Simple Steps to Improve Your Marriage - Matt & Lisa Jacobson

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  • Опубліковано 22 лис 2024

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  • @essiesdancevidsandtravels6917
    @essiesdancevidsandtravels6917 3 роки тому +9

    It's all in the little choices we make that say I love you rather than I love me mindsets

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 4 роки тому +14

    " An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments seperate friends like a gate locked with bars." Proverbs 18:19✝️
    "Sarcasm poisons your relationship
    Never ever speak in a sarcastic manner
    The heart closes incrementally over time
    A closed heart is most difficult to overcome"
    Wisdom
    Thanks for sharing

  • @chelseahoagland4250
    @chelseahoagland4250 Рік тому +6

    I have these books. Hubby wouldn't read his but I tried to do some from mine to break out of the gutter a bit. I read the hubby book and saw how much he was already doing which helped me identify things I took for granted.

  • @chrisnkundizana7029
    @chrisnkundizana7029 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Lisa for being REAL!

  • @kathycole1
    @kathycole1 3 роки тому +10

    What a godly couple.

  • @Ladylothlorian
    @Ladylothlorian 4 роки тому +42

    I was in an uber going home from work and my driver blessed me with this. He said.
    "Wives already love, that is why they are called to submit. They have a hard time giving their desire to lead to their husbands. Husbands have a hard time loving, that is why they are called to love their wives. That doesn't come naturally."

    • @sanji546
      @sanji546 Рік тому

      I don’t get it

    • @Ladylothlorian
      @Ladylothlorian Рік тому

      @@sanji546 can you tell me what specifically don't you understand so that I can hopefully clear it up? 🙂

  • @GoldenPalm24
    @GoldenPalm24 4 роки тому +31

    This channel is GOLD!

  • @TravelingwithJenny
    @TravelingwithJenny Рік тому +2

    I am buying these books today because of this show, my marriage is in a strained state with family, church, and work obligations and I want to get that living feeling back.

  • @gobigten01
    @gobigten01 3 роки тому +6

    A wonderful marriage comes out of a lot choices to love you more than I love me... Says it all. Yeah, jokes at your own experience NOT your wife's. I also love being aware that your marriage is a treasure--it must be protected.

  • @stephaniethompson7995
    @stephaniethompson7995 Рік тому

    He is 100% correct... "pursue your wife!" Beautiful!

  • @pmvang45
    @pmvang45 4 роки тому +13

    I love these powerful messages. Thank you for sharing. Stay bless!!

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you, Matt & Lisa. This was very helpful. Think I'll get your books.

  • @sgrassman4212
    @sgrassman4212 4 роки тому +8

    Helpful, needed, grateful for their input and willingness to share. Also for Focus on the Family for All the videos, written materials, etc., etc.💓✝️

  • @user-nt1cm7gp8u
    @user-nt1cm7gp8u 2 роки тому +2

    I really needed to hear this. Wow, amazing talk. Thank you!

  • @EdG-rn7dk
    @EdG-rn7dk 7 місяців тому

    Listening is key,. My wife easily gets upset if you don't agree with her. Unless she specifically ask for advise, it often best to confirm your hearing and be empathetic

  • @kathrynford3529
    @kathrynford3529 4 роки тому +5

    How did I happen to click on the one that sp perfectly describes me and my husband? I'm sending this to him 😁

  • @sarahlynnbaxter2225
    @sarahlynnbaxter2225 2 роки тому +2

    What a fantastic video thank you

  • @kapitanivanov
    @kapitanivanov 2 роки тому +2

    Love this couple💗

  • @sejalkothari6687
    @sejalkothari6687 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you 🙏

  • @bonnieketterman6542
    @bonnieketterman6542 Рік тому

    I really enjoyed ur show I watch ur show faithfully ur show is really a sweet blessing t o me

  • @josephinewliu
    @josephinewliu Рік тому

    starting from 4:30

  • @theresablanchard3260
    @theresablanchard3260 3 роки тому +1

    Hi is any way i can in this program?

  • @joyofsalvation100
    @joyofsalvation100 2 роки тому +2

    In western culture marriages are based on "Feelings". So if your spouse doesn't feel it, that marriage starts to collapse. That's why divorce rate is very high even in Christian marriages in America.

    • @shaungoodman4924
      @shaungoodman4924 Рік тому

      The Light of the "western-marriage" hs lost it's shine

  • @deals4u623
    @deals4u623 3 роки тому

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  • @Allin1source
    @Allin1source Рік тому

    Man and woman should do housework we both live together. We has couples should be has a team

  • @celestinebowman5887
    @celestinebowman5887 3 роки тому

    Too late, divorce for a week now....my husband didn't want a marriage.

  • @SnookOnTheFly
    @SnookOnTheFly 4 роки тому +3

    Simple unless you and your wife’s father in law have an enmeshed relationship with narcissistic tendencies (marriage counselor’s diagnosis). I’m a third wheel in their life.

    • @kathietreachler5662
      @kathietreachler5662 3 роки тому +2

      I hear you. My heart goes out to you.

    • @nwankaanze7018
      @nwankaanze7018 3 роки тому +1

      Thats an excuse friend, for you, not leading. He just filled a vacuum. Take charge of your marriage.

    • @SnookOnTheFly
      @SnookOnTheFly 3 роки тому +2

      @@nwankaanze7018 come hang out for a week and see if there’s a leading problem or a following problem.

  • @jillcooper6740
    @jillcooper6740 Рік тому +1

    So he shammed her for not gushing over him like she did for a girlfriend who she doesn't see every day? Unreasonable! If a woman said something like to her husband like he did to her, she would be labeled as needy, or a complainer, or a b!&%$. But he can do it, and she is immediately shammed and convicted. Glad I ain't married to that guy!