This stuff may work for A man that had his mama "mother" him. Ideally alot of BLACK or Hispanic man DONT like to cuddle. They call women like this that u describe as "CLINGY " and they HATE it. They actually cheat on women that do these things. These men would call her desperate for attention and to CLINGY and they will rip a woman to pieces and break her heart. They walk all over a woman like this. May be u should atart off with describing THE TYPE of man that wants these things. Bc a man that has been neglected by his mama, abused or mistreated, will NOT want this. Or appreciate this. This actually sounds like this is stuff a woman wants.
If this seems exhausting, you haven't found the right man. You will want to do all of these things if your guy is just completely amazing and worthy of this treatment. Just don't waste time on men who are really not that great. Find GREATNESS.
@@upgrade1015No most men don’t, a woman will give to her detriment and death, and he will take her for granted and literally suck the life out of her , most women are nurtures and don’t mind making their men happy , but a lot of don’t appreciate it and take advantage of that!
I do all these things and always have, but if it’s not the right guy, if he is unhealed and is toxic in how he approaches a relationship, it’s not going to be appreciated and you will be taken for granted. This is what I hear “you’re too good to be true” “you’re out of my league” “I don’t deserve you”….so they run out of fear b/c ultimately they feel like it’s safer to leave first than to be left. They fear rejection due to self-worth issues and insecurities. What happens is they only realize what they had when they lose it and it’s gone. When a woman who exhibits these traits is gone and they try to move on with other people, they start to realize what they truly had with this special woman was unique bc no one else is able to give them the kind of love and care they had when they were with this special woman. Then they try to come back, but most of the time it’s too late. I’ve had countless men try to return again and again, trying for many years, but I was done and it was too late. Moral: appreciate a good woman who has these traits and show her how much you love her every day. Don’t ever let her go, bc a woman like this is not desperate. She knows her worth, knows what she deserves, and she is not afraid to walk away if she is being treated poorly, if someone is playing games with her, and is choosing others over her.
I hear you Angel..you are soooo right. Im 9 mnths in relationship with a man who gets ALL of this from me...I feel Im just getting the crumbs from his table..he says " no matter what happens you ll do just fine"...." you re so warm and wonderful, any man would be lucky to have you"...Yada Yada Yada..Im thinking of ending it..stepping away..hes just doesnt make me feel special ....👎
@viviennethorpe1035 When they talk like that, they don't see themselves with us! A guy told me something like that in a sweet romantic letter, but he didn't say I would make HIS perfect wife! Pay attention to what they say & how they say it!! Because otherwise we're just hoping for something that won't happen! Not right then anyway!
Exactly my situation with my recent ex & every other guy! I don't want him anymore because he didn't appreciate me when he had me! Nor when I was sticking around for almost 2 years!!
TRUE!!! This MAN doesn't realize that there are alot of men that HATE this type of woman and will abuse her and hurt her!!! This video is dangerous for women!
This should be a list for both humans to do withing one relationship. This is not what makes tbe man chase, this is repect, love and showing that you care about the relationship. Those are basis and then you can build on this.
There is this man called HG Tudor who is very authoritive on Narcissistic cementation and of course Narcs would love this throw in a good bit of empathy and you will be ensnared.
I noticed that everything you said is what I want in the man I'm with. My guy does everything he shouldn't do. It's like guys want woman to do all the things you said for them but they don't do any of them for us women
Regardless, that does not mean he chooses you. If his goal is to enjoy life without commitments and experience different women, most likely he will follow his own plan despite your characteristics or behavior .
Cuddling and intimacy in front of family is probably uncomfortable for her for a lot of personal reasons. You should have asked her instead of judging her. My family loves to shame and judge PDA is extremely difficult for me in front of my family
Did all of these things- as this is who I am - without knowing or trying to keep him- he still just ghosted me despite us having SO much in common and the same sense of humour. I think his life must be a lot poorer without me!!
Men need more than just having stuff in common. We have friends for that. If you want more, you need to venture more. Sorry, but a pretty face isn't enough for you to leapfrog out of the "just casual" stage
Don't let that narc win. You are worth more than that. Don't play into that game. Been there done that. Not all men are like that. Keep boundaries, check out some of the podcasts that talk about identifying narcissistic men. You deserve a beautiful, wonderful relationship.
I am this way naturally. But, I always get neglected, cheated on, and dumped for wlnen who are extremely toxic. Then, these women end up dumping the man. Only after treating me like crap, and after leaving for her, and her trashing him, he suddenly realizes his mistake and wants me. But, by this point, they had disrespected me so badlt that I no longer want them. Then, these men will want me seemingly FOREVER. I can go without seeing them for 10, 15, 20, 25 years, and they will tell me tgat I'm the one that got away, losing me was their biggest mistake, and I am unforgettable. They will beg to be with me. They will cry over me. Theg will chase after me. But, whh couldn't they just treat me nicelg when we were together?
Number 12 is tricky because I can´t take care more than fibromyalgia allows me to do. Sometimes I like to be totally painless and then I drink some alcohol. = Mental health for me and my friends.
Ps been through severely betrayed and heart broken. GOD helped me through ended up married to a much better man. Was with my Dear Husband many years until he left this world to be with JESUS. I call the first guy what's his name HA. My mother told me honey your hurt now but in a year you won't remember his name.(Thus "what's his name")Hold on to GOD he can help you when nobody can. Much love and a prayer.❤🎉❤
I gave it all to a man. We really vibe together. A day after our date he suddenly says he sees me as a friend because he values our connection. I told him that I hope he feels romantically attracted one day to a woman that sees him like I do: as the beautiful soul he is and the amazing man he is (which is true, he is). He somehow wants to have a spark of chemistry on a first date and I told him, I am not this kind of person. So I moved on. I rather want someone whom is worthy of all my love and time. All of these types I do naturally. But I deserve someone does that to me too.
I believe these things come naturally if you care about the person you are with. If it's phoney it's a game and you are not really caring about the person.
You DONT want a man to “desperately chase” you. The opposite of ghosting does NOT mean chasing. Someone chasing you, is a red flag. It gets worse. Run. Look for normal ladies, not ghosting, emotional unavailability nor chasing. Look for NORMAL. Why are influencers encouraging women to want being “chased”???
Ding ding ding. The only men that enjoy "the chase" are predators. Playing hard to get only drives away men who will be respectful and issues an open challenge to the fuck boys you hate so much
Listennnnnnnn...as a older woman...no, not happening. Not interested. It either connects or not...nothing is needed. Do not need you to chase me...Please!
I really like the values you represent in creating the possibilities for a loving relationship…. However - I took your quiz and results are anything but free…. Still - your videos refresh the important elements within each of us as individuals and how to be or become a partner for life.
I feel it takes the right person. I feel a woman can do any and all of the things he said in the video but if you are messing around with the wrong guys then none of this will ever work. It only works with Mr. Right. Mr. Wrong will never appreciate these kinds of things.
This is a healthy attitude to take. I, as a man, absolutely despise chasing. And I definitely don't want a woman that's servile to the point of "blind loyalty". I find that sort of relationship dynamic repulsive. I think women should see being good at flirting as a red flag. Flirting is not a fun character trait, it's a skill that you only get better at through practice. And trust me, the only men practicing that skill are fuckboys
Wow, what is SO interesting about this list........I am naturally all of these things whenever me and my divine masculine have been together. Every one of them. I've naturally been all of them with him without even doing it consciously or because I heard about these things and was purposely implementing them. Yet, I can say that with all of my ex's...... I was not most of these things or even the ones that I was I don't think I was that way all of the time.
@@eleonoraivanova-kd2zbyeah, no. Sex is an important part of a relationship. I feel sexual attraction looooooong before i feel romantic attraction. This attitude is just going to get you more aggressive fuckboys
That's because this is shitty advice. Don't go for men who are good at chasing and flirting. You only get good at those things by practicing them, so do you think a good flirt is more likely to be a good guy or a fuckboy?
Hi Brody, thanks for the video, very interesting. What do you think is a good way to bring up criticism with your guy? I usually refrain from that bc i don’t like it…but what you said about hitting the „reset“ button I noticed really bothered me, bc my ex would keep asking me that. He had a severe lack of self-reflection though, you may call it narcissistic. He wouldn’t recognize his own behavior as problematic even if it war truly abusive, so I kept trying to convey… In other words, if I’m expected to hit a reset button about things that are still bothering me - how is that supposed to work well?
@ primavera558 Take a video of his behaviour and show it to a minister an abuse counselor and anpoloce officer and get their comments on it? Video their comments? Show to ur doctor too. Then ask mate do u want to 1. Turn urself in to police as abuser or 2. Get reg counseling with checkups fr these people...n sign him up
I better not make comments right about my person except that i am so ready to get to know him better. I like that idea of setting a reset button. Someone must be doing that to me now. I have already wrote 3 or 4 comments that slipped away from me. I am feeling love ❤sick. Dear Lord, I thank you for all you do for me. I am following your advice now. I am letting go of all my worries and hoping you can help me by sending me healing, knowledge, energy, creativity, tenacity, wisdom, harmony, magic, blessings, intuition, positivity, humor, compassion, shapeshifting, and more times 10.
All of these things should come naturally if you love your other half you body thoughts naturally find their own way around each other’s bodies don’t need guidances from an outsider no offence intended I know I can do a great job on my own thank you keep up your good work ❤
My heart does that but once the do’s attracted narcissists. I calmed them down So women read and study the behaviors of narcissists who once dated you so that you never fall in trap again. A true man who loves you will eventually cone. I now have the prettiest man, all you have to do is first go slow on him and read the other past experiences if he isn’t a narcissist. Then go further. I went slow on him until he has showed his prettiness 😊
This may sound kinda crass or too blunt but things I’ve learned about keeping and attracting a man is 1- fill up his stomach 2- empty his balls 3 fill up his heart with gentle love 4 empty my pride 😊
All things a woman wants. I wonder how many men, percentage wise, work on personal growth, and relationships. I'm guessing less than 30%. Soo many men have the 'take me as I am' attitude. 🚩
Blimey! Spinster alert, I'm bloody exhausted just listening to this list. Listen chaps make me a great cuppa that looks & tastes like treacle. You - name within reason. If I'm your brown eyed girl. I've got your back & front. "Let's make a rendezvous", Basement Jaxx 💞May 14, 2024
So his mood is off and then you ask if he's okay and he says yes. And then you suggest something you can understand he might be upset about and he denies it and everything is fine until he breaks up with you and then he dumps out a pile of things he misunderstood and got offended over that weren't true if he would have talked and gotten context around your actions. Is there any action besides Badgering him to death to try and understand what else was going on that he didn't talk about Because that Reaction definitely does not work LOL 4 years and he's long gone long gone. I told him it won't work out With anyone else either if he can't explain when he's unhappy. He says he was abused. But never said one more 4 years. These talks about narcissism fail to mention the intention of the person being manipulation for self Gain. Men get confused and Throw up the narcissism flag Without Considering motive. I wish online coaches would be more careful.
This is great. As you spoke, o reflected and realize that I am in a good relationship. I'm divorced as he is. We've been together for 11months . Both divorced 8 years. And ❤️ I don't know if we want to get married. I am successful and so is he. I'm good with being at his house and vise versa. We're apart 2 nights out of 7. Kinda funny but it works. No rush. Will see...lol. we are exclusively in a committed relationship. Talk all the time. Every day. See each other 5 days in and out of the weekdays.and weekends. He rest at his house and I let my hair down at mine. It's a good thing. I'm in no rush. We're both 60. Above average incomes.
Sorry Sir...I got a selfish n arrogant man ...those things u mentioned makes him think I am clingy ... Only certain traits I agree ...like be natural and not quarreling with him n respect him The rest of the reasons are not working for me...or him😂😅 Relationship must be both ways ...period ...
What if you’re already married to the man? I’m really struggling but I’m trying to keep pushing forward. I used to do all of these things but now I don’t bc he keeps doing one thing that keeps hurting me. He drinks to much at times and we do great other than that but it’s once or twice weekly and won’t change.
I've been friends with this guy for years aka the friends zone. we were at house watching a movie. He want me to cuddle with on the couch with him then we started kissing and makeup. This happened a few more times. It was very intimate. Now he being weird and a little distance. The next time I saw him again we were Makeout yet again. He said he doesn't have romantic feelings for me. I'm so confused with him he doesn't have romantic feelings but yet he wants to cuddle on the couch and Makeout with me. His he afraid of getting hurt or I'm doing something wrong. 🤔
I'm overweight cause I was injured while I was crossing the street,a man stopped to let me get across, but he was rear end.Both of my legs and my left foot were run over.I have been chatting with a man online who is very good and handsome.Shd I reveal my weight
Overweight means … Weight above what's considered healthy, often measured using body mass index (BMI). What about losing the extra pounds and back to normal? Fasting, healthy food, portion control and good sleep.
I have a Question! If a man is so profuse in his love for the woman , saying all those love messages to the woman but the woman who is deeply in love with the guy, does not have the capacity to give in to te demands of the guy who has a child who wants something from the woman like for example an expensive gift, and the guy who says he loves the woman, suddenly leaves the woman without waitin g for an explanation , can you say that it is fair? And his love for the woman is only lip service?please I need your advice on this!
What makes you think all women want to be with men? Even if they’re not lesbian what makes you think that a woman wants to be a cheerleader? Some women or business people some women are geniuses. Some people are rocket scientist that are women. Some people are prolific, composers and visual artists on an extraordinary level, and they just don’t care whether men want anything to do with them, then there are some men who like those kinds of women, but women don’t really care about whether a man wants them or is going to be desperate for them I could care less I’m in men are gorgeous man or smart men are geniuses, mentor everything and they can be very loving but who cares if they’re desperate for you I don’t want any man he’s desperate I want them to be busy and be occupied with no very intelligent in Defort endeavors I don’t think that a man who’s comfortable in his own skin once a woman to be a cheerleader or somebody staring at him and giving him full attention every minute and especially if he’s busy doing something people should have their own goals goals
Some of these points are just basic. But keeping up with all these directives sounds like a full time job. I don't think all of us are made for relationships.
You definitely don’t want to do words of affection with every single man! Not every man is receptive to that and not every man is the one you should say it to. Just my two cents anyways!
Hello there,me n my man we have all these in our relationship, however at time he is a bit weird in a sense where i feel him doing things only when it pleases him.!!!we re living at 1000 miles away but whenever he feels having me over the phone i always make a room to that!!but with him it a different story!!!offlate a just turnoff my phone coz i wouldn't take it from him
LMAO! I've done all these things because it's just who I am, and he still runs. I'm at the point where I'm just going to give up now. He knows where to find me if he's interested, which he probably isn't.
The example you provided for #3 of your ex girlfriend not being affectionate on the trip but was affectionate in other moments. Did you ask her why her mood was off like #5? Maybe she has family issues or went through something difficult and instead of asking her about why she was distant, you made it about yourself not getting intimacy. Wouldn’t it work both ways?
Be good to do a little something regarding covert passive aggressive narcissists...they are worst at being the best at fooling women. A lot of what you present feeds them big time, until the love bomb phase passes, and when it does, run!
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This stuff may work for A man that had his mama "mother" him. Ideally alot of BLACK or Hispanic man DONT like to cuddle. They call women like this that u describe as "CLINGY " and they HATE it. They actually cheat on women that do these things. These men would call her desperate for attention and to CLINGY and they will rip a woman to pieces and break her heart. They walk all over a woman like this. May be u should atart off with describing THE TYPE of man that wants these things. Bc a man that has been neglected by his mama, abused or mistreated, will NOT want this. Or appreciate this. This actually sounds like this is stuff a woman wants.
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@@AnitaWilliams-b2o mine was sexually abused by his mother and neighbors and had 12 kids with the demon mother🥴🥵🤮
If this seems exhausting, you haven't found the right man. You will want to do all of these things if your guy is just completely amazing and worthy of this treatment. Just don't waste time on men who are really not that great. Find GREATNESS.
A guy needs to be worthy of this. Then I think all of this will happen
What do you think men do for you? They do all this plus more. If this is exhausting, there’s a reason why you’re single.
T ,@@upgrade1015
Spot on! 💯
@@upgrade1015No most men don’t, a woman will give to her detriment and death, and he will take her for granted and literally suck the life out of her , most women are nurtures and don’t mind making their men happy , but a lot of don’t appreciate it and take advantage of that!
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When you love your man deeply ,he is the One all these things that you mentioned come naturally from a woman. Me I've been doing it.
I posses all this qualities naturally. And I'm the one who always leave when i see that you don't deserve me..
Same here😓
and one day you wont leave. dont worry
I do all these things and always have, but if it’s not the right guy, if he is unhealed and is toxic in how he approaches a relationship, it’s not going to be appreciated and you will be taken for granted.
This is what I hear “you’re too good to be true” “you’re out of my league” “I don’t deserve you”….so they run out of fear b/c ultimately they feel like it’s safer to leave first than to be left. They fear rejection due to self-worth issues and insecurities.
What happens is they only realize what they had when they lose it and it’s gone. When a woman who exhibits these traits is gone and they try to move on with other people, they start to realize what they truly had with this special woman was unique bc no one else is able to give them the kind of love and care they had when they were with this special woman. Then they try to come back, but most of the time it’s too late. I’ve had countless men try to return again and again, trying for many years, but I was done and it was too late.
Moral: appreciate a good woman who has these traits and show her how much you love her every day. Don’t ever let her go, bc a woman like this is not desperate. She knows her worth, knows what she deserves, and she is not afraid to walk away if she is being treated poorly, if someone is playing games with her, and is choosing others over her.
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I hear you Angel..you are soooo right. Im 9 mnths in relationship with a man who gets ALL of this from me...I feel Im just getting the crumbs from his table..he says " no matter what happens you ll do just fine"...." you re so warm and wonderful, any man would be lucky to have you"...Yada Yada Yada..Im thinking of ending it..stepping away..hes just doesnt make me feel special ....👎
@viviennethorpe1035 When they talk like that, they don't see themselves with us!
A guy told me something like that in a sweet romantic letter, but he didn't say I would make HIS perfect wife! Pay attention to what they say & how they say it!! Because otherwise we're just hoping for something that won't happen! Not right then anyway!
Exactly my situation with my recent ex & every other guy! I don't want him anymore because he didn't appreciate me when he had me! Nor when I was sticking around for almost 2 years!!
TRUE!!! This MAN doesn't realize that there are alot of men that HATE this type of woman and will abuse her and hurt her!!! This video is dangerous for women!
I always do all these things and end up being taken for granted😂
Me too.
wait till they earn that from you and show it to you first. as soon as you see a red flag, bounce
Yes don't overgive. Pull back and walk in feminine polarity
But that's you letting that happen
You have to give them a bit of uncertainty from time to time. Men like a challenge so don't over do on the giving.
I think gentleness and sharing emotions is being a decent human being.
I will forever clap for others until its my turn 🎉🎉
You just described what any woman wants from her man.
This should be a list for both humans to do withing one relationship. This is not what makes tbe man chase, this is repect, love and showing that you care about the relationship. Those are basis and then you can build on this.
I do all these things and all I do is attract narcissists like crazy!!!
True!!!!
Yes! Thats the kind of traits narcissists LOVE in a woman. They are looking to take, take, take and never to give!
@@Florida_gyrl So very true
There is this man called HG Tudor who is very authoritive on Narcissistic cementation and of course Narcs would love this throw in a good bit of empathy and you will be ensnared.
Probably the area you live in you might want to move lol
This only works if he wants you.
and no one wants to be with someone who does not want to be with them
I noticed that everything you said is what I want in the man I'm with. My guy does everything he shouldn't do. It's like guys want woman to do all the things you said for them but they don't do any of them for us women
Many relationships are transactional and not reciprocal. Asymetrical.. Healthy relationships are based on equality mutuality and reciprocity.
PREACH!!
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Regardless, that does not mean he chooses you. If his goal is to enjoy life without commitments and experience different women, most likely he will follow his own plan despite your characteristics or behavior .
Bitte truth
Never believe a narcissist pretending chasing you because they are just playing games.They don't know how to love but only themselves.
True
They have no love in their soul they r broken forever...it began at childhood👁️
Cuddling and intimacy in front of family is probably uncomfortable for her for a lot of personal reasons. You should have asked her instead of judging her.
My family loves to shame and judge PDA is extremely difficult for me in front of my family
Find yourself first before you find a man.
That I definitely did….
A ghoster was never worth anything in the first place!
We want this too .. if both parties did this we’d have lasting, loving relationships!!
Nope. I had this. Both ways. And then. Friendzoned.
Did all of these things- as this is who I am - without knowing or trying to keep him- he still just ghosted me despite us having SO much in common and the same sense of humour. I think his life must be a lot poorer without me!!
Men need more than just having stuff in common. We have friends for that. If you want more, you need to venture more. Sorry, but a pretty face isn't enough for you to leapfrog out of the "just casual" stage
i m 68, a complete relationship failure, i dated a NARC for 2 years. i m dead inside now.
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Don't let that narc win. You are worth more than that. Don't play into that game. Been there done that. Not all men are like that. Keep boundaries, check out some of the podcasts that talk about identifying narcissistic men. You deserve a beautiful, wonderful relationship.
Don't act like a victim.
It's the most unattractive thing
Thats why I want to stay single , love it
EXACTLY!!
I am this way naturally.
But, I always get neglected, cheated on, and dumped for wlnen who are extremely toxic.
Then, these women end up dumping the man. Only after treating me like crap, and after leaving for her, and her trashing him, he suddenly realizes his mistake and wants me. But, by this point, they had disrespected me so badlt that I no longer want them.
Then, these men will want me seemingly FOREVER. I can go without seeing them for 10, 15, 20, 25 years, and they will tell me tgat I'm the one that got away, losing me was their biggest mistake, and I am unforgettable. They will beg to be with me. They will cry over me. Theg will chase after me.
But, whh couldn't they just treat me nicelg when we were together?
Number 12 is tricky because I can´t take care more than fibromyalgia allows me to do. Sometimes I like to be totally painless and then I drink some alcohol. = Mental health for me and my friends.
Have fibro exhaustion. But no alcohol for me.
You need to try TRS to detox! Helps with fibromyalgia.
I believe that I have done all of these for 7 years in my relationship and he still broke up with me. I am heartbroken.
Aww sorry to hear that. Someone wonderful will come along for you, and treat you so good. Dont lose hope x
Pray for GOD to help you with your feelings and. Your need to have a significant other (preferably a faithful husband). ❤🎉
Ps been through severely betrayed and heart broken. GOD helped me through ended up married to a much better man. Was with my Dear Husband many years until he left this world to be with JESUS. I call the first guy what's his name HA. My mother told me honey your hurt now but in a year you won't remember his name.(Thus "what's his name")Hold on to GOD he can help you when nobody can. Much love and a prayer.❤🎉❤
I gave it all to a man. We really vibe together. A day after our date he suddenly says he sees me as a friend because he values our connection. I told him that I hope he feels romantically attracted one day to a woman that sees him like I do: as the beautiful soul he is and the amazing man he is (which is true, he is). He somehow wants to have a spark of chemistry on a first date and I told him, I am not this kind of person. So I moved on. I rather want someone whom is worthy of all my love and time. All of these types I do naturally. But I deserve someone does that to me too.
I believe these things come naturally if you care about the person you are with. If it's phoney it's a game and you are not really caring about the person.
Nothing about flirting comes naturally. If you're good at it that means you've had a lot of practice. Just like lying.
You DONT want a man to “desperately chase” you. The opposite of ghosting does NOT mean chasing. Someone chasing you, is a red flag. It gets worse. Run.
Look for normal ladies, not ghosting, emotional unavailability nor chasing.
Look for NORMAL.
Why are influencers encouraging women to want being “chased”???
Pursued rather
Ding ding ding. The only men that enjoy "the chase" are predators. Playing hard to get only drives away men who will be respectful and issues an open challenge to the fuck boys you hate so much
Wonderful....I believe these things will only appeal to the man for you. Not some random person.
I guess those 12 things apply both ways....
How to keep the long distance relationship strong...thank u
Listennnnnnnn...as a older woman...no, not happening.
Not interested. It either connects or not...nothing is needed. Do not need you to chase me...Please!
Yup. As a man I absolutely despise chasing and the "game" around romance and dating. Playing coy is a MASSIVE turn off.
I really like the values you represent in creating the possibilities for a loving relationship…. However - I took your quiz and results are anything but free…. Still - your videos refresh the important elements within each of us as individuals and how to be or become a partner for life.
I did all of those things and he still dump me saying I was too pushy because I constantly express concern about his telephone communication style
I feel it takes the right person. I feel a woman can do any and all of the things he said in the video but if you are messing around with the wrong guys then none of this will ever work. It only works with Mr. Right. Mr. Wrong will never appreciate these kinds of things.
Then you chose poorly. Join the club
God bless you dear.Some people view my niceness as pretence and it hurts.
No, they haven't chased me despite all of these. And I hope a man doesn't want blind loyalty, but to be deserving of it or else wanting correcture.
This is a healthy attitude to take. I, as a man, absolutely despise chasing. And I definitely don't want a woman that's servile to the point of "blind loyalty". I find that sort of relationship dynamic repulsive.
I think women should see being good at flirting as a red flag. Flirting is not a fun character trait, it's a skill that you only get better at through practice. And trust me, the only men practicing that skill are fuckboys
These are all good suggestions, but it should be reciprocal. 🙂
Nobody said it shouldn't be. Lol
Wow, what is SO interesting about this list........I am naturally all of these things whenever me and my divine masculine have been together. Every one of them. I've naturally been all of them with him without even doing it consciously or because I heard about these things and was purposely implementing them. Yet, I can say that with all of my ex's...... I was not most of these things or even the ones that I was I don't think I was that way all of the time.
I do all of these things and people still think I am clingy ❤or too available which is crazy
I did all this and he still played with my feelings 💔
We have to vet them
Same with me. Forst we need to get to know people and then commit
We need non negotiables and six months trial period with dates no sex
@@eleonoraivanova-kd2zbyeah, no. Sex is an important part of a relationship. I feel sexual attraction looooooong before i feel romantic attraction. This attitude is just going to get you more aggressive fuckboys
That's because this is shitty advice. Don't go for men who are good at chasing and flirting. You only get good at those things by practicing them, so do you think a good flirt is more likely to be a good guy or a fuckboy?
I see lots of link saying that you will give some tips but then it leads to your advertising and forcing people to buy the program.
Every man has different attitude...and sometimes women are doubtful showing all this things bcoz nowadays guys are not serious in relationships
In other words treat him like a king and then pretty soon he will treat you like a doormat.
I couldn't have said it better myself! 💯
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Hi Brody, thanks for the video, very interesting. What do you think is a good way to bring up criticism with your guy?
I usually refrain from that bc i don’t like it…but what you said about hitting the „reset“ button I noticed really bothered me, bc my ex would keep asking me that. He had a severe lack of self-reflection though, you may call it narcissistic. He wouldn’t recognize his own behavior as problematic even if it war truly abusive, so I kept trying to convey…
In other words, if I’m expected to hit a reset button about things that are still bothering me - how is that supposed to work well?
@ primavera558
Take a video of his behaviour and show it to a minister an abuse counselor and anpoloce officer and get their comments on it? Video their comments? Show to ur doctor too.
Then ask mate do u want to 1. Turn urself in to police as abuser or 2. Get reg counseling with checkups fr these people...n sign him up
I better not make comments right about my person except that i am so ready to get to know him better. I like that idea of setting a reset button. Someone must be doing that to me now. I have already wrote 3 or 4 comments that slipped away from me. I am feeling love ❤sick. Dear Lord, I thank you for all you do for me. I am following your advice now. I am letting go of all my worries and hoping you can help me by sending me healing, knowledge, energy, creativity, tenacity, wisdom, harmony, magic, blessings, intuition, positivity, humor, compassion, shapeshifting, and more times 10.
All of these things should come naturally if you love your other half you body thoughts naturally find their own way around each other’s bodies don’t need guidances from an outsider no offence intended I know I can do a great job on my own thank you keep up your good work ❤
Did all of these....
I agree with your wife that she believed in you to be a genius in your work- and together as team teachers good happens
Thanks you Mr
My heart does that but once the do’s attracted narcissists. I calmed them down
So women read and study the behaviors of narcissists who once dated you so that you never fall in trap again.
A true man who loves you will eventually cone. I now have the prettiest man, all you have to do is first go slow on him and read the other past experiences if he isn’t a narcissist. Then go further.
I went slow on him until he has showed his prettiness 😊
And also learn a lot to be feminine not masculine on him
Other stressor..ASK IN PRIVATE
I found out, men like when You care but don't care😅 that's why I accept taking just the sugar and loving myself and my family the most
Absolutely not. The kind of men YOU choose to date think that way. And that's why you're bitter
This may sound kinda crass or too blunt but things I’ve learned about keeping and attracting a man is
1- fill up his stomach
2- empty his balls
3 fill up his heart with gentle love
4 empty my pride 😊
Exactly right on spot 😊
Thank you!
All things a woman wants.
I wonder how many men, percentage wise, work on personal growth, and relationships. I'm guessing less than 30%. Soo many men have the 'take me as I am' attitude. 🚩
Blimey! Spinster alert, I'm bloody exhausted just listening to this list. Listen chaps make me a great cuppa that looks & tastes like treacle. You - name within reason. If I'm your brown eyed girl. I've got your back & front. "Let's make a rendezvous", Basement Jaxx
💞May 14, 2024
doing all these but he doesnt care about it
My ex didn’t like the natural look.
Looking for a men with all these qualities 😂😂😂
So his mood is off and then you ask if he's okay and he says yes. And then you suggest something you can understand he might be upset about and he denies it and everything is fine until he breaks up with you and then he dumps out a pile of things he misunderstood and got offended over that weren't true if he would have talked and gotten context around your actions. Is there any action besides Badgering him to death to try and understand what else was going on that he didn't talk about Because that Reaction definitely does not work LOL 4 years and he's long gone long gone. I told him it won't work out With anyone else either if he can't explain when he's unhappy. He says he was abused. But never said one more 4 years. These talks about narcissism fail to mention the intention of the person being manipulation for self Gain. Men get confused and Throw up the narcissism flag Without Considering motive. I wish online coaches would be more careful.
This is great. As you spoke, o reflected and realize that I am in a good relationship. I'm divorced as he is. We've been together for 11months . Both divorced 8 years. And ❤️ I don't know if we want to get married. I am successful and so is he. I'm good with being at his house and vise versa. We're apart 2 nights out of 7. Kinda funny but it works. No rush. Will see...lol. we are exclusively in a committed relationship. Talk all the time. Every day. See each other 5 days in and out of the weekdays.and weekends. He rest at his house and I let my hair down at mine. It's a good thing. I'm in no rush. We're both 60. Above average incomes.
i really love watching coaching so that when im in relationships i know more. thank u sir
Avoid ignore chasers
Thx I m finding solution of problem in my relationship
Sorry Sir...I got a selfish n arrogant man ...those things u mentioned makes him think I am clingy ...
Only certain traits I agree ...like be natural and not quarreling with him n respect him
The rest of the reasons are not working for me...or him😂😅
Relationship must be both ways ...period ...
What if you’re already married to the man? I’m really struggling but I’m trying to keep pushing forward. I used to do all of these things but now I don’t bc he keeps doing one thing that keeps hurting me. He drinks to much at times and we do great other than that but it’s once or twice weekly and won’t change.
FORGET HIM, LEAVE HIM.
I've been friends with this guy for years aka the friends zone. we were at house watching a movie. He want me to cuddle with on the couch with him then we started kissing and makeup. This happened a few more times. It was very intimate. Now he being weird and a little distance. The next time I saw him again we were Makeout yet again. He said he doesn't have romantic feelings for me. I'm so confused with him he doesn't have romantic feelings but yet he wants to cuddle on the couch and Makeout with me. His he afraid of getting hurt or I'm doing something wrong. 🤔
Used to do that.
All I got was being seen as a comforter/a friend wjos always there to be used.
And now you have an idea of how a lot of men feel.
@@samuelbrown3405 No, I don't. I'm not a man 🤷♀️
I'm overweight cause I was injured while I was crossing the street,a man stopped to let me get across, but he was rear end.Both of my legs and my left foot were run over.I have been chatting with a man online who is very good and handsome.Shd I reveal my weight
Overweight means …
Weight above what's considered
healthy, often measured using
body mass index (BMI).
What about losing the extra
pounds and back to normal?
Fasting, healthy food, portion control
and good sleep.
Let my reasons be part of your next lecture on how to deal with a difficult man...
I have a Question! If a man is so profuse in his love for the woman , saying all those love messages to the woman but the woman who is deeply in love with the guy, does not have the capacity to give in to te demands of the guy who has a child who wants something from the woman like for example an expensive gift, and the guy who says he loves the woman, suddenly leaves the woman without waitin g for an explanation , can you say that it is fair? And his love for the woman is only lip service?please I need your advice on this!
I’ve done all these things and got taken for granted and then dumped
Why should we always please men????Noo waaay!!!!
I already have these qualities and have done these things and I was still cheated on, smh
👏👏👏excellent content with deep great analysis 👍!!!
What’s your relationship status?
What makes you think all women want to be with men? Even if they’re not lesbian what makes you think that a woman wants to be a cheerleader? Some women or business people some women are geniuses. Some people are rocket scientist that are women. Some people are prolific, composers and visual artists on an extraordinary level, and they just don’t care whether men want anything to do with them, then there are some men who like those kinds of women, but women don’t really care about whether a man wants them or is going to be desperate for them I could care less I’m in men are gorgeous man or smart men are geniuses, mentor everything and they can be very loving but who cares if they’re desperate for you I don’t want any man he’s desperate I want them to be busy and be occupied with no very intelligent in Defort endeavors I don’t think that a man who’s comfortable in his own skin once a woman to be a cheerleader or somebody staring at him and giving him full attention every minute and especially if he’s busy doing something people should have their own goals goals
This is wonderful!! Thank you for your insight :)
Yeah. I was always an option I was the wife but I feel like I’m the other girl. That no other place to go. Until the one he talk to wanted him back
A man will chase you if he is drawn to you and is attracted to you.
Excellent excellent advice! Thank you so much
Some of these points are just basic. But keeping up with all these directives sounds like a full time job. I don't think all of us are made for relationships.
You definitely don’t want to do words of affection with every single man! Not every man is receptive to that and not every man is the one you should say it to. Just my two cents anyways!
Hello there,me n my man we have all these in our relationship, however at time he is a bit weird in a sense where i feel him doing things only when it pleases him.!!!we re living at 1000 miles away but whenever he feels having me over the phone i always make a room to that!!but with him it a different story!!!offlate a just turnoff my phone coz i wouldn't take it from him
Maybe your girl on the family trip didn’t have a family where touching would be comfortable for either of you .
I do all these and I'm still single AF. Lol
LMAO! I've done all these things because it's just who I am, and he still runs. I'm at the point where I'm just going to give up now. He knows where to find me if he's interested, which he probably isn't.
Stop going for men who chase. Men who have the time to play bullshit games are only after one thing
The example you provided for #3 of your ex girlfriend not being affectionate on the trip but was affectionate in other moments. Did you ask her why her mood was off like #5? Maybe she has family issues or went through something difficult and instead of asking her about why she was distant, you made it about yourself not getting intimacy. Wouldn’t it work both ways?
Be good to do a little something regarding covert passive aggressive narcissists...they are worst at being the best at fooling women. A lot of what you present feeds them big time, until the love bomb phase passes, and when it does, run!
Hi
Thank you for the the advice. I will watch your videos from now on to learn more.😊
He's not the prize I'm the gift as a woman this is what y'all should be doing for us so I can chase him.
I'm just saying!!!
Ha! 😂I don’t look at my phone he’ll be on his god damn phone 24 hours all day every damn day!!!! 😢
Love your video,very true.thanks
Is that all the diff is is just hairstyle?
Quite interesting indeed ❤
Yet he keeps his phone on the table and checks every bell & whistle
Thank you so much for your insights
From a french lady in Québec