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  • @HollyTheExploder
    @HollyTheExploder 3 роки тому +247

    To be honest, not wanting to dig up childhood trauma and be therapised on camera is completely normal.

  • @mandydeane5824
    @mandydeane5824 3 роки тому +115

    I nearly never watched this but I am so glad that I did. This is the best episode that I have ever watched. Not only is Tommy likeable but he took on board all the advice and embraced the difficulties in his past with his emotions and how these affected his spending habits. The respect he showed his mom he didn't whine or blame her and his mom took accountability fantastic! I wish him all the best with the attitude and fortitude he showed I think he will go far in life.

  • @lafillenoir
    @lafillenoir 4 роки тому +87

    One of the most positive transformations I've seen on this show. He's a young lad but he really seems to have taken everything on board and was really serious about getting rid of his debt and getting a better job to facilitate that. He's done far more growing up in his 20 years than some men twice his age. He also seems to have a lot of love and respect for his mother, and isn't afraid to show it. I hope he's doing well for himself now, wherever he is in his life.

  • @sanboyce
    @sanboyce 4 роки тому +150

    Tommy has done really very well for himself since this program. Rock on Tommy.

  • @maryapatterson
    @maryapatterson 3 роки тому +40

    His mother is the sweetest. I am so glad she got help too.

  • @johannaelizabeth4644
    @johannaelizabeth4644 4 роки тому +236

    If we could all go back and stop ourselves from how much money we spent on bad fashion trends....

  • @QuantumKitty
    @QuantumKitty 4 роки тому +160

    I love how everyone in the comment section wants to see this man succeed! 👏

    • @tommymcnally1513
      @tommymcnally1513 4 роки тому +37

      Love the postive response guys really means a lot ❤️

    • @scoopitywoop
      @scoopitywoop 4 роки тому +3

      @@tommymcnally1513 do you believe you were portrayed accurately in the show?

    • @maryapatterson
      @maryapatterson 3 роки тому +6

      Even after 10 mins you could see he had a good heart and lots of potential. Thats why people are so overjoyed at the news of his success now.

    • @maryapatterson
      @maryapatterson 3 роки тому +3

      @@tommymcnally1513 You were just trying to be a good child and not trying to place any more burdens on your mum. Your heart was in the right place.

    • @Unchaise
      @Unchaise 3 роки тому

      Idk why he seems like an airhead

  • @susanjensen4678
    @susanjensen4678 3 роки тому +24

    I'm so glad that he did so well for himself. He seems to be such a good person.

  • @evebaker4740
    @evebaker4740 3 роки тому +21

    One of my favorite episodes! So many people hear wisdom and don't follow it, but this young man is so smart and saw the value in the teachings...he can achieve anything!

  • @Biancaviolin
    @Biancaviolin 4 роки тому +442

    I always wonder with these old episodes where the people are nowadays. Were they able to pay off their debt? Are they happy now?

    • @hibkoko
      @hibkoko 4 роки тому +56

      Biancaviolin a quick search shows his LinkedIn profile! He looks like he’s back on track👍🏼 good for him!

    • @Biancaviolin
      @Biancaviolin 4 роки тому +39

      @@hibkoko Oh my, you're right, why haven't I thought of googling?! Feels forbidden :D So interesting, I hope he's right on track financially nowadays! These episodes feel so old but still are so relevant, it's amazing...

    • @hibkoko
      @hibkoko 4 роки тому +37

      Biancaviolin I know what you mean! I looked up someone else from another episode - she too was very young when the programme aired and I was interested to see how she was now. Looks like a lot of the people on the show do turn their lives around and most actually start their own businesses! Good for them!

    • @buzzweebee8685
      @buzzweebee8685 4 роки тому +33

      In one of these videos, the guy from the show is in the comment section chatting with people. Telling them how it all worked out.

    • @palmtree2k8
      @palmtree2k8 4 роки тому +6

      facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003487047266 his fb profile! I think

  • @carolinependleton8445
    @carolinependleton8445 3 роки тому +38

    What a lovely lad,hope everything goes well for him,he deserves it.

  • @mohammadal-drees3106
    @mohammadal-drees3106 3 роки тому +25

    He’s such a smart and a good kid at heart! Everyone makes mistakes, especially when we’re this young. I realise that this is an old show, so I’m hoping that he’s grown into a good man. 🙏🏼

  • @wendy6512
    @wendy6512 Рік тому +7

    To say when he was hungry didn’t want to ask his mom for food because it put to much pressure on her had me in tears God Love Him he’s a lovely young man

    • @laminage
      @laminage 2 місяці тому

      When he as a young Man Chris Kirkpatrick of N'Sync was part of a program where he would get a free lunch because he came from a low income family. His father abandoned him and his mother struggled. he wouldn't eat it. he would work after school and give a chunk of his money to his mother. He got rejected for the backstreet boys but did well in n'sync. Sadly his career never took off like Justin Timberlake's.

  • @leeannemcphee601
    @leeannemcphee601 2 роки тому +15

    What a beautiful family, this young man is now right on track. I love the practical side Jay brings these people on THEIR level, and Ben hits it right on the head of the underlying problems.

  • @CM-vs5cj
    @CM-vs5cj 3 роки тому +8

    What a complete sweetheart honestly if anyone deserves to be where they are today in 2021 it’s him

  • @BOLLOCKS1968
    @BOLLOCKS1968 3 роки тому +28

    Tommy is very likeable. I think he got tired of being responsible at a young age and said sod it. Hope he did well in his life! Cheers ✌

  • @Terri_MacKay
    @Terri_MacKay 4 роки тому +118

    "I can't afford it, but my credit card can."
    Yeah... that's not how credit cards work. 😂😂

    • @daCubanaqt
      @daCubanaqt Рік тому +5

      Sadly, it is how credit cards work until the bill comes. That’s the problem with them!!

    • @annalieff-saxby568
      @annalieff-saxby568 Рік тому +3

      And that, boys and girls, is why I no longer have any. Once burned, twice shy.

    • @Terri_MacKay
      @Terri_MacKay Рік тому

      @annalieff-saxby568 Got rid of mine years ago. And I know quite a few older people who have gotten rid of theirs, and a lot of younger people who have just never had one. Smart!

  • @MalonsMilk
    @MalonsMilk 7 місяців тому +2

    What a wonderful son Tommy is. A really nice guy and I hope he made it. The love for his mum is real and his sense of responsibility for her is so sweet and wonderful. I hope him and his mum are both doing well and are happy.

  • @cherposton8242
    @cherposton8242 4 роки тому +104

    He really seems like a nice young man. I hope he's doing well.

    • @jenjones90
      @jenjones90 4 роки тому +1

      He has worse vocabulary than my 5 year old niece and his sister is even more dumb than him...and his mum is fooling no one saying that she is the one who "left" her "partner"....they are the type of family the world doesn't need.

    • @cherposton8242
      @cherposton8242 4 роки тому +34

      @@jenjones90 I'm pretty sure you, with your imperious attitude is the one who has the real problem. based on what you posted you are a real homegrown dirtbag. No one needs your judgmental bullshit. Go have several seats and whe. you decide to be on tv let us know so we can judge your stupid ass.

    • @jenjones90
      @jenjones90 4 роки тому

      @@cherposton8242 he was probably spending his money on something that looks a bit like....and his mum is a tart who no one wanted.

    • @jenjones90
      @jenjones90 4 роки тому

      @@cherposton8242 by the way "Cher"...you meant to say "are the one" not "is the one". You sound so much like this bloke.

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 4 роки тому +10

      @@jenjones90 Oh Sweetheart, Whom do you think you are? No one cares about your revolting and narrow views. I hope you find some real friends and loved ones as you sound bitter and twisted. He's under 25, his frontal lobe hasn't finished developing in this film, what's your excuse?

  • @Luna.3.3.3
    @Luna.3.3.3 4 роки тому +32

    I've seen almost all the episodes of this series. I think Tommy and the results make this my favourite one. Good for Tommy. I bet he's doing really well now .. & deserves it!

    • @tommymcnally1513
      @tommymcnally1513 4 роки тому +14

      Thanks 😄

    • @Luna.3.3.3
      @Luna.3.3.3 4 роки тому +2

      @@tommymcnally1513 Heya! Just wondering how/what you're doing now? If you don't mind me asking ...😊 Greetings from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @Sacheen81
    @Sacheen81 9 місяців тому +1

    So proud of Tommy and I don't even know him. What a remarkable young man. I hope he stays on track and lives a long, happy life!❤

  • @denisdbell
    @denisdbell 4 роки тому +12

    I love the holistic approach to analyzing why this individual was in debt.

  • @tanjahorvatserbiaoldslavsh4685
    @tanjahorvatserbiaoldslavsh4685 3 роки тому +7

    He stuttering when he's nervous. A mature hardworking caring man.

  • @lorrainebennett7528
    @lorrainebennett7528 3 роки тому +10

    Never seen this episode before but I knew that Tommy would be ok, he just had that special spark!

  • @1985SJW
    @1985SJW 3 роки тому +20

    Big respect to him! Just goes to show that anyone can change for the better if they put their mind to it.

  • @marci3659
    @marci3659 4 роки тому +54

    Well done Tommie...I don't think he's a hopeless case...far from it...he's had an emotional breakthrough with his mum and money...and growing up.

  • @ayasensei5709
    @ayasensei5709 10 місяців тому +7

    This therapist is correct. Those who have shopping addictions (or any types of addictions) have deeper mental issues.

  • @meetoo2330
    @meetoo2330 4 роки тому +18

    I was really moved when I saw him tell his mother that he loves her so much. He really appreciates all she did for him even at such a young age. Most young adults don’t get a sense of how much their parents do for them until they are older. Years later it’s great to see that he has done so well for himself!

  • @MN-xw2qo
    @MN-xw2qo 4 роки тому +17

    32:05 It makes sense. You just had to read that poem on the wall in the beginning. So sad to see children who bear the responsibilities and burdens of their parents at a young age. Tragic still the lasting impact of absent parents on their abandoned children.

  • @okthen1028
    @okthen1028 4 роки тому +388

    Lmao he looks so 2000s

    • @Del-Canada
      @Del-Canada 4 роки тому +43

      Yea, this is an older show. I am guessing 2006 or 2007. Judging from the prices and lack of mobile devices in the hands of everyone.

    • @CardsbyMaaike
      @CardsbyMaaike 4 роки тому +8

      @@Del-Canada they look at mail delivery slips 2005, i always look at tv's and computers too, cars, they're all old episodes, but still current for some reason.There's so many more people in debt

    • @neen42
      @neen42 4 роки тому +6

      Most of us did then!

    • @okthen1028
      @okthen1028 4 роки тому +2

      Trent err did I say it’s a good or bad thing?

    • @pinkyshoes22
      @pinkyshoes22 4 роки тому +3

      I think the check for the internet spending, with the clocks, showed 2003

  • @Irene-gq4jr
    @Irene-gq4jr 4 роки тому +47

    Great turnaround, hope he has stuck with it. I can identify with growing up too quickly (strict, penny-pinching household), then broke student, then spending like a drunken sailor once I started earning a decent salary. Never unmanageable debt but never saving anything. Life is better when you have contingency plans.

  • @lisbetsoda4874
    @lisbetsoda4874 3 роки тому +6

    What a sweetheart. Such a good son and young man.

  • @k_tubbs
    @k_tubbs 2 роки тому +5

    I extra enjoyed this one. He really wanted to change. And he's so young. You can tell he really is smart and mature but his spending got away from him. But he's showing that intelligence and maturity by asking for help and following the advice he's asked for.

  • @leadaniel4236
    @leadaniel4236 3 роки тому +9

    I love how much he loves his mum ❤️ they seem like such a nice family, bless them ❤️

  • @maggiemay97
    @maggiemay97 4 роки тому +155

    I’ve watched many of these shows lately and I don’t understand why the banks/credit card companies didn’t shut off the cards when people run up debt that exceeds their low incomes.

    • @zuzanaxyz8866
      @zuzanaxyz8866 4 роки тому +73

      Maggie May Because they don’t care - the more money you owe them ani the more they can get out of you through interests, the better...

    • @triggahappyyt5420
      @triggahappyyt5420 4 роки тому +28

      The banks sell these debts to debt collection agencies.

    • @bialarcrais1763
      @bialarcrais1763 4 роки тому +14

      I dont have or want a credit card I domt want the temptation at all

    • @celestialcircledance
      @celestialcircledance 4 роки тому +9

      Credit card companies don't like trustworthy people who don't make them money . I hear they call us deadbeats which is fine by me !

    • @pinkyshoes22
      @pinkyshoes22 4 роки тому +4

      I had the same problem after high school. The credit card applications came rolling in and the garnishments started...good lesson though!

  • @noreenwhiting9530
    @noreenwhiting9530 3 роки тому +18

    Loved it and admired him.. So much. He was brave at his age to do this program.. Respect.. Wish you a, strong journey in life

  • @puppies4everthefam233
    @puppies4everthefam233 4 роки тому +64

    Tommy kinda looks like a really young Mario Lopez from “Saved By The Bell”.

    • @lanalee8634
      @lanalee8634 4 роки тому +2

      Agreed!

    • @Salmiyaguy1
      @Salmiyaguy1 3 роки тому +1

      more like a member of N'Sync.

    • @konbini2004
      @konbini2004 3 роки тому +1

      You must be blind. He looks more like screech lmao

    • @toby43078
      @toby43078 3 роки тому

      No way...Tommy is much sexier..

  • @zenlife321
    @zenlife321 11 місяців тому +3

    Really loved watching the way he changed and moved himself forward. Beautiful outcome ❤

  • @createwithkas
    @createwithkas Рік тому +4

    Wow! My favorite episode to date! I know it’s been a couple years but I pray that Tommy is doing well! Such an absolutely delightful gentleman showing growth and kindness. Love this series!

  • @alexg3348
    @alexg3348 4 роки тому +8

    I was the same at his age, spending on different things but still wasting it all away. A good cautionary tale. Good story for Tommy.

  • @jenwaddell9632
    @jenwaddell9632 4 роки тому +9

    Tommy is a good kid. Hes just a lil lost right now. But hes got a good mum n i think hes been taught good morals n has a good foundation. He is fuckin up right now, but i really think he will get it together and he will become a pretty good man. I wish u the best Tommy. I believe u can do it. U are a talented smart young man. U can do it!! Keep your head up and just keep trying to do the right thing! God bless u and your sweet family!

  • @thesparklingunicorn8543
    @thesparklingunicorn8543 2 роки тому +3

    Tommy I'm so impressed how you managed to come out the other side and paying off your debt hope you're dept free now

  • @mardcon2002
    @mardcon2002 4 роки тому +4

    Tommy I hope you are doing the best. You did a full 180 and I hope you are at your best know. One of my favorite episodes.

  • @Jen-jo5qu
    @Jen-jo5qu 2 роки тому +3

    It's amazing what a bit of guidance and encouragement can do to help someone. What a change!

  • @malemaline
    @malemaline 2 роки тому +7

    Such a sweet young lad. Hope he's doing well.

  • @monicanath4859
    @monicanath4859 3 роки тому +8

    What a lovely lad. I hope he continues to do really well.

  • @ilove6kies
    @ilove6kies 3 роки тому +8

    You know, watching this I can relate so much. I’m pretty much the same age as him and I used to be in debt (not as much a s he was because my parents bailed me out a few times) and I’m happy to read other comments that he totally turned his life around.

  • @blackcoffy83
    @blackcoffy83 4 роки тому +21

    He seems like a nice young man but making poor spending choices. I'm glad he saw the light and changed his ways. I hope he's still doing well :)

  • @elebea868
    @elebea868 4 роки тому +27

    He is adorable. He seems to need some guidance, maybe a male role model.

  • @carolspencer468
    @carolspencer468 4 роки тому +15

    Its all a front with him, he's a sweetheart. If he has accumulated debt I think its a rebellion because he has felt like he had to grow up too young. He'll be fine, what 20 year old lad didn't overspend and pimp it up?

  • @alamedadanceparty
    @alamedadanceparty 11 місяців тому

    So happy for him! Her really turned around! One of the best episodes! Love how he sold one of his watches to bay back his debt. Go Tommy!! I think that visual cake metaphor really had a big impact combined with all the work done. So chuffed for him! He should be so proud of himself!!!!!!

  • @oscarzepeda1558
    @oscarzepeda1558 3 роки тому +7

    Wow !!!! this was a good one !!!! got me a bit emotional when Tommy started to cry with his mom..... I hope they are doing well !!!

  • @traceyparish7403
    @traceyparish7403 3 роки тому +6

    Lovely guy. I wish him luck. He will make a great dad when he older and settled

    • @Fletacarling
      @Fletacarling 3 роки тому +4

      He’s married now and is very well off!

    • @traceyparish7403
      @traceyparish7403 3 роки тому +1

      @@Fletacarling that's really nice to know. Sweet lad. Great to know he has done well.

  • @arlenehutchinson9259
    @arlenehutchinson9259 3 роки тому +3

    Tommy!Tommy!! Tommy!!! Cheering you on !!! I know he succeeded 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥂🍾

  • @aprilstrongquill2019
    @aprilstrongquill2019 4 роки тому +5

    Exactly Tommy grew up to fast n now that he has access to cash he wants a lot of boyish things that he wasn’t able to get back when... I can relate I did the exact same thing when I was 8 my mother left my father n stuck me with 5 sibling younger than I 2 in pampers I had to learn to cook n clean to take care of my younger siblings so when I was older n started making my own cash all I wanted was to party n act like a child it took a lot of years n some pretty harsh arguments between myself n my own children. That one time my boys told me it feels like they were the parents and I was the child, that really hit home n made me feel very awful I drank hard for another week lmao then I quit cold turkey. It’s been 8 yrs sober n straight my boys are grown, working, n starting there own families n I’m so glad to be here to be able to see some grandchildren n hopefully great grandchildren.

  • @julskechap
    @julskechap 5 місяців тому +1

    I checked him social media and hes doing pretty well sctually. Well done tommy

  • @B_Bodziak
    @B_Bodziak 4 роки тому +55

    I wonder if Tommy thought they were going to swoop in and pay off his credit cards if he appeared on the show

  • @gingermacphee7290
    @gingermacphee7290 2 роки тому +2

    I wish they would keep doing this show it really helped me get my act togather and really pushed me to become debt free

  • @novera.tambunan
    @novera.tambunan Рік тому +1

    Thank you for helping this financially troubled young man. God bless

  • @ourstyleminute
    @ourstyleminute 4 роки тому +2

    There’s at least a bit of the young Tommy in all of us. The new Tommy is brave and I think both folks helped him at a crucial time in his life. So glad he saw the possibilities that life could offer him!

  • @JP-ve7or
    @JP-ve7or Рік тому +3

    I know everyone wants to keep this spending issue about personal responsibility and family trauma, but it was WILD the way banks were handing out credit cards to young adults before the 2008 recession.

  • @vindheimar2631
    @vindheimar2631 4 роки тому +32

    I have a problem with it all the mother´s fault not the father who left.....

  • @Klaudia22489
    @Klaudia22489 4 роки тому +18

    Good kid, just needed someone to guide him in the right direction although, blaming the mother was not only unnecessary but also distressing for Tommy, all to make the episode a little more "appealing"

    • @tommymcnally1513
      @tommymcnally1513 4 роки тому +12

      This was the only negative part of the experience

  • @asimb2455
    @asimb2455 3 роки тому +5

    This is so 2006! The clothes, hairstyles 🤣🤣😂 I remember those checked tops jeeeez a blast from the past

  • @celestialcircledance
    @celestialcircledance 4 роки тому +14

    I love him . What a transformation !

  • @airportdocumentaries
    @airportdocumentaries 4 роки тому +68

    That's nothing. Most 21 year olds are in £40,000 debt after graduation 🤣

    • @nailah.7796
      @nailah.7796 4 роки тому +21

      Except he doesn't have a degree to show up for it

    • @fiveelms2011
      @fiveelms2011 4 роки тому +12

      Not the same thing lol

    • @zuzanaxyz8866
      @zuzanaxyz8866 4 роки тому +2

      The exchange rates back then were different, I remember £1 was more than 2€ back then, so his debt would probably be around £30000 nowadays .

    • @wvcjshdsocjsj4477
      @wvcjshdsocjsj4477 4 роки тому +5

      Zuzana B. More like £20k. Euro was weaker back then and pound was a lot stronger. The mess that is Brexit has devalued the pound greatly.

    • @konbini2004
      @konbini2004 3 роки тому +5

      Credit card debt and student debt couldn't be more different. Student debt has no interest and you don't have to pay it back until you earn over 15k. Credit card debt has awful interest rates! If you ever need to borrow money, go to the bank for the best rate. All credit card companies are awful. Also back then before torys hiked tuition fees it was rarely over 9k for student debt, now the better the uni the more you have to pay 🤢🤢

  • @TheLovelySheri
    @TheLovelySheri 4 роки тому +47

    I thought it was Mario Lopez for a solid second before clicking on the link.

    • @MooiMeissje
      @MooiMeissje 4 роки тому +3

      Sheri same here that’s why I clicked on it lol

  • @Brooklyn-rj3np
    @Brooklyn-rj3np 2 роки тому +1

    Ok this is one of my favorite guests. Lovely young man. Refreshing

  • @AM09286
    @AM09286 4 роки тому +40

    Back when cider was £1.50 a pint 😩😩😩

    • @greenpenguin7877
      @greenpenguin7877 4 роки тому +3

      It's only £2 a pint at the spoons in Croydon, which is where they were I think.

    • @AM09286
      @AM09286 4 роки тому +4

      Green Penguin Jesus 😂 I’m paying £5.50 in bloody Bethnal Green

    • @futuregirl8803
      @futuregirl8803 4 роки тому

      I don't pay a penny my auntie is the barlady /manager 🍻

    • @greenpenguin7877
      @greenpenguin7877 4 роки тому

      @@futuregirl8803 weird flex.

    • @futuregirl8803
      @futuregirl8803 4 роки тому

      @@greenpenguin7877 😁😁😁😁don't be jealous/bitchy, I can only drink two pints before falling over anyway

  • @Elketjeable
    @Elketjeable 3 роки тому +1

    What an inspiration he is..
    Beautiful spirit..

  • @קרקור
    @קרקור 7 місяців тому +2

    It’s scary how much the world changed since this show was filmed. Today this guy would be a youtube phenomenon and make loads of money off filming his soccer gear and watches.

  • @obiwann785
    @obiwann785 Рік тому

    Ahh what a lovely man. All the way through I was thinking he should get into coaching, has the right personality. Hope he and his mum are doing well!

  • @B_Bodziak
    @B_Bodziak 4 роки тому +23

    I was wondering "how can he spend 359 pounds a week? He only makes £10,000." Then, I realized: credit cards.

    • @thomers2451
      @thomers2451 Рік тому

      Don’t you understand the premise of this tv show

  • @mazybee9149
    @mazybee9149 7 місяців тому

    Well done Tommy! You were so great 😊

  • @photosynthetics7865
    @photosynthetics7865 4 роки тому +15

    Aw he’s so cute :) wonder what he’s doing now!

  • @bitsbydams
    @bitsbydams 10 місяців тому

    Absolutely loved this episode, hope he is doing well

  • @natevic1867
    @natevic1867 3 роки тому +2

    Spent the same way as a kid
    As an adult you get panicky when you hear about people who spend outside their means. Like seriously.... how can you go through life without saving anything?

  • @sanjeewanidesilva9354
    @sanjeewanidesilva9354 11 місяців тому

    What a nice young man he is going to do so well in life and one lady is going to be very lucky to be his wife. His such a darling.

  • @rosari3165
    @rosari3165 Рік тому +1

    Good lad…wishing the brightest future for him

  • @Zoritos64
    @Zoritos64 4 роки тому +78

    I'm convinced that the psychologist is a robot

    • @ceciliajohnson8812
      @ceciliajohnson8812 4 роки тому +13

      I like Benjamin Fry! I think his input is crucial and fascinating.

    • @buzzweebee8685
      @buzzweebee8685 4 роки тому +9

      He isn't a psychologist

    • @Zoritos64
      @Zoritos64 4 роки тому +17

      @@ceciliajohnson8812 Oh I don't dislike him, his mannerisms are just very cold and robotic.

    • @terenia27shandy95
      @terenia27shandy95 4 роки тому +2

      Totally agree

    • @tommymcnally1513
      @tommymcnally1513 4 роки тому +23

      @@Zoritos64 it was his contribution that i was most disappointed with. He tried to imply i was angry at my mum when i told him how much i loved her.
      The show has a format that they need to justify with every participant even if sometimes there is no deep physiological reason for spending

  • @pinkpotatoes9849
    @pinkpotatoes9849 11 місяців тому +1

    Benjamin often suggests that spending is associated with anger and punishment. I feel that my situation suggests sadness.

  • @joytoyouandme4593
    @joytoyouandme4593 4 роки тому +8

    It’s difficult when your put in an adult place while still a child. This kid has the personality to go far, wonder where he is today.

    • @Probity100
      @Probity100 4 роки тому

      See my post for an update

    • @joytoyouandme4593
      @joytoyouandme4593 4 роки тому +1

      KrisKris Kris Thanks Kris- Glad to hear he has done well for himself. I wasn’t sure about him when the show started, but he really applied himself during the show. He has obviously recognized his talents as he matured-

  • @TenorCantusFirmus
    @TenorCantusFirmus 4 роки тому +3

    Never wanted a credit card, and after having seen some episodes of this show I'm even more convinced about my choice. I have a debit and a prepayed card, and I'll stick with them, much better avoid being tempted. I might be a tad bit drastic, but who knows...

  • @jeffreysmith8062
    @jeffreysmith8062 4 роки тому +3

    Wish they would do updates on these people because it has been several years now.

  • @TrashedCasper
    @TrashedCasper 10 місяців тому +2

    bro is hating on the liquid gold that is cider 0;

  • @icreatedanaccountforthis1852
    @icreatedanaccountforthis1852 4 роки тому +7

    How much butter did he put on that sandwich?! Dear lord.

  • @Sunny.79.
    @Sunny.79. Рік тому +1

    What a nice young man, I hope he's doing well 😊

  • @robertpaynter5965
    @robertpaynter5965 4 роки тому +18

    I thought this was a saved by the Bell inside look.

    • @johannaelizabeth4644
      @johannaelizabeth4644 4 роки тому +2

      Right the thumbnail looks like AC Slater!

    • @drinxs505
      @drinxs505 4 роки тому

      We all know what happened to screech when that show ended

  • @mardcon2002
    @mardcon2002 4 роки тому +1

    Tommy did a lot of work I hope he is doing well. Working as a coach of the sport you love and not dropping half your income trying to play it....great idea for other people who love their sport and need an income.

  • @maryapatterson
    @maryapatterson 3 роки тому +4

    What is a shame is that there are alot of lads like Tommy who just somebody to believe in them and show them alternatives like the go karting.

  • @jamnbryan1
    @jamnbryan1 3 роки тому +3

    16:11 $1 for chicken and chips. boy have times changed...

  • @ohwhatworld5851
    @ohwhatworld5851 3 роки тому +1

    A very emotionally intelligent lad. And he is hot. I am glad that he has turned his life around and is now a millionaire apparently.

  • @sailorhill1085
    @sailorhill1085 4 роки тому +9

    I thought that was slater for a minute

  • @millbillygirl765
    @millbillygirl765 Рік тому +1

    I like this kid, and I wish him well

  • @marriettaharrison6266
    @marriettaharrison6266 2 роки тому +2

    The music selections are hilarious!

  • @asimmer212
    @asimmer212 3 роки тому +1

    I've been binge watching this series for the past couple of days, now I get all adds for shady loans lol

  • @AlbinaFromKz
    @AlbinaFromKz 3 роки тому +4

    50 cent, eminem in 2000s 😭❤

  • @e.astleford3492
    @e.astleford3492 3 роки тому +1

    When someone is this far in CC debt, one of the first things to be done is to confiscate(not cancel) the cards.

  • @isobelpalk5642
    @isobelpalk5642 2 роки тому +1

    So proud of him.

  • @D.von.N
    @D.von.N 9 місяців тому

    It is astonishing how many people don't understand that the money on their credit card isn't theirs and that not paying it in full each month mounts on their debt in a hefty interest. The bank has to make the money somehow and they literally pay the price for those who get a free loan, without any interest. They are the mules. For a shallow feeling of joy from stuff they don't need, running away from negative feelings, they are going to pay a hefty price for stuff they never bought, in those interests.