Divorce Lawyer Speaks On How His Divorce Went | James Sexton
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
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Divorce Lawyer, James Sexton, is in the tent today to discuss why love can fail and how marriage can ruin lives. He believes marriage is a scam and explains his reasoning. He's a genius and a truly fascinating story teller. He might seem cynical, but i truly think he's just extremely realistic. WELCOME TO CAMP!!
I like his meticulous speech
I wish they would stop referring to this guy as “divorce lawyer “ , he deserves his name to precede his reputation
Exactly his name is Ally McBeal 😂
Everybody loves Ally McBeal ♥️.
Yeah you totally helped that by also not saying his name, it’s James sexton
He’s more of a love therapist now if anything.
"Divorced divorce lawyer"
Yes yes yes about the rose colored glasses! That's why divorce is so high, people don't think about the long term when they pick who to marry.
There's an old saying in French about friends that works well with lovers too I think " A friend is someone you know very well, and still love ".
He is right. I used to think the person I am divorcing is not the same person i married. But when i wrote on piece of paper current him and past him putting off the love spectacle. Both were the same. It’s my love which made him seem different.
Spot on!
To be accepted is part of real love. We change anyway time after time.
Super intelligent man
Love u for u, not love u for what they think you are or what they think you could become
That’s the difference between men and women. Men want what they can get, and women have to think about their future, always.
As a women I always wanted to be with someone that knew me and loved me for that, cause that’s what I do. Haven’t found a men like that yet…
@@MA-xd9zl most women will never met a man they will even remotely like, so they chose seondary dream - a family with a willing one, wich is also rare
@@WojciechowskaAnna I’ve met a men I loved, but they were really for a serious relationship and lost it… it’s usually like that
Glad this guy is making the rounds
"when you wear rose colored glasses all the red flags are just flags." -whateverthisdudesnameis
...dad?
We all want love like that, but men don’t love like that, they want a fantasy. Women want real love.
He is straightforward ...good
Hmmmm I saw red flag when I was dating and chose my husband based on whether or not I was willing to put up with his red flags. We all have them. If you think you don’t have red flags, that’s a red flag.
I wanna get a beer with him so bad he seems like a great vibe overall
Oh my goodness! What he said to his ex wife is amazing! I need to use it on my husband. I have no idea why, but he is "scared of losing it all". I have no clue why. I'm not even that type if person. Even when he told me he wanted a divorce six years ago, I was going to give him the kids and the house. And he was scared I was pitting the kids against him and I was actually going to take the house, kids, and take him for everything. I'm actually worried about his mental health. Earlier this year he told me he has thus fear that people will think he's an abusive father and husband. I didn't realize how bad it was until a few weeks ago. We had a church party at a swimming pool. We were talking to another couple when the wife asked me about a bruise on my knee. This led to my husband talking about how I get bruises on my body often and how he worries people think he abuses me. We kept on talking about different topics. When we said our goodbyes, my husband said to the other couple that they had confirmation that he hadn't hit me and given me the bruise. He told them to tell people, if they said something, that he didn't hit me. I honestly have no clue why he has this worry. He's never hit me. I've never told anybody he hits me. He also has on and off for 17 years accused me of cheating or looking for somebody else. I'm worried he's going down a path of madness, a nervous breakdown, or a mental break.
Sounds like my ex, but worse. He has paranoia too but your case sounds more severe than mine. Perhaps if we married though…might turn out the same. For my ex, his inferiority comes from lack of love from his family especially his mum. And other trauma due to family school etc. But he refuses to address any of them. I tried and failed to help him see the elephant in the room. So we parted ways in the end as it was getting too destructive because he breaksdown (really bad ones where he goes into seizures) whenever we have arguments. Even small arguments from initial playful bantering could trigger him into breakdowns, affecting his mental and physical health. I do worry for his mental health too but honestly not sure what i can do at this point.
@xx-lb7ps my husband has unaddressed trauma also. His parents kicked him out when he was a teen. A few years ago, he had repressed memories pop up. I won't go into it. I've tried to tell him he was the victim and such, but he doesn't see it. That things he did in his past were because of the abuse he went through. He feels a lot of shame because of it. I bet it's scary knowing that if we divorced, he wouldn't have any family to lean on or go to. I had to cut contact with my family, so he doesn't even have that either. I think my husband makes up things in his head to get ahead of something possibly bad happening. I still have hope. I don't know why I keep on putting off getting us counseling.
@@Dandelions-k6l it’s uncanny how similar this is with my ex. He was kicked out by his mum when he was around 22 yo (we are asian so it’s uncommon to live separately until late adulthood or marriage. Sometimes even after marriage we will still live with our parents). He too have no contact with his family right now. Really sad how a lack of social support and family support affect one’s mental health so deeply. My ex was also always afraid of losing out to me and self conscious due to his awful mum. Im glad my ex and i still do contact occasionally although sparse but at least i get to know he is currently doing okay now. Therapy sounds good, I hope you and your husband are able to work out any obstacles that may come!
He has been watching red pilled videos for sure.
@Mimi-girl I am concerned about that. I have heard him listen to red pill UA-cam shorts. I don't know if he watches those kind anymore. Last year he told me he stopped watching those kind of shorts. He told me I wasn't anything like those girls they were talking about. He couldn't even relate. That was actually nice to hear. But at the same time a downer. Because it took watching UA-cam shorts for him to figure it out?! We've been married over 20 years!
I did like to see the red flag of my partner, and I always try to speak abt it but they get at me after 🤷🏾♀️ i hate it when someone expect respect from someone but they cant even respect them self 🥴
That’s what I want 😩
hi
I love this man!!!!!❤❤
Dara singh as king in background. Bollywood fan
Lol that was unusual
You do divorce the one you marry, if you marry an idea, that's what you divorce.
Right, my 88 year old best friend says "take 'em warts and all!"
Jim, this is a really good video. I'm glad you did this because I was thinking that maybe you were just an unhappy lawyer
I like his honesty, but I don’t think I would ever marry an attorney. I just don’t trust it. I’ve seen too much of Judge Judy on tv. 😂😂😂
There is too much expectation on one person hence marriages are failing. We need to see more people in a day like a maid, Gardner, family member, friends, then the dependency on a spouse will reduce.
Does that even exist? People that love another for who they really are?
i like to watch this in the complete video, which one would this segment come from?
Yes love you for good and bad people forget that but dont get me wrong some bad is like fucked up so its really all about comprimising
I fkn love Jim
If we abolished arranged marriage and divorce. They system would be fixed.
You think arranged marriages are a big factor in the US?
@dwm1795 yeaaaahhh I was wondering the same thing too...Not many or any at that matter am I aware of arrange marriages being a thing in the US
The real issue is no fault divorce. The only acceptable reason for a divorce is infidelity.
You must be Christian
@@AramereSolblaze so for any other reason, you would just remain unhappy in your marriage for the rest of your life?
True, I ve seen huge red red flags of my ex-husband and exactly why I got devorced. Those flags just catch up to be and become royal pain in a...... now im in the relationship, I accept all - good, bad ugly, sad, happy, up and down sometimes we even brake dishes and thn we hv mind blowing sex :) and i know he is mine and im his for as long its last. but I figured I hv the same energy. I'm strongly believe similar energy attracts each other.
When you wear rose colored glasses you stop seeing the red flags.. Hmm
Yes!
Dems rose coloured
glasses;
Women can fit you to the dioptre 😉
Is he single i want a date with him?
he is lawyer if you want divorce him
Basically he just defended men being simps and getting screwed for money by a woman no matter what 😂.. SORRY PAL, WE DON'T
Like the woman didn't get screwed out of her reproductive years and after divorce market value in the dating world?
Saw and enjoyed seein u on soft white belly...a common sense lawer..refreshing
That ending statement is the realest, and most simplified way of what marriage should be for. Unfortunately many of us chase that honeymoon period and say we can work on everything down the line. 😢 Unfortunately, there are so few people cut from that cloth
Sexton can speak with much more authority than the other red pill guys.
He doesn't claim the red pill guys
I’d date a man like this. He’s all over the place, but I know I wouldn’t be bored with him. He’s prob an alcoholic too (which I can put up with).
Lol
HOPE is something which always held back person from redflags 😢
❤️ if you cant accept someone for who they are fully, you shouldnt be with them. In the end, all the things you "looked over" are the exact reasons you'll separate from them.
Going through a divorce sucks❤ I believe it should be the last resort❤ got married a second time my husband would say I would never want to be your ex-husband❤ the last 10 years of my marriage my husband and ex-husband ended up in a band together❤ they cared about each other more than they cared about me in the end❤RIP they passed away nine months apart❤ Stranger Than Fiction❤ I like this lawyer❤ man has been through so many battles❤
I’m ready for my 2nd divorce
what is on your walls
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Wonder why they divorced, he seems reasonable and his view of her seems reasonable..
Perhaps because he is a workaholic? For my taste he has a bit too much energy, even though he is fascinating.
At the level he is at you have to be a difficult person. He's had to sacrifice a lot to get where he is. That may be a healthy interpersonal relationship or maybe his wife wasn't okay with the sacrifices?
Yeah agreed but the fucked up parts of the other person cannot be too toxic!
James seems sweet.
I like Jim. He’s an honest divorce lawyer. He tells it the way it is in reality. No reason for anybody to get married anymore. I know I won’t do it. The cons far outweigh the pros. Just my opinion too.
I would never advocate marriage unless there was religious/spiritual context
I knew I recognized this man. He is the lawyer that fresh and fit hired when the model got pregnant 😂
That's the best kind of love indeed. It needs self-awareness and luck to get it.
I think I'm done .. bro ...
IS THIS AI?
No.
lol no
I see exactly why you think that