You have to start over...so what?

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2024
  • So you have to start over...so what? So what that it didn't work out the first time...or the second...or the third? So what if you lost everything? So what if they see you trying again? Starting over in life is the diving opportunity to create a new life. To reinvent yourself and your reality. Some may call it failure, but I like to call it a reset.
    Sound from Epidemic Sound
    __________
    🤗About Me:
    Hey I'm Dyana, single mom of 2. After becoming debt free, I now share my life on a budget!
  • Навчання та стиль

КОМЕНТАРІ • 57

  • @DoTheDomThing
    @DoTheDomThing 5 місяців тому +36

    We can make our plans, but God will determine our steps. So, starting over and a new leaf isn’t all bad. I love this perspective. 🌱

  • @jessicagrant9748
    @jessicagrant9748 5 місяців тому +24

    Girl the title sold me !!! We’re all growing together 🍃🌱

  • @chanreka
    @chanreka 5 місяців тому +14

    On my desk I have a note that said God teach me the lesson so I can receive the blessings. With every blessing there were bumps on the journey and sadly we tend to forget that. Nothing is all bad and nothing is all good but we have to go through it to learn and be better moving forward. May God continue to bless us All!

  • @TheKrystolMethod
    @TheKrystolMethod 5 місяців тому +16

    I am in the midst of starting over as I now find myself looking for a new job the frustration is real but the Faith and Hope is bigger. I am loving this video thus far and I'm only about maybe 5 minutes in

  • @Arlene_witha_y
    @Arlene_witha_y 5 місяців тому +8

    Girl, yes! In your last video you mentioned not wanting a house until your family was complete, aka, having your future husband. And I didn’t want to say something that would sound wrong but in my mind I was like “nooooo! Don’t give up your HOUSE, your biggest investment because of a man! (Or lack thereof).” He will or won’t come, regardless. Those are separate blessings. You have to keep living your life and advancing if he comes or not. Unless you don’t want to. And you don’t strike me as someone with low ambition.
    I too bought a house and it needed a lot of new things that put me in debt. Roof, AC, etc. But I’m planning budgeting working at it staying disciplined and i know more or less the date when things will be paid off. All things aside there will be some unexpected emergencies/ expenses that will set you back, but we don’t go backwards, we don’t quit, we don’t give up, we keep moving forward. The wind changes direction and we adjust the sails but we will not go down!

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  5 місяців тому

      Thank you!! It’s all a labor of love but you look at everything you’ve done and it’s like I might as well keep going!

  • @EverythingWithNikRich
    @EverythingWithNikRich 5 місяців тому +2

    “Adapting the hard posture that everything’s gonna work out” ❤

  • @Nwakaego_
    @Nwakaego_ 5 місяців тому +7

    God really does speak through you in each season at the right time. God is an on time and intentional God. Keep being obedient to the voice and word of Jesus Christ. God bless you sis.❤️🤩🥰💯

  • @user56gghtf
    @user56gghtf 5 місяців тому +11

    Ego. That darn ego. I feel like that's what gets us in trouble. Maybe I should say distress vs trouble.
    The history and the story of the Israelites is an example and the struggle is real. So real.
    With all the signs, wonders, and warnings they still kept going back and forth. Just like us.
    We are imperfect humans beings in a fallen world. This life is a daily,...daily minute by minute journey. We're not going to always win. And because of that there will always be lessons to be learned.
    Sometimes the lesson is in us not winning in that moment but it's creating a door for later on.
    It's not over once we've become an adult. Or we're successful by our own or society's definition. Etc... It's forever changing, therefore once you overcome one obstacle, another is coming. It just is.
    And because of that there will always be lessons to be learned and victories.And struggles in those victories to be had.
    Instead of:
    Why is this happening to me?
    It's more of:
    What in this is happening for me?
    Please trust in God. He is never wrong.

  • @elisesavage1566
    @elisesavage1566 5 місяців тому +2

    Expectancy - That was the word God laid on my heart for 2024. This is affirming what I have felt and the impression HE has laid on my heart ❤ Love this!

  • @southernnaturalhairaffair7912
    @southernnaturalhairaffair7912 5 місяців тому +1

    Whew a word. I just had an ugly cry a few days ago. I’m better today.

  • @jaquessialawson8853
    @jaquessialawson8853 5 місяців тому +3

    Omg! The fact that you made this video and I’m in the process of career changing. Amen!

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  5 місяців тому

      I wish you nothing but the BEST!!

  • @c.nicholle8250
    @c.nicholle8250 5 місяців тому +5

    This video was necessary! Thank you, Dyana! 🤍

  • @shantedewise7345
    @shantedewise7345 5 місяців тому +1

    Great video, I'm starting over but happy to have something new to look forward to! I guess I'm not like most ppl, but I like a restart and refresh every so often.

  • @bigmikeschevytruck3827
    @bigmikeschevytruck3827 5 місяців тому

    Remember your doing a great job, you know what needs to be and your on the right path, sometimes you need a short break to stop n smell the flowers while we on our way, dont focus on the past cause that cant be changed but it is what got us here, dont focus to far ahead because if your focus isnt on your feet and right now your missing the time to savor in the beautiful moments of life..financial freedom is a great way to think and live, you also have to focus on looking in the mirror and smiling, girl you are successful, thank you for sharing with us, ❤

  • @Lucy-yg4qb
    @Lucy-yg4qb 5 місяців тому +2

    I have to say this video summed up what I am experiencing right now. I brought a house and it has ate up my sinking funds and now I am having to start over and find my motivation. I need the motivation that I had at the beginning of my journey.

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 5 місяців тому +4

    ❤❤. I totally understand. I agree with you.

  • @amandatownes2881
    @amandatownes2881 5 місяців тому +1

    Man… I needed this so bad. Thank you

  • @ExpectedEndMinistries
    @ExpectedEndMinistries 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing! I am in a season where I am starting over. I keep trying to encourage myself in the Lord. This time last year, I started working with the gov, making the most money I've ever made. Had to move states away, and I'm now working at a food establishment. Getting paid in the single digits. I cried so hard, and my ego was bruised. I am just trying to learn the lessons and prepare for the blessing that I KNOW is coming ❤

  • @nakisha4103
    @nakisha4103 5 місяців тому +1

    I absolutely love your channel and how it applies to everyday life and struggles.

  • @tiarasiobhon
    @tiarasiobhon 5 місяців тому +2

    Real raw and relatable ❤

  • @kadian4958
    @kadian4958 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you JESUS 🙏🏾

  • @withlovebyamy
    @withlovebyamy 5 місяців тому

    So very well said!

  • @Joycelyn
    @Joycelyn 5 місяців тому +2

    This video is really describing where I am right now in life.

  • @Oniyah217
    @Oniyah217 5 місяців тому +2

    Hi Dyana. I kept thinking of Ecclesiastes watching this. Not starting over, but another step in the cycle and journey of bringing you closer to His purpose and will for your life. I enjoyed the creativity of the video. He is doing a new thing!

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  5 місяців тому

      That He is and I’m just going with the flow. Thank you!

    • @user-mu3xk7ie2t
      @user-mu3xk7ie2t 5 місяців тому

      3:11

  • @jayocean4724
    @jayocean4724 5 місяців тому

    Stay encouraged even on the rough days! Im looking for a better voating job and im honestly struggling it hasnt come easy but I haven't given up🎉 This video was beautiful a profound message

  • @phoenixrising5062
    @phoenixrising5062 5 місяців тому

    THANK YOU!!!!

  • @roselaure4722
    @roselaure4722 5 місяців тому +2

    Damn, this video resonates with me. Thank you sis!

  • @virgotc4426
    @virgotc4426 5 місяців тому

    Whew!! My thoughts as of late!! #restart!!!

  • @april__marie
    @april__marie 5 місяців тому +2

    Wow, amazing creativity and the sis talk I needed too. You are right everything will work out! TMH works EVERYTHING out for our good and once he speaks something to us it will come to pass…period! Thank you for sharing your journey 🙏🏽❤️

  • @latrice2850
    @latrice2850 5 місяців тому

    Great video 🥳

  • @rainamhs200236
    @rainamhs200236 5 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed this vlog! I am in that moment and walking it out with God.

  • @ddoubleu170
    @ddoubleu170 5 місяців тому +2

    Love all of this. 🤍🙏🏾

  • @christineoboyle4597
    @christineoboyle4597 5 місяців тому +1

    I needed this tonight.
    Thank you.

  • @livewithshakes
    @livewithshakes 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing
    Your honesty and transparency is so relatable and everything you spoke about
    Myself being a homeowner is accurate
    Cry as much, pray and never give up💕💕🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @kaylacausey
    @kaylacausey 5 місяців тому +1

    This video is much needed. Thank you!

  • @marawashington3280
    @marawashington3280 5 місяців тому

    This hit home!! ❤ A restart is definitely a resurgence in your life. It not only allows you to do things differently but it allows you to embrace more wisdom than you did before. Life is all about living and experiences. 😊 And never forget God's presence in all things. He knows what is best for us before we even know it!

  • @queenofpents3442
    @queenofpents3442 5 місяців тому

    "Life is a series of starting over" that was powerful because its true and I've seen it play out in my life a thousand times! I thinking resetting is important for everyone because it puts us in alignment with our desires and helps to reflect what is of value to us and if we are truly feeling our path. I think its a blessing in some ways as well. 🌻

  • @CaptalK
    @CaptalK 4 місяці тому

    You should consider being a filmmaker babe. They way you make these narrative videos is like documentary 🔥🔥

  • @fefeasp2697
    @fefeasp2697 5 місяців тому +2

    This! 🫶🏾💕

  • @sincerelylatasha
    @sincerelylatasha 5 місяців тому

    Yesss love this! 💛💛

  • @user-li2vl4yd1x
    @user-li2vl4yd1x 5 місяців тому +1

    Exactly. So what??!??

  • @alexiacastillo1581
    @alexiacastillo1581 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @kevinmoore9524
    @kevinmoore9524 5 місяців тому

    This is good.

  • @justmo2023
    @justmo2023 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @melissarodriguez4531
    @melissarodriguez4531 5 місяців тому

    Love your videos and your messages 🙏👏🏼

    • @DyanaMariie
      @DyanaMariie  5 місяців тому

      So glad!! I love making them ❤

  • @Tinaluvsdc
    @Tinaluvsdc 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Uatasha21
    @Uatasha21 5 місяців тому

    Idk where to start. I wish i could get my life together, I need my kids to live with me, they have been living with my dad and grandmother since January 4th because I was going to be homeless and instead of my famiky letting me stay for just an week with my kids until i could get us into a shelter together they would only take in the kids. I had to come live with a friend of a friend(who they never even met in real life) it is an hour away from where my kids are so I have only gotten a ride to see them once because i dont have money or transportion. Ive been applying to jobs but dont even have a working phone to make calls for assistance, or work. I have a Qlink sim to use but no unlocked phone to put it in. I need money to pay for my finger printing for work. I need a phone and money to get anywhere, it is really rough right now.

  • @jess-99
    @jess-99 5 місяців тому

    Want to restart...too so your video is on time...

  • @CrystalHarvellPhotography
    @CrystalHarvellPhotography 5 місяців тому

    Excuse me maam a FILM!? Oh you could do documentary’s !