5 Positive Habits That Will Change Your Life ✨
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- Опубліковано 18 чер 2024
- Sharing positive habits and mindset shifts that will change your life. Habits are the building blocks of our lifestyle, so it's so important to adopt good habits and learn to be consistent with them. This is just a short list of life-changing habits to get you started. Make sure you check out the other videos in this habits series below!
What habits have changed your life? Please share with our community!
// watch more habits videos
→ 11 Simple Daily Habits to Change Your Life | bit.ly/316VTGA
→ how to build habits that stick | bit.ly/2Vmfwes
→ 15 habits of happy people | bit.ly/2GGiy3P
→ 5 habits that changed my life | bit.ly/2McwuYQ
// mentioned resources
→ red table talk: forgiveness | bit.ly/2Jm7hbV
→ book: the richest man in babylon | amzn.to/2DU9HL5
→ book: the power of now | amzn.to/2ipWT2h
→ book: the success principles | amzn.to/2sSPstE
→ favorite books | lavendaire.com/favorites/books
→ artist of life workbook (gratitude journal) | lavendaire.com/workbook
→ daily planner by lavendaire (daily gratitude) | lavendaire.com/planner
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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle blogger sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
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positive habits in the video :
1. stop playing the victim
2. read inspiring books
3. cultivate daily gratitude
4. meditate
5. stop taking yourself and your life so seriously
With the culture we have now and current situations in the States, people nowadays need to do this especially 1 and 5.
Thanks a million
I've started reading again, I put my phone in a different room while I do so. I feel so much more on track :)
Good idea
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@@coldnoodles8261 AHHH IKR
great idea. I feel like I have been spending a lot of my time on social media. This is my sign to get back to reading
Hi Lavendair,
I have my morning routine where I do:
1. Meditation for 10minutes
2. Exercise: 10 push ups; 10 abdominal work; 10 Squads and if I have time a bit of yoga.
3. Reading for 10 minutes
4. Scribing for 10 minutes.
This routine helps me getting more grounded and focus on the day a head. Sometimes I change it so it won't be the same everytime. And even when I'm late or in a hurry at least I always meditate.
And thanks so much for all you're sharing about self improvement. You've really helped me be at least more at peace with myself.
;*
You got this beautiful !
very nice routine, I am inspired to follow the same routine 👍
Wow😃
Incredible!!!! Really Loved!! I aways Said to myself "I have no time to read" but now, just the fact that you read 10min a day, and that's so short and simple, i don't know... I'm going to do this, thank you so much!!
@@Manu-vx1ez yeah
The real issue with traumatic experiences caused by others is that they put you in that victim mindset. It took me so long to get out of it, but i agree that this is THE MOST important mental shift to do. Take the power back
TRUE
Very true. Traumatic experiences are also a learning experience. So now that you have your power back you are more self aware of how strong you are. 💕
How do you get your power back. It still effects me everyday.
I agree, there are a lot of people and children who suffer from ptsd, is difficult to find the right path and help to overcome it sometimes
Amen. I know for me I'm still dealing internally with a lot but despite that I always told myself that it isn't fair to allow what I'm dealing with to affect others or to mistreat others. I pushed to nor do that for years, and now I've climbed even more in my mindset to help myself and make a move in life myself as well.
*You have changed so many lives through your work, your tips, and the Aesthetics of your videos! Thank you for sharing your life so that we can all live a better life ourselves. You are a true blessing!*
PS, I think red lipstick and blonde hair fits you really well.
thank you ^_^
Love the red lip too!
@@F0reverblessed great minds think alike!
Yeah the new hair and lip color suit her nicely!
@@Dani_1012 red is just her colour. ♡
I love that you dont have a pushy fake positive attitude. You are calming yet serious, i cant even believe.
PREACH SISTER!! And thanks for the book reco🥰 gonna pick that up
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Ever since you said to take ownership of your life and hold yourself accountable, I've realized how much I've been holding myself back from success and just surviving, but no more. I'm pushing to be more successful in my life and not unconsciously waiting for something to happen. Thank you!
Reading has changed my life! I grew up having a fixed mindset of not improving my English, especially when teachers saw me differently and my grades were low in Asian standards. I started to shift into a growth mindset when I studied what I wanted in college. Now, after college, I have more freedom to read what I want. But I do have to fix my habit of starting too many books and not just focusing on one. Haha (;
Journaling is also helping me to let go, accept the thoughts as they are, and move on. It's quite interesting how the mind works.
Indeed 😊
I meditate pretty much every day, I journal, I read and listen to audio books every day, I workout, I practice being more grateful and many more. Definitely recommend everyone does at least some of these for self development. You will transform your life 👏🏽💪🏽
I read every single day for 1-2 hours. I have to spend 2 hours in a bus, so I try to be productive. ♥
I love how your lipstick matches your dress, red looks really good on you!
Also, thank you for the video, it's exactly what I needed now :D I talked about daily habits with my therapist today and that I should include more if them in my daily routine so your video really helped!
Lavendaire’s voice is already a therapy so soothing, calming, assuring and relaxing 💕 Thank you so much beautiful Lavendaire!
One thing I’ve learnt from watching your channel over the last couple of years is that small, consistent actions taken everyday add up to something great- the compound effect. I’m really grateful for that message, it’s motivating and inspiring when life and work seems too much. Xx
A positive habit that's been changing my life is creative writing wrapping up my day. It's refreshing and that energy cleanses the stressful thoughts of the day away.
Your voice is really calming, your videos are so aesthetic, and your advices are so good! Whenever I need motivation, I just go to this channel and watch some of your videos! Thank you, Aileen.
I'm thankful that I found your channel last year! Keep inspiring! Love from Philippines! 💙
grateful to have you here :)
Lavendaire She was made for this!
When i'm lost, feeling unmotivated and having burnout i always searched your channel you aways motivate, inspires and helps me your words are so awesome and soft
You really change my self esteem when you talk so peacefully and happy, and it remind me that life doesn´t need to be so hard as you think. Thanks for that
I read every night and have for my entire life since I could read (maybe minus a day here and there, I'm 20yo)! It's just so integrated into my routine that it's like brushing my teeth. Honestly, if you just keep doing it, it will become a habit. There's something amazingly relaxing about reading a few pages before going to sleep. I've learnt a lot through novels, whether they're even supposed to be educational/inspiring or not. Books stimulate your brain in a way TV shows etc can't (even though I love visual media too!)
My 2 habits that changed my life is thru reading inspirational books and reflecting. It teaches me a lot on how to improve myself. Thank you for being an inspiration Ms. Aileen.
Taking myself less seriously is definitely something I'm intentionally practicing, and so far I am loving my life so much more already ♡♡♡
I started reading about how to heal my inner child and how to remain peaceful during troubling times! It definitely helps me feel calm throughout the day and I’m able to recognize bad habits
not a book but have you heard "the inner child" podcast by gloria zhang? it's so good :)
Just wanted to say thank you for your videos. I watched one of your videos when I was in a really bad place. I was able to lift my self up by watching your videos and listening to Audiobooks you recommended. I was able to manifest enough money to quit my job and start my own business. I also got to be on TV!!! For the first time!! Giving life lessons to youth on Money management. My life has been changing thanks to your videos. My spirit animal is a snake, meaning I am changing to a new person.
Thank you,
Duncan.
Honestly, I am so grateful I searched “how to raise your frequency”. I am going to implement meditation to let my inner voice become stronger, but bumping into this video added so much value to me. It was really refreshing too. I haven’t felt a light like this in sermons, business lectures, or anything else of lately. So super grateful. Thank you. You’re inspiring and beautiful! 🤤Thanks again, I’ll definitely be raising my vibration 😁.
As you are talking it shows how excited you are after dancing and full of energy. I read that book and it definitely is a must read. It’s a financial management course written that gives valuable insight on stewarding money. I read everyday and meditating is what I need to do. I enjoyed this video.
I used to read a lot, a massive number of books when I was a child and young. And several years ago, because social media, tv, series and the whole internet I stoped to do it. But about 5 years ago I try to bring back the habit to me and now I enjoy reading again a lot. It’s relaxing and makes me feel in peace. Love your advices
I read everyday 🙋🏼♀️ I love reading self help and law of attraction books, it makes me feel SO positive and better! Practicing gratitude will ABSOLUTELY change your life! 💚
YAY! I've shoving positive inspo sources down my throat to work up some courage before filming and I'm so glad to see this uploaded this morning!! Thanks Aileen for the sharing your light
One habit I have started is to read one article from my Positive News magazine every morning as soon as I wake up. It makes me happy for the day! Highly recommend this magazine!!
Aileen, your existence and your advice, your videos has changed my life. Thank you so much for all your content.
I’m really appreciating what books teach me , I turned to another person because I make a habit to read a book each week,however I’m in love with “eat,pray,love” i highly recommend you guys to read it.
Thanks for positive videos 🙏🏻
this made my day your energy and just pure joy and expressing who you are just so inspirational it makes me smile so much. You bring me so much joy and I think this way your best video yet, the attitude and ugh i just adore your personality
My positive habit that I’m sticking to it is meditate and journaling. I’m now changing my life because of you inspired me. Thank you ❤️
Love this! I have a gratitude journal and I write down 10 things im grateful for when I wake up. Really helps start my day on a positive tone. ☺️
I love this, I always feel like situations around me are the reason for my failures but now I know better. amazed at how much your life can change by changing habits. love it!
Meditation is a game-changer! I have recently fallen out of the habit, and I can tell how different I feel! Time to get back to it! Love love love your top, that's a great color on you.
listening to you talk and give so much advice to everyone is like meditation and reflection time. your videos really help me put on a positive mindset about my future.
Red lipstick looks gorgeous on you. You look so happy and content in this video.
Looking so gorg! Thank you so much aileen! I've been listening to you every morning and night and whenever I'm filming and it's been a great help! You're changing one's life indirectly. 💗 More power! 👊😊💕
watch so many youtubers, i have to honest with you, I love you the most! You can see, I usually watch your video many times. and everytime I watch it, i can learn new things. it's amazing!
Watched this video after a really tough day of work... and these tips definitely struck home ❤️ thanks for being such an inspiration!
Something that has helped me so much is dancing around my room to music that makes me feel great, making time to primp myself (face masks, nail painting, etc) and only drinking water and lots of it.
I love you video's it has completely changed my life allready. But the habbits that helped where
1 journaling
2 waking up at 5 am
3 being gratefull
4 setting goals
5 watching motivational videos like yours
your hair is gorgeous! you are glowing in this video, thanks for sharing these habits with us
Mentioned that too☺️
She's amazing 😍
She sure is!
Thank you for these advices, your videos are always amazing and I'm never deceived. Sending you lots of love and support from Tunisia 💗
thank you love
Loveee her videos!
you seem so happy in this video! this habits series is my new favourite series from you
You've shown me so many books that are really inspiring and have changed my life. My goal this year was to read one book a month but I have fallen off track, need to get back into the game :)
You're so generous in giving advices and tips to strive in life. I've been watching your videos and I've subscribed on your Dream Life Series mailings and printed all the worksheets, working on #3 now and it brings me a lot of thoughts of how I want to live my life. Thank you so much Aileen best of luck for you always 😊 ♥️♥️♥️
I've started reading everyday since months and I'm absolutely addicted. It's so amazing
Actually, a lot of what you've mentioned wasn't new for me.
Still, I cried tears of relief because I didn't acknowledge those things.
Maybe as I've heard them been said out loud my brain accepts and honours them.
I've been trying to read more because I love to do it but I'm realizing that the books I'm reading are not my type and that's why I haven't been able to commit into reading them. I'm gonna check your favorite books in case there's something that might change my frustration. Thank you for this video 💜
I am a daily reader 😊 i implemanted this habit about a year ago and i have so much pleasure reading on many subjects... A lifetime wouldn't be enough to read it all so just enjoy what you can read😁
Thanks for this inspiring video
Love from morocco
I kind of clicked on your video reluctantly, thinking I've seen enough videos about positive habits but I really liked yours! I'm definitely buying the book you recomended, and The power of now. I haven't gotten to meditating yet, but what you said about it helping with intuition struck a chord for me. Thank you!
Being grateful is the key to better life
Just recently came from your 5 year anniversary video, and this new video came up!
Both of those videos were amazing, well done!
Belated Happy 5th anniversary to Lavendaire!
This UA-cam channel has been amazing and it helped me cope with my daily life since the day I discovered it.
Keep up the good work.
-Joseph, a loyal fan from the Philippines
Joseph UY PINOY
aww glad you're here
She’s awesome like that!
I will start reading again when it’s warmer because now it’s more comfortable to have my hands below the blankets in the evening when it’s getting cold after sunset (I live in my car). I’m looking forward to the warmth and the possibilities I will have during the summer season ❤️
Oh, and the part about reading inspiring / self-growth books is everything!! I started buying those and suddenly I read soooo much more because I see that I take so much value out of it 💪
Nice to know 😀
I started reading everyday because I made it a part of my morning routine to read at least one page now I read much more than that a day. It’s life changing!!
Being in nature,dancing,singing,cleaning,writing!
you look so powerful and energized in this video! literally feeling your positive vibes and energy! plus you should wear red more often, it looks so great on you! lots of love!
I am reading books consistently....😍
Ur voice is so beautiful that I can meditate on it so easily...
One habit that has changed my life is thinking before I speak! I never felt like I was a super malicious person or someone with no filter lol, but there were times when I wouldn't think about the future impact of my words on myself, my image, and other people's images (this usually happened as gossip). If there's anything I've learned, it's that your words will always come back around to you, so if you spread good things through your words you will experience good but it's equally true for bad/harmful things you say without thinking. It'll come back in ways you wouldn't even expect. Just treating everyone with the respect they deserve and remembering that you never know what's really going on in someone's life is a great habit to cultivate ✌️
I’m so grateful these types of videos are out there for me at such a young age , I don’t know what I’d do if I didn’t learn any of these
I listened to this as a podcast while i was walking in the street, amazing !!!please make more of podcasts series
Last month I stopped listening to music on my way to work (about 2 hours total in the car) and started listening to audio books, it’s the best decision, I learned a lot and stopped hating the long ride, actually I am grateful to it.
This is what I really want to hear. That we should stop focusing too much on every detail of our life (focusing on it sometimes falls to being negative) and LOOK AT THE BIGGER PICTURE. Because if we try to look at the bigger perspective, we realize that MOST THINGS ARE INSIGNIFICANT! Thank you so much for making us feel inspired, enjoy life, and that we are not alone.
Love your video! One of my new years resolution is to read more books!
It’s been very nice to read books before I go to bed☺️
Honestly my gratitude journal has subconsciously reprogrammed my mind to look for the positive things in my day and it gives me a second to connect w God because I used to overlook SO many things that I am thankful for now and i feel like God gives me more things too look forward too in the coming days 🤗🤗
Wow
I read the Bible everyday & it really has helped me. I am currently reading it in chronological order :)
Great point not to just blame others for everything... You only have control over your actions, so change what you CAN change. Thanks for outlining these positive habits/thought patterns. Cheers!
Thank you! Before coming across your channel, I've never thought about life as an art. I resonate with the phrase : life is an art. Make your master piece.
I can be more focused and appropriate more of my life thanks to you, Irene.
oh i love how you took everything with positive mindset. Last few months I’ve been experiencing depression. I almost end my life just like that. Thank you for making this video. ❤️❤️ you’re truly an inspiration.
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Feels like a podcast. your voice is so smooth...
I try to read every day as a new years resolution for 2020! And the best thing: you inspired me to do it❤️
This video is solid gold! I wrote down almost all of these into my mindfullness journal to remind me to be a better person and live a better life 🌻 Ilysm !!! ❤️❤️❤️
I read every day, and I want to say your videos are amazing and I really enjoy them. They have helped me so much!!
Dear Lavendaire, I've been following you for over a year, I already started cultivating those habits ! Thanks to you
In my opinion, the truest Aileen we saw... and I loved it! I'm following you since a year and want to say thank you from Italy. (that video.. as bright as so.. Wow)
I read every single day!!! And I love it, it's one of my priorities even if I am very busy
You look so beautiful today! It brought a smile to my face seeing you so happy and energetic. Sending you a virtual hug! You are a beautiful being inside and out! Thank you so much for this video!
Reading every day is by far the best..
Thankyou for the great tips.
#5 is my favorite. i tend to be dramatic and really focused towards my goals but recently i’ve tweaked my perspective just a little and it’s made me a better person to just be able to let go of my perfectionism, of other’s expectations. it’s not so much about being completely carefree for me but rather remembering that it’s your life at the end of the day, you decide whether you’re enjoying it or not. i would like to thank my ex for leaving me and with her, the constant unnecessary negativity i had grown so used to. 😊
how do I always comment novels on your videos 😳
Love you Aileen! Stay bright and inspiring ❤😍
Love this. I read everyday. I have the kindle app, so it makes it easier to read often and avoid mindless scrolling ..
You are looking so beautiful in this video! It’s really inspiring to see you working directly in line with your purpose. Thank you for sharing your light with us.
I'm currently reading this book "the Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up" ---i remember you recommand this one before!
I already get the book " The Richest Man In Babylon" since you recommand it so badly!
love your voice when you speak English, you know that you are my motivation
It's such a blessing to have you in my life, Aileen 💗💗💗
Thank you so much for your videos. They help me, they uplift me, they inspire me. Keep'em coming. Love yah!
Aileen, you are a bundle of sunshine! Thank you for the video 💛✨
You have become my new personal mini life coach! Here’s to a positive 2022!
Hi Aileen. I read every single day and the last year I red 33 books. I love so much reading... It is so important for changing our lives. Thank you for this video📚📚📚📚📚
This is the first video I’ve seen of yours, and it made me subscribe immediately. I absolutely love your style and advice, and you motivate me to incorporate these habits into my own life. Thank you so much.
I’m getting such positive vibes from you today and feeling your energy! Also I love your look too and the hair is gorgeous!!!!
You are so calming and I admire you.
Thank you so much for this! I was actually feeling down today and this made my day!
Your videos are soooo soothing to watch! 😍 definitely have applied all these to my life for the past 3 years and they have completely changed my life! 🥰
I've been reading every single day and that's completely changing my mind! ✨
And I just finished reading "The Power of Now" and it's an amazing book!
Thanks so much for these advices. I have to say they came just on time. I've been caring too much recently and I think all I need is to chill out a little more.