What do you do if you've been dating exclusively for 2mo then his consistency changes? He communicated way more the first month of dating and now it's nearly non existent. I asked him what his expectations were with us so that I'd know how to manage my own expectations. He said he he just wants to keep things the way they are and see how they go, but with the lack of consistency I'm feeling anxious like he wants to pull away and just doesn't want to tell me he's disinterested.
Do some research on the avoidant attachment Style I just ended things with someone after 3 months because it was kind of going the same route that yours seems to be going
By own experience the lack of expectation on his part its because its comfortable as it is. Whats on you is to figure out what YOU want out of the relationship, comunicate and if things dont align just go your way to find someone who wants the same things as you do. But if you keep the relantionship as it is, it will get worse, because the sensation of anxiety for the lack of security will eat you up. I dont mean to desincourage, I hope you two align. Just be sure of what you want and your own intrinsic value, you deserve the things you want, and no, your not asking too much out of somebody, its just the wrong person.
Sounds like yall are not aligned on what you want if he wants to stay where it’s at and your needs don’t seem to be met :/ instead of asking him what he wants maybe we can see what YOU want as well babes
@@lgunton4108it could be avoidant but I’d also suggest we try to avoid diagnosing them and instead focus on what’s coming up for us and how we’re feeling! My partner had avoidant tendencies and it can be tough at times but some folks are just overall emotionally unavailable and that’s on them. They can heal through that when ready. Proud of you for moving on from what’s not serving you ❤
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Can you please put out the 3 to 6 month dating? I need the help.
Coming out a week from tomorrow!
What do you do if you've been dating exclusively for 2mo then his consistency changes? He communicated way more the first month of dating and now it's nearly non existent. I asked him what his expectations were with us so that I'd know how to manage my own expectations. He said he he just wants to keep things the way they are and see how they go, but with the lack of consistency I'm feeling anxious like he wants to pull away and just doesn't want to tell me he's disinterested.
Do some research on the avoidant attachment Style I just ended things with someone after 3 months because it was kind of going the same route that yours seems to be going
By own experience the lack of expectation on his part its because its comfortable as it is. Whats on you is to figure out what YOU want out of the relationship, comunicate and if things dont align just go your way to find someone who wants the same things as you do. But if you keep the relantionship as it is, it will get worse, because the sensation of anxiety for the lack of security will eat you up. I dont mean to desincourage, I hope you two align. Just be sure of what you want and your own intrinsic value, you deserve the things you want, and no, your not asking too much out of somebody, its just the wrong person.
Sounds like yall are not aligned on what you want if he wants to stay where it’s at and your needs don’t seem to be met :/ instead of asking him what he wants maybe we can see what YOU want as well babes
@@lgunton4108it could be avoidant but I’d also suggest we try to avoid diagnosing them and instead focus on what’s coming up for us and how we’re feeling! My partner had avoidant tendencies and it can be tough at times but some folks are just overall emotionally unavailable and that’s on them. They can heal through that when ready. Proud of you for moving on from what’s not serving you ❤
You talk so fast! Sometimes I need to slow your video down, to be able to understand what you say.
That’s the beauty of being able to do so, for some I speak to slow, feel free to adjust how you need but my speed is my speed as a New Yorker.
@Sabrina_zohar I think it is probably that 😅 I love your shows! 🤗😘
@@jamirohertjeyou can take the girl out of NY…😂 thanks for being part of the family!