Excellent presentation. Well explained. Clear with concise accurate data points. BPD is a curse of an illness and the people who suffer from it deserve help and healing. They , like everybody, have intrinsic human value and merit peace and comfort in their lives.
I am sorry to hear that. I am watching this to try and better understand my 16 year old daughter, who hates my guts right now. I know it can be hard for family to be understanding if they are being treated badly at times. We dont understand why our kids say such awful, hurtful, heartbreaking things to us, for no real reason. Its hard to get over that feeling of hurt and resentment. I hope you have at least one person in your life to lean on and accept you.
This is excellent. I have watched easily around 1,000 videos on BPD in the last months (audhd and infj ;) ) and this was just perfectly and compassionately explained with perfect visuals. The most devastating thing about BPD was the love of my life and her family not believing i had no idea what i did or what happened.. i sent 20,000 word apologies while still in the dissociative hangover. Thank you. Maybe one day I’ll be able to fix this situation, but i have to be healed first.
This is the most informative video on BPD. I self diagnosed that this is my problem and I have been researching it in depth. I'm in talking therapy, let's see where it takes me. Just having an understanding of it I find very helpful, it gives me explanation of my troubling emotions and hope that I'll be able to manage them. Thank you.
This is the most intelligently vulgarisation and in depth explanation that I ever hear sorry for S, V , that I immensely appreciate but this here is even enlightening, thank you very much.
What an outstanding presentation! Thank you so very much Dr. Stanford. The way you presented BPD was informative, simple, true and real. May the Lord continue blessing and keeping you to help people with this disorder. God bless you!!!
this was incredible and so easy to follow! im have bpd and its excrutiating. thank you doc for giving info on bpd that actually matters and doesn't make (me personally) feel like a monster. your voice is so soothing and you seem to empathize with us too. thank you!!
I have lived with a person with borderline personality for over 20 years and it’s been hell on earth. Sometimes I wonder if we are simply labeling a manipulative, angry and narcissistic individual with a disorder? After years of being patient and tolerant of their abusive behaviors I have a very hard time feeling ANY kind of empathy for them. The relationship has ruined my life and our family. Encouraging people to support someone who often treats others like crap and lacks the ability to take ownership is a lot to ask.
Thank you for writing about the utter exhaustion and difficulties for the family members-it does feel like a level of abuse being on the other side of the vitriol at seemingly any moment. I appreciated that this presentation had a couple of slides on the family impact and setting boundaries. Sometimes I cannot communicate at all with my sibling, though have found resources, such as social workers, to aid in communication, if ever needed. I have come across few resources for families-You are Not Alone (NAMI) and their family-to-family trainings, and I am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help!
BPD can be officially diagnosed before age 18. I was officially diagnosed at age 16 in a hospital, and many others I know have been diagnosed even younger. It's the one exception in the DSM-5. The information in this video is outdated and stigmatizing.
See Prof Sam Vaknin UA-cam amazing insights comparing DSM 6 & ICD 11 positing one "personality disorder" with unique overlays as a sliding continuum...
So much is incorrect in this video. He's very "old school", when there is a ton of new research on BPD out there, and it's sad that this dr is spreading stigmas that are factually inaccurate.
How is it factually inaccurate? Is it because it doesn't fit your understanding or fit nicely into your criteria? If you know so much on this, then you need to come with stats and back up your strong belief.
I watched it again and a lot of it is very good. I think there were only two things that bothered me: that he makes BPD and NPD sound similar, and that he says Borderline patients likely won't recognize it in themselves or want help. Again, UNlike NPD, you can be really self- aware and have BPD. If anything, they're way too hard on themselves. So seeking treatment isn't really an issue like he says. But it's a good video, I think my original comment is weird.
@@courtneyhenderson405 from my understanding, people with borderline do have more ability to recognize problems in themselves than NPD. But both disorders are in the same “cluster” of personality disorders-they share common features. Additionally, sometimes an individual can have both disorders.
I feel that you are sharing a great product but I see that you only have 14k viewers after 3y so I figured that before I'm going to close this channel I'll share with you for why I'm doing it. I believe that if you'd take away the slides just to see yourself is enough. We like to see a human being talking rather than staring on a screen. We can handle your information even without the slides (the slides are a distraction) the people who are interested in slides are not on UA-cam they join a class. Delete the slides and you'll get over a million viewers in a short time. That's my 5th sense.
Excellent presentation. Well explained. Clear with concise accurate data points. BPD is a curse of an illness and the people who suffer from it deserve help and healing. They , like everybody, have intrinsic human value and merit peace and comfort in their lives.
Thank you I have bpd znd other multiple conditions
I wish my family would watch this to have even a small understanding of why I suffer.
I am sorry to hear that. I am watching this to try and better understand my 16 year old daughter, who hates my guts right now. I know it can be hard for family to be understanding if they are being treated badly at times. We dont understand why our kids say such awful, hurtful, heartbreaking things to us, for no real reason. Its hard to get over that feeling of hurt and resentment. I hope you have at least one person in your life to lean on and accept you.
@@SheCat1964 you're a great parent. i hope everything goes well with your daughter 👍🏼
Can we get a percentage of the global population with personality disorders?
Don't worry. Even though they may not understand you, they surely suffer too.
This is excellent. I have watched easily around 1,000 videos on BPD in the last months (audhd and infj ;) ) and this was just perfectly and compassionately explained with perfect visuals. The most devastating thing about BPD was the love of my life and her family not believing i had no idea what i did or what happened.. i sent 20,000 word apologies while still in the dissociative hangover. Thank you. Maybe one day I’ll be able to fix this situation, but i have to be healed first.
This is the most informative video on BPD. I self diagnosed that this is my problem and I have been researching it in depth. I'm in talking therapy, let's see where it takes me. Just having an understanding of it I find very helpful, it gives me explanation of my troubling emotions and hope that I'll be able to manage them. Thank you.
This is the most intelligently vulgarisation and in depth explanation that I ever hear sorry for S, V , that I immensely appreciate but this here is even enlightening, thank you very much.
What an outstanding presentation! Thank you so very much Dr. Stanford. The way you presented BPD was informative, simple, true and real. May the Lord continue blessing and keeping you to help people with this disorder. God bless you!!!
Great presentation!! Thank you!
this was incredible and so easy to follow! im have bpd and its excrutiating. thank you doc for giving info on bpd that actually matters and doesn't make (me personally) feel like a monster. your voice is so soothing and you seem to empathize with us too. thank you!!
This was a great TEACHING
Excellent presentation! Thank you!
This was outstanding-ly excellent. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you,
Very enlightening, thank you!
Thank you for this
Isn't the family generally responsable for the trauma and therefater the de of BPD ?
Thank you
I have lived with a person with borderline personality for over 20 years and it’s been hell on earth. Sometimes I wonder if we are simply labeling a manipulative, angry and narcissistic individual with a disorder?
After years of being patient and tolerant of their abusive behaviors I have a very hard time feeling ANY kind of empathy for them. The relationship has ruined my life and our family.
Encouraging people to support someone who often treats others like crap and lacks the ability to take ownership is a lot to ask.
Thank you for writing about the utter exhaustion and difficulties for the family members-it does feel like a level of abuse being on the other side of the vitriol at seemingly any moment. I appreciated that this presentation had a couple of slides on the family impact and setting boundaries. Sometimes I cannot communicate at all with my sibling, though have found resources, such as social workers, to aid in communication, if ever needed. I have come across few resources for families-You are Not Alone (NAMI) and their family-to-family trainings, and I am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help!
BPD can be officially diagnosed before age 18. I was officially diagnosed at age 16 in a hospital, and many others I know have been diagnosed even younger. It's the one exception in the DSM-5.
The information in this video is outdated and stigmatizing.
tiff b - Oh how much I agree with you
See Prof Sam Vaknin UA-cam amazing insights comparing DSM 6 & ICD 11 positing one "personality disorder" with unique overlays as a sliding continuum...
"Approach avoidance repetition compulsion"...
A borderline looks to know the details of his problem and also how to overcome but seems unable to implement mitigation strategies.
He seems to be delivering this in classic pressured speech mode making it unintelligible to me...why no use of actual terminology? "ACE" etc
No “actual terminology”? He presents the word-for-word DSM-5 Diagnostic Criteria.
So much is incorrect in this video. He's very "old school", when there is a ton of new research on BPD out there, and it's sad that this dr is spreading stigmas that are factually inaccurate.
Ok, so point out what's inaccurate then please.
How is it factually inaccurate? Is it because it doesn't fit your understanding or fit nicely into your criteria? If you know so much on this, then you need to come with stats and back up your strong belief.
I watched it again and a lot of it is very good. I think there were only two things that bothered me: that he makes BPD and NPD sound similar, and that he says Borderline patients likely won't recognize it in themselves or want help.
Again, UNlike NPD, you can be really self- aware and have BPD. If anything, they're way too hard on themselves. So seeking treatment isn't really an issue like he says.
But it's a good video, I think my original comment is weird.
Thank you so much for saying this. SOOOO much is inaccurate in this video!
@@courtneyhenderson405 from my understanding, people with borderline do have more ability to recognize problems in themselves than NPD. But both disorders are in the same “cluster” of personality disorders-they share common features. Additionally, sometimes an individual can have both disorders.
I feel that you are sharing a great product but I see that you only have 14k viewers after 3y so I figured that before I'm going to close this channel I'll share with you for why I'm doing it. I believe that if you'd take away the slides just to see yourself is enough. We like to see a human being talking rather than staring on a screen. We can handle your information even without the slides (the slides are a distraction) the people who are interested in slides are not on UA-cam they join a class. Delete the slides and you'll get over a million viewers in a short time.
That's my 5th sense.
They should just have a sports coach speak, teaching people to run for their sanity and lives from these cruel people
Sports coach ?! See Prof Sam Vaknin "Somatic NPD" no dumb ass sport coach gonna be of help