Hard questions to ask yourself before studying psychology

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  • @fede22081
    @fede22081 Рік тому +543

    If I met my therapist at an EDM Festival dressing up as the mad hatter and doing acid, it would be the happiest moment of my life

    • @AnaPsychology
      @AnaPsychology  Рік тому +151

      I think it's awesome that you recognize therapists are multifaceted people too, and I would guess that the type of therapist you're looking for would still be authentic to themselves in therapy! Not all therapy clients see things in this way.
      This seems to be an area where a lot of young people are diverging more and more from the traditional viewpoint. The people in power making the rules pressure therapists to be "professional" at all times, whereas more therapists and clients are starting to recognize that you cannot divorce who you are personally from who you are therapeutically. We're kind of in a liminal space where there is still the expectation of professionalism 24/7 but more people are starting to question what "professionalism" really entails.
      I think it kind of comes down to 2 things:
      1. finding the right fit between therapist and client where both parties can agree on what is considered "professional" (e.g., if a client doesn't mind their therapist wearing sweatpants in therapy, then there's no problem with a therapist doing so)
      2. making sure the therapist is congruent with themselves, meaning it wouldn't be shocking for a client to see how they behave outside of therapy

    • @CesarSandoval024
      @CesarSandoval024 Рік тому +11

      Or it can be the worst reminder of your life hahah

    • @kaylao.3326
      @kaylao.3326 6 місяців тому

      I really like #2! Really great advice. Thats why I try to be authentic when dealing with clients so incase they do happen to run into me outside of the office it won’t be too awkward

    • @indiowekograndelbulla
      @indiowekograndelbulla 6 місяців тому

      reminds me of that scene from silver linings playbook "today i am your brother in green, not your therapist"

  • @zs9710
    @zs9710 Рік тому +261

    She said, “I got my bachelors in psychology from Emory University, then I got my masters and doctorate in clinical psychology” and “I do have a private practice in the state of Washington” SLAY ANA 👏🏾👏🏾💅🏾💅🏾

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
    @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 Рік тому +135

    They expect you to be their lifesavers. Absolutely they do. They lean on you as a space. A place a go-to not necessarily a person but almost an object to save them from whatever they're going through in my opinion.

    • @AnaPsychology
      @AnaPsychology  Рік тому +50

      I agree, unfortunately there is a lot of martyrdom expected of healthcare workers :/

    • @ciobalina7445
      @ciobalina7445 4 місяці тому

      ​@@AnaPsychology This idea of martyrdom exists because the community of psychologists has created it, but it is a false image. Therapists should make it clear to their clients that they're not friends.

    • @Samantha-vlly
      @Samantha-vlly 3 місяці тому

      ⁠@@AnaPsychology
      It may be a lot of pressure to a person but it will depend on how you handle and balance this situations, and mostly where your values lies.

  • @JanOmeljaniuk
    @JanOmeljaniuk Рік тому +134

    As an undergrad student that just started my first year in Ba psychology, this video has been really helpful to determine whether this is the right fit for me. Fortunately enough I think this video reinstates the idea that this is definitely something I want to pursue. Thank you for these helpful and thought provoking questions, I think regardless of what field of study anyone takes it's always important to ask yourself why you chose that particular pathway. Again thank you and keep up the wonderful work!

  • @dylzoe
    @dylzoe Рік тому +41

    I am currently a grad student in psychology, and I absolutely loved your nuanced view of the reasons to become a professional in psychology. I don't think it should be viewed as an inherently wrong thing to be drawn to the field by some sort of mental problem you experienced yourself, but having the ability to realize whether you are doing it just because of that is the more important thing to remember.
    Thank you for being such an amazing influence for future professionals in the field!

  • @angieperezascenciodelmoral3737
    @angieperezascenciodelmoral3737 Рік тому +82

    I think to me the hardest thing would be, not to get too emotionally involved in my cases... im too empathetic and i feel too much, even when discussing traumatic events in a long distance situation(not in person, virtually for example). I would add the psychological downsides of being a therapist, in another video 🤭 cause there sure must be

    • @sadgecat588
      @sadgecat588 11 місяців тому +8

      Luckily in these courses they help you with this!

    • @cami_triz83
      @cami_triz83 6 місяців тому +5

      Same. My worst fear is the patient venting about some messed up stuff and then i start crying-

  • @TKRyan2
    @TKRyan2 Рік тому +42

    As someone looking to go into the field, I found this really insightful and encouraging. Thanks Ana!

  • @sourcehealing82
    @sourcehealing82 10 місяців тому +14

    I have a lot to think about. I thought I wanted to go into this field but…public speaking a huge no for me and I like my freedom. To say when and where I go on a trip and the ability to just up and leave if I want. Thank you.

  • @Zotok990
    @Zotok990 Рік тому +29

    An ex drug addict will be much better to other users, because they have an authentic nature you just can't fake. Enjoy the honest talk.

  • @zumasa9991
    @zumasa9991 10 місяців тому +8

    Looks like I’m going back to school. This is exactly what I needed to decide. I fit each category well

    • @brandonnordenstrom5933
      @brandonnordenstrom5933 8 місяців тому +1

      I thought the same way! This seems to be a great path for my future career!!

  • @maitemendes9396
    @maitemendes9396 Рік тому +14

    Thank you for the insights, Ana! I'd love to watch a similar video focusing on the hard times *working* as a psychotherapist though, once work itself is the reason why one goes through undergrad

  • @kinderfarben
    @kinderfarben Рік тому +22

    I went to grad school for my msw and ended up having to exit the program after my first internship. I was a question 5. It wasnt right for my mental health. I dont regret trying but its not for me. Its been so great following your journey! Im rooting for you! 🎉

    • @armyofone13
      @armyofone13 Рік тому +6

      I am trying to get out now. It is wrecking my life and I can’t find a good therapist. The irony 🙄

    • @joannahsjournal
      @joannahsjournal 10 місяців тому +1

      What career path did you switch into afterwards?

    • @Ad-nu4tk
      @Ad-nu4tk 8 місяців тому

      can you elaborate on how it wasn’t a good fit?

  • @g.guevarra
    @g.guevarra Рік тому +8

    Thanks for uploading this! As an aspiring psychotherapist, these talking points are really helpful.

  • @xandra5445
    @xandra5445 8 місяців тому +3

    this video was super helpful to me, i still havent fully decided on my career path but i will definitely refer back to these questions if/when i become unsure of my own needs and feelings towards this field ❤

  • @Izjeanspears
    @Izjeanspears Рік тому +9

    I've been waiting for a video like this, thank you! I would really appreciate more -- like the ethics of social media, etc. you have great content ideas :')

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
    @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 Рік тому +10

    Oh wow, i would of froze up after hearing that Public speaking was core in Psychology! 😳. I can see student picking psychology Because of the one on one clinic practice thinking. The Oath you take period when you work in healthcare is heavy!! Didnt know that when i started nursing school bc i worked at the hospital as a unit secretary. Never grew p saying, "Im going to be a nurse!" Now that i think about.

  • @brandonnordenstrom5933
    @brandonnordenstrom5933 8 місяців тому +5

    I just started my degree for a Bachelors of Arts in Psychology. I think this is a wonderful video and very informative. Thank you so much for your information!!

    • @emaa1332
      @emaa1332 7 місяців тому +1

      How is it?

    • @arod927-01
      @arod927-01 2 місяці тому

      Give us an update, how's it going now

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    Well hell be authentic, keep it 💯 always cause the truth will always reveal itself, periodt!!

  • @ClaudiaRaphaelaKokeri
    @ClaudiaRaphaelaKokeri 5 днів тому

    Wow, the last question was great. That was so helpful, thank you for creating this content

  • @WhatsTherapy
    @WhatsTherapy Рік тому +10

    Great vid, question 4 re: professionalism at all times is an especially good point.

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    One of the biggest reasons why I went into nursing is because my grandma had diabetes and because I worked at the hospital my whole life up until about 10 years ago.

  • @sadie61909
    @sadie61909 Рік тому +5

    I want to be a therapist when i am older, it sounds like a confusing and difficult industry though. Could you please make a video on how you would reccomend getting into the field? I love your videos btw!! 🫶

  • @latinaalma1947
    @latinaalma1947 Рік тому +3

    I was admitted to my PhD program directly from a Bachelors degree progam in 1975 but I petititoned for a Masters Degree after 2 years... those courses also counted toward my doctorate. I additionally had a full years internship/practicum. Also I had a full year
    paying tuition to do the year long writing of my dissertation. These years were extra to the coursework years .
    You dont get to choose your research topic...you propose your topic and your entire committee had to approve my research proposal. I taught and did research unpaid for free on their Federal research grants run throygh tye university. I was asked to design a new course which was also funded by. A Federal grant. It was worth it in the long even though I did the design amd teaching virtually unpaid. I finished though with three publications and excellent recommendations for positions from my committee members so ... all this extra work paid off with a faculty appointment which set me up for my career in academia but it was alot of dedication and work and of course I had therapy clients as well.

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
    @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 Рік тому +14

    Congratulations on all of you Success this far Doctor Ana!! Sorry i dont know how to spell your last name. Thank you for this channel. It helps me in many many ways. I appreciate what you are contributing.

  • @ambermartinez2616
    @ambermartinez2616 8 місяців тому +1

    I admire & respect you so much! Honestly! 👏👏❤

  • @JuraiahHomes
    @JuraiahHomes 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm 12th grader. still not a 100% sure on what to do in life anf in the future. Since last 2school years ago I find Psycology pretty intersting. They say studying Psycology can be challenging, but it is also highly manageable.
    Thankyou so much by the way; it cleared my mind for a bit- very Helpfull though. Again thankss. 🇵🇭

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    I think a person would have to have a kind spirit to want to go and know I'm wrong because there are some malicious people that do things for malicious reasons and will dedicate their lives to doing it for the malicious reason. Crazy world!.

  • @louera
    @louera Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Dr. Ana! Quite insightful.

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    I can imagine the things that you guys hear people say being daunting and taxing on you and you have to find some way to cope because I do hear a lot that the reason why psychologists are psychologists because they need it one first. I'm not sure if that's some running joke or what but I do hear that a lot but I felt the same way and I said it all the time when I was becoming a nurse that I was going to need one before I became one and it's true!! I have my fair share of mental health issues.

  • @JulyBay
    @JulyBay Рік тому +1

    Please do a deep dive about therapists and social media!!!!

  • @6shot6
    @6shot6 Рік тому +1

    Cool video. The application window for masters programs open up this October. I am really nervous. I have a 4.0, but I'm doing online school(ASU Online), and so I'm afraid no one is going to take my seriously, or that my application won't be super great. I'll have 1 letter of recommendation from a teacher, but that's it. Appreciate your video though, even though I'm an introvert as well, I love public speaking, it's so fun! Just act, perform, it ain't the real you up there, it's the speech their listening and seeing. It's being in groups at social settings that I clam up in! ha

  • @ShikataGaNai100
    @ShikataGaNai100 19 днів тому +1

    After 18 years of private practice, I said F***it and retired.

  • @robmetalhead6185
    @robmetalhead6185 Рік тому

    I think what helps is understanding of other peoples emotions and behaviours including the internal plus external factors involved with them

  • @zomalfa4363
    @zomalfa4363 5 місяців тому +1

    I might do it. I've been having adventures there a long time.

  • @drewkelly1955
    @drewkelly1955 Рік тому +2

    Ana goes to EDM festivals? Would not expect that lmao, but fuck it, electronic music stands alone!!

  • @NicolesBookishNook
    @NicolesBookishNook Рік тому +3

    I do a lot of advocacy work in groups and online, and I always get asked if I am ever going to get an AA in psychology or sociology, but do I really want to spend all that time and money JUST to say I have a degree in it… in this economy? Right not, definitely not 😂 But I know I could do it.

  • @jbrkjferkjbekjb
    @jbrkjferkjbekjb 6 місяців тому +1

    Actually I don’t think a psych degree is useless. There are certain careers which prefer psych majors - if you work in rehabilitation or case work.

  • @notequalto5179
    @notequalto5179 9 місяців тому +2

    Statistics.
    Statistics.
    Statistics.

  • @ryanb1174
    @ryanb1174 Рік тому +6

    I'm currently just an undergrad psych student, so i dont know much about how the field works, but i was curious about how you got to the spot you are.
    You completed your doctorate, and youre currently doing postdoctoral work. But you already have your own private practice??? And thats without having your clinical psychologist licensure (i assume you have a counselor license or equivalent)? And on top of that youre doing postdoc stuff and managing a large social media business/presence.
    You also mentioned that you got a PsyD (i think) which to my knowledge, is the most expensive option compared to a masters or a PhD because its unlikely to give out grants. So somehow you managed to figure out the financiala for that.
    Im just so impressed with what youve done (and im jealous bc it seems so out of reach for myself)

    • @AnaPsychology
      @AnaPsychology  Рік тому +6

      I have a temporary license and a supervisor, which is enough in the state of WA to open your own practice :) And yes, running a UA-cam channel helped support me through grad school, as well as doing work as a TA.

  • @ourdivinemouseoverlord3308
    @ourdivinemouseoverlord3308 Рік тому +13

    Ana, could you recommend any books on covert narcissism? One of my biggest issues is that my narcissism leads me to always want moral superiority over others that I suppose is me being "fake nice" or "selfish". I've been unable to find anything that can help me understand this phenomena and I think the most logical reason why I am like this is just because I'm stupid.

    • @AnaPsychology
      @AnaPsychology  Рік тому +19

      Unfortunately I don't personally know of any self-help books on narcissism since there's a much more lucrative business around demonizing the illness, but I would really recommend therapy for this, especially psychodynamic and/or DBT. It's not that you're stupid, it's just very challenging to change patterns that have been deeply engrained since childhood! Based on your comment, it seems like you have the most important pieces, which are self-awareness and a desire to change.

    • @ourdivinemouseoverlord3308
      @ourdivinemouseoverlord3308 Рік тому +4

      @@AnaPsychology OK, thank you

  • @luxart1000
    @luxart1000 Рік тому +4

    Congrats on the PHD wow!

  • @sabbottart
    @sabbottart Рік тому +1

    I took a psych class in college and it quickly showed me how dumb I am. Luckily the fine arts bailed me out.

  • @Mithi._.757
    @Mithi._.757 8 місяців тому

    Hi I am a psychology Major. Thank you for this video

  • @Gabby-qh5co
    @Gabby-qh5co Рік тому +19

    Genuine question, how do you make a living during grad school if most of the work is unpaid? Do most psych grad srudents get scholarships? If someone doesnt get a scholarship, wouldnt that mean they have to get another job that pays enough to make a living, and cover tuition costs?

    • @jacobneil135
      @jacobneil135 Рік тому +10

      Most Grad students I know work other jobs. It's definitely a struggle but doable if you decide to take a longer path. I know people my age (Early to mid 20s) who work full time and take classes on the side.

  • @luissanchez1435
    @luissanchez1435 24 дні тому

    Dr. Anna Big fan, So I was wondering if you could do a basic for me , when it comes to covering the difference between Psychology: Psychology and kinesiology: Leadership and sports psychology and the difference between the two subjects and what they cover. 😅 I need to know from a real educated person of psychology to tell me the difference between the two and how they could be similar but what the diff really is as it pertains to future educational endeavors that I might not be able to climb due to funding and time or patience for that matter😅

  • @nevergiveup9937
    @nevergiveup9937 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for the video! Could you please recommend books to read for those of us who are interested in psychology but don't have the time to go to school? 🙂

  • @pinkbu66les
    @pinkbu66les Рік тому +8

    I’m already in grad school pursuing psych but I didn’t realise there’d be lots of public speaking :( its really big fear of mine…to the point where in the past I would freeze up, wouldn’t be able speak and can’t continue my presentation. Do you have any advice for this?

    • @miraculouslady632
      @miraculouslady632 10 місяців тому +2

      Learn how to work through it. Rebuild your confidence and continue to practice your speaking skills. Practice public speaking in front of the mirror at home and use flashcards to help you remember what you need to say during your presentations.

  • @salemihowe
    @salemihowe Рік тому +13

    i have severe social anxiety and get anxiety attacks that are hard to control but my dream is to work in psych :( wtf do i do

    • @miraculouslady632
      @miraculouslady632 10 місяців тому +9

      You have to do the work. Work on yourself and your anxiety. Read self-help books & learn how to meditate. And also try to rebuild your confidence and your self-esteem. You can't be a good therapist to your clients if they see that you are always anxious when speaking with them.

    • @ketz_165
      @ketz_165 2 місяці тому +3

      You work in psych, it’s your dream. Don’t lie to yourself and say you’re not good enough because you are, I wish I had done so sooner.

    • @salemihowe
      @salemihowe 2 місяці тому

      @@ketz_165 ive been doing better, i think i could get there so thank u

    • @Yvette233
      @Yvette233 24 дні тому

      Same here

    • @salemihowe
      @salemihowe 22 дні тому +1

      @@Yvette233 im slowly getting better and im still super anxious but if you search for good ways to release anxiety before, during and after a social event, and learn more of how to give proper treatment to patients + go to school and do nursing, you will see progression! achieve your dreams!!

  • @hyerimthing6371
    @hyerimthing6371 День тому

    How was studying at Emory? I would love an insights on that!

  • @MiaRTV
    @MiaRTV 2 місяці тому

    I posted a grad school vlog because you inspired me!💟

  • @ricardin99
    @ricardin99 4 місяці тому

    Hello, Ana. Could you make a video about how to be a good therapist?

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
    @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 Рік тому +19

    I mean You can run into a client at the grocery store in your granny robe hair all over your head outside getting your newspaper. I mean you're human.

  • @suntarotreadingsberlin6860
    @suntarotreadingsberlin6860 Рік тому +3

    Hey Ana! Congratulations on all your recent accomplishments. Loved this topic and I have a question. Do you feel it's important to have an element of ikigai here or can you just take on this role for career reasons alone? Very curious because I enjoyed that video about ikigai a lot and i find my work as a tarot reader has been more enhanced with having that element of it being purpose driven aswell as just a useful thing or something offered. Thanks and I hope you see this question 🙏🏻

  • @growing.flowers
    @growing.flowers 2 місяці тому

    Grad school is necessary
    Apply to society program instead of research phd with an advisor

  • @marcanthonyvolpe8327
    @marcanthonyvolpe8327 Рік тому +2

    The last part you’ve made, has me questioning that. I’m interested in study though not career which I think it’s best to self study. What resources do you recommend to learn the self healing area?

  • @tianna93
    @tianna93 Рік тому +2

    CCCAAAAATTT 💜💜💜

  • @TigreArcana
    @TigreArcana Рік тому +1

    What! I had no idea you went to EMORY! Me too 🤩

  • @MrJoxxxi
    @MrJoxxxi Рік тому +6

    Im worried that so much schooling and $, that goes in is making the field 1) elitist on one side and 2) is making it expensive for consumers. Like what happens with doctors. Petsonally I would exlect a therapist to have had it's iwn issues that he's working through rather then some "ideally healthy individual". My therapist had gothic looking hair, on his pic on the therapist page, and I contacted him first 😂

  • @carolinaaa99
    @carolinaaa99 Рік тому +1

    Please collab with Psychology in Seatlle!!!

  • @jebahumayra1185
    @jebahumayra1185 2 місяці тому

    I don't know why im feeling i shouldn't choose psychology even tho i haven't start my BS course yet! I regret every single night, i have already payed tuition fees for the year,now I can't even choose another mejor ! Life goes on 😞😭

  • @damnablethief
    @damnablethief 18 днів тому

    I wish some people would just bother to open a psyche textbook before they would try to tell others what to do with their own psychology. There is alot of ignorance out there, more people would benefit to take a psyche class.

  • @cynthiaromero5719
    @cynthiaromero5719 Рік тому +1

    I love psychology, but I am not great with public speaking so...i will not torture myself hahah

  • @jewelzzzzzzz
    @jewelzzzzzzz Рік тому +4

    you have beautiful hair

  • @SmokeLikeIDo
    @SmokeLikeIDo 7 місяців тому +1

    Am i the only one that would LOVE to have a tella call with my therapist and they have cheech style clouds in the background

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    How much information did you find on how to conduct one's self as a online therapist with a social media platform? Being though that topic is very is new in age? Well I'm feel like I'm getting old. I'm actually hearing myself say, " back in the day when I was growing up...." Lord Jesus help me! Now I'm sitting here talking to a phone. Wow lol smh

    • @AnaPsychology
      @AnaPsychology  Рік тому +1

      My main sources have been Continued Education courses, consultations with attorneys, ethical guidelines, supervision with other professionals, and discussions with peers.

  • @sirhcduhomage
    @sirhcduhomage 4 місяці тому

    The panel thing... that's neurodivergentism.

  • @Pensivelyexpensive
    @Pensivelyexpensive Місяць тому

    Doctor, Do you think that the field would benefit if it took half the time to become a therapist?

    • @ShikataGaNai100
      @ShikataGaNai100 19 днів тому

      Welcome to the scientist/practitioner model.

  • @crystalellis2142
    @crystalellis2142 6 місяців тому +1

    How long did it take you ?

  • @Gigadrane
    @Gigadrane Рік тому

    Probably has been said before but collab with Dr.Kirk Honda ??😂

  • @Daytonaman675
    @Daytonaman675 6 місяців тому +1

    Considering this or P-NP

  • @iranmp8213
    @iranmp8213 3 місяці тому

    Awww you're cat look like my cat so much!! :D

  • @T.K.F.
    @T.K.F. Рік тому +1

    I love you

  • @niylane
    @niylane 4 дні тому

    Ok yea so this fully dissuaded me from studying psychology 😅

    • @niylane
      @niylane 4 дні тому

      I have a hugeeeeee fear of public speaking

  • @janfrancenemendoza6655
    @janfrancenemendoza6655 Рік тому

    May i know what course between the two did you took? BA or BS psychology?

  • @SadFloweGarden
    @SadFloweGarden Рік тому +1

    Which aspect deals with the actual physical brain and such?

    • @AnaPsychology
      @AnaPsychology  Рік тому +7

      Which aspect of psychology? I would say neuroscience/neuropsychology is the main one

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    Social status. Yeah thats what i meant.

  • @cioratamelisamariuca7780
    @cioratamelisamariuca7780 7 місяців тому

    You're Romanian?? If you're open to questions can you please tell me where I can contact you because I have lots of questions being a Romanian myself.

  • @esterkaa9937
    @esterkaa9937 Рік тому

    Too late

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    In the sacrifice. Oh my goodness! Oh my goodness that's all I can say the sacrifice.

  • @SadafShaheen-n6m
    @SadafShaheen-n6m Місяць тому

    🎉

  • @omergocer5743
    @omergocer5743 Рік тому +1

    you look turkish? are you tatar? or Ukrainian?

  • @billywalendom
    @billywalendom Рік тому +1

    11:30 masks crack

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721

    So are you married?

  • @cherubmius
    @cherubmius Рік тому +1

    THE VIDEO I NEVER KNEW I NEEDED 🤍 i’m a 12th grade student who’s been considering taking up psychology in college lately, the timing of this upload couldn’t be any better