Why Gen Z, millennials in Korea don't get married

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  • @Franciscaharrison1978
    @Franciscaharrison1978 Рік тому +37

    You shouldn't 'bring children into the world if you can't provide the basic things for them to strive. With high costs of living everywhere and no affordable childcare governments should start to listen to the people and not sit up their in their luxury mansions looking at things through tinted lenses.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      Y did Jesus Christ (God) die? Out of love ❤️. God's great love for you caused Jesus to come down from Heaven and enter our world and died on a wooden cross ✝️ for our sins. Because Jesus Christ was holy and committed NO sin, He was the only One qualified to become our substitute.
      But Jesus' temporary death is not the final event. 3 days later He rose from the grave conquering sin and death altogether.
      Jesus Christ ascended back to heaven & now He offers forgiveness and heaven to anyone who trusts Him (Jesus Christ) as their Savior. When anyone does, he or she will be guaranteed to go to heaven after this life.
      Don't you want this eternal security 🤔 locked 🔐 into your life before it's all over?

  • @reginageorgetownuni
    @reginageorgetownuni 11 місяців тому +8

    There's also a lot of abandoned babies in Korea, single mothers are not given support, lgbtq is illegal so they cannot adopt, Koreans are extremely superficial (they count success via money, apartment, lifestyle) and everything is a competition. Unless these underlying issues are solved, nothing can be done.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      NO OFFENSE TO YOU ALL! I'm doing this out of good intent.
      God does love non Christians. God knows we are all sinners. What is sin? Sin is an action that is not good and done or thought out of bad intentions. We all lie, trick others, and are prideful/selfish sometimes. God (Jesus Christ) came down in the form as an human and died for our sins. He resurrected from death thus we can also defeat death 💀 if anyone of us accept Him as Savior for our sins.
      We cannot save ourselves from sin no matter how many good deeds we do. Everyday we sin. Christians do too. But if you are a Christian ✝️, you will go to heaven when God plays back your whole life to you. But if you die without being a Christian ✝️, then you will suffer forever 💔 without being in heaven.
      God doesn't judge you based on worldly success nor physical attraction. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you and values your character. If u end up being poor, He still won't abandon you. You can pray 🙏 to reach out to Him, and you'll see what He will do for you and others. Sometimes He will see if you will trust His will which is not always the same as your will nor desire. But He does what He knows is best for you despite us not knowing that. Have a nice day!

  • @cynthiakent4033
    @cynthiakent4033 Рік тому +9

    Finances is the key. The young people are thinking ahead. They understand today’s situation and they are making hard decisions.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      True!
      NO OFFENSE TO YOU ALL! I'm doing this out of good intent.
      God does love non Christians. God knows we are all sinners. What is sin? Sin is an action that is not good and done or thought out of bad intentions. We all lie, trick others, and are prideful/selfish sometimes. God (Jesus Christ) came down in the form as an human and died for our sins. He resurrected from death thus we can also defeat death 💀 if anyone of us accept Him as Savior for our sins.
      We cannot save ourselves from sin no matter how many good deeds we do. Everyday we sin. Christians do too. But if you are a Christian ✝️, you will go to heaven when God plays back your whole life to you. But if you die without being a Christian ✝️, then you will suffer forever 💔 without being in heaven.
      God doesn't judge you based on worldly success nor physical attraction. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you and values your character. If u end up being poor, He still won't abandon you. You can pray 🙏 to reach out to Him, and you'll see what He will do for you and others. Sometimes He will see if you will trust His will which is not always the same as your will nor desire. But He does what He knows is best for you despite us not knowing that. Have a nice day!

  • @arcie3716
    @arcie3716 Рік тому +8

    Finances play a huge role. It’s just to expensive to get married let alone start a family in these conditions.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      💯 % facts! What happens when they divorce?

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      Y did Jesus Christ (God) die? Out of love ❤️. God's great love for you caused Jesus to come down from Heaven and enter our world and died on a wooden cross ✝️ for our sins. Because Jesus Christ was holy and committed NO sin, He was the only One qualified to become our substitute.
      But Jesus' temporary death is not the final event. 3 days later He rose from the grave conquering sin and death altogether.
      Jesus Christ ascended back to heaven & now He offers forgiveness and heaven to anyone who trusts Him (Jesus Christ) as their Savior. When anyone does, he or she will be guaranteed to go to heaven after this life.
      Don't you want this eternal security 🤔 locked 🔐 into your life before it's all over?

  • @ronstallworth9421
    @ronstallworth9421 7 місяців тому +8

    It’s the same all over the developed nations. Signs of times.

    • @ismaelhall3990
      @ismaelhall3990 7 місяців тому

      Yep, I been saying that lately.

    • @eidokun
      @eidokun 7 днів тому

      Not only developed nations, but developing nations too like SouthEast Asian countries, Filipinos, which have a higher rate of repopulation are seeing a decrease in national birthrate for a decade now, primary schools are closing down and remote areas are losing more people. And now the government is worried 😂

  • @BEACHDUDE71
    @BEACHDUDE71 5 місяців тому +2

    53 single no children or pets and it's fine

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      👏 👏 👏
      NO OFFENSE TO YOU ALL! I'm doing this out of good intent.
      God does love non Christians. God knows we are all sinners. What is sin? Sin is an action that is not good and done or thought out of bad intentions. We all lie, trick others, and are prideful/selfish sometimes. God (Jesus Christ) came down in the form as an human and died for our sins. He resurrected from death thus we can also defeat death 💀 if anyone of us accept Him as Savior for our sins.
      We cannot save ourselves from sin no matter how many good deeds we do. Everyday we sin. Christians do too. But if you are a Christian ✝️, you will go to heaven when God plays back your whole life to you. But if you die without being a Christian ✝️, then you will suffer forever 💔 without being in heaven.
      God doesn't judge you based on worldly success nor physical attraction. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you and values your character. If u end up being poor, He still won't abandon you. You can pray 🙏 to reach out to Him, and you'll see what He will do for you and others. Sometimes He will see if you will trust His will which is not always the same as your will nor desire. But He does what He knows is best for you despite us not knowing that. Have a nice day!

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому +1

      It's good choice not to have any kids. Imagine the costs and responsibilities!

  • @siouxsan5705
    @siouxsan5705 Рік тому +12

    A lot of pressure is put on married couples to not only maintain their own financial needs but are expected to help out and pitch in with both sets of parents financial and social needs. I wouldn’t get married either ..if it was just me and my spouse, ok…but if it’s my parents, my spouses parents and any extended family like siblings and grandparents who get thrown in the “take care of me “ pot…..ummm, no thanks.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      May God bless you ❤ with encouragement and His love. I pray that you will find good individuals in your life. I pray that God will help you find happiness 😊 & joy. In His name we pray in Jesus Christ, amen ❤🎉

  • @Planesenthusiast
    @Planesenthusiast 27 днів тому

    I'm pakistani and 24 now and I have no plans for marriage in near future bcz I don't think I'm capable of take care of family financely and I don't want them to suffer bcz of my mistakes and inabilities but little worried about how would I manage at old age. Bcz as I'm young, no one is interested in me then who will at old age.

  • @IsabellaShapiro
    @IsabellaShapiro 6 місяців тому +1

    I wish young people in South Korea get married and have kids.

  • @vcwloves9864
    @vcwloves9864 Рік тому +4

    It sounds like materialism to me. Just about all of them mentioned partying, going out, or homes. You would think that bringing life into this world would be above that. It's not my place to judge though since I don't have access to all the information. Based on what I hear or see in videos, it seems to be the consensus. Parents and family members need to support themselves though, that much I'm sure of though.

    • @Asecluffy
      @Asecluffy 8 днів тому

      It's their preference and way of life. Each decision have their own set of problems and results in long way. Now, think about starting family means you must be financially successful and stable income. It's like living pipe dream now days.

  • @Missha07
    @Missha07 Рік тому +5

    Perfect example of materialistic people😂😂

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      NO OFFENSE TO YOU ALL! I'm doing this out of good intent.
      God does love non Christians. God knows we are all sinners. What is sin? Sin is an action that is not good and done or thought out of bad intentions. We all lie, trick others, and are prideful/selfish sometimes. God (Jesus Christ) came down in the form as an human and died for our sins. He resurrected from death thus we can also defeat death 💀 if anyone of us accept Him as Savior for our sins.
      We cannot save ourselves from sin no matter how many good deeds we do. Everyday we sin. Christians do too. But if you are a Christian ✝️, you will go to heaven when God plays back your whole life to you. But if you die without being a Christian ✝️, then you will suffer forever 💔 without being in heaven.
      God doesn't judge you based on worldly success nor physical attraction. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you and values your character. If u end up being poor, He still won't abandon you. You can pray 🙏 to reach out to Him, and you'll see what He will do for you and others. Sometimes He will see if you will trust His will which is not always the same as your will nor desire. But He does what He knows is best for you despite us not knowing that. Have a nice day!

  • @Piyas_world
    @Piyas_world Рік тому +3

    Its not like if won't married then u dont gonna die...one day evryone gonna die by there deeds or old age... having chid is crime according to them they r totally selfish needs to kive lavish life ..but money not gonna come forever with you...atlast u need support when u get old n thats ur children...anywas I stated my opinion atlast its there choice afterall...😮‍💨

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      May God bless you ❤ with encouragement and His love. I pray that you will find good individuals in your life. I pray that God will help you find happiness 😊 & joy. In His name we pray in Jesus Christ, amen ❤🎉

  • @vaccinatedanti-vaxxer
    @vaccinatedanti-vaxxer Рік тому +14

    The korean media attitude of declining population is like they are reporting on dying fashion trends. Like it's a curiosity with no serious repercussions.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      May God bless you ❤ with encouragement and His love. I pray that you will find good individuals in your life. I pray that God will help you find happiness 😊 & joy. In His name we pray in Jesus Christ, amen ❤🎉

  • @chauminh
    @chauminh Рік тому +1

    Merci

  • @vcwloves9864
    @vcwloves9864 6 місяців тому

    The 70 year old made sense. That generation had children during difficult times, times worse than the current one. Selfishness is what it seems like in her eyes, and it makes sense. Everyone has their own views.

    • @mariacitygirl3825
      @mariacitygirl3825 Місяць тому

      They didn't provide for them though a lot of generations left uneducated. People now a days don't only want to bring kids but want to give them good future

  • @Worrior12462
    @Worrior12462 7 місяців тому +2

    Materialism, feminism, capitalism, individualism.
    We can cry all we want about the older generations, they were much better than us .
    They weren't selfish .

    • @toplist3257
      @toplist3257 6 місяців тому

      Exactly...
      Miss the olden days..
      Feminism has made women unwifeable...it is like they need everything without putting anything in to a marriage.. extremely adamant and entitled

  • @davidparnell6008
    @davidparnell6008 Рік тому

    Good video

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      NO OFFENSE TO YOU ALL! I'm doing this out of good intent.
      God does love non Christians. God knows we are all sinners. What is sin? Sin is an action that is not good and done or thought out of bad intentions. We all lie, trick others, and are prideful/selfish sometimes. God (Jesus Christ) came down in the form as an human and died for our sins. He resurrected from death thus we can also defeat death 💀 if anyone of us accept Him as Savior for our sins.
      We cannot save ourselves from sin no matter how many good deeds we do. Everyday we sin. Christians do too. But if you are a Christian ✝️, you will go to heaven when God plays back your whole life to you. But if you die without being a Christian ✝️, then you will suffer forever 💔 without being in heaven.
      God doesn't judge you based on worldly success nor physical attraction. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you and values your character. If u end up being poor, He still won't abandon you. You can pray 🙏 to reach out to Him, and you'll see what He will do for you and others. Sometimes He will see if you will trust His will which is not always the same as your will nor desire. But He does what He knows is best for you despite us not knowing that. Have a nice day!

  • @angelaaston7293
    @angelaaston7293 Рік тому +1

    Good afternoon Kim jun un and family all my respects to you regards Angela Aston from Perth Australia

  • @skynetcorporation8684
    @skynetcorporation8684 Рік тому +3

    This phenomenon is everywhere.
    South Korea suffers the most with the lowest birthrate in the world.
    I love the Korean people i hope in the future it will change. The Korean women are lovely awesome beautiful cutties

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      NO OFFENSE TO YOU ALL! I'm doing this out of good intent.
      God does love non Christians. God knows we are all sinners. What is sin? Sin is an action that is not good and done or thought out of bad intentions. We all lie, trick others, and are prideful/selfish sometimes. God (Jesus Christ) came down in the form as an human and died for our sins. He resurrected from death thus we can also defeat death 💀 if anyone of us accept Him as Savior for our sins.
      We cannot save ourselves from sin no matter how many good deeds we do. Everyday we sin. Christians do too. But if you are a Christian ✝️, you will go to heaven when God plays back your whole life to you. But if you die without being a Christian ✝️, then you will suffer forever 💔 without being in heaven.
      God doesn't judge you based on worldly success nor physical attraction. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you and values your character. If u end up being poor, He still won't abandon you. You can pray 🙏 to reach out to Him, and you'll see what He will do for you and others. Sometimes He will see if you will trust His will which is not always the same as your will nor desire. But He does what He knows is best for you despite us not knowing that. Have a nice day!

  • @sergel02
    @sergel02 Рік тому +2

    While minor, it will be interesting to see how allowing same-sex marriage (whenever that happens) changes things. In some countries, same sex couples tend to be more educated and make more (since the option of marriage usually was never an option, so independence is vital) and about 20% of of married same sex couples have children. That all can help on a societal level, and some people stay single because they legally can’t get married.

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      NO OFFENSE TO YOU ALL! I'm doing this out of good intent.
      God does love non Christians. God knows we are all sinners. What is sin? Sin is an action that is not good and done or thought out of bad intentions. We all lie, trick others, and are prideful/selfish sometimes. God (Jesus Christ) came down in the form as an human and died for our sins. He resurrected from death thus we can also defeat death 💀 if anyone of us accept Him as Savior for our sins.
      We cannot save ourselves from sin no matter how many good deeds we do. Everyday we sin. Christians do too. But if you are a Christian ✝️, you will go to heaven when God plays back your whole life to you. But if you die without being a Christian ✝️, then you will suffer forever 💔 without being in heaven.
      God doesn't judge you based on worldly success nor physical attraction. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you and values your character. If u end up being poor, He still won't abandon you. You can pray 🙏 to reach out to Him, and you'll see what He will do for you and others. Sometimes He will see if you will trust His will which is not always the same as your will nor desire. But He does what He knows is best for you despite us not knowing that. Have a nice day!

  • @Rin_18178
    @Rin_18178 9 місяців тому

    Miris banget waktu denger di channel sebelah salah satu alasan kenapa warna Korea gak mau menikah dan punya anak Karena biar finansialnya stabil. Aduh apa mereka gak mikir manusia itu butuh penerus biar negaranya itu bisa tetap berjalan kalau kekurangan sumber daya manusia gimana negaranya bisa berjalan yang ada lowongan pekerjaan bakal bertambah sedikit dan jumlah pekerja pun jadi berkurang

    • @small_fries7573
      @small_fries7573 5 місяців тому

      For ALL have sinned and fallen short of God's glory.
      That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      1. Admit you are a sinner.
      2. Just simply 😍 believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior for your sins.
      *If you do, you will go to heaven.

    • @auroraaurora4128
      @auroraaurora4128 4 місяці тому

      Mrk ga kaya cwe indo pemikiran nya yg maunya jadi beban suami numpang idup,dan bisanya beranak Pinak ngurus anak aja gabisa makanya anak didikan women indo jadi pecandu slot IQ setara gorila

  • @smitmarv
    @smitmarv Рік тому +7

    Getting married and raising children is priceless. You can never be the person you were meant to be if you are always selfish your whole life.

    • @Franciscaharrison1978
      @Franciscaharrison1978 Рік тому +17

      Marriage and parent hood isn't for everyone.

    • @monimuppet6132
      @monimuppet6132 Рік тому +13

      You can only be selfish if you are denying something from someone it was promised to. A married person that doesn't spend time with their family is selfish. A single person doesn't have anyone to deny, so how are they selfish?

    • @JessyJansen
      @JessyJansen Рік тому +15

      it is selfish to bring a child in your difficult times

    • @therealcybertronwarriors
      @therealcybertronwarriors Рік тому +9

      Most people have children for the most selfish reason of all - to continue their bloodline. Otherwise, people would be adopting or helping others with nothing, which is true unselfishness.

    • @reginageorgetownuni
      @reginageorgetownuni 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@therealcybertronwarriorstrue.

  • @redpen7527
    @redpen7527 Рік тому

    It is okay to the reason that consumer price is getting increase like the real estate or other reasons like the war in Ukraine. However, some women in here have the same reasons: don't have any free time.
    Okay, it is true that bringing the offspring to this world won't make you have any free time. So does that mean you gonna go single for the rest of your life?
    I heard many single old people, they lived alone, no one come to visit them, no memories to nostalgic. And then, they die alone.
    No marriage can cause a severe mental health. Maybe at first they would feel free, feel good but it is just temporary. Permanently, men don't have anything to motivate themselves in work. And he also can live without discipline. This can cause many many severe problems to the society and country. So does the women when they live alone.
    Feminism usually encourage women not to born any children and live freely. And yeah, keep staying in the comfort zone, one day you will realized it will become your cell. Not just harm the society permanently, but it also harm your life.
    Women are the gifts that God had given to this world. The love they brings for everything are very sacred and it is deserved for their children. Traditional wife will be a good base for the society. And men like us also should be a traditional husband, should have a goal to chase, should be stable in financial and should protect our family, not harming them.

    • @Lavender0810
      @Lavender0810 11 місяців тому

      Give ur money to let them start their marriage 😂😂

    • @redpen7527
      @redpen7527 11 місяців тому

      @@Lavender0810 My money is the prove for what I have worked so hard in recent days. Why should I give them? They should work hard and earn by themselves. Their life, their obstacles, their awareness, their solutions, their choices.
      By the way, the government has already enacted some policies about giving money to these marriage couples, especially after having kids. It is just they don't want to have kids. Once they don't want, they would create thousands of reasons to make excuse.

  • @antonio83
    @antonio83 Рік тому +5

    Hypergamy and feminazism