Oh yes I do , when I was married I felt very lonely and rejected. When you are in a marriage or have a significant other who's not there both literally and emotionally it's terrible !!! Being single is much better ✌🏽
That's a horrible generalization of single people. It's like the married people who think single people are out having carefree sex just because that's what you're thinking about. You don't know all single people and can't speak for them. Maybe they're single because they were in a crappy relationship after relationship and know exactly what you're talking about. Enough with the victim mentality. A lot of people have suffered that and they do know but also some people expect that one person to fill everything in their life, that's what friendships are for, and psychologists, too many people dump on the other person expecting them to be everything, all the time and yes, some others are just not there. Don't get me wrong, I empathize with your situation. I know I have to look at myself in my situations and can't completely blame the other person. Wishing you peace, love, & happiness.
I have been alone for 15 years, INTENTIONALLY (my idea). I would rather be alone, happy, and have self respect than be with someone who doesn’t treat me correctly. Happiness and fulfillment does not rely on being with someone.
His advice is so spot on. The things you compromise on in the beginning of a relationship are the very things that become problems, frustrations and resentment later on.
I am a relationship coach and this is spot on…Most of the women I speak to feel incomplete without a partner. They settle and are typically miserable. Most people are terrified to be alone 😢
I have been alone since 2015. I have had to heal a lot of trauma. Only recently I have started seeing someone, after therapy and EMDR. Boundaries are paramount to a successful relationship.
Been single since 2015. I have a timeline… if we’re still in the same place in 6-12 months I gracefully bow out and continue to pray on it! I know my worth.
I'm glad you said "people" at the end of your comment. By middle age, I've honestly seen more men I've known (family, friends, colleagues) who were afraid to be alone. What I mean by that specifically is men coming out of a divorce and immediately wanting to find someone else to the point of acting like crazed, starving beings - not listening to people who try to tell them to slow down, take time to heal, etc... etc... This is my observation, and I'm just one person, but it's been enough for me to notice. As a single woman, I've tried to explain to them their desperation isn't attractive (except to those women who are ALSO desperate), and I've tried to direct them to videos like this and most just dismiss any of it. There is research to suggest that men - especially older men do not do well or thrive without a romantic partner. 🤷♀️
@@npkrn6764 I totally understand what you are saying…I work with women and I’m passionate about the healing process for women who find themselves single after 50… I have a few male clients and I totally get what you are expressing!
“You will never be enough for a person who is not enough for you.” So true! Thank you two for having this conversation. The info you are giving is inspiring, freeing, and empowering.
I personally think one should rather stay single rather than settling. But here is the thing... You might have "settled" and later realized, you made the best decision of your life. Nonetheless, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. There are no formulas to these things.. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
I love everything you said....there is a lot of sense in them and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I stayed in an extremely toxic 10 yr relationship because I was scared to leave. I didn’t think I would ever find better. Plus my family pushed me to stay with him. It took a lot of prayer and strength to finally leave. I’ve been single and abstinent for almost 4 yrs now. There are still times when I question if I the “the one” will ever come along but would rather be single than miserable!
I've been in multiple toxic relationships unfortunately & 😢😭 Sadly 💔🤐🥺 that REALLY were illegal and I know for SURE are you soul sucking and I numb to My emotional 😭😢💔🥺🙏🤞 physical pains and scars and trauma unfortunately. OHH self-esteem and self-worth almost Left My Life completely 😢. I REALLY wish I had this guys 😭😢💔😢 book or rather My parents had his book 😢& that they'd taught me, shown Me ALL this stuff. It's just NOT worth it ladies, SERIOUSLY don't do it bc once you do uR forevermore changed for the worse and not just a little or once but every time someone goes there U just don't REALLY ever feel good/right unfortunately 😢😭💔🤐🥺😥🕊️✌️🙏🤞🙏🤞🙏🤞
I’ve been there. You dodged a bullet. 🙏🏼 Having children in this scenario can wreak havoc on your life, your children’s life, and it continues long after you leave. BRAVO for your clarity and courage to leave. Sending prayers for a fulfilling partner who cherishes and lovingly supports you in all ways. ❤❤❤
I was left by my partner for his affair. It was hard, but it made me grow and learn a lot about me. I have been on my own for over two years doing the deep work that needs to be done. I now know my worth and know when the time is right my person will come 😌
Good for you doing the deep work. Cindy Trimm said, "You don't attract who you want. You attract who you are. Kudos to you doing the work. You will meet someone who has done the work on themselves also.
This really hit me. “If me choosing me and knowing my self-worth makes me cold-hearted, sign me up. “ I love Trent’s advice. Great interview. I need to listen to this often. Please have him back on your show.
I'm not religious, but I've followed Trent Shelton on social media for years. He always gives great advice and I hope more heed his words (religious or not). He is wise beyond his years.
28:22 YES!! As a Mother, when I started saying no to my children - it became easier to say it in other areas of my life. Now, the people-pleasing still shows up, but much less. I can identify it so much more now (thanks to therapy), and thus i’m able to course-correct.
I’m only 18 minutes in this episode and oh boy!!!!! This is golden, such valuable Information all men and women should hear this!!!! Thank you for sharing this ✨🙌🏻
I love Lisa's responses to every point in the discussion she have with people. She seems to gain so much from every single conversation that she has with others. Every conversation is intense and she takes so much from them. I absolutely love this! :-)
Painfully true. The people or person closest to the covert narcissist are treated monstrously in private and often protect the perfect public image of that person.
I settled, but i had hope that there was more potential. Early on, there was things where i wanted out. My grandma was about to put me and my 2 kids in a homeless shelter, and i had no support system at all. So i just went with it to see where it would go. 14 years later, we are still together.
“My good heart will keep me in situations that will break my heart.” - Trent Shelton. WOW, so much this. This vibes for me at a deep level. I stayed in romantic relationships too long…. Similar to how I also stay a jobs too long.
Same thing with employment. I'm SO glad I bought "Protect Your Peace" and "Straight Up" -- What we accept will continue. Going out of the comfort zone (in my opinion) into the unknown, knowing what you are needing and wanting for your life is "growing pains." It's not easy by any means, but it leads to so many better doors aligning with our "Best Selves" doors opening. AMAZING.
Oh, I wrote this right before #TrentShelton mentioned this. Woooooow, mind link! Goes for relationships and all other areas of life. I have a new rule of thumb that I won't buy a book that I can get at a library. THESE books from Trent ....... I BOUGHT them in order to go back to them whenever I want or need to! "Protect Your Peace" was a #1 best-seller on Amazon when it was still in pre-order mode. THAT made me see how AMAZING the info is after coming across him in another interview which led me to his UA-cam videos. This is worth every penny of it. It's helped SO much and STILL is! I'm diving in DEEP so I'm still reading it! I love that it doesn't have any "fluff" but all "substance." And no, I'm not being nudged nor paid to leave this comment.
Push people to love themselves first... 😊People who lack Self Love and those who forget that we "Reap what we sow" have to settle. It's a learning experience and as you mature, you learn that you you dont have to be stuck in it. Connection is ok.....but Connect with yourself first... I would rather be in a partnership than to be married. I love myself enough to Know I Am Enough. So many are married and "Fake it to make it". I won't waste my precious journey trying to live on man-made ideals of thinking I have to put up with anyone who is Not maturing spiritually. If you dont Know ThySelf you will think everything people say is for you. Listening to Inner Guidance is the key to Inner peace, love, joy & extreme happiness 😊....I definitely Give what I want to Receive. .....and that is very fulfilling. Life is simple. We make it too hard. Know ThySelf. My best life is to Know I Am Enough and I Am Never alone 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
Man, this interview was everything! I’m in a toxic relationship that I have been thinking about leaving and it has been the hardest thing to do because I love this person and have known them for at least 20years, but this has given me strength to truly let go and move on. I do not want to die unhappy and live with regret if I stay. Thank you so much for this interview guys ❤❤❤
That's where I am now. I need to figure out how to leave. I've done it before, but that was when I was being physically abused. I had the police remove him. How do I do that when he isn't violent?
This resonates with what I’ve gone through so much! I had to make these decisions as well and I’m in so much better of a place to help myself and others. Don’t feel like you have to be there as a life saver to people who suck your energy. They will continue to be who they are and if that’s not who you want to be you need to move on. Thank you for this episode! I love it
You saved my life I listen to you for many years and I need to start listening to you again and get off these other stupid social sites I'm ready to get healthy to get there and I will not be put in another compromising situation by family or friends 💯
No is a complete sentence .., love it! So if no, changes the relationship, then it’s not a relationship. If saying yes to you, is saying no to me then I am pleasing you and not myself and eventually you become a people pleaser and lose yourself! I’ve declared I don’t want to let myself down because if I lose myself who will I become a fake Naaah I AM TRUTH 💕💕
This hits true. Was very hard to leave with 4 kids. It took 5 years. It is difficult but I am SO happy to finally be out of a relationship I did not want to be with.
#TrentShelton words things in a way that actually speak to me in the best way. I don't feel like I'm being pushed too hard in the videos and books -- It's unlocking an immense sense of empowerment within, and with no apologies. To me, this has made a GREAT impact on helping me get out of a VERY toxic situation. I was out of that situation the day after I got the book, and less than a week after I discovered him through another interview. EXACTLY the boost I needed!
Just watching two recent interviews with this man and i believe its confirmation from God that im on the right track with how im thinking and how im moving. Ive always compromised my non negotiables in friendships and relationships because im an PPP lol. Been questioning if im moving in the right direction and eveything this man is saying is how im now thinking and growing after being in therapy and ending relationships that didn't serve me. Not conproming who i am or what i want any longer. My no to someone else is a yes to me. ❤
This guy is so real. We shouldn’t allow pressure from society and impatience to guard us to our search for true love and a marriage partner. Patience is always key to making good decisions. I rather have nothing than be with the wrong person forever.
Really liked this conversation and the addiction perspective of Eros love. The chemical/soul tie connection can especially happen when what you've exoeriened (the positive experiences) are what you have never experienced before. Very similar to addiction because you're looking for that relational 'high', ignoring/denying how truly crappy the negative experiences are.
I am just blown away with this interview… just every idea hit home and was so relevant. Thank you so much. I am so grateful I came across this 🙏🏻 I admire this guy now, so insightful
@1:05:09 . This resonates strongly with me. I need to tell this to a friend: “You’re addicted to your sad story.” Please miss me with your sorrows and complaints if you’re just going to remain in toxicity. Take action with the good advice given to you or STOP complaining about your “bad” circumstances… suck it up and drive on. “No victims, No Excuses” ~Condoleezza Rice
WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!
#PROTECTYOURPEACE @TrentShelton #NYTBEST🎉
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Thank you love it
@@kimgordon3695😊e😊😅😅😅eee
People who are single and alone have no idea the depth of loneliness you feel in a relationship with the wrong person.
WE KNOW, we're still human and need connection, especially after covid isolation.
@@sammy_lynn never said connection is not needed. Just the type of connection is important.
Oh yes I do , when I was married I felt very lonely and rejected. When you are in a marriage or have a significant other who's not there both literally and emotionally it's terrible !!! Being single is much better ✌🏽
That's a horrible generalization of single people. It's like the married people who think single people are out having carefree sex just because that's what you're thinking about. You don't know all single people and can't speak for them. Maybe they're single because they were in a crappy relationship after relationship and know exactly what you're talking about. Enough with the victim mentality. A lot of people have suffered that and they do know but also some people expect that one person to fill everything in their life, that's what friendships are for, and psychologists, too many people dump on the other person expecting them to be everything, all the time and yes, some others are just not there. Don't get me wrong, I empathize with your situation. I know I have to look at myself in my situations and can't completely blame the other person. Wishing you peace, love, & happiness.
@@carolinelala9818 Thank you for your response.
"Stop falling in love with the potential of someone and see them for who they really are" WOW🙌🎯💯
'Sometimes it takes being perfectly lonely to realize what being perfectly loved feels like" WOW! A very authentic statement!
The best quote I ever heard. True 👌
Yes I know absolutely?☺️❤️
Yessss!!
I have been alone for 15 years, INTENTIONALLY (my idea). I would rather be alone, happy, and have self respect than be with someone who doesn’t treat me correctly. Happiness and fulfillment does not rely on being with someone.
Amen to that
Omg me too!!! It takes so much bravery and courage to choose yourself over someone else
For sure Andrea!
His advice is so spot on. The things you compromise on in the beginning of a relationship are the very things that become problems, frustrations and resentment later on.
TRUTH!!!
I am a relationship coach and this is spot on…Most of the women I speak to feel incomplete without a partner. They settle and are typically miserable. Most people are terrified to be alone 😢
I have been alone since 2015. I have had to heal a lot of trauma. Only recently I have started seeing someone, after therapy and EMDR. Boundaries are paramount to a successful relationship.
Been single since 2015.
I have a timeline… if we’re still in the same place in 6-12 months I gracefully bow out and continue to pray on it!
I know my worth.
Especially the emotional gauge*
I'm glad you said "people" at the end of your comment. By middle age, I've honestly seen more men I've known (family, friends, colleagues) who were afraid to be alone. What I mean by that specifically is men coming out of a divorce and immediately wanting to find someone else to the point of acting like crazed, starving beings - not listening to people who try to tell them to slow down, take time to heal, etc... etc... This is my observation, and I'm just one person, but it's been enough for me to notice. As a single woman, I've tried to explain to them their desperation isn't attractive (except to those women who are ALSO desperate), and I've tried to direct them to videos like this and most just dismiss any of it. There is research to suggest that men - especially older men do not do well or thrive without a romantic partner. 🤷♀️
@@npkrn6764 I totally understand what you are saying…I work with women and I’m passionate about the healing process for women who find themselves single after 50…
I have a few male clients and I totally get what you are expressing!
Ladies love yourself to not settle! No one can complete you!!!!!I
“You will never be enough for a person who is not enough for you.” So true! Thank you two for having this conversation. The info you are giving is inspiring, freeing, and empowering.
That is Soo True! Good Advice ❤
I personally think one should rather stay single rather than settling. But here is the thing... You might have "settled" and later realized, you made the best decision of your life. Nonetheless, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. There are no formulas to these things.. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
I love everything you said....there is a lot of sense in them and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I will look her up online right now.... I hope this works for me too....Thanks a lot
I also believe low self worth/esteem plays a huge part in it. Been there, done it and will do better ✨ sprinkle sprinkle
That part sprinkle sprinkle season
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Yess! It's low self-esteem for sure / self love 😢❤🙏
4:49 - “A known pain, in our brain is actually more safer than an unknown peace.” 🔥 🔥Preach it brother, preach it!
I say stay single, learn yourself, don't settle, and create a healthy relationship with yourself. 😊
Put your loyalty in yourself.
I second that. Learning to love ourself empowers us to love others properly.
Such a wise man
Yess he is!.. I Love the wisdom and Knowledge.. you learn everyday
7:40 “If you settle in life, regret is coming for you at some point.” Some of us needed to hear that!
"REGRET IS THE POISON TO THE SOUL"... This hit home 😢 Thank you, Lisa ❤
Sharinggg
I stayed in an extremely toxic 10 yr relationship because I was scared to leave. I didn’t think I would ever find better. Plus my family pushed me to stay with him. It took a lot of prayer and strength to finally leave. I’ve been single and abstinent for almost 4 yrs now. There are still times when I question if I the “the one” will ever come along but would rather be single than miserable!
Good for you! ❤you chose yourself first. Pray 🙏🏽 ask God to give you the desires of your heart.
I've been in multiple toxic relationships unfortunately & 😢😭 Sadly 💔🤐🥺 that REALLY were illegal and I know for SURE are you soul sucking and I numb to My emotional 😭😢💔🥺🙏🤞 physical pains and scars and trauma unfortunately. OHH self-esteem and self-worth almost Left My Life completely 😢. I REALLY wish I had this guys 😭😢💔😢 book or rather My parents had his book 😢& that they'd taught me, shown Me ALL this stuff. It's just NOT worth it ladies, SERIOUSLY don't do it bc once you do uR forevermore changed for the worse and not just a little or once but every time someone goes there U just don't REALLY ever feel good/right unfortunately 😢😭💔🤐🥺😥🕊️✌️🙏🤞🙏🤞🙏🤞
Same only I'm practicing abstinence
I’ve been there. You dodged a bullet. 🙏🏼 Having children in this scenario can wreak havoc on your life, your children’s life, and it continues long after you leave. BRAVO for your clarity and courage to leave. Sending prayers for a fulfilling partner who cherishes and lovingly supports you in all ways. ❤❤❤
Brittany, THERE YOU GO!!!
It's the heart that's behind wrong choices. Not the mind.
I was left by my partner for his affair. It was hard, but it made me grow and learn a lot about me. I have been on my own for over two years doing the deep work that needs to be done. I now know my worth and know when the time is right my person will come 😌
Amen!.. EXACTLY
Same here and loving it!!
Same here
Yesss! AMEN
Good for you doing the deep work. Cindy Trimm said, "You don't attract who you want. You attract who you are. Kudos to you doing the work. You will meet someone who has done the work on themselves also.
This really hit me. “If me choosing me and knowing my self-worth makes me cold-hearted, sign me up. “ I love Trent’s advice. Great interview. I need to listen to this often. Please have him back on your show.
I'm not religious, but I've followed Trent Shelton on social media for years. He always gives great advice and I hope more heed his words (religious or not). He is wise beyond his years.
“ cold hearted than broken hearted “ omgawd yaasss 🤩 I love this interview thank you Lisa 🙏
He blessed me with this. It hurts but I am good soul and I deserve better.
28:22 YES!! As a Mother, when I started saying no to my children - it became easier to say it in other areas of my life. Now, the people-pleasing still shows up, but much less. I can identify it so much more now (thanks to therapy), and thus i’m able to course-correct.
Lisa You are such an excellent host! Mr. Shelton is wise beyond years. 2 of my favorite people in one session! (Made my DAY!)
#LifeBoundaries #Commitment
I’m only 18 minutes in this episode and oh boy!!!!! This is golden, such valuable Information all men and women should hear this!!!! Thank you for sharing this ✨🙌🏻
I love Lisa's responses to every point in the discussion she have with people. She seems to gain so much from every single conversation that she has with others. Every conversation is intense and she takes so much from them. I absolutely love this! :-)
It does not always tell you the truth how somebody treats others. Narcissist can show gentleman's behavior toward others.
Painfully true. The people or person closest to the covert narcissist are treated monstrously in private and often protect the perfect public image of that person.
True
I said the Same thing...Truth!
I settled, but i had hope that there was more potential. Early on, there was things where i wanted out. My grandma was about to put me and my 2 kids in a homeless shelter, and i had no support system at all. So i just went with it to see where it would go. 14 years later, we are still together.
“My good heart will keep me in situations that will break my heart.” - Trent Shelton. WOW, so much this.
This vibes for me at a deep level. I stayed in romantic relationships too long…. Similar to how I also stay a jobs too long.
Trent you might be an introvert but you are sharing valuable insight.
Same thing with employment. I'm SO glad I bought "Protect Your Peace" and "Straight Up" -- What we accept will continue. Going out of the comfort zone (in my opinion) into the unknown, knowing what you are needing and wanting for your life is "growing pains." It's not easy by any means, but it leads to so many better doors aligning with our "Best Selves" doors opening. AMAZING.
Oh, I wrote this right before #TrentShelton mentioned this. Woooooow, mind link! Goes for relationships and all other areas of life. I have a new rule of thumb that I won't buy a book that I can get at a library. THESE books from Trent ....... I BOUGHT them in order to go back to them whenever I want or need to! "Protect Your Peace" was a #1 best-seller on Amazon when it was still in pre-order mode. THAT made me see how AMAZING the info is after coming across him in another interview which led me to his UA-cam videos. This is worth every penny of it. It's helped SO much and STILL is! I'm diving in DEEP so I'm still reading it! I love that it doesn't have any "fluff" but all "substance." And no, I'm not being nudged nor paid to leave this comment.
I definitely needed this episode♥️♥️♥️
It’s so good to still be alive to hear this; and to see faithful and true Man.
Thank you Lord to open my heart to real hope with this Son of Man
Glory
I m prefer Alone than Not-meant-for-me.
Same! I’ve never settled, I run from those red flags. 🚩
Right!
Boundaries protects you and everyone else
I have learned to live by myself and enjoying my own company; I find it is a gift. ❤
Push people to love themselves first... 😊People who lack Self Love and those who forget that we "Reap what we sow" have to settle. It's a learning experience and as you mature, you learn that you you dont have to be stuck in it. Connection is ok.....but Connect with yourself first... I would rather be in a partnership than to be married. I love myself enough to Know I Am Enough. So many are married and "Fake it to make it". I won't waste my precious journey trying to live on man-made ideals of thinking I have to put up with anyone who is
Not maturing spiritually. If you dont Know ThySelf you will think everything people say is for you.
Listening to Inner Guidance is the key to Inner peace, love, joy & extreme happiness 😊....I definitely Give what I want to Receive. .....and that is very fulfilling. Life is simple. We make it too hard. Know ThySelf. My best life is to Know I Am Enough and I Am Never alone
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊
He is a man of great honest part ,he teach us from his heart
Man, this interview was everything! I’m in a toxic relationship that I have been thinking about leaving and it has been the hardest thing to do because I love this person and have known them for at least 20years, but this has given me strength to truly let go and move on. I do not want to die unhappy and live with regret if I stay. Thank you so much for this interview guys ❤❤❤
That's where I am now. I need to figure out how to leave. I've done it before, but that was when I was being physically abused. I had the police remove him. How do I do that when he isn't violent?
"In our minds A known pain is safer than an unknown peace" 🤯 HELP THE PEOPLE TRENT!!!!!! That was me. Thank God for restoration
Good morning he's a good person when it comes to talking about relationships I like him
WHOA! That’s so true and so good I’ve been living with regret, and it’s nearly taking my life
Points being made here are profound. ❤
Epic episode.....just what I needed.Love from KENYA 🇰🇪
Me to 🥰
This resonates with what I’ve gone through so much! I had to make these decisions as well and I’m in so much better of a place to help myself and others. Don’t feel like you have to be there as a life saver to people who suck your energy. They will continue to be who they are and if that’s not who you want to be you need to move on. Thank you for this episode! I love it
I appreciate his integrity.
Love yourself first ❤
You saved my life I listen to you for many years and I need to start listening to you again and get off these other stupid social sites I'm ready to get healthy to get there and I will not be put in another compromising situation by family or friends 💯
😮”the history keeps people in misery 😮, “ completely understand this
This is my favorite conversation on her show. Thank you for bringing him
We need more strong women who their worth. ❤
No is a complete sentence .., love it! So if no, changes the relationship, then it’s not a relationship. If saying yes to you, is saying no to me then I am pleasing you and not myself and eventually you become a people pleaser and lose yourself! I’ve declared I don’t want to let myself down because if I lose myself who will I become a fake Naaah I AM TRUTH 💕💕
I have always been better when I am alone rather than to be in a less than relationship.
He said "dont let your temptation settle". Get into that uncomfortable talk.
giving and what you accept are in your control
I love this interview!! So much perspective & realism! I could listen to him all day everyday about life, mindset living etc !!
This hits true. Was very hard to leave with 4 kids. It took 5 years. It is difficult but I am SO happy to finally be out of a relationship I did not want to be with.
Principles, never except less, give what you received, know ur worthy,
Gold!💫
#TrentShelton words things in a way that actually speak to me in the best way. I don't feel like I'm being pushed too hard in the videos and books -- It's unlocking an immense sense of empowerment within, and with no apologies. To me, this has made a GREAT impact on helping me get out of a VERY toxic situation. I was out of that situation the day after I got the book, and less than a week after I discovered him through another interview. EXACTLY the boost I needed!
Thank you for this...in my alone time I discovered that I rather be single then be in a relationship without purpose ❤❤❤❤❤
This is the best conversation I’ve heard in a long time. I love you both near my favorite.
Just watching two recent interviews with this man and i believe its confirmation from God that im on the right track with how im thinking and how im moving. Ive always compromised my non negotiables in friendships and relationships because im an PPP lol. Been questioning if im moving in the right direction and eveything this man is saying is how im now thinking and growing after being in therapy and ending relationships that didn't serve me. Not conproming who i am or what i want any longer. My no to someone else is a yes to me. ❤
@59:20-1:01:12 sooo true about the part where you both were laughing, and the part where I gotta set strict boundaries! Thank you! ❤😊
Great reminders on this one! 👏🏼👏🏼
This was a great podcast ❤
This conversation is spot on. I've been there, and it's not worth it. 👍
I loved this whole conversation! it makes soooo much sense!! and So real!!!
This guy is so real. We shouldn’t allow pressure from society and impatience to guard us to our search for true love and a marriage partner. Patience is always key to making good decisions. I rather have nothing than be with the wrong person forever.
Awww I’m sorry Lisa! I get you! I hope you feel better! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Lisa your always spot on your question! You’re the best❤
Perfect guest a golden hearted man 😊
Lisa knows her stuff
Thank you for this I am grateful!
Hello Thank You 😊❤ Real Talk !!!!!!!! Am taking Notes
Really liked this conversation and the addiction perspective of Eros love. The chemical/soul tie connection can especially happen when what you've exoeriened (the positive experiences) are what you have never experienced before. Very similar to addiction because you're looking for that relational 'high', ignoring/denying how truly crappy the negative experiences are.
Your advice helps me minimize risks and increase profits.
You are so right, on every point
❤ so true AGH! I hear you I never thought t'd ever be alone . Now by choice, for 5yrs I love life with peace of mind, not settling.
Everything they talked about hits home for me 💯🙌🏾
I am loving that interview!!! Wow! What a greeat human being he is. I love YOU Lisa!!!
I needed to hear this today. Thank you Lisa & Trent🙏
10:11 “Facts over feelings.” Trent just dropped another mic!🎤 Date with your brain not your heart.
Always have a process. 💕. No rushing.
This was an amazing episode. Def woke me up to a-lot of things that I have to check myself in .
Good insight there Lisa... We dont want to gaslight ourself!
2 complete ppl. ❤
Thank you, spot on. 💖
I LOVE this man🙏❤️ He is what a true man is. I agree 💯, I would rather be alone than settle🎯
What a wise guy!
I am just blown away with this interview… just every idea hit home and was so relevant. Thank you so much. I am so grateful I came across this 🙏🏻 I admire this guy now, so insightful
@1:05:09 . This resonates strongly with me. I need to tell this to a friend: “You’re addicted to your sad story.” Please miss me with your sorrows and complaints if you’re just going to remain in toxicity.
Take action with the good advice given to you or STOP complaining about your “bad” circumstances… suck it up and drive on.
“No victims, No Excuses”
~Condoleezza Rice
This interview was amazing
Trent said some real stuff
Wow some of this was sore to hear but 100% what I needed to hear. Am glad I found this podcast, it has woken my mind up now. Stop accepting less ❤
Only half way through this podcast with my 1st comment
This was full of gems💎 💎 💎
This is a very good podcast. Trent really gives you alot to think about and consider. Thank you, Lisa, for having Trent on your show! 😊
This is a very good video!!! I have already shared this video with close to ten people, young and old.😊😊
I love this !!!!!!