I'm literally crying watching this video. I have been to many professionals with my daughter. I've heard autism and severe cognitive delay. She only started speaking 6 month ago, at the age of 3y4m. She started reading at 3 years and a half, she can count to 1000 easily and is obsessed with Math, even and odd numbers, she's not even 4 yet. I thought I was crazy going against these professionals who unfortunately only scratch the surface of their areas. Now I know how to better foster my munchkin's unique skills. Thank you so much!!!
Thanks for your comment. I am happy to help you feel good about your child's abilities! Have you seen my videos about virtual autism? You also might want to consider visiting my website and subscribing to my newsletter. You could help your little one start to use more functional speech before the season is over. WavesofCommunication.com
Awww Brittani - Sending hugs! No worries! There is so much you can do to empower your little one to share his wisdom using functional spoken language. Look at the LIVE section on my channel to investigate all of the videos I have published, including a Virtual Autism workshop.
This sounds exactly like my 3 year old son.he understands everything n uses gestures to let us know any his needs n desires.he just speak few words.he loves puzzles loves colouring n is Vry emotional.thanks a lot mam.other you tube videos simply term late talkers as autistic n nothng else.
Thank you for your comment Madhuwanti. Language facilitation can help you find your child's speech quickly. It's working for parents all over the world. Please take a look at the free masterclass on my website WavesofCommunication.com to learn how you can use my platform for success.
This is exactly my son he is 2.5, he was basically a 3 year old by 1 he hit every milestone so early and he does his own sign language but he will hardly talk only sing. But he is amazingly smart and its crazy the things he can do and the stuff he figures out. He is so calm and has so much control over his emotions and behaviors and he is very maturue in the way he "plays". He prefers puzzles, crafts, matching, math, science, and reading over toy play or even playing with other kids his ages. I feel like i have an 8 year old but he isnt even 3.
My son 4.5 years old, same situation, we were told might be the signs of autism, but when I search the information I found both autism and Asperger are not match my son’s situation, it is hard to explain these to those experts, also cause our anxiety, until I saw this terms, Einstein syndrome, I know, it’s it!
@@cherrychen7582 call mary camarata she is the best . my son was the same they kept saying autism i knew it wasn't. she confirmed what we thought she's the best
@@Jf-vd1xd we’ve made a diagnosis in UK, however, a friend’s son has almost same situation (at least 90% same at every milestone) at the same age in USA, their doctor said it was not like autism… seems this is a very subjective question, not only person, but also country? Confused..
Thanks so much for this video. I am learning more about my son and how to help him. He will be 6 next month. Been reading and writing before 3yo. Loves to puzzles, building things, memorizing anything from product labels and descriptions to complete songs. He would sometimes even play some of his favorite tunes on the piano by ear. He has an ASD diagnosis but my gut tells me differently. This video is inspiring me to do more to help him achieve more in life. Thanks again!
Thanks for your feedback Jobe. There are tons of resources here on the WavesofCommunication.com platform. You might want to check out the workbook to create a plan for better speech this summer. www.amazon.com/11-Week-Language-Facilitation-Journey-Speech/dp/B09MJ3K798/
Really enjoying your videos. My 25 month old daughter has remarkable fine motor skills. Her drawings with pens and pencils and accurate and are similar to what a few 6-7 year olds I know can draw. She is very focused and has a long attention span. She has no other delays and is ahead in many other areas. I studied math and physics, my husband is a software engineer, so I am hopeful. She speaks but has articulation issues. We’ve started therapy but the methods aren’t resonating with me. The therapist wants us to focus on only one-word phrases, basically the opposite of what you’ve suggested here. Will continue to peruse your resources, thank you!
Thanks for your comment Courtney. I'm happy you are finding the information helpful. Your daughter is really young to be motivated to fix her own speech with flash cards and single-word imitation. Perhaps the strategies in this video can help you. ua-cam.com/video/oNqxB9Ib4OY/v-deo.html
This is exactly like our son. He is 19months old and is extremely analytical and has amazing fine motor skills. He also has an incredible memory. We love books in our house. I can recite books and he will go find the matching book. He started this at 11 months old. He has only said a few words and not consistently.
Im so happy I came across this video. My son is 3 years old has says a few words, He was diagnosed at 18months with mild ASD but he is extremely analytical in his behaviors and actions and they way he processes information. He loves puzzles, things that spin and taking things apart and trying to pit them back together, and when he listen to music it looks like he’s counting rhythms with or beats with his fingers. He gets so into music and when ai watch him its almost like the sounds a painting pictures in the sky for him and he comes alive. He love when I sing his favorite songs and show him new instruments, he just wants to see what sounds they make. He’s memorized his way from everywhere we have gone after a few times. My husband and I joke all of the time about him knowing everything because we see it and no one else does. He’s in his own mind but completely aware of everything.
Thanks for your comment. There are many videos here to use your child's ABILITIES to facilitate the speech he needs to share his genius ideas with the world! Take a look at the playlists to see all of the options.
I have a 32 month old son that says some words, but babbles A LOT. Straight up has a full blown conversation in his own language and it literally sounds like a different language. He's extremely smart. Loves books, puzzles, his alphabet animals. He refuses to let me or anyone read a book, he takes it, flipped through the pages at his own speed. He has always loved books, but he has to hold it and change the pages. Only time I can read to him is at night when he is in bed. He will watch TV that SINGS the alphabet and colors. Unbelievable how intelligent he is, he just doesn't speak words. It's like learning how to talk plain English is holding him back, he has stuff to say and doesn't have time to learn how to properly say it. He's been babbling hard core since he was like 3 months old. I couldn't believe it.
It's true that some kids are late talking because they are thinking FASTER than others are talking. I can help you turn that babble into real conversation fast! Please check out my website program options you can book a free call with me to learn exactly how your family can turn frustration into conversation.
There are many strategies to help your child see the value in connected, accurate, speech through the activities of daily living. I suggest you shift from talking about books and expecting him to label and imitate your words to engaging in more story telling and functional speech about dressing, eating, cooking, and exploration outside of the home. You will never change his reading and video habits - teach something NEW.
This is my grandson, and he is a very special child. His parents have been concerned re his lack of speech, but I happened to fine out re Einstein's syndrome, and am encouraging them , and seeking to help them realize what their child is all about ! They have been afraid, that to take him anywhere, that he will be 'labeled', but I already have told them, what to expect from him , tho very briefly, as I am only beginning to learn about it, myself !
Hi Joy - Thank you for sharing about your grandson. It is often the grandmothers who can spot the HIGH energy of these brilliant kiddos. Awareness and REconnection in the physical world with FUNctional activities is what grounds down the energy into action that reflects in interpersonal communication using speech instead of intuition. Have you signed up for my FREE get started guide and newsletter? Please visit WavesofCommunication.com to explore how I help families like yours facilitate functional speech with brilliant late talkers.
This describes my 2.5 year old son he does not speak but he knows the alphabet and can do it backwards, he has a photographic memory and loves puzzles with a passion. He is a problem solver and is always finding different ways of doing things and playing with his toys. Sometimes I do feel like he ignores me and he communicates with actions and knows how to utilise me to get things done for him. Thank you for this video it really opens up other possibilities either than autism for my son. We are currently taking speech therapy and occupational therapy. I’m hopeful and positive that he will speak to me one day.
Thank you for your comment. You will have a lot more success than therapy when you learn to use the wonderful things he knows to teach him everyday. Your current habits will encourage him silent to remain silent. You won't get speech unless you facilitate it every day at home.
@@lilianaa3065 Marcy is right. My 2.5 year old hasn’t been in therapy for four months. I pulled him after a year of no progress in expressive language. I’ve gotten some more expressive language out of him my narrating everything and the why behind it. He also brings me things throughout the day he thinks I need, and knows all the things needed to make a PB & J, and so much more. He was able to identify some shape today by picking them up. He also loved Yanni and will try to get the notes correct on the piano. It is so wild.
Thank you thank you thank you for doing what you do. My two boys, aged 5 and 7, are everything you’ve explained to the max. I was also an Einstein child as I did not begin talking until 5 years old. I did not have to work hard in school and excelled at math and science and now have 2 engineering degrees. My 5 year old hasn’t said any language and my 7 year old is beginning to now use language. But as you beautifully explained they are looking to solve their own problems!! My 7 year old assembles sophisticated mega block structures mimicking animals and his favorite cartoon characters. My 5 year old is on a similar path as his older brother. Their school is trying to label them autistic. I’ve always known that wasn’t the case and this video has given me an insight that I was not aware of, wow. It’s especially enlightening because of a whole new insight of myself when I was a toddler. Especially the egocentric part 😂😂😂. I will be following up with your tools. I can’t thank you enough. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Starting at 23:52 you described my toddler to the letter. She acts out and sings every show musical etc to the hills. She has a love for puzzles and is a late talker but Uber calculated and turns off when you don’t understand what she is conveying. She has literally her own world but so brilliant
I'm happy you have a better understanding of your child. Now you can work with her strengths to facilitate the spoken language she needs to share her wisdom with the world. I have many options for learning available on my website wavesofcommunication.com
I'm glad it's helpful! There are so many kids like your son and parents who are in your situation too! Our community is full of parents who are seeing real success with language facilitation. I hope you will too!
This describes my four year old son. I kind of suspected there would be trouble when at 9 months old he pushed his toys to the baby gate and used his toys to climbed over. We tried greasing the baby gate so he wouldn't climb and he took a baby wipe and wiped off the gate and climbed over. By the age of three, he was adding a bunch of numbers in his head without writing them down or using his fingers. He's still not forming sentences of more than 3 words.
Your son seems super smart. If you are interested in turning all of that intelligent behavior into speech, please check out the resources on my website Wavesofcommunication.com
very interesting take on late talkers wow....i am experiencing this with my own son now this explains a lot!!! very very helpful eye opening information for me wow thanks a million ❤️👍
Yes! This describes my 6 yo so much. We have been following Marci for at least 3 yrs. My little guy loves to talk about any sort of vehicle, how they work and why, with a special interest in space exploration vehicles, rovers, rockets, shuttles, etc. He seems to also have “weak auditory processing” however and has struggled hard with beginning/ending consonants and articulation. I am beginning to wonder, though if he just “doesn’t have time” for this, because beginning consonants are much weaker than ending consonants. The initial language he spoke was largely vowels. His Kinder teacher noted also that he just wants to put a “hard” consonant ending on a word, not really caring if it’s a “d” or “t” or z vs s. Wondering more and more if this “weak auditory processing” is due to einstein syndrome
My child did 100 piece puzzles at four, 300 piece puzzles at 5. He could do puzzles 12 hours a day. He played computergames with adults online at 3 and started spelling at 2,5. It has been tough. He is now eight and still speaks when he ses fit. He never responds to therapists and ignores people who underestimate him. It is not easy.
Parents like you have been finding great success helping their super-smart late talkers shift into conversational, story-telling speech. I can help you find the same success. Please check out the programs on my website WavesofCommunication.com
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This is my 5 year old that is currently on a 4th to 5th grade level. I'm having such a hard time with him in school because he's so brilliant, the teachers have difficulty teaching on where his mind is. More needs to be done for these analytical kids.
The key is to connect with each child and learn their unique and often extraordinary perspective about the things that they are engaged with. Carl Jung also talks about how for some learners their high-level symbolic understanding of the world is "above" language.
Thank you for enlightening us! Very very useful content. I can relate much now! My almost 3y.o gabbie is very smart and good in shapes, numbers, letter, colors, fruits, planets, vegetables but is not very verbally communicative when it comes to his needs/and what to want to say...
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My child 6yrs old was a late talker but now he can answer which state is which just by looking at a blank map without even any lines he even knows the capital of each state. He can also multiply, add and subtract. Skip counting and Read. We sent him to therapy school back when he was 4yrs old after 5 months I notice there was not much improvement after I withdraw him from therapy now his doing much better.
@@WavesofCommunication Only problem I Have with him now is his very socially awkward. His teachers will ask him questions that I know he knows the answer but he rejects to give it to them and also he doesn't like crowded places and being given attention by other people. Can you give me some tips to make him better at social interactions?
@@nbaburn3569 the resources on our website WavesofCommunication.com are designed to help parents facilitate all the spoken language (including social communication in multiple languages) that you are hoping for. Books, courses, and coaching options are available.
My 2 months long confusion finally solved today. My 2.6 years old girl fits all of your description... she manipulative and adaptive in situations and with different people. As a father Am so blessed to have an girl... she manipulating us to get whatever she wants... Her expressive language are behind but with astonishing memories and pattern recognition which sometimes amazed us. she differentiating age categories. she always exploring the world differently seems inquisitee.. she catch things instantly... The sad part is when we consulted a child development center they diagnosed autism but my gut feeling told that she is quite different from autistic gifted children's because the attachment and love she spent on me is remarkably unexplainable in words, she always reciprocates the smile with her familiar people. My family refutes about autism diagnosis.... When we consulted another psychologist she stated that she doesn't have autism by observed her behaviors. Even after the positive second opinion i was still confused of her strange behaviors until this video... This video is an eye opener... In fact she used me because 😇😇am the only person more than her mother who understand her needs.... 😇😇
I can help you facilitate the spoken language that your daughter needs to share her wisdom with the world. Please visit WavesofCommunication.com to learn about my training and coaching resources. 🙏
I just started working with kids and one of my students, runs around the class doing what she wants. I assumed she was behind until she had me in corner, little sis knew all her letters, colors, numbers, and others. My mouth dropped because she knew more than any other student. She is so bright but she is on her own time
Smart kids often become detached when people try to "teach" them the things that they already have mastered. If you present something more sophisticated or even functional to her life, this child will be your #1 student.
My son is 3.1 years old and he loves alphabets and numbers, he babbles all day in his own language but don't understand us. He loves to arrange things, climbing colorings and go out. But he doesn't understand us properly. He don't say words he just drag us or cry if he needs anything. Only words he says are English words we use often but our main language is Urdu. He is very different from other children of his age. Thanks merci you're doing great job
Thank you for sharing your situation. I will have some feedback for you in this week's Q&A session Thursday at 11:00 am Eastern. You can tune in live or watch the replay.
This is alot like my daughter. She is 20months old. She doesn't have much worlds, but she has very good motor skill, great hand eye coordination, great with puzzles . She loves books. All day everyday. Its crazy from when she was 18months, she knows how to go into my phone, look for the UA-cam icon, click on it and watch coçomelon or cartoons.
Thank you for this . This description fits my daughter like a glove . She is 2yr 4 months . The only word she has repeated is "hooray" . This is more of Elmo's doing than my own . Her name is Lyana and her super power is construction and manipulating old people .
Hi Shane. It sounds like she is super-smart. Language facilitation is the way to go if you want to help her share her wisdom with the world and boss people around with her speech. Please check out my resources here on UA-cam or coaching programs at WavesofCommunication.com. I bet you can't wait to hear what's going on in that brilliant mind! Have fun with the process, talk to her like she's going to college, and once all of the blockages are eliminated, speech will come.
Being concise is difficult for responses as I am also dyslexic and am derailed without autocorrect. I'm 42, have this and could write several books on how I've managed to be a chameleon in so many fields. I rarely cried as a baby, just kind of grumped in a crib and people watched according to family. My first words were "Hunda Shiza", (sp?) when someone tracked dog poop in the house when I was 4. No one spoke German in my family, we're Oglala Lakota, Irish and Danish. I've never considered myself a genius, even at this age, but was tested throughout primary and secondary school. I tested with a really high IQ, but the numbers and testing processes weren't interesting or beneficial in any way. Really have to shorten this. Astrophysics, mechanics, dynamics, and general relativity were fairly common knowledge by 3rd grade. Paleontology, meteorology, geology, cosmology, it was all just an afternoon study really. I still despise sitcoms, comedy shows, movies anything that isn't factual frustrates me. I had a job in aerospace design and another in industrial mechanical engineering that fit me well and I had fun, but learned contracts are not full time or promised wages in a given number of years. I made clocks and calendars for the moon, Mars, Jupiter and started on Saturn but I am not in a position to agree with the current calculations we have on its orbit or any body past Saturn. Now I work for a D&D based live action game that mostly keeps me occupied on my interests but the language barrier has always been an issue the 12 years I've been planning and making things for huge game conventions and such. Something you didn't touch on was the insomnia. For the 38 ish years I can recall most conversations or numbers, images, sounds, smells, the only things I forget are repetitive cycles in planning. Let's say I planned for 50 events, my recall on numbers per pallet used to be spot on. In the last 5 years, I've noticed a decline in photographic recall but still remember everything from before then. This makes me lose sleep. Related, is my PTSD, having a full sensory range of several tragic events and reliving them. I work even harder and pull more hours to move along, but this is something kids with this are going to struggle with and you can't really replace this input with therapy. If we experience it, it's with us for life. I remember the smells of the Reservation 40 years ago, but nothing else. We're observers, I don't consider myself smart, but you are spot on that we need continuous learning. I was taking college level physics classes in the 3rd grade for fun and making really low grades in other studies. Graduated 2 years early in high school by testing out because I was advanced and the kids in my class complained because I would almost never talk. I don't know if this is useful data for you but I am happy to share more. I'm just learning how to be open and "chatty".
Thank you so much for your detailed explanation of your journey through life as a highly intelligent human! Sending you my best wishes and gratitude for your support.
That's great! You can use these fab skills to help your child learn to use speech to share all of his wisdom with the world. Please take a look at the free class on my website WavesofCommunication.com to learn the strategies and process that has worked for parents worldwide. Now that you understand your child better, you can find your super-smart kiddo's speech fast.
My son is 3 now but at 2 he was using the computer without help to complete his ABC mouse program and gets the answers correct. He can add numbers and counted up to 200 before turning 3. He knew all his letters and letter sounds at 2. He cooks and makes sandwiches without help. I’m not saying this to brag but he’s not really talking much but he knows big words. He was able to identify all construction trucks like backhoe, excavator, front loader at 2. I didn’t know myself and had to look it up. Some ppl believe he is autistic but I think after watching this he has Einstein Syndrome. Thank you for the tips I will apply them.
I wish I could get more clarity on if my son is autistic or gifted/Einstein syndrome. At 17 months he knew the difference between an oval and a circle. At 18 months he knew the whole alphabet. He is now 2.5yo and he can count to 100 and counts backwards from 30. He is obsessed with shapes and numbers and knows the difference between a pentagon, hexagon, and octagon. He was doing 4 year old puzzles at 2. I wish there was more of a diagnosis on Einstein syndrome.
My advice is to focus on your child's abilities and use them to facilitate the speech and behavior you are looking for. There are many strategies available to you on this channel and the website to help you. Please visit WavesofCommunication.com and view the introductory class there to learn what is really going on and what parents around the world are doing to find speech. I promise, those who are finding success are not spending time looking for a diagnosis. They are taking action themselves.
My 3 year old already know numbers until 100 in English and Spanish, after that we just told him 101, 102, and he is going on by himself. He learned the alphabet at 2. And now he is playing piano. But he is also great in sports and has very good motor skills. That’s why is hard to see him in the Autistic spectrum.
What's most important is how you are facilitating his improvement. If you see consistent growth in functional areas that you know are important like spoken language, than keep on teaching via numbers or whatever he loves (it will change)! If you want guidance to help with that, visit WavesofCommunication.com
The weird thing about this video is how you seemed to not only describe my 3yo but also my husband back when he was our sons age xD! These explanations are great, thank you! I especially love the part where you name it as a superpower instead of looking at it as something bad. I do feel like people easily look down on these kids that don't use spoken language yet. Mine is GREAT with non verbal language which we try to expand and he picks up very quickly (have considered using sign). I also used your tip on just telling him more things about what's he's doing and explaining things, he really enjoys it and is using more and more words unconsciously.
Thanks for your comment. I am sure BOTH your child and your husband appreciate you helping to bring spoken language into their awareness and facilitate the conversation that will help everyone share their wisdom (and superpowers) with the world. Please consider sharing this video with anyone you believe can benefit. There are tons of strategies on my channel to help parents with late talkers facilitate rapid speech improvement.
This video could be about my son. He is 3 1/2 and is so far advanced. Thank you for thos bideo on how to help a child woth potential Einstein syndrome. Are their any resources on how to potty train these types of children
Thank you for your comment. There is one potty training video on my channel. Search on the main page to find it! I also have a FREE get started guide and weekly newsletter now. You can explore that at WavesofCommunication.com
Interesting.... My boy just turned 4 three days ago. He knows the alphabet perfectly, normal (since 2) and cursive (recently). He can recognise simple words and can count up to and recognise numbers up to 4 digits. He can count in powers of ten up to 100 Octillion (he remembers million, billion, trillion, etc). He knows his 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10 times tables up to 100+. Even simple arithmatic... But... When I ask him a question he often just repeats the question. When he wants something he says "Do you want a coke?", like what I would say. Then when I tell him to "look at me... look in my eyes and say", "How do you ask?", he'll say eventually look at me and say "Please can I have some coke" or whatever. He doesn't comprehend things like other kids. E.g. "What is the girl doing?" ... I don't think he even knows what a girl is... He doesn't ask questions without being prompted. And I think when he does he's just doing it because thats what he's remembered he's supposed to say... He's very friendly and personable but doesn't really engage with other kids or have a great level of interaction/interest for his age. Or at least he's very selective when he does it. Other kids will say "Your dad's here!!" when I go and pick him up but I don't think he even knows their names or who their dads are. Or doesn't care... He's seems extremely smart, always building things and can sit for hours alone just connecting magnet blocks into e;aborate sculptures. I really just wonder if theres anything I should or could do to help him where he's weak... Or if it's just gonna change one day. I have the feeling it will but don't wanna miss out doing something if I can. Interested if anyone has had a similar experience.
Tune in to my coaching session on August 11, 2022 and I'll use your son as a case study to show how this happens and what you can do to help your child.
My son is also 4 years, he write very well, read very well, I don't even know if he knows what is writing, he write the name of all members of the family , read them, but when you tell him , go and call your brother, he won't react. I'm really confused
@@N3Cr0Ph0b1A Hi, you described our 4 years old boy. After two years from your first comment can you please update the latest situation please. I hope you and your child will live a happy and healthy life.
@@EvrenAkbulut Hello. So yes, he's just turned 6 and things have definately progressed for the better. He's also been diagnosed with autism officially in the intervening time. He's in prep now and although he's obviously a bit different and needs additional help with staying on task he's definately improving all the time. Acedemically he's above average and still leaps above in maths If you can get him in the right head space to concentrate. I found he varies a lot on different days based on . Being exposed to the other kids in prep also helps put things in perspective for me; a lot of what you might think is an 'autism' thing is often times just the foibles of little humans. Especially the boys. The girls in his class seem to have it together much better at this age. Although, he's still definately different. That said it's not actually all that bad. The other kids in his class are all amazing (at this age) and the girls especially are nice to him and mother him a bit. Outside of class and high focus areas he's perfectly normal. We can go to the shops or out to a restaurant and you wouldn't tell anything at all unless your trying to directly engage him in a conversation, although that is much better. We can communicate perfectly fine and he understands almost everything now. But we're just used to him not responding to everything like we would expect. It seems to just be worse in high stress noisy and active environments but day to day he's able to do a lot of what you'd hope. Getting dressed and undressed, toilet, eating properly, shoes, etc. So all good. I feel as he's getting older he's able to overcome a lot of his issues. Things don't really bother him anymore. That said I do spend a LOT of time working on it with him. Biggest thing now is working on trying to get him to notice and acknowledge people when he enters a room. It often seems like he just doesn't see people at all. Just things. If anything, at least he'll make a good engineer... 😬
Oh and reading is very good. In line with his good pattern recognition that's always been there. His writing not so obviously good, maybe average or a little below. But improving and won't be an issue long term. I hope this still describes your boy still in 2 years 😉👍
My 4 years old son is not talking yet but he he learned when he was almost 3 years the whole alphabet and regocnizes every single letter in english and in arabic, at that age he also learned to count to 100 in English. Now he is 4 years old and a short time ago he started wachting videos of country flags and he learned so fast al the flags en regocnizes every single. Does he has a high IQ if he is able the learn all these things in a short period of time? I hope someone can answer my quastion.
Hi Marina - Please accept this guidance with my best wishes. You will never get an accurate picture of your child's abilities through a comment on a UA-cam video. I can help you understand what is really causing your child to show the behaviors you are concerned about as well as know what to do to find the behavior and speech you are looking for. The question is, are you ready to make the investment to learn what you need to do and are you willing to make the changes you need to help your child. The answers all within you. When you are ready to learn, please visit WavesofCommunication.com to watch the free class and learn what it takes to get real results.
Hi Joy - Many of these kids have parents who themselves spend a lot of time in their minds. Creatives, intellectuals, problem-solvers, and influencers often have late talkers who also learn to survive and thrive inside of their minds where they use their unique processing skills to make sense of the confusing and often traumatic world around them. This idea of "in my own mind it's better" can result in detachment parenting. Does that make sense?
Behind every child’s speech problem is a broken connection with his/her parents, who are the only language facilitators capable of transferring their own communication skills to their child. Marci has shared many interesting points in this video;-) I especially liked how she suggested that the parents should talk about the process. This is exactly how I teach my students who stutter: I explain to them the process of proper speech production. The moment they understand and begin to follow this process precisely, they INSTANTLY produce a 100% accurate speech:-) And they fall in love with their speaking;-)
Ma'am why am I dumb then ?😂 i'm a late talkrr and even when I started to talk it sounded like a completely different language (from my parents). The only thing I'm good at is being anxious😂
I hope you are joking! Smart late talkers who grow into thoughtful adults like you use the same strategies as you did when you were a kid. It's all about figuring out how to navigate the world full of impatience and judgment, do your best to share what you know, and manage your anxiety when that is not good enough for other people. Late talkers all eventually learn through their own trials, errors, and self-generated successes (despite struggling with speech) that the solution to your anxiety lies within your mindset.
My grandson's mom told me that she thinks he has such low IQ that he is not capable of even learning sign language. He started choosing a video recorded by a rock musician (he loves Music ] where the man sang the alphabet while signing the letters. My grandson wanted to watch it several times a day. I thought that because he was just two years old, that he could not learn to sing the song. Children three and four learn songs when they are sung very slowly, and then can start singing it at normal speed. I noticed my grandson practicing the signs for the letters of the alphabet during his other play time. Then, one day, he made one of the signs during the song to the beat of the song. His Mom and ABA workers believe that my grandson cant imitate someone trying to teach him something, so part of their therapy has been to try to get my grandson to imitate them by prompting him. Then, just the other day, my grandson was watching the song again, and I saw him make the signs for the alphabet letters for not one but 6 letters...to the fast beat of the song.. He likes that he can use his fingers as another way of experiencing the letters of the alphabet. Dont worry, Marci, he is so proud of his successes that he is being more and more verbal every day too. I am convinced that he has Einstein syndrome because I cant imagine an average child teaching himself to move his hands to the fast beat at age 2. Thank you for reminding me to go with his interests and speak more elaborately to him. Now he turns the jazz demos on on my electric digital synthesizer and has me turn the wheels on the bus video sound OFF because he already knows the words, and turns to me and listens as I expand upon what he is seeing and giving him the words he might want to say about what he sees too. He is showing me that he wants to know more and have the words to share his experience too. THE MUSIC IN THE VIDEO INSPIRED HIM TO LEARN A LOT but he wants to talk too and is speaking when something excites him. (He likes going out in his stroller to the playground best of all because we find things that begin with a certain letter of the alphabet.
It sounds like you have found the language facilitation zone Grandma Bea! It's wise to stay in your own lane and focus on your connection instead of what other people are doing (or not). Keep up YOUR good work and fill in the story telling and detailed explanations for whatever the 'prompters' are leaving out. Your little Einstein will soon start to show everybody how much he has learned through your examples.
If you are looking at symptoms alone, you can see how many children with Einstein Syndrome are receiving ASD diagnosis. According to those who give the diagnosis based on the criteria in this video, the child does have ASD. There is no formal 'healthcare' diagnostic criteria for Einstein Syndrome. The term was coined by a professor of economics who saw the patterns of behavior and communication in super-smart kids. Healthcare professionals intend to unlock access to schools, insurance payments, or grant funding for therapy services, so they give the ASD label to to the family for that purpose.
@@WavesofCommunication Thank u for responding My son is 23 months old Very energetic, loves to climb and move Great in shapes and puzzles Makes eye contact and play with us, Comfortable with change in environment and enjoys new things He knows animals, fruits, vegetables and responds to our commands He has good understanding but doesn’t speak He is having speech delay and doctors told us that he is having ASD I am not very convinced actually
@@AbhishekGupta-po5tl If what you explain is true about your late talker, then the diagnosis doesn't matter. You can facilitate the spoken language you are looking for yourself with language facilitation. Have you seen the free class on my website? That's the best place to start. WavesofCommunication.com
Hello there I have watched many of your videos about late talking as my son who is two and a half years old only says about 5 words they are clear but he will go a couple months with out speaking maybe one of any it’s more of him trying to mumble what you are saying like he is practicing or trying to say what you are saying but in his own way I have videos of him walking early and saying words on time even holding his head up the day he was born he is very affectionate and makes eye contact if you say close the door he will if you say fix the rug he will, he loves watching a cartoon show called blaze and the monster machines we would play it for him when he would eat and one day he started crying me figuring he was probably wanting down or didn’t like the show didn’t think anything of it every day he started crying when he was watching blaze my husband is the one who fingered it out he was crying when the show was about to go off by the ending song not playing long enough he knew if the song played longer it was coming back on now it doesn’t matter what episode he is watching he has memorized the episodes and knows when they where going off. That’s not all we found out very early he was good with directions even in a lay down car seat he would know when my daughter was about to be dropped off at school by the tops of the building before we even pulled into the school also loves to shut and open the doors but by looking up at the top of the door and seeing the space get smaller has never liked toys loves music it’s very fascinating and a miracle that I stumbled across your page back when my son was smaller as know one was talking about to Einstein syndrome or as you say benefit 😌🙌🏼☝🏼 and I just knew he wasn’t autistic or had any other diagnosis he didn’t have the same characteristics as the autistic children showed and although at his 18 month check up I was given a sheet to show the milestones that my son had completed or is doing and they only thing he didn’t meet was the amount of words they should be speaking at that age really upset me because i knew what my son was capable of and what he was doing just not in spoken words my mother also bought the book Einstein syndrome and late talking children about a month or so ago and the children in there are like my son they show some of the characteristics he shows I wish I had someone to screen him for Einstein syndrome. He also bangs his head sometimes and holds stuff like empty bottles or straws up to the light , tv or in front of something to see through it that I’ve never seen any other child do. I also have a daughter who did not talk until she was 3 years old well more then 5 words as well but we put her in preschool and her teacher told me she was not up to where she should be according to the other children but I knew she was different because a couple weeks before preschool I was reading a book to her every night she read the book back to me one night or so I thought I was shocked 😳 how could she do this without really talking at all and definitely not sentences I was so amazed I flipped the page pointed at a word and asked her to tell me the word she couldn’t I started from the front page she read they words just fine she thought well how can this be she memorized the book front to back i definitely think she has Einstein syndrome as well she is a honor roll student has had two bs since starting school so I would love your input , anything advice you can give me to help teach my son to talk I had so many dreams of him speaking and singing I know it’s coming he has a big calling on his life In just impatient so from a ready momma please ❤️
Heather I help parents find speech in weeks in my parent coaching program. You can learn to facilitate the best spoken language for both of your kids for life in my program for a fraction of the cost of therapy. Watch the free class and book a call with me. The information is all on my website WavesofCommunication.com
Why would a child with the capacity to formulate manipulative intent have to resort to pattern-seeking? That WOULD indeed be a "superpower"🙄, the fantasies of which emerge in normally developing children's creative play. Having not outgrown childish fantasies that mischaracterize abilities in supernatural terms is a (projectively misidentified) fixed delusion of reference. The reason overdeveloped creative intelligence (relative to deficiencies in other areas) is so necessary to psychopathy and schizophrenia (psychopaths often have difficulty distinguishing between fantasy and reality as a consequence of habituated dissociation from your abusive pasts, and isn't art therapy for institutionalized schizophrenics so common that the image of involuntarily committed patients on hospital lawns with easels is clicheted) is because that's exactly what a predisposition to psychosis needs too much of (uncontextualized by effective reality testing due to your deficiencies in other areas). There's no giftedness without autism but with early treatment there's autism without giftedness. Think not? Undiagnosed/untreated hyperlexic late talkers abandon our echolalia when we teach ourselves to read because duh echolalia is the perseveration of failed attempts to flatter a neglectful mother into linguistic "mirroring". It is her failure to make room for our needs and teach us emotional fluency via early mirroring which does not prompt the neuronal pruning characteristic of effective early socialization. It's useful to you to think of giftedness as somehow exclusionary for autism because presumably you're in the business of selling pediatric IQ tests (the only ones which commonly score beyond two standard deviations from the mean) to the very parents who are the grifted kids racket's constituent child-exploiting market. Counterintuitively IQ tests quantify the norm to identify the exceptions. So anyone with an IQ over 130 who doesn't realize that after about 135 the distribution is too sparse to justify pursuing less reliable scores has been groomed by the conditional approval of their abusive parents to look past the very obvious implications inherent to dissatisfaction with a score of 130+ (which is also clearly less organic to themselves than would likelier be embarrassment to even pursue much less brag about scores they can only even get by resorting to some sketchy instrument. The irrationality that comes out when their brainwashing does the talking is a demonstrative consequence of autistic ego development postponement evolutionarily adaptive purpose (indicates they're still under that parent's thumb). IQ scores are no more the province of actual smart people than a need for dishonesty or cheating. All that shit arises from incompetence having something to prove. Autism's prepsychotic so even though I know kids will be whatever their parents need them to be in order to survive I don't have a lot of patience or tolerance for adults whose own egodefensive psychotic developmental fixations specifically direct that predation at those of us who' only survived our parents' bulldozer egos at the price of leaving our own undefended. It wouldn't be a shot in the dark (at surviving them long enough to escape and raise ourselves) though without the chances for developing a personality disorder in response to a very deep betrayal by one such as yourself. Yes I know psychiatry says there's no such thing as an adult onset PD, but psychiatry is the discipline which elaborated autism as developmental delay so it's self-contradictory. And it also ignores the mechanism of transmission from autistic mother to child being a consequence of developmental incapacity to fathom the consequence of pregnancy when securing their own futures at the expense of unborn children women with a "genetic" disability of unpredictable severity don't have any business babytrapping their fathers with. Because of the autistic alexithymia with which our own maternal neglect has left us, postpartum psychosis goes untreated in ASD. Pretty clear BPD is the inevitable sequela of that particular disease course. Psychiatry also misdiagnoses us with early-onset dementia despite the fact that without the capacity to live two or three lifetimes it's doubtful we can even get dementia per se. But failure to differentiate autistic catatonia by simple lorazepam challenge (a product of professional idiocy that somehow imagines most autism gets diagnosed) is sure to reinforce the misdiagnosis of dementia upon treatment with antipsychotics (which are life-threateningly contraindicated in catatonia). So your charlatanry being in very good company with their quackery doesn't change the fact that the strongest evidence for Cluster-B mothering being autism's etiology has always been the absence of more than feigned concern they may have accidentally caused it. Very much like the absence of concern for the harm they inflicted by blaming it on vaccines. So maybe the only reason busily manipulating everyone who'll allow you to with such bogus nonsense is not seen as discrediting in this crowd is because these are the kind of mothers who can't remember any better than you can that babies don't manipulate anyone
Thanks for your comment and the time you spent gathering all of this information. Here's my response: Gestalt language learners resort to patterns in the attempt to develop a language when they don't have the spoken language models they need. You forgot to investigate Carl Jung or Stephen Camarata when you wrote this dissertation. Anyone is welcome to challenge any of the concepts I share here. However, As you can see in the comments, the parents I am speaking to are resonating with this message. They ARE accepting this concept as a premise to motivate them to engage and facilitate the speech their brilliant child. AND... it's working. Parents are smart. I trust that they can make good decisions about what to do for their child, just as moms have been doing forever. Getting an Autism diagnosis and the ABA therapy recommended is not what most parents want, despite the propaganda that this sort of post projects.
@@WavesofCommunication Familiarity with Camarata and a particular appreciation for Jung don’t preclude me from recognizing gestalt learning is the inventive process necessitated by the absence of an attentive primary attachment figure. The capacity to think for oneself doesn’t need to pull a Bleuler. Believing you can put someone with a high IQ in their place by citing Jung and Camarata in reference to autism or giftedness rather than having taken some inspiration from Klein, Lacan, Dabrowski, Meltzer, or a good number of relevant others goes to that omnipotent delusionality a primarily neurotic individual would recognize the need to make some effort toward concealing. Psychopaths don’t care what others think of them except inasmuch as that may be instrumental to your pursuit of power sex or money. So non-recognition of reality tests presented by someone like me don’t prompt a narcissistic ego defense. Non-perturbation by the threat of punishment is the obvious result of having been punished harshly and unnecessarily, so I’m not saying something to you in a blaming or judging way about your condition…only your actions. Seems to me you imagined I had to go and gather the information in my “dissertation“ because that must be what you would’ve had to do, but you don’t have to recognize that it’s wrong in a very infantile omnipotent way for it to absolutely be so. I already know my place and understand exactly why you would like to decide differently for me.
My son's vocabulary is expending he is doing to be 4 year old . But still he won't initiate the conversation and only talk to me if he wants something. He is good in fine motor and gross motor activity but is not at all want to be social.
Hi Robert - You must have missed the part where I spoke about the FREE resources on The Waves of Communication website. Hopefully, you will learn that it is not necessary to get help from me or anyone else if you use the information here and learn to connect and facilitate language naturally yourself.
I'm literally crying watching this video. I have been to many professionals with my daughter. I've heard autism and severe cognitive delay. She only started speaking 6 month ago, at the age of 3y4m. She started reading at 3 years and a half, she can count to 1000 easily and is obsessed with Math, even and odd numbers, she's not even 4 yet. I thought I was crazy going against these professionals who unfortunately only scratch the surface of their areas. Now I know how to better foster my munchkin's unique skills. Thank you so much!!!
Thanks for your comment. I am happy to help you feel good about your child's abilities! Have you seen my videos about virtual autism? You also might want to consider visiting my website and subscribing to my newsletter. You could help your little one start to use more functional speech before the season is over. WavesofCommunication.com
I'm almost in tears... this is my 2 year old. He is EXCELLENT at communicating but refuses to talk with words.
Awww Brittani - Sending hugs! No worries! There is so much you can do to empower your little one to share his wisdom using functional spoken language. Look at the LIVE section on my channel to investigate all of the videos I have published, including a Virtual Autism workshop.
This sounds exactly like my 3 year old son.he understands everything n uses gestures to let us know any his needs n desires.he just speak few words.he loves puzzles loves colouring n is Vry emotional.thanks a lot mam.other you tube videos simply term late talkers as autistic n nothng else.
Thank you for your comment Madhuwanti. Language facilitation can help you find your child's speech quickly. It's working for parents all over the world. Please take a look at the free masterclass on my website WavesofCommunication.com to learn how you can use my platform for success.
This is exactly my son he is 2.5, he was basically a 3 year old by 1 he hit every milestone so early and he does his own sign language but he will hardly talk only sing. But he is amazingly smart and its crazy the things he can do and the stuff he figures out. He is so calm and has so much control over his emotions and behaviors and he is very maturue in the way he "plays". He prefers puzzles, crafts, matching, math, science, and reading over toy play or even playing with other kids his ages. I feel like i have an 8 year old but he isnt even 3.
My son 4.5 years old, same situation, we were told might be the signs of autism, but when I search the information I found both autism and Asperger are not match my son’s situation, it is hard to explain these to those experts, also cause our anxiety, until I saw this terms, Einstein syndrome, I know, it’s it!
@@cherrychen7582 call mary camarata she is the best . my son was the same they kept saying autism i knew it wasn't. she confirmed what we thought she's the best
@@Jf-vd1xd we’ve made a diagnosis in UK, however, a friend’s son has almost same situation (at least 90% same at every milestone) at the same age in USA, their doctor said it was not like autism… seems this is a very subjective question, not only person, but also country? Confused..
Thanks so much for this video. I am learning more about my son and how to help him. He will be 6 next month. Been reading and writing before 3yo. Loves to puzzles, building things, memorizing anything from product labels and descriptions to complete songs. He would sometimes even play some of his favorite tunes on the piano by ear. He has an ASD diagnosis but my gut tells me differently. This video is inspiring me to do more to help him achieve more in life. Thanks again!
Thanks for your feedback Jobe. There are tons of resources here on the WavesofCommunication.com platform. You might want to check out the workbook to create a plan for better speech this summer. www.amazon.com/11-Week-Language-Facilitation-Journey-Speech/dp/B09MJ3K798/
Really enjoying your videos. My 25 month old daughter has remarkable fine motor skills. Her drawings with pens and pencils and accurate and are similar to what a few 6-7 year olds I know can draw. She is very focused and has a long attention span. She has no other delays and is ahead in many other areas. I studied math and physics, my husband is a software engineer, so I am hopeful.
She speaks but has articulation issues. We’ve started therapy but the methods aren’t resonating with me. The therapist wants us to focus on only one-word phrases, basically the opposite of what you’ve suggested here. Will continue to peruse your resources, thank you!
Thanks for your comment Courtney. I'm happy you are finding the information helpful. Your daughter is really young to be motivated to fix her own speech with flash cards and single-word imitation. Perhaps the strategies in this video can help you. ua-cam.com/video/oNqxB9Ib4OY/v-deo.html
This is exactly like our son. He is 19months old and is extremely analytical and has amazing fine motor skills. He also has an incredible memory. We love books in our house. I can recite books and he will go find the matching book. He started this at 11 months old. He has only said a few words and not consistently.
Thanks for sharing! I hope the strategies on in my videos will help. The book has the whole process laid out too. Good luck!
Sounds like my 2.5 year old son 💙
It's like you just described my son! can you please update here, just to give the rest of us some hope in this late talking journey? Thank you!
Im so happy I came across this video. My son is 3 years old has says a few words, He was diagnosed at 18months with mild ASD but he is extremely analytical in his behaviors and actions and they way he processes information. He loves puzzles, things that spin and taking things apart and trying to pit them back together, and when he listen to music it looks like he’s counting rhythms with or beats with his fingers. He gets so into music and when ai watch him its almost like the sounds a painting pictures in the sky for him and he comes alive. He love when I sing his favorite songs and show him new instruments, he just wants to see what sounds they make. He’s memorized his way from everywhere we have gone after a few times. My husband and I joke all of the time about him knowing everything because we see it and no one else does. He’s in his own mind but completely aware of everything.
Thanks for your comment. There are many videos here to use your child's ABILITIES to facilitate the speech he needs to share his genius ideas with the world! Take a look at the playlists to see all of the options.
I have a 32 month old son that says some words, but babbles A LOT. Straight up has a full blown conversation in his own language and it literally sounds like a different language. He's extremely smart. Loves books, puzzles, his alphabet animals. He refuses to let me or anyone read a book, he takes it, flipped through the pages at his own speed. He has always loved books, but he has to hold it and change the pages. Only time I can read to him is at night when he is in bed. He will watch TV that SINGS the alphabet and colors. Unbelievable how intelligent he is, he just doesn't speak words. It's like learning how to talk plain English is holding him back, he has stuff to say and doesn't have time to learn how to properly say it. He's been babbling hard core since he was like 3 months old. I couldn't believe it.
It's true that some kids are late talking because they are thinking FASTER than others are talking. I can help you turn that babble into real conversation fast! Please check out my website program options you can book a free call with me to learn exactly how your family can turn frustration into conversation.
my 34 year old month is exactly like this! Especially with loving puzzles and wanting to read books himself. Loves music too and singing.
Did she help?
He sounds like my granbaby 😊
There are many strategies to help your child see the value in connected, accurate, speech through the activities of daily living. I suggest you shift from talking about books and expecting him to label and imitate your words to engaging in more story telling and functional speech about dressing, eating, cooking, and exploration outside of the home. You will never change his reading and video habits - teach something NEW.
This is my grandson, and he is a very special child. His parents have been concerned re his lack of speech, but I happened to fine out re Einstein's syndrome, and am encouraging them , and seeking to help them realize what their child is all about ! They have been afraid, that to take him anywhere, that he will be 'labeled', but I already have told them, what to expect from him , tho very briefly, as I am only beginning to learn about it, myself !
Hi Joy - Thank you for sharing about your grandson. It is often the grandmothers who can spot the HIGH energy of these brilliant kiddos. Awareness and REconnection in the physical world with FUNctional activities is what grounds down the energy into action that reflects in interpersonal communication using speech instead of intuition. Have you signed up for my FREE get started guide and newsletter? Please visit WavesofCommunication.com to explore how I help families like yours facilitate functional speech with brilliant late talkers.
This describes my 2.5 year old son he does not speak but he knows the alphabet and can do it backwards, he has a photographic memory and loves puzzles with a passion. He is a problem solver and is always finding different ways of doing things and playing with his toys. Sometimes I do feel like he ignores me and he communicates with actions and knows how to utilise me to get things done for him.
Thank you for this video it really opens up other possibilities either than autism for my son. We are currently taking speech therapy and occupational therapy. I’m hopeful and positive that he will speak to me one day.
Thank you for your comment. You will have a lot more success than therapy when you learn to use the wonderful things he knows to teach him everyday. Your current habits will encourage him silent to remain silent. You won't get speech unless you facilitate it every day at home.
@@WavesofCommunication that’s a good point thank you
@@lilianaa3065 Marcy is right. My 2.5 year old hasn’t been in therapy for four months. I pulled him after a year of no progress in expressive language. I’ve gotten some more expressive language out of him my narrating everything and the why behind it. He also brings me things throughout the day he thinks I need, and knows all the things needed to make a PB & J, and so much more. He was able to identify some shape today by picking them up. He also loved Yanni and will try to get the notes correct on the piano. It is so wild.
Thank you thank you thank you for doing what you do. My two boys, aged 5 and 7, are everything you’ve explained to the max. I was also an Einstein child as I did not begin talking until 5 years old. I did not have to work hard in school and excelled at math and science and now have 2 engineering degrees. My 5 year old hasn’t said any language and my 7 year old is beginning to now use language. But as you beautifully explained they are looking to solve their own problems!! My 7 year old assembles sophisticated mega block structures mimicking animals and his favorite cartoon characters. My 5 year old is on a similar path as his older brother. Their school is trying to label them autistic. I’ve always known that wasn’t the case and this video has given me an insight that I was not aware of, wow. It’s especially enlightening because of a whole new insight of myself when I was a toddler. Especially the egocentric part 😂😂😂. I will be following up with your tools. I can’t thank you enough. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Starting at 23:52 you described my toddler to the letter. She acts out and sings every show musical etc to the hills. She has a love for puzzles and is a late talker but Uber calculated and turns off when you don’t understand what she is conveying. She has literally her own world but so brilliant
I'm happy you have a better understanding of your child. Now you can work with her strengths to facilitate the spoken language she needs to share her wisdom with the world. I have many options for learning available on my website wavesofcommunication.com
You are describing my son so well is almost scary 😂 bless you for putting this life changing information out 💕
I'm glad it's helpful! There are so many kids like your son and parents who are in your situation too! Our community is full of parents who are seeing real success with language facilitation. I hope you will too!
This describes my four year old son. I kind of suspected there would be trouble when at 9 months old he pushed his toys to the baby gate and used his toys to climbed over. We tried greasing the baby gate so he wouldn't climb and he took a baby wipe and wiped off the gate and climbed over. By the age of three, he was adding a bunch of numbers in his head without writing them down or using his fingers. He's still not forming sentences of more than 3 words.
Your son seems super smart. If you are interested in turning all of that intelligent behavior into speech, please check out the resources on my website Wavesofcommunication.com
very interesting take on late talkers wow....i am experiencing this with my own son now this explains a lot!!! very very helpful eye opening information for me wow thanks a million ❤️👍
Glad it was helpful!
Yes! This describes my 6 yo so much. We have been following Marci for at least 3 yrs. My little guy loves to talk about any sort of vehicle, how they work and why, with a special interest in space exploration vehicles, rovers, rockets, shuttles, etc. He seems to also have “weak auditory processing” however and has struggled hard with beginning/ending consonants and articulation. I am beginning to wonder, though if he just “doesn’t have time” for this, because beginning consonants are much weaker than ending consonants. The initial language he spoke was largely vowels. His Kinder teacher noted also that he just wants to put a “hard” consonant ending on a word, not really caring if it’s a “d” or “t” or z vs s. Wondering more and more if this “weak auditory processing” is due to einstein syndrome
My child did 100 piece puzzles at four, 300 piece puzzles at 5. He could do puzzles 12 hours a day. He played computergames with adults online at 3 and started spelling at 2,5. It has been tough. He is now eight and still speaks when he ses fit. He never responds to therapists and ignores people who underestimate him. It is not easy.
Parents like you have been finding great success helping their super-smart late talkers shift into conversational, story-telling speech. I can help you find the same success. Please check out the programs on my website WavesofCommunication.com
You are describing my 2 year old granddaughter who was diagnosed with autism like you’ve met her. Thank you for this.
You would love my new natural facilitation support community! Please visit WavesofCommunication.com to learn how easy it is to help your granddaughter. Lots of grandparents find my platform through this problem. You will not be disappointed!
This is my 5 year old that is currently on a 4th to 5th grade level. I'm having such a hard time with him in school because he's so brilliant, the teachers have difficulty teaching on where his mind is. More needs to be done for these analytical kids.
I hope you are able to watch my video on DLD. ua-cam.com/users/liveE4c2M-1gZxg?si=mJ3sssKtDtfvcK2G
This could explain the connection that Dr Treffert made between hyperlexia type 3 children and late talkers.
The key is to connect with each child and learn their unique and often extraordinary perspective about the things that they are engaged with. Carl Jung also talks about how for some learners their high-level symbolic understanding of the world is "above" language.
Thank you for enlightening us! Very very useful content. I can relate much now! My almost 3y.o gabbie is very smart and good in shapes, numbers, letter, colors, fruits, planets, vegetables but is not very verbally communicative when it comes to his needs/and what to want to say...
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My child 6yrs old was a late talker but now he can answer which state is which just by looking at a blank map without even any lines he even knows the capital of each state. He can also multiply, add and subtract. Skip counting and Read. We sent him to therapy school back when he was 4yrs old after 5 months I notice there was not much improvement after I withdraw him from therapy now his doing much better.
that is amazing! You know what is best for your child, truly!
@@WavesofCommunication Only problem I Have with him now is his very socially awkward. His teachers will ask him questions that I know he knows the answer but he rejects to give it to them and also he doesn't like crowded places and being given attention by other people. Can you give me some tips to make him better at social interactions?
@@nbaburn3569 the resources on our website WavesofCommunication.com are designed to help parents facilitate all the spoken language (including social communication in multiple languages) that you are hoping for. Books, courses, and coaching options are available.
My 2 months long confusion finally solved today. My 2.6 years old girl fits all of your description... she manipulative and adaptive in situations and with different people. As a father Am so blessed to have an girl... she manipulating us to get whatever she wants... Her expressive language are behind but with astonishing memories and pattern recognition which sometimes amazed us. she differentiating age categories. she always exploring the world differently seems inquisitee.. she catch things instantly... The sad part is when we consulted a child development center they diagnosed autism but my gut feeling told that she is quite different from autistic gifted children's because the attachment and love she spent on me is remarkably unexplainable in words, she always reciprocates the smile with her familiar people. My family refutes about autism diagnosis.... When we consulted another psychologist she stated that she doesn't have autism by observed her behaviors. Even after the positive second opinion i was still confused of her strange behaviors until this video... This video is an eye opener... In fact she used me because 😇😇am the only person more than her mother who understand her needs.... 😇😇
I can help you facilitate the spoken language that your daughter needs to share her wisdom with the world. Please visit WavesofCommunication.com to learn about my training and coaching resources. 🙏
I just started working with kids and one of my students, runs around the class doing what she wants. I assumed she was behind until she had me in corner, little sis knew all her letters, colors, numbers, and others. My mouth dropped because she knew more than any other student. She is so bright but she is on her own time
Smart kids often become detached when people try to "teach" them the things that they already have mastered. If you present something more sophisticated or even functional to her life, this child will be your #1 student.
My son is 3.1 years old and he loves alphabets and numbers, he babbles all day in his own language but don't understand us. He loves to arrange things, climbing colorings and go out. But he doesn't understand us properly. He don't say words he just drag us or cry if he needs anything. Only words he says are English words we use often but our main language is Urdu. He is very different from other children of his age. Thanks merci you're doing great job
Thank you for sharing your situation. I will have some feedback for you in this week's Q&A session Thursday at 11:00 am Eastern. You can tune in live or watch the replay.
Amazing video, Marci! This makes a lot of sense!
Glad you think so!
This is alot like my daughter. She is 20months old. She doesn't have much worlds, but she has very good motor skill, great hand eye coordination, great with puzzles . She loves books. All day everyday. Its crazy from when she was 18months, she knows how to go into my phone, look for the UA-cam icon, click on it and watch coçomelon or cartoons.
Hi Nneka - You may want to check out the video I produced regarding tech use and autism diagnosis. It has many ideas regarding your situation.
@@WavesofCommunication hi. Pls link to the video pls
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Thank you for your information 🙏
My pleasure
Marvellous! Thank you!
Thank you for watching!
Thank you now I understand my daughter..God bless you ❤
Happy to help
Thank you for this . This description fits my daughter like a glove .
She is 2yr 4 months .
The only word she has repeated is "hooray" .
This is more of Elmo's doing than my own .
Her name is Lyana and her super power is construction and manipulating old people .
Hi Shane. It sounds like she is super-smart. Language facilitation is the way to go if you want to help her share her wisdom with the world and boss people around with her speech. Please check out my resources here on UA-cam or coaching programs at WavesofCommunication.com. I bet you can't wait to hear what's going on in that brilliant mind! Have fun with the process, talk to her like she's going to college, and once all of the blockages are eliminated, speech will come.
Being concise is difficult for responses as I am also dyslexic and am derailed without autocorrect. I'm 42, have this and could write several books on how I've managed to be a chameleon in so many fields. I rarely cried as a baby, just kind of grumped in a crib and people watched according to family. My first words were "Hunda Shiza", (sp?) when someone tracked dog poop in the house when I was 4. No one spoke German in my family, we're Oglala Lakota, Irish and Danish. I've never considered myself a genius, even at this age, but was tested throughout primary and secondary school. I tested with a really high IQ, but the numbers and testing processes weren't interesting or beneficial in any way. Really have to shorten this. Astrophysics, mechanics, dynamics, and general relativity were fairly common knowledge by 3rd grade. Paleontology, meteorology, geology, cosmology, it was all just an afternoon study really. I still despise sitcoms, comedy shows, movies anything that isn't factual frustrates me.
I had a job in aerospace design and another in industrial mechanical engineering that fit me well and I had fun, but learned contracts are not full time or promised wages in a given number of years. I made clocks and calendars for the moon, Mars, Jupiter and started on Saturn but I am not in a position to agree with the current calculations we have on its orbit or any body past Saturn.
Now I work for a D&D based live action game that mostly keeps me occupied on my interests but the language barrier has always been an issue the 12 years I've been planning and making things for huge game conventions and such.
Something you didn't touch on was the insomnia. For the 38 ish years I can recall most conversations or numbers, images, sounds, smells, the only things I forget are repetitive cycles in planning. Let's say I planned for 50 events, my recall on numbers per pallet used to be spot on. In the last 5 years, I've noticed a decline in photographic recall but still remember everything from before then. This makes me lose sleep.
Related, is my PTSD, having a full sensory range of several tragic events and reliving them. I work even harder and pull more hours to move along, but this is something kids with this are going to struggle with and you can't really replace this input with therapy. If we experience it, it's with us for life. I remember the smells of the Reservation 40 years ago, but nothing else. We're observers, I don't consider myself smart, but you are spot on that we need continuous learning. I was taking college level physics classes in the 3rd grade for fun and making really low grades in other studies. Graduated 2 years early in high school by testing out because I was advanced and the kids in my class complained because I would almost never talk.
I don't know if this is useful data for you but I am happy to share more. I'm just learning how to be open and "chatty".
Thank you so much for your detailed explanation of your journey through life as a highly intelligent human! Sending you my best wishes and gratitude for your support.
Hello, I think my son has Einstein syndrome, he loves music, and puzzles when he learns he seems that he is thinking about it
That's great! You can use these fab skills to help your child learn to use speech to share all of his wisdom with the world. Please take a look at the free class on my website WavesofCommunication.com to learn the strategies and process that has worked for parents worldwide. Now that you understand your child better, you can find your super-smart kiddo's speech fast.
My son is 3 now but at 2 he was using the computer without help to complete his ABC mouse program and gets the answers correct. He can add numbers and counted up to 200 before turning 3. He knew all his letters and letter sounds at 2. He cooks and makes sandwiches without help. I’m not saying this to brag but he’s not really talking much but he knows big words. He was able to identify all construction trucks like backhoe, excavator, front loader at 2. I didn’t know myself and had to look it up. Some ppl believe he is autistic but I think after watching this he has Einstein Syndrome.
Thank you for the tips I will apply them.
Also he memorizes entire books and is fascinated by the barcode so we showed him how to scan groceries at the self checkout 😂😂😂
Your son sounds amazing. Natural Language Facilitation will be such a help to motivate him to share all of that knowledge!
I wish I could get more clarity on if my son is autistic or gifted/Einstein syndrome. At 17 months he knew the difference between an oval and a circle. At 18 months he knew the whole alphabet. He is now 2.5yo and he can count to 100 and counts backwards from 30. He is obsessed with shapes and numbers and knows the difference between a pentagon, hexagon, and octagon. He was doing 4 year old puzzles at 2. I wish there was more of a diagnosis on Einstein syndrome.
My advice is to focus on your child's abilities and use them to facilitate the speech and behavior you are looking for. There are many strategies available to you on this channel and the website to help you. Please visit WavesofCommunication.com and view the introductory class there to learn what is really going on and what parents around the world are doing to find speech. I promise, those who are finding success are not spending time looking for a diagnosis. They are taking action themselves.
My 3 year old already know numbers until 100 in English and Spanish, after that we just told him 101, 102, and he is going on by himself. He learned the alphabet at 2. And now he is playing piano. But he is also great in sports and has very good motor skills. That’s why is hard to see him in the Autistic spectrum.
What's most important is how you are facilitating his improvement. If you see consistent growth in functional areas that you know are important like spoken language, than keep on teaching via numbers or whatever he loves (it will change)! If you want guidance to help with that, visit WavesofCommunication.com
The weird thing about this video is how you seemed to not only describe my 3yo but also my husband back when he was our sons age xD!
These explanations are great, thank you! I especially love the part where you name it as a superpower instead of looking at it as something bad. I do feel like people easily look down on these kids that don't use spoken language yet. Mine is GREAT with non verbal language which we try to expand and he picks up very quickly (have considered using sign). I also used your tip on just telling him more things about what's he's doing and explaining things, he really enjoys it and is using more and more words unconsciously.
Thanks for your comment. I am sure BOTH your child and your husband appreciate you helping to bring spoken language into their awareness and facilitate the conversation that will help everyone share their wisdom (and superpowers) with the world. Please consider sharing this video with anyone you believe can benefit. There are tons of strategies on my channel to help parents with late talkers facilitate rapid speech improvement.
1:30 what was that noise? 😂 It scared me because I am wearing headphones. Great video
This video could be about my son. He is 3 1/2 and is so far advanced. Thank you for thos bideo on how to help a child woth potential Einstein syndrome.
Are their any resources on how to potty train these types of children
Thank you for your comment. There is one potty training video on my channel. Search on the main page to find it! I also have a FREE get started guide and weekly newsletter now. You can explore that at WavesofCommunication.com
Interesting.... My boy just turned 4 three days ago. He knows the alphabet perfectly, normal (since 2) and cursive (recently). He can recognise simple words and can count up to and recognise numbers up to 4 digits. He can count in powers of ten up to 100 Octillion (he remembers million, billion, trillion, etc). He knows his 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10 times tables up to 100+. Even simple arithmatic... But...
When I ask him a question he often just repeats the question.
When he wants something he says "Do you want a coke?", like what I would say. Then when I tell him to "look at me... look in my eyes and say", "How do you ask?", he'll say eventually look at me and say "Please can I have some coke" or whatever.
He doesn't comprehend things like other kids. E.g. "What is the girl doing?" ... I don't think he even knows what a girl is...
He doesn't ask questions without being prompted. And I think when he does he's just doing it because thats what he's remembered he's supposed to say...
He's very friendly and personable but doesn't really engage with other kids or have a great level of interaction/interest for his age. Or at least he's very selective when he does it. Other kids will say "Your dad's here!!" when I go and pick him up but I don't think he even knows their names or who their dads are. Or doesn't care... He's seems extremely smart, always building things and can sit for hours alone just connecting magnet blocks into e;aborate sculptures.
I really just wonder if theres anything I should or could do to help him where he's weak... Or if it's just gonna change one day. I have the feeling it will but don't wanna miss out doing something if I can.
Interested if anyone has had a similar experience.
Tune in to my coaching session on August 11, 2022 and I'll use your son as a case study to show how this happens and what you can do to help your child.
My son is also 4 years, he write very well, read very well, I don't even know if he knows what is writing, he write the name of all members of the family , read them, but when you tell him , go and call your brother, he won't react. I'm really confused
@@N3Cr0Ph0b1A Hi, you described our 4 years old boy. After two years from your first comment can you please update the latest situation please. I hope you and your child will live a happy and healthy life.
@@EvrenAkbulut Hello. So yes, he's just turned 6 and things have definately progressed for the better. He's also been diagnosed with autism officially in the intervening time. He's in prep now and although he's obviously a bit different and needs additional help with staying on task he's definately improving all the time. Acedemically he's above average and still leaps above in maths If you can get him in the right head space to concentrate. I found he varies a lot on different days based on . Being exposed to the other kids in prep also helps put things in perspective for me; a lot of what you might think is an 'autism' thing is often times just the foibles of little humans. Especially the boys. The girls in his class seem to have it together much better at this age. Although, he's still definately different. That said it's not actually all that bad. The other kids in his class are all amazing (at this age) and the girls especially are nice to him and mother him a bit. Outside of class and high focus areas he's perfectly normal. We can go to the shops or out to a restaurant and you wouldn't tell anything at all unless your trying to directly engage him in a conversation, although that is much better. We can communicate perfectly fine and he understands almost everything now. But we're just used to him not responding to everything like we would expect.
It seems to just be worse in high stress noisy and active environments but day to day he's able to do a lot of what you'd hope. Getting dressed and undressed, toilet, eating properly, shoes, etc.
So all good. I feel as he's getting older he's able to overcome a lot of his issues. Things don't really bother him anymore. That said I do spend a LOT of time working on it with him. Biggest thing now is working on trying to get him to notice and acknowledge people when he enters a room. It often seems like he just doesn't see people at all. Just things. If anything, at least he'll make a good engineer... 😬
Oh and reading is very good. In line with his good pattern recognition that's always been there. His writing not so obviously good, maybe average or a little below. But improving and won't be an issue long term.
I hope this still describes your boy still in 2 years 😉👍
On 23 Minutes you said you put up a video how to get to kids who are in their own head. I can’t find the video :(
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My 4 years old son is not talking yet but he he learned when he was almost 3 years the whole alphabet and regocnizes every single letter in english and in arabic, at that age he also learned to count to 100 in English. Now he is 4 years old and a short time ago he started wachting videos of country flags and he learned so fast al the flags en regocnizes every single. Does he has a high IQ if he is able the learn all these things in a short period of time? I hope someone can answer my quastion.
Hi Marina - Please accept this guidance with my best wishes. You will never get an accurate picture of your child's abilities through a comment on a UA-cam video. I can help you understand what is really causing your child to show the behaviors you are concerned about as well as know what to do to find the behavior and speech you are looking for. The question is, are you ready to make the investment to learn what you need to do and are you willing to make the changes you need to help your child. The answers all within you. When you are ready to learn, please visit WavesofCommunication.com to watch the free class and learn what it takes to get real results.
How is your son doing now?
Best of luck for him
I am interested to know, what the parents of these remarkable children are like ....what is their intelligence level, etc ?
Hi Joy - Many of these kids have parents who themselves spend a lot of time in their minds. Creatives, intellectuals, problem-solvers, and influencers often have late talkers who also learn to survive and thrive inside of their minds where they use their unique processing skills to make sense of the confusing and often traumatic world around them. This idea of "in my own mind it's better" can result in detachment parenting. Does that make sense?
Behind every child’s speech problem is a broken connection with his/her parents, who are the only language facilitators capable of transferring their own communication skills to their child. Marci has shared many interesting points in this video;-) I especially liked how she suggested that the parents should talk about the process. This is exactly how I teach my students who stutter: I explain to them the process of proper speech production. The moment they understand and begin to follow this process precisely, they INSTANTLY produce a 100% accurate speech:-) And they fall in love with their speaking;-)
Thanks for your support Anna!
True every parent should give the time and speak with their children
Ma'am why am I dumb then ?😂 i'm a late talkrr and even when I started to talk it sounded like a completely different language (from my parents).
The only thing I'm good at is being anxious😂
I hope you are joking! Smart late talkers who grow into thoughtful adults like you use the same strategies as you did when you were a kid. It's all about figuring out how to navigate the world full of impatience and judgment, do your best to share what you know, and manage your anxiety when that is not good enough for other people. Late talkers all eventually learn through their own trials, errors, and self-generated successes (despite struggling with speech) that the solution to your anxiety lies within your mindset.
is there any material about it in portuguese? I'm brazilian.
Sorry Simone, I only speak English. You will need to find someone to help you translate.
My grandson's mom told me that she thinks he has such low IQ that he is not capable of even learning sign language. He started choosing a video recorded by a rock musician (he loves Music ] where the man sang the alphabet while signing the letters. My grandson wanted to watch it several times a day. I thought that because he was just two years old, that he could not learn to sing the song. Children three and four learn songs when they are sung very slowly, and then can start singing it at normal speed. I noticed my grandson practicing the signs for the letters of the alphabet during his other play time. Then, one day, he made one of the signs during the song to the beat of the song. His Mom and ABA workers believe that my grandson cant imitate someone trying to teach him something, so part of their therapy has been to try to get my grandson to imitate them by prompting him. Then, just the other day, my grandson was watching the song again, and I saw him make the signs for the alphabet letters for not one but 6 letters...to the fast beat of the song.. He likes that he can use his fingers as another way of experiencing the letters of the alphabet. Dont worry, Marci, he is so proud of his successes that he is being more and more verbal every day too. I am convinced that he has Einstein syndrome because I cant imagine an average child teaching himself to move his hands to the fast beat at age 2. Thank you for reminding me to go with his interests and speak more elaborately to him. Now he turns the jazz demos on on my electric digital synthesizer and has me turn the wheels on the bus video sound OFF because he already knows the words, and turns to me and listens as I expand upon what he is seeing and giving him the words he might want to say about what he sees too. He is showing me that he wants to know more and have the words to share his experience too. THE MUSIC IN THE VIDEO INSPIRED HIM TO LEARN A LOT but he wants to talk too and is speaking when something excites him. (He likes going out in his stroller to the playground best of all because we find things that begin with a certain letter of the alphabet.
It sounds like you have found the language facilitation zone Grandma Bea! It's wise to stay in your own lane and focus on your connection instead of what other people are doing (or not). Keep up YOUR good work and fill in the story telling and detailed explanations for whatever the 'prompters' are leaving out. Your little Einstein will soon start to show everybody how much he has learned through your examples.
Does it mean that mild ASD and eintein syndrome are same???
If you are looking at symptoms alone, you can see how many children with Einstein Syndrome are receiving ASD diagnosis. According to those who give the diagnosis based on the criteria in this video, the child does have ASD. There is no formal 'healthcare' diagnostic criteria for Einstein Syndrome. The term was coined by a professor of economics who saw the patterns of behavior and communication in super-smart kids. Healthcare professionals intend to unlock access to schools, insurance payments, or grant funding for therapy services, so they give the ASD label to to the family for that purpose.
@@WavesofCommunication Thank u for responding
My son is 23 months old
Very energetic, loves to climb and move
Great in shapes and puzzles
Makes eye contact and play with us,
Comfortable with change in environment and enjoys new things
He knows animals, fruits, vegetables and responds to our commands
He has good understanding but doesn’t speak
He is having speech delay and doctors told us that he is having ASD
I am not very convinced actually
@@AbhishekGupta-po5tl If what you explain is true about your late talker, then the diagnosis doesn't matter. You can facilitate the spoken language you are looking for yourself with language facilitation. Have you seen the free class on my website? That's the best place to start. WavesofCommunication.com
@@AbhishekGupta-po5tl have you check Marci's video about red flags unmasked about Autism? You need to check it out using the search button
Hello there I have watched many of your videos about late talking as my son who is two and a half years old only says about 5 words they are clear but he will go a couple months with out speaking maybe one of any it’s more of him trying to mumble what you are saying like he is practicing or trying to say what you are saying but in his own way I have videos of him walking early and saying words on time even holding his head up the day he was born he is very affectionate and makes eye contact if you say close the door he will if you say fix the rug he will, he loves watching a cartoon show called blaze and the monster machines we would play it for him when he would eat and one day he started crying me figuring he was probably wanting down or didn’t like the show didn’t think anything of it every day he started crying when he was watching blaze my husband is the one who fingered it out he was crying when the show was about to go off by the ending song not playing long enough he knew if the song played longer it was coming back on now it doesn’t matter what episode he is watching he has memorized the episodes and knows when they where going off. That’s not all we found out very early he was good with directions even in a lay down car seat he would know when my daughter was about to be dropped off at school by the tops of the building before we even pulled into the school also loves to shut and open the doors but by looking up at the top of the door and seeing the space get smaller has never liked toys loves music it’s very fascinating and a miracle that I stumbled across your page back when my son was smaller as know one was talking about to Einstein syndrome or as you say benefit 😌🙌🏼☝🏼 and I just knew he wasn’t autistic or had any other diagnosis he didn’t have the same characteristics as the autistic children showed and although at his 18 month check up I was given a sheet to show the milestones that my son had completed or is doing and they only thing he didn’t meet was the amount of words they should be speaking at that age really upset me because i knew what my son was capable of and what he was doing just not in spoken words my mother also bought the book Einstein syndrome and late talking children about a month or so ago and the children in there are like my son they show some of the characteristics he shows I wish I had someone to screen him for Einstein syndrome. He also bangs his head sometimes and holds stuff like empty bottles or straws up to the light , tv or in front of something to see through it that I’ve never seen any other child do. I also have a daughter who did not talk until she was 3 years old well more then 5 words as well but we put her in preschool and her teacher told me she was not up to where she should be according to the other children but I knew she was different because a couple weeks before preschool I was reading a book to her every night she read the book back to me one night or so I thought I was shocked 😳 how could she do this without really talking at all and definitely not sentences I was so amazed I flipped the page pointed at a word and asked her to tell me the word she couldn’t I started from the front page she read they words just fine she thought well how can this be she memorized the book front to back i definitely think she has Einstein syndrome as well she is a honor roll student has had two bs since starting school so I would love your input , anything advice you can give me to help teach my son to talk I had so many dreams of him speaking and singing I know it’s coming he has a big calling on his life In just impatient so from a ready momma please ❤️
Heather I help parents find speech in weeks in my parent coaching program. You can learn to facilitate the best spoken language for both of your kids for life in my program for a fraction of the cost of therapy. Watch the free class and book a call with me. The information is all on my website WavesofCommunication.com
@@WavesofCommunication Oh thank you sooooo much!!!! I will definitely do!!
How is your son doing so far?
🤞 best of luck
Why would a child with the capacity to formulate manipulative intent have to resort to pattern-seeking? That WOULD indeed be a "superpower"🙄, the fantasies of which emerge in normally developing children's creative play. Having not outgrown childish fantasies that mischaracterize abilities in supernatural terms is a (projectively misidentified) fixed delusion of reference.
The reason overdeveloped creative intelligence (relative to deficiencies in other areas) is so necessary to psychopathy and schizophrenia (psychopaths often have difficulty distinguishing between fantasy and reality as a consequence of habituated dissociation from your abusive pasts, and isn't art therapy for institutionalized schizophrenics so common that the image of involuntarily committed patients on hospital lawns with easels is clicheted) is because that's exactly what a predisposition to psychosis needs too much of (uncontextualized by effective reality testing due to your deficiencies in other areas). There's no giftedness without autism but with early treatment there's autism without giftedness. Think not?
Undiagnosed/untreated hyperlexic late talkers abandon our echolalia when we teach ourselves to read because duh echolalia is the perseveration of failed attempts to flatter a neglectful mother into linguistic "mirroring". It is her failure to make room for our needs and teach us emotional fluency via early mirroring which does not prompt the neuronal pruning characteristic of effective early socialization.
It's useful to you to think of giftedness as somehow exclusionary for autism because presumably you're in the business of selling pediatric IQ tests (the only ones which commonly score beyond two standard deviations from the mean) to the very parents who are the grifted kids racket's constituent child-exploiting market. Counterintuitively IQ tests quantify the norm to identify the exceptions. So anyone with an IQ over 130 who doesn't realize that after about 135 the distribution is too sparse to justify pursuing less reliable scores has been groomed by the conditional approval of their abusive parents to look past the very obvious implications inherent to dissatisfaction with a score of 130+ (which is also clearly less organic to themselves than would likelier be embarrassment to even pursue much less brag about scores they can only even get by resorting to some sketchy instrument. The irrationality that comes out when their brainwashing does the talking is a demonstrative consequence of autistic ego development postponement evolutionarily adaptive purpose (indicates they're still under that parent's thumb).
IQ scores are no more the province of actual smart people than a need for dishonesty or cheating. All that shit arises from incompetence having something to prove. Autism's prepsychotic so even though I know kids will be whatever their parents need them to be in order to survive I don't have a lot of patience or tolerance for adults whose own egodefensive psychotic developmental fixations specifically direct that predation at those of us who' only survived our parents' bulldozer egos at the price of leaving our own undefended. It wouldn't be a shot in the dark (at surviving them long enough to escape and raise ourselves) though without the chances for developing a personality disorder in response to a very deep betrayal by one such as yourself.
Yes I know psychiatry says there's no such thing as an adult onset PD, but psychiatry is the discipline which elaborated autism as developmental delay so it's self-contradictory. And it also ignores the mechanism of transmission from autistic mother to child being a consequence of developmental incapacity to fathom the consequence of pregnancy when securing their own futures at the expense of unborn children women with a "genetic" disability of unpredictable severity don't have any business babytrapping their fathers with. Because of the autistic alexithymia with which our own maternal neglect has left us, postpartum psychosis goes untreated in ASD. Pretty clear BPD is the inevitable sequela of that particular disease course. Psychiatry also misdiagnoses us with early-onset dementia despite the fact that without the capacity to live two or three lifetimes it's doubtful we can even get dementia per se. But failure to differentiate autistic catatonia by simple lorazepam challenge (a product of professional idiocy that somehow imagines most autism gets diagnosed) is sure to reinforce the misdiagnosis of dementia upon treatment with antipsychotics (which are life-threateningly contraindicated in catatonia). So your charlatanry being in very good company with their quackery doesn't change the fact that the strongest evidence for Cluster-B mothering being autism's etiology has always been the absence of more than feigned concern they may have accidentally caused it. Very much like the absence of concern for the harm they inflicted by blaming it on vaccines. So maybe the only reason busily manipulating everyone who'll allow you to with such bogus nonsense is not seen as discrediting in this crowd is because these are the kind of mothers who can't remember any better than you can that babies don't manipulate anyone
Thanks for your comment and the time you spent gathering all of this information. Here's my response: Gestalt language learners resort to patterns in the attempt to develop a language when they don't have the spoken language models they need. You forgot to investigate Carl Jung or Stephen Camarata when you wrote this dissertation. Anyone is welcome to challenge any of the concepts I share here. However, As you can see in the comments, the parents I am speaking to are resonating with this message. They ARE accepting this concept as a premise to motivate them to engage and facilitate the speech their brilliant child. AND... it's working. Parents are smart. I trust that they can make good decisions about what to do for their child, just as moms have been doing forever. Getting an Autism diagnosis and the ABA therapy recommended is not what most parents want, despite the propaganda that this sort of post projects.
@@WavesofCommunication Familiarity with Camarata and a particular appreciation for Jung don’t preclude me from recognizing gestalt learning is the inventive process necessitated by the absence of an attentive primary attachment figure. The capacity to think for oneself doesn’t need to pull a Bleuler. Believing you can put someone with a high IQ in their place by citing Jung and Camarata in reference to autism or giftedness rather than having taken some inspiration from Klein, Lacan, Dabrowski, Meltzer, or a good number of relevant others goes to that omnipotent delusionality a primarily neurotic individual would recognize the need to make some effort toward concealing. Psychopaths don’t care what others think of them except inasmuch as that may be instrumental to your pursuit of power sex or money. So non-recognition of reality tests presented by someone like me don’t prompt a narcissistic ego defense.
Non-perturbation by the threat of punishment is the obvious result of having been punished harshly and unnecessarily, so I’m not saying something to you in a blaming or judging way about your condition…only your actions. Seems to me you imagined I had to go and gather the information in my “dissertation“ because that must be what you would’ve had to do, but you don’t have to recognize that it’s wrong in a very infantile omnipotent way for it to absolutely be so. I already know my place and understand exactly why you would like to decide differently for me.
@@Zarathustran You go on recognizing with your high IQ! Thanks again for your time.
This seems like my daughter quite a bit.
My son's vocabulary is expending he is doing to be 4 year old . But still he won't initiate the conversation and only talk to me if he wants something. He is good in fine motor and gross motor activity but is not at all want to be social.
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You only charge $2500..... Why not help people instead of trying to make such a profit....
Hi Robert - You must have missed the part where I spoke about the FREE resources on The Waves of Communication website. Hopefully, you will learn that it is not necessary to get help from me or anyone else if you use the information here and learn to connect and facilitate language naturally yourself.