THIS Sets You Apart From Every Other Woman

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  • @JonathonAslay
    @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому +3

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  • @cyn5962
    @cyn5962 11 місяців тому +29

    Embracing the present moment = Mindfulness, not focusing on the crap from the past nor becoming anxious about the future. This is a nice place to be.

  • @Tbn48ibp
    @Tbn48ibp 11 місяців тому +12

    I agree with Jonathan. Don’t text Prefer
    A
    Call

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 8 місяців тому +2

      Texting means nothing. A pen pal Artificial intimacy. .

  • @susie115
    @susie115 11 місяців тому +11

    "Help him open up, this sets you apart from Every Other Woman ". At my age, been there and tried that, it didn't work. I didn't even want to watch the video just because of the title . Are you kidding ? At our age those things should be figured out. Been through enough trying to get somebody to do something so basic. Not my job anymore. How about telling men to grow up and get some EQ about them. That would be nice.

    • @Bb-k4gd
      @Bb-k4gd 11 місяців тому +6

      Lol love it 😂 Absolutely agree!!! 🙌🏻

    • @veganvintagegeek2.089
      @veganvintagegeek2.089 9 місяців тому

      Thank you for posting this comment I am 100% going to say this to the man I am getting to know. I'm not going to be mean when I say this, I will ask him if he knows what an EQ is and that I hope he will learn how to improve his EQ.

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 8 місяців тому

      Amen sister! Radical honesty. EQ. Wisdom does not correlate to IQ.

  • @jillwalker6076
    @jillwalker6076 11 місяців тому +9

    I agree with your concept of having meaningful conversation. I hate superficial bullshit talk.

  • @laurawalker7345
    @laurawalker7345 11 місяців тому +12

    I’m new here; a very spiritual and authentic person. I’m filled with magic (literally) 😂. Totally digging your original approach… especially that the coaching isn’t only based on how to please a man. Thank you for offering advise based on finding my own personal happiness.

  • @brendahart3754
    @brendahart3754 11 місяців тому +1

    I have question, I have a tendency to meet men online for coffee or a casual bite to eat. And this has happened on more than one occasion... The man will text me immediately after, saying " I had a great time, I'd really like to see you again", but not call me again. One recently even asked me if I'd be interested in going to a place where there is live music, but I have never heard from him again. Why do men do this? Better to just not say anything, then to make a gal feel like you really like them.

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 8 місяців тому

      On rotation, or they're in a relationship. Next! No integrity. Talk is cheap.

  • @char72
    @char72 11 місяців тому +2

    Jonathon, there are many of us women who are possibly one pay check away from homelessness. I know as I was there and had a daughter too. God put a dear wonderful friend in my path and we got an apartment together and shared our expenses. Maybe there is someone out there that could be a friend and share expenses for an apartment? My friend and I were acquainted for a couple of weeks and she suggested that we share an apartment. Btw, she was in a wheelchair with osteoporosis disease. What a wonderful blessing she was. God was truly in our meeting.

  • @SuzieQ7983
    @SuzieQ7983 11 місяців тому +4

    I’m a recovery room nurse. The medication you’re referring to is Versed.

  • @hipnhappenin
    @hipnhappenin 11 місяців тому +4

    A guy cried to me, asked me to hold him and said I made him feel safe. He dumped me 2 weeks later.

    • @zanecliffo3685
      @zanecliffo3685 11 місяців тому +1

      He wssnt ready for you. So he ran he will come back guaranteed as they always do

  • @russellalfonso2962
    @russellalfonso2962 11 місяців тому +4

    The idea that someone could be experienced as "a home," dates back at least as far back as 1961 in Tennessee Williams' play 'Night of the Iguana".

  • @deniluhoffman
    @deniluhoffman 11 місяців тому +2

    Great video! Touched a few of the issues that I have experienced with men lately. The chats! Oh my goodness. One liners, no punctuation and emojis! NEXT...😊

  • @nancyhitzroth5941
    @nancyhitzroth5941 9 місяців тому

    OMGosh...thank you you so much for this video Johnathon. Totally resonated with what you were saying. Please keep your videos coming. AWESOME insight and very powerful points that can help women and men alike!

  • @MargaretCampbell583
    @MargaretCampbell583 11 місяців тому +4

    YES Peace is exactly it.

  • @artishastudio8956
    @artishastudio8956 11 місяців тому +5

    If someone is flaky that is a clear indication they are not interested, you are a convenience, keeping g there options open. I don't do flaky either way. 😊

  • @FlatStella1
    @FlatStella1 11 місяців тому +1

    true!!I agreee! Once I got golden status on tonder ( or sth. like that)liked by 100% of guys.Ok I have a good body also, that helped photos, but I have passion ( at that tiem working with dogs)Some photos where with them.But I stoppped using tinder and when I wanted to returned tinder blocked me :P

  • @karenking5910
    @karenking5910 11 місяців тому +1

    I think your explanation about remaining friends after marriage or relationship whilst being in another relationship was excellent thank you 😊 I liked that you said if someone has a problem with a friend in your life then they’re not the one for you ❤

  • @MargaretCampbell583
    @MargaretCampbell583 11 місяців тому +2

    Home feels safe and right. it feels right.

  • @truemorris6695
    @truemorris6695 11 місяців тому +5

    Jonathan, I wanted to clarify the narcissist statement had to do with an ex and others wanting to keep you as a placeholder until they find someone better that’s what narcissist do I was saying that’s what I experienced with my x and it hurts, especially when I gave him all of me.. I didn’t know anything about that, until we were over and he discarded me
    I think you are getting better as a coach. Because I keep coming back to you. Thank you Jonathon

  • @jodaisy113
    @jodaisy113 11 місяців тому +3

    Alignment is the magic word❣️🪄💫✨

  • @char72
    @char72 11 місяців тому +2

    Jonathon Did you understand that Stacey stated she is homeless and living in her car? Goodness. How can we help her? Obviously she is working and trying. She seems like a good and lovely person.

    • @char72
      @char72 11 місяців тому

      Jonathon is astrology important in a relationship? I’m a December 15 girl.

  • @paulafrate9519
    @paulafrate9519 11 місяців тому

    Be present...no judgment

  • @Tbn48ibp
    @Tbn48ibp 11 місяців тому +2

    My guy is terrible about not asking specifics. He will always send me a text “hope you’re having a wonderful day.” I want him so much to have specifics like, “have you heard from the kids or wasn’t that sunrise cool.” I feel like it’s so shallow to give those blanket statements

    • @emilycarter2446
      @emilycarter2446 11 місяців тому

      I know exactly how you feel. It doesn’t feel authentic :/

  • @jennyrenaud2411
    @jennyrenaud2411 11 місяців тому +1

    Ive been waiting to feel "home" with someone for a very long time. Matt Boggs is pretty cool too. I love you both!

  • @SS-qm3hg
    @SS-qm3hg 11 місяців тому +1

    Love your work! Keep it coming. Thanks and blessings.

  • @loiswall5601
    @loiswall5601 11 місяців тому +1

    What about someone who is widowed for 2 years and 4 months now and I’m 61 and was with him since I was 24. Dating is so difficult and different now. It seems guys are mostly just looking for hook ups.😌

  • @MargaretCampbell583
    @MargaretCampbell583 11 місяців тому +1

    I agree when something is true it’s universal

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 8 місяців тому

      Indeed. I'm a truth seeker.
      In this world verify everything.
      I hope you're well Margaret.

  • @Carr2409
    @Carr2409 11 місяців тому +4

    Thank you Jonathan this was wonderful. And by the way, I’m a Gemini. I don’t take a lot of stock in astrology aligning with each other, as you referenced. I appreciate what you said. I don’t date people based on what sign they are if I did, the dating pool would be very small. Relationships are so much more than all of that. Your dating profile was amazing. Hugs. ❤

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @Carr2409
      @Carr2409 11 місяців тому

      You’re welcome.

    • @jennyrenaud2411
      @jennyrenaud2411 11 місяців тому +2

      I know exactly who I can and cannot date based on their sign. It never fails, I know it's silly but the positive and negative attributes seem to be spot on.

  • @kristy_GT
    @kristy_GT 11 місяців тому +1

    I told my man looking into his eyes feels like coming home… he hasn’t said anything like that to me. Last night I told him with everything going on in my life that even on my worst day, as long as im with him im still living my best life. He said,”Well good, baby “….. not sure if perhaps he simply doesn’t feel the same way or if he’s being a man and that perhaps his language is different 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @sherrisouthwell8160
      @sherrisouthwell8160 11 місяців тому

      I’m in my late 50s and feel the same way with the man I’ve been seeing for about 6 months but I’ve hesitated verbalizing my feelings for fear that I’m sharing too much too soon.

    • @Tbn48ibp
      @Tbn48ibp 8 місяців тому

      If it bothers you …his lack of reciprocity …tell him. If you feel
      He isn’t really into
      It 100 percent than that’s a whole
      Other thing. Is he able to
      Show
      His love in other ways and he’s just not fluffy? Do you trust him?

    • @sherriflemming3218
      @sherriflemming3218 8 місяців тому

      Do you trust him is the issue.

  • @nancyfrazier2329
    @nancyfrazier2329 11 місяців тому +4

    She offended him. He lost respect for her when she called him a p….not off to a good start. Looks like a tit for tat. She called him the name no he gives her short notice for a date. My advice: move on and next time think before you speak. He is not any more to blame than you.

  • @mahaliahoyte6038
    @mahaliahoyte6038 11 місяців тому

    Some men should live by themselves and vice versa.

  • @MargaretCampbell583
    @MargaretCampbell583 11 місяців тому

    Yes I understand what you mean by “this feels like home” that is the best way to say it. I know exactly what you mean

  • @Tara-g7c
    @Tara-g7c 10 місяців тому +1

    I think the one-up-manship, with a man at the top, is in many religions. As far as Christianity, I believe the verses were construed to suit a European patriarchy, and are still misunderstood today by many good and sincere people. I think the perspective in the Bible might be better comprehended as a team of differing roles, not one better than the other. (And everyone has a choice of what they will consider cooperating with: cooperation being key but none of this brutal slavishness. This is about intimate love, not who gets the most power. Honestly, Women, you can just say no to what you are uncomfortable with and his power has just sunk to the floor.) Christian men in the Bible are instructed to care for women "as Christ cared for the congregation and gave himself up for it," as in 'Jesus gave his life up.' I can think of friends and family I would give my life to help and those I have already sacrificed much for...out of love not duty. Jesus is also quoted as saying, "He who is the greatest, must be your servant." So, folks, the reason the man gets respect, is for his deep sense of responsibility and service, and he must earn that respect. Women, you must give respect, if you want love. One beef I have with the feminist movement is women weren't even thinking of how a lack of respect immasculates a man, and they lose their love for her and their desire for her. I understand that the sense of responsibility might scare some men, but if you don't have that sense of responsibility (and, ladies, let's face it: our hormones drive our brains batty a lot of the time. Yes, we have good qualities, too, but guys usually have this wonderful ability to see the bigger perspective.) if guys don't take that sense of responsibility, (and she doesn't encourage him in it) she will have a hard time giving him the admiration, encouragement, respect he needs, as well as love. Guys, you do not have to be perfect. It would be so intimidating to have a partner who is perfect, don't you think? I'd rather have someone who has empathy and understanding when I make mistakes. "Cherish her" the verses say. That means cherish her by what? giving her what she needs not what you imagine she needs? Women, you have got to speak up about your needs and quit the "mysterious woman thing" in that way if your togetherness is to work: honest communication. If a man cherishes a women is he not going to respect her point of view? Will he not respect her feelings? Is he first self-serving, and then considers her? And, ladies, you must, you MUST be brave and be assertive and communicate your own needs and wants, too, or the man will be clueless to your inner world and you will be lonely. He'll feel lonely, too, not connected with you. People are scared off by the Bible because of those who have abused it for centuries. What would you give your life for? Can a person become so precious to you, you'll do everything within your power for them? Do you already have people you show self-sacrificing, unselfish love to? friends, family? Good, then if you've exercised your "love muscle"-your heart- you're ready for some serious love. (And sex being more intimate, more precious to you both, more connecting-sex being sacred!-now has a chance. God created sex, he wants you to enjoy it.)

  • @rox-annerhodes168
    @rox-annerhodes168 11 місяців тому +4

    Jonathan, great content as always! You can be his “PEACE” or a good follow-up: how to be just a “PIECE” to him, an acronym of what NOT to be lol! Love your stuff‼️✊🏼

  • @FrancisWahlgren-tu1hp
    @FrancisWahlgren-tu1hp 11 місяців тому

    My lady and I both thought your bio read a bit like a classified ad on ‘shrooms! I got your back bro!

  • @theresabaker8526
    @theresabaker8526 11 місяців тому

    I like that HOME… each letter… perfect explanation!! So true!!

  • @Bb-k4gd
    @Bb-k4gd 11 місяців тому +2

    @JonathonAsley Great video lol, loved your energy ✨

  • @karenmoriarty5754
    @karenmoriarty5754 11 місяців тому

    I do not remember having a date even once in my entire life.

  • @gsdooneyandbourkereviews777
    @gsdooneyandbourkereviews777 11 місяців тому

    I really enjoyed your show today. I am relatively new to watching your show, however, I find you to be rather informative and like the excellent advice you give to your viewers.
    I loved your dating profile, and you are 100% accurate. It was rather long, and so was mine. I got criticized by a couple of guys for having a long profile. I must agree that if someone is not interested in reading what you wrote, then they are not the right person for you. It is an excellent way to weed people out, and a good way to hopefully find someone you are looking for. I took myself off all dating sites for now; however, if I do decide to go on them again, I am going to write one similar to yours describing exactly the type of guy I am looking for and what I want in a relationship.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому

      WOW! Thank you, and much appreciated. Any chance you share this video with friends?

    • @gsdooneyandbourkereviews777
      @gsdooneyandbourkereviews777 11 місяців тому

      @@JonathonAslay I wish I could share with friends, but most of them are men. The few female friends I have are either married or not looking. If I think of anyone, I will share. Hope to catch you live one of these days soon!

  • @Bb-k4gd
    @Bb-k4gd 11 місяців тому +4

    @Jonathon, Stacy called the guy a ‘pussy’ … how is that rude he didn’t respond for 12 hrs after that … So who offended who ?… 😅

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому

      They were having a conversation... that's rude I my book

    • @Bb-k4gd
      @Bb-k4gd 11 місяців тому +2

      @@JonathonAslay Not after what she said … When someone is disrespectful on a text is appropriate not to answer 🙌🏻

  • @mahaliahoyte6038
    @mahaliahoyte6038 11 місяців тому

    Some men if given the opportunity will meet out same treatment to all women.They just don't care about their feeling. Only concerned with what they could get.

  • @Ms.Ameen_Braveheart
    @Ms.Ameen_Braveheart 11 місяців тому +1

    He was offended by her comment. It was negative, very judgmental and very putting off. He didn't respond immediately so as not to react to her negative comment.

  • @karenvalentine7321
    @karenvalentine7321 9 місяців тому

    What if the person is stuck in the past- but it is mostly all wonderful experiences! I am thankful for the wonderful experiences that he has had for his past two serious relationships over the past 10 years. It’s just that he constantly talks about them and the things they did were so wonderful. I have mentioned that that is great -so let’s make new experiences. Am I wrong in feeling this way?

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  9 місяців тому

      Nope... you are not wrong. He sounds stuck in the past. 😞

  • @stephaniepersin4222
    @stephaniepersin4222 11 місяців тому

    I got resting bastard face twice on a date. I didn’t catfish them, they catfished me. Like both were only tolerating me. Introduced to them from the Internet so that is why I don’t believe anything except real life.

  • @mahaliahoyte6038
    @mahaliahoyte6038 11 місяців тому

    Do you know some will be in a relationship but will be looking for the highest bidder.as soon as someone whom they think they will benefit more from..as soon as they come along ,they are gone.How will you describe such ones?

  • @BarbaraJonnes
    @BarbaraJonnes 11 місяців тому

    Whenever I read some of the comments during live, I keep thinking about the amount of nerves UA-cam presenters (you Jonathon!) need to have in order not to get upset by some people. In this case, KtVix or Spread the Gospel, talking about your photos or Paltry Flowers and Lisk saying "profile should not be that long"...my God, women! Seriously??? Are you happy in love? Life? I highly doubt so. But you are so ready to judge others. And then people ask why they don't have luck in anything ... Sorry, I know I should have more understanding for people, but sometimes it is really really hard. So, again, kudos to you Jonathon!

  • @dianethompson6804
    @dianethompson6804 11 місяців тому +1

    Dorothy: there's no place like home!

  • @monikaleszko5343
    @monikaleszko5343 10 місяців тому

    You’re a Leo too 🎉🎉 🦁🦁🦁🦁 Leo woman here ! No man is above me lol. We are a team
    but I am swimming in a pool of hyenas in this dating world
    keeping my head up 😊

  • @barbara6840
    @barbara6840 11 місяців тому

    Wow electromagnetic yo find the needle instead of burning the haystack.That's pretty good and smart.

  • @JoySpirit888
    @JoySpirit888 10 місяців тому

    God's blessings to all Amen 😇🙏😇🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Bb-k4gd
    @Bb-k4gd 11 місяців тому +2

    @Net Detective, The Universe does not distinguish ( yes ) or ( no) . That’s why we have to just make affirmations and ignore what you don’t want . By mentioning the negative, you are calling it , vibrating to it and giving it power. Is temping to do it tho lol 😂

  • @megmelissa8532
    @megmelissa8532 11 місяців тому +1

    She told him to “don’t be a pussy”. I’d say that’s disrespectful. So for her to tell him she felt disrespected by him is almost hilarious. It’s something a crazy gaslighter would say 😂

    • @Bb-k4gd
      @Bb-k4gd 11 місяців тому

      I agree 💯 … I think it made him spin and he didn’t even know what to say … poor guy.

  • @OctoberLalique845
    @OctoberLalique845 11 місяців тому

    My experience was that men truly didn't read the profile. Literally used to ask me questions that were already addressed in my profile when they messaged me. Just saying...

    • @Bb-k4gd
      @Bb-k4gd 11 місяців тому

      Yes, that’s frustrating and annoying … That’s how interested they are in something serious… go figure . They just want the connection and the energy …

  • @michellem8284
    @michellem8284 11 місяців тому +2

    I like Jonathon and learn a lot from his videos, but I think he is wrong about having light conversation. I think conversation in the beginning needs to be light and sometimes a "Hope you have a good day." is enough to let someone know you are thinking of them ... especially early on. I'm not sure having deep conversations (e.g., insecurities, flaws, childhood wounds, sex ) early in the relationship is necessarily a good thing. I'm not sure I want to know or share all that messy "stuff" immediately.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому

      Light has it's place too... I agree.

  • @marydwyer5627
    @marydwyer5627 11 місяців тому +1

    I just started the video but I have to tell you this. I once told a friend that my ex felt like home. It didn't stay that way though. Things changed and he showed his true colors.

  • @OctoberLalique845
    @OctoberLalique845 11 місяців тому

    You can yell...sometimes we need it. 😂❤

  • @lindapowell4091
    @lindapowell4091 11 місяців тому

    But we all submit all the time. To the law, to our employers. Submitting to a man is similar. Your opinion, please. 💕 I love listening to you.

  • @Tammy-uy5xp
    @Tammy-uy5xp 11 місяців тому

    I thank you are wonderful I really appreciate you helping us crazy woman we are fickle . At time's. Hey I am moving on I have the rest of my life I am going to have fun fun fun. I'll be watching more your the real thing . I'm 61 and want to live. 😊😊

  • @cdragon1829
    @cdragon1829 11 місяців тому +2

    Been talking an texting with a guy I went to school with and communicated through FB, he posted a car he just bought and I commented I ready to ride. So he private messaged me his number so I called him and we talked, then we met at the high school and rode for a while. Very polite, went to Dairy Queen and got a ice cream. Then we went for another ride to star gaze with the T-tops off, nice ride, next time I let him pick me up at my home. Rode and got a bite to eat. Been talking checking on each other…. Yesterday on the phone I said something about not wearing a bra,,,, his comment was “I’m sexually interested in you….. what does that mean??? I just l giggled. Just want to know what that means and what I should say and do…

    • @auntie44m
      @auntie44m 11 місяців тому +2

      I’m looking forward to reading everyone’s comments about this because this is the situation most of us ladies find ourselves in.
      I suppose you need to work out what you want and communicate this to him. Are you happy to progress to sex now or would you like more dates, are you hoping for short term or long term, so many questions. Keep us posted.

    • @Tbn48ibp
      @Tbn48ibp 11 місяців тому +2

      I would be offended if he said that to me. Seems a shallow comment when you spent so much time together. I would pay attention to his behavior closely and assess if he is genuine or just in it for hoochie koochie….

    • @cdragon1829
      @cdragon1829 11 місяців тому +1

      @@auntie44m I’m not seeking sex, he has made a couple of sexual jokes which were funny but then I was like hummm, where is he going with this. I’m 59 he is 60, we just starting talking 6 months ago. We were not friends in school he played football and I always thought he was good looking. He had back surgery bout 2 years ago and I followed him and prayed for him and he had a girlfriend then that helped him and I’m friends with her on FB, when they broke up she blocked him now he is about to have surgery again and they are back friends. When he and I talked about going for a ride to star gaze I ask if he any girlfriends in the picture cause I don’t want any drama and he said no. I have noticed that on some of his posts comments are hidden and I blocked a girl that put a mad face 😡 on one of my post about love,, she and I are not friends but him and her are, so I ask him about that an he said that it’s not like that with her! He has not invited me to his house to meet his kids and grandkids. Doesn’t say anything about my 17 year ole son which is a red flag 🚩 to me. So at this point I’m going to ask him what his intentions are since the comment. Thank you for your advice.

    • @cdragon1829
      @cdragon1829 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Tbn48ibp I was thinking that same thing. He has been married 4 times and he has told me about them,was like hummm what’s her side of the story. If he want sex he can go on. Thank you for your support!

    • @katharinetaylor9561
      @katharinetaylor9561 11 місяців тому

      He didn’t send a dick pic 🤷🏻‍♀️I mean are you sexually interested in him? He might just be saying what you both are thinking…

  • @julesmeyeri2056
    @julesmeyeri2056 11 місяців тому

    We aren't always ready and need patience on doing al of tbe necessary self improvements before dating or end up unravelling and reverse engineering our lives after failing in relationships but the end results beinf the same...fix yourself first and then love ❤️ should be easy

  • @deborahquinnan
    @deborahquinnan 11 місяців тому

    Yeah, so funny, first date, I have childhood trauma, do you? Omg I feel so connected 🤣

  • @LastTree
    @LastTree 11 місяців тому

    That was the largest "Whoa" i ever heard.. a horse could hear it! Yes, your profile was very descriptive and l hope you will find a good match. What zodiac sign are you anyway?

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому +1

      I hope so too! Thank you. Leo ♌️

  • @ThEEnlightenFemme
    @ThEEnlightenFemme 11 місяців тому

    Not our job. His Daddy should of taught him this

  • @JaneMurphy-su9hj
    @JaneMurphy-su9hj 7 місяців тому

    Pity you live in USA. I understand all of what you stated there. The deepest conversations one could have are endless but there is so few hours......

  • @Tbn48ibp
    @Tbn48ibp 11 місяців тому

    Gamer..I would respond to that guy with something like this..”oh I didn’t hear a response back from my message so I figured you were busy and I made some other plans but thanks for asking.” This gives him the chance to step
    Up and know he needs to respond more timely to your message as
    Well as
    Tells him you’re out there with other plans and he needs to step up his game
    And attentiveness or he’ll miss the boat

  • @seilasanchezlucas6361
    @seilasanchezlucas6361 11 місяців тому

    Absolutely right there. Thank you. 🌸💯

  • @phoebephoebs6548
    @phoebephoebs6548 11 місяців тому

    Wao i agree with jonnathan on 99 if not 100 💯 of what he sayin

  • @s.walden216
    @s.walden216 11 місяців тому

    Love your energy, and emphase the F 💣 's 🤭

  • @rexx5851
    @rexx5851 11 місяців тому

    Woah the language !

  • @RoseMoke
    @RoseMoke 11 місяців тому

    His connection complicated

  • @CosmicGlowUP
    @CosmicGlowUP 11 місяців тому

    yes bravoooooo

  • @MHarmony528
    @MHarmony528 11 місяців тому +6

    Amen! You we're on fire tonight - so Fun!! Love your profile Johnathon. I resonate with everything except the "plant consciousness exploration". Been there done that. Plant & shroom energy resonates at a certain frequency and one can actually outgrow this level or rise above these frequencies at some point. After many, many exploratory workshops and a two year deep dive into spiritual studies in Transformational Psychology and becoming a Transpersonal Hypnotherapist & Reiki Master Practitioner, one becomes aware that Enlightenment can be reached at higher levels without extemporaneous psychoactive substances (IMO). Their use in Ceremony is something different, it can have a place for some Practitioners and Participants, but so many don't respect the plants and psychotropics in this manner. One may get stuck at a certain frequency or level if one doesn't journey beyond simply using substances to reach enlightenment. One can do a deep dive and explore the meaning of life with other methods...❣️💫😁

  • @RoseMoke
    @RoseMoke 11 місяців тому

    Help to communicate

  • @amazynga8868
    @amazynga8868 11 місяців тому

    Happy
    Optimistic
    Memorable
    Enthusiastic Excitement
    Unique Special Safe
    Feel like home for each other.

  • @jodaisy113
    @jodaisy113 11 місяців тому

    Johnathan 🙌😉

  • @susanharrie3326
    @susanharrie3326 11 місяців тому

    This is me❤

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 11 місяців тому

    Yikes, the woman seems out of touch with realistic social norms and expectations

  • @deborahquinnan
    @deborahquinnan 11 місяців тому

    You would if cracked up at my husband and my first date!! I karaoke d he was like😳 I really did not care! I’m married to this guy😅, I love him, lots a work, but🤪

  • @RelaxingAmbience_ASMR
    @RelaxingAmbience_ASMR 11 місяців тому

    your swearing and blunt honesty is TOOO good!!! Hahahaha love it!

  • @JaneMurphy-su9hj
    @JaneMurphy-su9hj 7 місяців тому

    are

  • @TiffanyAquino-tx8gy
    @TiffanyAquino-tx8gy 11 місяців тому

    LOL! Awesome!

  • @jcool4358
    @jcool4358 11 місяців тому

    Hi Jonathan, it reminds me of you putting your ex-girlfriend on your videos too soon. Would you agree?

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому

      Can you elaborate?

    • @jcool4358
      @jcool4358 11 місяців тому

      @@JonathonAslay oh, you were talking about your friend and her long distance relationship. I was just thinking about how we jump into things sometime before we are sure of our relationships. My perspective at the time was it would have been better if you had kept your relation private for a while longer. I could tell she was not all in...another female can tell these things sometime. I was just wondering if you regretted that in retrospect?

  • @PiedPiper38
    @PiedPiper38 11 місяців тому

    I love your show, unfortunately I turn to you and other dating channels when I'm having difficulty with the boy I like, He's a man but is acting like a boy right now lol Thank YOU! I may dump him we'll see.

  • @trudyramgren8817
    @trudyramgren8817 11 місяців тому +1

    Versed

  • @suecole5543
    @suecole5543 11 місяців тому

    Jonathon. I so agree. Asking. Hows- your day going. Hows the weather , How did you sleep. No depth to the conversation. You are dropping gems' here as always .

  • @jennyrenaud2411
    @jennyrenaud2411 11 місяців тому

    I love that alien, sex, what keeps you up at night, favorite smell quote. Its me!

  • @tamitatangoto5134
    @tamitatangoto5134 11 місяців тому +3

    Well I have to unsubscribe and I cannot listen to you anymore because I believe in what the Bible says, it is OUR INSTRUCTION MANUAL according to Romans 15:4 it says that it is "for our instruction so that we might have hope."
    The Bible does speak of women being in subjection to a husband. There is nothing wrong with that. Christ Jesus is in subjection to his Father, God Jehovah. The Christian congregation is in subjection to Jesus. And children are in subjection to their parents.
    It only makes sense that a woman / wife is in subjection to her husband.
    Just like every CHEF knows more than one cook spoils the soup.
    There has to be headship, it's just organized, it's structured and its disciplined, and it works.
    Personally I want a relationship that I'm in subjection to my husband. NOT that he will Lord it over me.
    He will listen to my input and my suggestions and if they are better than his he will humbly take my suggestion.
    It doesn't always happen, but sometimes he finds out later that he should have listened to his wife. Because of imperfection that's the way it goes.😂😮😊
    I am getting that this advice from you is for people having sexual relationships outside of marriage, so this is definitely not for me!!
    Sincerely TAMI

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому +2

      I understand... all my best to you. 🙏

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 11 місяців тому +1

      @@JonathonAslay Thank you,..Best to you also!!💖

  • @Tbn48ibp
    @Tbn48ibp 11 місяців тому

    Stacey …I agree. Weed them out when they are rude. If he ghosted you in middle of a conversation ….for 12 hours…I’d say pass…next …..

  • @jennyrenaud2411
    @jennyrenaud2411 11 місяців тому

    Regarding submitting to a man. There is this coach out there that does videos with his wife. Its truly nauseating. All about what a WOMAN can do to please a man. No thanks lol

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому

      What is the name of that person or channel?

    • @jennyrenaud2411
      @jennyrenaud2411 11 місяців тому

      @JonathonAslay Hopefully he's not a friend or something. His advice and his wife's has not been anything I would ever follow. I literally laugh out loud at the absurdity of it.

    • @jennyrenaud2411
      @jennyrenaud2411 11 місяців тому

      @JonathonAslay Magnetize your man. That alone should say it all. That's why I love when you say us women aren't off the hook either. They make it sound like everything you're against. Submitting to men or anyone for that matter. I'm sure he's nice but I will stick with you. Matt is also very good, however, he doesn't crack me up like you. The best is the texting "how's your day? Are you having a great day? Hope you had a great day." Cracks me up, you're too funny. I love your passion and I like when you swear 😁

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому

      Gotcha 👍🏼​@@jennyrenaud2411

  • @CosmicGlowUP
    @CosmicGlowUP 11 місяців тому

    sybbed

  • @cdragon1829
    @cdragon1829 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes Jonathan 👍

  • @dianedoud5406
    @dianedoud5406 11 місяців тому

    Yes Jonathon, i agree with you.

    • @JonathonAslay
      @JonathonAslay  11 місяців тому

      WOW! Thank you, and much appreciated. Any chance you share this video with friends?

  • @candyhood8386
    @candyhood8386 11 місяців тому

    💞

  • @trudyramgren8817
    @trudyramgren8817 11 місяців тому

    Excellent video Jonathon!!! Alot resonated with me. Your profile is outstanding!!! I'm a leo as well. 👊 ❤

  • @Tbn48ibp
    @Tbn48ibp 11 місяців тому +1

    Stacey you’re adorable !!

  • @dawnclark1103
    @dawnclark1103 11 місяців тому

    You crack me up 😊

  • @MargaretCampbell583
    @MargaretCampbell583 11 місяців тому

    Alignment so so important 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Ritakeepthefaith
    @Ritakeepthefaith 11 місяців тому

    Dear Mr Ashley,
    U are so intelligent & u have it going on & totally get it!!!!! When it comes to life.
    So how come u can't find a genuine, decent lady to share your life with?
    It doesn't make sense!!??
    My kind regards, Rita🙏

  • @sherryj738
    @sherryj738 11 місяців тому

    Love your story about colonoscopy. I have one next month.

  • @CosmicGlowUP
    @CosmicGlowUP 11 місяців тому

    you are so quirky