Nedra Tawwab On The Importance Of Setting Boundaries For Healthy Relationships, Respect + More

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024

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  • @GTP____4
    @GTP____4 2 роки тому +142

    Bought her book a few weeks ago when Charlamagne recommended it…. life changing. So glad to see this today - Go buy that book.

    • @melanatedrichconvo7927
      @melanatedrichconvo7927 2 роки тому +6

      I wish they will put the link to the book in the bio so we ain't got to go all around the internet searching for it

    • @blkjezuz6310
      @blkjezuz6310 2 роки тому +2

      @@melanatedrichconvo7927 right smh

  • @coxfredl
    @coxfredl 2 роки тому +26

    Healing and boundary setting is the most revolutionary thing Black people can do in these times. Thank you for sharing.

  • @annayiiyanna
    @annayiiyanna 2 роки тому +149

    So happy to see Nedra on this platform. She deserves to spread her genius and reach as many people as she can.

    • @ntwadumela1777
      @ntwadumela1777 2 роки тому

      Same! I been on her for a min now. Glad I found her.

  • @sammieadopts
    @sammieadopts 2 роки тому +31

    Such a classy lady. No cussing 🤬 just intelligence & comfort

  • @johannacampos85
    @johannacampos85 2 роки тому +38

    Love how smooth and calm she speaks and makes me feel.

  • @Sunshine3butterflies
    @Sunshine3butterflies 2 роки тому +57

    I love listening to her. I would love to talk to her as a therapist. She seems so peaceful and soothing 😍

    • @jayclearmen411
      @jayclearmen411 2 роки тому

      she looks like badu to me.

    • @Sunshine3butterflies
      @Sunshine3butterflies 2 роки тому +5

      @@jayclearmen411 It’s her hair for me 😍

    • @DedraJenelle
      @DedraJenelle 2 роки тому +1

      Right!?

    •  2 роки тому +4

      Me too, I would like her as a therapist. If I had the 💰, I would do it if she had availabilty. Maybe virtual appointments.

  • @jellygurl27
    @jellygurl27 2 роки тому +53

    I rarely watch Breakfast Club interviews but the minute I saw Nedra I clicked the video. So happy y'all have her on the show.

    • @melanatedrichconvo7927
      @melanatedrichconvo7927 2 роки тому

      Who is she? Every now and again I'll check on The breakfast club when I see someone I don't know or haven't heard of before that's probably not in the music industry just to see what's popping what do you know about her

    • @HER_ROOTS
      @HER_ROOTS 2 роки тому +1

      Same for me! I love this conversation with Nedra

    • @jellygurl27
      @jellygurl27 2 роки тому +5

      @@melanatedrichconvo7927 A therapist but she is most famous for her instagram posts. No way can break down mental health and trauma the way she does so that is why she is popular on Instagram. I suggest following her!

    • @monicarambeau9722
      @monicarambeau9722 2 роки тому +3

      @Melanated rich Convo She has also been on Red Table Talk. It was a great episode. I suggest you check it out.

  • @kenyalaing9524
    @kenyalaing9524 2 роки тому +22

    She has such a calming, therapeutic voice. Listing to this has opened my eyes to parenting. Let's not forget we were once children. Let them babies be babies and do baby things.

  • @pearsonphd1711
    @pearsonphd1711 2 роки тому +21

    "have a level of compassion in your parenting" Love this ❤️

  • @johannacampos85
    @johannacampos85 2 роки тому +18

    I love how smooth and calm she speaks!

    • @kyrieearning6162
      @kyrieearning6162 2 роки тому

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  • @shineawright2244
    @shineawright2244 2 роки тому +4

    Her IG…..has been BLESSING MY LIFE‼️ So glad to see her being acknowledged‼️

  • @Kincaid2576
    @Kincaid2576 2 роки тому +31

    My mother always ordered pizza with anchovies, and it was supposed to be a ‘treat’ so saying I don’t like it meant I was being ungrateful.
    Anchovies are little salted fish canned in olive oil, with bones included, on pizza. Imagine that being the treat for a birthday meal, and being told it’s good as a child? Guess what I still don’t eat? Forcing people to eat things they have tried and don’t like is so strange to me.

    • @CuratedVibes
      @CuratedVibes Рік тому +2

      Anchovies are the least popular pizza topping so I get it. My dad used to force feed us gross breakfast cereals and I hated drinking the soggy milk after. I would sit at the table all morning. Traumatized...
      I never forced my kid to eat what he didn't like. It's such a waste of food and time.

  • @wkaye6580
    @wkaye6580 2 роки тому +81

    Love her natural hair. A very intelligent woman.

    • @kyrieearning6162
      @kyrieearning6162 2 роки тому

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  • @ingridmoss5882
    @ingridmoss5882 2 роки тому +11

    She is so real. I really enjoyed her interview. Please conduct more of these interviews. I will definitely purchase her book! 💕

  • @thereal_mk
    @thereal_mk 2 роки тому +3

    This is the first interview where a person is promoting book I actually feels like I NEED TO BUY 😩😩😩😩💯 she dropping gems 💎

  • @SuperKenndog
    @SuperKenndog 2 роки тому +66

    Awesome, well needed conversation. It hit home when they were talking about how to interact with our kids. I’ve had to check myself a few times because the same insecurities I had as a kid, I can’t expect my children to somehow have my 40+ year old mind at the age of 12.

    • @ayanomar1408
      @ayanomar1408 2 роки тому +5

      Same here, granted my kids are still very young 5 and 2 but I just focus on adding good moments instead of beating myself up for lashing out on them ir getting frustrated.

    • @sigerg82nwtbs71
      @sigerg82nwtbs71 2 роки тому +3

      Wow, going thru the same thing with my 13 year old. It’s tough man

  • @shaywatts6338
    @shaywatts6338 2 роки тому +46

    I love Nedra! I bought her book last yr & I follow her on IG where she is ALWAYS dropping 💎

  • @annagolden
    @annagolden Рік тому +1

    So glad I found this Charlamagne, I appreciate a lot of the things that you have shared each time I've heard you being interviewed.
    I have just now found that you have this Podcast. Can't wait to explore more of your episodes.
    Nedra Tawwab also seems excellent! Wisdom and stories like these are like informational gold. I'm really grateful for these kinds of offerings.

  • @themainjai4426
    @themainjai4426 2 роки тому +6

    Nedra! So happy to see her here. Her book and advice has been life changing for me!

  • @tiffanypickett3404
    @tiffanypickett3404 2 роки тому +4

    Nedra is an awesome therapist and I am so happy she blessed us with her knowledge. Love her!

  • @masterl14
    @masterl14 2 роки тому +5

    I love this womans down to earth and realistic approach! May she continue to flourish and excel!

  • @SolarLove7
    @SolarLove7 2 роки тому +34

    I completely understand why I have no boundaries as an adult & it all starts with childhood experiences & trauma smh

  • @donyelledaily
    @donyelledaily 2 роки тому +24

    Wow envy you have truly improved on your questions this past year. Kudos to you…. You’ve come a long way

    • @shayjewels6204
      @shayjewels6204 2 роки тому

      No Forreal 😭 cause his questions before were a miss

    • @MiMi-wp3gu
      @MiMi-wp3gu Рік тому

      Yeah but at the same time it’s so obvious he didn’t read the book. So he kept asking questions that were off topic. Good questions, but not about what she’s an expert in…

  • @ItsMsAliciaNicole
    @ItsMsAliciaNicole 2 роки тому +13

    Loving the educated guests you all are highlighting on the show lately. There should always be a balance 💙

  • @melindamullins9971
    @melindamullins9971 2 роки тому +3

    she is brilliant and so logical and i love her demeanor its so calming.

  • @MidtownMeezus
    @MidtownMeezus 2 роки тому +11

    The boundaries lesson in the beginning was exactly what I needed!

  • @CrownedxKay
    @CrownedxKay 2 роки тому +19

    This Book [Set Boundaries, Find Peace] is so practical,
    I most def keep in my Arsenal 💁🏾‍♀️🤗💖
    (I recommend the Workbook too)‼️
    Emotional maturity & wellness is key❣️

    • @Bsherrell
      @Bsherrell 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing. I have the book but I didn’t know about the workbook.

    • @CrownedxKay
      @CrownedxKay 2 роки тому

      No worries, it was released at a later date 💞@@Bsherrell

    • @ayanomar1408
      @ayanomar1408 2 роки тому +1

      I just placed my order! I cant wait to read it

  • @lilrick456
    @lilrick456 2 роки тому +18

    I like her, I needed this. And becoming more aware, black parents who are present pls make it a point to be present emotionally as well as physically because what's the point if we grow as adults not knowing how to verbalize what we're feeling.

  • @whehudeh2889
    @whehudeh2889 2 роки тому +10

    Many don't understand that you can state what you need at an "intake appointment". It's important to have a therapist that most definitely understands your culture, upbringing etc and not be afraid to call you on your ish. You have to be able to open up and feel comfortable.

    • @pearsonphd1711
      @pearsonphd1711 2 роки тому +2

      Very true. Also, clients sometimes want to just " get it off their chest" so they'll show up for the intake and not return for a follow-up appointment.

  • @crystalc6358
    @crystalc6358 2 роки тому +2

    The breakdown and types of boundaries is vital. I also admire she linked other topics such as parenting, communication & significance of self expression at a young age.

  • @success1743
    @success1743 2 роки тому +3

    Hey Nedra!!!! So glad you’re speaking in this space where others may have an opportunity to receive your gems 💎.

  • @nicolesimon2045
    @nicolesimon2045 2 роки тому +3

    Im happy I clicked to view this episode, as a Mom of 2 boys 4 & 11yrs old. Both kids are so different and I have taught both of them about boundaries. My 11yr old is pulling away to the pre-teen stage this really helps.

  • @myfriendisaac
    @myfriendisaac 2 роки тому +13

    She is CRUCIALLY IMPORTANT 👏🏾💐💯

  • @ChelleTM
    @ChelleTM 2 роки тому +19

    MORE INTERVIEWS LIKE THIS, PLEASE! 👏🏾 Really enjoyed listening to Dr. Nedra! 💎

  • @TiggysTC
    @TiggysTC 2 роки тому +20

    Nedra Tawab such a blessing!! Her Therapeutic advice has brought me long way! ❤️❤️

    • @kyrieearning6162
      @kyrieearning6162 2 роки тому

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    • @mommasitayoung148
      @mommasitayoung148 2 роки тому +2

      Tiggy She gives me a similar likeness to Erykah Badu. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I Love how she teaches to set Boundaries.

  • @g.e.v9836
    @g.e.v9836 2 роки тому +42

    Nedra is my therapist. She doesn’t know that though 😂

  • @perrionhurd7509
    @perrionhurd7509 2 роки тому +28

    I am a big advocate and supprter for people living their lives the way that they choose to want to. What I do not support is them bringing their confusion, chaos and straight up b.s. into my life in the process. Certain sh*+ you just can't do if you want to be a part of my life and that's all there is to it.
    If you condone sucka sh*+, you're a sucka, too.

  • @noelcoley1245
    @noelcoley1245 2 роки тому +6

    Nedra Tawwab is so calming. I wish she cold be my therapist

  • @chiwishiabney8049
    @chiwishiabney8049 2 роки тому +2

    We love Nedra! Thank you for having her! Her work has changed my life! #setboundariesfindpeace

  • @mckeewardiv6307
    @mckeewardiv6307 2 роки тому +6

    Her hair captured my heart

  • @_haben
    @_haben 2 роки тому +3

    So happy to see my Favorite therapist from IG on here!!! She provides so many helpful posts that just help me every day and not to mention her Book!! Thank you Nedra💗🎆

  • @AM-xe4iq
    @AM-xe4iq 2 роки тому +1

    This lady has actually changed my life. She’s so insightful.

  • @amapolaoxytocin1432
    @amapolaoxytocin1432 2 роки тому +4

    I like this lady.
    She is an entire vibe

  • @AsistafromNJ
    @AsistafromNJ Рік тому +2

    I could listen to her all day.

  • @TheGeminidrama
    @TheGeminidrama 2 роки тому +1

    🧐Taking a closer look at myself so glad my therapist recommended Nedra Tawwab's book to me. I was scanning through trying to figure out who she is and ended up watching this Breakfast Club episode! Happy to know that it is becoming the "norm" in our culture to talk about our Mental Health. Very healthy and engaging even without the veggies! Let's Keep Talking...☺ until then I'm heading to Amazon to order the book!

  • @renee6883
    @renee6883 2 роки тому +3

    Nedra you are the best & your book is awesome!

  • @brandobeewell
    @brandobeewell 2 роки тому +2

    The collaboration I never thought I needed. Nedra has changed my outlook in so many ways

  • @industryliaison
    @industryliaison 2 роки тому +4

    “We’ll normalize mess real quick” that part!! Because culturally we don’t talk about mental health let alone setting boundaries

  • @elvisjoelle
    @elvisjoelle 2 роки тому +10

    we all needed this one! xx

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      @kyrieearning6162 2 роки тому

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  • @jlindo9326
    @jlindo9326 2 роки тому +5

    Yoooo this lady is a scholar on this everyone needs her book !!

  • @spiritledpoetess394
    @spiritledpoetess394 2 роки тому +6

    She is dope! Thank you all for this show today!

  • @KSHooi
    @KSHooi 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for bringing her on the show. I follow her on instagram for years. She is Golden!

  • @alicemiller6888
    @alicemiller6888 2 роки тому +16

    Thank you for the light you bring to this world Nedra! 🌅

  • @BlessedtoSOAR
    @BlessedtoSOAR 2 роки тому +4

    This was an amazing interview. Getting her book.

  • @Andr3aHop3
    @Andr3aHop3 2 роки тому +7

    She's a beautiful spirit

  • @meaculpa22
    @meaculpa22 2 роки тому +6

    Yes that woman is an angel
    Greetings from France madame

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      @kyrieearning6162 2 роки тому

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  • @SinnerAndSins
    @SinnerAndSins 2 роки тому +6

    God sent her for me cause I swear she said everything I’ve been feeling 😮‍💨

  • @angeleyes3386
    @angeleyes3386 2 роки тому +1

    This was so good. I can take things that I can apply to my relationship, my parenting and for my childhood trauma. Bring her on more. And I will definitely be reading the book and look for more interviews.

  • @ronmichaels9206
    @ronmichaels9206 Рік тому +1

    We went to college together! Such a smart lady and sweetheart back then and now

  • @ChocolateMuffinLover
    @ChocolateMuffinLover 2 роки тому +7

    Amazing interview I’m definitely gonna purchase the book

  • @Cleese5794
    @Cleese5794 2 роки тому +3

    They feel free enough to say I dont want to, because one they dont have the proper respect on expressing themselves. And two they tested the parental fences enough to find a weakness that they realized they can push back against the parents " "boundary" wall and they fold. So that means the parents have to have a conversation on respectful boundaries. Because at the end of the day you still are responsible parents and have to set boundaries. Otherwise the children feel they can choose to listen or obey their parents🤷🏾‍♀️ The cycle that we was raised with hearing because I said so. May not be the route you go as a parent. Just having regular conversations and listening in a way your child needs to be heard.

    • @ayanomar1408
      @ayanomar1408 2 роки тому +2

      I agree, I also noticed that if the kid is giving a choice: hey do you want to wear this PJ after shower or that? . that way the kid has a say but they will still get up to take the shower. at least that worked with my 5 year old

  • @LaKae444
    @LaKae444 2 роки тому +3

    Great stuff! I’ll be purchasing this book as a valentine’s day gift for a few ppl. Also - I loved how CTG held up the book at the end and also replaced the two that are usually on the wall behind him. #support 👑

  • @smackblack4591
    @smackblack4591 2 роки тому +7

    What a beautiful Queen! 👸🏾✊🏿🥰

  • @adrienne8883
    @adrienne8883 2 роки тому +4

    Great interview! The evolution of Charlemagne, I'm here for it!

  • @deidrahogue5755
    @deidrahogue5755 2 роки тому +4

    Best 47 mins of my day. Can't wait to read her book.

  • @rakitadavis1603
    @rakitadavis1603 2 роки тому +2

    I absolutely love this woman. I follow her on IG and she always has a word. 💎

  • @itsmetiffyt
    @itsmetiffyt 2 роки тому +3

    I truly enjoyed this interview!

  • @Gigilovehugs
    @Gigilovehugs 2 роки тому +9

    I moved away instead of setting boundaries with my family I wish I was strong enough to set boundaries

    • @De_Sava
      @De_Sava 2 роки тому +1

      🙏🏾 Never to late to reach out🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @jacobjohn9539
    @jacobjohn9539 2 роки тому +6

    This was a great interview…. Keep up the good work Breakfast Club

  • @melindamullins9971
    @melindamullins9971 2 роки тому +2

    more therapist please they are so positive for all of us.

  • @queen4u281
    @queen4u281 2 роки тому +3

    Awesome interview 🙂

  • @keonamorrison
    @keonamorrison 2 роки тому +3

    This 👏🏾 interview 👏🏾was 👏🏾so needed 👏🏾 thank you!

  • @PrettiVulupNicBarbie
    @PrettiVulupNicBarbie 2 роки тому +6

    This was a great interview!!! I’m going over this book in book club and it is amazing!!!!

  • @rdeloss
    @rdeloss 2 роки тому +1

    I love this!!! Please bring on any of the Buddhist contributors writer’s of the book black & Buddhist book! Thank you!

  • @Katlady001
    @Katlady001 2 роки тому +2

    Her hair is beautiful. She is indeed a talented sista.

  • @rhodabaruch4
    @rhodabaruch4 2 роки тому +2

    Great questions, Envy!!

  • @obakengpetlele6370
    @obakengpetlele6370 2 роки тому +2

    The wisdom in this room is so helpful 🙌❤

  • @TeaLeaf222
    @TeaLeaf222 2 роки тому +4

    I just saw her on Women of Impact. I enjoy listening to her take.

  • @tawanapowell30
    @tawanapowell30 Рік тому +1

    So good so needed !!!

  • @iaintmadatcha
    @iaintmadatcha 2 роки тому +6

    Beautiful melanated queen. If only more of our sisters proudly rocked their natural hair 😍

  • @ntwadumela1777
    @ntwadumela1777 2 роки тому +3

    Yoooo I'm so glad she made it to The breakfast club! I hope Dr. THEMA is next

  • @sugarspiceandeverythingnice92
    @sugarspiceandeverythingnice92 2 роки тому +3

    her hair is 😍😍😍 beautiful black woman

  • @Soundsbysasha
    @Soundsbysasha 2 роки тому +2

    Okay ENVY with the questions! Lol

  • @seedvisionest89productions
    @seedvisionest89productions 2 роки тому +5

    It’s such a great book!

  • @kenny077
    @kenny077 2 роки тому +5

    Amazing book!! Workbook even better!!

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      @kyrieearning6162 2 роки тому

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  • @pearsonphd1711
    @pearsonphd1711 2 роки тому +2

    Talk therapy is a strenuous, yet rewarding, process.

  • @NayL
    @NayL 2 роки тому +12

    I follow her on Instagram but I purchased the book and I look forward to reading. Her daily tidbits have been so helpful and I encourage everyone with an Instagram to add her to your feed

  • @moniquemichelle7295
    @moniquemichelle7295 Рік тому

    Great conversation. I’m a new fan of Nedra. So proud of Charlemagne’s growth.

  • @simoncoralita3120
    @simoncoralita3120 2 роки тому +4

    I definitely buying this book, i have learned a lot

  • @mrstufts09
    @mrstufts09 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks to this interview i just bought this book… 🙏 thank you

  • @drucella5581
    @drucella5581 2 роки тому +2

    Her hair is gorgeous !!

  • @Purgg
    @Purgg 2 роки тому +1

    “2022 WILL BE MY OUT BREAK YEAR IN MY MUSIC CAREER”🙏🏽🚀

  • @Bootsy704
    @Bootsy704 2 роки тому +3

    I appreciate me this. Buying her book on Amazon today

  • @EButta71
    @EButta71 2 роки тому +3

    Go girl! Very proud of you!

  • @chavonlove
    @chavonlove 2 роки тому +2

    Love love love her!!!! Please come back!

  • @baga1335
    @baga1335 2 роки тому +1

    My daughter wear her hair like this. Natural

  • @nnekaruizmontalvo6573
    @nnekaruizmontalvo6573 Рік тому

    I love her guidance on children's boundaries

  • @KBSmokeZ
    @KBSmokeZ 2 роки тому +7

    I absolutely love her!

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      @kyrieearning6162 2 роки тому

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  • @jtawiah
    @jtawiah 2 роки тому +5

    Such a good conversation, needed this…and that blowout hair is SITTING honey, yaaaaas!!

  • @annruth7213
    @annruth7213 2 роки тому

    Boundaries are not about pushing people away all the time. Sometimes we don't let anyone in because of trauma and abuse and other events. People feel like no one can be there for them and then isolate. Boundaries are dangerous when they're too close or too distant.