Why Are you 40 and Single?
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2023
- 🔥 Discover the Truth: Why Are You 40 and Single? 💔
Why would someone be single at 40 and never married? In this candid and introspective discussion, we explore the diverse reasons behind this life choice. From personal priorities and career aspirations to unique circumstances and the quest for true love, our guests share their stories and insights.
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Are you hitting that milestone age of 40 and still riding the single wave? 🌊 It's time to dig deep and find out the real reasons behind it! Join us in this eye-opening exploration of the factors that might be keeping you single, and learn valuable insights and tips to change your relationship status.
Why Are you 40 and Single?
In this video, we'll cover:
✅ Common misconceptions about dating at 40.
✅ The importance of self-love and self-confidence.
✅ Strategies to meet new people and expand your social circle.
✅ Navigating the dating world in your 40s.
✅ And much more!
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I was a bachelor throughout my 30s. At that time in my life i wasn't ready to be in a committed relationship. It wasn't until i turned 40 when i wanted to be married. Women can't wait that long. The older a woman gets the more her options of men decreases for marriage. It's vice versa for men.
The amount of brain cells I’ve lost especially when cheetah print kept talking….
Which cheetah print?
@@stevenhaymon2441 Danny.
I know right😂
😂
Exactly!!! Thought it was just me ...smh
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I call BS on this one… it’s not by choice. Mannnnn. You know how hard it is to date a Mfn 40 year old BW? The attitude. The mindset. The baggage. Don’t let her be successful or semi-successful; she’s gonna have the attitude that nobody is good enough for me. That’s why you see so many beautiful successful BW in their 40’s who are single. Nobody can fuk’n put up with their attitudes.
say it again for the women in the back.
Not true in my case.
. “Most BW show the outward appearance of joy and fulfillment but, inwardly they are unfulfilled.
Not a lot of men in their 40s want to date ladies in there 40s....
I'm 40 and I also won't date a woman in her 40's because when they were in their late 20's and 30's they were dating Guys in their 40's... Since I'm 40 I"m interested in women in their late 20's and 30's... It's only fair
Why would they
Who said they did literally most don't if they got some money
Exactly!! That is facts ! 💯
Every time I watch this show Danny talking about how she don’t deserve love then the rest of the cast try to convince her she is let her do her ya buggen
23:25 -everyone deserves love. All won’t come the same way
Love is an action word so taking the time & energy to change certain behaviors is an act of love. However you should want to change most of your bad behaviors before finding love. Self improvement should be constant
All married people are aware that there is no such thing as a "soul mate", because of that in order to find a spouse we all have to settle.....I know modern 👩🏽 women have made settling a derogatory term, but that is what anyone who wants long-term commitment must do. Women that find it hard to settle down with 1 spouse float around like that feather in Forrest Gump their entire lives until they end up buying a 🐶 and dying 🪦 alone
I actually agree with shorty on this. Single at 40 by choice majority of the time has a history of failed relationships, meaning they can't make the right choices to begin with. Being single at 40 is the result of a plethora of bad decisions.
...and to address Rico's statement the person knows their toxic is the same address they gave to the women with the accent. THEY DON'T GIVE A FUCK!!! If they know they have a problem, how can you fix a person who understands they have a problem and don't want to fix it. THEY DON'T CARE SO THEY WON'T AND DON'T GET HELP!! You can't help someone that don't want to be helped.
I don’t know too many men or women who sincerely enjoy being single.
because most cannot afford it
That’s partly true but I’m speaking in general and prior to inflation. Man and woman weren’t made to live independent of each other. That’s just my opinion.
I do
i know plenty men who have leveled up & just smash chicks & never get into relationships because relationships & marriages do not benefit men at all.
Single and childfree women are the happiest of any other group! 🤷🏽♀️
This is from google!
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It might not be what you want to hear just before Mother's Day, but research from the UK and U. S. suggests that the answer is a resounding yes. It shows that women who don't marry or have children are consistently the happiest group in the population.
14:39 I’d like to argue that not everyone knows when they are toxic. I was mildly toxic back from 2007 - 2019. I had no idea! 😅 I only know because hindsight is 20/20.
Im in my 40s and single by choice. Marriage was never a thought in my mind because I've always known it is not for me. Some women are fine with being single.
Lol interesting conversation
How many people on the panel are over 40?
Finally dani
Danni cool but I couldn’t sit and talk to her for no more then 10 minutes 😂
*0:10** I hope someone told her to have that taken a look at. I hope it's not serious.*
Naw Erin Gave Y'all The Answer. Y'all Just Not Accepting It. You Literally Have To Acknowledge & Admit Your The Problem Or At Least Identify What Your Problem Is. That's The Start. After That It's Up To The Person To Get Help In Whatever Area They're Struggling With. I Hear What Rico Is Saying But It's Nobody Job To Figure Out What You Should Do After You Identify The Problem. That's On That Person To Figure It Out. For Example, If Your Car Is Messing Up And Have Issues That You Are Aware Of But Are Ignoring For Whatever Reason But Know For Sure What The Issue Is With Your Car. Don't You Eventually Get It Fixed Or Worked On. Don't You Eventually Find A Mechanic Or Take It To The Dealership For More Info. It's The Same Thing With The Topic At Hand. If You Can Figure Out How To Fix That Vehicle Or Find A Solution For That Car, You Should Be Able To The Same With Your Toxic Traits Or Other Issues.
Whew.
Why do you capitalize every single word you type?
Is this the cheetah 🐆 print episode?
Its not always about being "toxic". People are single because the individuals they want and desire do not want to be with them! The reasons why the people they want don't want to be with them.
1. The individuals you desire perceive you to be lower status than themselves. This can be an internal issue with the person or an external issue with the environment the person is in! A black man who lacks hood swag but makes a lot of money is not usually respected in the black subculture, but his lack of black swag may not be as relevant amongst a different group. He is single because he perceives his status to be higher than the subgroup he is apart of. He is an educated self made millionaire in his eyes and should have an attractive woman. The women in that subgroup see him as a lame mark with money! As a result he will not get with any women that he feels he deserves amongst that subgroup! Solution is to either figure out a way to acquire hood swag, or date less attractive women in that group!
2. You are too crazy to deal with. This is what they are talking about mainly in this clip. Your issues are the primary reason.
3. Physically unattractive or disabled. Nothing you can do about this for the most part. workout etc dress better or become famous (if u are a man)
Women constantly blame them being single-do-to-bad-choices on men, the patriarchy, and everything other than herself why, because 🦹🏾♂️ Responsibility & 🦹🏽♀️Accountability are like women's comicbook Arch Nemesis 🦸🏾♀️
Danny triggered a lot of people with her beauty or her words because she definitely was speaking the truth. Most people do think that if you’re single after a certain age and never married or in a serious relationship something must be wrong. It doesn’t matter if it’s true that is what most people think. 🙄
I believe she is talking about women, which is true there is something wrong with them. Especially if you don't have children and more so if you do. As far as men, we are normally the providers so we are hustling and bustling to provide so we may not be married until we think we are secure, so that comes later. So I agree with her.
Some people just simply chose not to be married.
Not getting married totally separate from being single. U can have someone and choose not to get married. Being single by choice is false. U just can't find anyone who thinks enuff of you to out up with your shit cause every one comes with shit
True statement. Doesn't make them toxic or hard to deal with.
@@orvillemcpherson6417 its funny how the people who say that are always toxic or hard to deal with.
@@AviatorsVEVO interesting comment. Even though men who are toxic and hard to deal with absolutely know how they are.
@@orvillemcpherson6417 there's something to be said about the fact that women keep choosing men who are toxic & hard to deal with over men who are not.
I must like toxic media because why am I here, again?
Yall have too many people talking about nothing at the same time. Chaos
This man said women want to be single cap🤦🏾♂️
This might sound strange but i believe that people should date their friends because who no more about you than your friend of an opposite sex 🤔❤🤔❤
Honest question with no disrespect intended… is she slow or is it an accent? English is her 2nd language?
she's clearly foreign. can you not hear the accent? this is an ignorant comment on so many levels.
🔴 Animal print 🤔
Drug Dealers Anonymous ??? Is that a New Thing 🤔. Oh Yeah, She is a Keeper 🤭.
12:44 - She saying the same thing guys
Take turns talking
She right though
She's right. These young people are silly. She's dead on accurate. Very few men or women are 40yr old and single by choice.
😂😂😂 she is so right a d a dude is disagreeing... 😂😂😂😂😂
Because he was raise by a single mother 😊
14:44 On the man side you might just lack game. A lot of young dudes 20s-40s don't know how to deal with women. They may not be toxic they might just be lame or bad at dating. Because in the 00s late 90s a lot of them had no fathers to teach them and some learned on they own while some still stuck as that boy w/ no guidance.
Naw the way Oliver carried himself during this conversation i don't think he's mature enough to have these types of conversations with women. He let dani get underneath his skin quick and she was speaking about people in general. He took it so personal you would of thought she was talking about him. Which kinda proved her point of some people are still too toxic at the age of 40 because they still haven't worked on themselves.
How long r Y'ALL going 2 recycle these show clips? Any NEW material. Here 4 it!😮
New Episodes every Thursday & Sunday. We just dropped Sundays Episode
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Let her cook 👩🍳 👨🍳 🧑🍳
Jordy Fine asf!
Danni is a walking red flag
God looks out for baby’s and fools. Because they are not aware of what they are doing or things going on around them. But once you know better,you are supposed to do better. Once you are aware there is no excuses anymore. So what some of the people on the panel said is legit. A lot of folks actually do know better but they don’t want to do better.
Perfectly said
We have been lied to in America and Christianity about marriage. When a woman is not a virgin, she is either a wife or an ex-wife. Sex is marriage the way Yahawah the most high God designed marriage,which is called a relationship today.
Mannnnnnnnnnn what is the podcast..... I can't believe the men on the panel are trying to find excuses instead of holding YOURSELF accountable like normal humans
Danny talked about how she cheat, lie on Beyonce's internet an think she deserves a good man. 😂
Did y’all have to wear animal prints or it wasn’t planned
13:34 - she going to be single so why she talking about relationship ?
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She talking maybe, it’s kinda late
Jordy is so deliciously pretty & fine! Wish she were mine✨
:35 - the women who are trying are not single by choice.
What Is bro talking bout
If she’s 40 and single, THAT MEANS SHES TOXIC OR CRAZY! How u gonna say that thru out your life, you haven’t found 1 man tf!
5:34 - can’t keep blaming upbringing especially @ 40 years old lol wtf
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If you want to learn - you will be a student and people are prideful and think they always right
What I realized over the last few years, BLACK PEOPLE loves to TALK but there's absolutely no ACTIONS, all these conversations are lost cause in mily humble opinion, the communitah already have their minds set, there's nothing to try to fix here, noticed it's always the brothers try to get the bottom of this virus, IM OUT...
Say's the women wearing tiger print (😅)...The argument is always the extreme circumstances. Let them die ALONE. Move on.
I don’t think you can’t be single by choice. I think men have a better time reaching that point of I’m single by choice; because men hold the keys to relationships. Women hold the keys to sex and sex needs no relationship. I wish I could recall who specifically said this quote but women’s success is based on keeping a man. And we all see how well that’s going.
While this definitely isn’t a popular opinion, I really think that relationships are contradictory to their goals. I don’t think we need each other anymore. Maybe before the Industrial Revolution but now people can do for themselves and actually do better.
When it comes to family, well hey that’s a headache if you want to endure. I once wanted a relationship but in trying to maintain one it never worked out. So I grew indifferent to it. Even if there was a woman that was interested in me, I wouldn’t allow her to get close to me at all. That’s purely out of safety; men gotta earn what they want. Women don’t do that, which is terrible. I’ll always grind for my keep, women will always want to steal my keep. We’ve learn that now more than ever.
Ladies, y’all opened up Pandora’s Box and it’s too late. It’s all in the hands of evolution now. Why else would guys be avoiding relationships or marriage for that matter?
Men will always be able to adapt because we have to survive; women have to make environments adapt to them; which does have negative implications.
And if humanity suffers in the process, hey that’s just the way life works.
No one is single by choice. U just cant find anyone who finds u worthy enuff of putting up with your shit. and Everyone has comes with some bullshit and quirks. And not having both parents isnt an excuse because people who had both still cant find someone
I haven’t watched this show in a year and they still have no control over the conversation….and they still keep having Danni and she provides NOTHING to the show
lol just … smh 🤦🏿♂️
Toxic this, toxic that. All the reasons listed were cap. There is only 1 reason you are single (women). Your price is too high! You can come home evryday, shit on the living room floor, and there will always be a a man willing to put up with it. Your problem is, it's not the man you want.
Oliver you simping
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MOST women want men. You aren't single by choice as a woman at 40.
if you're a good-looking woman & you're over 40 & single, something is WRONG with you. you likely have glaring personality flaws & mental problems that have gone unresolved because everyone kissed your ass in your youth because you were good looking. now that you're OLD the truth about how people feel about you comes to the surface & materializes in the form of nobody wanting to wife you up.
if you're a guy & you're 40 & single, its likely because the women around you weren't interested in you because you weren't "established" enough to their liking, so when you started to flourish financially in your mid 30's, then women started to pay attention to you in your late 30's & early 40's. for men & women it is NOT the same.
lol
Yet, 56% of marriages end in divorce. 🫠You can be married in your 20’s/30’s and end up single and divorced in your 40’s/50’s! I’m single and abstinent by choice. Getting a man isn’t hard, finding a good man that’s handsome, faithful, financially stable and loyal is like finding a unicorn.
Yah right..... That is why you're quoting that shit stats to justify you being single. You're not single by choice.
Like finding a low body count, submissive, stay off social media, no kids having woman!!