Russell Brand Exploiting THIS for Cash | Prince Harry Analysis

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  • Опубліковано 10 чер 2024
  • English Psychiatrist Dr. Raj Persaud is here to give his professional view on Russell Brand, Prince Harry and Lucy Letby. Even I got analysed, based on a quite unexpected question he asked - same question they ask at the entrance of a Fetish Club. Very interesting and variating episode, don’t miss out! #russellbrand #meghanmarkle #princeharry
    Dr. Persaud’s links:
    drrajpersaud.com/the-podcasts
    amzn.eu/d/4AwSs0R
    Andrew Gold links:
    / andrewgold1
    / andrewgold_ok
    / andrewgold_ok
    andrewgold.locals.com
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    Chapters:
    00:00 Russell Brand Exploiting This for MONEY?
    05:54 Analyzing Russell's video
    08:58 His body language said THIS
    12:07 Trial by media
    15:29 Russell Brand is TOO SMART
    19:19 Too NARCISSISTIC to ask for help
    26:45 What makes celebrities attractive?
    30:01 Russell Brand's Sex Addiction
    34:10 THIS is the evidence for the addiction
    38:05 Could this be the SOLUTION?
    45:18 Prince Harry's Therapist Got THIS Wrong
    49:30 The down side to positive therapy
    55:13 Harry should've known THIS way earlier
    58:57 Prince Harry did exactly what he complained about
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    Edited by: Gonzalo Kaplanski
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  • @AndrewGold1
    @AndrewGold1  7 місяців тому +34

    Thoughts on Brand and Harry? Let me know below, and hit like!

    • @SHARON.I
      @SHARON.I 7 місяців тому +1

      Is this premier live i thjnk?

    • @goatboy2510
      @goatboy2510 7 місяців тому +4

      BEST EPISODE EVER! LOVE THE DOC! BEEN IN THERAPY MYSELF - WOULD LOVE TO HAVE SESSIONS WITH HIM.

    • @petersmith2522
      @petersmith2522 7 місяців тому +5

      I would ask your guest is it not narcassistic to prey on the lives and mistakes of others for personal gain

    • @ronycampbell251
      @ronycampbell251 7 місяців тому +3

      This was a brilliant interview. I don't know if you noticed the artwork on Dr Perchaud's (? Hope I've spelt that correctly) wall. Rorschach ink print. I was fixed on it throughout. I got about five different answers

    • @sTraYa249
      @sTraYa249 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@goatboy2510 he's great!

  • @budyza180
    @budyza180 7 місяців тому +56

    Dr. Raj is your best guest ever. So intelligent, interesting, informative and insightful.

    • @CptShelby
      @CptShelby 7 місяців тому +5

      I hope we will see more of him!

    • @Orangecat1996
      @Orangecat1996 7 місяців тому +2

      Awesome alliterative accolade!

    • @budyza180
      @budyza180 7 місяців тому +1

      I see what you did there! 😉

    • @bowievision8291
      @bowievision8291 7 місяців тому +1

      I agree. Dr Raj and HD Tudor.
      Always very insightful.

  • @judith4158
    @judith4158 7 місяців тому +47

    I love this guy, finally a therapist who says it as it is! Having been a nurse for many years and who is now an 'elderly' woman with so much life experience, I agree with him totally. Life is hard, we have to deal with it. Why people expect anything else has to mean they've been over protected.

    • @elsestelema6273
      @elsestelema6273 7 місяців тому +3

      Yes that’s why all these entitled youngsters who never heard the word no now can’t cope with the real word

    • @ruthhorowitz7625
      @ruthhorowitz7625 7 місяців тому +5

      I dealt with it, until I couldn't, then I got diagnosed with autism. Maybe if I had been diagnosed earlier and had known what I know now, things would have been easier. Stop judging people. People like you have been making life more difficult for me my entire life without stopping to consider that I might have reasons for my struggles. I should have been diagnosed in 2006 when I had my first major breakdown.

    • @adminw2systems
      @adminw2systems 7 місяців тому

      That's fair enough - but 99% of the twitterati who can't take reality as a definite proposition, or minor offence for what it actually is, do not have autism. They just have sickly ideas such as safe spaces from ideas and other such nonsenses.....@@ruthhorowitz7625

    • @sayurii2526
      @sayurii2526 7 місяців тому +1

      I love Dr Raj. He's not afraid to share his expertise and natural insight no matter what backrash he gets. I salute.

  • @flyoverurbangarden4315
    @flyoverurbangarden4315 7 місяців тому +19

    Get this guy once a week. So much fun and interesting.

  • @debbieklahn1263
    @debbieklahn1263 7 місяців тому +49

    Andrew, what an amazing interview! I hope that you can get Dr Persaud to speak again on your show. He is very interesting and insightful!

    • @lb2229
      @lb2229 7 місяців тому +5

      Yes!

    • @ronycampbell251
      @ronycampbell251 7 місяців тому +5

      Completely agree.

    • @joyfuldenay
      @joyfuldenay 7 місяців тому +6

      Was going to write the same thing

    • @Yodika1958
      @Yodika1958 7 місяців тому +2

      2nd that comment

  • @LisaBritintheUS
    @LisaBritintheUS 7 місяців тому +36

    Raj had me laughing my butt off. I like his saucy humor. I think he even made you blush Andrew. Great interview 😂❤

  • @dave_goldcrest
    @dave_goldcrest 7 місяців тому +29

    I've seen a lot of psychiatrists over the years but none with a sense of humour and ability to laugh at himself like this guy.

  • @trencianskababa4469
    @trencianskababa4469 7 місяців тому +21

    Excellent discussion. I like Andrew’s calm and intelligent approach to things. ❤

  • @cookeechoc8824
    @cookeechoc8824 7 місяців тому +16

    Wonderful interview ! Love how this man tells it like it is. I have such disdain for psychologists, for some of the points he brought up but if I ever decided to consult one, it could only be a proper, decent and honest one like him. Moreover, as a half-english national I sometimes find it quite complex to understand what english people are actually meaning to say as they rarely get straight to the point out of politeness/good manners, etc... so I find his bluntness, the way in which he doesn't shy away from calling crap when he sees it, so refreshing !

  • @HPB1776
    @HPB1776 7 місяців тому +5

    This is such a fantastic episode, as is the other one with Dr Persaud. Your channel is getting better and better Andrew. I love your way of engaging with guests. You two are a great combination. I hope you do lots more together.

  • @kitchenworker446
    @kitchenworker446 7 місяців тому +14

    One of the best guests you have had Andrew...a very astute, intelligentand sensible man and best of all someone who tells it like it is...

  • @schahrzadmorgan
    @schahrzadmorgan 7 місяців тому +10

    Omg this is one of your best interviews! Dr. Pasaud is so funny and your back and forth banter has me cracking up.

  • @CaptainFutura
    @CaptainFutura 7 місяців тому +47

    Russell Brand isn't 'too intelligent ' he's just grandiose. Often he doesn't even know the proper meanings of many of the grandiose words he uses. He is manipulative, entitled and also believes he's more intelligent than everyone else.

    • @sharfalor4244
      @sharfalor4244 7 місяців тому +16

      Yes, he often uses his 'big' words completely out of context.

    • @randomhumanoidblob4506
      @randomhumanoidblob4506 7 місяців тому +1

      Ludicrous mountebank pretender. Never go full Dunning-Kruger lest you too end up a 40ish lech spouting contradictory politics and pseudo-religion thinking you're some guru for the kids.
      He's repugnant. We need to form the antifan club or something 😁

    • @tomardans4258
      @tomardans4258 7 місяців тому

      He’s a huge fan of Vandana Shiva. Moron litmus test.

    • @Sarah-with-an-H
      @Sarah-with-an-H 7 місяців тому +3

      It’s because Brand overuses the hand gestures that has me noticing the same hand gestures from most if not all politicians and I now see it as a tell of inauthenticity and manipulation. I’m immediately turned off and distrust people who do the same.

    • @juliettebarker9443
      @juliettebarker9443 7 місяців тому

      @@sharfalor4244 so true!!!!!

  • @nicolemaddison2945
    @nicolemaddison2945 7 місяців тому +12

    Great Banter. Very thought provoking. Raj is the disarmingly honest and real. Great channel. X from Aus

  • @lisakyf
    @lisakyf 7 місяців тому +10

    Really enjoyed this discussion Andrew, thank you 👍🏻 I can remember watching Raj as a teen back when he was on This Morning with Richard and Judy, now I’m a psychotherapist myself :)

  • @kkhera3730
    @kkhera3730 7 місяців тому +11

    Great guest and show, thank you Andrew ❤

  • @Pattyjohnson476
    @Pattyjohnson476 7 місяців тому +8

    Great flow between you two. Enjoyed this conversation very much.

  • @marys33794
    @marys33794 7 місяців тому +5

    Watching from over here in Ireland. 💚💚💚

  • @LoriManning
    @LoriManning 7 місяців тому +8

    Dr. Raj is solid❤

  • @cristinamaguire2844
    @cristinamaguire2844 7 місяців тому +5

    Amazing interview! Love Dr. Persaud.

  • @bowievision8291
    @bowievision8291 7 місяців тому +3

    So the good doctor saved the financial guy from the Streisand effect.
    I really enjoy these conversations between you and Dr Raj Persaud, Andrew.

  • @RoyalNorthern251
    @RoyalNorthern251 7 місяців тому +10

    So proud of your channel growth. Such good to come for you I am sure.
    Great coup this interview. Well done!😊

  • @gabbyb4493
    @gabbyb4493 7 місяців тому +34

    William also lost his mother, he hasn’t monetized her death or claimed his wife is channeling his mother. It is disgraceful that Harry and his wife have continually dragged out his mothers death as an excuse for their abhorrent behaviour.

    • @jbullock5652
      @jbullock5652 7 місяців тому

      Wait and see what happens if/when Duana returns in 2024
      They say shesurvived the car crash and was put into witness protection programme

    • @sTraYa249
      @sTraYa249 7 місяців тому +2

      Yep, but harpy just can't help himself, I've lost both my parents, as have my siblings, but for one of us to use it as cudgle to to undermine or make less of its affect on the other's would be absurd

    • @Sarah-with-an-H
      @Sarah-with-an-H 7 місяців тому

      Not excusing Harry’s actions however I see his attraction to his wife as a trauma bond as his grief and losing his mother so young is exactly what attracted him to a woman who has done a lot emulate Princess Diana.

  • @ruthdrummond4274
    @ruthdrummond4274 7 місяців тому +12

    Who is the psychiatrist who is on the show? He's brilliant. I love the dynamic between the two of you.

    • @jbullock5652
      @jbullock5652 7 місяців тому +1

      He was the psychiatrist on ITVs This Morning show

  • @Curious847
    @Curious847 7 місяців тому +3

    As my mom always said "never volunteer any info, keep quiet"!

  • @hellpoint7534
    @hellpoint7534 7 місяців тому +17

    Yes, doing nothing in the face of baseless allegations can be powerful. Works for the BRF. I notice a lot of youtubers have a probkem with any little bit of criticism. It isn't necessary to address every negative comment. 😊

    • @SmartStart24
      @SmartStart24 7 місяців тому

      True! I never understood why more celebs didn’t just shut up when accused of things? I’m not saying I want them to get away with it but I just don’t get why they wouldn’t think about it that way themselves?

  • @spillinteawithspunkysparky
    @spillinteawithspunkysparky 7 місяців тому +7

    This conversation was delightful to watch. :) Dr. Raj Persaud! You are wonderful! I would love to have you for my psychiatrist if I ever need one-my new favorite! (I've never had a favorite! LOL) I imagine hanging out with you would be very interesting. :) God Bless!

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 7 місяців тому +6

    This was so good! Ty Andrew. I love your interviews ❤

  • @jejmoss11
    @jejmoss11 7 місяців тому +8

    Raj is good. Love his approach.

  • @vanessawilde8389
    @vanessawilde8389 7 місяців тому +8

    Great conversation, please do more with Raj Persuad.

  • @tvendor
    @tvendor 7 місяців тому +22

    Or, to ask - what benefit am I getting by believing this conspiracy? What victim behavior am I justify with it? We all have the answers within ourselves, if we're just brave enough to ask - ourselves. Great interview, Andrew. This guy is solid, and he has a good sense of humor!

    • @angelcitystudio
      @angelcitystudio 7 місяців тому

      Most people believe in conspiracies because it makes them feel less ashamed of being ignorant. Just deny truth and knowledge because you cant access it or are not privy to it. Instead believe in fantasies and stories that demonize the truth and the knowledge that you dont understand, or believe in. Then you get to remain a low level underachiever but feel really superior and proud of it.

  • @Yodika1958
    @Yodika1958 7 місяців тому +14

    I think Brand did some terrible things. He probably was so drugged he doesn't even remember what he's done. As for Harry he definitely needs help. Being hen-pecked by Meghan would be enough to throw him over the edge!

  • @JoTracy
    @JoTracy 7 місяців тому +10

    Great interview!
    So interesting and informative 👍 👌
    Thanks Andrew 😊

  • @rjeckardt8863
    @rjeckardt8863 7 місяців тому +6

    Brand is and has always been an extremely undesirable character!

    • @petersmith2522
      @petersmith2522 7 місяців тому +1

      Yet he has millions that like him which kind of urinates on what you just said 😁

    • @rjeckardt8863
      @rjeckardt8863 7 місяців тому

      Indeed. There's a lot of stupid people on the planet...in case you hadn't noticed! @@petersmith2522

    • @sharfalor4244
      @sharfalor4244 7 місяців тому +4

      ​@@petersmith2522well that just shows how many easily manipulated people there are.

    • @petersmith2522
      @petersmith2522 7 місяців тому

      @@sharfalor4244 what is his show about every day its about trying to stop us being manipulated by the elite greedy selfish ruling class look at all the people that still worship the royals they are being severly manipulated made fools of frankly 😁

  • @martharamirezdelacruz5106
    @martharamirezdelacruz5106 7 місяців тому +1

    Dr. Raj is very smart. He knows how lawyers and psychiatrists think and react in the celebrity world. I love listening a psychiatrist's perspective on the Scientology stuff and celebrities as human beings and as a brand.

  • @Caroljeanbarnhart
    @Caroljeanbarnhart 7 місяців тому +3

    LOVE you Andrew ❤!!

  • @stopwhining783
    @stopwhining783 7 місяців тому +4

    I really like this guy's take on what therapy should really be. A challenge to one's belief. Well said.

  • @user-xu1si1kh8c
    @user-xu1si1kh8c 7 місяців тому +2

    Great interview.. well done Andrew !🎉😊❤

  • @nikk3251
    @nikk3251 7 місяців тому +1

    A great chat. Really interesting thank you 😊 💜

  • @keserbrozovic
    @keserbrozovic 7 місяців тому +1

    Mr. Raj is a therapist I would like to ask for help if I needed it. I've never heard somebody so wise and insightful. A great interview!

  • @loisrogers9042
    @loisrogers9042 7 місяців тому +1

    I've been told that if my hands were tied I wouldn't be able to talk at all! I think of RB as being very expressive with a excess of energy.

  • @hala9175
    @hala9175 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Andrew! Thanks Dr. Raj!

  • @Crashed2023
    @Crashed2023 7 місяців тому +10

    A really great discussion with Dr. Raj and totally concur with his more proactive take on therapy. Naval gazing for years won't change a thing and CBT ( Cognitive behavioural therapy) with a mix of getting 'stuff' off your chest as to say is much more beneficial in the long (short) term! in my opinion also. Change and agency is not necessarily that easy and some people would rather carry the victim card rather than let go. Not to say that what other's have done or what events have taken place makes it alright. But healing and recovering is what we really are seeking is it not? ( Lighter note. Brand looked scared as sh*t and harry has become a king... Of the simps!)

  • @pilatesrebalance
    @pilatesrebalance 7 місяців тому +1

    Loved this conversation.. Many thanks x

  • @lindabonomi7274
    @lindabonomi7274 7 місяців тому +3

    EXCELLENT and fascinating video!

  • @Debracorbett
    @Debracorbett 7 місяців тому +1

    Keep up the great work Andrew. Fab video!

  • @Melody-st4df
    @Melody-st4df 7 місяців тому +1

    Nice One Andrew Sir. Thank you.

  • @theresekleyn2377
    @theresekleyn2377 7 місяців тому +1

    Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

  • @tomdmann
    @tomdmann 7 місяців тому +3

    I forgot how much I like Raj. Great guest 👍

  • @sharonmarx3911
    @sharonmarx3911 7 місяців тому

    Agreed with comments regarding Dr Raj, best guest ever!

  • @charlie2ism
    @charlie2ism 7 місяців тому +2

    How interesting to see Dr Persaud here. I happen to have had a copy of his book On The Edge for Years (not that I've read it all, just dipped in and out) without knowing that he was so popular. I picked it up at work, where it was no longer wanted. Now I'll have to have a proper read.

  • @halojones1153
    @halojones1153 7 місяців тому +1

    Great content
    TY 🙏

  • @carride4665
    @carride4665 7 місяців тому +1

    Great interview

  • @tonkysue207
    @tonkysue207 7 місяців тому +1

    Loved the energy of this.

  • @balthazarasquith
    @balthazarasquith 7 місяців тому +1

    I could listen to these two talk for hours. Great video man

  • @nualabb
    @nualabb 7 місяців тому +1

    Totally agree, Dr Raj is your best guest. What a great guy. Please ask him on again.

  • @karenturner7184
    @karenturner7184 7 місяців тому

    Loving this man. So interesting

  • @Lisarojenko7331
    @Lisarojenko7331 7 місяців тому

    So glad you’re following up. On RB.

  • @Lisarojenko73318
    @Lisarojenko73318 6 місяців тому

    Hi Mrs, I missed this one oh my goodness

  • @elsestelema6273
    @elsestelema6273 7 місяців тому +1

    Loved this one

  • @fionaedmonds389
    @fionaedmonds389 7 місяців тому

    So funny! Love this interview!

  • @beam3819
    @beam3819 7 місяців тому

    Dr Ray hit the nail when saying life is hard for everybody. Problem for many is that we were over protected, shielded and pampered and not raised or educated to face lifes many hardships. So many lives at home at 30 years old now. Grown adult living like children. I have nothing against living toghether with multiple generations under same roof, but that cant be to continue to allow grown children to lie in bed all day watching, playing and on the social net. That is pathetic adult children.

  • @myrmillionade3512
    @myrmillionade3512 7 місяців тому

    Your comment ‘if there is a russel in the bush go and see what it is’, whilst talking about Russell Brand just about killed me 😝😂🤪

  • @Bekamorphosis
    @Bekamorphosis 7 місяців тому +1

    Enjoyed this one, you guys have great rapport you should get him on again 😀

  • @LilithXCX
    @LilithXCX 7 місяців тому +1

    I used to be addicted to Sudafed too! I went to my doctor and they gave me a steroid nose spray which enabled me to stop using Sudafed without the rebound congestion.

    • @cosmiccarol
      @cosmiccarol 7 місяців тому +1

      Nasal rinse sprays are much more effective and safer..

  • @marthacoomber3188
    @marthacoomber3188 7 місяців тому +2

    The foxes mum died in a car incident. Thing is though, he was The King of Foxes. Harry, well, he was jealous.
    Life is complicated. Apparently and expensively so.

  • @cardinalgin
    @cardinalgin 7 місяців тому +1

    I completely understand Dr Persaud's professional reserve stance : avoiding making a diagnosis or assuming what was in RB's mind in that video is obviously what a true professional should do.
    Let me say, though, that Brand's gas-lighting and deflecting guilt onto the victim, making her a culprit by having "known what to expect" from him if he invited her for a coffee. That's not what I would call a "defence" it simply is a typical trick of the narcissist to put their own guilt on their victim. Calling this "not a very good defence" is a mild way of interpreting a very conscious manipulation of the truth.

  • @flyingfig12
    @flyingfig12 7 місяців тому +2

    Gotta have him on again

  • @paulalyus9237
    @paulalyus9237 5 місяців тому

    What a great statement, ‘you have to get out of bed and wage war!’ The perfect description of how life can be.
    Dr Raj is a great interview, a good Therapist will make a living from recommendations, a bad one will have patients like Harry, who has to spend their life going back.
    Thank you for introducing us to Dr Raj 😊

  • @dawnbG
    @dawnbG 7 місяців тому +1

    Please have the good Dr. on again. You two have great rapport and I learned a thing or two

  • @Alice77550
    @Alice77550 7 місяців тому +1

    Dr Raj spoke a lot of sense, great guest!

  • @tchocky71
    @tchocky71 5 місяців тому

    Someone told me she'd been in therapy for seven years, and believed that was the length of time everyone should take to reach the answers/realisation.

  • @olibertosoto5470
    @olibertosoto5470 7 місяців тому +4

    So is having no strategy at all a sign of innocence or guilt? Getting charged with serious allegations even if you are innocent isn't a time to be calm! Just the opposite, being too calm would raise a red flag that there's something screwy going on upstairs guilty or innocent.

    • @petersmith2522
      @petersmith2522 7 місяців тому +1

      If the evidence is so credible against him im quite sure his lawyer would have already advised him to try settle out of court which makes me think hes innocent most people just would not take the chance that they could go to prison

    • @olibertosoto5470
      @olibertosoto5470 7 місяців тому +1

      @@petersmith2522 That's true but haven't heard anything about what his lawyers are really planning to do one way or the other.

    • @petersmith2522
      @petersmith2522 7 місяців тому +1

      @@olibertosoto5470 it would be a strange situation if we never hear anymore about this everyone would be left in mental limbo did he pay them and they agreed to silence or did they realize hes not just gonna backdown so easily and got the fear themselves as they would be under investigation also

    • @olibertosoto5470
      @olibertosoto5470 7 місяців тому +1

      @@petersmith2522 Yes. But whatever happens it will leak, at least all the tabloids will be coming out with their interpretations. 👍🏼

    • @petersmith2522
      @petersmith2522 7 місяців тому

      @@olibertosoto5470 if they write false things though they are then in legal hot water as is that mp who wrote to social media companies before a verdict if i was his lawyer the first thing id do is seize all there phones and computers for examination

  • @melbournegirl7
    @melbournegirl7 7 місяців тому +1

    A very engaging interview.

  • @jen8379
    @jen8379 7 місяців тому +1

    If he/she doesn’t say “I want you… give it to me….” Be cautious. It’s no mystery. When the words “no… don’t… stop” are uttered… then DON’t…. STOP…. Simple!

  • @MalikaBourne
    @MalikaBourne 7 місяців тому +1

    38:00 Insightful discussion.
    Flashback for me. My late ex was an alcoholic. He got forced to go to AA a few times. The first night he came home with a high and mighty smirk. "Well, I learned something. I have an excuse. I have a DISEASE. And YOU are sicker than me - you are co-dependant."
    He left it at that with his excuse that it was OK for me to work 2 jobs and for him to take all of my salary to buy vodka instead of milk for the 3 kids.
    I told him, "Fine. Now get out." (I was the 'bitch who kicked the mean when he was down'.

  • @martharamirezdelacruz5106
    @martharamirezdelacruz5106 7 місяців тому +1

    Andrew, please invite the Black Belt Barrister and Legal Eagle to discuss an issue, celebrity or politician (e.g. Trump and George Santos) from the legal POV. I am shy and cannot never have the confidence to have my own UA-cam channel, so I am basically giving you ideas about what kind of videos you you can make in the future. I love your channel because it educates people unlike other channels that just repeat the gossip they see in the headlines.

  • @winwhite1915
    @winwhite1915 7 місяців тому +2

    Enough about Hatty and Meghan

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 7 місяців тому +1

    I really enjoy Dr Raj

  • @elainekidd5442
    @elainekidd5442 7 місяців тому

    Good guest!

  • @CarolMartin-xm1ri
    @CarolMartin-xm1ri 7 місяців тому +1

    You make a good team.

  • @Nancymarie_
    @Nancymarie_ 7 місяців тому +1

    Great interview- Harry has I am a “victim” complex!

  • @aab8429
    @aab8429 7 місяців тому +1

    Russell was extremely anxious in that video

  • @claire-christmas-august73
    @claire-christmas-august73 7 місяців тому +1

    thoroughly enjoyed.!
    can we do that again..?
    ☺️😊
    ✌🏻🇦🇺🌏🤘🏻

  • @OneLine122
    @OneLine122 7 місяців тому +13

    He's more in the grifter class of therapists. Like motivation type of thing. It can work for small things if you want it to work.
    Deep down we have lots of traumas, psychological wounds. They may not be big for some other people but are core to us. So it does not really matter if this guy wants to play the tough guy and diminish them. He should keep dealing with narcissists that need to change their image and feel great about it.
    If you actually want to fix deep seated problems arising from different traumas, it takes years, and it never ends. It's also quite difficult, unlike changing behavior. It's about accepting the past in a healthy way so it does not haunt you. Then you have to fix whatever thought pattern arose from that, and it's where Mate is good, because he points out those early traumas or lack of needs met when a child can affect people greatly and it is pretty much impossible to fix entirely.
    That's a reality Persaud denies, which is a problem in my opinion. He's giving people some hacks instead of an overall self building, which is the problem of most serious problems. Harry has a problem of the self, he is searching who he is and what he wants to be and who he should be. It's almost impossible to do with such constant scrutiny and moralizing from people that are jealous or feel entitled to his life. Now it's true his tactic in doing so as it is backfires, but that's why it is hard to change. People want him to be a victim, so he accepts that role and in doing so, he gets blamed for it. There is a whole industry that just waits for his next move to criticize him, and that will be probably for eternity. What he would need is fight back and treat them like crap, but he won't do that.

  • @skybabe1959
    @skybabe1959 7 місяців тому +3

    Love Dr. Raj!!!!! Andrew, uh oh I think i'm addicted to your show...Wait, am I a slave ????? hahahhaahhaah you just have the best content, thank you so much!!!!!!

  • @jacquiet6040
    @jacquiet6040 7 місяців тому

    I recall a commentor mentioned that they lived in East Vancouver and that doctor worked in that area for several years. I lived in E. Van for 10 yrs, never heard of him.

  • @Sarah-with-an-H
    @Sarah-with-an-H 7 місяців тому +3

    The Russel Brand allegations made me hyper aware of just how much Russel uses his hands to get across ideas and just how manipulative doing that is and then I noticed how much the same hand movements where done in the second Republican debate. It sticks out like a sore thumb now when anyone does these same hand movements aren’t being honest and it’s rather calculated thing to do to add emphasis to what’s being said, but it’s very inauthentic behavior so intuitively I sense individuals who do these kinds of hand movements are untrustworthy and are motivated to tell people what they think people want to hear.

    • @veroniquedemauroet7489
      @veroniquedemauroet7489 7 місяців тому +1

      @Sarah-with-an-H. Perhaps when it comes to Russell you're absolutely right and so is Dr. Raj. However, did you notice how much even Dr. Raj gesticulated in this video? I've always been a bit suspect of body language professionals because they seem to all overlook one very important mitigating factor...culture! People of different cultures have different affectations, varying types of gesticulations and this even applies to eye contact. Just as an example, there are some countries where children are taught not to look someone in the eye if that person is older, in a position of authority or they are being reprimanded. They carry that into their adulthood.

    • @Sarah-with-an-H
      @Sarah-with-an-H 7 місяців тому +1

      @@veroniquedemauroet7489 I wasn’t watching this video I was listening. Also the inflection in this guy’s voice didn’t have preacher vibes. L have to watch the video. There’s also a possibility that this doctor talks with his hands which are a different and circular sort of hand gestures that are more rounded in nature instead of kind of rigid and forced . Regardless I got the impression of a manipulative tactic from one that sets off alarms and something more genuine from this doctor. I’m also highly intuitive and pick up on vibes and intentions aren’t always noticeable . I had to figure that out quick as a kid for survival

    • @veroniquedemauroet7489
      @veroniquedemauroet7489 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Sarah-with-an-H Far be it for me to question anyone's intuition, Sarah. I agree that auditory clues can oftentimes be just as telling as visual ones.

  • @rw4754
    @rw4754 7 місяців тому +1

    To be fair to Freud, he and Jung were among the first in the field. Today Freud might be alot more rapid. So much more is known now.

  • @fionaedmonds389
    @fionaedmonds389 7 місяців тому +1

    Dr Raj a brilliant therapist so knowledgable and spot on with the PURPOSE of therapy! I used to work with people using Human Givens Therapy (now retired) very effective over a couple of sessions!

  • @ashlyforever5025
    @ashlyforever5025 7 місяців тому

    Personally one of my favorite guests on your show. Not just because of his charm and wisdom but the 2 of you have great banter, great chemistry and similar senses of humor. Will watch every episode hes in it

  • @MissMentats
    @MissMentats 7 місяців тому +2

    I dislike shahom… this guy is gold 👏… some might even say Andrew gold

  • @tchocky71
    @tchocky71 5 місяців тому

    I am absolutely dismayed by this name-calling. How nasty! How immature!

  • @musiqueguy1
    @musiqueguy1 7 місяців тому +2

    On Brand and he's-too-good-looking speaks to the part of us (human beings) that always associates bad with ugly. People seem to have a built-in mental picture of someone ugly, frightening to look upon, disgusting, etc. The Devil. Some of the worst serial killers and criminals have been attractive. That's why many have been so prolific. People by now know this, but we fall for it every time. Bonus tip: trust no one.

    • @veroniquedemauroet7489
      @veroniquedemauroet7489 7 місяців тому +2

      Excellent point @musiqueguy1. If this had been known in the 70s, Ted Bundy would have never been able to murder 30+ women. However, unless one is a Sapiensexual, Russell Brand is not anywhere near a good-looking man.

  • @i.ehrenfest349
    @i.ehrenfest349 7 місяців тому +1

    These seem to me strange criticisms of Gabor Mate. He is not Prince Harry’s therapist; they did one interview. So there was no reason not to be “sympthetic” or to place more emphasis on therapy to make him change….it’s not a therapy, it was one session.
    And yes, it addressed trauma. I can’t fathom what is wrong with that. We are of course talking about cPTSD and the main cPTSD experts say it is quite common.
    I’m not very impressed with someone who rather frivously criticises another person, without seeming to know very much about that person, about the field that person moves in, and even about the interview itself.

  • @JerseyLynne
    @JerseyLynne 7 місяців тому +2

    What a smart young man.

  • @BIBLE-UNBUTCHERED
    @BIBLE-UNBUTCHERED 7 місяців тому +2

    Psychologists are just very expensive friends I've concluded - they claim the same perfunctory role. "Psychs for Psychs" is their help group.. often they'll be open that they be suffered trauma and abuse themselves and 'that spurred them on to make this career choice'... Err?? What's you just say?

  • @louvin44
    @louvin44 7 місяців тому +1

    I would love to hear a discussion with Dr. Persaud and Jordan Peterson.

  • @opinion3742
    @opinion3742 7 місяців тому +1

    If I were being accused of sexual assault I would be extremely anxious. I would have imagined that being calm about it would raise one's suspicion of guilt, not lowered it.

  • @ashlyforever5025
    @ashlyforever5025 7 місяців тому

    Also your description of your fiance is she's the only one that would take me killed me 😂