I have a remarkably similar story too. Up until I was 35, I had a poor self-image of myself, and it affected my 'game'. I was closer to straight at that point and dated 4 girls and never did anything too sexual with them. After I started dating the 5th (my now-wife) it built up my confidence and I started getting advances (mostly by guys - asking if I was in an open/poly relationship). Oh - and I think little things like sexy underwear and shirts kind of help boost up my confidence and helped with my body dysmorphia. Good luck stud💙 you will find the right one
Never seen a straight person say they wish they were gay. Definitely a first for me. You’ve got a great personality and I definitely think there’ll be someone out there for you 😊
I know your feeling. I did want to be non romantic/mature for about 13 years of my adult life. I did started to grow and gradually feel comfortable when I joined the fandom but I need my black shiny suit just to feel protected. Right now, I'm gray-ace which I have to pick someone in a certain group. Do what it makes you feel right for you.
Thank you for being open about this. I've been feeling the same way recently, too. Throughout my twenties I didn't feel attractive nor that I deserved to be with people I was attracted to, like I was too ashamed to open up with someone sexually. I'm very obese (5'10" and 360 lbs) and I've been obese for the majority of my life, and I've bought into this idea that my body was not attractive enough for people. That's not the case with the furry fandom, though. I've actually sext'd with a few people I met via the fandom (nothing physical yet), and my body was never a turn off. Speaking as another virgin in his 30's, I think the major difference between me now and me in my twenties is that I am more aware of who I am. When you have more life experiences and perspectives under you belt, you start to care less of what others think about you. Just being honest with yourself makes it easier to be confident, and confidence (especially if you can back it up) is sexy.
That’s really interesting I haven’t had any girls come up to me and say your handsome/hot I mean I’ve been called handsome by family members all my life then again I do find females pretty attractive yet I don’t have a strong desire to go out in public and try to get a date or online but I think that some new subscribers maybe saw you for the first time recently and said oh he looks like a sweetheart he would make my life complete as my mate
Sometimes confidence is what’s key! It’s an adage but it’s one for a reason. If you start to worry less about getting those experiences, they tend to find you. Thats how I always treated relationships and it’s taken a looot of pressure off.
From our conversations to now I would say that you have changed, naturally developing your own inner confidence. I knew that this your journey and that this is something you would develop for yourself. You have lifted your phantom curse and this is not just a run of good luck. People like you, the real you.
You and I are alike I feel as that when I was in high school in my teens, I been metaphorically reeling in empty hooks. Like you know how sometimes when you get a bite and when you reeled the fish in, it got away and avoids you. That is like what me relationships with girls are like. They want to be my friend and they gave this romantic vibe that suggested they are into me. But when I make the move, they treated me like I’m the creep. But now, I get friend request from randos and IDK if they like me for my fursuit and character or the person in it. And either way, it’s a 2 for 1 which is good on my behalf. And being the token straight guy on something that is LGBTQ related, I know what you mean.
I'm happy to hear about your boost in self confidence 😊 Being autistic I just can't wrap my head around the whole relationship thing. I just spend my days alone year after year I tried one time and she sheeted on me after getting a bunch of money. Then I tried it with a guy who also sheeted on me and run away with a bunch of money 😅 I really am stupid horse thinking they liked me
I think it might be that things are just going better and people are starting to notice you, i can also see that you’ve moved a bit on from your low self-confidence when it came to «attractiveness», so i suggest just to let things go as they do, it might work, maybe it won’t, but you wouldn’t know until you’ve tried Also this might have something to do with the twitter thing you posted a couple of days ago :p
This was interesting to hear. Personally,I'm a Bi guy in my twenties and regularly sexually active with males and females but I don't judge those who want to wait for the right person or moment to lose it. Life is yours to live guys!
@@RLFurryProductionsI mean,sorry if this is overstepping but I can talk about this in dm's elsewhere if you want? Sorry if this is overstepping but sometimes it helps to just have somebody outside your personal life listen to you issues
Thats so cool. I think that those whom you mentioned connected with you emotionally. But, if you consider yourself demi than youll have to connect with another emotionally as well. Dem sexuals are 2 people regardless of gender who has emotional connection with each other. This is what binds 2 people togather through other than romatic and / or sexual means. The truth is that i am asexual, and have others who connected with my emotions, but i had never done so with them. One day i will. Thats all i can leave you with. Hope to see you at BLFC 2023! Keep up the great job.
HMM People are always interested in me to but i am so married. I have channels to. I have a Yu tube channel and a tick tock channel and a facebook channel but i hardly go their and i think i have a instagram to but i am never their lol 😆 😅 😅. My late mom just like being by herself. If i ever lost my husband as i almost did one year. I dont know if i could or ever want to be serious with anyone ever again. Maybe just be a player lol. I have my son and i wouldn't want anyone hurting him emotionally or physically. But i will tell you i do like the way youre voice sounds. I like alot of guys voices though and i do get small crushes but they dont last to long lol 😆 😂 🤣 😅.
I don't know what you look like under the suit but you seem to be a guy with a lot going on. I would think people would be attracted you because you are passionate about what you do. I've always thought your voice was really nice haha
I haven’t had that happen to me yet, but of course I’m not really looking for a relationship right now. I’ve always kind of be cool with being single. Now don’t get me wrong, I do get a little down sometimes when I see others in happy relationships. I’m glad to hear your confidence has boosted.
This has got to be the most wholesome video I've ever seen
I have a remarkably similar story too. Up until I was 35, I had a poor self-image of myself, and it affected my 'game'. I was closer to straight at that point and dated 4 girls and never did anything too sexual with them. After I started dating the 5th (my now-wife) it built up my confidence and I started getting advances (mostly by guys - asking if I was in an open/poly relationship). Oh - and I think little things like sexy underwear and shirts kind of help boost up my confidence and helped with my body dysmorphia. Good luck stud💙 you will find the right one
Never seen a straight person say they wish they were gay. Definitely a first for me. You’ve got a great personality and I definitely think there’ll be someone out there for you 😊
No one shows interest in me in years i gave up i will live lonely the lone wolf in this crazy world forever 😢
I know your feeling. I did want to be non romantic/mature for about 13 years of my adult life. I did started to grow and gradually feel comfortable when I joined the fandom but I need my black shiny suit just to feel protected. Right now, I'm gray-ace which I have to pick someone in a certain group.
Do what it makes you feel right for you.
Thank you for being open about this. I've been feeling the same way recently, too. Throughout my twenties I didn't feel attractive nor that I deserved to be with people I was attracted to, like I was too ashamed to open up with someone sexually.
I'm very obese (5'10" and 360 lbs) and I've been obese for the majority of my life, and I've bought into this idea that my body was not attractive enough for people. That's not the case with the furry fandom, though. I've actually sext'd with a few people I met via the fandom (nothing physical yet), and my body was never a turn off.
Speaking as another virgin in his 30's, I think the major difference between me now and me in my twenties is that I am more aware of who I am. When you have more life experiences and perspectives under you belt, you start to care less of what others think about you. Just being honest with yourself makes it easier to be confident, and confidence (especially if you can back it up) is sexy.
That’s really interesting I haven’t had any girls come up to me and say your handsome/hot I mean I’ve been called handsome by family members all my life then again I do find females pretty attractive yet I don’t have a strong desire to go out in public and try to get a date or online but I think that some new subscribers maybe saw you for the first time recently and said oh he looks like a sweetheart he would make my life complete as my mate
Sometimes confidence is what’s key! It’s an adage but it’s one for a reason. If you start to worry less about getting those experiences, they tend to find you. Thats how I always treated relationships and it’s taken a looot of pressure off.
From our conversations to now I would say that you have changed, naturally developing your own inner confidence. I knew that this your journey and that this is something you would develop for yourself. You have lifted your phantom curse and this is not just a run of good luck. People like you, the real you.
You and I are alike I feel as that when I was in high school in my teens, I been metaphorically reeling in empty hooks. Like you know how sometimes when you get a bite and when you reeled the fish in, it got away and avoids you. That is like what me relationships with girls are like. They want to be my friend and they gave this romantic vibe that suggested they are into me. But when I make the move, they treated me like I’m the creep. But now, I get friend request from randos and IDK if they like me for my fursuit and character or the person in it. And either way, it’s a 2 for 1 which is good on my behalf. And being the token straight guy on something that is LGBTQ related, I know what you mean.
I always love you intros they are funny and make me smile it’s like the Simpson couch gag it’s different every time
I'm happy to hear about your boost in self confidence 😊
Being autistic I just can't wrap my head around the whole relationship thing. I just spend my days alone year after year
I tried one time and she sheeted on me after getting a bunch of money. Then I tried it with a guy who also sheeted on me and run away with a bunch of money 😅
I really am stupid horse thinking they liked me
I've noticed the more comfortable i got with myself the more often stuff like that happens.
I think it might be that things are just going better and people are starting to notice you, i can also see that you’ve moved a bit on from your low self-confidence when it came to «attractiveness», so i suggest just to let things go as they do, it might work, maybe it won’t, but you wouldn’t know until you’ve tried
Also this might have something to do with the twitter thing you posted a couple of days ago :p
Interesting video bro. Also as a bonus scene I could see both Ryv and Lerks havin a debate who’s cuter/handsomer lol. Also have a great day bro
That's a really good idea for a video!
@@RLFurryProductions thinking about now yeah it sure is :)
Thats probably it i had bad luck for years and counting
Met to say your a lucky doggo :3
This was interesting to hear. Personally,I'm a Bi guy in my twenties and regularly sexually active with males and females but I don't judge those who want to wait for the right person or moment to lose it. Life is yours to live guys!
The only thing I understand about women is that they want nothing to do with me. Part of why I wish I was gay/bi.
@@RLFurryProductionsHonestly,you just gotta keep looking
@@RLFurryProductionsI mean,sorry if this is overstepping but I can talk about this in dm's elsewhere if you want? Sorry if this is overstepping but sometimes it helps to just have somebody outside your personal life listen to you issues
Thats so cool. I think that those whom you mentioned connected with you emotionally. But, if you consider yourself demi than youll have to connect with another emotionally as well. Dem sexuals are 2 people regardless of gender who has emotional connection with each other. This is what binds 2 people togather through other than romatic and / or sexual means. The truth is that i am asexual, and have others who connected with my emotions, but i had never done so with them. One day i will. Thats all i can leave you with. Hope to see you at BLFC 2023! Keep up the great job.
HMM People are always interested in me to but i am so married. I have channels to. I have a Yu tube channel and a tick tock channel and a facebook channel but i hardly go their and i think i have a instagram to but i am never their lol 😆 😅 😅. My late mom just like being by herself. If i ever lost my husband as i almost did one year. I dont know if i could or ever want to be serious with anyone ever again. Maybe just be a player lol. I have my son and i wouldn't want anyone hurting him emotionally or physically. But i will tell you i do like the way youre voice sounds. I like alot of guys voices though and i do get small crushes but they dont last to long lol 😆 😂 🤣 😅.
Your a lucky goggo
I don't know what you look like under the suit but you seem to be a guy with a lot going on. I would think people would be attracted you because you are passionate about what you do. I've always thought your voice was really nice haha
I haven’t had that happen to me yet, but of course I’m not really looking for a relationship right now. I’ve always kind of be cool with being single. Now don’t get me wrong, I do get a little down sometimes when I see others in happy relationships. I’m glad to hear your confidence has boosted.