My Parents demanded monthly allowance from my husband and this happened.....
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Africans and their nonsense sense of ENTITLEMENT 🙄🙄. If her brother is old enough to get married, he should be able to fund his own wedding. What happens after the husband pays for his wedding? Then comes the pregnancies, rent, bills, school fees. African parents should STOP using their female children for financial gains. This pisses the life out of me. You are spot on, Phrankleen 👌
My folks also told me they wanted a monthly allowance from me, and I simply told them NO. They've seen the kind of life we live in the "abroad". It's all work work work, and bills to the wazoo.... We barely truly own anything, it's either a mortgage or a car note. After all my bills are paid, and I have any extra, I'm putting it in savings or investing it, so 40yrs down the road, I'm not begging my own kids for money.
Well I'd blame the both of them really. The repeated insults from the girl's father is because he felt disrespected by the nature of the marriage. I completely understand they didn't have enough funds to organise an elaborate marriage and may not have been able to physically go to Nigeria for it because of the husband's immigration status at the time, but the man would have actually sent his folks to pay the wife's bride price. The father in law may just have been feeling bitter about the daughter not being properly married. Registry marriage works but we are Nigerians, the actual bride price payment has to happen in most cases. Many folks that marry abroad usually send relatives to do the bride price payment. It's not necessarily about the money, it's the cultural significance and respect attached to it that matters. Had the man done this, this whole bitterness may not have started.
I completely agree with you Phrankleen. This woman makes the test of us look bad. I helped my husband- I’m British South African and he’s Nigerian. We met, fell in love and eventually got married.
I just simply say NO! I am NOT their pension plan as I also DON'T expect my children to be my pension plan.
Phrakleen I dove my cap for keeping it real always and I also respect the fact that you never mind that she was the one that brought the complain. You kept it real 100%, kudos!!!
The lady shouldn't haven't mentioned to her parents about her hubby's residence papers. I think by them knowing that he didn't have legal documents of his own, made them think he owed them, as silly as this may sound. And I think she too felt some sense of entitlement, no wonder her parents became demanding.
Sarcastic question? Now that the husband is gone is her family supporting her in the UK?...Don't subsidize folks that can't subsidize you...Phrankleen thank u 4 another lesson learned...
There are some things you stop adruptly from your family, kill the discussion right there and then..Wife: your not working and with only one income you try ooo....let your brother marry based on his pocket, you can give a wedding gift but never a demand..next thing he needs money to feed his family, or skl fees issue..and watch these are the ones that will end up producing over 5kids🙄..
Somebody once said, a foolish woman breaks her own home with her own hands.
Franklin I trust you to give the realest advice. You could not have kept it realer with this lady... I’m just glad she has the benefit of hindsight and sees that she was dead wrong!
I know someone in the USA that is going through a similar situation. The lady and her family are using the "Our Daughter gave you papers, if not, you will still be suffering".
I had the cheapest wedding ever. 5 witnesses. Us, the camera man, his girlfriend and our driver. From the registry to KFC and home. Done!
Franklin you are doing a great job by enlightened some of our Nigerian brothers.
😂😂😂 That’s madness indeed. Also, I guessed it was a Yoruba drama even before you mentioned it…😂😆😂 I can tell our drama from a mile. As a woman myself, I say she’s maddddd!
The part where you laughed after converting, made me laugh I had the same expression 😂 😂 😂
In Uganda some parents would say ok, when your ready come home and officially introduce. This father was going wayyyy to far. I would never put my husband under that kind of pressure knowing his working to improve our lives and a family. Why cant the woman go out and look for a job to fund her family?
You are so real. This is what is lacking in this world now. 'The truth'. Each time I watch your video I allow the advert to play through or till half. Keep doing this.
Man u are not missing anything,