Why You Have Trust Issues (Not Just Being Cautious)
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- Do you have trust issues but not sure why you have them? Trust plays a crucial role in any relationship, and we understand the struggles it can bring. Whether you've been hurt before or simply find it hard to trust others, this video is here to help you navigate your relationships and the complex world of trust. So, let's talk about the deep-rooted reasons behind your trust issues and offer valuable insights on how to overcome them.
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Catlett, J., MA. (2020, December 22). Trust Issues: Why Is It So Hard for Some People to Trust? PsychAlive. www.psychalive.org/trust-issues/
Choosing Therapy. (2023). 13 Signs of Trust Issues & How to Get Over Them. Choosing Therapy. hwww.choosingtherapy.com/trust-issues/
Peel, R., & Caltabiano, N. (2021). Why Do we Sabotage Love? A Thematic
Analysis of Lived Experiences of Relationship Breakdown and Maintenance. Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy, 20(2), 99-131. doi.org/10.1080/15332691.2020.1795039
Trust Issues: Definition, Examples, & How to Improve Them. (n.d.). The Berkeley Well-Being Institute. www.berkeleywellbeing.com/trust-issues.html
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I would love if you guys could make a video on what a crush feels like and to see if your aromantic or you just don’t know what it feels like, because I’m a bit confused for myself ❤
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
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I remember my dad asking once about what was going on in my head and life and encouraging me to open up. I did. Two days later, be threw it all back in my face and claimed I wasn't depressed, just that I was mad I couldn't "do what I want" after some unpleasant circumstances. It was the final straw in my trust issues. I now open up to no one at all.
Found out about five years later that he has a ton of narcissistic traits. It really explains a lot about my childhood.
Get betrayed by your parents is the hardest
But friend be glad you just opened up and shared.
this is rly hard, but know that there are always people that deserve ur trust
if u think u can trust someone but ur not sure, u can tell them some secrets that u dont care if everyone knew, if ur friend didnt tell anyone, they are prob trust worthy, no worries.
there are lots of people that are trust worthy
When you want to make friends but you're afraid to because of past trauma:
So true though fr
real
That's so true. My college is going to start in 5 days. But I don't wanna socialise with anyone. But that's going to make me lonely. It's so hard to decide
True
Story of my life
I’ve had trust issues stemming from my school days in the past, where I dealt with constant bullying from classmates and uncaring staff members who never did anything to stop it no matter how much I complained. As a result, I couldn’t trust people and I still don’t, even when they’re trying to help me.
When I was a kid my mom keep saying that I will be a beautiful man in the end she was using me for money she let my family break me physically and mentally which I’m glad I learn it from my middle age bc now I can see trough peoples lies and people who want bad intentions
When my brother and I were in high school, I would always sit in the back of the bus with a small group of rowdy teens, I would once in a while I have chats with them but mostly keep to my self, this scenario would go on for short days until my brother caught notice of that behavior and informed me that they were never even near any real friends of mine, and they were just using my manipulative kindness against me for laughs.
To anyone who reads this, let me make this clear.
Please, PLEASE, Do NOT let anyone take advantage of your manipulation, EVER, don't let what happened to Me, to happen to You.
Story of my life!
Well, its what people wanted for you. The staff did care. They just knew this is what was good for you in particular.
Been that way for most of my life. Bullied since kindergarten. I have a very hard time making eye contact with people and talking to them. I always wear a facemask in public because of it. I got used to it and don't plan to let go of facemasks any time soon.
⭐Timestamps (key moments/chapters)⭐
➼ 0:00 intro
➼ 0:36 the double bind
➼ 2:43 trust is mutable
➼ 3:54 outro
➼ 4:23 the lovable plushie
I’ve been surrounded by toxic and mismatched marriages in my family, including my parents. Cheating, aggressive behavior, and even abuse have been common, including child abuse that I and my brother experienced as children. As an adult woman, I have trust issues with myself and the idea of romantic relationships. I don’t trust myself around others, seeing how so many people that should’ve been guardians, teachers, and good examples ended up falling short. My brother has also developed trust issues similar to this as well, and I don’t trust him when I have conflicting opinions to his about them, fearing he will take it as a personal attack or that he will become what I perceive as condescending and defensive. It’s hard, and I’m not sure how to break it.
I'm truly sorry to hear about the challenges you've faced within your family. It sounds incredibly tough, and I appreciate your openness in sharing. If you're comfortable, have you considered seeking support from a professional to navigate through these difficult times? Sometimes, having someone to talk to can make a significant difference.
@@Psych2go I have considered it, but I don't know how to find a trusted therapist or expert. Unsurprisingly, therapist recommendations are not a topic that comes up at family gatherings
@@nutmeg1029put your foot in the door with therapy! your first therapist might be great or not so great but that’s the beauty that there are many! i’ve tried online and in person therapy and have found great therapist through both! therapy is truly life changing and can’t recommend it enough !
I remember whenever my mom got mad, or sad she always threatened me that she will leave me and she'll never come back, but I knew even back then that she loved me. I think that's why now, I know people like me, but I just can't trust them enough to let them in. That's why I never have deep relationship witch I crave to have. I hope to see a video that teaches how to let people in, because I found it too difficult. Thank you for your videos!!
Combine having parents in a toxic relationship with having Autism, having your own mom teaching you how to mess with people to get what (often she) wants while pretty young, and dealing with various therapy from before you remember through all of elementary school - you get trust issues because you ask "what is correct and/or normal" so much that it can be hard to trust most "normal" people.
If anything this makes it so even when people do what you'd like or can find helpful, it's a lot harder to trust them anyway sometimes. This is because you ask if it's to help them or to be actually a decent person.
Thank you for this! I needed to hear such a thing since I have BIG trust issues in case of friendships and relationships and all because past betrayals of feelings and actions from others.
You're very welcome! I understand that trust issues can be challenging, especially when influenced by past betrayals. It's completely okay to be cautious and take your time in building trust with others.❤
Around every turn in my life..I've been betrayed...a video on how to attract trustworthy people to me and how to test or spot people who are untrustworthy would be much more helpful for those of us that have been betrayed by family, friends, jobs, authority figures like the church or government, and society, overall. What is the point in learning to trust again just to be betrayed again? We need tools to protect ourselves.
The lesson I wound up learning is "I can trust my gut more than I thought I could. If the vibes are off, and something feels inconsistent, that's probably because it is."
A woman complaining about betrayal is fucking comedy gold
I got hit in the face with this months ago. I asked a group of my favorite coworkers to go to something important to me that I consider fun and would help them better understand me as a person. And just declining the offer would have been fine. But they laughed at me that I would want them to do that. "You just want a ride" "I thought we were friends." Yeah, I DID think we were friends, that's why I invited you to the thing. That was when I learned that they weren't my friends, and I haven't trusted any of them with anything since then. Just not wanting to spend time with me is one thing, but making me feel foolish for wanting it to begin with really damaged how I see them.
I think multiple things, One time was when my parents both told me that they woulldn't Invade my privacy. But, they both did and directly pointed it out. there was also a time when The oldest brother in my dads side of the family ended up doing some Really gross stuff to me, It got him kicked out for years, it happend when i was 8 and he came back when i was 12. Also when i had a best friend and we even went to eachothers houses after school, which id never expreienced somebody coming over to my house or me going over to that persons house almost everyday after school. In 3rd grade though, after being friends for a year, she started to Bully me, it started halfway through the school year, and ended on the last week of school when she tried to get me to bully somebody else. I feel like everytime i get close to somebody, or give them my trust, in some way the trust i give to them is always broken. its happend with really everybody in my life. I dont opften talk to people now and really just isolate myself, and it feels like im utterly alone in the real world sense everybody ive tried trusting has just ruined or broken it in some way.
It's a funny thing to know that many people always ask me why I don't trust anyone but every time I gave an opportunity to get my trust they used it to cheat and hurt me
I'm a weird guy so not many people connect with me but every time I tried to connect with others they showed me exactly why I should stay alone
I don't trust people and I won't either
Broken promises are one thing, while very constant , " I love you" an hour after a beating is a whole another story
The music makes me cry. I just broke up with my GF of 4 years last night. She broke my trust and was also manipulative. I'm glad your channel helped me realize what she was doing and I wish I had found your channel earlier.
I've developed trust issues because of abuse from my mom (verbal, emotional, and mental). My dad's infidelity, then coming back, being left in my grandmother's care for 7 years (I'm 20 now). I was bullied in middle school for the color of my skin. My first boyfriend cheated on me and physically abused me when I was 13-14y/o. I was betrayed by my second boyfriend among other things. I've tried to speed up the healing process for my boyfriend now because my lack of trust in him is hurting him. I don't want him to resent me, but I fear it's already too late, (we've been together for 5 years). I started trying to be better two and a half years in. But I'm too late.
I’ve always had trust issues. I could never trust anyone not even my friends.
I can't trust my parents and some of my friends
I feel that Same way, due to low self-esteem & Depression
@Theressomethinghere. *I suspect unconscious emotional blocks pathognomonic o' the Autism-Spectrum conditions, consistently with my own, that derail growth-seeking early in childhood, therefore block you from a sense of/for emotional safety.* Said emotional blocks were discovered by Steven E. Gutstein Ph.D., who made it his mission to follow up the late Chaskel Leib "Leo" Kanner M.D. in identifying and cataloguing neurodivergent adversities, through a meta-analysis o' studies _galór_ on both the autistic and the neurotypical.
This has been on my mind so much lately. Exactly the advice i needed this morning.
Happy to help!🥰
Betrayal never comes from an enemy
Yes it does. It's the betrayal that helped You to see what they were all along.
Mine come from my childhood. My real mother and real father walked out on my life, not once, not twice, but three times… *Three* and though I grew up with my grandparents, my grandfather who I called my father all my life physically attacked me last night after a verbal argument. Even told me to not consider him my father anymore. So this video broke the dam I was holding back just now and Im crying at the moment. Ive been betrayed as a child and still being betrayed as an adult.
Man i hope ur upcoming days brings joy and happiness ur really having a tough time.plz don't consider urself unlucky just have some patience and work on urself for better wish u best
I hardly trust anybody!
How tf did you comment a month ago
@@ZekeStulbergtime travel obviously
Bruh
@@ZekeStulberg probably those guys who joined, they could comment before the video came out
@ZekeStulberg I've seen alot but I've never seen this lol
I think the reason people don’t trust each other is because society gives us a reason not to trust them like our government companies the food we eat and sometimes those we love that we can’t trust which is sad. ☹️
I had trust issues before but not bcoz I had childhood issues. On the contrary, I'm so used to HONESTY with my parents and siblings that I expected everyone else like friends, colleagues and acquaintances would be honest to me as well. I've learn it the hard way when someone so special to me betrayed me. And now as an adult I've already accepted the fact that NOT everyone you trust is trustworthy. HONESTY is an expensive gift that only should be given to the people who deserves it!
I've had trust issues against trusting anyone, and that have isolated me from everyone, and this was really helpful❤
I have trust issues because I've been betrayed by a few friends. I also was betrayed by a manger once when working at Dell.
Needless to say, I don't trust many people, but I am still willing to give folks the benefit of the doubt. I am very candid about what I disclose until I trust someone (which takes a very long time). It's also led to me being single and not seeking a significant other lol.
Oh.
Now that is the survival game.
😂😂😂
I have a little trouble with my family.
It's about money.
Timestamps
1). The double blind 0:36
2). Trust is mutable 2:44
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I am actually thankful for my trust issues. It has saved my life many times.
That kid with the balloon and a booboo on his cheek, and a look of pure open-heartedly bewilderment on his face? 😢 Broke my HEART!!!
By the way, what do you think of people who call those with trust issues "red flags" or "people to be avoided at all costs". Because I have heard it and seen it before, and honestly it makes it much harder to heal from these kinds of issues.
I usually never trust anyone anymore, i kinda got depressed after what happened last year
I was betrayed by the first girl I ever dated. You don’t really ever get over something like that.
Only time, build yourself up mate!
No, you can absolutely recover!! You need to use the Thais Gibson method through first learning your attachment style through taking her quiz that’s on her website, and then watching the UA-cam videos which correspond to your attachment style and it’s unique wounds. Being betrayed by your first is NOT a death sentence, plus your first doesn’t really count because you had zero experience aside from what was programmed into you by your environment, which evidently screwed your over, but you can reprogram yourself! So don’t lose hope, you can absolutely do this if you follow Thais Gibson.
Yeah that’s ridiculous when he’ll be cheated on by the next few as well. The correct answer was, “you will be betrayed and cheated on.” That sting of betrayal starts to get funny if it happens enough.
My first girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend loo less than a month into a 6 month relationship. Happened 26 years ago and I'm still fucked up over it.
Same here.
Got dumped by someone I once loved with my whole being, cant trust anyone ever since (same goes to dating or even crushing on anyone anymore).
Kinda have the same feeling man, I told the girl that I liked that I liked her, but then proceeded to belittle me and give her worthless opinions about me, even my own best friend agreed with some of her opinions, can't trust anyone now.
Developed depression after that btw (diagnosed with depressive disorder as off 29/11/2023)
i’ve only had one crush my whole life and after i got rejected i became aroace-
I did not have trust issues, and then I fell in love with a person with a depression who sent me mixed signals, accepted my attention and kept me at arm's length, at the same time not rejecting me directly. I thought it was the depression that made him distant, not the fact that he did not like me back. It turned out he just did not have the heart to tell me I'm not desirable for him. Within a year, my trust crumbled. Now I feel like I will never be able to tell if anyone genuinely likes me or is just being polite. I hate him and curse him at times - and at times I want him to be happy and never get this attitude from anyone. I so did not deserve to be treated like that.
I truly relate to the example of trust issues starting as a child
❤❤ i will forever clap for others until it's my turn 🎉🎉
The fact that i clicked this as soon as i saw the notification
I definately suffered from the double bind, my parents weren’t good at being parents for the longest times. But I also feel like if I build my trust back up someone else will come back to pull it back down to ruin. So instead of building I dig, dig myself into a hole and shut it off. There is always the feeling that someone’s sole goal is to cause me pain
I had a troubling childhood, with tons of bullying and emotional neglect, even today I don’t trust really everyone completely. I feel unsafe most places I go, I second guess myself all of the time! I never really had a really good friend, but I want one, but it’s so hard knowing what happened long ago :(
It’s one thing to have trust issues with people in general, it’s another thing to have them with the opposite gender than you. Though I’ve had mostly negative experiences, those situations have made me a stronger, wiser and independent woman. That alone is priceless and is something I would never change.
It seems like you've turned challenging experiences into opportunities for personal growth and empowerment.❤
My ex emotionally cheated when we were together, saying she needed to work on herself - she then proceeded to move in with the guy a month after we broke up.
Having a tough time finding a reason to put my trust out there again.
I definitely have trust issues 🥺
The only reason I have trust issues because I used to trust people allot and when I do people take advantage at the fact in being kind to them so tend to take advantage of me for it
Even one of my best friends who got all my trust ended up betraying me so bad. This society is corrupt, everyone who you thought is a good person at some point do despicable things, hurting others and they don’t seem to even care anymore
It's not a matter of simply trusting again but being more perceptive to those who can be trusted and those who don't but of course sometimes we cannot really know in that case we should always have plan B like setting boundaries and consequences for the transgression and comunicating it assertively and politely to others.
Your statement is well-articulated and highlights a thoughtful approach to rebuilding trust.
@@Psych2go Thanks! i didn't think i would get a reply, i loved the video and also love the channel keep up the good work.
🎯🎯🎯 Bingo!!!
I trust people too easily, but at the same time i feel like they aren't trustworthy and i shouldn't trust them at all, is that a bad thing?
Ur being concious and that's not a bad thing
I don’t know if anybody will see this but a major way I was able to trust again was by, well, acknowledging my own mistakes from the past. Being brutally honest but not overbearingly self critical. It’s important to self reflect and realize maybe some situations wouldn’t have blown up if you reacted a different way. Now that’s not to say that every situation where it went terrible was your fault, you also have to take into account the other characters and their reactions and _possible_ reactions (if you know them that well). I had to really take into perspective that my tendencies were still rooted to my inner child, and sparked up dramatically at trigger points (like the video says). It does hurt at first but eventually you make peace with it and realize you are already a different person if you’re wanting to heal, it just depends if you want to go through with the change or not, because in the end you also have to trust yourself.
I make connections easily but I get extremely anxious whenever I notice people stray from how they initially interact with me overtime. I will default to think that they are getting bored of me.
I managed to overcome it by being with my true friends and not does betrayers or whatever
I used to have friends that thought I faked my chronic illness. Of course, they never told me that; they told another friend behind my back. I’ve suffered for 10+ years and have missed out on so many things I wanted to take part in. Why would I fake that? 😭
I feel your pain and frustration on this one. it can be a disheartening experience to hear about the people who are meant to be your support system but turns out to be the one to hurt you like that, I'm truly sorry to hear that. I wish you well and a complete recovery from this.💔
@@Psych2go Thank you so much for your kindness and understanding…! 🥺❤️
the thumbnail was so skrunkly ilysm thank you
You know, it's kinda crazy. I never thought i had trust issues until i watched this video. Now that i think about it more, it makes sense why i have no friends. I know people, i talk to people but i never let them come too close. I don't consider them my friends, they're just people i talk to whenever i see them in public.
Parents lied to me when I was a child then got cheated on by an ex when I was an adult. Promises made to me never happen. Thus developed a trust issue.
unrelated but whoever made the drawings needs a raise!!
I'm tired of trusting anyone, I already decided to be alone, I didn't want to end up to something fatal from friends, I don't need to see the brightest because I'm not perfect, I'm better alone than to make friends, I'm better off sticking with solitude. I don't care if I take risks being alone and I'll deal with it.
This is all me. I’ve had bad trust issues since 2nd grade due to bullying and it got worse years later.
I understand you as someone who got bully before, hope your life goes better!
@@altar8010u too bro hope U both got Ur life better I got bullied too and that shits hard AF to get thru so I hope y'all okay 👍
Can you make a video about how to shut up that inner voice that keeps telling you to stop doing what you love?
I got replaced by my friends when the new shiny thing came to our company. It's difficult to fully trust somebody after that. Then, basically this year, one of my close friends just drifted off and when I finally asked she just said that it's just easier to her not to be very close to anybody. And it's completely understandable, but I've been feeling guilty for months. If I did something wrong - please, just tell me so I can work on it and move on.
Simply, yes i have trust issue
my trust issues have been developing more since my first ever friend backstabbed me. and now dealing with death threats, depression, laziness and the fact that i probably have ADHD, i think my mental stability is practically the delicate balance on a crane, if one thing goes wrong, everything falls apart. this did kind of help me with my trust issues, so thank you guys for helping me.
HEY , GOOD EVENING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I CAN RELATE TO THIS TOPIC, 💯 PERCENT I DON'T TRUST TO MANY PEOPLE ANY MORE BECAUSE OF THE THINGS I BEEN THROUGH RELATIONSHIPS AND SO FAMILY, WELL GOOD NIGHT INTELL TOMORROW, SLEEP WELL MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY. TEE 🙏💯🙏💙💪👻
I have trust issues when it comes to dating cause one of my ex’s cheated on me i think I honestly should’ve known i had a gut feeling about it all so when I found out it wasn’t all that suprising my family thought I was heartbroken but I wasn’t I simply bounced back and told myself im worth it he isn’t and that I’ll eventually find my soulmate but until then im still looking
Thanks ❤️😊
I had a quite troublesome childhood and since I was a kid until about a year ago I've been betrayed by so many people. It had happened right when I had decided to start moving forwards trusting people again. So right now, I have quite accepted it, I am fine not trusting people anymore. If I die alone, that's fine, I'll do what I can while I can on my own. Trusting others again is not easy when you also don't know about boundaries so the only people you end up attracting are people who will take advantage of you, use you and discard you, giving you even more trust issues each time. But I'm already so tired of trying to learn about this whole "human interaction", I don't have more energy to go little by little anymore.
I don't know if it counts as trust issues but I keep having a bad thought that everyone is manipulating me, like every good or bad action is just a way to manipulate me, I sometimes think about this even with my gf, and I am scared that one day I might believe this thought and hurt someone because of it
I randomly thought that you wouldve made a video abt this and i wanted to see if you did, and this pops up, thnk u
me want to ask my crush out 😅,
making her happy by not asking her out
thank you
I have trust issues with friendships, and only have 3 really close friends online. When I have had to save over 6 people from not being alive anymore, and only 2 have stayed, I have a reason to not trust people. At the same time, I trust too easily, always thinking, this person is going to be different, and every time they leave after they have used me for their own gains, it gets a little harder to trust someone new. Its a bad combo, and it always leads me to beat myself up after they go, always thinking that I could have been better, could have said something different, could have dealt with their opinions.. After the track record of friends, both ones I have saved, ones I met and had a long term connection with, or both, its not easy to open up about things.
I relate so much to this. Having a hard time truly trusting people, but deep down believing/hoping it'll be different this time and then feeling like it's my fault that they're gone. Even if when looking back, I can clearly see they were there because they wanted something out of me and left because they got it.
I won't say there haven't been times I messed up, too, but I want to believe that friends don't ditch you just like that.
I really hope you find again the power to trust and the emotional connection you're looking for
Amanda silvera 🔛🔝 🔥
Okay I have to ask: are you guys studying my brain??? I swear every video you’ve been posting lately has just been addressing so much relevant stuff to me, I’m starting to wonder if I’m stuck in the Matrix and someone’s trying to send me a signal
Haha, it's quite nice that our videos seem to resonate with your experiences! We're not studying individual brains, but it's great to hear that the content feels so relevant to you.😍😍
Your subconscious is guiding You plus this stuff is relevant to practically everyone.
I don’t know how to even try to trust anymore… I’ve been abused as a child, cheated on by the love of my life, and I have PTSD, depression, anxiety and Bipolar disorder. So I’m aware that my mental illness doesn’t help. Maybe one day I’ll trust at least one person 😞
I don't think trust issues ever go away... Once something is broken it can't be fixed. It can be repaired, but oh! it breaks so much easier after that... and each time it breaks it is harder to fix.
I love this animation
Better off alone, without such a toxic person in my life.
Hey psych2go, do you guys think you can do a video about some signs when you should let of a friendship? I'm struggling with this one friendship right now. And I'm not too sure what except to do. Plus, this person knows a lot about me, especially some personal stuff. And if we stop being friends, I'm worried they'll tell other people.
Please do how to identify kleptomania next!
i LOVE this art style!
My OG comment got deleted, so here is a paraphrased version. (Friends made, friendship drama, fell in love with one of them, got emotionally murdered by her, fell in love AGAIN, got backstabbed AGAIN.) so yeah my first two romance experiences were ended in betrayal on the others end.
When you're so hurt and have no trust in anything that you can't even trust your pancakes to eat.
It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and I hope things improve for you.❤
@@Psych2go 🤗❤🤗❤🤗❤ thank you kindly.Truly it means alot.
Love this video as usual! I would love if you guys could make a video on what a crush feels like and to see if your aromantic or you just don’t know what it feels like, because I’m a bit confused for myself ❤
I’m convinced my friends at school secretly hate me, and try to get away from me but I just keep clinging even though I have 0 proof..
Omg! My bestie was this! Ty ❤
i have trust issues but i don’t even have any trauma or anything i don’t know why i can’t even trust my own family or friends 💀
I wish I could put it into words why I've been experiencing trust issues but tbh there aren't many words I have other than letting others take advantage of me and think it's ok. I also tend to be naive and gullible. But on the other hand, I do feel intelligent, but sometimes I don't always use my intellectual ability wisely. It's a bit subtle, complicated, and abstract to describe completely. Maybe a lot of it is low self-esteem, but I'm not even so sure that is what is causing me to have trust issues.
Trust issues often have multifaceted roots, and they can be influenced by various factors, including past experiences and self-perception. It might be helpful to explore these feelings with someone you trust, like a friend, family member, or even a mental health professional, who can offer support and guidance.
@@Psych2go thanks for your perspective ^_^ hopefully things get better :)
i trust no one
Same, I don't have any past trauma about trusting someone but I still don't trust anyone even my family or myself.
Same
Mine is from my childhood,the only person I could trust is my late dad
Yk rebuilding trust do take time and so much effort but it takes seconds to be broken.
Most of my trust issues stem from constant backstabbing from youth into early adulthood.
I want to trust but people are two faced to me.
3:19 yes i can relate 😕
The past two years has taken me down to not wanting to trust anyone, even my parents. The people who have broken my trust have done it out of caring, but based on opinion and not allowing me to correct them.
oh boi.... i don't even really know were to start from were my trust issues came, but there were a lot. Some are still with me, naging me crazy. But most of them i have overcome thanks to my partner, how had the same problem. We just worked it out for eachother, put on the bandaid were needet so to speak. We are still healing from many thinks, two broken souls, but we do.
Such a beeeeautiful video to learn how to trust again and give people with trust issue hope again that they can be able to trust once again ❤
I need a tutorial on how to admit depression plz that would help me so much I think I’ve had it since 6 and all the help this channel gives me helps so much in handling it so a tutorial on how to admit depression please thank a lot psych 2 go :)
I'm really glad to hear that the content has been helpful for you and thank you for your appreciation. Your request will be considered but have you thought about talking to a mental health professional about what you're going through?
As much as I love and adore Women... Ive stopped trusting them because of all the cheating, lies , and -in my mom's case- physical abuse.
I yearn to be held and be allowed to bawl my eyes out. But so many women in my life would just tell me I was weak and belittle me.
Stop allowing these women such power over you. They dont and never will deserve it.
I’m not sure how old you are, but I can guarantee you this.
You aren’t allowed to cry in the presence of a woman. That is a law of nature that must be observed if you’re the proud owner of a Y chromosome.
thats not women, but individuals, but there are groupthinkin nonindividual individuals.
Nice video thank you
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I needed this... thank you...
When I want a relationship but I’m scared of him falling out of love and cheating
Any root causes that aid to those fears, if you don't mind me asking?
@@Psych2go ig due to past experiences
Don't know how or even why, I just have trust issues with people.. still have them.
Currently in my first relationship with a girl, it's been 5 months. I want to trust her but I can't, there is something stopping me and I'm suspicious of her, most of the time. There's this relationship anxiety too.
It's not that I don't trust her, it's that I don't trust anyone. I have not found a solution to this yet..