Here Is What Verbal Abuse Sounds Like. | What Is Verbal Abuse? | Verbally Abusive Relationships.
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- A long time ago, I found myself in a very unhealthy relationship. It was one that involved a lot of verbal abuse and emotional abuse. In this video, I will go into great detail about exactly what was said to me one night when I was still in that verbally abusive relationship in an effort to help other women understand what verbal abuse sounds like.
Verbally abusive relationships can be just as harmful or worse than physically abusive relationships. If you find yourself in either, it's time to make a plan to leave. Abusive relationships don't get better, they always get worse.
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I feel the hurt when you sighed. Big hugs! Verbal abuse is "invisible" to outsiders but to those who've been through it, it hurts so bad.
Sounds like you totally get it. Big hugs to you too!
Yes verbal emotional abuse can roll into psychological abuse
Sometimes it’s more dangerous than physical abuse
I see your pain and it hurts so much, just to read those words of his. DO REMEMBER HE DOESN'T HURT HEARING YOU SAY ON PAPER WHAT HE WOULD DO AGAIN AND WORSE TO YOU IF YOU GAVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE. THEY ARE EMOTIONALLY SADISTIC AND DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE TO YOU. THERE'S NO REMORSE. THEY PITY THEMSELVES FOR GETTING FOUND OUT BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T THINK OF YOU EVER AND YOUR HURT FEELINS. IT'S SO SAD BUT YOUR WILL TO HEAL NOW AWAY FROM HIM, HAS SAVED YOU AND YOUR VERY LIFE. YOU MOST DEFINITELY WILL HEAL. YOU CANNOT FORGET THOUGH. YOU REALLY DID SAVE A LIFE. THE LIFE THAT YOU SAVED MAY BE YOUR OWN. I ADMIRE YOU SO..........MUCH. HOW MUCH ? THIS MUCH.🙏🏻🦾🥳🤗😇👏🤷♀️🚴♂️🚴♀️🚴🫂🏨🏨🌍🌎🌏🚮🆙️🆘️👂🛌🛀🧘🧘♀️🗣🌝☀️🌈🏪🏠🏕🏘🍦🍿🍳🌮🍰☕🫖🍽🥤🍬🍯🐩🐕⚘⚘⚘🌳😷🤒🤕mKeep getting better to become well again, even better than before you met him.
Yes, indeed, quite painful. It's awful.
"The ax forgets. The Tree remembers."
We can easily forgive a small child for being afraid of the dark. The real tragedy is when grown men are afraid of the light.
Women can swing that axe too
@Itneedtobesaid look a lot deeper into what this man is saying…..
@@ginginbenton6463plenty of women are afraid of the light.. my ex refused a marriage counsellor for years because she knew a referee would expose her emotional abuse
Love that quote
My ex was like this. I stayed for 15 years. My self esteem was in the toilet. I wanted to die. I kept going for my kids. My kids are out of the house. I have a new partner who treats me better.
I'm so glad you got out of it! You deserve to be treated with respect and love.
I'm glad you moved on
Words hurt more than being hit to me. I don't feel I'm worth anything anymore. I'd rather get in a physical fight any day. Punches heal.
You are worth so much more than this! Please make a plan to leave. You deserve better!
I get it. My son and husband both verbal abuse me. I'm tired of the saying f you get the f away away from me f you. And the yelling all the time. You can only take so much.
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@@karensteck3800 I hate it! I'm constantly saying "get the f away from me" to him because he's always gaslighting me and then follows me around the house insulting me. I'm done but don't know how to get out because he's made me feel like I can't function out in the world
@@danielledegeorge2129 I'm so sorry feel the same way. Words are very hurtful. I have my adult son and husband bullying me.
@@karensteck3800 I'm sorry we're both going through this. It's hell on earth! I'm praying for you now that they will change their ways. I don't really believe people can change, but I do know God can do anything! Hugs to you sister!
Yells at me in front of his friends, called me stupid, hoe, threatening me by always saying “it’s my way or the highway “, silent treatments, I owe him cus he took care of me during college. That ladies and gentlemen was my dad.
That's heartbreaking! I'm so sorry he treated you that way.
I hope you will heal from this and seek therapy if you already have not because many times as women we are attracted to men like our fathers
im dealing with that shit right now with this bitch boy at my job and I have been bullied for so long I think I'm going to bring the police in and I'm of people's bullshits.
Its called trauma bond seriously leave and start a new life
My ex partner would call me bitch and tell me "fuck you" whenever he is upset
He’s a sad little boy. I’m sorry you had to deal with someone who refused to be mature and respectful of women
Respectful of women...you never hear anyone say the opposite of what you just said... Simp culture.
Yeah. This is just confirmation for me. Painful. Not normal. Not healthy. Happy for you and thank you
If you are still in this situation, I hope you are making a plan to get out. Sending hugs.
I made a list like this as a teenager and posted it on my wall. My mother, siblings, and the cousins she had adopted into our family all took turns coming into my room to laugh at me and my cry for help. It was disgusting. I will never feel love for these people. I’ll be free in 4 months!! Yay!
How are you doing now?
I wish I had the money to leave
You CAN do it, but you will need to put together a plan to leave. Check out some of my other videos for more info. You deserve better!!!
I’m in the same boat
“I wonder how it would be if you were dead.” That was too much for me. The only good thing, those words helped fuel my departure.
That is so scary! It sounds like you were in a very dangerous situation. I'm so relieved you left before it got any worse.
I've been called a slut and a psychopath. I was manipulated and gaslighted as well. Later I found out that this could be sexual, verbal or psychological abuse. We should test men and see how they treat us first before agreeing on a relationship with them.
Verbal abuse tends to happen more from women to men. It’s not only mens fault. There are a lot of men who are abused by women but they don’t talk about it because they think it’s shameful. That’s something we need to fix and make it okay for men to snitch
@@Horizon0505iije lol yea agreed...women are far more manipulating in our society, they can rip your kids from you and make any allegations they want and there are no consequences.
Look at the media young women are watching jersey shore, real desperate housewives all this garbage. Listen to their music...it's like brainwashing for narcissism.
I was also called psychopath by my loved one for just smashing bug , but it's hurts cuz he said that thing .
one of the most painful things I experienced with my ex husband was as follows: He was stationed at an airforce base and we had been there for 6 months. He decided one weekend that we would have a keg party with some of his crew. The first thing he said before they got there was, "If you hear that I slept with this girl while we were out in field training, it's a lie. I had nowhere else to sleep. We didn't do anything" (red flag 1). Then while people were coming in he introduced me. A lot of them said, "Hey (name)! I didn't know you were married!" Yeah ... that hurt (red flag 2)
So many red flags! Glad you are away from that.
As I watch this video: I'm reminded
I'm so ashamed at the state of my life,
and there's no escape.
Pain and grief and loneliness, these things are so intense, they rape my soul.
I wish for nothing more than real friends and true love.
Will I ever have these?
You will, but get out of this.
I remember trying to console my girlfriend one night over a fire And out of some miscommunication she repeatedly Asked “why do you always ask stupid shit?” She then put water on the fire we made together.
If that’s not a sign I don’t know what is. Thank you!
Thank you for this . In my marriage . I dealt with verbal, emotional, physical. The self worth and pain that I have. I suffer from PTSD. I am in counciling and have been since the Domestic Violence. I did the same wrote everything out. Drugs, Affairs. He has never said I'm sorry. I have been afraid of him from day one. I have fear from him every day of my life. Ladies abuse is not ok.I have been in contact with others he has abused. I'm so grateful to be alive and to the police dept. For keeping me safe.
My ex girlfriend was really vicious with her words behind closed doors. I didn't consider that it was verbal abuse and thought I always deserved it. She'd yell, curse, make me feel stupid, make me feel guilty and at fault for everything, slam doors, get cold and silent, toss remotes, hit herself in the head, cry on the floor, meltdowns behind the wheel threatening to crash the car. I was with her for 6 years when I finally decided to leave. She was hypersensitive, fragile, affectionate and had such a sweet side underneath all that pain. leaving her was the hardest thing I ever had to do. It's been 16 months since I left and I still miss her everyday.
This is such a hard situation to be in! This was most certainly verbal abuse, but what makes it harder is that she was probably hurting from past trauma that she experienced. Hurt people act out towards others and often don't get the help that they need. You did what you needed to do by leaving her, but all of those emotions don't go away. Stay strong!!!
what drugs are you on , if you put up with that shit you deserved it and you have real insecurity issues from what i have seen on the net.
This is wonderful thank you. Just left a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship and I was just questioning myself last night. I so needed this as confirmation today, so glad it came up recommended. ❤️
My exwife would screem in front of the kids at me calling me the C word the F word you name it she said it, so did my mother. I am now 62 and been with olive my wife and my step daughter for 30 years the other day Kay started to screem at me. I sat her down and proudly said to her. You have never heard me raise my voice to you or use any bad language please don't do that to me. The next day she said sorry. 90 persent of language is in the tone if you cannot control that the question you have to ask your self what have you become?
Sounds like a narcissist.
Sounds like you were dating a toxic person with narcissist traits. Glad you are out of that.
Thank you! Lesson learned.
It's 2022 Stay single men aren't getting help
Did he happen to have bipolar disorder? Not that it’s an excuse, but when my ex was manic he said a lot of mean things. Bipolar untreated with Narcissistic behavior was horrible to live with! Blessings to you for sharing your story!! Hope you’re doing Amazing precious one!! ❤️🌹❣️❣️
I'm unsure, although I've certainly thought about that being a possibility. Bipolar disorder and narcissism are a horrific combination! I'm so glad you are out of that relationship and wish you much happiness.
My husband has Bipolar Disorder, Intermittent Explosive Disorder, ADHD, and is a recovering addict. Every day he wakes up is literal hell. He works night shift so we don’t see each other except when he wakes up. Even having just one of these disorders is a cause of “grumpiness upon waking”. We have spent years in counseling trying to learn coping skills. For example, I have given him a time span to be alone before speaking. After years of this, it doesn’t matter how much time he has. He just wants to explode first thing. I highly recommend that all women date for YEARS before marriage and don’t ignore or excuse bad behavior because of “love”. You only get one life. I’m living separate from the asshole now and it is not financially easy but I don’t get yelled at every day anymore. And that’s priceless.
@@traceyreed9167 Hi - can you tell me where you found the information on early morning grumpiness? I don't understand why he only verbally abuses me if it is the morning
Ouch I can see that you are still affected by it and i hope you can continue to heal!
I went through extreme verbal abuse with my parents & sibling my entire life, (from a year old, until my mother passed 2018). I also was in a verbally (sometimes physically) abusive relationship in my twenties. Bruises heal & fade. But words break you emotionally, psychiatrically, & even spiritually. For me, the words were worse than the physical abuse. I'm still broken, & I'm 57, 58 this coming April. 2022. I trust no one. Get away from abusive people! You're too good for that! Stay safe & God bless.
I am so sorry you were verbally abused by your parents. You didn't deserve that. You are not worthless, you have value and you deserve love and respect. 😥🙏
I am so sorry. I understand how exactly you feel. I wish people were nicer to their kids and relatives! It sucks that your only family and comfort is your bullies and fear :(
I've been married since I was 18, I'm 41 now. It's only gotten worse. I'm so tired. But my situation is difficult because I cant just leave like I want to. I'm just too dependant in to many ways that I need to be financially stable enough to do so. Hopefully it won't be too much longer I can't fathom another 10 yrs like this. I don't see myself ever being with another man after this, and not because I think all men are abusive, I just think id be happier single. Ty for sharing your story.
The brain registers your emotional pain in the same way as if you are physically abused. You end up injured and trauma bonded to your abuser as if it were something you feel you have to ' fix '. Frustrated you keep on trying causing cognitive dissonance and CPTSD. THERE'S ONE SOLUTION. GO," NOT ANY MORE ". GO NO CONTACT PERMANENTLY, IF YOU CAN DO IT ?
Oh my goodness..sounds painfully familiar….
How filthy of any man that can do that to a woman. They deserve to be punished.
I don't know what is going on with those men today.
I'm sorry you had to go through this. It was a long list of abuse. Thank you for sharing. I'm sure some of us had some of the same verbal abuse you had.
I think words hurt worse than being physical abused. The names I was called and things I was accused of I cannot even repeat on here they were so horrific. I got out too after a year and a half. I thank God for that and am glad you got out too. ✌️💕
So glad to hear you got out! Sending healing and love. ❤️
This is not a gender issue. It hurts like hell to be verbally abused, and constant reminded that we're not good enough. It took me almost 11 years to get out. But I guess it's not considered abuse when it's done to a man in this feminist day and age.
Bless you child . I'm sure sorry you had to go through that. And now I'm sure you would council others that the time to pack your bags is immediately after ONE of those statements had been uttered ONE time! There should be no discussion/no opportunity for an evil monster to say words like that to you a second time!
I'm sorry you went through this and am glad that you got out. I am thankful to have gotten out, too. We are our own best friends.
Sounds like you are doing well! I'm so glad to hear that you got out.
I wish someone could hear what I have had to .... I have left it behind I’ve been called all of these things ! Hideous .... to call anyone a c**t is bad enough let alone ur partner ... disgraceful it does affect you .... for sure & has affected my kids .... no one should put up with it !😔
Women aren't the only ones who can be victim's of this.....
How sad :( What a horrible person to be married to.....
O M G, this makes me furious, it's time to do unto others as they do unto you, this is bullshit I wouldn't put up with it, love & light from Florida ✌️💓💯
Once I'm free I will never marry sgain
Same never ever again
He's got low self esteem. And is a bully. Glad you left. Well done
They have low worth yes. I'm four wk out
I'm so thankful for this video. What hurts most is I got out of one to get into another. I missed the signs I learned to look for. Hurts
“I’d beat the shit out of you if you were a guy” - then pretends like this is totally normal to say to a women
Yeah I got this too…
Thats an overt narc.
Once I parted ways with a narcissist, and she called me "that" instead of my name, while talking to a third person. True story. I was an object. I became that, as soon as I escaped her power.
That is truly horrific and I'm so sorry it happened to you! So glad you are out and wish you the very best.
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What do you do when the verbal abuse is coming from your kids ? Which has also escalated into physical abuse. I’m getting treated like this from my boyfriend as well so I just feel like I’m exactly what they all say. Mind you I would never dream of talking back to my kids the way they treat me let alone hit/hurt them or my boyfriend no matter how much they push me because I love them too much and I refuse to go down to their level. I just end up retreating into my room and crying my eyes out because I can’t believe that they would do these things. I wouldn’t in a million years ever treat my parents this way so I just can’t fathom how they do it to me
I'm so sorry you're going through this! Getting this from your kids too must be soul crushing. It sounds like they are repeating learned behavior from what they have seen at home. If they saw their father and/or your boyfriend do this, then this is what they know. And if you don't address it now, it will spiral out of control even more. And then they will repeat this behavior with their partners as adults. Please, please leave the abusive situation with your boyfriend for the sake of your kids and yourself. If you don't have the strength to do it for you, then do it for them. That is the first and most important step. They need to be in a healthy home environment and so do you. And get your kids into therapy. This is a process, but will definitely help make things better. Sending you hugs!
@@WomanMoneyPower Fortunately, my kids have never witnessed the abuse first hand because I have never lived with my boyfriend and they have never spent time around him at all. So this is why it is so confusing and heartbreaking. I'm at a loss at what it is that makes me such a magnet for abusive behavior.😢
...you did the right thing...no man should talk to you that way....never! If you do not respect yourself...who will ?
Omg... glad you found the strength to leave.
Thank you for reminding me, of my past. I struggled so much he even locked me and my kids with a paddlelock, so I wouldn't leave the house.
That is horrible and abusive. I hope you are in a safer, happier place in your life now!
You are a strong person to have made it out. Blessings to you ♥️🙏🏾
Sounds familiar and equally if not more vulgar 😣
I'm so sorry that you can closely relate! It's a bad situation to be in. If you are still in it, I encourage you to get out if you can. These things don't magically improve. You deserve better!
Sounds familiar. Been through it too much. Live alone now , I'm so happy 😊
I'm so glad to hear you are in a better place now!
That is full on narcissistic abuse. And its much worse to your mental and physical health, than being beaten. I know as i got both. First from my step dad, then multiple boy friends. Then my husband. now my adult daughter. Can anyone imagine you finding out you most likely have cancer and tell your daughter, who then slaps her legs and belly laughs and walks away? Then i stupidly took her to my ap to find out the results of my biopsy and she starts an argument in the waiting room, then acts supportive as i get the bad news. Then we get home and i mention about something that hurt my feelings and she called me an efin B and slammed the bathroom door in my face. She has become my biggest bully. I have never really recovered from all the other abuse i have been through, so im an easy target
Awful, so sorry you dealt with this.. A few things, 4 & 5 I heard from my poisonous narc... Keep healing and growing stronger.. thank you for sharing
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My wife was prejudice and verbally abusive and as i result i became miserable. Always angry with everyone and anyone. It got so bad i was becoming verbally abusive right back.
I pray everyday for the means to leave.
Excellent video. So helpful. I'm getting divorced.
I was in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage for 26 years - it was like the boiling a frog analogy - it started of semi-mild- but grew increasingly intense and so unbearable that I finally had the courage and strength and focus needed to divorce him before my soul and spirit were “boiled to death”. He is also a covert narcissist. I too, used to write down the hateful things he said - just for a strange validation - to look back to see what I escaped and survived. Ya.
A couple of things. I had a friend about 20 years ago who cried and raged and cried about her man trash talking her just as yours did to u. Now I doubt anyone could get away with it now- but what she and her brother did was to climb up onto a billboard sign and the sign was a darkish advertisement so they used bright white paint and in huge writing painted his name and his social security number! And try left without ever being caught. She want to write he was aow down trash thing idiot- ah, but tge brother! He said no. That won't hurt but this will. Oh and it did! He had .ounds of troubles and though he told the police that it must have been her, still he could not prove it.
I wonder what you did for him to say all those things, I ask because the last time I heard a woman with similar complaints, I found out from her ex that she drank away all the money he allocated for their child on top of leaving the child home alone whilst she went out drinking with her friends.
Fairness always requires both sides of the story.
I am out four weeks. It was worse when I gave him a last chance. I had boundaries. He just ignored them and got worse saying I'd broken him
They always say "you have a fat ass" whether you have one or not. My abuser said that and I was slim as a rail. Aren't they disgusting & infantile!
I hope that you are feeling better these days, and moving forward. Love and peace to you.
As someone who is currently going through verbal, gaslight, and child abuse (physical), I pray to God no one else ever goes through it.
I'm so sorry you are dealing with this! Has the child abuse been reported to the proper authorities?
@@WomanMoneyPower Yes, indeed. My grandma and I contacted CPS, but sadly I couldn't stay at her place and had to go back with my abusive mom.
Luckily, she has been acting nicer to me, though she did tell me I had to walk to school, go to the laundromat, and go to the store alone all by myself. The last one sounds so wrong in my mind (because of mental abuse), should I tell CPS about that?
@@mr.incognitoyt2235 How old are you? I think it all depends on your age, but (to me) it sounds like your mom is putting adult expectations on you as a child. It could definitely be unsafe to have you go to the laundromat and the store by yourself. A lot could happen to you without an adult there to help if needed. I'm so glad your grandmother was able to help you out. Why are you unable to stay with your grandma now? Assuming that CPS is still monitoring your situation and visiting your home, I think you should definitely tell them that your mom makes you go to the laundromat and store by yourself. It could easily be considered child neglect and they should know. If they are no longer coming to your home, then call the CPS hotline for your state and make sure to tell them that CPS has already been involved with your home. They need to hear from you directly if at all possible. Please remember they are there to help you.
@@WomanMoneyPower I'm 15
@@WomanMoneyPower My mom had taken my phone away from me, I think she's just scared that CPS will come back. And now she said I could probably take my dog out for a walk when I barely know the routes outside the house. I mentally feel as if I'm a slave.
I am my wife is verbally abusing me and tonight she punched me
When mothers allow drunk boyfriend's to do this.
Thank you for sharing not easy
It’s been 2 years since I moved away from my emotionally abusive grandma, but there’s one situation that I could never forgive her for: I spent 30 minutes scrubbing the bathroom mirror and she got mad that there were still a few streaks, so she said “I don’t care if you go to a youth homeless shelter or go homeless but you’re getting out of this house very soon” and my mom wonders why I never want to see her anymore
Sometimes family members are toxic and mean. You absolutely have the right to distance yourself from this! I'm so sorry that your grandmother treated you badly. You did not deserve that.
Inspirational and brave talk
again, we are hearing one side, what his side, what shit did you do that you didn't mention, sorry, i don't buy ,
What a sad excuse for a man
Im so sorry you had to go through this... i wish i could give you a hug
None of this is nice. the truth is we do not need them they need us. It took me 10 years to get this.
Absolutely true! It's interesting that so much of verbal abuse is in reality an attempt to push people down to a lower level so that they don't go anywhere.
@@WomanMoneyPower Oh i know so we have to stay with and put up with them!! I'ts to much work for them and so when they find a good women, thats how it start's put down's and so on. You start to think it's you and i'ts not!!! Hell to the no!!!!!!
They need us to regulate
This was very helpful, thank you
SO glad it was helpful!
Sorry u went Thur that n thank u for sharing
Thanks for watching!
Wow he sounds like a catch.
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Projection to the maximum right there with most of what you’ve said
Omg
M 4 ever,You look stunning 🌷🌹,You don’t need a narcissist in your life!
Gosh not good but I’ve heard worse
he obs had alot of hate towards himself then if he wanted to treat you like that
Been there too. Physically abused as well
💘 you!
I hope you are are out of it all and doing well now!
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I was told I'm a burden to him
We are an extended family living in one household (i live w/ my parents, grandfather, aunt and cousin). My dad's side has always been dealing with untreated mental illness. Growing up with a alcoholic father who occasionally use dr*gs, a mom who barely sees me, a narcissistic and manipulative aunt (dad's sister) and cousin (her son) and a mentally ill grandfather really f*cks you up. All my life i have been subjected to humiliation and verbal abuse, sometimes physical abuse (used to from my father esp. when he gets rlly drunk) from my dad's side of the family. I have been called many degrading names, you'd think i've developed a thick skin and not let it hurt me but no, it still hurts. My dad doesn't treat me as bad as he used to but still is emotionally abusive, he's not supportive of me and have made it clear if i f*cked up he would throw me out of the house but we do sometimes get along. My aunt and cousin on the other hand, i hate them, my aunt is incredibly narcissistic and is verbally abusive towards me every single day, my cousin is as equally worse as my aunt, he is like i said psychologically abusive, he had made me throw away a few of my cats cuz he hates them and occasionally made threats to kill my remaining cats in front of me. They constantly blame me, i'm always the problem and they say that i'm abnormal like im neurodivergent or something. His mom and most especially him try to control me by making threats then giving me treats then back to being insufferable a*sholes. I honestly hate it here. I am now aware of what they were trying to do me and now i am trying to create boundaries and try to stand up for myself. I can't just leave i'm 18 and a first year college student and im broke, i have no where else to go, im also put in charge of taking care of my grandfather who hits me and is verbally abusive too, I can't just pack and leave. But at least I am aware, and i try as much as i can to stop them from treating me too shitty because i know my worth. I am a person worthy of respect and love. I don't deserve being treated like this. I am valuable human being.
Thank you for sharing. I'm sure this has helped at least half of those who watched. I know it was hard, but thankyou for posting.
the second my date began screaming at me was the last. issues
So glad you knew to run at the first sign! It only gets worse, never better.
@@WomanMoneyPower yes. I'm out four wk
My mother was and is and always will be very verbally abusive, just to me because im the black sheep
No you aren't the black sheep...she is an evil narcissist, and you are her scapegoat.
Your mother is the problem, not you. As hard as it can be, sometimes it's best to distance ourselves from toxic family members.
Distance. Says on bible god seperates
Me too I understand
More power to you 🙌🏻
Does this count as "verbal abuse"? My boss was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. I'll admit, I am much better with a helping hand and guide, but come on, that's no excuse for being insensitive. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up for a one-person shift. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. I'm mad at myself for not standing up to her. She intimidates me when she's in a bad mood, but still, at the very least, I should've told her "my family always taught me to be self-confident and believe in my abilities," to challenge her to coldly disagree with that. Can't believe she would condescend me like that.
It sounds like you are in an unhealthy work situation and you are not being treated with respect as you deserve. You realize that your boss is condescending to you and not treating you well. This could certainly be categorized as verbal abuse and is disrespectful towards you. It's time to find a new job and get out of there ASAP! You deserve better.
@@WomanMoneyPower Thank you. Of course, I don't want to be a hypocrite. I've made my verbal mistakes at work, that I'm very ashamed of. I have reason to believe that my ASD makes me stand out and makes others perceive me a certain way. Do you know how often I said dumb things, like at work? I stupidly mentioned a man’s right to hit a woman for self-defense, and a new coworker proposed a new topic. Or how about the time I told a coworker (whom I didn’t think would resent this, since he’s clownish, snuck up on a guy, and once made a weight joke to him) “put a sock in your àss. I mean mouth.” He actually did resent that and told me I can’t speak to him that way. I didn’t intend harm; he had interrupted a question of mine to another worker to, if I remember correctly, playfully diss me. I guess I was annoyed with the clownish interruption, but I didn’t mean for it to be obvious (sometimes we tell our friends, "oh, shut up"). Later, I apologized, but he replied unfairly: “you’re good, man. You just need to learn how to speak to people.” Way to make an apologetic person who already feels bad feel worse.
A guy like him giving me the lecture feels worse. In fact, he's actually quite popular and well-liked at work. I've seen him have fun and get along so well with my coworkers, while acting like I don't exist at all. We pass each other in the hall or wherever, and he doesn't speak to me. Of course, I'll admit that I started the silence, since his hypocritical rudeness that one time, but I don't know for sure if he's giving me the silent treatment or anything. Either way, I'd say I'm not on his "good buds to joke with" list. I know he likes my coworkers better than me. Just the concept of being ignored hurts, and it doesn't help when they show admiration for the guy whom I think is obnoxious.
And that's not the worst part. I was taken to my boss's office with her and a high-ranking chef. The chef told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much. Not THAT type of touch, of course not! Just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. When I asked her if anyone reported a complaint, she said it didn't matter (so I guess yes). She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment; that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school (we're a university's catering service). That I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I pretty much don't have a filter, and sometimes I guess I do say "inappropriate" stuff at work, but not _horribly nor intentionally._ I just like to joke around and have fun with people. I really didn't get specific information from the chef about what and who. She understands/ likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits, for good behavior and my coworkers' sake. And again, that I shouldn't touch their shoulders or arms without consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep or Joe Biden. I didn't mean to be so "handsy." I'm so embarrassed about the lecture. Often times I feel like misfit at work who doesn't belong in my crew's fun conversations with each other. I should've asked the chef if she was SURE I could only talk about work and school, given my coworkers don't. I wonder if it would be better if I left the job...for their sake.
Man what a powerful video,,my ex was the Nar but Covert dont sting in this fashion,,sorry you experienced that.. positive vibes..
My dad called me a bratt he hit me with a belt at the Georgia hotel, called me aunory sh word ,the b curse word and that i don't deserve anything
I'm so sorry you are going through this! His behavior and treatment of you are not okay in any way. Is there a trusted adult that you can talk to? A school counselor or even a teacher you are comfortable with can be very helpful in situations like this and can help determine if you need help.
Today my ex called me a prostitute because I changed my profile photo on Facebook.
A couple of things. I had a friend about 20 years ago who cried and raged and cried about her man trash talking her just as yours did to u. Now I doubt anyone could get away with it now- but what she and her brother did was to climb up onto a billboard sign and the sign was a darkish advertisement so they used bright white paint and in huge writing painted his name and his social security number! And try left without ever being caught. She want to write he was aow down trash thing idiot- ah, but tge brother! He said no. That won't hurt but this will. Oh and it did! He had .ounds of troubles and though he told the police that it must have been her, still he could not prove it.
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It’s sucks being around you when it’s your period 😪😪😪
🙏🏻 God Bless! Thank you for sharing your story! I am proud of you and how strong and beautiful you are! 💕 💡
Thank you so much!
Let me guess...Drinking is involved?
You are a lovely person
Oh yes! Sounds like you’ve been there?
The stuff is poison.
I can see the relief in your eyes. Your soul is peaking through, Congrats.
My nephew is verbally abusing me!
How old is your nephew? Do you have the option of distancing yourself from him?
I’m so sorry that you put up with that abuse and it’s great for you to share with others who are in an abusive relationship ❤