How to tell if you’re brainwashed?” | Steve Hassan | TEDxBoston

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  • @nicholasjh1
    @nicholasjh1 7 днів тому +92

    A large portion of the US needs this

    • @dylanmontz9789
      @dylanmontz9789 4 дні тому +5

      Ironically, Steve Hassan has a book on that too.

    • @theimperfectcrafterny
      @theimperfectcrafterny 3 дні тому +13

      The reason why I clicked this video. Maga is the biggest cult I know of.

    • @theimperfectcrafterny
      @theimperfectcrafterny 3 дні тому

      ​@@dylanmontz9789interesting

    • @Arkbuck
      @Arkbuck 3 дні тому

      @@theimperfectcrafterny brainwashed people always blame opposing view

    • @timothyk1234
      @timothyk1234 2 дні тому +2

      Yes, important to study his work these days

  • @HeinzNetten
    @HeinzNetten Місяць тому +240

    This talk should be mandatory in every High School in the world.

    • @chaplainbeats7028
      @chaplainbeats7028 Місяць тому

      That would be contrary to the purpose of public education 😉
      Once you do your research on the origins of the western public education system…you’ll realize you e been brainwashed your entire life.

    • @jjburgess1583
      @jjburgess1583 26 днів тому

      Especially right now, the propaganda has been ramping up here as election day approaches. These people are willing to say anything to keep Trump out of office.

    • @nosuchthing8
      @nosuchthing8 20 днів тому +20

      Good luck. Trump would never allow this. Because he does the same to his followers with his lies.

    • @christypember8306
      @christypember8306 15 днів тому

      This needs to go viral. The US is brainwashed by Trump.

    • @doneyes
      @doneyes 8 днів тому +5

      Worse, ttakre anti-education because educated citizens are harder to manipulate.

  • @chriscampas-svensson461
    @chriscampas-svensson461 Рік тому +822

    As a former Jehovah’s Witness you have helped me and my wife tremendously throughout our leaving process. I have nothing but gratitude and respect for you sir.

    • @TheEncouragementKid
      @TheEncouragementKid Рік тому +35

      beautiful. best of luck for you on your journey

    • @robertwooden9123
      @robertwooden9123 Рік тому

      Are JW’s involved in gang stalking?

    • @mejohn101
      @mejohn101 9 місяців тому +24

      Wow. I cant imagine what that must be like. It may sound like an odd comparison, but i was raised by a narcissist. In that respect, i can understand what its like to start questioning things you once took for granted and understand that they just dont hold up. The problem with leaving one structure of meaning is that it has to be replaced by another. Otherwise- as i have felt- its more like im homeless, wandering and left with anxiety in place of security- even if it was ultimately a false security. As it definitely was. That said, I hope your journey is meaningful and leads to something so much greater than a false set of beliefs could ever be. The pursuit of truth is the highest calling man can have. Thats something we all have in common. Blessings brother.

    • @robertheintze9413
      @robertheintze9413 9 місяців тому

      Problem is, many charismatic churches, who condemn Jehovah's Witnesses and Mormons as being cults, are cults THEMSELVES

    • @TheMinnieSalon
      @TheMinnieSalon 9 місяців тому +14

      Same here! Exjw!

  • @Srindal4657
    @Srindal4657 Рік тому +759

    Once you go down the road of deprogramming yourself, you never see the world the same. Its like you see everything as bubbles of influence that cause you to think a certain way

  • @FusionDeveloper
    @FusionDeveloper Місяць тому +55

    When most of the world says you're in a cult and people on your side are claiming it's everyone else who is in a cult, you might be in a cult.

    • @FusionDeveloper
      @FusionDeveloper Місяць тому +3

      The majority of people on earth worldwide agree that MAGA is a cult.

  • @mafarmerga
    @mafarmerga 9 місяців тому +334

    This is perhaps the most important video on YT.
    My wife almost entered into a cult.
    It is VERY hard to pull a person back.
    But it can be done.

    • @ErikAnkan73
      @ErikAnkan73 6 місяців тому +2

      What cult? I was a member of Hyperianism for 3 years.

    • @ianlassitter2397
      @ianlassitter2397 3 місяці тому +6

      Democrats or Republican? Or Apple? Or Google?

    • @KiloMike80
      @KiloMike80 3 місяці тому +7

      My ex-wife joined a CrossFit gym and started doing the paleo diet.. Sometimes I still see her carrying heavy kettlebells running down Main Street at 5am next to the drunks and druggies. Scary stuff.

    • @Grounded-Healer
      @Grounded-Healer 3 місяці тому +3

      The world is operated on Cults. Find the ones that don't take advantage of you. Best of luck 👍

    • @Grounded-Healer
      @Grounded-Healer 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@KiloMike80This actually isn't so terrible? Minus the (junkies) ? lol. Health is the greatest of wealth, unless it's an obsession dragging in negativity.

  • @marystacey4796
    @marystacey4796 10 днів тому +13

    "Be quiet while you wait for the person to think." Thank you for that.

  • @ralphbernhard1757
    @ralphbernhard1757 2 місяці тому +251

    Short answer: *Any* system that tells you _what_ to think rather than _how_ to think.

    • @danl9999
      @danl9999 Місяць тому +16

      feminism, leftism, marxism, corporatism, what disney tells you, what CNN tells you, what fox tells you, what the teacher's unions tell you, so on and so forth.

    • @M3Busssin
      @M3Busssin Місяць тому

      @@danl9999it’s actually hilariously ironic because you believe all of those things are the #1 enemy of the modern world because you’ve told to think that by other agenda driven people who hope to get a vote from you, and I’m sure you will vote for the people who told you that, because you’ve been brainwashed by those same people to do so.

    • @gplus1000
      @gplus1000 Місяць тому +4

      @@danl9999 🤣🤣🤣

    • @GreatGooglieWooglie
      @GreatGooglieWooglie Місяць тому +6

      Uh those both seem bad.

    • @gplus1000
      @gplus1000 Місяць тому

      @@GreatGooglieWooglie I would tend to agree with you.

  • @timward3116
    @timward3116 3 місяці тому +247

    Be aware that these principles are well known by large media organizations, governments, and political parties. It's the way they get us to rationalize and accept the most horrific things and mobilize us against one another. It is an intrinsic and essential part of "divide and conquer."

    • @WaveformV1.0
      @WaveformV1.0 3 місяці тому +6

      I like this. You certainly have a good writing technique. Peace

    • @gregpeabody8536
      @gregpeabody8536 3 місяці тому

      That's cultist talk. It is not in the best interest of the media at large to divide and conquer. It is in their best interests to educate and unite and that is what the majority do. Fox is definitely controlled by cultists. The evidence is losing a defamation suit for more money than all the people I will ever meet will ever make combined.

    • @ericparker163
      @ericparker163 3 місяці тому +16

      Exactly, and the more we play into choosing a team for whatever it may be, politics, religion etc the more we play into their games. I hate groupthink and it creates quite the conundrum, how do you get the people collectively to recognize their own power and come together without becoming the thing that needs removing? I'd hope that we'd arrive individually to the same conclusion but alas, things don't work like that.

    • @einsteinalb75
      @einsteinalb75 3 місяці тому +7

      It's a special ops thing too

    • @timward3116
      @timward3116 3 місяці тому +5

      @@einsteinalb75 No doubt about it!

  • @scottfitzpatrick1939
    @scottfitzpatrick1939 3 місяці тому +192

    This world needs a major push in mass de-programming.

    • @Griffix96
      @Griffix96 2 дні тому +2

      The programmer would never allow that.

  • @Thenatureboy801
    @Thenatureboy801 3 місяці тому +407

    About 8 billion more people need to watch this.

    • @standingalone001
      @standingalone001 3 місяці тому

      The problem is that this guy is literally still brainwashed. Only know he has been brainwashed by the hypocrites who blame the Soviets or the Chinese while they are the ones doing the brainwashing. He sounds like an ignoramous to me talking about brainwashing while he himself has been brainwashed by the US Intelligence cult.

    • @williamfagerheim1817
      @williamfagerheim1817 3 місяці тому +4

      I bet this guy is still brainwashed.😃😂

    • @standingalone001
      @standingalone001 3 місяці тому +1

      @@williamfagerheim1817 exactly. He definitely is and that’s what I commented.

    • @18_rabbit
      @18_rabbit 3 місяці тому

      @@williamfagerheim1817 ? then how and why is he clearly explaining how horribly insidious and beguiling and manipulative it is? You are likely in a cult right now, bcuz no other type of person would perceive as paranoidically as u just did

    • @l000tube
      @l000tube 3 місяці тому

      @@williamfagerheim1817 in what way?

  • @SqueakyPhilosopher
    @SqueakyPhilosopher 20 днів тому +43

    Anyone who tells you not to think is not your friend.

    • @cyndigooch1162
      @cyndigooch1162 15 днів тому

      That's exactly right and if certain types of people tell others to stop overthinking as well! 🤫

  • @StillmanSpinningSteel
    @StillmanSpinningSteel Рік тому +389

    Left the latter day saint church (Mormons) recently. Never felt so free and discovering who I really am. I used to see reality through belief but now I am experiencing my own reality and aware of the diversity of reality. It's beautiful.

    • @juliannzzineilson241
      @juliannzzineilson241 Рік тому +29

      I left 12 yrs ago. It's so liberating to know real freedom from the dark sorcerers. Congratulations on your awakening process!

    • @Ben-pd2bx
      @Ben-pd2bx Рік тому +23

      I'm happy for you. I also advise being careful. Now is a time when you're potentially vulnerable. Just like someone who's ended a relationship can rebound, so can someone who's escaped a cult. Take it slow. :)

    • @augustsandoval3985
      @augustsandoval3985 Рік тому +10

      Congrats you woke up

    • @IgnoranceBegetsConfidence
      @IgnoranceBegetsConfidence Рік тому

      You should be ashamed being so easily manipulated when I was a baby. But thank truth that I found that religion all religions I based on lies

    • @joe-mama6451
      @joe-mama6451 Рік тому +12

      I left in 2020 (officially). Previously had maintained membership but hadn’t attended in a decade. Cut the cord. Now I’m the family apostate. With pride.

  • @caramares2669
    @caramares2669 Рік тому +86

    I was brainwashed for 15 years. It’s so freeing getting out from it, however, not many are aware it even exists. See Cara’s inner healing horror for my testimony.

    • @laaaliiiluuu
      @laaaliiiluuu 3 місяці тому

      The most brainwashed people are those who think they are not brainwashed. It takes a deprogramming to even realize that you were and probably still are brainwashed to some extent.

    • @jangilbert8028
      @jangilbert8028 Місяць тому

      That’s the way I feel about leaving the church, free and peaceful!

    • @PTrent
      @PTrent 20 днів тому

      Welcome to the Republican Party

  • @sorcindy
    @sorcindy 5 місяців тому +176

    Re-programming my mind after an abusive relationship took me years.

    • @TranscendingTrauma
      @TranscendingTrauma 5 місяців тому +1

      How did you do it?

    • @sorcindy
      @sorcindy 5 місяців тому +6

      I did various things. The main has been faith. I had a conversion, God helped me to leave the relationship.
      The listen to the psalms in a video for hours. Psalm 139 helped me to understand God’s love for me. The bible repeats do not be afraid 365 times. The list is long.

    • @thegaragedancer
      @thegaragedancer 4 місяці тому +7

      Did you fall victim to a Narcissist? They basically use the Bite Model!

    • @JaneNewAuthor
      @JaneNewAuthor 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@thegaragedancermy thoughts too.

    • @BiGG_X
      @BiGG_X 3 місяці тому +5

      Im glad you were able to get free. I have a good friend in a relationship with a narcissistic christian that uses the Bible against her to keep her under his control. She called me 6 months after she ran away from him because he beat her for the 3rd time. She was like a completely different person than the one I knew. After talking to her for a couple months trying to remind her of the person I knew, she started doing good. Then he squirmed his way back into her life by threatening to kill himself after his threats didnt work no more. It only took a matter of days for him to take complete control of her again after he got her to give him another chance. The sad thing about this is nothing can be done until she does it for herself.
      Be careful and take care of yourself.

  • @therealzahyra
    @therealzahyra 10 днів тому +13

    This was just recommended to me on my home page lol every American needs to see this...

  • @BuddsYT
    @BuddsYT 2 роки тому +286

    I watched the Leah rimini Scientology documentary series and as a Jehovah’s witnesses was surprised to see how eerily similar we were. The shunning especially, heartbreaking what control the shunning policy exercises over People and how it breaks Families apart.
    Part of being and leaving a cult is also having to admit to yourself that you were wrong. Especially when you were taught to think you were the one and only to have the “truth”. But all these cults think that. And then to admit “it was a lie”. Wow hard pill to swallow.

    • @wannabecarguy
      @wannabecarguy 2 роки тому

      Jehovah witnesses are doomed. once they realize what's happening they throw their lives away. usally with drugs.

    • @anniechan6296
      @anniechan6296 Рік тому +22

      As a former JW for more than 28 years I can tell you that EVERYTHING they said was 100% accurate

    • @anonymousjohnson976
      @anonymousjohnson976 Рік тому +11

      Budds: Yes, Leah Remini left the Jehovah's Witnesses cult and went back to Catholicism. She went from one cult to another.

    • @robynperdieu3434
      @robynperdieu3434 Рік тому +5

      Yes, very heartbreaking when they keep hidden their darkness...and you bring your children up in it, thinking it was a good spiritual upbringing.
      Then one day, you wake up and see behind the curtain, but your children shun you as you walk away from it.

    • @anonymousjohnson976
      @anonymousjohnson976 Рік тому +12

      @@robynperdieu3434 : Yes, I don't see how they think shunning family and others is a good or normal behavior.

  • @jimflagg4009
    @jimflagg4009 2 роки тому +1284

    Any time some one says to "Do Not Think. Have Faith. Surrender." then you are being brain washed.

    • @SolidSiren
      @SolidSiren 2 роки тому +47

      Well that's not true. We do that when we meditate often.

    • @SolidSiren
      @SolidSiren 2 роки тому +20

      Not the faith part, but the other parts.

    • @jimflagg4009
      @jimflagg4009 2 роки тому +44

      @@SolidSiren Becoming one with the source (meditating) is not someone telling you to not thing and trust me, now please give me some donations.

    • @iamshango3005
      @iamshango3005 2 роки тому +2

      I like that

    • @SolidSiren
      @SolidSiren 2 роки тому +5

      @@jimflagg4009 when people learn how to let go of the nonsense in their mind they are told to try to think of "nothing".

  • @MrVesperatu
    @MrVesperatu 3 місяці тому +113

    I think one of the surest signs you are in a cult is that debate about certain things simply isn't allowed. And if you are in a situation where it isn't allowed to discuss or question certain things or if you do, you find yourself shunned, you can rest assured, you are in a cult.

    • @sawilliams
      @sawilliams 3 місяці тому +12

      Yep, the first thing they do in a cult is tell you that you can’t look up things on our own, Extreme censoring, and tell you not to talk to others outside the cult.

    • @samuhlm2
      @samuhlm2 3 місяці тому +2

      I dont get how people fall for it

    • @driesvt4
      @driesvt4 3 місяці тому +7

      Sounds like how those were treated who questioned the Covid jabs?

    • @ArcticBuck
      @ArcticBuck 3 місяці тому

      @@samuhlm2did you take the vaccine?

    • @my_dear_friend_
      @my_dear_friend_ 2 місяці тому +7

      Yeah, and everyone can be an expert and disregard years, decades even, of highly specialized education and replace it with a few hours of 'research' on the internet.

  • @anonymouskeys929
    @anonymouskeys929 Рік тому +88

    This is such a sobering video.
    I am convinced that people around me are doing this and now i have the proper mental tools to recognize it because of this and people like you.
    Godspeed

    • @anonymouskeys929
      @anonymouskeys929 Рік тому +4

      The American school system is definitely guilty of this in my state when I was growing up. Technically I never got out or had a good enough chance to excuse myself from that.

    • @samuhlm2
      @samuhlm2 3 місяці тому

      Yes if the people around you are leading you to beliefs that justify terrorism, run! Dont fall for the Islamists!

    • @bluemamba5317
      @bluemamba5317 2 місяці тому +2

      @@anonymouskeys929 If you want to sober up even more, then you need to ask is why the school system is brainwashing the youth. Who are the benefactors etc, the students? Often not.

  • @DivineLightPaladin
    @DivineLightPaladin 4 місяці тому +139

    When the books are being banned and certain topics excluded, questions not allowed, words vanished...

    • @julythrunov
      @julythrunov 3 місяці тому +2

      for example?

    • @DivineLightPaladin
      @DivineLightPaladin 3 місяці тому +10

      @@julythrunov look around, either side. I could say a few, but several others would just not post here.
      There are interests everywhere in all political sides that would prefer to have certain information not available to make an informed decision with.

    • @julythrunov
      @julythrunov 3 місяці тому +6

      @@DivineLightPaladin can you give me one example? just use dashes for parts of the words.

    • @julythrunov
      @julythrunov 3 місяці тому

      @@DivineLightPaladin so I just googled banned books 2024, and on the top of the list is “all boys aren’t blue”, so then I googled that book and it’s available for purchase at Target for $10.98, and Amazon and a bunch of other places. So then I went down the list of banned books 2024. Guess what? If someone wants them, they can easily obtain them. So now what? Don’t take my word for it. Try it, see for yourself 🤷‍♂️

    • @ianlassitter2397
      @ianlassitter2397 3 місяці тому

      Woke, alphabet, leftism? Compelled speech?

  • @hanyiwang4705
    @hanyiwang4705 5 місяців тому +29

    As a person running away from Chinese government, I am happy to know videos like this exist!

    • @bluemamba5317
      @bluemamba5317 2 місяці тому +2

      Just running away from one abuser to the next

  • @JP82395
    @JP82395 2 місяці тому +17

    Ex Mormon here. Brainwashed for 30 years and gave them everything with nothing in return. No love, just my time, money and obedience. Cults are dangerous!

  • @heydiddlediddlethecatandth5251
    @heydiddlediddlethecatandth5251 2 роки тому +207

    As a kid raised in evanglicalism, leaving church at a young age and then leaving the faith shattered my entire world, but I feel like I saved the most vital parts of myself and my identity. I recognize all these tactics and affirm all the solutions to brainwashing. I began to suspect those who told me not to listen to the critics because they were agents of Satan, and got curious as to people who had left the church. Above all, being curious, asking "What ifs" is what saved me. I stayed curious about the world and people different from me, which made me more open to learning and resistant to fear. When you have insatiable curiosity you find fear less appealing and it becomes less effective. Curiosity is an underrated virtue.

    • @MrMario477
      @MrMario477 2 роки тому +1

      WHAT SAVED YOU WAS CHRIST NOTHING TO SEE THIS BRAINWASH RECOGNIZE THIS
      EVEN STEVE'S CELEBRATION WASHING FALLACIES COMPARE TO CHRIST'S PRESENCE IN OUR LIVES ✝😇

    • @billtalker3843
      @billtalker3843 2 роки тому +15

      Evangelicalism has nothing to do with brainwashing. Maybe your parents or particular church, but not as a whole.

    • @wannabecarguy
      @wannabecarguy 2 роки тому +15

      the church is indeed sick. however that's humans distorting who God is.

    • @Rob-eo5ql
      @Rob-eo5ql 2 роки тому

      Jim Jones was an atheist and his “church” preached social justice. He followers called Jonestown a socialist paradise.

    • @northernpatriot9078
      @northernpatriot9078 2 роки тому +1

      That's sad

  • @userphone8746
    @userphone8746 2 роки тому +127

    I have been brainwashed that much where I don't even know if the every day decisions I make are my own. And I don't know what to believe anymore. I feel like I just need to be free and happy.

    • @teresaamanfu7408
      @teresaamanfu7408 2 роки тому +20

      We all need to disconnect for a while.

    • @pdatnc
      @pdatnc Рік тому +12

      Do what you know you need to do to get out of it. The things you fear aren't real.

    • @anonymousjohnson976
      @anonymousjohnson976 Рік тому +13

      Critical thinking skills will set you free, free to be happy.

    • @madamcjwalker67
      @madamcjwalker67 Рік тому +3

      It's true that we are constantly being manipulated. The best thing to do is stay in the vibration of your creator, set goals & focus on working to accomplish them. &turn away from everything else.

    • @pilyapilay-iq5rh
      @pilyapilay-iq5rh Рік тому +1

      me too this is exactly what i experience now 🤕

  • @Ingaingaweloveanimals
    @Ingaingaweloveanimals 2 місяці тому +15

    I was sent to a Mormon boarding school where I endured spitting kicking being locked in closet without food and burned with cigarettes for not conforming. I understand brainwashing at its fullest I was a child and watched my friends turn on me at the cult school because I wouldn’t conform. I love this subject.

  • @ZemplinTemplar
    @ZemplinTemplar Рік тому +33

    This fellow gets it. Steve gets it. Thank you for speaking so clearly, Steve ! Also, I appreciate it all the more that Steve correctly condemned authoritarian political cults, in addition to pseudo-religious cults and other cults. I have thankfully never been part of a cult, I have a lifelong disgust of all cults and I have the deepest sympathies for those they abuse and manipulate.
    I understand many former victims of cults, likely Steve included, might not find it easy to talk about their experience, either out of embarassment ("How did they trick me ?") or out of fear (direct threats and harassment by cultists), but it's all the more important they talk about this, and society be supportive of those who tell the truth about cults and the danger they pose to individuals and all of society.

    • @frankG335
      @frankG335 8 місяців тому

      His book on political cults opened my eyes to the techniques Trump uses at his rallies.
      You can't under how he uses mass hypnosis techniques to hijack the most primitive part of our primal and tribal brain.

  • @alisaohhh
    @alisaohhh 7 місяців тому +51

    2nd gen moonie here, finding it hard to leave when it’s all I’ve ever known. Thank you for sharing this info and making a difference

    • @ljcruz1
      @ljcruz1 7 місяців тому +3

      @alisaohhh hugs❤

    • @erstwhile3793
      @erstwhile3793 3 місяці тому +6

      @alisaohhh
      It IS hard to leave. The belief system (BS) shapes a reality that you and your family and your whole community live inside of, separate from the “World”. Leaving feels so scary and uncertain. On the other side, though, is increasing strength, self-love, freedom, steadiness, connection and belonging. It doesn’t suddenly stop being hard, but it gradually does, and as the BS dissolves slowly, these other good things take its place. It’s not all sunlight and roses, by any means. It’s hard being a regular person living a normal life, outside of the certainty that the BS provides. It’s SO worth it, though. I could never, ever go back. And like another person pointed out here in the comments, once you see the BS for what it is, and the tools and techniques that your particular Hight Demand Group (cult) used to manipulate and control your thinking, you find that you can spot it wherever it crops up. Because it will. It’s every where for some reason.
      One thing you may find supportive, is the Mormonstories podcast. It started as a way to support Mormon people going through a faith crisis, because the Cult is never supportive of crises of faith, or questions, or doubts of any kind. It’s since grown to be a support for people going through the process of discovery and deconstruction of rigid belief systems of all sorts. It now has more viewers that have never been Mormon, than Mormon ones. There’s other podcasts out there, doing similar things. Hearing the stories of others who’ve gone through this can be immensely clarifying and supportive.
      Best to you!

    • @shannonm8512
      @shannonm8512 Місяць тому +1

      Wishing you strength and peace, I may not know you but I am rooting for you ❤

  • @keithkorthals6183
    @keithkorthals6183 3 місяці тому +41

    Company culture can be a cult!

    • @Alexa-ri6jt
      @Alexa-ri6jt Місяць тому

      Chipotle 100%

    • @rfbuffy
      @rfbuffy 21 годину тому

      Koch Industries.

  • @stultusvenator3233
    @stultusvenator3233 3 місяці тому +60

    "Love the uneducated" sound familiar.

    • @silvergirl7810
      @silvergirl7810 29 днів тому +3

      Actually it’s the higher IQ peeps who tend to be able to rationalize and find themselves on the far right or left of the political spectrums as well as being influenced as they are masterful at convincing themselves about their own beliefs once they have a cause.

    • @fernanda-conteudoestrategi9875
      @fernanda-conteudoestrategi9875 14 днів тому

      ​@@silvergirl7810 very good point

  • @MM-oi6ez
    @MM-oi6ez Рік тому +163

    SOOOoo many people who choose Political sides over families... NEED help in deprogramming their brainwashing.

    • @robertheintze9413
      @robertheintze9413 9 місяців тому

      Exactly, and the Trump cult has done irreparable harm in estranging family members, terminating friendships, and created a huge division within the evangelical Christian Church ITSELF

    • @frankG335
      @frankG335 8 місяців тому +4

      Bingo!

    • @caim3465
      @caim3465 6 місяців тому +4

      Yes

    • @wmp3346
      @wmp3346 5 місяців тому +6

      What side is brainwashed? I know my answer

    • @Hector-bj3ls
      @Hector-bj3ls 3 місяці тому +14

      @@wmp3346 The political side obviously. If you're choosing strangers that don't care about you over your own family there is something wrong.

  • @drebugsita
    @drebugsita 12 днів тому +4

    This is important. I just wish there was something like this that addressed how parents who are extremely well educated (Ivy League academics) and promote critical thinking can still create dynamics for their children that are essentially a cult. The cognitive dissonance is all the more maddening

  • @nanohaffy
    @nanohaffy 2 місяці тому +11

    Steve Hassan's work should be shown to EVERYONE, dude 😭

    • @plant495
      @plant495 Місяць тому

      Dude? Please think critically about sexist language.

  • @kristalcampbell3650
    @kristalcampbell3650 Рік тому +79

    "Lean not on your own understanding " 🤮. Whenever someone says that translate it into modern language and it becomes really obvious "Dont rely on your own mind".

    • @weatherupstairs4814
      @weatherupstairs4814 3 місяці тому +15

      The same chapter you are quoting from also says, "...do not let wisdom and understanding out of your sight, preserve sound judgment and discretion." I think people misuse your quote a lot to indicate mindlessness.

    • @senseisecurityschool9337
      @senseisecurityschool9337 3 місяці тому +2

      I like to lean on things that are solid, not on things that are wobbly. My understanding of neuropathology is wobbly. I lean on the neurologist's understanding, which is solid.
      Ego, a natural part of all humans, is a powerful force which pulls us away from logic. Logically, the person who has been studying economics for the last 35 years, the professor of economics, has a better understanding of economics than I do. But I want to lean on my understanding, which is wobbly, rather than their understanding, which is solid - because of ego. That's not logical of course, it's emotion-driven behavior to lean on my own misunderstanding.

    • @kristalcampbell3650
      @kristalcampbell3650 3 місяці тому +1

      @senseisecurityschool9337 You still have to rely on your understanding to an extent. If you had an unethical practitioner who told you that you had some condition you'd never heard of and the cure sounded outlandish, I would hope you'd do some research, get a second and or third opinion, and weigh the information based on your own understanding. A good practitioner will inform you so that you do understand. It's required for treatment. It's called informed consent.

    • @zekt98arius
      @zekt98arius 3 місяці тому +1

      Hence discernment is realising it is rarely so clearly a "this way all the way or that" decision. Reality brings many nuances

    • @thestorybehindthat5236
      @thestorybehindthat5236 3 місяці тому +1

      That scripture is meant as encouragement when you feel hopeless. Like if you're in a crisis and don't see any possible way out or towards a better path. Maybe you're facing bankruptcy or don't believe you can leave an abusive relationship and survive. It's saying to trust in the Lord and to keep faith and move forward towards what's universally good. A way forward will make itself known one bit at a time and know that God is watching out for you even when you feel hopeless. "Lean not on your own understanding."

  • @heatherprock8205
    @heatherprock8205 Рік тому +42

    Love Steve Hassan. He’s so helpful to people born in high control groups

  • @danieldenton5721
    @danieldenton5721 2 роки тому +158

    I would say your are brainwashed if u can't explain what your are saying when asked questions about. U just repeat what u are told.

    • @johnnyboy2065
      @johnnyboy2065 2 роки тому +19

      Just like a lot of democrats and republicans. Politics is a waste of time tbh.

    • @yoursubconscious
      @yoursubconscious 2 роки тому +3

      👏👏👏 well put.

    • @FaithY3n
      @FaithY3n 2 роки тому +17

      as a former member of the Moonies myself (just like Steve), this is unfortunately not a good test. most cults create detailed scripts and canned answers for 99% of most questions. cult leadership figures, especially, are great at free-styling and filling in any gaps their script might have missed.

    • @danieldenton5721
      @danieldenton5721 2 роки тому +8

      @@FaithY3n u just explained what I said. People just repeat what they are told. That's called brainwashing. People should be able to explain with logical reasoning of what they are saying. Not just repeat what they are told.

    • @ianmitchell4682
      @ianmitchell4682 2 роки тому

      A pretty good way to shut up dissenting voices is to demand endless explanations, interrupting with rapid fire questions, and rejecting or ignoring any and all answers with authoritative dismissal. "Spoken like a communist." "Well, that's what the lying media says." "Oh so you just believe everything you read, do you?" and the old standby: "well I don't know about that."

  • @Dee-x9f
    @Dee-x9f 10 місяців тому +64

    I had a friend who fell in with a guy who was selling supplements. Within 2 weeks of meeting her, he was living at her house and setting up "parties" to introduce his product line. I was skeptical, but went to one of the parties. After his presentation-which seem innocuous enough-I innocently asked him how he got interested in health and wellness. Most people love to talk about themselves and their interests, but this guy immediately got defensive and angry. He shot back at me, "what do you mean, how did I get into this??" and walked away. It was so bizarre that I knew for sure he was deliberately scamming her. Healthy, on-the-level people don't need to lie and exaggerate. They don't mind answering followup questions and will readily share specific data or sources of information that help prove their position. Normal, innocent people want to have their day in court to justify their innocence. Healthy people will gladly state their goals and preferences because they want to be understood. When someone doesn't do these, or starts talking fast, bouncing between points, changing the subject... then DO NOT trust them.

    • @JT_O4
      @JT_O4 3 місяці тому +5

      How did it turn out with your friend and that guy?

    • @18_rabbit
      @18_rabbit 3 місяці тому +3

      yep! and he was likely a psychopath and even worse.

    • @Liam-zw1ek
      @Liam-zw1ek 2 місяці тому +2

      @@JT_O4 She ditched him... he sold supplements.

    • @krishadyn5211
      @krishadyn5211 5 днів тому +2

      Enh. I get the same treatment from anyone who disaproves my lifestyle. "Why don't you believe in God?" "Why didn't you take your husband's family name?" "Why didn't you have children?" What you describe is a conversation between someone who feels like a righteous majority and someone who has experience of being constantly socially attacked.
      I don't know why people can't accept "Because I didn't want to" as an explanation. Why do I have to explain all my life decisions? Its more like being interviewed than friendly.

  • @A20-w8l
    @A20-w8l 3 місяці тому +16

    Cults creep me out, it's like someone is sticking their fingers in my brain.

    • @RichardHarlos
      @RichardHarlos 9 днів тому

      What you described is social media. Except that it's been refined over time so that you invite them to stick their fingers into your brain, while being unaware of doing so. It's likely that more people are brainwashed than are willing to consider the possibility, much less recognize it, admit it, and turn around.

  • @markrichardson3566
    @markrichardson3566 2 роки тому +41

    Thanks Steve for your help, he knows his stuff 🙂

    • @Kick_Rocks
      @Kick_Rocks Рік тому

      The entire left wing is brainwashed.

  • @pgateachingpro6479
    @pgateachingpro6479 2 роки тому +79

    Steve, how do I go about saving my wife from a MLM that's destroying our marriage and our lives? - Please help, I beg of you! 🙏

    • @jimflagg4009
      @jimflagg4009 2 роки тому +15

      Watch UA-cams on the MLM Cult.

    • @pgateachingpro6479
      @pgateachingpro6479 2 роки тому +12

      @@jimflagg4009 Thanks, Jim, but it seems all of these video just describe the evils that MLM's are, but none go into the psychology and protocol for helping someone to escape the clutches of these cults. Could you possibly direct me to a video that goes directly to this point? Thank You! 🙂

    • @yoursubconscious
      @yoursubconscious 2 роки тому +14

      tell her it's "MLM's or me".
      Who's money is being spent? If it is hers, fine. She can do as she wishes. If it's yours, as in you go to work to make it, stop allowing her to make the wrong choice. Stop giving her the money. If she finds other ways behind your back, sorry buds, she clearly doesn't care about you if she is willing to do that.

    • @pgateachingpro6479
      @pgateachingpro6479 2 роки тому +6

      @@MaryB.333 Thank You! 🙂 I'll check it out...

    • @Justahappysoul007
      @Justahappysoul007 2 роки тому +3

      By taking a professional that will show her on practical examples what they are actually doing:)

  • @kevinnelle6208
    @kevinnelle6208 Рік тому +45

    You need to show this to the people of Scientology.

    • @Tiare619
      @Tiare619 9 місяців тому

      Check out the protests

    • @thecapitalg
      @thecapitalg 6 місяців тому

      They're gonna sue Ted 😭

    • @kevinnelle6208
      @kevinnelle6208 6 місяців тому

      @@Tiare619 I do.

  • @gottspeed
    @gottspeed 2 роки тому +230

    I wish people like him knew how unbearable it is for the minority of us to watch society circle to the toilet because people can't think for themselves.

    • @SolidSiren
      @SolidSiren 2 роки тому

      What's crazy making is when people you love are brainwashed and say that you are brainwashed because you don't agree with them, and call others sheep, when it is them in fact who exhibits every hallmark of group think, brainwashing, blind regurgitation, confirmation bias and who does no fact checking on anything they see or hear in their bubble of reinforcement.

    • @a_diamond
      @a_diamond Рік тому +37

      It's *not* "the minority of us". These folks don't gain control because they are in the majority, but because they can rile up their "in-group" to be so afraid of everyone outside the group that they will act far more extreme.. including voting (or not voting, depending on what group we're talking about here).

    • @melissatennis6960
      @melissatennis6960 Рік тому +24

      He does. That's why he's talking about it.

    • @dashippo
      @dashippo Рік тому +21

      Everyone thinks they are thinking for themselves.
      In my own life, I look at anyone with an "us against them" mentality (in anything) as suspicious...in my mind once you've decided the "otherside" is bad, you're too far gone to bother dealing with.

    • @TheEncouragementKid
      @TheEncouragementKid Рік тому

      fax

  • @AntonioVergine
    @AntonioVergine 3 місяці тому +8

    It is heartwarming to be part of a group. Almost any group. But when the group start saying you that they're the most important thing, or that you should not be so selfish and should sacrifice something, anything, for the group... start being suspicious. And run.

  • @AntonioVergine
    @AntonioVergine 3 місяці тому +29

    "I don't belong to you" is the most blaspheme phrase you can say, and still, the one that will always save your life.

    • @bluemamba5317
      @bluemamba5317 2 місяці тому +1

      Your Body belongs to Mother Earth.
      Your Legacy belongs to the World.
      Your Mind belongs to You.

  • @Bidmartinlo
    @Bidmartinlo 6 днів тому +3

    I don't understand why actually thinking on your own is just seen as basically so impossible that we don't even humor the idea.
    Steve is basically saying "Yes, think on your own, but 'educate' yourself or think first about what faction you want to be a part of.", not even acknowledging that even the news and education tell you what you should think. You HAVE to be critical of their sources as well, because the news often lie and education can often be based on facts that are not fully proven.

    • @Lettucebe3
      @Lettucebe3 5 днів тому

      Yup! Operation Mockingbird never ended.

  • @TesserId
    @TesserId Рік тому +55

    9:20 The _BITE_ model of authoritarian control: Behavior control, Information control, Thought control, Emotional control.

    • @TesserId
      @TesserId Рік тому +6

      9:34 A spectrum of ethical influence ranging from informed consent, "where you know up front who the people are, what they [actually] believe, and what is expected..." up to and including "deception, outright lying, withholding vital information or distorting it."

    • @TesserId
      @TesserId Рік тому +1

      10:38 "...you're programmed, 'don't listen to the media; the media is the enemy of the people. Don't talk to apostates; they don't know anything."

    • @glytchd
      @glytchd 4 місяці тому +5

      So basically Wokism.

    • @TesserId
      @TesserId 4 місяці тому +1

      @@glytchd It is in fact present among both Social Justice Warriors (yes, wokism) and members of MAGA. And, it's very tough to be a sane independent thinker when those that profit from the divide pit both sides against the middle.

    • @scubasleeve3497
      @scubasleeve3497 4 місяці тому +4

      AKA the democrat model

  • @sole__doubt
    @sole__doubt 3 місяці тому +16

    The Chinese handcuffs analogy is just beautiful.

  • @abdelrahmanessam9970
    @abdelrahmanessam9970 2 місяці тому +19

    I know that might be a bit off topic, but thanks for helping me leave religion 🙏

    • @mikhailyaremkiv
      @mikhailyaremkiv 2 місяці тому

      You're still in a religion.

    • @code-52
      @code-52 Місяць тому

      ​@@mikhailyaremkiv want to explain that comment?

  • @TesserId
    @TesserId Рік тому +46

    1:31 "He was sinless." That's a red flag. Cult leaders tend to have some trait that no reasonable human being could ever be expected to have, and this one sticks out like a sore thumb."

    • @anonymousjohnson976
      @anonymousjohnson976 Рік тому +3

      Yes, and when they practice rituals of eating bodies and drinking blood as in the Communion. They say this before taking Communion: "Take, EAT, this is my BODY and take, DRINK, this is my BLOOD.

    • @mehere8038
      @mehere8038 Рік тому +5

      Good one! I'm trying to figure out how to respond to an anti-vax indoctrinated person right now, this will work well there too, with her believing vaccines cause huge harm, but the alternative causes zero harm. I think she's too far gone to penetrate, but if there's any sanity left, she should recognise the zero harm = lie

    • @One-z6y
      @One-z6y 9 місяців тому

      @@mehere8038 You cannot CONvince anyone about anything. They have to come to their own conclusions.

    • @basedsigmalifter9482
      @basedsigmalifter9482 Місяць тому

      @@anonymousjohnson976As God commanded…

  • @basedelk3195
    @basedelk3195 Рік тому +54

    This can be definitively come from any type of group. Any political group, religion, sports, anything where people gather. I think everyone is involved in some type of cult, some is more serious then others

    • @mountain10
      @mountain10 10 місяців тому +7

      Family also!!!

    • @marypatton1122
      @marypatton1122 6 місяців тому

      Totally agree. Free will is a myth. We are all programmed and the programming began in childhood.
      Every influencer is a brainwashed of sorts. There is no escape.

    • @patriciabradford4067
      @patriciabradford4067 3 місяці тому +4

      Joining ANY organization requires a level of self denial and stepping away from one’s own knowledge and mind.

    • @plant495
      @plant495 Місяць тому +1

      Yes. It also can apply to supposedly "progressive social justice movements" that rail against bigotry. The threat of the accusation of bigotry can deter people from questioning a belief or movement. It can persuade people to not read diverse viewpoints or think critically.

    • @lemsip207
      @lemsip207 12 днів тому

      The Labour Party has become a cult now with Starmer as the dictator. Seven MPs had the whip withdrawn for rebelling just once. Not even Blair would do that.

  • @jassrab7230
    @jassrab7230 2 роки тому +64

    Yesterday i stopped joining a "bible study" but later on i discovered they were from SHinchonji, i was about to go all in when I found videos online about and and realize that i was slowly being lured in..

    • @xDiViNexInfectedx
      @xDiViNexInfectedx 2 роки тому +15

      Please stay away from all religion related things. It’s just a hoax/trap.

    • @jeremysims1597
      @jeremysims1597 9 місяців тому

      Hypnosis baby, congratulations you did good, Study the power of NLP and CBT and how those tactics were used against you, they’ll help you spot anything in everyday life outside of ppl and a great deal with them

    • @nyeahgarner2420
      @nyeahgarner2420 8 місяців тому

      ​@@xDiViNexInfectedxThe Bible leads you away from all cults. Everyone has a belief system. Latch on to something you know to be true or someone will offer you "a truth" to believe. Evolution is a cult too, based on lies. Don't pull too hard on those finger cuffs after that last statement.

    • @paulishalove5197
      @paulishalove5197 5 місяців тому +2

      I left About 2 months ago.

    • @jassrab7230
      @jassrab7230 5 місяців тому +1

      @@paulishalove5197 praise God!

  • @mtgwdefender
    @mtgwdefender 2 місяці тому +60

    Who is here in 9/2024 and is going to share this video to your MAGA fanatic friend, coworker or relative?? 🤔 🤔

    • @jcabelair7749
      @jcabelair7749 Місяць тому

      I'm here in 10/2024 and going to share this with my progressive friends who can't see how the Biden/Harris admin has lied to them at every turn for 3.5 years

    • @nickhaa
      @nickhaa 18 днів тому

      It makes sense but I’m also sending it to the Kamala supporters. There is no reason they believe she was adequate to run as a president besides being brainwashed to hate the other side.

    • @Funko777
      @Funko777 14 днів тому

      🙋
      Our country is f*cked

    • @_Concerned_Citizen_
      @_Concerned_Citizen_ 13 днів тому +6

      sounds like you are the one who should be taking this to heart

    • @Oysterwang
      @Oysterwang 11 днів тому +13

      Sadly, I’m here in 11/2024 post election. I know they’ll never watch. I’m trying to be ok with just being on different paths for awhile and hoping they will return someday. Hoping there is an “after”.

  • @mariamiller1849
    @mariamiller1849 11 місяців тому +28

    This is important work; but like many time misses discussing the complexity of children born into cults.
    Imagine if all the social forces in your life were trying to keep you in the cult? Imagine if you didn’t have a pre-identity but all you knew was being mind-controlled and coerced. Imagine if you had no money, resources, connections, education, and had been abuse from birth. Imagine if you had significant mental and physical health issues and even disabilities due to being trafficked, and medical neglect.
    How easy would it be to “think for yourself” and leave the abusive community?

  • @donnaandmikesmith7035
    @donnaandmikesmith7035 2 роки тому +23

    Thank you, Steven! You are helping us!

  • @michaeljohn7398
    @michaeljohn7398 3 місяці тому +6

    Excellent dissertation on this most important matter. Cheers from Michael. Australia

  • @BadEconomyOfficial
    @BadEconomyOfficial 23 дні тому +5

    This sounds like the Megachurch I used to attend:
    They NEVER said it, but when you went to the Church ⛪️, THEY expected behavior of you: My mind ended up that I was “young” and was expected to love ❤️ Pop Music, Go to College, Behave in a “Millennial” way. Talked to a buddy of mine LONG after I left and he said that that’s what 🧠 Brainwashing is.

    • @lemsip207
      @lemsip207 12 днів тому

      They brainwash you by convincing you that you are already brainwashed by the mainstream media. But their brainwashing is even worse.

  • @omegaplumbing
    @omegaplumbing 11 місяців тому +42

    I hate to say it but we are all brainwashed to a certain extent. We accept realities that suit us. And over time we exchange those views for new chains.

    • @nyeahgarner2420
      @nyeahgarner2420 8 місяців тому +1

      Selfless servitude is freedom. God loves you

    • @DivineLightPaladin
      @DivineLightPaladin 4 місяці тому +2

      True, though some are far more dangerous than others. I'm sure liking football is safer than a violent gang for example

    • @thestorybehindthat5236
      @thestorybehindthat5236 3 місяці тому +6

      I disagree. So long as you don't marry your ideas and keep an open mind. We can believe one thing based on the evidence we have at that time, but when new evidence is presented that makes it clear the previous understanding was wrong we should always maintain the ability to change our stance on something. It's when we double down on something when evidence is presented that makes it not add up any longer that's when you have to worry about brain washing being at play.

    • @Thagomizer
      @Thagomizer Місяць тому

      All childhood education is indoctrination anyway.

  • @jeanettewaverly2590
    @jeanettewaverly2590 3 місяці тому +8

    Hassan’s book, Combating Cult Mind Control, is the best on the subject.

  • @anthonymedina5186
    @anthonymedina5186 Рік тому +14

    “Inculcation” is the act of being constantly reinforced with the exact same theme, phrase or words; ad nauseam

    • @jesussavemetoday975
      @jesussavemetoday975 Рік тому +3

      Like "safe and effective"

    • @BAsed_AFro
      @BAsed_AFro Рік тому +2

      Like "it's a pandemic of the unvaccinated!"?

    • @s-c..
      @s-c.. 3 місяці тому

      ⁠​⁠@@BAsed_AFroLike “plandemic”

    • @kristinescozzari3839
      @kristinescozzari3839 3 місяці тому

      We're in This together.
      All the public safety commercials through the pandemic set my teeth on edge. It was a clear and obvious technique to obtain compliance.

  • @regal360com
    @regal360com 3 місяці тому +11

    Realize that this applies to all religions.

  • @corbettdc
    @corbettdc 2 роки тому +27

    Everyone has been subjected. Even when you're watching this. It's not magical or mysterious. It just is.

  • @montanagal6958
    @montanagal6958 Рік тому +38

    I can answer that question about how do you know if you are brainwashed? You don't question authority, allegiance to blind obedience, end all critical thinking, believe the leader at the top cares about you, advocate your conscience and free will, even if it means take poison. The enemy are always those that resist of course.

    • @mehere8038
      @mehere8038 Рік тому

      Almost everyone does that, the Miligan experiments showed that. Those that don't do that, more often than not, are in fact in cults & following their indoctrination instead.
      Only group that on mass were not pulled in by the Miligan experiments were Australians, but Australians have their own culture of blind allegiance to mates & believe your mates care for you & it's your duty to care for them in return, even if that harms you, look at Dawn Frazer, accepting a lifetime Olympic ban, cause she was accused of doing something one of her mates actually did & so her "cult" told her, she must therefore just cop it, not dob.
      Everyone has blind allegiance to something or someone

    • @ramaraksha01
      @ramaraksha01 Рік тому +3

      Really? Abraham was ready & willing to MURDER his OWN son!
      Is that not blind obedience?
      How many articles, letters have you come across condemning such actions?
      And how many articles, letters have you come across praising him for "obeying God!"?
      I would guess the former is 0 and the latter is a lot!

    • @Monkey114
      @Monkey114 Рік тому +3

      Sounds like Jehovah's witnesses

    • @joe-mama6451
      @joe-mama6451 Рік тому

      @@ramaraksha01perhaps Abrahamic religions are high demand cults.

    • @jeremysims1597
      @jeremysims1597 9 місяців тому

      Thank you, they’ll have others and try to make even you believe that your a revolutionary, troublemaker, occultist, the very thing that are wrong for they’ll accuse you it’s important to know that vowels & contestants have energy, they have designed definitions. in dealing with cults understand tautology tactics/with using the same words as well as the original tactics of tautology. all occultism is narcissistic slavery designed to hunt capture and torture its victims to live a lesser life than what GOD YAH intended them to, we’re given this world we didn’t make it, as an newborn you don’t know what awaits you, ppl go their whole lives not realizing their in a matrix and than there are ones that willingly subscribe to it as a badge of honor

  • @56nickrich
    @56nickrich 2 місяці тому +3

    Steve Hassan is absolutely correct about the cult like practices of almost any organization imaginable and not just religious ones. Science, or the lack of it, is not a consideration by most cultists. They've washed their minds of ideas and embraced group think. Think for yourself.

  • @mreajamorgana
    @mreajamorgana 3 дні тому +1

    Problem is we are isolated and have no one to talk to nowhere to go.

  • @Radwabasyoni
    @Radwabasyoni 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you Steve
    Lots of informations and facts

  • @itsbetteroutside
    @itsbetteroutside 9 місяців тому +7

    Exjw, also spent time in network marketing. They aren't all bad but even in decent companies anytime you have that combination of trying to motivate a large number of people there's a human tendency to slide into tactics that border on cult techniques. It's vital that people are educated so that they can realize when they're free thinking is being techniqued away from them. Thank you for what you do.

  • @fuffoon
    @fuffoon 2 місяці тому +27

    I was a career soldier born into the US Army by my father, a career soldier. I have traveled twice around the world, speak French and German and bits of other languages. The USA, in my experience, has the strongest and most effective propaganda and indoctrination program in existence since the rise of Naziism in the 1930s. No cult has 6000 nuclear weapons to guard and forward their insignificant, on a relative scale, agendas. They affect a few thousand lives as the most. We, the American nation and cult ure (cult ure intentional) have destroyed nations, destroyed cultures, and profited grossly in the name of righteousness. Little is more effective at swaying one's opinion than a gun against the temple. It would be OK if the result wasn't rising inequality, pointless wars, and rising global violence. The excess is visible. Obesity, a home filled with useless objects, and declining satisfaction and happiness regardless of all that came with the American birthright.

    • @WarriorBlood777
      @WarriorBlood777 26 днів тому

      Revelation 13...

    • @Awesomes007
      @Awesomes007 22 дні тому

      That’s one view of part of the US. The US is not monolithic.

    • @RichardHarlos
      @RichardHarlos 9 днів тому

      @@Awesomes007 And your 'one view of part' reply doesn't negate what fuf wrote. The US need not be monolithic to be very bad in some important ways. If you aren't familiar with Chomsky's "Manufacturing Consent", I think you would benefit greatly from it. It's freely available online so no excuses :)

  • @TejalBhakta
    @TejalBhakta 14 днів тому +4

    This video needs more views

  • @RyanKittleson
    @RyanKittleson 4 дні тому +1

    These are great steps to follow. maybe an even better litmus test for if you're brainwashed is "Do I feel an intense aversion to following these steps?"

  • @We1rdHaTguY
    @We1rdHaTguY 2 дні тому +1

    Tell me everyone's brainwashed without telling me everyone's brainwashed.

  • @geestar7190
    @geestar7190 2 місяці тому +12

    MAGA Trump making himself as a god

  • @Melbot103
    @Melbot103 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm free now, but the only thing I feel now is rage. I thought I'd be happier. I see the world in red now. I feel very vengeful.

  • @JuanPerez-qg5pp
    @JuanPerez-qg5pp 2 роки тому +44

    I SCAPED FROM JEHOVAHS WITNESS

  • @chillonfunsmart4929
    @chillonfunsmart4929 3 місяці тому +5

    If you have no humility you can't see truth.

  • @ld6782
    @ld6782 10 місяців тому +2

    I would say one of my most deep seated fears is being under the influence of another party.

  • @voradorhylden3410
    @voradorhylden3410 3 місяці тому +13

    Faith and patriotism are just another way to say blind submission.

  • @ARFirstRaptor2011
    @ARFirstRaptor2011 2 місяці тому +5

    #1 when it is too good to be true
    #2 when you analyse with prejudice/bias
    #3 when it feels unfair
    #4 when you have not seen consistent evidence
    #5 when you can't admit you don't know
    #6 when you believe blindly without any personal experience
    #7 when you just ignore the opposite side of arguments
    #8 when you think you know everything
    #9 when you haven't trained yourself in critical thinking/argument analysis
    #10 assume what works for you will work for all, without considering how it would be for others, by simply having not caring attitude
    So on...

  • @TesserId
    @TesserId Рік тому +21

    7:39 "...I was trained to do _Thought Stopping_ ..." to shut out external ideas thy mentally reciting: "crush Satan, crush Satan, glory to Heaven, peace on Earth..." So his Father's attempt to present facts only drove him deeper.

    • @jmer9126
      @jmer9126 2 місяці тому +1

      THIS is so important for everyone to know

    • @lemsip207
      @lemsip207 12 днів тому

      Those videos and articles on combatting anxiety and over thinking encourage thought stopping too.

  • @m0L3ify
    @m0L3ify День тому

    I was in a diet cult once. Their goal was of course to get money, but the leader also convinced people it wasn't safe to stay at their jobs, and they'd quit and become her part-time employees. They used constant reinforcement through multiple daily repetitive writing exercises and 15 hours of online meetings a day where we weren't allowed to talk to each other, only the facilitators. After just a week and a half, I woke up one morning and discovered I didn't feel like I could question their authority, and it was an instant red flag that something was wrong, so I quit. I'm really glad I was already educated enough in psychology to be able to pull myself out right away, because I definitely wasn't nearly as savvy in the past and probably would have stayed far too long and gained nothing in return.

  • @Technicolor-mother
    @Technicolor-mother 2 дні тому +2

    A large portion of the United States isn't smart enough to watch TED Talks.

  • @batliff
    @batliff 3 місяці тому +5

    When someone tells you what to think, instead of giving a choice (opposing/multiple viewpoints) of what to believe. You are being brainwashed. 0:28

  • @glenbateman5960
    @glenbateman5960 8 днів тому +2

    If you are still capable of wondering whether or not you are brainwashed, you are not.
    Yet...

  • @PureMagma
    @PureMagma 2 роки тому +13

    Brilliant explanation.

  • @f1nch1312
    @f1nch1312 9 днів тому +1

    One of the things im most grateful for but is also a double edged sword as a neurodivergent person is that i question everything and have little interest in social hierarchy and find it unnatural. I also have a high sensitivity to hypocrisy and Injustice which is currently debilitating most of the time.

    • @malisworld
      @malisworld День тому

      I teared up reading this because I'm exactly the same way and I feel so much less alone now!💛

  • @laramonroe3363
    @laramonroe3363 6 днів тому

    I could have listened to him talk for another hour.

  • @thecapitalg
    @thecapitalg 6 місяців тому +7

    I've noticed the insane situation in these comments, everyone just calling anything they don't like politically a "cult".

    • @OneTheBlue
      @OneTheBlue 3 місяці тому +3

      Politics have gotten pretty culty in the past several years though. I can think of left and right-wing examples. More on the right at the moment though.

    • @dvdrtrgn
      @dvdrtrgn 3 місяці тому

      @@OneTheBlue The “sinless” aspect of the cult leader. That sticks out the most. He can never do wrong. He wants to bring you freedom.

    • @lemsip207
      @lemsip207 12 днів тому

      ​@@OneTheBlueForced teaming and extremism has taken over politics now. If you don't join the trans cult you get written off as right wing even if you aren't. Hardly anyone was talking about the trans agenda up until a decade ago. Now it's an in group signifier.

  • @jamg6311
    @jamg6311 8 днів тому +5

    Americans don't even know what America is...

  • @TesserId
    @TesserId Рік тому +35

    1:03 "Yes, I grew up 1.3 miles from Cult 45... D.T." Had to think that through.

    • @adrianajs8520
      @adrianajs8520 Рік тому +4

      Could you explain that to me, please?

    • @gigiarmany
      @gigiarmany Рік тому +11

      @@adrianajs8520 Donald Trump 45 th President of USA

    • @adrianajs8520
      @adrianajs8520 Рік тому +1

      @@gigiarmany 🤦Thank you!

    • @brooke_reiverrose2949
      @brooke_reiverrose2949 Рік тому +4

      @@adrianajs8520it’s also a play on words, “Colt .45” is a gun

    • @blahblahblah9092
      @blahblahblah9092 3 місяці тому

      Strange how he can't see himself in another cult called TDS.

  • @upgrade1015
    @upgrade1015 6 місяців тому +2

    Before taking a hard stance on anything I study both sides until I see the points made on each side . I measure my decisions properly

  • @Meandmymirror
    @Meandmymirror Місяць тому +2

    I wonder what “types” of people end up in cults? Is trauma in childhood a factor?

  • @AyakMajok-l9m
    @AyakMajok-l9m Рік тому +6

    Thanks for sharing the BITE model!!!

  • @feminineheart
    @feminineheart 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this.

  • @TesserId
    @TesserId Рік тому +11

    4:03 "So, I was away from the constant indoctrination. ... I called my Sister... I actually _broke a rule..._ " Not allowed to contact certain people.

    • @anonymousjohnson976
      @anonymousjohnson976 Рік тому +4

      Yes, it is a cult if they tell the members to shun certain other people.

    • @TesserId
      @TesserId Рік тому +1

      @@anonymousjohnson976 Yeah. This video gave me a reason to start a new list of easily identifiable cult traits, and that's the one that went on the list first. ~~~ Years ago, a woman gave me a theoretical article on what constituted a cult. She wanted me to testify against her husband in their divorce on the claim that he was a cult leader. So, I asked a lawyer if there was a legal definition of what constituted a cult. The lawyer said there was no such definition. ~~~ Now consider the role of lawyers in the fact that Shelly Miscavige has not been seen in public since about 2006. I'm open to suggestions on how that should show up on this new list.

    • @fukai-sama
      @fukai-sama 3 місяці тому +1

      @Tesseld. I'm guessing you were once a *Jehovah's witness*
      *Declarer of good news to the unrighteous*
      It's just a guess, please do ignore my comment if I'm wrong.

  • @Dimcore1991
    @Dimcore1991 3 місяці тому +12

    Left the Christian Church, I feel like a thousand pounds lifted off my shoulders.

  • @anastasiapi8437
    @anastasiapi8437 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you!

  • @robertsteinbach7325
    @robertsteinbach7325 3 місяці тому +4

    The first sign that you are indeed brainwashed is that you say "I know I can't be brainwashed".

  • @j.503
    @j.503 3 місяці тому +5

    The fact of the matter is you can't tell if you're brainwashed.

  • @user-wu8sj3ee3d
    @user-wu8sj3ee3d День тому +3

    “Only I can save America”
    -Donald Trump
    And they believed him.

    • @megaultradamn
      @megaultradamn 15 годин тому

      The other option didn't give most people hope. If he's as bad as they say he is, the opposing party should've picked a better candidate.

  • @seanmurphy1704
    @seanmurphy1704 Місяць тому +1

    I had never heard of the moonies before, sounds like an awesome movement, will now dedicate my remaining time on earth to them, thanks.

  • @itachi65ful
    @itachi65ful Рік тому +3

    Question everything and challenge your ideals.