how to know when it’s time for a change
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- Опубліковано 30 січ 2024
- Have you been feeling a need for change? Is it time for a life pivot? Let's chat about how to know when it's time for a change, and how to deal with the fear & uncertainty of change. We're always changing and evolving. The question is, are you going to listen to the subtle clues and flow with that change, or are you going to be stubborn until the universe gets louder and forces change upon you?
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I'd love to film more sit down chats like this. Let me know: What big questions are on your mind? What life topics would you like to explore & ponder with me? 😌
I have absolutely loved your videos! Personally I would be very interested in astrology topics!
I totally agree about short form content, mostly drains my energy. Love to see you on youtube, really love also these casual chat videos! Keep following your intuitions and thanks for all the efforts!! ^^
I want those monthly planning videos back
A discussion about transitions in life.
I adoreddd this video and it came at a time where I really needed it! Would love to see more of these 💖
you dont even know how many people got a smile on their face because of u.your channel is a therapy and please never stop posting on this channel💗
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You nailed it. Lavendaire has changed my life. 🥺💜🫶🏻
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True! Your videos are so uplifting! Love your soothing voice and sound advice and counsel on life! ❤️✨
Yeah, grow old together
It's really refreshing not hearing you advocate for overnight change or instant fixes.
I'd love to see a video about taking risks/making changes when financial hardship is a factor. For example, I KNOW my job is not fulfilling me, that it's draining my energy, but I stay because it's paying my bills and has good health insurance so I'm scared to make a change. A video discussing that would be awesome!
Apply to another position within your company if its large enough or speak with your employer about room to grow into
The strongest position to be in while job hunting is when you have a job. Make a list of what you want and what you do NOT want. Make that your guide as to what you will want to go for. And like @andrea-th5sg said, if you can find that in your current company, so much the better.
I love how relaxed and authentic this video is. I feel like I’m your friend and you’re just telling me what’s on your mind, and it just happens that it’s also something that I’ve been thinking about lately. 💛💛
i love that
💫… and there are still people that truly value slow paced videos with inspiring sequences of nature beautifully arranged stationary and home interiors and shared wisdom✨✨✨thank You🙏🏻💫
was feeling so low🥺and you uploaded this❤ you're my online therapist fr🧿
I felt the same
I needed this video. I have been at the same job for over 8 years and I am so burnt out and need to find something new. This video was just the push I needed. Thanks.
Same here. Mine is 17 years at same job since 17 years. From past 5 years It sucks. But now realised I need to take action
Sending you love & support!! 🙏🏼
I haven't watched your videos for a long time coz I was busy preparing for th board exam, pursuing my career, moving to a new apartment,etc. I must say, the feeling I have while watching your videos feels HOME. ❤
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I remember when first I found this channel, I'm totally lost and depressed. I learn to love myself from this channel. I learned to control my emotion and all also from this channel. Aileen, u made such a big impact in my life. I always come back to your channel whenever I'm feeling lost in life. As a first born daughter, you're the big sister i wish i have in my life. Love you Aileen ❤
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I am claiming that it is the right time to change. thank you for this. been feeling low these days about where should I bring my current creative career. something within is pushing me to explore new areas. glad that your video popped out. realized a lot. thank you so much. sending you love and light!
You know how there are some people who have such a positive energy that hanging out with them even for a short while leaves you feeling lighter. Your virtual presence is like that!❤ keeping doing the good work and spreading smiles.
The way you explain things and your voice,, it is just soothing 💌🎶
Wow that's exactly where I am, i have a peaceful life and I started thinking about change and it makes quite uncomfortable because I have to leave my stuff. But I trust in the Lord and I ask keep to keep me faithful in him!
I love your morning affirmations videos!
Thank you for all you do and continued inspiration!
this video helped more than you know, ive been in a spiral over pushing myself to accept and get comfortable with change but hearing this helped me feel okay with and so much more grounded. thank you
I am so inspired by both the wisdom here and the honesty about where you're at and how you're giving yourself the space to evolve and follow your curiosities. So much respect to you for listening to your inner guidance and showing us the way as you do.
I love this! your voice is so calm and soothing❤️
Thanks for this video. This was a reminder of my theme year 2024. I really like the videos about routines to improve, journal, and reflect on life in general.
thank you so so souch. your videos are like lovely big sweater and a fresh breathe at the same time. i'm so grateful to you, aileen
I am going through a change right now and it feels scary. Thanks for this video ❤ And you always deliver the message that the universe wants to convey 😊
Omg ,I really needed to hear this today.
Thank you for sharing 🎉🙏
I love you❤❤❤, I appreciate all of your videos, they always help me when I am stressed or don't know what to do, thank you so much
I definitely needed these reminders right now! I appreciate your vulnerability & your helpfulness with these important topics. I have been questioning things on my own path. Thank you! ☁️🤩☁️
This video is so helpful. Thank you❤
Please continue to share such ‘deep dive’ videos. Much love❤
Your videos helped me a lot. I come back to look at old videos sometimes. 😊 good luck with your change this year!!
❤ thank you for this video it was much needed
Thank you for this video, I really needed it❤❤
Thank you for sharing your thoughts & perspectives on change. I am doing my monthly recap and this was really refreshing, especially because I am starting my Saturn return next month so change is coming! 🙈
Firstly I was so excited when I saw you made a video as it's been ages since watching UA-cam but secondly, thank you! This video came at the right time of need and has helped me regain that bit of motivation and clarity that I have been seeking
I needed this video so much! I could watch and listen to this over and over again. Nothing like a sit down and heart to heart talk. Totally agree about the quality of short form videos in tiktok nowadays. You are so brave for voicing it out and it made me feel less alone. You are such a light to this world Aileen thank you.
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us all. This was exactly what I needed to hear today and is helping give me clarity ❤
You don't know how timely this is, Aileen. Thank you for making this video. 🥺
Continue with your videos, however long your community will watch and cherish... So true about shorts and all that is too short to enjoy... Btw love your friday posts too.. Thank you Dear Aileen for all your efforts❤❤❤❤
this is the exact style of video I wanna see, just another person with another perspective going through life because I think no one has the answers but if we can just see someone and be like hey they cool thing maybe I can do that too then I think we're on the right path
Love all the videos of yours, so healing. It's like you know and understand all the fear in my life, love you. If you have a podcast I will listen to your voice everyday❤
You have no idea how much you helped me! Please never stop posting 😯 I love you ♥️
Your fan from Morocco 🤗
This was like a conversation with a friend. I like how casual, chill but deep this video is.
Love this!! Best of luck in this exciting transition time 🙂
Thank you for uploading just right on time. I really love watching your vlogs. Fan since 2021. ❤🎉 love you!
This video is just want I needed!❤Thank you for sharing.
Thanks so much for this truly needed. 💗 Yes please 🙏🏽 more videos about your journey and economics 😁
Wow, I really needed this. Thank you so much🩶
I adoreeeee your positive affirmation and manifestation meditations🎉
Thank you for this video. Watching this made me feel like I am not alone - especially when you talked about the new type of content creation.
I just wanna say and i think i should say this earlier.. your videos and the way you talk and explain different things about life, business and self-care topics have affected me so much and helped me become more aware and able to think differently. The first time i searched for a video about how to heal from trauma i found your channel and since then it was and still my favourite channel. Thank you so much.❤
You make me fall in love with life again and that everything is possible ❤ Sending you lots of light and love. Thank you for creating inspirational content it always feels great watching you whenever I need to have some mindful company other than my friends...❤❤
So lovely❤keep shinning everyone♡
I'm excited to see your channel evolving with you!! I think an interesting topic/video idea would be like day in the life videos? Or moments where you bring us along and just chat about life? Anyways, love you! Thanks for all the hard work you put into these videos ❤
I love you so much ❤ These videos have brought a calmness and positive outlook to my life that I wouldn’t otherwise have. I’ve been escaping abuse. Getting out is genuinely so much harder than I expected. But I’m going to be okay. Thanks for being a calming, positive person I can count on to just ground me. I appreciate you so much ❤
It feels great to grow with you in this channel. As you keep the things that you value but adapt to change it feels like natural growth. Thank you!! ❤
This is a sign for a change ❤ love you
I feel better every day because of your videos. Thank you! much love from PH :)
Your videos helped a lot in believing in self ,living a dream life and to stay in my present job..thank you ❤
Friend, you're awesome! Follow what you need, We'll be here for you Please continue flowing with your energy as the beautiful being you are. We love you! Blessed be ❤
Dear Lavendaire, I’m totaly your side on this! I also don’t feel energized while listening to those short/ not deep videos. We adore your content and keep doing the great work without any pressure🙏🏻❤️
Ur videos r answers of all my doubted questions. Thanks a lot for making these videos😊❤
This resonates with me so much, absolutely love your content and I'm exactly the same kind of person..I love deep, slow, steady, sustainable
I’ve been following you for years ❤ and I love everything you do, you inspire! I understand what you told about quick content and I don’t like it too! Please share your thoughts on anything, everything you talk about is interesting 😍
Your videos have meant so much for me. Please do not take them down. I wish you well In Your endeavors .
Gosh I am so glad you said it, because I really didn’t want to keep up with these social media trends etc I feel like I belong in long form and the short form just makes me feel so drained like I want people to be less quick but I almost feel like it’s my excuse to be lazy about things but now that I hear you feeling the same I don’t feel so terrible about it!
Your videos and tips saved my life. , And you are an authentic influencer in people's life 🌱❤
You are doing great. Thank you very much Aileen .It is a great n wonderful way you help people across the globe 🙏🏻🍫
To be honest with you, it has been a pretty long time since I was here to meet you because of my job. However, I was happy and thankful that you have kept making videos. I got motivated and healed by you. Thank you, and please keep making this type of video.
Thanks to you my life feels more alive than ever❤ always grateful to your channel.
Wow! You're such an articulate young lady! You describe how one feels very well!
This video warms my heart, can watch this kind of content all day 🤩
i just got lay off and had a big change this year, i got a new job in the meantime knowing i have other plans in the future. But hearing you say "often life is pushing us to change it's pushing us to evolve. it's like once you thought you knew what you wanted and you go for it and things were going well then life starts guiding you to a new direction." It's just so so true. Love to see your video and i also love the casual ones like these💖
Long form content is much more valuable for me personally! I really appreciate your desire to put intentional content.
thank you so much for this video and for sharing your thoughts with us ✨ can't explain how well the timing of this video was! it was so calming and I definitely needed to hear this 🤍
I LOVE THIS TYPE OF VIDEO AILEEN ❤ i actually watched the whole 19 minutes. Love ur vibe . Calming, introspective, kind. LOVE YOU❤
Loads of love from India 🇮🇳
Hi ! I will always mention this, but I absolutely love your videos ! This video is relatable to my current situation. This is a year of transition for my family and I . We are moving to Cali and at first I was worried. Short story background about me, didn’t have the lavish life growing up and always lived through watching horrible renting experiences that my single mom had to endure . My main worry presently is moving from one area where we have established a nice living routine to uproot to another area where the price ranges are way beyond comfortable for our finances. But as a military family it is expected and I am happy to be closer to family. I am not worried about moving, I am worried about us struggling to barely make ends meet . But I have had to tell myself that we deserve a lifestyle suitable for our family and that my past experience will not affect my current environment. We are in a better position in our lives so maybe this move won’t be a regretful choice. Sorry for the long rant but your videos helps me see another side of my situation in a positive understanding way. I’m getting a second chance to actually live instead of survive. ❤ thank you Lavendaire
Your contribution is inspiring n motivating in great way💐
May God recompense you for all the good you do. You have gifted me with new words of inspiration. I hug my "Artist of Life" book. Thank you for your courage and your story!
I 💜 you!
I've been feeling like this, so this is timely. 😊
Thank you for this video it feels like you're talking to me and giving me a motivation to do something im afraid of which is CHANGE 😭 I have social anxiety disorder for 20 years even going out side of the house is a big challenge to me😭
Thank you so much for videos ❤ I have no words to say but thanks .... u helped me alot 🥺
thanks a lot! hope u have a good day, love 🫶🏻
I totally agree with everything you said about short - form content. Tik tok affected my concentration for reals. I deactivated it a while ago to see if things will improve, and yes I've noticed a difference already.
I'd love for you to cover topics regarding manifestation and spirituality (such as tarot)
i feel so much love and gratitude for you and this channel 💗
i feel so much love and gratitude for you too 💜
I like where your path is possibly heading with dream life + AI. I’m trying to fight the hamster wheel of making Short videos being required… when I don’t watch myself. Inspiring❤
Thank you for this video and I can definitely relate to some of the feelings you have about wanting to do things in a new way. For the past 13 years, I've lived with men around me who were not good for my mental health (first my dad, who was emotionally abusive, then moved to be with my partner, who ended up much the same). But the past two years, I've felt a strong pull to start and live a life of my own, which is both terrifying and exciting as it's something I've never done. I always felt, especially growing up, that I needed a strong male figure in my life to either guide me or help me through life's struggles, but as I've gotten older, I've connected with myself on such a deep and profound level that my goals have shifted to being on my own. It hasn't been an easy journey, as I've loved people very deeply and genuinely wanted relationships to work out as I grew into this new person I am becoming, but that hasn't been the case.
The interests, goals, values and activities I aspired to or enjoyed when I was 25 and leaving my family home are world's apart to who I am and what I enjoy doing now as a spiritual 30 year old woman who wants to make her own path.
This video was super helpful, as it made me recognise and validate my fearful emotions about change- as a Taurean, change is like an anathma to us bulls, we see it is a threat, and often hold onto relationships and things that don't serve us due to requiring stability and consistency in our lives.
I genuinely don't know where this next road is going to lead to- other than some small plans, and a dream I have about changing my situation, I could not tell you where I'll be in the next six months. It scares me that the things I aspire to- a better living situation, to move interstate, travelling and growing as a person- could all go pear shaped and I could end up in an even worse situation than where I initially started.
BUT my heart and inituiton is telling me- THIS is the right time, you have to do this for yourself Megan, the universe wants you to be happy and this is what you must do. It's a weird feeling as I usually don't follow my intuition, but I feel so strongly in my body and heart that this is what I must do, almost like a calling for me to have a better life.
Thank you for your video and the other comments on here are also immensely helpful in helping me to feel supported as I start this next life chapter soon. 😊😊
your meditation for anxiety video helped my son get out of a panic attack. Those videos are amazing, and I use them a few times a week. Many topics can be discussed: addictions, travels that empower, and connecting with nature as an observer or as an active subject ( ex. hikes), to name a few. Please don't stop what you’re doing. Perfect it.❤
Thank you so much Lavendaire🩶🎇
Thank you for this video Aileen
You have a good mindset about it! Sending you love & support 💖💖
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So thankful for this video 🥹✨ This year I'm also going to be open minded and accept the change and accept whatever comes with guidance cause I know the universe will provide only what's best for me 💗💎 This video gave me a postive thought about change 🫶🏻💗☁️ THANK YOU SO MUCH LAVENDAIRE FOR THIS VIDEO 💌
Regarding the new trends of short videos, I personnaly like to watch your videos on youtube. I learn through your videos but it feels good, not fast paced with maybe half informations. So I wouls say that now it is a power to don't fall into this. Thank you for your work !
Thank you for saying that! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I appreciate this so much. As a viewer, I prefer the more meaningful content that is naturally longer and gives you something to actually absorb, rather than the quick bullet points that are less memorable, as you mentioned.
I'm definitely in a phase of life of following breadcrumbs, so this resonates. 🖤
You just reminded me again and again of how much I love your channel. Your videos were one of the reasons why I have grown so much when it comes to mindset. :’)
🥹 thank you, I’m happy to hear that
I am from India. I started watching your video in 2017 and till now I watch. Its like daily thing for me to play your video and have breakfast, do my chores. Your voice is so soul calming. I love your work because you talk deep and long.
I feel there is a significant percentage of population who wants content like yours. Your voice is like a therapy.
By all means you start new thing but plz keep posting video. Once in 2 week will also do.
aileen, i love this casual chat type of video and resonate so much with the points you brought up! i myself am a tech girl and am so interested in AI and this idea you shared! been reading the books and going to meetups, and hoping to one day get invited to conferences too :))
i'm looking forward to more videos like this and hearing more about this new direction you're taking
This is awesome, your followers will grow and change as well so adapting your channel to include those adaptations just makes sense. I often thought a Lavendaire workbook app would be awesome and adding AI to that would further enhance it. The walking you through step by step and having tracking incorporated would be amazing.
I would love you to talk about mental health and also maybe do some slow day vlogs .My energy was not resonating with me this month but yeah now I know that I can figure it out. Lots of love!
Was waiting for your video ❤
I don’t like short videos either, I love your videos, everytime I watch your videos I feel so clam , inspiring, thank u always
I feel that it's time for a change for me too, thanks for your video
Hey Aileen! Your videos are very therapeutic, I'm your new sub about a week ago & I'm happy I found your channel. This topic is so relatable to me since I'm going through changes in my life right now. Thank you so much for your videos like this! It makes me braver & aware that I'm not the only one facing challenges and changes in life :) more power to you!
Welcome! 🙏🏼
i resonated a lot almost same with even details ☺ You allow to do changes 🎀