TUA # 14 - The 4 Relationship Archetypes of Modern Men
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- Опубліковано 20 лип 2024
- In this cast we'll examine the 4 main types of relationships modern men engage in today, and how they differ from one another. Subscribe to my UA-cam channel, and hit 'set reminder' to watch live.
00:00 - Intro
06:04 - Plugged in Beta
16:30 - Unplugged Beta
20:43 - Plugged in Alpha
25: 40 - Unplugged Alpha
32:43 - Q&A - Superchats
34:50 - Live Call-In
42:12 - Q&A - Superchats
45:37 - Live Call-Ins
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Hey Rich, I had read your book so didn't signup to your mailing list before. I just did and not sure how to get access to the previous emails (especially the one documentary you were talking about).
@@ssdahiy Did you find the documentary? Please share if you did, thanks!
ithink alot of this make sence, but i must say a few things. 1 chads mostly are given thir status by looks in life and that empower thir actions vs the other males mostly bc how women view and value them for sex esp in the teens and 20´s , but Alpha takes his status or incert confidence or dominance in body and words + actions to make sure he on top regardles of looks and there a big diffrence on abusing your strenth or size whit voilence vs naturaly giving out the vibe by just looking on another man that , if u step over my head ill do anything in my power to take u down (and most men are all bark and no game come crunchtime and im not taking about voilence or killing someone) , even loosing a fight can be alpha if it had to come to that, and real alphas know s this and respect that alot, i do tho thing it works better if your normal looking as ppl will not take u serius if u look like shite, i see alot focus on $ as a Alpha top parameter too, whit thats true to some extent as a provider, most the list on your top alpha sound s like a nerd that figured out the system. hows that alpha? sound more like you taking back your man hood, and there nothing wrong whit having a strong manhood and understanding your worth only and not Alpha, like just take the bezos vs de caprio, decaprio never had to do anything he had looks, so ppl empowerd him whit him doing nothing from like 15 years old hes a megastar just off looks, he a good actor but like u see his worth in roles he plays and give him attributes/traits off those role, i bet you hes nothing like that in real life if u met him unmasked alone, but is that a alpha skill??? then take bezos clearly a book worm that was selling books online and hacket the system somehow by a great brain or had a helping hand to create amazon, clearly not a Alpha but have most your top traits. U know that Alpha means top dog and not best performer right? you can be Alpha in your naborhood or cirkel of freinds or workplace, or w/e u dont need to be super rich to a top alpha male, period - u know Alpha alsow defend your nearest right, like take most the guys u See as Alphas from your list if a real man step to them from some words or boundries they cross as they feel alpha - they piss thir pants and ask you how much u want to squash it - even if its a no bite all bark kinda man they still back down of pure instinct as that cant be tought, and im not saying do or die stuff just regular man to man stuff, thats how u know a beta trait, (again i dont see voilance as alpha but ull have alot of strong men, that cant get off the floor or have issues, so they lll use voilence to get what they want or want to make reality, as like u said most men are betas.)., so while beeing strong and ready to defend yourself or other no mater the size of the guy not the only the top Alpha trait, but damn its not on your list, wheres beeing a good father worth of looking up to and dont make yourself and the ones that trust u Look badddd if theres no real big reason for it, not on your list either. if you cant at minimum do that imo your Beta playing games. btw this not made from the body of your work, i only ever watche 1 or 2 videos, but im adressing this video.
Hey I think you should format this differently so the "no" and the "bullshit" line up on the same line. I often read short passages backwards first to reach the main points faster and out of habit, and when I read it I thought the title of your book was "Bullshit Guide to Winning With Women and Life". Just a thought I don't know what it looks like on other devices so maybe it doesn't matter.
I enjoy hearing your point of view thanks
And the first idea or perception of something sticks more than anything else
At 26 years of age, I appreciate this content and community hands down
Discovered Rich aged 20, 21 now and already my life is in a better place
I wish I would discover this content in your age I'm 32 and start 31.
@@nazwakontaa1 wait what??
My dad is and was a unplugged beta. Always doting over my step mom.
Always the nicer guy.
Always got stepped on.
I didn’t immediately learn from his mistakes until I was in my mid 20’s
You at least learned from this. Be grateful for that.
A guy in his mid twenties still has many more years ahead. Be grateful that you have cheat codes so early in your life.
Good for you man, working on this type of situation myself, in my mid 20s working thru it
Even though I feel I am an unplugged beta, today I am currently doing the work, I started hitting the gym and confidence went up, I started talking to other girls and the thing is working, I feel a bit more free than before; it's working slowly, but it's working and I needed this.
Keep doing what you doing man.
@@mix0nix thanks dude, I will
Check out Todd Valentine. A combination of that channel and this is like an education to being the best man you are in every sense important to man / woman dynamics.
@@danielsosa5145 thanks, bro, I will
Rich you tell truth bombs like meant to be.
Truth is uncomfortable and a man cannot level up in life unless he faces his fears and gain control over every aspect of his life.
You are a great mentor Sir 💪🏼❤️🙏🏼
@@hairydude1950 UA-cam grifters? Rich is a UA-cam grifter?
Control? We have Control of nothing
..but we can choose direction at some level.
Takeaway point: Anger is the lock on the door leading from unplugged beta to unplugged alpha. You need to learn to lockpick your own mind and ego. Once the lock is removed, you do the work to open the door and move through it.
anger usually has 2 sourcess. 1 you feel entitled, or the victim. 2. You feel powerless.
I felt bad for that Hermit call in. He was obviously very insecure, but couldn't admit it. Good to see him at least researching.
I’m very happily married to a “natural Chad” for over 20 years now. I agree with so much Rich has to say. Heads up guys: as you eliminate the losers (when in a LTR), this might have to involve couple friends and her friends groups as well, which she will not like! Speaking from personal experience, when my husband has helped me eliminate the losers, I have felt like I’m being cut off from humanity (yes, an exaggeration). My hubby has kindly had talks with me about why he/we are cutting out certain people from our lives. It’s challenging as a woman, to disconnect from people, it feels mean. Disconnecting is not a natural characteristic of a caring woman. I understand the reasoning and follow his lead. I think it’s particularly challenging for women, though. I hope that heads helps someone!
That’s why vvomen should never be in positions of authority
Lets go Brandon
Go where?
After reading yours and Rollo's books, this vid hits like a ton of bricks. This struck me as serious cold hard painful truth, and shows me I've only begun the journey. I like to think I have some traits in the UPB and PIA quadrants, but I know I have a lot of work ahead to reach the pinnacle. This was both illuminating and actually painful to watch. You Sir, are changing lives, and I thank you.
This is what I needed to keep from making the wrong decisions.
To the TeslaGuy: you're dating a 35 y/o chick who keeps introducing problems into your life. Stop wasting your time and find one that makes your life better instead. You're in HER frame now and frame is everything.
He needs to unplug.
The lecture in the beginning was excellent. You are doing incredible work and and are making an incredible dent in the universe.
Thank you Rich! I hope I could catch you live soon.
Outstanding! Thank you. Checking myself. 💪🏿
I will be watching with my sons this weekend. 💪🏿
production on point. enjoying the content, thanks bruv
Real Rich should be the name of the podcast cause he’s empathetic to a certain degree regarding red pill but holds the frame!
I agree with the categories although there is a great article out there showing how 20% of men are sleeping with 70% of women and the top 10% are sleeping with 50%, so I would say the ratios are more like:
Unplugged Alpha - 10%
Plugged In Alpha - 10%
Plugged in Beta - 70%
Unplugged Beta - 10%
Lmao this is ridiculous. You're never going to get anywhere thinking like this.
Rich, I am a long time subscriber of your channel but I think it's my first comment. Excellent stuff here, really top notch. Thank you for your work brother.
your channel is amazing thank you so much, I needed to hear this when I was 15, every man does
I'm happy I got red pilled at 22 years old never really did anything with that info but now at 25 I realise my real work is just starting. Good thing is I know what I need traits I need to change or cut out of my life and how I need to change what I tolerate from others
I watched this whole show while working on my touch typing speed 👍
I was the Alpha that widowed her a long time ago.
In the meantime she married another guy.
4 years into that marriage she starts an affair with me and divorces him.
After being in an LTR with her for 7 years, she begs me to marry her and I give in.
We've been married 8 years now and have 2 kids.
4 months ago she says, she "loves me but she's not IN LOVE with me "
She's into TAROT cards, Astrology and Crystals now.
Be very careful fellas. Very careful.
"She starts and affair with me" - all her fault...I wouldn't destroy someone's marriage for a woman. Or else you have oneitis. I guess the karma works there. Alpha doesn't necessarily mean f around with married women.. some other alpha will f yours..
@@koroglurustem1722live by the sword die by the sword
Thanks for the content rich this is valuable knowledge to have in my mid 20's. After learning a lot from you it's absolutely nuts observing just how many men as much as 2 decades older than me are plugged in beta's.
Another solid cast from Bomber Command - full Lancaster or maybe Vulcan!
Great show Rich! 👍
The US military guy at 1:02 was interesting, very obviously a smart thoughtful guy, could have guessed early he was an engineer.
Very helpful chart.
Thank you.
This channel is the beginning of your education. For just about everyone.
The quadrant you explained is a brilliant breakdown
This is the only self improvement video anyone needs to watch.
the guy at the end, spencer, is so funny and animated hahahahaha
Incredible info
I get the feeling Rich would classify better bachelor as an unplugged beta
Is that dude still around?
@@kindredspiritzz66 he's mostly migrating to the locals platform but he posts on UA-cam plenty still
I really like the better bachelor but yes he is a bit beta ….he’s kinda black pilled with chicks because he doesn’t have alpha ness to him.Still a very cool and smart guy.
great vid
Thanks!
You can be on your purpose in the military. You have one shot at most opportunities but within your career field you can make opportunities. Don't make it about promotions, make it about experiences. That young man is an EE, he can write his own ticket on the outside.
Rich you are a great help to young men before they go to ruin ✌✌
I miss this kind of content… I hope Rich recalibrates. This is great stuff.
Your preaching to the younger me, being a natural problem solver and taking care of yourself should come naturally frs, lets do better gentlemen
That Roller angel is high af! 34:50
My dad is and was an unplugged alpha. I’m 36 and he’s 57. He definitely made a conscious effort to ensure I grew into the type of man he is and not what they called a “sissy boy” 😂 He kept the family in his frame through fear, which worked on me and I can say it’s what I needed and I was always a well behaved kid if he was around or if an adult mentioned they would tell him I was acting out. My mom and 2 sisters did NOT appreciate being in his frame full of fear and to this day they still do not talk to him.
He lives with me now. The entire rest of the family don’t even like when his name is mentioned and have routinely tried to punish me for reminding them of him, which earned them a tongue lashing. To this day my dad will still try to keep me in line with fear and I give him a little laugh and remind him that doesn’t work on me anymore and he can try, maybe he will be able to slaughter me but I’m not in the least bit scared of death either so what could he possibly do to me?
Thank you for the insights, Rich! I'm trying to improve and learning from you along the way. Here's my experience and I would like to hear your opinion on this: those few pure postcard unplugged alfa guys that I've met and known were definitely narcissists and thus unsuited for any type of relationship outside of a 3 minute chat at social events or an occasional business transaction, at the most
Will Smith is a great example of a plugged in Alpha
Cooper is the real unpugged Alpha big Time!
32, appreciated logic. ty. 🇨🇦
I’m so far from being any resemblance of a category of Alpha - God that pain of knowing that’s truly heart breaking.
Oh it's okay. Just get rack up a good notch count, get married and go through the emotional turmoil of your first divorce, rebound physically with hookers and randoms, rebound emotionally with a BPD single mom, find yourself and start SLAYING singles.... and then get drunk and accidentally knock one of them up, become a father to a beautiful daughter with a complete stranger (DNA test mandatory) whilst using your newfound red pill education to maintain frame the entire time... and create your very own dysfunctional family unit!
Just like me!
Once you've done that, you'll be born again invincible. Very confused and conflicted about your role as a father.... but emotionally invincible!
Do the work lololol
I think I have staggered out of the unplugged beta zone. It’s fucking hard, 60 - 80 hours a week in sales and at least an hour in the gym a night. I don’t even have time to worry about women or their shit and it feels great. I barely have time for this video, focus on yourself guys. Fuckem
So you don't have sex?
please share the PDF you are showing here, so we can download it to keep it handy
I love how guys veggie getting off with Rich, "I think you're right".... he is right. He's been there and you are asking him. He is fucking right!
This was interesting
I think alot of men would benefit from finding out about the other male archetypes other than just calling everybody alpha or beta, not everybody is a natural alpha and they still crush as long as they unplug and build.
I'm afraid I might fall under the Unplugged Beta category. I better get to work
This is really great content. Highly appreciated. Why would unplugged Betas be bottom 10 % but plugged in Betas be 80 % bottom? Especially since the unplugged Betas are "the smartest guy in the room"? Should not the plugged in Betas be the top 10 % of the unplugged Betas?
Hey Richard
Did you tested the X3 BAR and the résistance bands that you got from Last vidéo?
How is it doing soo far
Unplugged Alpha example: Anwar Sadat
What’s the documentary Rich mentions?
He mentioned reading something of the state of affairs in the world after COVID how do I find that
16:40 ♪Highway to the _danger zone!♪ xD
TeslaGuy caller was SO funny
Hey guys, I subscribed to the email list, but still can’t find the documentary on the beerbug on his website or anywhere else. Where can I find it?
Hey brother thank you
New sub here
Listened to your older episodes on Spotify
Okay it's nice to have the center of attention once in awhile; but I get extremely uncomfortable being the smartest guy all the time. If I'm not learning something from somebody else I have a great urgency to go do something else. As soon as I get bored I can't help myself but to go find something new to learn.
A Tesla coil makes an excellent fly swatter
48:20 Transformation comes from within...
Hey Rich, can you be an unplugged beta with alpha tendencies?
Anyone have a link to the documentary he referred to?
You should have in Spotify
Sounds like Tesla wants to save her alcoholic gf. Bolt out man
Two red flags EVERYBODY should stay away from
1) A person who never smiles (cannot find joy in life)
2) A person who cannot or wiil not talk about love ( sees people as objects to gain or lose)
@@hairydude1950 63 yr old woman. You are confusing love and sex. Love comes from your heart. This man monetises everything. Be bigger than that.
Jack Sprat. This is the best advice you will ever get. At the moment you die imagine what memories you want to flash before you of your life. Now go out and create those memories. It is a very simply method for achieving what you really want to achieve in this life. Don't look at men or woman as commodities. People are real. Treat them that way.
@@hairydude1950 I can see you are lost for words though. Enjoy your life Jack Sprat! I have enjoyed our chat.
@@hairydude1950 You are very funny. And obviously very successful in certain ways. But why you on this site if you are so fulfilled? This site for men who are lost. And I get they need guidance. Who doesn't. But there is just no love in this guy. It's hard to watch his lack lustre videos on how to get as many woman as you can and not get screwed over financially. I think someone really hurt him. And he thinks that by turning off his love for humanity he will win. Win what? 20 chick's to screw? There's other things to achieve.
@@hairydude1950 Yes I probably am. But I like Curlys idea in City Slickers. If you can find that 1 thing you're passionate about and pursue it with a view to fulfilling your goals, you'll meet other like minded people. Men and woman. And probably even meet the right person for you. Another awsome piece of advice from Joeliza. Only ever get into a relationship with someone who makes you laugh.
I am finding that Grant Cardone is a plugged alpha.
Is the Anti-Fragile book you mentioned by Nassim Nicholas Taleb?
yes
1:42:21 damn 😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥
There is somethinf between plugged Alpha and Unplugged alpha, I am 100% sure of that.
Like with big gov vs small, there is a happy medium there. It's not all black and white, this has nothing to do with women, but what you value in life and to be honest with ones self.
example: 1. be the smartest in the room: there is some satisfaction in passing knowlage and helping someone out.
2. Mental point of origin: in extremes is narcissm, the opposite is shyness,shame.
What has worked for millions of years, and been part of the design of our dna, cannot be abstracted out of men to take pleasure in things/money/achivments, there has to be a balance. Meaning the chase/scoreing is a deep desire, everything in your body tells you that.
Unplugged check ✅
Alpha after moving to Argentina check ✅
Spencer is the type of dude that steals your kill under your nose lol
Do a meet up in Ontario man.
stop shitting on video games you know your boy Rian Stone has that Minecraft channel 😂
I'm 55 and still play a ton of video games.
Rich:
Must admit that those highly successful are frequently in the “A” hole category and that was reflected in the general officer ranks in the army. I retired as a lieutenant colonel, however, I didn’t display the necessary ruthless qualities for general rank and also, I ran out of time because of a seven year break in service. I must be an example of an Alpha ,as I was unmarried during most of my life and have had more quality women in my life than anyone deserves. I attribute my good fortune to having been a military aviator, US government pilot, police officer, federal special agent, emergency medical technician, ski patrolman, mountain rescue officer, FBI agent, police scuba diver and probably a couple more. Additionally, owned my own home with a pool in Las Vegas, a 35ft sailboat, a single engine aircraft, and over time, four Porsches, six Corvettes, and five BMWs
Chicks love auntie fragile. So my wife used to get pissed off because I said I could live without her. I made it clear to her that I would like her in my life but I don't need her in my life. This pisses her off more than anything else. However if I were to play the pity trip she would freak out with disgust. Lately I've been making it clear to her that I put out a lot of effort to make her life comfortable, but the return I received from her is very minimal. This makes her feel rather low. The next move is to reverse it and move on to I don't give a f*** I'm going to do me and you can tag along if you want to. You have to keep them guessing. Make them feel wanted but not a necessity. The harder is for them to figure out you out, the harder they try.
What’s the documentary
I catch bugs or bees in a cup and throw them out of the window (flies I usually kill), while my wife screams: "Kill it! Kill it!" So, it's relative :)
I think it's about not changing your intention because of external opinion or validation.
If you were to trying to capture a spider to put outside and someone said why don't you kill it? And you killed it because of that. It's the same thing.
Hit the Likes
OK. Like me.
Here is something I never see discussed in these videos or comment section. Sex! You think you all are just natural at it? 😆
There’s my inspiration. Rich Cooper. Got your book, you’re changing the way I think (fuck the women chasing), I’m more interested in your business and life improvement content but just enjoy your company of videos at work. My brother has seen changes in me just after 2 weeks.
He has shaped a fake jawline out of a beard. What an inspiration.
@@hairydude1950 L
@@hairydude1950 Nope :)
@@hairydude1950 What education should I get?
Is there something wrong with my UA-cam app? How come it doesn’t show Richards subscriber count anywhere …?
Same here. 🤔
Rich may have turned it off…
But why would he ? 🤔
He said he turned it off in one of his video
Just go to social blade, this channel is slightly under 250k subscribers
It's either off the scale huge or has fallen to zero.
Just f.y.i Rich Cooper, I wanted to let you know that there are 16 types of birds that mate for life. I know in your book you tried to mention only one bird that mates for life, and that primates don't normally mate for life, so I just wanted to mention this.
Chimpanzees usually have one mate. Rich is looking at bonobo mating structures. He always fits thee mold to his liking. There are several other species of animals that do indeed mate and stay with one female. They do so to ensure safety of their family, tribe, or pod. Orcas are another example.
Since we are on the subject of animal planet, did you know this alpha beta stuff that was supposedly based on wolf pack mentality is incorrect. In its natural habitat, each Wolfpack has two alphas, male and female, while the rest of the Wolfpack are betas, thier kids. Wolfpacks are families.
I think I am an unplugged beta
Welp I've been an unplugged beta for too long.
What's your advice for single dads busy with custody of their young child?
Be very strict and structured about your time. Plan ahead as much as you can and know everything you're going to do the next day before the end of the night.
So it's "In the flow" - "Out of the flow" - "Is the flow".
1:10:00
'Plugged in Alpha ' spelled: W-I-L-L S-M-I-T-H.
Anyone else remove their hot wheels collection off the wall after this video? 😂
The political angle is very specifically American/North American IMO. In many developed countries there is a concensus around a larger role for government and its not controversial. I don't see this as being a universal element in Beta vs Alpha distinctions for this reason.
I really identify with the girlfriend not showing anything on instagram. However - does it matter if she hardly ever posts anything on instagram (even going back years)?
Brad Pitt is a plugged in Alpha
I would say these types are "control" alphas. They are controlled by the Epstein types with some kind of blackmail to keep the in place. Like most big CEOs.
My dad and I’ve heard other men say it as well, “let me ask the boss”….. since when are women the boss
If the unplugged beta chooses to go forward there is only one way he can go - unplugged alpha. Choose to go forward.