Forming New Habits for Your Marriage (Part 1) - Dr. Randy Schroeder

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  • Опубліковано 29 жов 2024

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  • @rb7454
    @rb7454 Рік тому +4

    80% of behavior is habits.
    Consistent satisfaction amid ups & downs
    4 essentials:
    1. Show and speak love (oppose complacency) with goodbyes, hello’s and “I love you.”
    2. Set the tone for the day in the first 5 minutes. Don’t correct, complain or criticize in the begin of the day… set a positive tone instead.
    3. How to end the day: spend 20 mins together within spouses and arrival home from work reconnect emotionally (meaningful hug& kiss& check in with each other).
    4. Complement your spouse & speak appreciation

    • @danielleg1504
      @danielleg1504 Рік тому +1

      These are super practical, measurable tips. I really like them! ❤ They give me a lot of hope that hubby & I can turn things around for the better.

    • @dr.randyschroeder
      @dr.randyschroeder 9 місяців тому

      @@danielleg1504 I'm glad you found the tips practical and measurable! Remember, every positive step counts, and with determination and effort, you and your husband can definitely make positive changes.

  • @Spgal
    @Spgal 2 роки тому +10

    We've been married for 30 years with a really good marriage. However this was very helpful!!

    • @focusonthefamily
      @focusonthefamily  2 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing, friend! It’s encouraging to read your positive feedback. If you need any help, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1‐800‐232‐6459. God’s best to you!

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 2 роки тому +7

    Always a delight to have Dr.Randy
    Such Godly wisdom delivered in fun
    Thanks Dr. Randy
    Thanks FOTF

  • @ummuhajar558
    @ummuhajar558 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve been married 19 years, but I can’t wait to try these tips.

  • @michaelkoroma9446
    @michaelkoroma9446 2 роки тому +1

    Watching from Sierra Leone West Africa 🇸🇱🌍

  • @cameronmccreary4758
    @cameronmccreary4758 2 роки тому +13

    First one has to find a person compatible; man to woman and woman to man with the capacity to communicate with each other.

    • @tammyholliday3289
      @tammyholliday3289 2 роки тому +6

      That’s right. You can do that. Pray for the type of man or woman you want. I did that over 30 years ago. Jesus answered my prayer completely.

  • @deet7986
    @deet7986 2 роки тому +2

    Love this video!! So helpful ❤

    • @dr.randyschroeder
      @dr.randyschroeder 9 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! I'm really glad you found the video helpful.

  • @thewatcher4552
    @thewatcher4552 2 роки тому +1

    Boy that introduction hit hard......Planning anything is a struggle.

    • @dr.randyschroeder
      @dr.randyschroeder 9 місяців тому

      I hear you! Planning can definitely feel like an uphill battle sometimes.

  • @caenterprisellc6922
    @caenterprisellc6922 2 роки тому

    This is the main focus for Emmanuel and I.

  • @lisamarie8155
    @lisamarie8155 2 роки тому +1

    This is great content!
    What is his advice on conflicting political issues?

  • @kikibeloved6786
    @kikibeloved6786 2 роки тому +6

    but can one form habits alone in a marriage, my husband doesnt seem to care much

    • @cpg1355
      @cpg1355 2 роки тому +1

      So sorry to hear that. Prayers.

  • @kikibeloved6786
    @kikibeloved6786 2 роки тому +2

    My husband doesn't like communication he prefers to stay with his friends playing Golf and likes to come late, am getting weary. i have asked him to go for counselling he said there was no need

    • @alicia4him1
      @alicia4him1 2 роки тому +9

      It may take a long time but try not to say any more to him about his golf and pray that the Lord will put a disstifaction in his heart about it... that he will get tired of it... That he will start to miss you more and more. Pride is a terrible thing and may keep him from admitting it and he will push it out of his thoughts .... and really it may take along time but don´t give up. The Lord loves your husband and want to draw him to Himself. and of course the Lor loves and cares about how you feel about all this.

    • @kikibeloved6786
      @kikibeloved6786 2 роки тому +2

      @@alicia4him1 Thank you so much, am encourgaed!

    • @alicia4him1
      @alicia4him1 2 роки тому +1

      @@kikibeloved6786 you are so welcome...

    • @halfwaythereatcampdowning6831
      @halfwaythereatcampdowning6831 2 роки тому

      Can you take up golf? At least maybe just going driving( practice swings)

    • @summerjoy247
      @summerjoy247 2 місяці тому

      I would go to counseling alone to see if there’s anything I can do to improve things 🙏🏽

  • @Gloriasoyoungkim
    @Gloriasoyoungkim Рік тому

    ♡♡♡-S.Korea-

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 2 роки тому +3

    Healthy sarcasm 10% of the time🤔

  • @denniskramer5238
    @denniskramer5238 2 роки тому

    Mind reading expectations the double edged sword saying one thing meaning another with blaming the faults on the other a lose lose for the family win win for the Devil

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 2 роки тому

    That's a dangerous wife
    I would consider myself blessed she packed her bags
    A snake 🐍 in the grass