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    In today's evolving world, the decision to cook and clean for your boyfriend before marriage is a matter of personal choice. Traditional gender roles have transformed significantly across societies, breaking free from the notion that women are obligated to fulfill specific domestic duties like cooking and cleaning. In modern relationships, couples engage in open discussions to collaboratively allocate household responsibilities, considering their preferences, skills, and schedules.
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    Some couples opt for equal sharing of these tasks, while others delegate based on individual strengths and interests. What truly matters is fostering open communication, mutual respect, and a shared understanding of how responsibilities are distributed within the relationship.
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  • @moontakeen
    @moontakeen 10 місяців тому +14

    She need a hug...and a house keeper

    • @daredevil350
      @daredevil350 10 місяців тому

      She needs Jesus and a healing matter of fact. Hold on:
      "The Power Of Christ Compels You" lmao rofl

  • @TheBoringGuySA
    @TheBoringGuySA 10 місяців тому +11

    The only time women or to be specific "a wife" challenges gender roles is in a relationship/marriage...
    At home when their parents tell them to do something they say,"Yes Sir/Ma'am" and keep it moving.
    At work when the boss tells them to do something, they say,"Yes Sir/Ma'am" and keep it moving.
    In a relationship/marriage when their husband (who has taken their hand in marriage or has shown a level of commitment enough to make her his wife) tells her to cook, clean, wash or anything, they say,"I'm not your mother" and forget that we're also not their fathers and can easily find another woman who may not even be as good looking as her, but more obedient/submissive then she is.
    The only time a woman has a problem with being told what to do is by her boyfriend/husband, but will still expect this man to be the provider and protector of the family which is a fvckin *role* that this man has to commit to without a doubt and understanding it's importance.
    I rest my case! W!💯🔥

    • @blasiankiki7831
      @blasiankiki7831 9 місяців тому

      False… it’s people in general who just don’t roll over and accept things they don’t feel comfortable with. I challenged my mom and dad, I def Challange my supervisors and it was served me well in my career, and if my husband does something I’m not comfortable with I will Challange him. There is a WAY to go about challenging people and that’s usually what sticks out in their mind. Assertive vs aggressive.. I’ve been married for 11 years and with my husband for 15 years.

    • @jordanglasper1064
      @jordanglasper1064 9 місяців тому +1

      This shows the more a male does for a female, the more she takes him for granted and becomes far more entitled.

    • @rh906
      @rh906 Місяць тому

      Preach!

  • @NOVACANE22
    @NOVACANE22 9 місяців тому +3

    My girl don't like to clean and I'm cool with that. I told her to hire a maid and she has to pay for it. She wanted me to pay for it. I told her if I pay for it I get to pick the maid and you don't have any say in it. But if she pays for it she can pick the maid, it just can't be a guy. She chose to pick the maid and pay for it.

  • @joeydiaz5927
    @joeydiaz5927 10 місяців тому +6

    That Latina is so traumatized that she is shooting herself in the leg.

    • @MongaBoyz123
      @MongaBoyz123 5 місяців тому

      Most latinas these days think like her they not tryna be like there moms and grandmas cleaning up behind a man they tryna break that stereotype

  • @The444show
    @The444show 10 місяців тому +2

    Great show it was dope being back with the gang

  • @8AtTheTable
    @8AtTheTable  10 місяців тому +2

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  • @jordanglasper1064
    @jordanglasper1064 9 місяців тому

    This was definitely good conversations expose a lot, and showed a lotta real.

  • @troywilliams5163
    @troywilliams5163 10 місяців тому +3

    if i'm going to get a cleaning lady then i may as well move her in and you out since she likes to clean

  • @DaronDon21
    @DaronDon21 10 місяців тому +2

    The fact that we gotta ask this to women these days is wild, two essential things to life daily and most couples ain’t even making it to marriage so you should know these things just to see if u wanna be around the person way b4 marriage and vica versa

  • @chrisstamper8814
    @chrisstamper8814 9 місяців тому +2

    18:06 “I’m not just into rich dudes” & “I’m not attracted to broke men” all in 90 seconds. 😂

    • @Yorubatroublemaker
      @Yorubatroublemaker 8 місяців тому +1

      Wild I swear. Like you can tell her brain is switched off while she’s speaking, that’s actually crazy

  • @jayrags-soulfiesta4076
    @jayrags-soulfiesta4076 10 місяців тому +2

    This might be one of my favorite episodes. Good content.

    • @Christian900
      @Christian900 10 місяців тому

      Because Guapo is back

    • @jayrags-soulfiesta4076
      @jayrags-soulfiesta4076 10 місяців тому

      @@Christian900 goes to show how much i watch. I thought it was a new person😅

  • @HumbleJames2177
    @HumbleJames2177 10 місяців тому +2

    The Latino girl really need to heal before she get in the relationship. I feel bad for her guy now cause he dating a hurt woman that’s not heal

  • @TheBoringGuySA
    @TheBoringGuySA 10 місяців тому +3

    You may hire a maid to clean your house, but a maid doesn't hire a maid to clean her house, she makes sure her house is also clean.
    You may hire a nanny to watch/nurture your kids, but a nanny doesn't hire a nanny to watch over her own kids, she makes time to go back home and watch/nurture her kids.
    You may hire a cook to cook for you or go out to restaurant to eat, but that cook will still go back home and cook themselves something to eat.
    These people only have jobs because people don't "feel" like doibg it themselves, as a woman you're not doing their job if you do any of these, their doing your job for you and you pay them for their services.
    If i have to pay for it as a man, that means i don't need you!
    Read that again.

    • @blasiankiki7831
      @blasiankiki7831 9 місяців тому

      The woman cleaning your house and watching your kids has to have somebody to watch her kids while she works… does that mean she’s not doing her job? If I work 40 hours a week and do t want to spend all of my free time cooking and cleaning I’ll hire a cleaning lady.. cleaning the house is not just my job it’s ALL the adults in the house IF they both work.

  • @PokerRosses00
    @PokerRosses00 9 місяців тому

    Capo was spitting

  • @akbeatz5021
    @akbeatz5021 10 місяців тому +3

    Ali: I won't clean and do a gender role.
    Also Ali: lets hire a cleaning lady.
    Err isn't the lady the being hired performing a gender role 🤔

    • @blasiankiki7831
      @blasiankiki7831 9 місяців тому

      Men should know how to clean and cook. It’s called being an adult.

    • @akbeatz5021
      @akbeatz5021 9 місяців тому +1

      @@blasiankiki7831 You clearly missed the point entirely.
      Obviously adults should learn to cook. Adults should learn to do repairs around the house, fix cars and fully pay their equal share too.
      However the point of my comment is that if she feels that cleaning is a degrading role for women then I wouldn't expect her to hire a cleaning lady if that's the route she goes because that would mean shes fine with another woman being degraded for her purposes.
      Did you seriously not get that?

  • @ozamrani22
    @ozamrani22 9 місяців тому

    Any chance for time stamps ? thanks

  • @Remy45thMotivational
    @Remy45thMotivational 9 місяців тому +2

    Do she even think before she speak 🤔

  • @immanueleburne3216
    @immanueleburne3216 9 місяців тому +1

    This woman speaks like she has never dealt with a decent man only dudes that drag chicks. She also doesn’t like doing things that cause intimacy towards men and women.

  • @shaakirabdullaah4637
    @shaakirabdullaah4637 9 місяців тому

    AABW have no scruples.

  • @mythrixx_world
    @mythrixx_world 9 місяців тому

    this is why we call it h0eflation and its worth wasting time on be selfish and keep your stuff you worked hard to get for you

  • @Biggwes2120
    @Biggwes2120 8 місяців тому

    She damn sure wanted to STAY with his $500.000 dollar ass though didn't she??

  • @PD-qu8dq
    @PD-qu8dq 10 місяців тому +1

    I swear black women hate when a man is explaining to a woman how she is acting and why.
    “It’s not a therapy session”🤦🏾‍♂️😂🤣

  • @pincorporated
    @pincorporated 10 місяців тому

    Mendoza got some interesting points.

  • @biggmixxo
    @biggmixxo 10 місяців тому +1

    She doesn't like cooking or cleaning?😮 Wow, filthy!😮😢😂😂. Thats a matter of health!😮😮😮. Also Allen should talk more!

  • @Justritamich
    @Justritamich 10 місяців тому

    Yes!!! How would he know that you’re capable

  • @synakareeves9069
    @synakareeves9069 10 місяців тому

    No one wants to clean, but the adult thing is to do it because it needs to be done, any other way results in children who don’t clean.

  • @brantpadmore1395
    @brantpadmore1395 10 місяців тому

    The mindset of modern women is crazy. I feel for any guy that get with these women today.

  • @immanueleburne3216
    @immanueleburne3216 9 місяців тому

    She said it “I don’t do that shit” and don’t understand her issues. You can’t fall for the fake tears and old mama stories.

    • @jadadavis586
      @jadadavis586 3 місяці тому

      But you see how they coddled her and gave her grace but wanted to slam KeeKee with no hesitation. Black women are held at a much higher standard then our counter parts , when like the LATINA woman she don’t have to do anything for her man and men still want to marry her

  • @isaacisgud
    @isaacisgud 10 місяців тому

    33:15 - cleaning the house Is great way to save … if you rich you have to bring something else.
    .
    Women don’t think about men

  • @TruSA2315
    @TruSA2315 3 місяці тому

    This was a weak ass debate lol

  • @8LeftEarth
    @8LeftEarth 9 місяців тому +1

    Lightskin chick might need to go back & watch the section on cooking & cleaning cause nah bro.

  • @PD-qu8dq
    @PD-qu8dq 10 місяців тому +5

    The Keke Palmer situation just shows how a lot of black women think and act.
    They want to publicly shame and embarrass you but can’t take being publicly shamed for their ratchet behavior.

  • @jennabeckford7955
    @jennabeckford7955 8 місяців тому

    Okay keke palmer had a baby and she was expressin even before the baby that the baby was givin her booty and she was expressing she finally had some booty and she wanted to show it off come on guys she was sayin now she can wear certain outfits so why we mad at her ONE booty outfit🤔🤔

  • @kivabolton4448
    @kivabolton4448 10 місяців тому

    IF You Paying RENT , and Don’t OWN any Property, but you Buying Designer Clothes, Slap Yourself 💪🏾💴

  • @Navyblue0785
    @Navyblue0785 10 місяців тому

    I like that shirt

  • @ayeare101
    @ayeare101 10 місяців тому +1

    Great episode but shorty just need BALANCE in her life

  • @DJkingFari832
    @DJkingFari832 2 місяці тому

    Stop calling it “independent “ because you’re single and paying your own bills … it means you’re a adult

  • @ArveeEco
    @ArveeEco 10 місяців тому

    Shorty is a mess.

  • @IceQueen19867
    @IceQueen19867 10 місяців тому +3

    Alight this conversation is dumb with misinformation. Its like these guys don't read anything but tiktok, and contradict themselves from previous videos. Rico, the first video I ever saw of 8 at the table was "what women bring to the table ". The woman *Aaron the renegade ) said she brings cooking, cleaning, getting things for the house. Rico said and I quote "I can pay for all that" and that she needs to do more. Now he is preaching thats her role and that men would rather the woman do all of that than pay for it, dudes a clown.
    Second, dudes always like to use the lion analogy when talking gender roles. The females hunt cuz their women, the male is stronger and treated like a king due to the females bringing the food back. Lionesses do the hunting because the are better. Males are more likely to starve to death when they aren't part of a pride, a lionesses can survive by herself. Discovery Channel and animal planet studied and showed this decades ago.
    There are no gender roles in the animal kingdom. There are some species where the male does the child rearing, from birds, fish, almost any category.
    Even make tigers step up and will raise cubs when something happens to the mother. They followed 2 tigers in India to observe this.
    The independent woman isnt only black women. South korea women have done it so muchband on a grand scale that its become a pandemic of men dieing alone and not being found for days that its an epidemic and their trying to make legislation to combat it. Those women are opting out of relationships and sex all together. The movement is called the 4B's.
    Women all over the globe are coming to the same conclusion. Even south Africa has the same problem of men dieing alone because women want to be independent and scrap this gender role crap.
    Yall need to research things before yall comes on this podcasts speaking false statements

    • @joeydiaz5927
      @joeydiaz5927 10 місяців тому +1

      You’re probably not being dense I. Purpose.
      When a man says I can hire a cleaning lady and cook, it’s bc he is looking for more then the basics. Cleaning is extremely basic. What do bring BESIDES the most basic things.

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 10 місяців тому +2

      I tried to understand where you was coming from but the lioness surviving part was a complete lie.
      A simple google search shows you that plenty of Lions can live alone but lioness usually don’t survive on their own.
      Because they get lonely, they can’t protect their cubs, they can’t protect their territory nor catch suitable prey to sustain herself.
      You don’t even understand the Lion/Lioness dynamics.
      The Lioness have to hunt in packs.
      Lions can hunt solo and take down big prey that one lioness cant.
      The Male Lions do Hunt but the more important thing is to Protect the Cubs, the Pride and the territory from other predators.
      You don’t realize the Lioness are ill equipped to do the responsibilities of a Male Lion.
      A Pride of Single mother lionesses would be taken over very quickly and easily by predators.
      I’m talking dead cubs and lionesses.

    • @IceQueen19867
      @IceQueen19867 10 місяців тому

      @PD-qu8dq I was speaking on lionesses without cubs, and they usually are in pairs(sisters). Now there are some cases of 1 with cubs surviving long enough to reunite with their pride. Males do have a lower success rate than females, solo, pair or otherwise. I've seen plenty of documentaries and learned about them in one of my college courses (animal science). The lionesses will even defend their pride from new males in fear of their cubs being killed and were successful. They also hunt smaller game when their alone since less mouths to feed so your big game theory has holes. Felines are the most adaptable hunter, hence why they are the number 1 predators. To add insult to injury lions have one of the worst successful hunt percentage out of all Felines. So male lions are bottom teir hunters at best, somewhere in the mid teen percentage while lionesses are low 20 percentage. I don't need Google when I can ask a professional aka professor on the matter. Mammals and marsupials are my specialty, living or extinct. I could go further but I'm going to choose to not argue with someone who uses Google as their main source of research

    • @joeydiaz5927
      @joeydiaz5927 10 місяців тому

      youre talking out of your ass@@IceQueen19867

    • @rh906
      @rh906 Місяць тому

      @@PD-qu8dq Heh, that sounds like a good analogy for the West and every other culture infected by it and not able to cut it out before it becomes Stage 4 Cancer.