I thank my dad to have never given UP on why I used to trow up a lot between the ages of 7 to 14 of age at the end it was a hormonal Problem! Bless Everyone who never stop figthing to wonder what illness they had! You are all Worriors! ❤️
Love the Harvey family!! The parents have raised Emilie so well! Such a kind, caring, generous and extremely thoughtful young lady. I absolutely love and adore everything she does for her baby brother. She totally reminds me of my daughter. I applaud you Emilie for all you me hard work, love, attention and help you give your baby brother. I hope you never ever change and keep that massive loving heart of yours!! 💜💜💜💜
same, I have arachnodactyly and a connective tissue disorder. Brain immediately went to marfans. I have the opposite of a pigeon chest. The fingers and sternum defects are usually a dead giveaway
When they said long fingers, I said Marfan's. Long fingers are a dead giveaway. I remembered the Grey's anatomy episode where Christina and Burke have a date and the guy next table. 😂
same here i wanted to be a nurse but i faint at the sight of blood and throw up so couldnt be a nurse but i still love this kind of info video i feel sorry for all the families though
When I was born my doctors saw that my hips were not normal but they seemingly normalized after a few weeks...well except they didn't and now I have hip dysplasia on both sides 🤷🏻♀️
I was born with both hips dislocated and spent first 9 months of my life in splints. I have double hip dysplasia and we joke about my clicky hips. I am struggling more now as I reach my 50s but its just something I live with it's just part of my life.
@@amandaedwards2900 sorry I just saw your comment. Yes I still struggle. If I walk to much or make a wrong move it really hurts and sometimes it feels like almost dislocating
you are lying i was born with hip dysplasia both sides i had no hip sockets at all they spoted it the second i was born with both legs folded underneith me there is no way they wouldnt have treated you at birth if they found it then
@@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 maybe just maybe we're not the same? So our hip dysplasia is not the same as yours? Not everyone with the same condition experiences it the same, you know? I do have hip sockets, they're just a smidge too small, enough to cause pain and discomfort.
Michael is such a sweet young man, I pray he always feels better and this disease he has doesnt affect his life, his mom and father are very strong loving parents. no wonder Michael is so sweet its hereditary. 💗💗💗
Please do NOT try to give marshmallows to a child who is not fully conscious! They should not even be given to young children who are fully conscious, as they are a huge choking hazard. Sugary drinks are the best way to raise the blood sugar quickly, for example the person's favourite soft drink at room temperature. Keep some in the pantry instead of the fridge.
Yep, I was shocked by that to..I thought it was common knowledge that if you give a toddler marshmallows, it is akin to shoving a bath sponge down their throat. Huge suffocation risk. Very dangerous!
Im still waiting for an eds diagnosis im on a waiting list for nearly 6 months now to see a specialist because I have the marfanoid habitus (i dont have any marfan related problems other than myopia which is also an eds trait) and eds runs in my family.
I've heard of them, not a doctor, don't know anyone with it. Most people on these b.c shows find their own diagnosis on the internet. But big pharmaceutical companies are forever limiting and criticizing people doing their own medical research. 🤔
I saw the first case and immediately thought it was Marfan Syndrome. I looked it up and I saw the same chest shape, the long fingers and lung issues. It all adds up.
as soon as I heard the congenital hip dislocation I thought marfans. I have Ehlers danlos syndrome with a lot of marfanoid traits. I'm glad he got a diagnosis. Took me until teenagehood.
@@blondecat666 Oh yknow, when your video is interrupted by a short clip promoting some product or service.. I think this person misspelled "ad" but just in case you were actually asking what an ad is.
I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome with a Marfanoid phenotype (appearance) I’m not medical expert and could have guessed this after the first few symptoms lol
no wonder why there's so many alt medicine-crystal healing-etheral oil people out there in America. Sure, healthcare system isn't perfect in my country but at least I was never neglected and missdiagnosed
Marvan syndrome is what the doctors thought I had but after seeing several specialists it turned out that I have fybromalgia in which is very painful and there is also no cure.. I wouldn't wish my disability on anyone!! It took the doctors 8 years to properly diagnose my problems!!!!!
It needs doctors who do not think they're the smartest person on earth and listen to their patients. If you have no clue whats wrong send your patient to someone else. But please stop telling everyone they're simply overworried or imagining.
I feel like the title was rather clickbaity :/ There are plenty of episodes were the doctor is really dismissive of the patient's symptoms and this one just doesn't deserve this title. The doctors didn't 'miss' anything, they just took a little longer to diagnose them since the diseases are rare and both patients were diagnosed as kids.
@@maddy02_ but that's just what happens in every episode. I didn't said that they were lying, I said that I was expecting something more of this episode based on the title and I was led down-- which made me feel this was clickbaity.
They test the 2nd child for diseases by DNA testing before assessment of plasma "C peptide" which is far cheaper and faster than any DNA teating, sometimes doctors are weird
Marfan is a syndrome and not a disease or disorder as the narrator keeps saying. Also, I said Marfan to myself as soon as I saw how wide the bridge of his nose was.
I thought it as soon as they mentioned the hands and fingers, then tbe breast bone indentation confirmed it in my mind. I saw a case of Marfan syndrome on a (fictional) medical programme once
Recognised it was Marfan's immediately. I had to have genetic counselling when first pregnant with my daughter as it's in her Father's family. This was over thirty years ago though, so there was no diagnostic blood test available. I hope things are getting easier to spot early on now.
I wa thinking either EDS, Mafran or both as soon as I seen the wrist test at the beginning LOL! EDSer here with EDS kiddos, including 1 with Mafran features, indicating possible vascular type
I'm from Wisconsin, my birthday is the 4th of July, and I was born almost 3 weeks early. 😯 And my name is Emilie, the name of Collin's sister. It's even spelled the same! Also, the name of my very first crush was Collin.
İsnt there a medication to breakdown insuline per se? Also is it expectable to have gradually lower insuline levels in blood as the body gets older? Because of insuline resistance of the cells or lower functionality of the pancreas..
My hubby has marfan syndrome, i knew what he had a soon as she started to list the symptom. He tall skinny, long limbs. He didn't find till he was 16. The doctor said if we had children it a 50/50 chance they will have it, well we have 3 children i don't they have it but i going to test them later.
The mother looks Marfanoid also. Her face is quite typical. Either way, a first year doctor could have diagnosed the kid in five minutes. The only mystery here is why this didn't happen. Either the parents never took him to a regular general practitioner and listed his symptoms (and why the heck wouldn't they do that?), or this show is BS.
And do Americans commonly have a "family paediatrician"? If so, why? Why see a medical specialist when a regular doctor can manage childhood illnesses. Paediatricians are not there for colds and scrapes, they are there for serious complications. Unless you have a child with a serious condition, you don't need a specialist. Most children in my country never see a paediatrician, for that reason. Insisting on seeing one for ordinary health checks is very odd (and unnecessarily expensive!).
In the UK, many people see their family GP. If there is something that is concerning then they will be referred to a specialist. Everything goes through the GP. You will never see a specialist until you have been referred
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 I mean why would you pay for a specialist, for regular day to day health care? Specialists are for complex and serious conditions - not the ordinary stuff. It's a bizarre level of over-servicing. Like a scam, really.
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 That's not my point, at all. It was suggested in the vid that kids go to paediatricians for 'check ups', and for ordinary healthcare. You would normally take your child to a GP for that. If the GP finds anything potentially complex going on, they might then refer to a specialist. Going to a specialist for GP care, is massive over-servicing.
I dont like Collins mom. She allowed him to miss meals knowing he had problem. My mom didnt let us kids miss a single meal and we were completely healthy. And all she had to do was make sure he ate and she was like "I was losing energy, it was all in could do to get by" 🙄
While I agree they should have given him dinner, letting a child sleep isn't unheard of and it's okay when the child is healthy. We are more adaptable than we might think!
@@daniabadeister1526 That's true and I know i shouldn't be too harsh, but the second time, she knew he couldn't skip meals yet she allowed him to skip a meal. I agree, I have skipped meals in my adult life, and when we were sick of course we skipped meals, but the mom knew he needed to eat yet she chose to let him sleep.
Newborn Michael's mother being told that his fingers will be fine "when he holds a bottle"!!! Newborn Collin being bottle-fed!!! I'm aghast. Cow's milk is for calves!!!! What is wrong with these people? Why do I see this over and over in these shows? Baby Collin gets repeated sicknesses. It's no wonder, when he has been fed cow's milk since birth, and had no antibodies from his mother's milk. Infant Care 101.
You....do realize people don't put cow's milk in bottles right? That it's either breast milk or baby formula in there? Maybe you should take your own advice and go to infant care 101.
2 wealthy executives yet the mother has to go to work when baby is an infant.... Also, the baby has trouble breathing and instead of calling the abulance she takes him to ER
That’s it old people have a baby dump the baby on a nanny, go bk to wrk so glad I watched mine didn’t wrk until they were in school that’s what moms do yonger moms older women like her I don’t understand how they could leave their baby they tried so hard for ! Just to go bk to wrk it’s just wrong u have to bond with ur child sick to me i from uk 🇬🇧 maybe it’s an American thing but I hate it
Or maybe parents return to work, to provide a better life for you? My parents always worked full time, otherwise we would have been a lot worse off financially 👀
You can love being a mum, but also love work. They had a nanny, but they’re not saying if it’s for 5 full days a week, or half days, or less days. I was a nanny for a family that had full work days, but with odd hours, like early mornings or night shift. That meant they still had their parents in the morning or evening. The odd hours also meant they got more time off. One of the parents worked 6 days, and then was off for 4. And though they were full work days, because of the odd hours they saw their kids a lot. The other parent was a farmer. Long workdays, but always close to home, so they would sometimes join their parent on the tractor for a few hours. And they were in for every meal, and there for bed time. And some people don’t love their work, but need the money. And children will still love their parents, no matter if they have to work or not. I was a childminder for a single mum. She loved her little girl, and had to work a lot to be able to provide to her. She would drop her daughter off at 7am, and sometimes not be back until almost 7pm. The mum hated that, but she couldn’t just not work. And she and her daughter loved each other dearly. The daughter did grow really close to me too of course, I was almost like a second mum. But mum was best. You sound very judgemental. Should people who don’t get fulfilment from having their lives revolve around their kids not have kids? As long as the kid grows up in a loving environment, that doesn’t just have to be parents. It can be grandparents, nannies or other child carers too. When they are loved, and their parents are happy, that’s the best. I’m the kind of person that would want to be around their kids 24/7 just like you. But we are not the rest of the world. Our lives, our choices, and one is not necessarily better than the other.
I thank my dad to have never given UP on why I used to trow up a lot between the ages of 7 to 14 of age at the end it was a hormonal Problem! Bless Everyone who never stop figthing to wonder what illness they had! You are all Worriors! ❤️
Love the Harvey family!! The parents have raised Emilie so well! Such a kind, caring, generous and extremely thoughtful young lady. I absolutely love and adore everything she does for her baby brother. She totally reminds me of my daughter.
I applaud you Emilie for all you me hard work, love, attention and help you give your baby brother. I hope you never ever change and keep that massive loving heart of yours!! 💜💜💜💜
The second she said long fingers and indented chest and that he was tall, my brain said marfans syndrome
Same here. I once knew someone who is usually tall, around 1.96 m with super long limbs. Wonder if he has the syndrome.
Same
Same..
same, I have arachnodactyly and a connective tissue disorder. Brain immediately went to marfans. I have the opposite of a pigeon chest. The fingers and sternum defects are usually a dead giveaway
Same! I have EDS not marfans but I can spot connective tissue disorder signs immediately
When they said long fingers, I said Marfan's. Long fingers are a dead giveaway. I remembered the Grey's anatomy episode where Christina and Burke have a date and the guy next table. 😂
Thanks for these uploads. I weirdly love this show.
Me too!!
Its nothing weird we r interested in our body
Mainly the eyes 😉
Same , nc?ncбм
same here i wanted to be a nurse but i faint at the sight of blood and throw up so couldnt be a nurse but i still love this kind of info video i feel sorry for all the families though
What a fascinating series. ! Its a constant catalogue of Incompetence and ineptitude that in any other profession. Would result in dismissal. !!!!!!
Love this series so much just binge watched all of them... what’s wrong with me😂
When I was born my doctors saw that my hips were not normal but they seemingly normalized after a few weeks...well except they didn't and now I have hip dysplasia on both sides 🤷🏻♀️
I have hip displacia to, but it was not diagnosed till later years as I also have club foot, do you struggle with your hips now your older .?
I was born with both hips dislocated and spent first 9 months of my life in splints. I have double hip dysplasia and we joke about my clicky hips. I am struggling more now as I reach my 50s but its just something I live with it's just part of my life.
@@amandaedwards2900 sorry I just saw your comment. Yes I still struggle. If I walk to much or make a wrong move it really hurts and sometimes it feels like almost dislocating
you are lying i was born with hip dysplasia both sides i had no hip sockets at all they spoted it the second i was born with both legs folded underneith me there is no way they wouldnt have treated you at birth if they found it then
@@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 maybe just maybe we're not the same? So our hip dysplasia is not the same as yours? Not everyone with the same condition experiences it the same, you know? I do have hip sockets, they're just a smidge too small, enough to cause pain and discomfort.
Michael is such a sweet young man, I pray he always feels better and this disease he has doesnt affect his life, his mom and father are very strong loving parents. no wonder Michael is so sweet its hereditary.
💗💗💗
Please do NOT try to give marshmallows to a child who is not fully conscious! They should not even be given to young children who are fully conscious, as they are a huge choking hazard. Sugary drinks are the best way to raise the blood sugar quickly, for example the person's favourite soft drink at room temperature. Keep some in the pantry instead of the fridge.
Date syrup is even better - the sugar in it can go straight from mouth to blood before it's even swallowed.
Yep, I was shocked by that to..I thought it was common knowledge that if you give a toddler marshmallows, it is akin to shoving a bath sponge down their throat. Huge suffocation risk.
Very dangerous!
So don't give the unconscious child marshmallow but give them juice really smart 😰😰😱😱
Geez calm down, his sister was a kid too, she didn't know what she was doing.
@@joanncharles2663 yeah and while your ad it why not make him a bottle , and change his diaper
My entire family have this, I wouldn't wish it on anyone 😞🙏 I hope he lives a long happy life X
Great Michael and his strong mother saved his life!😊❤
I haven’t got Marfan syndrome but have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome which is also a connective tissue disorder. I have heard of this before.
I thought it was Elhers Danlos before they said it was Marfan syndrome
Atomic Punk same
Im still waiting for an eds diagnosis im on a waiting list for nearly 6 months now to see a specialist because I have the marfanoid habitus (i dont have any marfan related problems other than myopia which is also an eds trait) and eds runs in my family.
I've heard of them, not a doctor, don't know anyone with it. Most people on these b.c shows find their own diagnosis on the internet.
But big pharmaceutical companies are forever limiting and criticizing people doing their own medical research. 🤔
I have a form of that, which hypermoblity
I saw the first case and immediately thought it was Marfan Syndrome. I looked it up and I saw the same chest shape, the long fingers and lung issues. It all adds up.
as soon as I heard the congenital hip dislocation I thought marfans. I have Ehlers danlos syndrome with a lot of marfanoid traits. I'm glad he got a diagnosis. Took me until teenagehood.
Skip to end then replay and you will get no adds...if you don't want to add blocker. Works for most.
What is 'add'?
@@blondecat666 Oh yknow, when your video is interrupted by a short clip promoting some product or service..
I think this person misspelled "ad" but just in case you were actually asking what an ad is.
Wow, thanks, I'll try this!
I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome with a Marfanoid phenotype (appearance) I’m not medical expert and could have guessed this after the first few symptoms lol
Probably because it's more well known now and you have a syndrome that's similar to it
Beter ask google then doctor in USA
no wonder why there's so many alt medicine-crystal healing-etheral oil people out there in America. Sure, healthcare system isn't perfect in my country but at least I was never neglected and missdiagnosed
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And you think in Bosnia(Europe) is beter?
@@drago2237 Bosna kao i Hrvatska su svoje priće ali bolje je nego u Americi.
I HAD THE SAME THING AS MICHAEL!!! (With his hips)
Funny how Colin was 17 months old in this episode. He is 17 years old now!
Marvan syndrome is what the doctors thought I had but after seeing several specialists it turned out that I have fybromalgia in which is very painful and there is also no cure.. I wouldn't wish my disability on anyone!! It took the doctors 8 years to properly diagnose my problems!!!!!
Thank you 🤗❤️😘
It needs doctors who do not think they're the smartest person on earth and listen to their patients. If you have no clue whats wrong send your patient to someone else. But please stop telling everyone they're simply overworried or imagining.
I immediatly knew for the second case, my mother have a similar condition
If she eats some cake, or candies, she become extremly tired
I feel like the title was rather clickbaity :/
There are plenty of episodes were the doctor is really dismissive of the patient's symptoms and this one just doesn't deserve this title. The doctors didn't 'miss' anything, they just took a little longer to diagnose them since the diseases are rare and both patients were diagnosed as kids.
thats what missed means... they missed it. And one found it.
@@maddy02_ but that's just what happens in every episode. I didn't said that they were lying, I said that I was expecting something more of this episode based on the title and I was led down-- which made me feel this was clickbaity.
Kid:
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Your title heading is incorrect; Neither of these uploads are to do with a The Baby Who Couldn't Stop Eating.
Actually the baby can not stop eating.
He couldn’t stop eating because his blood sugar levels drop very low otherwise
They test the 2nd child for diseases by DNA testing before assessment of plasma "C peptide" which is far cheaper and faster than any DNA teating, sometimes doctors are weird
Marfan is a syndrome and not a disease or disorder as the narrator keeps saying. Also, I said Marfan to myself as soon as I saw how wide the bridge of his nose was.
As a medical student I can tell you that it doesn't really mean any difference
@@lelisbet As someone with a syndrome I can tell you that “it means” a world of difference. Semantics are important to identity.
To some people it matters to some it doesn’t. Everyone has different experiences with their health and different ways to look at things
I thought it as soon as they mentioned the hands and fingers, then tbe breast bone indentation confirmed it in my mind. I saw a case of Marfan syndrome on a (fictional) medical programme once
I knew immediately it was Marlon, as soon as it was said that the woman was pregnant. I mean, what else could have been?! 😂
I would really appreciate if you guys make more videos because I'm watching them over
This show is old and cancelled a decade ago
Well done mum👍🏼
Mommy knows best.
The second mum reminds me of Joyce Byers anyone else
Recognised it was Marfan's immediately.
I had to have genetic counselling when first pregnant with my daughter as it's in her Father's family.
This was over thirty years ago though, so there was no diagnostic blood test available. I hope things are getting easier to spot early on now.
Jennifer Harvey very engaging lady and fun to listen to.
Pectus excavatum,long fingers and limbs are a giveaway for Marfan’s syndrome
I wa thinking either EDS, Mafran or both as soon as I seen the wrist test at the beginning LOL! EDSer here with EDS kiddos, including 1 with Mafran features, indicating possible vascular type
The mothers love is something amazing. Not being a doctor her love and dedication to her son made her smarter than any doctor she met.
Marfan Syndrome especially the cardiac involvement
The average waiting time in English AE is 5 hours.000000!!!!!!!??????????
I'm from Wisconsin, my birthday is the 4th of July, and I was born almost 3 weeks early. 😯 And my name is Emilie, the name of Collin's sister. It's even spelled the same! Also, the name of my very first crush was Collin.
SFW
@@prudenceappleby5111 safe for work???
My immediate thought from the picture 36 seconds in was Marfan’s. Looking at his mother later on, it looks like she has something similar going on.
I Really hope i dont pass it on what i got. Because people can be nasty.
That pun was definitely intended
Aww 24:23 thats my birthday as well
İsnt there a medication to breakdown insuline per se? Also is it expectable to have gradually lower insuline levels in blood as the body gets older? Because of insuline resistance of the cells or lower functionality of the pancreas..
William Rhead looks like Kevin Spacey. I wonder if they're related.
I basically watched this aug 13th awwwn on his birthday
People here like the word constellations & battery !!!!
Wohoo 🤩
What’s with the eye zooms?
My hubby has marfan syndrome, i knew what he had a soon as she started to list the symptom. He tall skinny, long limbs. He didn't find till he was 16. The doctor said if we had children it a 50/50 chance they will have it, well we have 3 children i don't they have it but i going to test them later.
Wow, what an awful risk to take on your part to still procreate
Why do we have to keep looking at peoples eyes?
The talking thing is normal my son is picture of perfect health and he didn’t speak till he was 2
Didn't speak at all?
@@Anonymous_Gambito nope
Yeah, I didn't speak until I was 2 neighter and I'm ok
Looks like a definite case of marfan’s syndrome
The second mum's reactions tho (~_~;)
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22:42 - Michael has lovely eyes but 6'7... Jeez! :O
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This is how manny people who cares about people who have syndroms
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Type 1 diabetes for little Colin?
Mother acts strangely...
Clicky hips use 2 terry nappies
The mother looks Marfanoid also. Her face is quite typical. Either way, a first year doctor could have diagnosed the kid in five minutes. The only mystery here is why this didn't happen. Either the parents never took him to a regular general practitioner and listed his symptoms (and why the heck wouldn't they do that?), or this show is BS.
I'm going to say the latter.
the mom has a kareny haircut and is called caren
she’d like to see the manager 😂
And do Americans commonly have a "family paediatrician"? If so, why? Why see a medical specialist when a regular doctor can manage childhood illnesses. Paediatricians are not there for colds and scrapes, they are there for serious complications. Unless you have a child with a serious condition, you don't need a specialist. Most children in my country never see a paediatrician, for that reason. Insisting on seeing one for ordinary health checks is very odd (and unnecessarily expensive!).
In the UK, many people see their family GP. If there is something that is concerning then they will be referred to a specialist. Everything goes through the GP. You will never see a specialist until you have been referred
I'm not sure what you mean. Some family doctors just don't cut it
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 I mean why would you pay for a specialist, for regular day to day health care? Specialists are for complex and serious conditions - not the ordinary stuff. It's a bizarre level of over-servicing. Like a scam, really.
@@pm2886 well clearly this series is about complex and serious conditions
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 That's not my point, at all. It was suggested in the vid that kids go to paediatricians for 'check ups', and for ordinary healthcare. You would normally take your child to a GP for that. If the GP finds anything potentially complex going on, they might then refer to a specialist. Going to a specialist for GP care, is massive over-servicing.
Didnt know Bill Gates is a doctor
lol
Now my MD life begins 😍😍😍
I've seen this one before
Michael is very handsome.
Good job they had money.
Try showing these videos without the constant annoying background music; It's distracting and not necessary.
Obviously Marfanoid, which is no mystery.
I am a genius but as yet nobody had been able to diagnose me yet
Indented chest, that is why mother is precious...22:00 23:00
More lies.. Poisoned.
I dont like Collins mom. She allowed him to miss meals knowing he had problem. My mom didnt let us kids miss a single meal and we were completely healthy. And all she had to do was make sure he ate and she was like "I was losing energy, it was all in could do to get by" 🙄
While I agree they should have given him dinner, letting a child sleep isn't unheard of and it's okay when the child is healthy.
We are more adaptable than we might think!
@@daniabadeister1526 That's true and I know i shouldn't be too harsh, but the second time, she knew he couldn't skip meals yet she allowed him to skip a meal. I agree, I have skipped meals in my adult life, and when we were sick of course we skipped meals, but the mom knew he needed to eat yet she chose to let him sleep.
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When illness strike can look on Jesus ..Who is the healer...some diseases are caused by demons.
Newborn Michael's mother being told that his fingers will be fine "when he holds a bottle"!!! Newborn Collin being bottle-fed!!! I'm aghast. Cow's milk is for calves!!!! What is wrong with these people? Why do I see this over and over in these shows? Baby Collin gets repeated sicknesses. It's no wonder, when he has been fed cow's milk since birth, and had no antibodies from his mother's milk. Infant Care 101.
You....do realize people don't put cow's milk in bottles right? That it's either breast milk or baby formula in there? Maybe you should take your own advice and go to infant care 101.
It’s not dairy milk it’s formula and I believe it’s the parents choice if they want to breastfeed or bottle feed
Baby formula is usually cows milk. Also humans are the only species who continue to drink milk after weaning on to solids.
😂 😂 😂 😂
I found the angry vegan.
2 wealthy executives yet the mother has to go to work when baby is an infant.... Also, the baby has trouble breathing and instead of calling the abulance she takes him to ER
Its USA😂
Babies can stop eating. You just have to stop giving them food. Simple.
They will starve then
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This is possibly the most confusing comment I have ever come across on UA-cam
That’s it old people have a baby dump the baby on a nanny, go bk to wrk so glad I watched mine didn’t wrk until they were in school that’s what moms do yonger moms older women like her I don’t understand how they could leave their baby they tried so hard for ! Just to go bk to wrk it’s just wrong u have to bond with ur child sick to me i from uk 🇬🇧 maybe it’s an American thing but I hate it
When I have children I’d like to stay with them too but for some people it’s just not financially feasible.
some people have no choice but to work. I'm from the UK too and both my parents worked full time when i was little
Or maybe parents return to work, to provide a better life for you? My parents always worked full time, otherwise we would have been a lot worse off financially 👀
You can love being a mum, but also love work. They had a nanny, but they’re not saying if it’s for 5 full days a week, or half days, or less days.
I was a nanny for a family that had full work days, but with odd hours, like early mornings or night shift. That meant they still had their parents in the morning or evening. The odd hours also meant they got more time off. One of the parents worked 6 days, and then was off for 4. And though they were full work days, because of the odd hours they saw their kids a lot. The other parent was a farmer. Long workdays, but always close to home, so they would sometimes join their parent on the tractor for a few hours. And they were in for every meal, and there for bed time.
And some people don’t love their work, but need the money. And children will still love their parents, no matter if they have to work or not. I was a childminder for a single mum. She loved her little girl, and had to work a lot to be able to provide to her. She would drop her daughter off at 7am, and sometimes not be back until almost 7pm. The mum hated that, but she couldn’t just not work. And she and her daughter loved each other dearly. The daughter did grow really close to me too of course, I was almost like a second mum. But mum was best.
You sound very judgemental. Should people who don’t get fulfilment from having their lives revolve around their kids not have kids? As long as the kid grows up in a loving environment, that doesn’t just have to be parents. It can be grandparents, nannies or other child carers too. When they are loved, and their parents are happy, that’s the best.
I’m the kind of person that would want to be around their kids 24/7 just like you. But we are not the rest of the world. Our lives, our choices, and one is not necessarily better than the other.
It has nothing to do with age. 🙄
I was 26 and went back to university righ away. It was worth it in the long run.