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1) 1:38 Take care of your physical body 2) 3:17 What's the story you've been telling yourself about yourself? 3) 6:56 You get to decide your identity 4) 11:07 Self love 5) 13:30 Live for yourself and your approval Thank me later!
Glad to say that from 4/10, I'm feeling 8.5/10! I realized that self-love journey (building self-confidence, healing inner child, shadow work, etc.) really takes time and once I accepted this slow yet fulfilling phase, everything slowly falls into its place. I started with small habits every month with regards to self betterment. I am not forcing myself to do these habits so I don't feel like it's a chore. Here's a glimpse of my list: ✅ morning is for self, family, dogs, household chores ✅ 10-minute meditation ✅ Drink 1L of water ✅ 20-minute abs and booty exercise ✅ Eat slowly (chew food) ✅ Think before acting ✅ Go with life's flow ✅Afternoon is for work and running errands ✅ Finish 1 book per month ✅ Practice impromptu speech
8.5-9/10. I have really learned to let a lot of things go and love myself unconditionally. You and your content have been a huge part of my self love journey. We are so thankful for you!
People should be kind to other's stop blaming people because they don't love them self. I'm always trying to help people and love every One. The better I am the worst I got treated so I took a good look at myself it's about me and I found out it was them not me so . Live an love your self. No one will be as Good as you treat people. Love is the key.
My boyfriend Fred live-in with me and sending Love to someone or 2 or maybe more love msgs I had to let it go because he would not care anything ifor me so I just let me it go o he's still with me but I don't want to push anyone to do anything . You asre so right. Love your self
4-5... im not too comfortable with my body (physically, and mentallt too) but i know once i get my breast reduction surgery im gonna be at like an 8 and then i can start working towards that 10 :)
I mostly feel like a solid 9 these days... I feel very comfortable in my body, my mind, my life as a strong independent 25 y/o woman... but sometimes I feel less confident when I let myself be vulnerable with people... it's like I can only fully function if I keep a certain wall up towards other people 😅 any advice??
@@shameless_days Hi Chloe, I say be mindful of your moments of vulnerability and ask yourself why you're feeling this way. It's a great time to get to know yourself. Sending you hugs and good vibes. 💌
You look very different in a positive way!! I’m so surprised. The way you talk is also different than the previous videos… Self care and self confidence is everything. I have so much respect for you 🥺💖💖
Love this message. I’m at like 7 right now, and quickly growing. I’m putting a lot more care and love into myself, and I’m starting to believe I’m equipped to fix any misalignments.
I’m a 7 atm… turning 30 in a few months and a little freaked out. This video helped me realise that I should embrace this new era and make it my “hot girl” years! Thank you! Also I find that embracing spirituality and mindfulness has helped me with my self acceptance and thus confidence. Work in progress ❤️
What's interesting to me is, judging from what I can see by your pic, you're very beautiful ^^ I hope you can conquer whatever it is internally that isn't allowing you to see how much of a 10 you are : ) sending you positivity and love
Now in my 50’s and couldn’t feel better! Better than years before more accepting of myself! I don’t care what others say or do! I now do things my way!
I started my selflove journey in 2020. I started watching your videos and you taught me an insecure heart broken 16 year old girl to love and embrace every part of herself then I healed from everything that broke me and I'm now 19 years old throughout these 3 years I can now confidently look into ppls eyes and talk to them I am literally the happiest girl I've ever been and I'm in my hot girl era right now I don't if you see this comment but I just wanted to tell you that I am deeply grateful that I get to see your channel when I was at my lowest and I am thanking your from the bottom of my heart 🥰🥰💝
i dont know how you do but you put out a video about a topic i am struggling the most at the moment. I've been following you for more than 5 years and your content has been helping my own healing path and i'm very thankful for that.
At 60 I’m still trying I’ll get there. I suppose I’m feeling a 6. I’m bettering my life with the main focus on me now. Thanks for your videos and thanks for being you. PS… my order from you arrives today. I’m so excited to receive and begin journaling with the Deck. Lots of love and light 🙏🏻
Right now I don't have anything to tell about myself confidence and Esteem but I want to say that I will start working on it daily and from the very moment and it really takes time to understand yourself and love yourself Unconditionally because morning something happened to which actually disturb me and I have not done anything since morning and also specialising myself thinking this that and also watch so many videos of yours and finally this one which is making me feel so good now that I am feeling good about myself and I think I got something which can make me to do something in my life which is helping me to get motivated and I really want to do something to change my identity😊
I'll be honest, I'm at a 2.5 for my hot girl era. This video really hit home for me because I just started my own 'self-love journey', if you will, and everything you were saying is what I'm trying to teach myself and need to start applying to myself because I don't like who I have become and need to change and your videos have been helping a lot actually so thank you! 😊
I think im at a 7. I have my ups and downs, but genuinely your videos instantly remind me of how I can feel about myself! Thank you for making these wonderful videos.
I feel like I'm 9.5-10/10 loving myself and being grateful are the best things that I've done in my life, thank you so much for everything, you showed me that I'm worthy, enough and absolutely capable of being successful, Lavendair will always be my favorite UA-cam channel
i'm 4 right now. i've been in this self-discovery, productivity era for over 2 years now, and a lot has changed. i've been through ups and downs, there have been days where i felt incredible and made great progress and then there were days where i just wanted to sleep and do nothing. all of these experiences shape me and i am proud of being on this journey (1'm 17 years old btw). i love this channel and thank you Aileen!! you're incredible
I feel like right now I am at a 2/10. I don't have very much confidence in myself and I am very dependent on others opinions. I think if I put to use the tips you put here I will be able to move from a 2 up to at least a 9. Sounds ambitious I know, but I want to be independent and love myself. I am a 26 year old person and I have a long way to go. But I am thankful for your advice Aileen! You have helped me so much since I found your channel and you keep doing what your doing. You truly are helping everybody and we all appreciate you for it.
Yes, we welcome you to the Hot Girl Era, love this for you!❤🔥 I definitely think its so powerful how you said "It all starts in the mind" as it's true, what we tell ourselves shapes our reality and we should prioritize positive and effective self programming so we can truly enjoy our greatest being ✨
1/10 I feel that I have such low self-confidence for how I look. I grew up fat and I still see myself as fat even though I’ve lost a few kilograms. It’s been hard doing the physical and mental work of releasing this shame and identity. But, this video truly came at a right time and acts as a catalyst for me to slowly, truly begin the necessary work of raising my self-confidence. I truly deeply resonated with all that you said in this video. Some ideas even felt like a good slap to my face, a good moment of enlightenment. I am on my way to changing my identity and reality, and I have you, Aileen, to thank for. Thank you so much for making this video, for sharing your truths and insights to the world, and for being such a helpful and compassionate soul. It’s almost 6.30am here, but I hope you’re having a good time whenever it is where you are. Sending you the ultimate love and light. 💛✨💫
Um....I was around 3 back in 2020...and then depression , anxiety, dark night of the soul , spiritual awakening, self development, spirituality happened. Now I'm on my healing journey...and I'm rating myself a 10/10 . 🙋♀️🦋💜
This year and going forward, I chose to reject the false negative self talks and tap into the hardworking, self believing and confident version of myself ❤
Yess! I feel really happy to get this content from you! It's universe's sign for me to be myself! I have been watching your videos for years and honestly you are one of the best guide! Thank you Aileen!
Hello from Belgium ! I am going through a negative cycle in my life, I have a low self esteem and self confidence but I m trying to fix that! I just found your channel and it makes me feel better, you have great tips ! Thank you for that ❤
I am soo grateful that You started the channel and I've found you cause you have made me soo much better person as compared who I was few years ago!! Thank you Aileen ❤️ #LoveFromIndia
6/10! I definitely have a lot of tendencies to be a people pleaser or be self conscious about how choices that I make might be perceived but lately I’ve made myself proud by sticking to my skincare rituals and I’m a graduate student and I really think I am on the way there
You are the reason I have gained self love and confidence. I did your self love affirmations and in just a couple of days my self confidence was brought up.
I still have a long journey. I think I am 4/10. I still feel a lot of anxiety and depression. 😟 I can't go a whole week without feeling very down, atleast 1-3 days a week. I am trying to seek help, which is progress. I am glad you are feeling well and many others in the comment section too ❤This gives me hope for me, thank you! ☺
Hi Aileen!! It’s my birthday today!! And I can say that I am now at the scale of 7-8. I am far where I was used tobe. And thank you for your videos, you are really an inspiration to me. Sharing your experiences, wisdom and lessons through your videos helps me a lot to become the best version of myself ❤…
I love that you said you would say that you’re a UA-camr even though you didn’t feel fully confident about it. I did the same thing before when I wanted to be a writer. Now, I am a public health researcher and writer and it’s amazing!
New mom here.... I totally feel like a 4/10... Learning to love my new body, learning to take time for myself, learning how to raise a person. I'm very much ready to re-enter my hot girl era
I'd say I'm at 4.5. (I turn 30 in 3 days!) I've grown a lot over this past year. Thank you for this as I continue to work on myself & move higher into my Hot Girl Era!
I feel like I’m at an 8.5 too! I really feel pretty good. I’ve done a lot of work already and I feel so much better than I used to but I know I am still gonna become more confident and self assured and I can’t wait for that!
For a long time now I've not liked the fact that I'm not social enough as i am an introvert, and so i tried changing myself. I tried to be more social by 'acting' like I'm social. But honestly i just ended up in awkward situations and i feel like the more i force myself to be something I'm naturally not, the more i can't be that person. So I've given up on trying to be social and I'm just gonna stay in my little bubble 😌
Super inspiring! I had my worst relapse after working on myself but I am optimistic that I’ll rise up again after my previous fall. PLUSSS You are so beautiful 😍
I've been making slight changes by dancing, working out, and eating healthy. From that I am feeling more like a 9, but before I was feeling like a 3 or a 4. Good tips! I like the video :)
I'm at a 6 because sometimes I can't say my own opinion to others and sometimes I don't know about myself and my opinion. I'm not an English speaker but your English is really understandable and beautiful. I like studying English using your videos and learning from your thought!
This came at a perfect time for me. My inner voice has been really bad, telling me I’m not good enough or am an embarrassment or don’t deserve love, just really negative stuff about myself and I believed it. But now I’m realizing that none of it is true, it’s all fake. I am amazing and worthy of love because why not. I need to start affirming this 💗
hi, aileen. thank you so much for always empowering every each one of us. to be honest, you really helped me a lot through learning how to love myself more. your channel is the one i always ran through whenever i am feeling down, and watching one of your videos empower and motivates me. thank you so much for creating this channel.
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listen, i am confident in all forms and i have always been, that doesn’t mean i don’t have to watch those kind of videos, because sometimes it becomes negative and might turn into something like arrogance and narcissism, so i always have to see what’s actually right in some fields, i thought i was 10/10 but it’s 9/10 because that 1 is the space to accept that i might be wrong and make mistakes
Hi Merie. I’m sorry to hear that… although you should be super proud of yourself for continuing to seek out different resources to support yourself.💕 In case it might interest you, I have a variety of videos on my YT channel related to how we can develop our self-love even when we’re experiencing challenging things in life. All the best!🌟
1/10 and ready to finally apply small habits to grow and will start with identifying my limiting beliefs. Thank you so much for you help. It's going to be a great journey to a better self.
Thank you Aileen for this 🌼.. I think am at 4.5 era like I don’t know still stuck but yeah I keep telling myself that I got this and I see the changes in me that am becoming the more better person day by day 🌼...
I have spent long hours only listening to your video while waiting my child in his class. I felt like I find my authentic self. I know how to be present, love my self more.
I’m at 6.5 my life is slowly coming together and I am happy, the people around me are drifting away I believe is a sign as I am really elevating so maybe they weren’t supposed to be? But other than that I am going to continue working on my hot girl era. And I’m excited about it!❤
I am in my mid-30s and my "hot girl era" shut down going into my 30s when I moved into a dangerous low income rural neighborhood. I have been conservative with natural beauty very unkept. I want to meet my personal safety needs an enjoy gender identity as a SAFE hot girl more. I love being a hot girl when it is safe though am serious about gender flexibility with my lifestyle and athletic or constructive abilities. Your talking about really getting to the root of your lack of self-confidence and getting over that inspired me alot.
16:25 I’m probably not very confident but I’m getting there slowly and I know I’m going to be my idol confident self !!! Affirming:- I am confident I radiate confidence My Solar plexus chakra is activated I feel confident I live my life the way I want
I could say that currently i'm between 6~7 out of 10. It does change depends on my mood or how i'm feeling for the day. But for the past 4 years, especially since pandemic, i've grown so much. Walking through the self-love journey and now i'm more than ready for my self-confidence and self-acceptance journey. I've learnt a lot for the past years and thanks to you, Aileen. I finally found the reason and ways to love, forgive, and accept myself. I know the journey is still a long way to go but i'm ready to walk through this path and meet my ideal self in the future❤
I heard one of your videos that we repeated I deserve to be celebrated I deserve to be loved I would like to find that video again it opened up a happiness in me
Hi Aileen!! Hope you are doing good! You literally lift up my day with amazing content! Would love to watch much of your positivity spread!! And yeah Congrats for 1.8M!! You deserve more!!!
Well. I'm not going to enter my hot girl era, but I will say I absolutely love your daily affirmations. They have become my daily affirmations. One of my favorites is, "My worth is innate and cannot be taken away!!" I am a force of love and happiness. Thank you Aileen!! Thank you Lavendaire!! :-)
I have loved this video so much 💚 you are right when saying that others don't live your life for you..You have to do what you makes you feel happy and satisfied 😍
This video was amazing. I have been taking care of myself and loving myself, and I have also been meditating. This video was just what I needed to keep me going. Because of this, I now love myself more completely and deeply than I ever have. From my own experience, this is true. When we start to love ourselves, we naturally start to love others. 🥰
Incredible video!!🙌🏼💗✨🫶🏼 I love the topics you presented here! The last part about truly accepting yourself on your own terms was my favorite part! I think I’m a 6 on the hot girl era scale… still have a ways to go but I’m climbing on up!🥰 thanks to your great content here! And way to go on your #8 status! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 it very much shows in this confident video here! Keep it up 👍 💕
Hi Shaun! Thanks for being so vulnerable to share your own “hot girl era” ranking. 😄 I have several videos on my YT channel on topics like SELF-LOVE & ACCEPTANCE that I hope might be interesting for you. All the best! - Jenn
I feel like I'm a 5 or 6 cause I feel like i'm getting a hang of it but there is still just so much I need to learn and I think I need accept myself for who I am without the fear of judgement from others. thank you so much for your videos I love them so so much.
6 out of 10. Thank you for giving me a chance to think about my currunt self. I decided to be happy here and now and fulfill my desire! This video was a lot of fun to me, too :)
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1) 1:38 Take care of your physical body
2) 3:17 What's the story you've been telling yourself about yourself?
3) 6:56 You get to decide your identity
4) 11:07 Self love
5) 13:30 Live for yourself and your approval
Thank me later!
Thanks for the summary to come back to. Make sure to watch the video in total though, because every detail is precious ♥
thank you
Thank you so much 💕
احب الناس اللي زيك ❤️❤️❤️ شكرا
thank you!!!
Glad to say that from 4/10, I'm feeling 8.5/10!
I realized that self-love journey (building self-confidence, healing inner child, shadow work, etc.) really takes time and once I accepted this slow yet fulfilling phase, everything slowly falls into its place.
I started with small habits every month with regards to self betterment. I am not forcing myself to do these habits so I don't feel like it's a chore.
Here's a glimpse of my list:
✅ morning is for self, family, dogs, household chores
✅ 10-minute meditation
✅ Drink 1L of water
✅ 20-minute abs and booty exercise
✅ Eat slowly (chew food)
✅ Think before acting
✅ Go with life's flow
✅Afternoon is for work and running errands
✅ Finish 1 book per month
✅ Practice impromptu speech
There’s less comparison when you feel self assured and love your true essence ✨
8.5-9/10. I have really learned to let a lot of things go and love myself unconditionally. You and your content have been a huge part of my self love journey. We are so thankful for you!
For myself, I would say 5. I really have to work on myself. I'm glad you were able learn from Aileen as well. 😁😀
People should be kind to other's stop blaming people because they don't love them self. I'm always trying to help people and love every One. The better I am the worst I got treated so I took a good look at myself it's about me and I found out it was them not me so . Live an love your self. No one will be as Good as you treat people. Love is the key.
My boyfriend Fred live-in with me and sending Love to someone or 2 or maybe more love msgs I had to let it go because he would not care anything ifor me so I just let me it go o he's still with me but I don't want to push anyone to do anything . You asre so right. Love your self
On a scale from 1-10, how much do you feel like you're in your "hot girl era"?
This was such a fun one to film!
4-5... im not too comfortable with my body (physically, and mentallt too) but i know once i get my breast reduction surgery im gonna be at like an 8 and then i can start working towards that 10 :)
I'm at 8ish..
I mostly feel like a solid 9 these days... I feel very comfortable in my body, my mind, my life as a strong independent 25 y/o woman... but sometimes I feel less confident when I let myself be vulnerable with people... it's like I can only fully function if I keep a certain wall up towards other people 😅 any advice??
@@shameless_days Hi Chloe, I say be mindful of your moments of vulnerability and ask yourself why you're feeling this way. It's a great time to get to know yourself. Sending you hugs and good vibes. 💌
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You look very different in a positive way!! I’m so surprised. The way you talk is also different than the previous videos… Self care and self confidence is everything. I have so much respect for you 🥺💖💖
Love this message.
I’m at like 7 right now, and quickly growing. I’m putting a lot more care and love into myself, and I’m starting to believe I’m equipped to fix any misalignments.
I’m a 7 atm… turning 30 in a few months and a little freaked out. This video helped me realise that I should embrace this new era and make it my “hot girl” years! Thank you!
Also I find that embracing spirituality and mindfulness has helped me with my self acceptance and thus confidence. Work in progress ❤️
What's interesting to me is, judging from what I can see by your pic, you're very beautiful ^^ I hope you can conquer whatever it is internally that isn't allowing you to see how much of a 10 you are : ) sending you positivity and love
@@EmmaMarch you are very kind 💓sending lots of love, luck and health your way 💋
@@meganb4898 thank youuu ♥
Now in my 50’s and couldn’t feel better! Better than years before more accepting of myself! I don’t care what others say or do! I now do things my way!
I love this. It’s so easy comparing yourself to others but choosing happiness and self love is empowering. I love this 💜
Been watching you since 2 years now. And honestly this channel has helped me a lot ❤️
✨✨ love to hear that!
Same
I started my selflove journey in 2020. I started watching your videos and you taught me an insecure heart broken 16 year old girl to love and embrace every part of herself then I healed from everything that broke me and I'm now 19 years old throughout these 3 years I can now confidently look into ppls eyes and talk to them I am literally the happiest girl I've ever been and I'm in my hot girl era right now I don't if you see this comment but I just wanted to tell you that I am deeply grateful that I get to see your channel when I was at my lowest and I am thanking your from the bottom of my heart 🥰🥰💝
i dont know how you do but you put out a video about a topic i am struggling the most at the moment. I've been following you for more than 5 years and your content has been helping my own healing path and i'm very thankful for that.
i feel 6.5 as i have to keep taking care of myself and a lot of limiting beliefs are blocking my way
6.5 - coming out of a negative rut but I'm actually really proud of myself for how I've been handling a really tough few years and never giving up!
At 60 I’m still trying I’ll get there. I suppose I’m feeling a 6. I’m bettering my life with the main focus on me now. Thanks for your videos and thanks for being you. PS… my order from you arrives today. I’m so excited to receive and begin journaling with the Deck. Lots of love and light 🙏🏻
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Right now I don't have anything to tell about myself confidence and Esteem but I want to say that I will start working on it daily and from the very moment and it really takes time to understand yourself and love yourself Unconditionally because morning something happened to which actually disturb me and I have not done anything since morning and also specialising myself thinking this that and also watch so many videos of yours and finally this one which is making me feel so good now that I am feeling good about myself and I think I got something which can make me to do something in my life which is helping me to get motivated and I really want to do something to change my identity😊
I'll be honest, I'm at a 2.5 for my hot girl era. This video really hit home for me because I just started my own 'self-love journey', if you will, and everything you were saying is what I'm trying to teach myself and need to start applying to myself because I don't like who I have become and need to change and your videos have been helping a lot actually so thank you! 😊
I think im at a 7. I have my ups and downs, but genuinely your videos instantly remind me of how I can feel about myself! Thank you for making these wonderful videos.
Same here! I’m 31 & felt sooo insecure & was people pleasing in my 20s. Thanks girl
I feel like I'm 9.5-10/10 loving myself and being grateful are the best things that I've done in my life, thank you so much for everything, you showed me that I'm worthy, enough and absolutely capable of being successful, Lavendair will always be my favorite UA-cam channel
i'm 4 right now. i've been in this self-discovery, productivity era for over 2 years now, and a lot has changed. i've been through ups and downs, there have been days where i felt incredible and made great progress and then there were days where i just wanted to sleep and do nothing. all of these experiences shape me and i am proud of being on this journey (1'm 17 years old btw). i love this channel and thank you Aileen!! you're incredible
Same. There are a lot of ups and downs but we will get there.
I feel like right now I am at a 2/10. I don't have very much confidence in myself and I am very dependent on others opinions. I think if I put to use the tips you put here I will be able to move from a 2 up to at least a 9. Sounds ambitious I know, but I want to be independent and love myself. I am a 26 year old person and I have a long way to go. But I am thankful for your advice Aileen! You have helped me so much since I found your channel and you keep doing what your doing. You truly are helping everybody and we all appreciate you for it.
Yes, we welcome you to the Hot Girl Era, love this for you!❤🔥 I definitely think its so powerful how you said "It all starts in the mind" as it's true, what we tell ourselves shapes our reality and we should prioritize positive and effective self programming so we can truly enjoy our greatest being ✨
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I’m at an 8 aged 46. Definitely happier in my skin as I get older
1/10 I feel that I have such low self-confidence for how I look. I grew up fat and I still see myself as fat even though I’ve lost a few kilograms. It’s been hard doing the physical and mental work of releasing this shame and identity. But, this video truly came at a right time and acts as a catalyst for me to slowly, truly begin the necessary work of raising my self-confidence. I truly deeply resonated with all that you said in this video. Some ideas even felt like a good slap to my face, a good moment of enlightenment. I am on my way to changing my identity and reality, and I have you, Aileen, to thank for. Thank you so much for making this video, for sharing your truths and insights to the world, and for being such a helpful and compassionate soul. It’s almost 6.30am here, but I hope you’re having a good time whenever it is where you are. Sending you the ultimate love and light. 💛✨💫
You still look like you're in your mid 20s. You're so beautiful, keep up the good content.
Um....I was around 3 back in 2020...and then depression , anxiety, dark night of the soul , spiritual awakening, self development, spirituality happened.
Now I'm on my healing journey...and I'm rating myself a 10/10 .
🙋♀️🦋💜
This year and going forward, I chose to reject the false negative self talks and tap into the hardworking, self believing and confident version of myself ❤
Loved the video, Aileen!!!! I totally agree once we love ourselves we becoming loving to others as well. 🥰🌸💗🧚🏻♀️💛💗✨
Yess! I feel really happy to get this content from you! It's universe's sign for me to be myself! I have been watching your videos for years and honestly you are one of the best guide! Thank you Aileen!
Hello from Belgium ! I am going through a negative cycle in my life, I have a low self esteem and self confidence but I m trying to fix that! I just found your channel and it makes me feel better, you have great tips ! Thank you for that ❤
Hope things get better for u!💗
I am soo grateful that You started the channel and I've found you cause you have made me soo much better person as compared who I was few years ago!! Thank you Aileen ❤️ #LoveFromIndia
6/10! I definitely have a lot of tendencies to be a people pleaser or be self conscious about how choices that I make might be perceived but lately I’ve made myself proud by sticking to my skincare rituals and I’m a graduate student and I really think I am on the way there
You are the reason I have gained self love and confidence. I did your self love affirmations and in just a couple of days my self confidence was brought up.
I still have a long journey. I think I am 4/10. I still feel a lot of anxiety and depression. 😟 I can't go a whole week without feeling very down, atleast 1-3 days a week. I am trying to seek help, which is progress. I am glad you are feeling well and many others in the comment section too ❤This gives me hope for me, thank you! ☺
Hi Aileen!! It’s my birthday today!! And I can say that I am now at the scale of 7-8. I am far where I was used tobe. And thank you for your videos, you are really an inspiration to me. Sharing your experiences, wisdom and lessons through your videos helps me a lot to become the best version of myself ❤…
I love that you said you would say that you’re a UA-camr even though you didn’t feel fully confident about it. I did the same thing before when I wanted to be a writer. Now, I am a public health researcher and writer and it’s amazing!
New mom here.... I totally feel like a 4/10... Learning to love my new body, learning to take time for myself, learning how to raise a person. I'm very much ready to re-enter my hot girl era
Good luck for your motherhood journey❤ and good luck for your new hot girl era as well. Wishing you all the best for you and your family!
Everyone in the lofi community they are so kind and they send warm messages
I'd say I'm at 4.5. (I turn 30 in 3 days!) I've grown a lot over this past year. Thank you for this as I continue to work on myself & move higher into my Hot Girl Era!
It's 2/10. It's ok I'm not sad & I'm ready, excited & motivated to reach higher.. Love you and your pretty soul❤
I feel like I’m at an 8.5 too! I really feel pretty good. I’ve done a lot of work already and I feel so much better than I used to but I know I am still gonna become more confident and self assured and I can’t wait for that!
For a long time now I've not liked the fact that I'm not social enough as i am an introvert, and so i tried changing myself. I tried to be more social by 'acting' like I'm social. But honestly i just ended up in awkward situations and i feel like the more i force myself to be something I'm naturally not, the more i can't be that person. So I've given up on trying to be social and I'm just gonna stay in my little bubble 😌
Super inspiring! I had my worst relapse after working on myself but I am optimistic that I’ll rise up again after my previous fall. PLUSSS You are so beautiful 😍
4/10 I feel like I am still in an era that I am still “figuring out” things. Learning and unlearning things, and still healing.
Having aileen is like having an older sister (a kind) one ❤ thank you
Maybe 4.5-5.. I don't know.. maybe cause I not feeling so good today, both physically and emotionally.. but thanks for this one.. lots of love 💕
I've been making slight changes by dancing, working out, and eating healthy. From that I am feeling more like a 9, but before I was feeling like a 3 or a 4. Good tips! I like the video :)
I'm at a 6 because sometimes I can't say my own opinion to others and sometimes I don't know about myself and my opinion. I'm not an English speaker but your English is really understandable and beautiful. I like studying English using your videos and learning from your thought!
"This disconnect between your worthiness and how you feel" thanks for assuming worthiness
I’m feeling 1 at the moment , very low and I truly feel I’m worthless and not loved.
This is why I’m here to gain myself back
Same girl
Girlieee let’s go!!!! It’s never late for us 🤍 We aint ever looking back. I truly wish the best for you 🥰🥰🥰
May Almighty God gives me strength to achieve this in Jesus's name Amen 😊
Lavender is a Straight 10 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This came at a perfect time for me. My inner voice has been really bad, telling me I’m not good enough or am an embarrassment or don’t deserve love, just really negative stuff about myself and I believed it. But now I’m realizing that none of it is true, it’s all fake. I am amazing and worthy of love because why not. I need to start affirming this 💗
hi, aileen. thank you so much for always empowering every each one of us. to be honest, you really helped me a lot through learning how to love myself more. your channel is the one i always ran through whenever i am feeling down, and watching one of your videos empower and motivates me. thank you so much for creating this channel.
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listen, i am confident in all forms and i have always been, that doesn’t mean i don’t have to watch those kind of videos, because sometimes it becomes negative and might turn into something like arrogance and narcissism, so i always have to see what’s actually right in some fields, i thought i was 10/10 but it’s 9/10 because that 1 is the space to accept that i might be wrong and make mistakes
i just turned 22 i’d say i’m at a 4, i’m hoping by the end of my 20’s i’ll be at an 11☺️ even just by 23!
I needed this I think I deserve it ❤thank you for sharing some tips
Thank you so much! I needed this because lately I've been feeling depressed, but this video was needed at the right time...
Hi Merie. I’m sorry to hear that… although you should be super proud of yourself for continuing to seek out different resources to support yourself.💕 In case it might interest you, I have a variety of videos on my YT channel related to how we can develop our self-love even when we’re experiencing challenging things in life. All the best!🌟
1/10 and ready to finally apply small habits to grow and will start with identifying my limiting beliefs. Thank you so much for you help. It's going to be a great journey to a better self.
I'm so great full that I'm watching your videos in my 20s it's really helping for self healing and self love..❤
Thank you Aileen for this 🌼..
I think am at 4.5 era like I don’t know still stuck but yeah I keep telling myself that I got this and I see the changes in me that am becoming the more better person day by day 🌼...
Rn I’m feeling 4.5 but I’m trying and I’m bettering myself. Thank you, Aileen for this beautiful video 💖
I have spent long hours only listening to your video while waiting my child in his class. I felt like I find my authentic self. I know how to be present, love my self more.
The one and only video i needed rn , thanks Aileen. Lots of love ...
I can’t believe you’re in your thirties you look amazing!!
Hot girl era and the hand motion for period….girl I love you 💕
Feel am on 5.1 still working on myself .Thank you for guidance big Sis❤
I’m at 6.5 my life is slowly coming together and I am happy, the people around me are drifting away I believe is a sign as I am really elevating so maybe they weren’t supposed to be? But other than that I am going to continue working on my hot girl era. And I’m excited about it!❤
I play music helps me raise my confidence shred on my guitar metal is the way 😈🤘 exercise is very important I exercise everyday twice a day
7 going on 10 … I feel like I am finally getting it all together ☺️☺️☺️♥️♥️♥️♥️
You're one of my fave youtubers although I'm just new in your channel. I love your contents. Your channel is like one of my safe haven 💕
This video is so positive it even made my negative mind turn positive and thank you for that ❤️
Your identity is fluid. ❤️ So powerful. ✨️
I am in my mid-30s and my "hot girl era" shut down going into my 30s when I moved into a dangerous low income rural neighborhood. I have been conservative with natural beauty very unkept. I want to meet my personal safety needs an enjoy gender identity as a SAFE hot girl more. I love being a hot girl when it is safe though am serious about gender flexibility with my lifestyle and athletic or constructive abilities. Your talking about really getting to the root of your lack of self-confidence and getting over that inspired me alot.
16:25 I’m probably not very confident but I’m getting there slowly and I know I’m going to be my idol confident self !!!
Affirming:-
I am confident
I radiate confidence
My Solar plexus chakra is activated
I feel confident
I live my life the way I want
I could say that currently i'm between 6~7 out of 10. It does change depends on my mood or how i'm feeling for the day. But for the past 4 years, especially since pandemic, i've grown so much. Walking through the self-love journey and now i'm more than ready for my self-confidence and self-acceptance journey. I've learnt a lot for the past years and thanks to you, Aileen. I finally found the reason and ways to love, forgive, and accept myself. I know the journey is still a long way to go but i'm ready to walk through this path and meet my ideal self in the future❤
Hi, Lavendaire, I begun watching your vid in 2020. you have changed massiv since that time. You are glowing like a star.
Thank you 🥺🥺 it’s true
I heard one of your videos that we repeated I deserve to be celebrated I deserve to be loved I would like to find that video again it opened up a happiness in me
The most important relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself.
Hi Aileen!! Hope you are doing good! You literally lift up my day with amazing content! Would love to watch much of your positivity spread!!
And yeah Congrats for 1.8M!! You deserve more!!!
Listening to u feels so calming I love this channel sm
Well. I'm not going to enter my hot girl era, but I will say I absolutely love your daily affirmations. They have become my daily affirmations. One of my favorites is, "My worth is innate and cannot be taken away!!" I am a force of love and happiness. Thank you Aileen!! Thank you Lavendaire!! :-)
I have loved this video so much 💚 you are right when saying that others don't live your life for you..You have to do what you makes you feel happy and satisfied 😍
I forgive myself and empathize with all of my feelings and acknowledge I have the power to change and become who I want to be ❤
This video was amazing. I have been taking care of myself and loving myself, and I have also been meditating. This video was just what I needed to keep me going. Because of this, I now love myself more completely and deeply than I ever have. From my own experience, this is true. When we start to love ourselves, we naturally start to love others. 🥰
This was one of your most incredible videos. I’ll save this forever.
Incredible video!!🙌🏼💗✨🫶🏼 I love the topics you presented here! The last part about truly accepting yourself on your own terms was my favorite part! I think I’m a 6 on the hot girl era scale… still have a ways to go but I’m climbing on up!🥰 thanks to your great content here! And way to go on your #8 status! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 it very much shows in this confident video here! Keep it up 👍 💕
Hi Shaun! Thanks for being so vulnerable to share your own “hot girl era” ranking. 😄 I have several videos on my YT channel on topics like SELF-LOVE & ACCEPTANCE that I hope might be interesting for you. All the best!
- Jenn
I‘d say right now I am between 6.5 and a 7. mostly a 7 but I am constantly growing and it is so cool to realize that growth step by step ❤
I feel like I'm a 5 or 6 cause I feel like i'm getting a hang of it but there is still just so much I need to learn and I think I need accept myself for who I am without the fear of judgement from others. thank you so much for your videos I love them so so much.
14:01 Do what makes you feel good. You set yourself your own value
Immediately drawn into your video. You have such a calm soothing demeanor and it’s so beautiful.
You are such an inspiration I have know you for almost 2 years you helped me a lot
Tq
I decided from today I will work on my insecurities.I am listening to every point and taking notes.Your videos are really helpful.
I love how confident you are 💗
6 out of 10. Thank you for giving me a chance to think about my currunt self. I decided to be happy here and now and fulfill my desire! This video was a lot of fun to me, too :)
I needed this ❤❤❤ thank you