Mum Wants a Say on the Dress Since She Is Paying for Half of It | Say Yes To The Dress UK
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Alis is set on what type of wedding dress she wants to try on, however mum feels like she should have a say on what gowns she tries on since she is paying for half of it.
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Everyone’s talking about the mother but I think we should acknowledge that her bridesmaids were so supportive. It’s like they were there to tell her she was gorgeous in everything, and she was. Those were some great friends, especially after seeing some of the other bridesmaids on say yes to the dress.
They were her knights 💘
@@annejia5382 yesss
Then again, why even bring people if you get angry if they have a different opinion? The true friends are the ones that are honest with you.
Sometimes I think the moms feel like the wedding gown choice is the last thing they have control over before they lose their little girls forever.
well said.
Garden Plots there are other things that mother could help with, this is not it. You don’t want to wear a dress that your mother likes but not you. Daughters will always need their mother married or not.
@Kathleen Henson So did I. I didn't even show my bridesmaids until the final fitting as I wanted nobody to influence my decision or if I'd seen any funny looks on faces I would have been disappointed. Your wedding day is meant to be about you not what others want, some of them have already had their day and others will get their chance, but your day is your own and I think a bride should be able to have that time to look back on with no regrets just happy memories.
But you're not losing your daughter. She's just taking the next step in her life and getting married. Most women leave home, live alone/with a partner and make independent life choices for themselves wayyy before their wedding days, so the wedding day isnt when parents let go, that comes ages before and nobody is losing anyone! Mothers love their children and children love their mother (in most cases!) Lose is a strong word
Garden Plots you sound like a mom
I think the first dress looked best on her
Ilme Syed me too.
Agreed! That first dress was a show-stopper!
Me too
I liked third more
Me too
Say yes to the dress's slogan should be "It's her wedding dress not yours, mom"
Sinda lahouar every bridal shop’s slogan should be this
And for the bridesmaid version it’s “it’s your her wedding not yours, bridesmaids”
@Candy Girl The bride was far from an arsehole and no, she did not make her mum look stupid at all. The bride is the one wearing the dress and she paid half.
Sinda lahouar That mom can’t decide what her daughter wears just because she pays half your daughter has to be happy too
@Candy Girl the mother isnt the one who looks like a fool on national tv, the daughter is, for not rejecting the mothers half of the payment and getting her dress on her own. No, the mother looks like a controlling bitch on national tv, she did that on her own without the daughters help. The daughter made it clear she didn't want a ball gown dress, mom is rejecting anything that isn't that.
Ok, here we go again guys. A mom who think her opinion should be number one.....
Well she did agree on the last one, which is good! It's win win
she is putting money into it though,, I get why she wants to like it too
no thx and? It’s still the bride’s dress, her wedding.
@@windbreakerlkb4040 at least her mother agree. Unlike the other one I've watched yesterday. Gross. Even Randy was disgusted.
@@Mooncrest0 aNd?1? the mom still gets to choose what she does or doesn't want to spend her money on. if the bride wants to be a 100% in control then she can pay for her own dress!
I went with my daughter when she picked out her wedding dress..I never told her what to buy..its her wedding not mine I supported her choice..shame on these moms who disregard their daughters choice
laureen jewett same here. I gave my daughter what I classed as a healthy budget for her dress. If the dress turned out to be more she said she would pay. As it happens she had originally thought she was paying for the dress herself. So was excited when I offered. If it was less then the balance would go on other items. On the day I went with her to the specialist boutique . Along with Chief Bridesmaid and soon to be Mother in law. Loved her choice. The smile said it all. Still don’t know the final cost. Her dress, her choice, her day. 👰🏼
Same with me. If she loved it, I loved it. If she didn’t, neither did I. I was there to throw money at it and enjoy the experience. It was a win/win situation.
Amen! I’m a mom and agree 100%!
This is why my daughters and I could never be in the show. Her day,her dress,her party. I was however super picky about the groom.
Mother had a strong preference but at the end the bride was able to stand her ground while both being respectful of each other. The bride did really looked great on all dresses.
I love how David quickly put the mom in her place. "Mom, this your daughter's dress, not your dress." Good for you!
I would have been insulted to be reprimanded by a dress shop owner in front of my child and all of the other people that was there! If I'm paying for it or even paying for half I at least deserve the respect of my opinion being taken respectfully!!!
@@sharcrum David is just stating a matter of fact, if she can't see past that, she deserves to be reprimanded. She is paying half of it as a gift, and who wants a gift the sender likes but not the recipient.
@sharcrum The mother embarrassed herself for acting like she gets to choose the dress. David did the right thing reminding her she isn't thr bride.
That's why you NEVER let anyone else pay for your dress!
or anything else for that matter!
Well shes paying half only yet tried to say that "whoever pays the piper, picks the tune". She basically said that what she wants should go since shes paying but in truth they both are. It was very selfish of her.
Too many parents forget that helping to buy, or buying all, of the wedding gown is a gift. You don't give a gift with conditions attached.
Hilary C I agree, besides, isn’t a gift to see your child happy enough?
No one like her anyway
Imho the first dress was just flattering on this bride. The third one is classy and beautiful but too "mature" and I preffered the neckline od the first dress, suited the bride better
@MiekoNeko so stop watching the show if you hate seeing mermaid dresses? Not your wedding so you dont get to tell them that they shouldn't do a mermaid gown, back off.
I liked the 1st & 2nd dress. I agree about the 3rd; it doesn't do her justice.
Agree with you
When a parent says it’s “everything I’D want in a bridal dress”... you already know they’re not even talking or thinking about their daughter... she either has really fond memories of HER wedding back in the day OR she wasn’t able to afford a princess dress when she got married, so this is her opportunity to project on her daughter her OWN wishes, while also taking advantage by holding 1/2 the purse strings, which is a default thought process that parents do all the time & most don’t even realize it... 🙄🤦🏼♀️
The Bridesmaid supportedher from the beginning
6:29 that guy in the back is running like i would run if somebody said mcdonald's is giving away free chicken nuggets as much as you want lmao
My daughter is getting married in a couple of years and no matter what dress she chooses I know she will look amazing in it. And no way will I be like this mum trying to say what she should be wearing, after all it's my daughter that is getting married.
Huh, I thought the first dress was more “bridal”...
Is nobody gonna talk about how supportive those friends are?
So many of the moms I see on this show seem like they’re trying to relive their wedding day through their daughter
All the dresses looked stunning on her I'm glad her mom loved her enough to give up her dream!
I love how supportive the bridesmaids are
All three are beautiful, but the first dress OMG!!!
2:37 I like how the music is all happy and then as soon as the mom talks, it cuts off and switches to dramatic music
I feel like the UK version has better dresses than the USA version.
I agree!
The first dress was beautiful on her. Her body looks amazing on it
When our daughter got engaged, my husband worked very hard to make money for her wedding. He gave her $10K and said, "This is your wedding gift from us. It's yours to do with as you please. You can spend it all on your wedding, put a downpayment on a house, or put it in the bank. It's yours, no strings attached." I think it was a brilliant thing to do, and put her in full control of the money and her wedding. She picked out her dress, invitations, planned the reception, all just as she pleased. Any expenses over that $10K she paid for. She had a beautiful wedding.
mom, just because you’re paying half doesn’t mean you’re going to be wearing it.
I had a dress picked by and paid for by my mother. But I was lucky - she has great taste and picked a dress that was fabulous! Seeing some mothers and daughters on these shows makes me appreciate my own mother even more.
I think that's one of the most beautiful lace wedding dresses I have ever seen! It's so nice that her mum softened and supported her choice.
I'm afraid of mothers who jumble the letters of her name to name her daughters.
Isn't that what happened to you?
The first dress is the best. Looks glamour, chic and elegant at the same time.
She looks stunning in every dress like omg!
👏It's 👏The👏 Daughter's 👏 Choice, 👏Not 👏 The 👏 Mum's 👏 Choice
This made me cry...a good cry. Stunning! Bravo Mama!
The first dress was so beautiful on her!
Wow the first dress really complimented her body it's gorgeous 👗❤️
The bride has that awesome figure to carry the fitted dress perfectly 😍 but i want that second dress 😭😭😍
The first one was so good
That first dress was drop dead gorgeous!
I love all three dresses, and they all look astounding on her. I think the third one was the best choice. Alis looks stunning even in her grunge glam. She will be a gorgeous bride.
Props to David for trying to mitigate the conflict and getting the mom to concede
She looks so beautiful in every gown. She was so confident about her choice, and that's going to show on her big day. The veil should be very long, floor length or cathedral.
Again….NOT YOUR WEDDING, MOM!! As a mother, these moms offend my sensibilities!!! It’s HER DAY - NOT yours!
A lot of these moms remind me how blessed I am to have mine. Thanks, ya kooks!
The bride is simply stunning
Wow the bride has an amazing figure! She looks stunning
She seems to be a lovely person as well
I am happy for her - she found a great dress that fits perfectly
All 3 dresses were a good choice for her but when she put on number 3, she literally bloomed!! Best wedding dress I’ve seen in ages. Beautiful 💕
I like how he confronted the mother. Gosh. It’s best to get what you like. You can’t be miserable on your wedding day.
I like first dress the best
What a beautiful dress. She looked gorgeous. Glad mum came round in the end
The first dress made her look GORGEOUS
The bride is sooo beautiful and so her sister and mother.
I hate mother’s like this....I let my daughter choose her own dress! It didn’t matter what I wanted....
yayyyyyy mom changed her mind, lovely. I'm so glad she did. and I have joyful goosebumps.
All the dresses were so pretty on her the last dress was the right choice. The color is right on her complexion
For me the first dress was the best! It fitted her so well
Don’t you just love her bridesmaid who gives her such great support!
1st dress was beautiful
I like how her mom did let her choose the dress at the end, but I wish that when family or friends come help choose the dress, they should let her choose the dress, it's her wedding, she will remember it for the rest of her life, she should love the dress, that she is going to wear for her wedding
I’m pregnant with my first and she’s due may eighth 2022. My husband and I would never ever push her into a dress that she doesn’t want. All we want is for her to be happy with the dress that she chose for her wedding. We want her to feel beautiful and we want her to walk down that isle confidently in something that she loves. I could never tell my daughter that I have a say in her wedding dress. I don’t care if I’m paying for it! It’s her day and I’ll pay for it because I love her and I want her to be happy. It’s a gift and the only thing I expect from her in return is her happiness and to see her face light up when she finds the one❤️❤️ that’s all her father and I could ever ask for.
This dress is so beautiful on her . Right choice 👍🏻👍🏻🎀
She looked great in every dress. I’m not a fan of the 1st style but on her it looked gorgeous.
Mom!! She's not a little girl anymore she isn't your little princess. She wants a grownup gown.
The first one looked better but it's about her and made her choice.
The chosen dress is amazing and beautiful.
Good on you, Mom!
In India our parents pay for almost everything even though the children are capable.
Is it no the usual for your country?
Nope we pay for our own things
At the end a mother just wants her daughter to be happy on her day!
Her bridesmaids were so sweet omg.
Great another mother that thinks this is her wedding 🤦🏻♀️
Yeah I would have stopped the appointment on the first dress and left. I’d half my budget and get a dress without her.
I know she didn't like it but I loved the second dress, I'll definitely start saving up for it 👰
The top on the second dress is SOOOO pretty
The dress the bride chose looks beautiful on her.
the first one was gorgeous but i do feel like the third one was more bridal and it looks great on her too! and it was cheaper too so she has more budget for the veil and other accessories
David must've had a talk with the mum when the bride to be was in the dressing room. No way that stubborn lady would've changed her preference so quickly.
Mum was really sweet at the end. I appreciated it.
The bride looks stunning in every dress. I think this is the greatest problem.
The moment my mom would’ve started talking about the money she was putting towards my dress I would’ve told her to keep her half and searched for a dress in my budget alone
I say come alone not with mom or m.i.l or anyone!
It's good to have a second opinion. Bring a friend that shares your taste or someone that's has even better taste.
I'd bring my older sister but leave the entire rest of my family and friends group at home.
I once saw an episode where a brother picked his sisters wedding dress. It was gorgeous.
Sometimes a male opinion is also appreciated
she looks good in everything she's wearing
what a beautiful dress, it surprises me how often, the ones with a lot of material are cheaper than fitted.
The bride has a great figure.,. Anything looks good on her
The second dress. So pretty. 💘
Wow she looks great in all the dresses
Omg just give her an overskirt! Literally you get the best of both worlds
I would of chosen the first one and paid for it myself.
In situations like this, it's best to follow what the person wants for herself since almost everything looks good on her so that's the least of their problems
I thought I wanted a more fitted dress but ended up with a ruffled ballgown and also no regrets
The first dress is still my favorite
hi from 4 years later, I like the last dress more
the first dress make her look magnificent!!!!
The third dress is stunning on her . Even I love the design and I would love to wear it❤
The first dress is toooooo good though! ❤❤
The dress she chose was absolutely gorgeous. I don’t think the veil matched well, but that could be changed. If my daughter were getting married, I would hope she would choose something like this.
I looove the first dress... 3rd dress was gorgeous as well. Glad david told that mother off.. and those bridesmaids are so sweet and supportive.
It's not like sharing household rules with an adult child to get a share in say, it's a dress, mom should have no say, if she requests mom's opinion only, mom is there to support daughter's perspective, true support
Love the choice absolutely elegant
Oh so beautiful, is all I can say....takes my envious breath away and makes me feel so happy for them.
I thought she looked better in the first dress.
4:40..when the mom thinks she should've brought back up😂😂😂😂
A good compromise would be be fit and flare like she wanted with with overhead skirt so it's kind of a suprise
I couldn't imagine doing that to my daughter.
I flew to Missouri from Georgia just to be with my daughter for wedding dress shopping. I was the only person she wanted with her to dress shop for her wedding gown. She took one side of the store, I took the other. I ASKED HER what she was looking for… simple and elegant was her style. I did not even look at dresses with any bling. However, as I pulled a very simple ivory one, I saw a scroll of stones and pearls at the side waist. I asked her about it and she was willing to try it. She had 5 to try. The simple one with the scroll of stones was number three. As the gown came down on her shoulders, her face lit up and we all knew it was THE dress! She never even tried on the other two!! It made this mother very happy to have picked that dress. I was even happier that it was truly HER choice!! She also wanted a very tiny wedding… only parents, siblings, and best friends. Including one baby, there were 25 in attendance. It was awesome! She and her husband have been married almost 15 years and she still thanks us for “letting” her have the small wedding SHE wanted!! BTW, she still looks great in the dress!,
Alis and Isla -same name with the letters switched around 😂