and start to talk to her, you can have a date, make a move and she put you there anyway. She wants to be just a friend. It happens. Then you must move on and put attention to someone else. But why not to be a friend with her? It still can be useful to have female friends! Remember, girls like men with a lot of girls around. The only problem is if you are stuck in the friend-zone with the first woman and suffer. You can be in the friend-zone with some girls. But you must also go and get what you want. There are plenty of beautiful women. And it is easier to get them when you have female friends...
I’m escaping the friendzone!
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone"
(1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome".
(2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger.
Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty.
(3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone".
(4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
It's you who make yourself in the friend-zone, so you have to take the risk to lost this girl as a friend. From the moment you trying to get out from it, you have to be ready that it's either you success or both of you become stranger.
My opinion, if you failed, please, don't be friends. Or if you don't mind someday she introduce her boyfriend to you or even invited you to her wedding and want you to stand there watching her kissing with another guy, that's pain.
Love the advice🙏🏻
This is bang on point.
I watching this for reason c: to get a chuckle out of what losers need to learn
I'm in the friend zone because she was married and I couldn't make a move on her for that reason. She's recently separated from her husband and I want to make her my woman, but I am stuck in the friend zone because that's the only place I could be for the last 12 plus years. Aye aye aye.
@@excelsior_4294 Yes, we work together and have known each other and been friends for over 12 years. I developed minor feelings for her years ago but knew she was married and was cool with it, but my feelings for her exploded within the last year once I found out that she was unhappy and wanted to leave her husband who was absent and most likely cheating on her. A few months ago, I told her that I want her and want to make her my woman and have made my intentions known, now that she is "available." I probably should have waited longer, but I thought she may feel the same way, because we had grown much closer and formed a stronger emotional connection. She thinks of me as her BFF though.
One of the bigger ways guys also get into the friend zone is hanging out with women who already are seeing someone hoping they will get a crack if they break up. It does not work as the more time you spend with her or in her circle where you are not getting her, the attraction window closes for her and you really cannot get that back no matter how confident or whatever you are. Time spent with a girl where you are not doing romantic things is a total 100% killer. You best bet is if a girl is seeing someone, you do not text or hang out with her, even if she works with you. You need that attraction window open if she does break up with him. With social media and social sites, it is much easier now to know if she is single again. Don't hang around.
Your best bet to being a friend is disappearing and stop hanging out with her. Get in shape, live your life and meet new women. If you run into her again a year from now and is single, you will not have the friend baggage of being her "friend" to overcome and start from scratch. Then you can build attraction and open that window when she will feel it.
Needed to hear this. Ty
If she’s not interested, then she’s not interested. Maybe she has some attachment issues or emotional unavailability, whichever it is, it’s not something you should want to deal with. Move on and leave her to herself.
The problem is most guys only talk to one girl. There’s so many girls on my DMs, to the point I don’t even notice who doesn’t reply my message.
i did allow myself to be in the friend zone, she was going through a very difficult time and i befriended her to help her through it, and then i became attracted to her, then very quickly told her how i felt, and when it come to masculine qualities that was all i showed her,
Some girl told me be friends for now as she ended her relationship and got heart broken in January but shows interest and that
She's playing you
Quarantine has made it so much easier for me to escape the friend zone!
I know right? If you want to stop being her friend, just blame it on the quarantine.
Damn thanks for this concrete advice tripp!
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone"
(1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome".
(2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger.
Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty.
(3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone".
(4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
Got a date this friday and imma do this. LETS GO BOYS! ILL COME BACK AND REPORT!
I know it's late but update?
I'm supporting you by leaving this comment, hope you will enjoy the rest of your evening!
I met a women at a work event who is new to the job and spent most of the time talking with her. Asked her out on a date within half a day of her giving me her number. She instantly put myself in the friendzone because she wants to take a break from dating, I'm been given that excuse by many women who said they are taking a break at this moment of their life many times. I like her as its so easy to talk and I'm physically attracted to her but as said she only wants to friends. Been unsure if I should just try again or just simply say I don't want to be friends, kinda leaning towards the latter but unsure.
Leave it she’s not attracted to you.If she was she wouldn’t be giving you that bullshit reason.
Lol women never ever want to take a break from dating. That means she's with someone else, probably who's treating her like crap. Depends. If she is pouring her heart out to you about romantic issues, run a mile, she should be doing that with her female friends.
1. Determine if you're in the friend zone, if you can't tell just ask her straight up if she likes you
2. If you are in then determine if you can be just friends with this girl
3.a If you can be just friends then keep seeing her and do buddy activities only without going out of your way for her
3.b If you can't just be friend, sever all ties for a while. Stop texting, calling, inviting her to anything, respond with memes or short one liners if she contacts you (she probably just wants attention)
4. Move on to better women. There are thousands of women out there and you should keep searching for the one that will actually like you instead of devoting time, money and effort to someone that does not like you
5. Learn, step back and examine what you did wrong that got you in the friend zone and DO NOT do those things ever again
Nobody leaves the friend zone. It is so much effort that is literally useless. It's like Russia trying to regenerate Chernobyl now, is just not worth it when they can just move the people to a better place.
You are wrong about 3.b
Just move to 4 already
Don't cut ties with her and ignore her in order to get her attention
Just move on once you get rejected
Great video much appreciated!
Get out of the friend zone by unfriending her.
I'm escaping the friend zone
Get out of it by getting away from her!
At times it's best to leave some situations as it is.
Great advice Tripp
I was friends for 5 months. We watched a movie together. We used to text every night late. But when I told her she left. I've moved On, But I can't see or meet anyone else. Because she was in my apartment.
If you're in the friend zone, put her in the end zone.
just put her out of your misery and move on to find another girl .......but i can't do that :((((
Put her in the fark off zone! 😂😂
met this girl at work about five weeks ago. I just learned she's been in a two year relationship after I asked her out. She marked all the flirting requirements, but when I asked her out she said she really liked me and just wanted to stay friends. unfortunately I have to tell her Monday I chose the other option.
why are girls like this
Production faux pas: wearing a grey shirt against a grey backdrop.
Friend zone. NO EXIT
How about you talk to her and clearify your status and that's it? If she's just not interested in you for more than a friend, accept it and live with it. You can still be a friend what's wrong with that?
This hurts me so much
Does this count as a friend zone if she asked me out and I was confused as to why, so I said no because I thought it was a joke and then later on she got a boyfriend she said she was going to dump him the other day but didn’t and so I told her how I felt about her and she said that it made her cry because it was so cute and it’s been left at that. Is it a friend zone and also is there a way out of it?
I'm escaping the friend zone!
Great tips, I love it
Hey this is for guys ROFL.............................Bless..........
fuck it, I'm escaping that friendzone
Depends on what type of girl... If she likes you at start, then winner.
I’m moving out of the friend zone!
I am getting away from the friend zone with women.
If there is no initial attraction, you're fighting a losing battle. Take the L and move on. Even if you win by a default dry spell, you become non existent to someone they have animal lust for.
Well, at least the last object of my unrequited desire didn't cry on my shoulder about things. We never talked that much, and we were never that close. It's just that she has sweet qualities. And I quit suggesting we get together and hang out together a long time ago. When I used to kiss her on the mouth and she flashed me that cute smile of hers, it was nice while it lasted. I just got so frustrated after awhile. But there are so many scammers online.
I'm escaping the friends zone!
How
what if im trying to get INTO the friendzone? you know, for deeper purposes
Bag Sands Bag Sands BAD IDEA if you are attracted to this person. Watch more content about the friendzone. Deeper connection comes by NOT being in the friendzone. You are bullshitting yourself if you think that will work.
@@PizzaHomeSlice lol i don't date wtf do you? lmao
Bag Sands I guess if you don’t want to have sex with her and want to be her gay male girlfriend therapist gal pal then go for it.
@Red Pilled Cope.
Friendzone means she basically sees you as one of her girlfriends. be nice and a good listener. Pretty easy to get friendzoned
She didn’t reject me but she want to start off as a friend!
I know these techniques work so here's my problem, the girls I don't really like I find it easy to use these techniques on and I can see then becoming more attracted to me, the girls I actually do like, I start out with with this but then I get too nervous to escalate cause in the back of my mind I've got this "what if I mess it up" and so I'm ending up in the friend zone because of that. I just don't know how to get over that anxiety of messing up with the ones I actually like.
Thank you !!!
Was seeing this woman that ghosted me for five weeks
Returns on my Birthday of all days and say's Let's Just Be Friends
Simply never contacted her again after she left and she has never contacted me
that was five months ago lol
Just thought it was shady to tell me on my BIRTHDAY of all days that she doesn't like me
and it " Set in Stone " that she didn't like me
I ended up messing everything and ended up destroying 6 year friendship...
I managed to get it patched...but
We both lost the trust each other.....
You can get out of Friend Zone in two directions. The coveted one, and the opposite one.
I can understand what you say by moving on when you are in the friends zone but it is hard when you have nothing to move on to. I have been friends zoned five times it is soul destroying can somebody help. Is it the fact I am a widower I do not go on about it in fact I am fed up people feel sorry for me.
Well done
Me too I could’ve learned this 1 year ago
we are in the same friend circle and are very close friends but she said she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, what am i supposed to do now?
I really like this girl we have know each other for 7 months I want to be more than friends with her but every time I ask her can we be more than friends she says no and I am not giving up on her I will do anything for her
Try to be whit more girls talk to them it will make her crazy
Some girls just wont like you like that. If you keep asking shes just going to be more certain of her previous answers which is no. You're awesome man God bless.
Here are a few "options" for escaping the "friend zone"
(1) Get yourself a "hobby" such as taking flying lessons, martial arts, or oceanography, if you reside near the ocean. Once she sees how passionate you are about your new interests, than she may want you to transfer some of that "passion" on to her. Psychologists refer to this as the "Transference Syndrome".
(2) Wait a few years until she is over 30 yrs old, has 5 kids, gained 90 pounds, and working at Walmart, trying to feed her family on $14.00, eating Hamburger Helper, without the hamburger.
Then, she will fall madly in love with you, because you will be the only thing standing between her and future poverty.
(3) You might have to find a new woman to involve yourself with. Most American women, by first impressions, decide very quickly, if a certain guy "turns them on." or not. If there is no initial attraction, then you are, typically, consigned to the "friend zone".
(4) You might have to leave the US and start dating women from other cultures. In a lot of foreign countries, a guy does not have to be tall, good looking, or even wealthy. In a lot of European nations, if a guy has good manners, good hygiene, and has a sense of humor, hot babes will want to date him.
do not give attention or do favors for girls who rejected you. guy asks girl out... she says no... but 2 weeks later she asks him to help her shift her stuff... guy should say no. no explanation , just say no. no chatting like he is one of her girl friends. no hanging out as friends no paying for her not even a cup of coffee...agree to do stuff you really enjoy and even then no paying for her at all.
I’ll try to escape the friendzone ill update
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Hi Tripp, the woman I want a relationship with says I'm her best friend. We've not got physical or intimate, which I know have got myself in the friendzone as my own doing. I've even tried 'is she ready to be kiss' tests on her and its green light, but I've not gone for it to seal the deal. Yes, I know is the only way to know. We are planning to live in a campervan late this year for the longterm off grid. She often say I'm the only one she trust and want us to start a life together. I'm not being used, as she's the one buying the campervan. I would be grateful for any advice on this topic or made a video from this matter.
Andrew, UK
I know it has been 5 months since but i advice you to get another woman and forget your friend completely
so its been yearr , what happened ?
You are being used. Everything concrete you said, like starting a life together, buying a campervan, is in the future at the time you wrote, so not real or concrete. If she wanted to start a life together with you she'd already have done that at the start of writing. Ghost her and never ever be tempted to tell her why as she will try to take revenge out of spite.
@@simonh6371What are some ways she could take revenge?
I AM ESCAPING THE FRIEND ZONE.
Update?
I asked her out and she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship and that she only see us being friends, what was my mistake. I think its because i didn't make my intentions known from the start.
@Reemo Williams Well I have stopped messaging her and giving her attention but before i asked her out she invited me to a party that she is having on the 18th so i am hoping i am still invited as we are "good friends"
@@kill_to_revive3747
If you attended the party that she invited you to
Then you are a loser
(Continued from the text below). Should I just tell her something like “I guess your just not that into me … so I’m going to stop bothering you” ?
So what if you go from being in a relationship but then they put you in the frined zone
You move on to another woman
No need to waste your time
How can you build a relationship without being friends? When you are friends you could be you without the mask of being perfect or do you think you will going to keep the mask on when you’ll become bf or husband? Explain to me how are you going to keep being someone who are not you when things get serious🤪
I asked her out on a date, she said she was sick the day before, she took meds for it. I said text me in tbe morning if you're still not feeling well so we can cancel it. Next day i went to our date, no txt or anything not until like 10 mins before our actual meeting time saying she's still sick. Basically got ghosted for the rest of the day. She knew I was there too, didnt say sorry or anything. 😂💀
Gents if she does this and she doesnt suggest a reschedule she aint interested.
Or maybe she was just sick and you can reschedule with her another day
I'm ESCAPING THE FRIEND ZONE!!
Girl I went out with a couple times tried to friend zone me. I know this because she answered one of my texts ‘hey friend’, when I suggested getting together. Told her I didn’t want to be just friends but she reiterated that in her final response. A few weeks later we are now in middle of virus, I just texted to see how she’s doing, no more no less. No response, and that was three weeks ago. I assume I should just move on? Or is there any clever line I can use to try & stoke her interest, since we are not getting together anytime soon anyway with what’s going on.
Move on
you shouldve left her on delivered when she said hey friend
Move on, don't look back...............Bless............