Sadistic Personality Types - Spineless sadism
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- Опубліковано 2 чер 2022
- Spineless Sadism is a subtype of Sadistic Personality. Typical characteristics of sadism include getting pleasure from other people's suffering or asserting dominance through inflicting pain and humiliation and acts of aggression and violence.
The common traits of Spineless Sadism include being part of a larger group that bullies and abuses, gaining gratification from watching others in pain and distress and lying about their ability to inflict pain and misery.
Sadistic personality quite often co occurs with, among other things, narcissistic personality and psychopathy, and is one of four components of the Dark Tetrad.
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It really sucks when you face life having learned these behaviors as your “normal”. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger-- what a load of crap. What doesn’t kill you makes you the weirdo 9/10 times.
aww yes true ❤. But In fairness Nietzsche's quote is actually taken out of context. The full quote is referencing a select group of individuals who he calls Nature's lucky Strokes where he says "He devine's remedies for injuries; he knows how to turn serious accidents to his own advantage; that which does not kill him makes him stronger." Later he is quoted saying what doesn't kill me makes me stronger. Never does he say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
It's huge for you to admit this. People are sadistic without even realizing. Lets educate the world together and end their misery by education.
@@thejoyofskating It would be nice, but then there's the sense of humour in schadenfreude. It's another reason why people may frown upon German humour.
Was it your way of living hell without going for the classics suicide or f* the dignity paths?
I can relate with that.
"..they get a kick out of disappointing people", and I got shivers: this sounds pretty nasty and sick. TY for your insights into these 'darker' sides of humans.
Well, yes. Early on in our "friendship", my ex-friend from Hell used to say, "Let's do so and so on such and such a day". I'd reserve the time, and then she'd go out with some guy she didn't like. Then she'd say, "Well, a date with a man always takes priority. You're free to do the same." In the first place, I have always tried to keep my word. In the second place, I was completely single at the time, and not in a position to meet anyone. In the third place, if she sniffed out the slightest attraction between me and a guy, she magically wound up in bed with him. I thought I was just a gauche person with bad timing. It was many years before she actually dropped the mask, and that was truly frightening. So I say: if you even begin to see such patterns, you're not imagining. Get out, even if it means being friendless for a while.
@@reymohammed7040 The very first time she said a date with a man takes priority, I would have dumped her ass
You can choose to be evil as well. Let’s not forget the machiavellian aspect of this disorder. After you continuously choose to hurt others a few times, it becomes easier. I am not about to assign “evil” as a chance. Yes, most everyone who drives has run over something and are full of regret; fewer people are targeting wildlife and pets.
try being an Uber Driver in SIN CITY hahahahaha
Oh, my goodness. I've had truly awful problems with my next door neighbour and this sums them up. I didn't come to this channel with them in mind but this is it in a nutshell. Some people are just evil. Interesting that they actually have labels!
I’ve been there with a crazy neighbor. Be aware the law is on your side. There are ordinances that cover unwanted door knocks, phone calls or emails. Ans trespassing !! Keep track of all of those. Good luck and remember to say NO and practice tight boundaries.
@@Lunchladydoyle Thank you for your kind words of support. All the best to you.
Sorry about your lousy neighbor. But I just want to say that we should all keep in mind psychology is just one answer to the Myriad of interesting characteristics that people have and ways that law enforcement, in particular, try to profile them. As well as just in general trying to label people who are having trouble in their life and what not. However it is not the last word just as science does not usurp theology although some people would argue that it can only be one or the other. For instance, as a clairvoyant I know several labels and types of mental disability that a lot of people will claim I have because they cannot fathom someone who can actually see beyond this realm. So my point is that yes sometimes we can understand people this way but we must not necessarily label them or ourselves with only psychological labels.
@@TheOneanjel I agree! I use to totally Hate labeling people until unfortunate encounters one after another and another and another and another I was forced to fall on my knees and ask God what are you trying to tell me or teach me or what’s the lesson here, then you must apply labels and then see theirs demons amongst us, boy did I hate that but doesn’t mean you have to hate but you must pray for them and remove yourself from these dangerous places and people. As the Bible says you must be wise as a serpent and innocent as a dove. Unfortunately we are sheep amongst ravenous Wolves ready to devour our naive, simple hearts.
I had the same, spineless relentless trouble maker's. Dirty scumbags didn't have a decent bone in their bodies. Bullying their own babies aswell. Awful to live around them.
Passive Aggression.
That’s abuse but not sure that is sadism?
I truly appreciate how spot on you are about narcissism and personality disorders. Thank you! The delivery is great and interesting as well.
Glad I got recommended this channel from the algorithm
BRILLIANT! I love the way you 'under-deliver' on this kind of vile behaviour - ive been on the sharp end of some horrific Spineless sadism. Once we really SEE whats going on - we can see them/it for what it is. Keep going; you ROCK!
He really explain very well. Just as you said, he is brilliant
I would love to see a video highlighting the dichotomy that many live under when their parents are well liked in the community but narcissistic behind closed door. My dad was a much admired doctor, my mum a justice of the peace. Terrible parents, both so angry and manipulative, but who would ever think that or believe me?
It’s infuriating and awful to witness and be a part of. Blessings to you my friend you’re not alone. ❤
They're admired by grovelling wimps, people will be well aware of something wrong with these type.
Darren did a video about covert narcissists and I’m quite sure that double facedness is in there.
They spread ridiculous rumors about you in the workplace armed with a flying monkey. The moment you drop a single truth about them they are off and running to the bosses office to report you for ‘talking’ about their personal business
This person won't leave me alone even though I've made it clear I want nothing to do with them.
@@soniczforever5470 This is the best advice for such people (and basically for 95% of the population). If you hurt him he can get revenge on you. If you hurt him badly he will never again touch you and he will never manipulate someone to hurt you anymore! Believe me if you want. They really are cowards (they just can imitate well that they are brave haha)
@@vasilminkov4046 she got me evicted
In my family, most laugh when someone is hurt. And, I realize that slap-stick comedy is a “thing” but it’s hard to reconcile in view of the many narcissists.
well they should know better. I love Laurel and Hardy but I don't laugh when people fall down or smack their head into a wall
I wonder how deep the rest of your families sadism goes.
When I was hit by a car my brother's version of sympathy was to joke about the damage it must have done the car (because of my size).
Imagine being set up for a rape by your best friend who was comtrolling my lover the whole time. Buggery is a crime but unfortunately he got off due to my best friend withholding evidence. Not long after shacked up with her other friend. Bare in mind..they knew what happened to me. I'm out the other end now but still trying to shake off the cling on's. They had me in court 2 times, one for malicious communications and harrassment..I am writing about it. They don't want me to bring their shame and guilt up but they all abused me. It split this community. Me. I'm done with them all, but court will probably keep coming as long as I live hear so I'm leaving the country and will write from where I am going. They will not keep me down. I stand against sexual abuse and exploitation of children now at 52..they hate me because they know what they did..I'm 52 and stronger than before. I am an empath yes..but a very much more balanced one now.. they need the crowd. I'm on my own.
They get a kick out of disappointing people is so spot on. I have seen it first hand. Just so pathetic. 🤢
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These traits sound like my dad, ex, and a female sibling of mine. In my case I think you have to be rather close to them as this behavior is subtle, they don't seem the type but they are. I've had ex "friends" like this too. Not necessarily in a group but acting out single handed.
I have lived with a narc sadist, and my narc mother and covert narc MIL are both sadists.
Oh man...there are quite a few individuals I've come across who are spineless sadists. They definitely get great pleasure out of hurting others. It's scary when you think about it.
Basically EVIL!!!!!!👿
Drago mi je što ste pokrenuli ovaj kanal.
About the "if they get a kick out of dissapointing people" after having promised things, I think it's part that and part they want one to call and chase them down to make them feel needed. I dont do that but had to since he told me to buy computer parts and he would put them together but when they had arrived, he didnt so I was without a computer and had to call him about it, I never call otherwise because I dont want to disturb people. The way he replied was so sweet and "Ooh.." like he REALLY enjoyed me having to call him. It was validation for him.
This is so true! It's unnecessary cruelty
Exactly
@@artwithmamafairybreadd what are you implying?
@@sereneharvey162 oh for Gods sake…I just said EXACTLY…how do you not get that….
What’s your problem
WHEW!!!! YOU GOOD. NAIL ON THE HEAD
Yeah..I see it through what happened to me. In a small town in N. Ireland it is very real
@@franklinstephen3268 I'm doing well now thanks
@@franklinstephen3268 None of your business. Bye bye
I had an Irish woman move in next door in Seattle. I steer clear of Irish after her. PTSD. to this day.
@@gregpendrey6711 Huh... well maybe Darren's channel isn't for you since he's from Northern Ireland. My best friend's husband is from Ireland and he is a fundamentally kind and wise man. Be careful with stereotypes. No particular country has a monopoly on cluster B personalities.There are difficult people from all walks of life.
@@Nonameforyoudangit True however every group has a particular persistent pattern they follow, weird but it’s true, I guess it’s the negative part of the culture, it’s like the positive stereotype of the culture are known for a good time with drinking and partying for St. Patrick’s Day ☘️ or the Luck of the Irish! It’s like we’re all programmed to think and believe certain things so we act on automate or accordingly, therefore making stereotypes true to a certain extent. I’m African American and my cultural stereotypes are Wild beyond belief 🥴😬So when ppl get to know me they’re either pleasantly surprised by my difference or they become infuriated because I dont meet their preconceived expectations, 😂most of the time it’s the extremely negative preconceived expectations🙃 Now I just laugh and calmly and internally watch them squirm and cry to set up scenarios to make me adhere to their justified stereotypes😂😂 My favorite is the angry black woman😂about time I’m done playing with them their patience is Shot and they ironically become very angry, Super angry 😂meanwhile I continue on with my life as usual while they go on a wild crazy goose hunt smear campaign😂 (Very interesting to observe and note while their oblivious to me conducting a case study on them) and Honestly it’s become extremely boring, repetitive, old and pathetic at this point. People really need to focus on their own lives (mind their business seriously) and/or need psychological help and Jesus, seriously! All jokes aside ppl are really mentally insane or unhealthy. God help us.
Please possibly address how this “spineless sadism” fits into narcissistic abuse! I just listened to another that said sadism is very rare in narcissistic behaviors and my immediate thought was if sadism could also be on a spectrum. The type of abuse I have received from a narcissistic person is intentional and it is done with the intent to cause harm. Thank you!
I made a video on characteristics of dark personality which addresses narcissism and sadism if you’d find that helpful?
Thank you for your response! I will watch that one too! Thank you also for your videos as I find your explanations yo be very clear and from a perspective of someone who has an understanding/ experience of these personalities and the harm they do.
Thank you.
From Syria .. I love u so much thank you
Thank you for another great video!
Wow! I love these! My eyes are opened!
Your trauma bonding videos are excellent
This being removed from dam5 is an actual crime to humanity
Sadism is the core of their game in Luxembourg where I lived being married to one of them. A demonic, vampiric natsi, it was frightening. I have never ever encountered such an evil road runner, always on a lookout to cheat, extort, abuse everything that possessed by dark forces did. I was so mesmerized and knocked out, controlled and manipulated.. felt like being dragged into a cocoon of his spider web where with each of his feeding on my pain and suffering, I was losing my mind...
Damn bro God Bless You for realizing this and may you forever be able to dodge any sadists by not giving them the reinforcement they're seeking. Forgiveness is essential. Forgive them for they not know. Some of them may know what thye're doing but a lot of sadistic people don't know what sadism even really is.
Just imagine all the people who don't believe in God and the powers of good and evil. Without knowing god, passively you surrender your right to educate yourself regarding these topics and how dark energy satan works.
This is exactly a guy I was dating, he would even get aroused when I was upset. I thought he was an avoidant but knew something was off. Now it all makes sense.
This is my ex bf. 377 days of asking for simple favors only to have him ignore me completely while offering something similar but completely opposite of what I asked for in the first place
Forget explanation, this man is roasting them 😂
... based on observing politics over that past 30+ years - 20% of the population falls into this category in one way or another. RARELY do these individuals realize the error in their ways because even when they're called out, they can always fall back on proclaiming victimhood.
I found your video of the covert narcissist husband & stayed. I've seen other channels, but this would be 1 of 2 of the most accurate channels on this subject on YT. Has everything you need to educate & protect yourselves from getting involved with or in a relationship with these types (whether it's love or friendship.)
Very good, explains alot!♡
You should make a video about personality disorder subtypes with sadistic features… (malevolent antisocial, abrasive negativist and malignant paranoid)
Thank you for your suggestion
You should also write the eulogy for my mothers funeral when the day comes. you know her very well.
Lord forgive me
Yeah, just like my narc mother. She’s a coward bully who enjoyed inflicting suffering on me and my sister. But always did it indirectly. In my case, she often set the outwardly aggressive minion brother on me.
@@neurodivergentpixi6736 Yup, totally! The brother was always the golden child who can do no wrong. And we were the black sheep. It’s so common for narc mothers to hate their daughters- we’re perceived as a threat to them. Never heard of the Jocasta complex, but I looked it up and that’s exactly what it was. Emotional incest!! DISGUSTING 🤮🤮🤮
Their flying monkeys in their harem
The captions are appreciated!
Thank you for video very interesting it helps 😀
Oh dear
They are poster children for schadenfreude! So easy to spot "the look".
Very Specific and accurate explanation, Thnq doctor
I got a name for this one and its Tony.
On special occasions, they ruin the day with their attitude . They will disregard your pain and even tell you your fack8ng when you're not . Cruel to the core! Also acting with no emotions or remorse.
And uses a corner smile when their targets react. Does anyone else see that also ?
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Sounds like evil tempting evil. They will be tortured by the bullies
Spineless sadistics are coward but they don't show that. It's like that classical bully who gets beaten up by their father like a little B but in front of their friends they act like their father.
And just like a good coward they also are very good on begging and servicing to not suffer real pain.
Sir, you're a genius. Unbelievable knowledge. Thank you so much❤
YES YES & YES ... do you give Interviews????
Why do I have to learn about this the hard way? Why does society sweep all this under the rug?
Society is run by sociopaths on different levels and society is not what it looks like.
Why do you expect somebody to tell you everything?
Yes. Indeed. Thanks.
Future faking. So many people do this
Can you explain why alcohol consumption can turn the kindest, the most gentlest person into a sadistic tyrant while other are jovial drunks.
The kind person is a masks and when drunk, the mask falls down.
So basically everyone who participates in cancel culture and bystsnder apathy.
Darren F. Magee 👍
They could saying this, even attorney is their great fan's 👍
As sick and unbelievable it sounds, but I lived in such an environment. From the stand point of a normal average healthy person it sounds like mr. Magee is fantasizing about mean movie characters. But once again: this is true.
And what if the "kick" they get is being success at surviving through another day
I'd venture to say not a sadist
Interesting🤨
What are your Qu Qualifications.?
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Some of these are extremely broad and can cover other things. For instance, someone painfully introverted who is repeatedly invited to a Christmas party will eventually agree to go and then just not show up.
Of course you’re right. But there is the type who go out of there way to make plans with you, never intending to show up.
lol dr magee you savage 😅
What about covert psychological sadists? Who hide their dirty work on the low?
Hey i am a sadistic person who gets hapiness from other's bad then i feel guilty WTF am i doing.
There's lot of good things but i go for negetive side .
24hts boredom with life without reason,
I do work to make myself happy and forget suffering and problems.
I started watching bloodshed content these days i feel guilty for it but brain send Singal of happiness
There's a bunch of ways of consuming violence without hurting anyone, I don't see the problem.
That's my husband to the T
I leave it to Karma. It comes back
It doesn't. This woman's beens treating me like crap since the start of the year. Hums if I get panic attack. Fcxg evil .
That's just a fantasy. Grow uo.
No, you have to pursue justice yourself.
What about only being able to get off sexually with seeing increasing levels of violence or disrespect.
But they don't have the balls to let you know they did it. But oh my God, they better not give me proof they were responsible
that damn juvenile, childish behavior .... it is prevalent.
Reginald.
Whar if they stink so bad they hide away and defend themselves through internet by truth telling
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It sounded like you were really thinking about certain people in mind, whether personal or being related to you?
Kinda like Killin your pets ,savoring the idea of your grief
I'm accustomed to a loving, playful and recipricol romance with good men.
Wow, thanks for sharing that.
That’s me but at least I’m not as bad as the other ones those are monsters
Everyone's a saint. I think people , all people are sadistic. It just depends on how far theyre pushed
Sounds like Donald Trump.
Let me summarize this whole video in one word. "politicians"
Too sad.😢😢 Feel that heavy hitter. 🐠🐡🦠🏴☠️🤢