10 traits of a good man | Signs he really loves you
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Whats good youtube. We often talk about about the games guys play or the things to watch out for when dating. I just wanted to lighten things up and talk about some of the good qualities you can find in a man. Some of the signs and traits you’ll witness from one that will signify his decency. These are 10 qualities of a good man.
1.They understand the responsibility they have to protect. You cannot stop a good man from protecting you. Some y’all know what I’m talking about. A good man will never let you endanger yourself. You can’t piss him off or upset him enough that he loses concern for your safety. You can be arguing at night. Steaming mad at him and say something something like “i need to go take a walk” he’ll look you dead in your eye and be like I guess WE taking a walk then. It’s 12 o clock at night. Aint no way in hell Imma let you walk around by yourself. He will endanger himself if it means keeping his woman or his family safe.
Few things make a man feel as worthless as not being able to protect his family from something.
2.They take every opportunity to comfort a woman in their way. He may not know what to do when you’re upset but he does something.
Something to let you know that he cares about you being upset. Sometimes that something is nothing. Laying low and giving you the space you need. Or offering to do a favor. Even trying to fix it. Even though some things can’t be fixed. Good men do what they can to lighten your load or ease your burden when you’re hurt or upset. As long as it’s not at him.😁
3.The are mindful of the words they choose.
They value healthy communication.
Good men don’t let just any sorry ass statement fall from their mouths. They care about the way impact of your their words. A wise man speaks because he has something to say. A fool speaks because he has to say something. Good men don’t talk just for the hell of it. Especially during a disagreement. They keep it about the issue. They don’t degrade the woman. They don’t express hatred for their partner but the behavior.
4.They have and respect standards
Good men don’t require you to take shift from them that their not willing to put up with from you. You should never hear no dumb mess like “a man don’t have to answer to no woman” from a good man. They know how to balance their masculinity with your equality. They can lead without ruling. A weak man requires loyalty and respect but rarely offers it. Good men are fair and they don’t have a superiority complex over the women in their life. The honor the rules of the relationship. - Навчання та стиль
“A good man leads without ruling” wow!!! So profound
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Damn the Bible must be wrong then. Since God told the woman that her husband will rule over her.
God did not say such a thing. Man, who wrote words in a book chose to write that sentence. We don't anybody ruling over anybody. There are plenty of evidences at the Women Shelter to see what man ruling looks like.
@@tuberoses1 either you haven't read your Bible or you don't believe your Bible. How do you know what God said but by reading your Bible? The women's shelters don't have examples of men ruling over women. They have examples of men abusing women. There is a difference
@@tuberoses1 You don't believe the bible then
to resume:
1 he's protective and Always care about your safety even when pissed off of you
2 they try to confort their woman or ease ur burden
3 mindful of the words he chooses and conscious communication
4 respect standards a good man can lead without ruling
5 cheviourous :filter his language..
6 they mean well they r not sneaky and have a sence of morality
7 they r leaders but not dictators:every one of the relation has things he masters
8 they cant damage your emotional security and they want their women to be strong
9 they are providers and not lazy
10 they take pride in their women s pleasure :)
Thank you :)
Thanks 🌹
Byb
Thanks
Thank you!
I didn't have a great dad growing up, he treated my mom terribly and treated us the same way. I never had the "this is how a man should treat you" talk, but rather attracted guys who treated me the way my dad treated his own wife. Finding this channel really taught me what I should be looking for in a mate and how i can protect myself in the future. So thank you for teaching this 30yr old how to carry herself and how to properly look for a man. It gave me the strength to walk away from a 7 year relationship that was so toxic i didn't even know it was toxic. I'm much happier now and hold myself in a higher regard. Thank you for everything you do. ❤️
DANIxDANGER It's gonna be ok.
Same . except I'm still single
You go girl!! 🙌🙌
I can relate to this post on so many levels. Thank you for sharing this. I hope you find and love yourself and then find a man who will compliment you and love you for you.
My dad was toxic also so I can definitely relate.. 🙄 So happy u know ur worth. Always remember our past doesn’t dictate our future.
Just had to watch to see if my husband has any of these qualities - and damn he has them all! Now make a video on 10 qualities of a good woman to see if i stack up 😂
Samantha Ebreo You trying to get me cursed out.😂 I got some passionate haters.
You could call it 10 ways to be good to your man (that he will appreciate). That's something every woman can aspire to, even if she's not there yet.
I added that last part in parentheses because there were things I learned to do from my mom my man had to tell me he *didn't* appreciate. I wish I'd known better from the start. Ha, that sounds like fodder for another video.
Appreciate your channel so much. I'm no spring chicken, and I still find lots of value.
Well I think 1 good quality is being able to take constructive criticism if there's a need for improvement. How can we want good men but don't wanna hear, even from a man's perspective, what it means to be a good woman? We all should have the desire to grow or continue on a good path.
Good Info. Thanks Kev!
Me too! This guy was on point!! Funny too!
My number 1 video now! Steve Harvey said to just sit back, stop talking and see what a man does. It makes so much sense because we will see these things if we let him do the talking and watch his actions.
CherryBoo65 Boone Yes well said
How do you do that? What do you mean?
I had to stop listening to Steve Harvey after he said on his talk show that Asian men are essentially undateable.
You actually take advice from that clown he cheated and emotionally tortured his first wife 👋🏾
Works every time. 85% of Communication in non verbal
"Take yo butt to the room and cool off"At that my anger would dissipate right away. Nothing sexier than a man who TAKES control.
Every time when I'm upset and I tell him to leave it alone, he won't leave me alone until I tell him what's on my mind and then we'll talk about it in a adult manner. He doesn't like it when I'm upset and I don't say what's on my mind
I’ve never met a man like this .. maybe one day ...
Same
You prolly just date low quality men
I found one, but I was the one who was like a jerk. I regret it now😭💔
You probably already met one or two and friendzoned them 🤷
Luxury Massage me neither lol I give up I’ll be 32 next month smh 😢
This is so beautiful, it made me cry. I pray. that I am with a man like this soon. Thank you for this!!
Faith without works is dead. Make sure you are preparing a place for him, snd getting yourself ready🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 It will happen!
Genevieve Cormiae-Foster 👍🏿❤️👏🏾
@Monique Gibson I agree. But you can find alot of examples in the Bible of these character traits in good men.
This made me cry because I realized how I fought so hard for someone for 11 years..i went thru so much...for someone I had to beg to protect me..someone that..wasnt for me but I just anit wanna let gom Lord, pls help me to heal. I cant blame it all on him, I kept holding on and it really.. Changed me.
Did you find your man? ❤️
"Good men understand the concept of interdependance" - ❤ this
He's so Handsome!! And a good man DAMN.
That's why he's taken, LoL!
My man is exactly like this. I love him.
"They also do not want to be the thing that their woman needs protection from..." this got me hard, the tears started immediately. I was trying to search what a healthy relationship feels like, or what it feels like to be with a healthy good man and came across this. Thank you.
Wise beyond your years...🙌🏾💯
“A good man can lead without ruling.” 🙏bless.
"Chivalry
Can be
Any attempt
That a Man
Makes to
Be gentle with
You and keep
You at ease.."
"He Never
Comes
Outside
His Protection Mode
And He Will
Never Let You
Endanger Yourself.."
I just want to say that your Mother was an amazing woman to raise a man like you, your wife is a blessed woman to have you. Im sure she too is a blessing to you as well. Thank you for all of your videos they’re on point. I appreciate you🙏🏻❤️
You are legit af. Also, I laughed so hard at “eighf” 😂
Thanks for watching
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Kween[g]y Official what’s funny
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As my husband says and what I have learned as well is, “ a good man will admit that he doesn’t have it all together and isn’t to prideful to seek wise counsel . A healthy relationship shows growth and wanting to grow even though it may be uncomfortable at times .
Somebody send this man a medal I LOVE his wise , wholesome , and respectful content! I know a lot of good men so he is telling the TRUTH!
Absolutely! 🥇 😂
For real 📍📍📍
The only guys I've seen act like this are elderly males. The nice guys around my age don't protect us and they want us to work and they stay home. Not happening I'm not settling.
Yes, reminds me of how my dad treats my mom. Wish more young men had these qualities.
Omgosh, how old are you?
SCOTTRA8 how do guys our age protect us?
They are out there. I've met men in their 20 and 30s who are really nice guys and in some cases willing to settle down. Oddly I have the opposite problem. At 57 I don't seem to attract single men my age. Some younger ones but not my age. I keep thinking maybe one of these guys have a single dad.
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He makes sure if you have to walk home from school or work after sunset that you aren't walking alone.
If you say your car is acting up he either looks at it himself or he takes it to the shop.
He makes sure you are home safe after driving home from his house.
If he sees something needs to be fixed around your house that could be potentially dangerous like a loose lock he fixes it or he gets someone to fix it.
If he knows you just lost a loved one he will do his darndest to get to you for emotional support and if he can't he will contact one of your friends or send over his mom or aunt or whomever he can so you won't be alone.
You're an admirable young man!
What a man, what a man, what a man what a mighty good man! I need one of those
Serena Atkins ❤️😂👍🏿
Isn’t he just 😊
My husband passed all!
Yay 😃
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"A good man can lead without ruling." I fucking love that
Me too!😁
Where are these men? 👀
Girl no where to be found 😂😂😂
@@idanceforthestars *Giirrllll* 😂 I'm interested in being interested, but I swear the "good men" seem to be ever elusive. They're right up there with 🦄 and Wizards for me right now. 😂
@@TheKetoGoddess TheKetoGoddess I'm 25 go figure plus my eggs freezes soon , I never dated , plus 85% of the men are broke clowns , I love being single , your looking for a mythical creature women ... good luck I been done at 17
@@TheKetoGoddess girl I'm done , I'm rejuvenating my self loving life all the guys I like are done . I'm not even thinking about no 1 I feel in love with myself again. Happy summer
@@TheKetoGoddess I just realized your comment 😣😣😣 that unicorn , I'm rejuvenating my self loving life all the guys I like are done . I'm not even thinking about no 1 I feel in love with myself again. Happy summer
This man that I'm dating has all of theses qualities. He's a keeper thank you.
A good man is,Proctective,He comforts you.Healthy Communication,Respect Equality,Chivalrious,Good Intentions,They are Leaders,They understand theEmotinal Value of a Woman.Provider,,They take pride in your Pleasure..........
I love the fact that u said we answer to each other. That's amazing that you allow your wife to feel strong and not feel insecure about doing so that's major respect
This is true, my father has all these trait he was and still is a provider, he was at one point laid-off of work and he went into a deep depression when he couldn't provide for his family, but he bounced back stronger as usual, I watch him with my step mother and he'd always enjoyed making her smile still even to this day, they got together when I was 6 and I'm 35 now and there still together......thank you for sharing and putting thought, logic, and reasoning behind this video.
The way you articulate your thoughts, very honest and straight to the point is spot on. Welldone.
YAS!!! FINALLY SOMETHING SUBSTANTIAL!!! YOU DID THIS THING MAN!!! AWESOME JOB TO YOU SIR. 🙌🏽
Well said Kev, that's my husband and he's the best of the BEST!
Great info, presented in a clear, concise and thorough way.
I appreciate the fact that you don't suggest any of the game playing that so many other relationship videos do. You are direct and to the point and you don't sugar coat it. I hate the games and if I have to manipulate a man into liking me then he's not the man for me. Thank you for your wise advise.
This is one video that will be watched, shared and studied. Thank you.
This is nice information for me. I'm 26 and have never been in a relationship before, and have never had a father figure. I always knew what to look for, but now by watching your videos I really know what to look for in a man. Thank You! ❤
Now tell us WHERE TO FIND THESE!!!!!
N movies
not in lreland there all rawdawg cheaters over here
Terri Brown 😂👍🏿❤️
They are busy working
TELL ME
Out of all the videos that I’ve watched, this one was most relevant to my current situation. Deep. Thanks for all that you do.
This is so good! Thanks for all the wisdom Kev. The new man in my life meets all of these... actually he is not so new, met him 30 years ago and fate just brought him back into my world... Don't give up sisters! Such men do exist...
I’m married, but I love listening to your content. Very insightful and your voice is easy listening. 💙
Omg my baby has all these qualities and MORE! He is amazing and I’m so proud to be his girl ♥️ It took 4 years of me healing until i was ready to receive everything this man has to offer and to reciprocate. I definitely see myself marrying and having babies with this guy. I’m gettin old so it’s a great time for family building lol I enjoy your videos and will be subscribing! Much love and respect!
I just came across your video and dam I like it. Was questioning why my boyfriend don't say anything during the time I get piss and here you are saying that it's his way of showing he cares. He's overprotective even when I don't want to talk with him. Gosh. Thanks for letting me know the understanding beyond the unspoken.
Omg homie i love the fro!
aqua fina thanks 😁
@@KevHick , np. Tell your better half i said hello. Oh i will be calling you soon about next yrs event schedule so you can get in on the festivities
I love him lol good info
Thank you for this positive version. The good qualities to look for. A man with these qualities is any woman's dream. I guess I should say goal or something like that because I truly believe they exist. I guess maybe I should seriously be the best version of myself and hope the man for with these qualities and I find each other....soon lol I'm getting so old.
bigjayking24 hey I’m in nyc! But I’m not really in the dating scene I’m In the college age
My pleasure 😇. They aren’t as rare as you think.
This was so encouraging! I wish that good men like this were big in number, but they sure seem hard to find. But this gives me hope they are out there
Thank you so much for this video ❤️ I just got butterflies 🦋
My boyfriend & I have been together for about 3years & he’s everything you’ve spoken in this video. Thank you so much 🙏🏽 May God bless you!
Thank you for this!!! Interdependence!!! This literally just saved my relationship!! The knowledge i just gain was astonishing
I love this and I love your fro it really compliment your face
Thank you 😊
his voice is so soothing . he can tell me the world is ending and i still wont panic lol
😅😅😅
That’s deep
I can't wait to go home and love on my man. I am a new subscriber and I'm happy I found you. I have been binge watching your videos at work. Best dating/youtuber out there. Your wife and kids are blessed . Stay gold
I needed this video, after spending the last year with a man that lacked many of these qualities I am ready to forward, and this time in the right direction.
Love that haircut. Message on point.
Layin on the couch scratchin his ass though?? 🤣🤣🤣 That visual had me dying.
I felt like I was crazy. Listening to you is wonderful. I wish I had a man that thinks like you.
I like that he knows how to lead but knows when to follow.profound thank you
Sure, feelings get hurt, signals get crossed, and u might lose hope. But it feels damn good to know good men still exist. 💟
I always learn something watching your videos- thank you Kev!⭐️👍🏽
Wow amazing how my man represents all of these traits. I knew i finally had a good man, but seeing and hearing this was a real eye opener. Thx
My man is definitely 1 of the good ones💖 thank you for ur great videos!
sooo true! my man is protective last night he took me camping also picnic! soooo sweet!
Thank you very much KEV! Lots of us women need to hear this... I will share this video😁
Thank you!
I can see my man in these points. Jeeeeezzzzz I'm BLESSED!!!!! I need to quit tripping and treat him BETTER. Less stubborn attitude and more loving. Thanks for this video
Every point was spot on, especially #7. That is a topic not enough men discuss.
Love this King! 👏👏👏
Tearing up as I'm ticking every box, I am truly Blessed to have My Man. May I also add no. 11?... That You feel at Peace.... You know sometimes a guy can act as if He's good, but there's an unsettled feeling about him, then later you find surprises.
A good man protects your children with them being with you because he knows that's a really important way to show he cares.
All I could say is you are so impressively knowledgable about all this stuff. And there hasn't been any single statement that you had said that I would disagree with. I haven't stopped watching your videos coz the very first video I watched of you was absolutely loaded with tactics that every "LADY" should master the same is true with all the rest of your videos. If you have a daughter I can absolutely say that she's lucky. Well as for me I had to undergo so much BS with my past relationship for the reason that I was neglected of my father's guidance. I learned the hard way I guess but I learned much from it. And I really thought that I have learned so much with my previous relationship until you came along dropping all the bombs that my brain hasn't yet pondered about. Good Job Sir. I'll keep learning from you.
New here and I'm here for it!
It's Refreshing To Hear Things I've Never Heard Before About Relationships. I thought I knew it All about dating until I stumbled upon your Channel. Turns Out I Really Didn't Know Anything About The Mind Of A Man!! LOLThank you for not sugarcoating anything and sharing the TRUE Mentality of a Man. This is helpful in cultivating a healthier relationship for me.
Lisa Marie what do you mean all about dating
Lisa Marie well said 👌🏽❤️💯
Update Your Profile. That's a start :-)
Thanks for watching 😁
Ditto
Bless you brotha you’re doing an awesome service for the people.
Kev this video is amazing. Thank you. More men need to see this to understand this and live it.
Great video and I love how you made this channel to speak up for the real ones like us bro. I just clocked out of my 4th job so I definitely feel amd relate to these ten 100%. Keep doin what you doin homie. Fellas and ladies take note and pay attention.
That is a good man talking right there 💖
I have a good man and this is my first time being with someone with true maturity. Wouldn't trade him for anyone else.
True Great Stuff Brother
I respect your honesty as well as your intention's. Your wife & children are extremely blessed to have such an "honest" man as their father & husband!! I wish u all the respect & success that this would has to offer! I really appreciate your approach to all the issue's u address as it is truly a great thing in regards to what u r doing to help others! I can sense your sincerity, but down to Earth approach! Wishing u all the best!! :)
Thank you so much 😊
Hello Handsome..love the way you break it down & keep it simple & straight to the point...Thank You love your channel...keep doing what you do. I going to require my sister watch & learn from you😉
I'm so glad I found your channel!
Thanks to whom ever posted this 💓💓💓❤️❤️❤️💯💯👍👍👍👍
Excellent advice ! As old as I am, I am just now learning to love myself and to not be so lonely that I'm accepting whatever comes my way ! Your videos are so good !! To me the best advice about men come from real men ! Thank you Kev !
Me too. I am 57 and a slow learner I guess.
My pleasure 😇
Thx Kev for this vid..you just named ten great traits of a 👑!! 💖
Awesome to hear a young black man speaking truth for other black men in particular, thank u
Good Info. Thanks Kev!
You have helped me so much your videos!
Kev great insight as always thank you 🙏🏾
It took a long time before I realized what the qualities of a good man are. I was broken and I made terrible mistakes until one day I turned everything around and I don’t settle for less no matter how handsome he is. I take my time.
Wow what great points! My boyfriend has all of these qualities. I can only hope we can be together for a long time. God bless!💛
Your daughters are going to VERY POWERFUL YOUNG LADIES ... U are an EXCELLENT example of what all fathers SHOULD BE TEACHING THEIR DAUGHTERS.
This is a great one, thanks Kev! The fro looks nice...that line up is hella crispy!
Both you and your wife are blessed. Thank you for this video🐝.
Isn’t this why I’m still single though? These are the qualities I look for. I thought men like this did not exist.
They do, you just friendzone them
They do exist but they often come in a package different than what a woman's "type" might be. Sometimes we put looks before character and qualities.
Zeynabu - Le'Von Definitely. Might be white collar might be blue collar, a different race, a different personality just someone you'd least expect you might be attracted to. Someone might be not so your type and then they just do something really kind.
Michael Smith 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@ZeynabuLeVon I don't, *buuutttttt* I do need to be able to look at him and keep my food down. Right @Kev?
"They
Really
Do
Plan
On
Doing
The Right
Thing.."
I like your videos; they are short and straight to the point.
Excellent video Kev! Thank you for the great advice.
Hi Kev, very nice video ! I really enjoyed the sentence : "A good man knows how to lead without ruling". And thank you for highlighting the fact that "good men" still exist... I'm sure you're part of this kind. Keep going👌
Thank you!
"Good
Men
ALWAYS
Want
To bring
Something to
The table"
And vice versa..
I'm paying attention. Thank you for the clear advice!
Can't wait for the video you mentioned at the end.
Met a good man, but not all good men stay good. I love your videos, recently came across your channel! You give the best advice you keep us chicks up on game lol. 🤗😊
People change. Sometimes for the better other times for the worse 🤷🏽♂️☹️
Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls I agree
He was a nice man then but NOT good