Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!
I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.
The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate. I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast Accurate study.
Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer
He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!
Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .
I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused
Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.
Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!
You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊
Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌ To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞
Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.
Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.
I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.
Yes you are very strong on point sir I am learn alot from you thank you for the insight and yes I had gone all out to show him just how much I love I am at the point of walking away
My brother… Definitely spot on! Cut the access off periodt!!! He tried everything he could to get my attention! He even wrote his sermon around me to publicly humiliate me. It never phased me! He’s now a drunkard with no respect for himself and no one else. The world has walked away!!! I’m an empath!!!
He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!
@8:42 I!! I'm currently going through it as we speak! 4-year failed relationship. I left with low/no contact. I'm currently experiencing love bombing and trauma dumping from him. I expressed that he needs to go to therapy for at least a year before I would consider a relationship with him, again. Currently dating other men, and it's killing him!! I'm healing myself and learning to love myself again.
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Sir! Thank you for putting out this content. Good women need protection. You are truly helping. God sees you. God bless you.
Factz 💯 😊💗
It's 10000% true I'm barely hanging on 😢😢😢
Me
Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!
This is my current situation... I'm hoping i continue to choose me!
Yes!
Amen! Best decision ever! Get yr peace & power back for good!👊🙌
Silence & total disconnection are the MOST POWERFUL ACTIONS any of us can take with a toxic manipulator. PERIOD🚫
IGNORE THEM AS THOUGH THEY NEVER EXISTED!
💯👌🏿
Treat him like a stranger ❤
👌🏿💪🏾
I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.
This is it😅him getting zero reaction from me did not only confused him but it stabbed him in his heart and that was my healing
The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait
"Good women don't have to get revenge!!!!"
Put it on a shirt because that's facts 100. I let God move and stay out of the way❤❤❤❤❤❤
Going through it at the moment,,he was as cold as ice now ,, switch up and I became a ski resort
Barz
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Love it!
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🖤
Him not wanting to co parent makes it easier to walk away for good 🙌
Omg facts...I am going through this currently. He stopped communicating about the kids
Yeah, that's tough for me bc it's not in my nature to be cold & unkind to anyone.
Some confuse the empath for a doormat.
That's not the case.
Been ABSENT & SILENT for 5 yrs. Completely done.
Bravo! 👍
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast
Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record
Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate.
I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast
Accurate study.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman
The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer
Me too 👍
I'm getting smeared right now and I just say God knows and people that know me knows.... Trying to tear my character down.
Keep your head up and keep your crown straight!🙏
He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!
Manipulation and control are always part of a quad. Intimidation and domination are the other half of the quad.
Im the Karma when I left...... he felt it . :)
Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .
💯💯🎯
That’s exactly right!!! Listen to what he’s saying!!!!!
I’m now excited about taking that control he once had away from him.
I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused
Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.
Yes Lord. Amen
@@vanessasmith4960 on top of it just got off got go get something to cook 😄
Huge empath here… wish I had heard this years ago
Anything to hurt your character to try to get reaction from u Vindictive that u left him🦋
Standards boundaries a bs detector and a backbone 💪
Character is actions.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
I don't want to hurt him. I just want my sanity and for him to leave me alone
That detach from urself is real…Stay strong queens ❤ a spiritual journey is needed ❤ get back to urself!
You are so right, yes I am a Empath, trying to please everyone, no more it’s about me now
Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!
You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊
You are on fire with these short videos !!
Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌
To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞
He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his UA-cam 😵💫 here's two that stood out:
"Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden
"What Could've Been" - Gone West
You always make sense Derrick. This video isn’t my experience but it’s “good to know”. Thank you ❤
My pledge: 🙋🏿♀️ “I am no longer an empath. I have learned to let people down and leave them broken when I find them broken.”
Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.
Thank you, Big Brotha. May God bless you and reward your work and efforts to be truthful
Take back control and give it to yourself ! I love that ❤ Thank you 😊
That's exactly what happened to me. He antagonized, but I was mentally prepared and remained stoic. I heard I disrespected him by doing this 😉
Smear champagne half truth they play victim 💯
This was extremely helpful. Thank you, if you have a daughter she is very fortunate to have a father as knowledgeable as you are. New subscriber ❤
AMEN❤ THE best revenge is SUCCESS!!!
Yes I relate. Exactly CUT him off 3 years ago. Yes he tried to come back. Blocked him on all ... phone social media
Protect your heart and peace at all cost! ♥️✨
Listening to you has been very enlightening.
Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.
I needed to hear all of this. So true, thank you 🙏
Wow i can relate. my baby daddy was like that. In 1 year i will be completely free from him and his antics.
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You are always helping us with your videos, D! 💯 Thank you! ❤️
I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.
Yes you are very strong on point sir I am learn alot from you thank you for the insight and yes I had gone all out to show him just how much I love I am at the point of walking away
Tell them Zaddy
My brother…
Definitely spot on!
Cut the access off periodt!!! He tried everything he could to get my attention! He even wrote his sermon around me to publicly humiliate me. It never phased me! He’s now a drunkard with no respect for himself and no one else. The world has walked away!!!
I’m an empath!!!
Me! and this is a really helpful video. Thank you!
Yeah that's true a lot of people try to take my sunshine for themselves. You think you can make someone happy but you only end up unhappy.
Empaths have the biggest hearts!! Look out for the 7 traps of Empaths!! Thank you for the information, Derrick!! Appreciate you!!
Speaking the truth... God Bless 🕊 🙌🏽
He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!
So true! 💯💯💯 Thank you for acknowledging to see our worth 🙏❤️
I appreciate you more than you will enter know. Sincerely, Empath.
Bless you for your help!!! I am SO GREATFUL I found it! Wish I had this help YEARS AGO!
Yes .I've had more than one marked demons sadly all the same actions you are Soo right on
I've been there and the next day he left me for someone else like I was nothing. Treat him like doesnt exist. Take my word
He’s trying to punish you, just feel sorry for that poor girl he’s using aS a bandaid. Glad you took out the rubbish!😊
@8:42 I!! I'm currently going through it as we speak!
4-year failed relationship.
I left with low/no contact. I'm currently experiencing love bombing and trauma dumping from him. I expressed that he needs to go to therapy for at least a year before I would consider a relationship with him, again. Currently dating other men, and it's killing him!! I'm healing myself and learning to love myself again.
You are talking to me Mr. Jackson I am going through this right now
Thank you for this, so helpful brother, stay well.
This does it for me, exactly to the tea I needed this I’m so empathic, thank you for going there in this video ❤
Appreciate your thoughts and time shared!
This was my aha moment. Thank you Derrick.
This is so helpful an encouraging it motivates and teaches me
I have been there. You are speaking directly to me
So damn true!! Been thru it all! 🥹
Yes, ME DERRICK THANK YOU JESUS AMEN HALLELUJAH 😇🥰🙏🙌❤️💯💯💯💞💞💞
I did exactly that. Then he went after the 2 children. So that was the end for me.
What do you mean by going after the children?
Word for word D
I am working and learning , so much from you. Sincerely I appreciate your wisdom
This is good. I appreciate you.
You definitely help
You always do x
I have experenced this, Thank you.❤❤❤❤
Definitely me, this thing is real.
This goes both ways I’m finding out there are some very toxic women in these streets
He done that
Interesting topic
Me you are so on point I'm an empath I'm still healing
Thank you so much Derrick for everything !!! I appreciate you !!! ❤
I'm so Amazed look at you now, it's amazing , Ur always in my 💜 ,
I miss singing with U
April
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🙏🙏🙏🙏 A💎
Facts 🎉
Yes, it is very helpful.
Thank you so much, King 👑❤💯👊
I'm very interested and it also sounds like your describing my situation.
Going thru it now plus co parenting!
You are speaking truth….
Let God do his job! Amen! Walk away grab hold of your Peace and know what your worth is. 🙏🙏💖💖
Hood Wink!
Yes sir I went through the child hood trauma for 2 yrs.
Thank you so much for giving us women all this information
Be whole within yourself.
Going thru the toxic bashlash top 5 now since I ended the relationship for good ...staying silent & no access !!
Omg the trauma dumping 😭😭 that’s happened to me more than I like to admit bc I always fall for it. Even more than the love bombing.
Speaking directly to us empaths our here for sure....
Thank you, sooo much. Married 27 years and I am dealing with all this. R igh now
"ME". Thank you❤
YAAASSS! 💯💯💯
You’re definitely HELPING me
Hello from israel dear Derrick!
That is a great video!!! Thank u it helped me alot❤
Me !!! You are definitely helping me !!!
Thank you😊