Why Do Women Say Bodycount Does Not Matter and Lie about the number
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"Why Do Women Say Bodycount Does Not Matter and Lie about the number"
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A woman saying "body count doesn't matter" is the same as a man saying "money doesn't matter". It may not matter to you, and it might benefit you to say "it doesn't matter", but it absolutely matters to the other gender and you know it, that's why you wouldn't admit to a number that the opposite gender would disapprove of. Keep it 100.
😅It’s so common sense why they lie about it, even a chick that consistently goes to the club tries to give off the impression she never had a one night stand or not there for men while they are then, it’s so natural for Women to lie
Exactly, how tf you gonna tell the opposite sex what matters to them?
I can tell you right now, if a female was dating a dude, and he told her he use to get his back blown out by niggas back in college, I can tell you right now, she gonna dump dude.
But if a woman told her man, she use to fuck bitches in colllege, he either won't care or may be turned on, because a lot of dudes dream of having a bisexual chick, thinking they can pick up bitches together.
Sexual history certainly matters to both sexes in different ways.
Big FACTS!!!
💯 🔥
This is a terrible false equivalence. No one can hide the fact that they’re broke, life will ultimately expose that in many different forms. Lying about sleeping with tons of men isn’t comparable to anything other than a man sleeping with tons of women, the only difference is men don’t care about being judged about it. A woman hides it because she’s afraid to live on her truth, yet they lie and say they are comfortable with living in their sexuality unapologetically. If they claim it isn’t a bad thing then they shouldn’t lie about it, be honest about it. A lot of women live and die by their pussy and place their entire value upon it, and that’s a sad truth.
Them trying to flip it and make it seem like they’re being lied to and tricked into having sex is crazy 😂. Promiscuous women are something else lolol
They always do man. Nothing is ever a woman's fault.
@@Mortainousif that’s the case then they need to admit that women are really children with incompetent decision making and actually NEED to be led by a man
Girl, "body count doesn't matter"
Guy: "then whats your body count?"
Girl, " well,"...
You people act so dumb, why would a woman admit to something that she knows your kind will be so rude, degrading and offended by? Not everyone wants to deal with your judgmental, closed minded BS...
Right?!?! Lol
It don’t matter so why should she give a number ?
U sure about that? It shouldn't matter how many people u slept with? Explain y...
ATTENTION: MEN WE NEED TO FOCUS ON US FIRST. ITS OBVIOUS THEY AREN'T WILLING TO CHANGE. NO NEED TO TRY AND CHANGE THEIR MINDS. LET THEM FIND OUT ON THEIR OWN. WE MUST WORK ON OUR MENTAL HEALTH FIRST. CAUSE SHYT ISNT CHANGING
If a woman doesnt want a marraige then who cares let her stay in the streets
Go to other countries (South America, Thailand, Eastern Europe, etc..)find a girl, bring her here. Let American women cry about it 😂 that's something that will change society for the better
Facts...
Why can’t women be honest about their body count? If you feel being a hoe can hurt your reputation and hurt your chances of having a relationship in the future, you probably shouldn’t be a hoe. It’s that simple.
They bank on you’ll never find out
Why do you people have dumb, childish names for women enjoying their fkn s3xuality? You males act like Dogs on heat for s3x then hate and attack women for enjoying s3x with men. Why? What is so wrong with a woman enjoying s3x?
Exactly bro 💯, this is how simple it is to do. There’s a solution to every problem, and then you hear them say ‘Yeah But’, then a bunch of excuses will follow.
Women who run their count up because they just want to have fun/pleasure have deeply rooted issues, in my experience
funniest thing of all is... WOMEN.. want to know if a guy is going to be for you?? Ask him his body count. If its low, he's most likely about relationships and not sleeping around. If it's high, you already know what to expect. But as women, y'all love men who had a lot of women because now you can say you had him too like everyone else and since you have him currently, you're better than her. Smh
They say that ignorance is bliss.
The more I learn about the nature of women, the less I trust them.
I think I know too much and now it's like ion even want a real relationship like that anymore.
I'd rather be fwb or in situationships and let her "man" deal with the bullsh*t these days.
Even the ones that seem 'good' really just be better at hiding their bullsh1t. I'd rather f with the ho I know so at least I know what I'm dealing with than to fall for one who I wouldn't expect anything from. Those be the ones who hurt u the most bcuz u don't see it coming until it's too late.
It's like virtuous women are the rare exception and not the norm in 2023.
Exactly how I'm starting to feel. Difficult to fall in love with someone you can pedastalize... because it's unrealistic... and therefore unwise as a result.
Fr, they were everywhere, they was so wholesome, prior to covid I guess is like the 60s, marriages up n everything.
Its the mgtow concept. You can understand women OR you can love them. Can't do both.
Long story short 🛑🚏 ... “men do NOT usually want women exclusively who everyone has or have had access to” I learned this during growing pains 🤷🏾♂️
Gross. This is why marriage is on the decline and divorce and single mothers are still on the rise. These people are for everyone.
The problem today is the people that are actually about monogamy and commitment are made to look like fools because they're treating the people they're involved with like a committed partner, but that person is out there acting single
Divorce is not on the rise this is a lie
@@goby1764cap . Divorce rates are on the rise !
The way women try to justify being a 304 is crazy lol
The fact men made prostitution and stuff but now care about body count is crazy . Only when a man is a pimp it ain’t a issue
Lol these 304s are in La La Land. And then they want to shame the good men for not wifing them up after the Pookies and Ray Rays dispose of them once they hit the wall. I'm not paying and committing to something that 100 other men got for free and without commitment.
@@patricksterbeatz they can try but it’s not working
You can't sell a used car for the brand new showroom floor price 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Bro in the red is the ONLY ONE to consistently speak the adult truth. I wonder if he gets frustrated being on here
Yeah, man, I respect the other dude's points sometimes, but setting aside the talking points with the pink, I keep wondering when he's going to want to trade hairpins and favorite panties.
If you keep it a secret, we are just gonna assume it’s high anyways lol. Women (adult)with low body counts don’t mine giving their numbers.
In an interview, especially professional, they ask questions about your past to see what type of employee you are CURRENTLY going to be. Its the same with this body count women claiming doesn't matter. Try telling that professional job that it doesn't matter what you did in the past and see if you get that job.
Of course if you don’t want to get burnt or pay child support for a child that’s not yours or fight and argue with those 300 men living inside them😂😂😂
Women lie all day everyday 😂 they gonna always try to paint themselves in the best light
When he says "the game don't change" FEEL that... 😂 she was definitely getting DEFENSIVE 🤣🤣🤣 subtlety semi aggressive
It shows lack of discernment. Therefore, not a safe choice for long term.
Its not fair!! The world isn't fair!!! You dont care about fairness when your benefiting from pretty privilege!! I don't owe you FAIR!!!
Look, if my *SIZE* matters, then hell yeah, her body count matters as well. 🙄
rico be skipping leg day
It’s NEVER “just like men do” when it comes to sex. Men have to work to have sex and make themselves exceptional, women… DO NOT!
Women will never understand this concept they see us as equal to them and WE ARE NOT‼️
Women can be in the club drooling 🤤 out the mouth somebody taking her home
And? That doesn't explain why women enjoying s3x is so damn wrong?
It lowers your value if you enjoy with men who did not earn it. Casual sex for a woman makes you unworthy of marriage.
All of us need to start considering the consequences for fornication. We were not designed to be out here having sex like wild animals. Most cultures have a way of collapsing through sexual measures
If the count is high something is off either she can’t help herself or she’s damaged. And how she see herself and her actions at 20 will not be the same at 40. The remorse is real and who want to be stuck in a marriage or long term relationship with craziness ….
You cannot reason with the unreasonable ❤
When I met my husband I had only been with one other man previously. He on the other hand had been with 30+ women, there was probably more that he can’t clearly remember. However my goodness even 12 years into our marriage will not let the fact I wasn’t a virgin when we met go. I’m accused once or twice a year during arguments of being with men sexually when we were on breaks many years ago. It’s not true and I will not have a man with a body count that high question my own integrity, not when he knows my childhood and knows why I don’t open up easily to men. It truly hurts my feelings that the man I’ve been with for 12 years and whos past I accepted, despite it turning my stomach (if I had known early on would of ended relationship) has these outbursts from time to time. My advice for women would be enjoy yourselves, a man will probably have an issue if you’ve slept with 1 or 111 men before him. They don’t respect a woman with integrity despite their cries of love for such women. If you’re going to deal with nonsense and crap being thrown in your face you anyway just do what you wanna do!
"If it's really okay; why are we hiding it??" (ESSO)
How often does this question come up? 😂 That’s how you know it matters. The issue is women overwhelmingly don’t care what men think so this will continue to be a topic for discussion. Personally I never ask a woman her body count. She’s either going to lie or deflect. So you have to take your experience with dating women and draw your on conclusion on that number…if you even care to know 🤷🏾♂️😂
It most def matters, their reasoning that I doesn’t is because it’s the past but they fail to understand the past has weight. Like just ask them if they would marry or date a man that was previously gay, and watch how majority will say no.
There was a viral video going around about a woman calling off her engagement because she found out what he did in the past, and droves of women were saying they’d do the same as well because if he could do it back then, then what’s gonna stop him from doing it again😂😂😂 kinda like what men say about body count
@@UzitheSaintso true! Women deflect though just like u said. Because when it becomes about their sexual past, now it's personal. And they know the truth too. They just deny it. Then shame a Mam fir being a "mysogisist" or "judgmental".
Doesn't matter in the end because a woman can't control it. If they were a hoe...it's gonna effect them period.
You do not personal ask about her body count HUH??? BS or you only intend to smash. If you are thinking about making her your wife you ought to ask for your own sake.
If she lies or deflects…there’s your answer. So yes it is worth asking that question. Her character will show in her initial reaction before she speaks.
“Take your experience with dating woman and draw your conclusion on that number” is a reach because most men barely get the chance to get a woman. Most man won’t ever know because of the experience they have with a woman and the fact that she’ll lie. It’s a tough situation but I agree with you.
Ask the ladies this question.
One day, they go to buy a home. She finds the one of her dreams. Would she want to know if that home was haunted, if it was involved in a homicide, or any past details like that? Or would she buy it and move in bc it "looks" nice?
Before idiot women say "but that's different"....yes, it is. But the logic is the same. Before marrying/buying a woman/home, you want to know what that woman/house has been through. Otherwise it's a bad investment.
Yes, every realtor calls this "full disclosure." 🤣It's against the law not to.
Rico is spot on with the out-of-town women….. We all thought about that
They Be selling Purity For Security.
Stop it. It's not about believing a man. You met at the club and 2 hours later youre at a motel or back seat. You knew what you were doing.
How is it that women say body count doesn't matter, but in the next breath lie about the number?! You're literally proving that it does matter! It matters to you,if you feel the need to lie about it.
Or maybe they don't say because a. It's NOT your business and b. It matters to YOU enough to berate them for it, not everyone wants to deal with you being nasty and judgmental just because they dared to admit they had s3x with someone who's not you.
@@shantiwilson6143 men only truly care about that when they want more than just sex with that woman. If a woman will lie about that, they will lie about anything. If it's an easy answer, they won't mind. Only hoes have a problem with this question, so it's a good screener question. Not for the answer, but for how you answer.
"Body Count" is a reflection of CHARACTER. So, if it doesn't matter to you, then why are you ashamed to disclose it.
A jezebel is a jezebel...
The more options a man has, the more it will matter. I would never have kids or marry a h03. As a man, I owe that to my kids. You're not a statistic child.
Never ask a woman her bodycount. Ask her if she KNOWS her bodycount and her reaction before she answers is only what counts.
Never ask just pay attention to their behavior. Their behavior will tell you everything you need to know
@@anthonyhinton6748 That works too for sure.
Dude in the red is smarter than he portrays himself.
“If there’s 3,000 hoes out there and 3 get married, just because 0.001% got wifed” I was like “hold the fuck up… tenths, hundredths, thousandths place… this nigga was spitballing but had accurate math while doing it, I’m weak!” 🤣🤓
Facts though, women will consistently point to the start minority/exception to the rule and champion that shit like it’s the norm. Seen it in every conversational form, from wifing high body count women, geriatric pregnancies 40+ years old, dating women with multiple bd’s.
They will always use the minority or rare exception as a beacon of hope or example that they can accomplish the same, while flatly ignoring statistics or generally accepted facts.
Why they keep uploading old topics
Must of ran out of new ones 😂😂😂😂
These topics will always be talked about because the way men and women view it is diametrically opposed because women don't really care about men's body count. In fact they're more attracted to the man that's been with a good number of women. He's usually more attractive, more charming, better in bed, more charismatic, etc. But men prefer women with less "bodies" because more "bodies" doesn't really make a woman "better" than the woman with less "bodies." So as long men and women sit around and talk about it the debate will never end because they will not come to any agreement. Women want men to cave and agree to what they believe. And men want women to cave and agree with them. But they never will
It’s a podcast lol. Not many topics they gonna touch
Your flower isn’t beautiful if multiple men have had it 😂 🤦🏽♂️
Somebody a long time ago probably told her it looked like a flower.
If he saw it now he'd say it look like a roast beef sandwich🤣
Y’all got a roach on the wall behind Rico @ 29:37 👀
I peeped that 😂😂😂
Body count doesn't matter because that was before you....okay so don't ask me if I have ever cheated because if I did it was before you so it shouldn't matter right ?????
Her sexual behaviour will let you know what time it is and you deal with her accordingly.
They freaks in the low men are more honest
It’s foolish, he had the word right now if 10 20 30, 4050 people can get you at the same lies, while being dishonest you are foolish
I'm 57 years young...I've always been honest with any woman I meet about my background..be honest..
If she can't handle it..
Move on...better for her better for you...I do not worry about who she been with before me...that's weak to me...I wanted a girl out of town when I was young..because in my town we'd all seen the same chick so out-of-town girls were new...with all that being known..if I fall for a chick I've already watched her move around her town so I know all I need to know...I wish for the best but prepare for the worst...I had so many girls back in the day till talken to me made you hot...I've given game to girls and woman about how to act,talk,flirt,and everything else..if she move on I won't hurt ..I'll be okay..
Live with your consequences. It always comes out.
These are beautiful women especially the dark skin 1 in the blue but because they make up all these scenarios it's best to assume that with this subject they will lie
How can I join these platforms
Every body counts. No excuses. Every one affects you no matter the if it was a one night stand or a fling or with a condom. You are (men or women but mostly women) affected by each and every one to have a future committed relationship. After two, three or four digit count your chances of staying in a relationship decreases drastically.
Blue shirt need to focus on getting his leg game up with them sticks for legs he worried about the wrong stuff.
Hey, news flash, sports fans: Us men CAN'T have a so-called "Heaux Phase." Just like carrying a pregnancy to full term, *ONLY WOMEN* can do it. 🤣
I know good looking dudes that use that use to pull mad females. Having females buying shit for them etc.... Dudes can 100% have a ho phase. There are sugar mamas out there fam.
Leviticus 21:7 KJV
Deuteronomy 23:17 KJV
Hebrews 13:4 KJV
These Laws will take away all this confusion, and bring back family
I think most guys want honestly more than anything. If I'm dating the town bike I want to know. If I buy a car I want the fax.
In the 1970s and 80s, most guys thought women were more like men. They could sleep around for several years, then fall in love, get married, have kids and be faithful. The end. Turns out, not true. This is a lot of what caused the skyrocketing divorce rates and marital unhappiness in those days.
Y’all see how they’re names aren’t called and they’re defending women’s reputation which tells on themselves
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#if we continue going down the path of culture and social media it will all lead to absolute failure, brokeness and heartbreak...
💯🎯
My body couldn’t wouldn’t deter the woman that I want from being in a serious committed relationship with me, you can’t say the same vice versa
Just dirty people making everybody else dirty. Not good for anything else.
At this point...No it no longer matters...Just enjoy
@ 12 minutes. Did the lady who earlier said that women will lie, just ask them men why do they think women gotta be seen as lying? She crazy.
Starting at 17:09 thisbsegment proves the main point. They said a number dude agreed cause it was acceptable, the other lady said a number and he didnt agree cause it was too low based on the high pedestal he put her on. So he doesnt believe her, then she said ill say 5 wouldn't that be better and he said yea. 😂. Hes accepting what he feels to be a truth for him. And shes telling him shes lying. Let them women live, they grown. The jada chick is the realist up there 💯.
The more they keep having this same conversation the more people are not gonna be honest about it. Ask better questions to vet who your dealing with. The question is really just to appease ego. Adult people are gonna have dealt with people before you. All of these people on this show looked over the age of 25
Someone have the link to the full vid.
Yeah, but the full video link shouldn't matter. See? Now you're link-shaming.
Accept me for who I am!!
bug bunny meme: NOOOO!
BIW, LMG
Health and safety,
The females on the panel are really defensive n it seems like they're speaking from personal perspective, they're definitely guilty..😅😅😅
The bigger the body count the better. I ain't gonna marry no 304. She ain't yours it's just your turn. Ultimately she belongs to the streets. Her body, her choice let her thot it up and some simp ass no sex will wife her and she'll divorce him and come running right back to me. It's a win win 💯
These women belong to the streets. Women with a high body counts are used products. Like High mileage vehicles with lots of problems.
To me body count doesn't matter. I still won't sleep with a girl that I know has slept with all my friends though.
Even if they lie and got wife a hoe up. It won't last because the streets are always calling her and she misses it.
Don’t hate the player, hate the game. What a stupid logic less phrase. The game is fair the players are foul is significantly more accurate. The Game itself is fun till it get old and then u just move on to a different game or grow up to each their own
More than 2, no way,she is for the street, 304
...GAME ! ! 😳
CRAZY THE BROTHA WITH REAL HAIL AND THE SISTA WITH FAKE HAIR
Nothing gains value with age and uses.
I’m a lil older so body count is not what men should be talking about because a woman can be a ho with a low body count
Then don't lie about it. That part
And who's the prize? Lol.
In these new times, some women shouldn't wear white dresses anymore during marriage.
OMG,body count is the latest nuisance which is making humans animals.Go with anyone and everyone,disgusting
Ummmmm, you do know humans are animals? Where can you go to here humans are NOT animals a CHURCH? A Black Church to be exact? What academic institution that is credible and also would agree with you and say humans are NOT a animals?
304 logic at its finest
I dont ask i just do the math.
Let say this only a fool tell everything here is a example if you met somebody who had trust issues would you really tell that person the truth about body count? Answer is no you would feed thar person greatest fear everytime you step out from there presence they will go thru your phone so this conversation is irrelevant why do care about body count both Men and Women will lie
No I dont agree with him. Me it's how experienced you are in sex an then to lie about it is my issue. If you did shit ok an if it's the past fine. Because me my past is a lot of pssy an 2 orgies group sex an I look young smolder women omg. Don't judge unless they lying.
Ask her how many restraining orders she has out right now. If she says zero, box is trash. All them dudes hit and nobody stalking you?? TRASH!!!
Why is this dude having girl talk with the ladies?
All this woman have take minimum 20 dicgggh
Because they don't want to show how much of a 304 they are. Why wouldn't body count matter?
A man can tell if you are 304
Is the p good?...who cares...let us enjoy.
Body count matters, women are very emotional beings, so they get attached easily, and it messes with ur mental stability cause u will be thinking of multiple man. Why would a men want to take seriously a women who already been conquered...woman's value comes from her purity. A man and a woman are different, we can't compare ourselves with the other gender .
😂😂😂😂 Delusional
Where y’all get this lame basic average thinking women from?? They ruin the show. It’s hard.
If you let them talk long enough, they will tell on their selves lol
😂😂😂 they funny, we don’t wife high body counts….period. Just give it up. You want a husband keep body count low
Why do 🥷🏾's still care about body count. Youll never know the truth, dont let your insecurities stop you from getting 😼.
Bodycount doesn't matter if you just trying to get 😼. If you looking for a wife then you'd be a fool not to care if she a 304.
@JSmooth89 you'd be a fool to believe a woman won't tell you what you want to hear, especially if they know how sensitive these males are over body count.
@@Mr1STBORNSECOND that’s why you don’t ask women their body count, just watch their behaviors. Women with high body count have bad behavior
@anthonyhinton6748 🫡 If you know you know, if not too bad.
@anthonyhinton6748 Their behavior is based on your actions. If you're a Man who knows how to take the lead, and she's a woman who sees the Leadership in you, none of that body count shit will matter.